“I’m a FUN time but I’m not an easy time. I’m not an ‘on your time’. I’m not a guaranteed time. I’m not a timeline. I’m a woman with a heart and mind.” 👈🏽 THIS part‼️ 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@tiffanyhunt9454
Жыл бұрын
Bible & BARS 🔥
@daphneobas7857
Жыл бұрын
😁Words to live by!!!💓
@Pheonixfire2220
Жыл бұрын
That’s true
@valeriedix9686
Жыл бұрын
That booty is yours lol I just hollered
@brookesidney
Жыл бұрын
I felt that too!
@kathrinajohnson4206 Жыл бұрын
My grandma said “men are made to ask, and women are made to turn them down “,lol
@gracemercy9369 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Tony. Every thing you said was so true. My now husband was a major player, with many women at his call when I met him. I asked what was it about me that made you propose in year one. He said, “You were different. You didn’t take my calls at 12:30am. You didn’t let me come over after a night out at the clubs. You let the phone ring more than five times. You didn’t cancel your night out with friends when I literally begged you to come over. You were DIFFERENT. Our marriage hasn’t been perfect, 2017 was really tough, but we made it through and after 35 years of marriage, I thank God for a mother who said, “Know your worth.”
@edithandlez
Жыл бұрын
Translation:…. you know what i’m not even going there, you’ll see what I mean one day 💀 don’t ever think he don’t have another.
@valeriemaddox9770
Жыл бұрын
@Grace Mercy - Congratulations for knowing your worth and for listening to your Mother. Moreover, congratulations for 35 years of marriage. God Bless.
@Mayc28
Жыл бұрын
Idk... this sounds to me like you had to "train" him to be a decent human being to women.
@van182
Жыл бұрын
Your comment is quite thought provoking. You didn't state if he ceased his "player" behavior immediately after meeting and marrying you. I know some women and men who weren't able to turn off certain bad behaviors immediately after saying "I do".
@ThanksThanks-cm4ce
Жыл бұрын
TRUE!!!! GOD BLESS.
@gailpdesigns Жыл бұрын
It is literally impossible to watch Tony Gaskins videos and not leave better than you came. Loving, Laughing and Learning!!!
@breezee7555
Жыл бұрын
Yes ♥️
@pamelacallahan6156
Жыл бұрын
That is the honest to God's Truth!!! I loved my Tony!! Wisdom Truth love ❤️😘💜 and especially laughs..
@alexismurray7520
Жыл бұрын
Agreed!! ♥️
@princesskinuthia8788
Жыл бұрын
True 😂😂
@InTheRecoveryRoom
Жыл бұрын
Facts!!
@aliciawoods8925 Жыл бұрын
Before you trust ANYONE, you have to KNOW them. Never put your trust in a man that you don’t know. You only know a person by asking questions, spending time, and watching their ACTIONS towards you and others.
@julieevans3110
7 ай бұрын
Yes: ACTIONS NOT WORDS.
@mindyann8903 Жыл бұрын
Tossing a salad, singing on the microphone, rodeo, riding a cowboy 🤠 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@joiagenae
Жыл бұрын
That part took me out 😂
@esthero1994
Жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣
@mindyann8903
Жыл бұрын
@@joiagenae lol yea girl I been noticing me using these phrases too as well as “what in the wurld ! “ and “Gooodneees Gracious !” 😂
@kaboomroom33
Жыл бұрын
And water boarding?!?! What dat? I’m scurred!🫣
@mjj5642
Жыл бұрын
I just started and Im crying at “lettin him cuff yo cheeks” 😩😩🤣🤣🤣
@loridori Жыл бұрын
Translation: Leave these clowns right where you found them, ALONE. Looks like Tony Gaskins might be getting more male followers begging for tips on how to get the women back that he helped to leave them 😂😂😂 Tony you're about to get paid brother! Hahaha .Singleness is looking great for women. Good job ladies on loving yourselves. Keep it up!🥰🥰🥰
@KP_FruitsoftheSpirit
Жыл бұрын
Thank you, so true. It hard but I'm worth it ❤️🙏🏼🙂
@CityPrettyMakeup Жыл бұрын
Sex definitely clouds your judgement in a situationship
@TheNisiu
Жыл бұрын
All the time!
@wasgoodhannah9880 Жыл бұрын
This is why guidance is so needed for young people. For me, sex was always a fun activity because I thought that’s what you are suppose to do when you like someone. Now that I am older, I see how sex doesn’t mean anything and definitely does not mean a guy will stay with you and take you serious. I needed this video, because I need to sit down and be alone for a long while.
@greaterishe7197
Жыл бұрын
I was celibate for over 5 years. It was so empowering. You'll be surprised how many people that do absolutely nothing for your spirit/soul when you remove physical intimacy. When I tell people(using Maslows Hierarchy Theory) that sex isn't one of my top 3, they look at me like I am crazy.
@daisylavenderlove
Жыл бұрын
Same!!
@kristinaherrejon7181
Жыл бұрын
Amen sister! Preach!
@stargoldqueen5894
Жыл бұрын
Exactly. It doesn’t mean anything unless he wants to be kept.
@thelovelylife7451
Жыл бұрын
@@greaterishe7197 Yeah… being celibate as well, I find it really weird that people place such high importance on sex
@rosemarymartinez6709 Жыл бұрын
He said “I’m over here kissin and done caught COVID, knowing I got high blood pressure. Now you finna die” 😂😂😩😭 I can’t with him. I love listening for the lessons and laughs ♥️🧘🏽
@nnekaou4490
Жыл бұрын
😅😅
@sxyteesa0890
Жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭😭😭
@TrishC5280
Жыл бұрын
🤭🤭🤭
@BrooklynBaby-1
Жыл бұрын
⚰️ ⚰️ ⚰️ 😂
@millidw8070
Жыл бұрын
🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣
@queenofthesouth4205 Жыл бұрын
Ladies be careful...always trust your intuition. Thank you, Shari Gaskins, for being so classy!!! Tony lights up when Shari is around.
@joiagenae Жыл бұрын
Tony ain't lying! I went on a date with a man earlier this year and he asked me a question that I felt was disrespectful so I grabbed my purse and left. When he reached out I told him to never disrespect me like that again. Later he told me that he was testing me and most women would've answered the question. Ladies stay on guard! Check the man the first time!
@joiagenae
Жыл бұрын
@@LA-wv7gf no I passed because I left lol. If I had answered the question I would've "failed"
@joiagenae
Жыл бұрын
@@LA-wv7gf it was a sexual question lol
@gemeni3000
Жыл бұрын
@@LA-wv7gf wow this is real.sad how dating life has changed so people doing test on people that really show how the world is fake and artificial . You have to do all these test to people to see if there is fake. I think it because it so many fake people with just bad intentions when they get into relationships. This is just truly sad
@schokococoa575
Жыл бұрын
Did you continue going on dates with him or did you end it completely then and there? It seems like you still did since you said again, but just asking for clarification!
@tlc6756
9 ай бұрын
Any man that has to disrespect a woman to see if she passes his "test" would be gone from my life pronto. He would be an automatic fail for me lol.
@rosagreene4364 Жыл бұрын
The way his face lights up when Sheri walks in 😂❤
@caramellyxo2900 Жыл бұрын
Too much goes into dating these days. I’ll take the lessons but happily be single lol
@dw9054
Жыл бұрын
No doubt!!
@simplyameeraj
Жыл бұрын
Forreal tho lol it’s easier and safer to just be single.
@littlemissunimpressed
Жыл бұрын
@@simplyameeraj facts so much safer
@keziahb8665
Жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
@jcoates375
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely
@lisademure9372 Жыл бұрын
Tony said "You got got high blood pressure you finna dye! 😂 😂 Message always good with humor
@AdidasLove Жыл бұрын
“Folding lips like Shenaynay..” he did not😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@zoeh1964 Жыл бұрын
I can't even say what I enjoy more: Tony's wisdom or comedy skills 😍😆
@olio8226
Жыл бұрын
yes!!!!! lol!!
@IIC_NOW
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely 💯
@yrellim
Жыл бұрын
You mean I know I didn't look like chewed up spit out bubble gum other men look like bottom of her shoe!!!🤣🤣🤣
@iamcoachcourtney-letstalka4906 Жыл бұрын
Another great message!! Ladies, gotta stop letting these men play you like Atari 🎮. Sex is a game to 99% of them. You are worthy of so much more ❤️. My husband and other married men I know selected the lady who told them no. 😉 No man wants a loose booty. - TG
@ladykadiijha Жыл бұрын
Man oh man We need to get our stuff together fr Men are playing with us , seek and concur
@Ashley_Banks
Жыл бұрын
Yes ma’am 😅
@evasccl7846 Жыл бұрын
Wisdom and discernment needs to be present at all times with all friendships!!
@gracious2gf Жыл бұрын
Tony's date description got me hollering! 🤣 but it is so true.
@kerrybarbarick1375 Жыл бұрын
If men want to conquer something conquer respect
@jenninemorel7693 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for acknowledging that these kids are not add/adhd and put on drugs. Kids need to be active and engaged. Classrooms are not the only places where kids can learn. They just want to control the kids and make them compliant.
@mmxw2294 Жыл бұрын
I went on a date Sunday and I literally had that talk with that guy today about trying to touch me too much and I don’t even know him
@user-mb9jx5tx9y
Жыл бұрын
Nice boundaries !!!
@jace2302 Жыл бұрын
You saved me once again please never stop keeping us aware of these men out here. Thank God for you and your wisdom GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY
@sharonbenjamin9310 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Mr. Gaskins. What I learned from this message is that if a person is of rare quality then they behave in ways that show they're not for the streets! 🛣🚦
@mindyann8903 Жыл бұрын
Mrs. Sheri said “ain’t no month 6 !” Made me laugh so hard. 😅
@bee67371 Жыл бұрын
This is what us woman NEED to hear.a lot to learn in one video
@Anonymous-cl2es Жыл бұрын
This stung and made me laugh at the same time 🤕🤣
@simplyameeraj
Жыл бұрын
Same
@learnwithlashaye5872
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 omg SAME!
@marireyes8565 Жыл бұрын
Not a Caesar Salad too!! 🤣😂😆It’s sad how easy it is to get some women to let their guard down.
@BS-wd7do Жыл бұрын
I’m really grateful for this man’s teachings. It really bothers me that the men who operate in such a manner is what women are up against in this world. They’re users and abusers.
@van182
Жыл бұрын
Who is teaching boys how to become good men? Most boys are raised by their mothers in black communities. Boys need a good male image to mirror. Mothers can empower their sons in many ways, but that doesn't negate the fact that a boy needs a good man (father) . A good boy will usually grow up to become a good man.
@brittanyelisejohnson7992 Жыл бұрын
“Hit her with the 3 level mousse cake”!! 🤣🤣🤣 On a side note, low key wanna try this “Chilean Sea Bass” 🤣🤣🤣
@YoliLoves
Жыл бұрын
Me, too! I thought TG was going to throw in a crème brûlée but went with the white chocolate bread pudding. 😂😂
@TrueViewsHonestly Жыл бұрын
It's the way he says things that have me Cracking Up 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@iSpunkrandom Жыл бұрын
It’s sad that this is true and we’ve arrived (a while ago) to a point of having to make sure that someone that we are hoping to be loved by isn’t looking to conquer us and thinking all of these twisted warfare tactics. I would want to give up if I didn’t have the strength and guidance of God to help me understand how to maneuver through life and not be a punching bag to the whim of man and waves of life.
@Liz-ic6jb
Жыл бұрын
It's never been complicated. The Bible clearly says no sex before marriage. "Christians" don't even TRY to abstain.
@iSpunkrandom
Жыл бұрын
@@Liz-ic6jb if God thought that it were easy for us, He wouldn’t have sent Jesus.
@Anonymous-cl2es Жыл бұрын
Not the Chilean sea bass 😭😭😭😭
@janiceparkerson4727 Жыл бұрын
The men need to check themselves before they try to check someone else💯👍.
@leiahunii Жыл бұрын
This one hurt but needed to hear it… thank you for the wisdom Tony !
@Q................ Жыл бұрын
Have lost many men for not putting out either on first day or soon after...when I say loss it was a win for me frfr. Thanks for confirming that it's OK to wait and ask for check ups. Because some of us know and practice this!
@chancethweatt9851 Жыл бұрын
I’m in my early 20s and it makes me scared to hear all this, but I’ll take the lesson!
@thelovelylife7451
Жыл бұрын
It’s so great you have this information. When I was in my early 20s, I was unaware of the information out there and went through a lot of unnecessary drama and stress
@kaboomroom33
Жыл бұрын
Absorb the lessons early, chile! You’ll need ‘em.🤦🏽♀️
@bhilaire1bj
Жыл бұрын
Wish I had this in my 20s.
@cmelanso3371
Жыл бұрын
Better believe it hunny
@latoyathomas9640
5 ай бұрын
Here's a tool to help you prepare for marriage,please Google KEYS FOR A HAPPY MARRIAGE AMAZING FACTS.(This is a Bible Study)
@gianelogan9841 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂💀💀💀💀I’m dead. Brother Tony I can’t…. Ceasar salad and breathe mint!!!
@lanis777 Жыл бұрын
Grateful for men like Tony Gaskins educating us women on the games of men. Thank you for the insightful and entertaining message. Wish I'd known this years before. Can't believe how naive I was towards men till the disaster of my last relationship. Happy to stay single and work on myself till the time is right 😊
@rrnn6472
Жыл бұрын
You're learning - we all are! As long as you don’t repeat the same actions!🙏👏
@lanis777
Жыл бұрын
@@rrnn6472 Yes, I can't keep making the same mistakes. I didn't even realize I was doing anything wrong till I came across Pastor RC Blakes, then stumbled upon Tony Gaskins. Wow, they opened my eyes! Thank goodness. Have a blessed day 😊
@rrnn6472
Жыл бұрын
@@lanis777 Thank you! Yes RC (and Redefined TV) are Awesom! Their platforms, much like Tony's put me in check. Blessings to you as well!🙏
@doriscrumpton7887 Жыл бұрын
People be out there being deceitful about there relationships 🙄 and sexual health. Find out what's up with this person and take your time. You can't go back on forward once you jump in on this 💯 😒 wrong relationship. U can't trust what a person says. Most men just want a booty call trying u like trying on a pair of 👞 shoes. Most men know if you are what they looking for as soon as u open your mouth to 👄. Get to know them physically, Mentally, financially and sexual health wise. Know them well. If u r not wife material for them they know right away they are going to get in and get out and roll out on you. Don't get played. If u aren't for them they won't be around for very long 💯 rather u sleep with them or not.
@justicevibes1252 Жыл бұрын
Seems easier to be by yourself these days. 💯
@temekiawilliams8467 Жыл бұрын
Tony you got me hollering 🤣 the wife might be deployed! Everything you are saying is so true and relatable. It's horrible out here. We got to be on the lookout for everything. Thank you ❤️
@sphinxkitty4951 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂 Tony is hilarious and telling the truth at the same time! Thank you 🙏🏾
@monicanicole738 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Tony. My sister and cousins have been getting on my nerves lately with dating advice and today I had to curse them out (they’re bullying me about being modest, calling me naive and a user of men). Basically I have a serious issue / standard with a man I JUST MET touching me in sensual areas. I’m very quick to show I dislike that behavior or I assert myself. Ny sister and cousins were vexed about me doing this because it “puts men off” when the reality is that - I DO NOT WANT a man I DO NOT KNOW invading my privacy and feeling entitled to putting a FINGER on me. Idc how attractive he thinks he is, that is my RULE. I also have a serious issue with men kissing me on the first date WITHOUT my consent or showing that I’m INTERESTED. These men will have a great time with me on a date and assume I want an unsolicited kiss that ultimately gets them blocked. A man that invades my space on the first date is a man that’ll keep testing my boundaries. I was starting to really wonder if I even liked men because I also do not like hugging a man who I don’t know. I have a serious issue with men being too friendly, sexual, flirty or anything with me and I sometimes friendzone myself with the fact I’m not even flirtatious or showing direct interest. I thought I was actually realizing I might be a lesbian since I face none of the issues with women touching me as nearly to the degree of men. My sisters bullied me telling me I’ll keep running men off and that I need to go down on a man to keep his attention and my parents raised me to be MODEST and have respect for myself. My first and only ex did not earn a real two arm hug from me until nearly six months in. We held hands around the one year mark (he didn’t like touching hands) and our intimacy didn’t kick start until later. We broke up over other reasons but the thing is he respected how long it took me to warm up and trust him. It takes TIME for me. And this wards men off because I come off immature and off putting when I reject advances when the reality is that I need TIME to develop genuine feelings and see what you’re feeling for me. When a man becomes sexual too quick (with me it’s within hours or days) I’m quick to SNIP em. I let men know I’m not the one and I’m not missing out on letting them pass on by. Any man who can’t wait, isn’t worth it in my opinion..so good riddance to him anyway.
@Beautycomesfromwithin
Жыл бұрын
Just be you! I am modest and I am the same like you. There will be a man that will truly accept you the way you are and vice versa.
@sparklesp9304
Жыл бұрын
I'm JUST like you. I don't like men forcing men into my physical space when I barely know them. It's violating, and they know EXACTLY what they're doing when they do it as it's an ego stroke at your expense for the guys who do it prematurely i.e. first and second date. Honestly, you're not doing it wrong either. I'd let them know from the jump that you're not into physical touch with people that you don't know well.
@monicanicole738
Жыл бұрын
@@sparklesp9304 I’m so glad to hear that I am not the only one! It’s reassuring because my sister and cousins really had me believing I was doing it wrong, telling me that “men don’t want to be friends with you, they want sex and you’re being a user of men for not allowing them to have sex with you or giving them signs that you want sex.” And I clapped back with “I want a man who can be my friend first and that comes with respect of me and knowing that I respect myself to not allow “lust” to overtake my judgement of discerning him. If a man can’t be my friend because he’s only expecting sex, then I’m good on him. That’s not how genuine relationships work nor last.” This ANGERED them. They’re vexed about my body count being 2 in my late 20s and that I have GENUINE men as friends! I was getting worried about how “off putting” I can be towards men, because one guy recently met me a single time in a parking lot, told me about himself and then I allowed us to meet about 2 weeks later, he immediately rubbed on my thigh when he sat down next to me. I looked at him, IRRITATED and I said boldly “do not touch me there again, please. I don’t know you, we’ve met a single time.” My sister got upset (she’s the one who introduced us) because she’s like “girl you have zero sex appeal and a grown man hates that.” AND? My sex appeal BUILDS AFTER I know him! She’s mad I can look at attractive men and not want to jump his bones, I need to know who he is first and that takes time, like being his friend and seeing what he’s about. My sister and cousins immediately jump in the bed with men and try to keep them doing acrobatics in the bedroom. Im going to start telling men on the first date about my no touching rule. I thought it would come off too forward, because it means he can pretend to respect my boundaries and I let down my guard and then im played. I’d rather they show me who they are, but the bad news is that I cut them off immediately because of it. I want to communicate it, I just don’t want it to backfire. I want a man to understand with the way I carry myself that he can read I am not the type of woman to accept that behavior from the jump. But if I need to start explaining it, I suppose I should do that..
@JB-ro7kq
Жыл бұрын
Check out Tiffany Buckner here on KZread. I’m think you’ll like her. She’s like the male Tony. She has a plethora of videos on dating, effects of fornication, so much!
@Liz-ic6jb
Жыл бұрын
1. I say stop telling your family about dating. 2. It appears you may overthink things from the fact you wrote such a long comment. 3. There's no need to be angry when men test your boundaries. THEY DON'T KNOW YOU! Simply tell them you don't touch early in the dating stage. Every woman they go out with is different boundaries and expectations. Also, they have to know what NOT to say to you (or any date ) without taking offense.
@Destroyandrebuild Жыл бұрын
I love how his demeanour is much lighter when his wife is around ❤
@Toi84Toi Жыл бұрын
In my past I've always felt like prey in hindsight ... and it was all on me from not knowing how to properly vett, and at times ignoring red flags. I am seriously praying that God just allows me to be a "spiritual eunuch", especially in this day and age (it's legit scary out here) lol. I do not have the energy to filter through the bs, to decipher the games, etc. Nor do I ever want to feel used again, it's one of thee worst feelings for me tbh.
@olio8226 Жыл бұрын
"Singing on the microphone!!!" I am crying!!! But such a great topic! Thanks for the humor brother!!
@erikagoldston7149 Жыл бұрын
If a man is touching on you like he said in the beginning of this video he is not even husband material! He wouldn't even get a chance with me touching on me like that. Respect must be served 1st
@millicentstollenwerck5239 Жыл бұрын
This is so informative and entertaining. People tend to date from where they are in life, that's how we choose a certain type of partner. These days most men expect so much from women so fast.
@j-tenn226
Жыл бұрын
It’s unbelievable. These men are inviting themselves over after one date. Sir, do you not have your own place to rest for the night?
@millicentstollenwerck5239
Жыл бұрын
@@j-tenn226 A man I just met is not coming to my place at all. Might not know where I live.
@BrooklynBaby-1
Жыл бұрын
@@j-tenn226 Seriously! Even these supposed “guy friends” they want to come over and watch movies… uh no sir.. I watch them by myself!
@daniellamoreno3616
8 ай бұрын
Right most them want that happy ending uhhh nooo…
@jessicascreenwritingservices Жыл бұрын
Thank you Tony. Being easily impressed will backfire every single time. Lol I just about fell out when your wife showed up and your facial expression changed Tony 😂😅
@NR-os2cw Жыл бұрын
Thank you Tony! This video really explained a lot. I don’t and have never slept around. Only man I ever been with is my soon to be ex husband. He was emotionally unavailable and emotionally abusive (just like my parents). I realized that I was never comfortable around him. And reflecting on how I got in that situation has been the greatest life lesson of my life. Never again. Now I do exactly as you say and I’m vetting everybody even potential female friends. I am highly sensitive to energy, I always have been but people in my family would tell me I was trippin or crazy because I would tell them I don’t trust somebody or something lie that and I was always right. But because they doubted me and put me down I started to not trust myself. Now I’m trusting myself again. It’s taking time but I’m definitely putting stronger, healthier boundaries up with everyone and I’m feeling good. Thanks again!
@fah232
Жыл бұрын
🙏
@Q................
Жыл бұрын
When you started with emotionally unavailable parent/s it subconsciously trains you to pick emotionally unavailable men nd friends. I made the same mistake and when I realised I kicked myself. I wasted a lot of time but lesson learned we will never pick men like that again now we know the difference now we have learned the lesson I have turned a good few down since the last relationship because I can see the unavailable trait more clearly now and over enthusiastic men can not come into my life and hurry me to bed either. When I find out you are the same old type I block and ghost no explanation its not like they know where I live.
@MsFitVegan Жыл бұрын
Ok I have to say - WHERE HAS THIS MAN BEEN MY WHOLE LIFE?! The straight up VALUE he is providing is INCREDIBLE + i have NEVER EVER laughed so hard while learning in my life! Thank you so much! Brand new Sub right here!
@harnesswealth Жыл бұрын
Bro you spit the truth on this one‼️🙌🏾
@DeniseM4698 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 man i bout died when you stuck your tongue out 😂😂😂 deadddd
@lisasmilez
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@biancawilliams8107
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂he’s so funny!!!
@Sherri_Speaks6 ай бұрын
This is true. I am a substitute teacher and the teacher's rolling assignments bins holder was leaning. The girls put assignments in bin. Three boys saw me struggling and asked if they could fix it. And they did within minutes. 👏🏾 The boys felt so proud and the class was happy. Boys want to fix it! 😊👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@MR-cr7yc Жыл бұрын
Tony look fed up on that thumbnail.. I know this bout to be good 😂
@HAWXTER12 Жыл бұрын
Tony always got me dying in laughter 😅😂. Great advice 🌟👏🏽🙌🏽
@lisasmilez Жыл бұрын
That cholesterol and blood pressure ain’t where it’s suppose to be 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@thenesepolk1879 Жыл бұрын
Yes Tony it takes time I was with my husband for over 20 years married for 7years we divorced because he was cheating! He killed the woman he was cheating with after a few months! Grateful God removed him from my life
@Gomlie1970
Жыл бұрын
Wow God really saved you from a. Wicked man🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@bevill72able
Жыл бұрын
Whew! You are covered and protected in The Mighty Name of Jesus! God Bless you!
@unique_queen818 Жыл бұрын
This video was awesome. It’s so crazy to think how naive I was to the ways of a man. Didn’t know he was reading me the whole time.
@dublingirl1691
Жыл бұрын
Me neither and I’m in my mid 60s. Been a widow for 14 years, and the first man I dated; I was so naive when I got totally fooled by a man who was 5 years older! 😞
@emaf. Жыл бұрын
This video is Saved! I always save all the gems because I like to go back and listen to them again. Thank you Tony!
@HealingHoney Жыл бұрын
why God always lead me right back to Tony videos 😂 i can run but I can't hide! Not the "Jeffrey Dahmer vibes" 😩😅🙏🏽
@paulaq752
Жыл бұрын
lol that made me laugh. I was like what is he doing here 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@MrsBrownBombshell Жыл бұрын
“Truth is I’m tireeee”😂😂once again great advice TG!
@charmingcharlie5211 Жыл бұрын
Men are hunters by nature! Conquer, score and release if you allow it!
@direwolf1977
Жыл бұрын
I hunt for food, not women!
@charmingcharlie5211
Жыл бұрын
That might be true for you.
@ritaburgess3025 Жыл бұрын
I love Tony for enlightening people that need a sound mind to bounce off of. Me myself I guess I have lived enough to know, I haven’t picked up anything that I didn’t know already. Women need to listen to this man. Women have an illusion of what a man should be versus what they really are.
@Erykapayge Жыл бұрын
The other day I was listening to a pod cast and the evolutionary psychologist was saying the prefrontal cortex of a male at ten years of age is the same as a female at twenty four. The prefrontal cortex plays a role in cognitive control function and impulse. That right there says a lot
@THATGIRL0121
Жыл бұрын
Can i ask which podcast and episode this was? This is very interesting
@THATGIRL0121
Жыл бұрын
@@juneelle370 thanks !
@daciamoncrieffe232 Жыл бұрын
This was so informative. I subscribed immediately. I walked away feeling much stronger.
@liztowers2058 Жыл бұрын
I ain't getting excited unless we talk and have major energy with eachother. Wine. Food ..gifts... don't do shit for me. I need the mutual vibe you can't see .. chemistry.
@jenninemorel7693 Жыл бұрын
Treat dating like a job interview
@debdeb9880 Жыл бұрын
I Have LEARNED SO MUCH FROM THIS MAN OF GOD 🙏🏽💕
@aminawilliamson2694 Жыл бұрын
I thank you… sometimes I be naive cause of a man’s charming nature but u done woke me up
@sharonsithole1888 Жыл бұрын
Sad truth indeed thank you Tony🙏🏾🙏🏾
@sarahhandley3455 Жыл бұрын
That’s great advice to look at your situation as if you are your mom or sister. I needed to hear that. Thank you and God bless!
@DarkJustice1999 Жыл бұрын
It’s sad and true that we rush to sleep with one another but the pressure is real. Women run to sleep with a man thinking that will keep him but it doesn’t at all!! If that man truly cares and respect you as a woman, if you tell him no, he respects you and you wait for the intimacy then that’s the way to go but in 2022 we know men and women don’t wait. If you don’t give him what he wants, there are plenty that will and the same applies for women. This is why people are not getting married or getting married and divorced in record time!
@PearlLoves1YAH Жыл бұрын
You keep it Real and Raw TG! 👍🏼👍🏼 Peace and Love and Blessings to you and your family in Christ Jesus 🙏🏽🕊🤍
@mangoesnbreadfruit01 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for this video, Tony!! ✨🙏🏽
@misskaykay1856 Жыл бұрын
Such profound advice. Legs closed, eyes and ears open ladies ❤
@christineporter9914 Жыл бұрын
Bro Tony you on point with so much truth and lots of humor 😂😂😂 thanks for this message. Blessings to you always
@thankyouforfavor8396 Жыл бұрын
Wow!! Awesome Message!! God bless you and your family!!🙏🙏❤️❤️
@kendianorman3670 Жыл бұрын
Uncle Tony dropping the wisdom bombs 💣 📚 Blessings to you and the Gaskins Family and your ministry !
@touchedbytiffanyhairsalon Жыл бұрын
Thank you for speaking the truth 🙌 🙏🏾
@ehutch8008 Жыл бұрын
The part about a man with 3-4 baby mamas. And if that Leopard had changed it's spots. And If they're still on their cheating ways. That really spoke to my situation. I think he's still reoffending. Thank you Tony for this message. 🙏🏼
@wj1915 Жыл бұрын
All I could say is “ Lord forgive me”
@FieryGem4 ай бұрын
I have been tuning in for a few weeks and have watched at least 20 videos! Thank you so much for these gems you keep dropping!! My life is truly being changed over here. I pray God continues to bless you and your family 🙏🏾
@AtlantaAngel84 Жыл бұрын
This was so powerful. It needs to be watched again and again.
@FloEunice Жыл бұрын
I just saw my coach up there ! ❤ Thanks for sharing some examples of the minimum of $25 an hour. Tamu is awesome and I see her every two weeks
@Braidsbyriah Жыл бұрын
“Destiny fix that headshot , come on now, you wasting ya money on here ain’t nobody finna hire you with that sideways headshot” 😭😭😭
@jaysharatoo
Жыл бұрын
Hilarious 😂
@DorrePX Жыл бұрын
This yes exactly what I needed to hear. Thanks Mr Gaskins. Listening all the way from Sweden😀
@sarajefferson5393 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, I enjoyed the video and the reminders, very helpful. God blessings 🙏🏾😊
@jhimpcaca5718 Жыл бұрын
Today my 4 yo son said, "mommy your nails beautiful, your hair is beautiful, your cheeks is beautiful 😅❤️❤️
@jamiestumps6146 Жыл бұрын
Amen, I Thank you Jesus, I Thank you Tony, God bless you Sir!
@biancawilliams8107 Жыл бұрын
PREACH TONY!!! All of this! All of this!
@learnwithlashaye5872 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 this caught me off guard
@belindamendez1278 Жыл бұрын
Best video by far! Awesome, awesome, the truth served on a gold platter! Thank you my brother!
@TheSpicyCollection_4 ай бұрын
Thank you for laughter with a real message!
@sibel3795 Жыл бұрын
Wow another powerful lesson learnt 🙏 God bless you Tony & your family
@meredithhillard5449 Жыл бұрын
The calendar is on point and hilarious. Thanks Tony!
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“I’m a FUN time but I’m not an easy time. I’m not an ‘on your time’. I’m not a guaranteed time. I’m not a timeline. I’m a woman with a heart and mind.” 👈🏽 THIS part‼️ 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@tiffanyhunt9454
Жыл бұрын
Bible & BARS 🔥
@daphneobas7857
Жыл бұрын
😁Words to live by!!!💓
@Pheonixfire2220
Жыл бұрын
That’s true
@valeriedix9686
Жыл бұрын
That booty is yours lol I just hollered
@brookesidney
Жыл бұрын
I felt that too!
My grandma said “men are made to ask, and women are made to turn them down “,lol
Thanks Tony. Every thing you said was so true. My now husband was a major player, with many women at his call when I met him. I asked what was it about me that made you propose in year one. He said, “You were different. You didn’t take my calls at 12:30am. You didn’t let me come over after a night out at the clubs. You let the phone ring more than five times. You didn’t cancel your night out with friends when I literally begged you to come over. You were DIFFERENT. Our marriage hasn’t been perfect, 2017 was really tough, but we made it through and after 35 years of marriage, I thank God for a mother who said, “Know your worth.”
@edithandlez
Жыл бұрын
Translation:…. you know what i’m not even going there, you’ll see what I mean one day 💀 don’t ever think he don’t have another.
@valeriemaddox9770
Жыл бұрын
@Grace Mercy - Congratulations for knowing your worth and for listening to your Mother. Moreover, congratulations for 35 years of marriage. God Bless.
@Mayc28
Жыл бұрын
Idk... this sounds to me like you had to "train" him to be a decent human being to women.
@van182
Жыл бұрын
Your comment is quite thought provoking. You didn't state if he ceased his "player" behavior immediately after meeting and marrying you. I know some women and men who weren't able to turn off certain bad behaviors immediately after saying "I do".
@ThanksThanks-cm4ce
Жыл бұрын
TRUE!!!! GOD BLESS.
It is literally impossible to watch Tony Gaskins videos and not leave better than you came. Loving, Laughing and Learning!!!
@breezee7555
Жыл бұрын
Yes ♥️
@pamelacallahan6156
Жыл бұрын
That is the honest to God's Truth!!! I loved my Tony!! Wisdom Truth love ❤️😘💜 and especially laughs..
@alexismurray7520
Жыл бұрын
Agreed!! ♥️
@princesskinuthia8788
Жыл бұрын
True 😂😂
@InTheRecoveryRoom
Жыл бұрын
Facts!!
Before you trust ANYONE, you have to KNOW them. Never put your trust in a man that you don’t know. You only know a person by asking questions, spending time, and watching their ACTIONS towards you and others.
@julieevans3110
7 ай бұрын
Yes: ACTIONS NOT WORDS.
Tossing a salad, singing on the microphone, rodeo, riding a cowboy 🤠 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@joiagenae
Жыл бұрын
That part took me out 😂
@esthero1994
Жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣
@mindyann8903
Жыл бұрын
@@joiagenae lol yea girl I been noticing me using these phrases too as well as “what in the wurld ! “ and “Gooodneees Gracious !” 😂
@kaboomroom33
Жыл бұрын
And water boarding?!?! What dat? I’m scurred!🫣
@mjj5642
Жыл бұрын
I just started and Im crying at “lettin him cuff yo cheeks” 😩😩🤣🤣🤣
Translation: Leave these clowns right where you found them, ALONE. Looks like Tony Gaskins might be getting more male followers begging for tips on how to get the women back that he helped to leave them 😂😂😂 Tony you're about to get paid brother! Hahaha .Singleness is looking great for women. Good job ladies on loving yourselves. Keep it up!🥰🥰🥰
@KP_FruitsoftheSpirit
Жыл бұрын
Thank you, so true. It hard but I'm worth it ❤️🙏🏼🙂
Sex definitely clouds your judgement in a situationship
@TheNisiu
Жыл бұрын
All the time!
This is why guidance is so needed for young people. For me, sex was always a fun activity because I thought that’s what you are suppose to do when you like someone. Now that I am older, I see how sex doesn’t mean anything and definitely does not mean a guy will stay with you and take you serious. I needed this video, because I need to sit down and be alone for a long while.
@greaterishe7197
Жыл бұрын
I was celibate for over 5 years. It was so empowering. You'll be surprised how many people that do absolutely nothing for your spirit/soul when you remove physical intimacy. When I tell people(using Maslows Hierarchy Theory) that sex isn't one of my top 3, they look at me like I am crazy.
@daisylavenderlove
Жыл бұрын
Same!!
@kristinaherrejon7181
Жыл бұрын
Amen sister! Preach!
@stargoldqueen5894
Жыл бұрын
Exactly. It doesn’t mean anything unless he wants to be kept.
@thelovelylife7451
Жыл бұрын
@@greaterishe7197 Yeah… being celibate as well, I find it really weird that people place such high importance on sex
He said “I’m over here kissin and done caught COVID, knowing I got high blood pressure. Now you finna die” 😂😂😩😭 I can’t with him. I love listening for the lessons and laughs ♥️🧘🏽
@nnekaou4490
Жыл бұрын
😅😅
@sxyteesa0890
Жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭😭😭
@TrishC5280
Жыл бұрын
🤭🤭🤭
@BrooklynBaby-1
Жыл бұрын
⚰️ ⚰️ ⚰️ 😂
@millidw8070
Жыл бұрын
🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣
Ladies be careful...always trust your intuition. Thank you, Shari Gaskins, for being so classy!!! Tony lights up when Shari is around.
Tony ain't lying! I went on a date with a man earlier this year and he asked me a question that I felt was disrespectful so I grabbed my purse and left. When he reached out I told him to never disrespect me like that again. Later he told me that he was testing me and most women would've answered the question. Ladies stay on guard! Check the man the first time!
@joiagenae
Жыл бұрын
@@LA-wv7gf no I passed because I left lol. If I had answered the question I would've "failed"
@joiagenae
Жыл бұрын
@@LA-wv7gf it was a sexual question lol
@gemeni3000
Жыл бұрын
@@LA-wv7gf wow this is real.sad how dating life has changed so people doing test on people that really show how the world is fake and artificial . You have to do all these test to people to see if there is fake. I think it because it so many fake people with just bad intentions when they get into relationships. This is just truly sad
@schokococoa575
Жыл бұрын
Did you continue going on dates with him or did you end it completely then and there? It seems like you still did since you said again, but just asking for clarification!
@tlc6756
9 ай бұрын
Any man that has to disrespect a woman to see if she passes his "test" would be gone from my life pronto. He would be an automatic fail for me lol.
The way his face lights up when Sheri walks in 😂❤
Too much goes into dating these days. I’ll take the lessons but happily be single lol
@dw9054
Жыл бұрын
No doubt!!
@simplyameeraj
Жыл бұрын
Forreal tho lol it’s easier and safer to just be single.
@littlemissunimpressed
Жыл бұрын
@@simplyameeraj facts so much safer
@keziahb8665
Жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
@jcoates375
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely
Tony said "You got got high blood pressure you finna dye! 😂 😂 Message always good with humor
“Folding lips like Shenaynay..” he did not😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I can't even say what I enjoy more: Tony's wisdom or comedy skills 😍😆
@olio8226
Жыл бұрын
yes!!!!! lol!!
@IIC_NOW
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely 💯
@yrellim
Жыл бұрын
You mean I know I didn't look like chewed up spit out bubble gum other men look like bottom of her shoe!!!🤣🤣🤣
Another great message!! Ladies, gotta stop letting these men play you like Atari 🎮. Sex is a game to 99% of them. You are worthy of so much more ❤️. My husband and other married men I know selected the lady who told them no. 😉 No man wants a loose booty. - TG
Man oh man We need to get our stuff together fr Men are playing with us , seek and concur
@Ashley_Banks
Жыл бұрын
Yes ma’am 😅
Wisdom and discernment needs to be present at all times with all friendships!!
Tony's date description got me hollering! 🤣 but it is so true.
If men want to conquer something conquer respect
Thank you for acknowledging that these kids are not add/adhd and put on drugs. Kids need to be active and engaged. Classrooms are not the only places where kids can learn. They just want to control the kids and make them compliant.
I went on a date Sunday and I literally had that talk with that guy today about trying to touch me too much and I don’t even know him
@user-mb9jx5tx9y
Жыл бұрын
Nice boundaries !!!
You saved me once again please never stop keeping us aware of these men out here. Thank God for you and your wisdom GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY
Thank you Mr. Gaskins. What I learned from this message is that if a person is of rare quality then they behave in ways that show they're not for the streets! 🛣🚦
Mrs. Sheri said “ain’t no month 6 !” Made me laugh so hard. 😅
This is what us woman NEED to hear.a lot to learn in one video
This stung and made me laugh at the same time 🤕🤣
@simplyameeraj
Жыл бұрын
Same
@learnwithlashaye5872
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 omg SAME!
Not a Caesar Salad too!! 🤣😂😆It’s sad how easy it is to get some women to let their guard down.
I’m really grateful for this man’s teachings. It really bothers me that the men who operate in such a manner is what women are up against in this world. They’re users and abusers.
@van182
Жыл бұрын
Who is teaching boys how to become good men? Most boys are raised by their mothers in black communities. Boys need a good male image to mirror. Mothers can empower their sons in many ways, but that doesn't negate the fact that a boy needs a good man (father) . A good boy will usually grow up to become a good man.
“Hit her with the 3 level mousse cake”!! 🤣🤣🤣 On a side note, low key wanna try this “Chilean Sea Bass” 🤣🤣🤣
@YoliLoves
Жыл бұрын
Me, too! I thought TG was going to throw in a crème brûlée but went with the white chocolate bread pudding. 😂😂
It's the way he says things that have me Cracking Up 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
It’s sad that this is true and we’ve arrived (a while ago) to a point of having to make sure that someone that we are hoping to be loved by isn’t looking to conquer us and thinking all of these twisted warfare tactics. I would want to give up if I didn’t have the strength and guidance of God to help me understand how to maneuver through life and not be a punching bag to the whim of man and waves of life.
@Liz-ic6jb
Жыл бұрын
It's never been complicated. The Bible clearly says no sex before marriage. "Christians" don't even TRY to abstain.
@iSpunkrandom
Жыл бұрын
@@Liz-ic6jb if God thought that it were easy for us, He wouldn’t have sent Jesus.
Not the Chilean sea bass 😭😭😭😭
The men need to check themselves before they try to check someone else💯👍.
This one hurt but needed to hear it… thank you for the wisdom Tony !
Have lost many men for not putting out either on first day or soon after...when I say loss it was a win for me frfr. Thanks for confirming that it's OK to wait and ask for check ups. Because some of us know and practice this!
I’m in my early 20s and it makes me scared to hear all this, but I’ll take the lesson!
@thelovelylife7451
Жыл бұрын
It’s so great you have this information. When I was in my early 20s, I was unaware of the information out there and went through a lot of unnecessary drama and stress
@kaboomroom33
Жыл бұрын
Absorb the lessons early, chile! You’ll need ‘em.🤦🏽♀️
@bhilaire1bj
Жыл бұрын
Wish I had this in my 20s.
@cmelanso3371
Жыл бұрын
Better believe it hunny
@latoyathomas9640
5 ай бұрын
Here's a tool to help you prepare for marriage,please Google KEYS FOR A HAPPY MARRIAGE AMAZING FACTS.(This is a Bible Study)
😂😂😂😂😂💀💀💀💀I’m dead. Brother Tony I can’t…. Ceasar salad and breathe mint!!!
Grateful for men like Tony Gaskins educating us women on the games of men. Thank you for the insightful and entertaining message. Wish I'd known this years before. Can't believe how naive I was towards men till the disaster of my last relationship. Happy to stay single and work on myself till the time is right 😊
@rrnn6472
Жыл бұрын
You're learning - we all are! As long as you don’t repeat the same actions!🙏👏
@lanis777
Жыл бұрын
@@rrnn6472 Yes, I can't keep making the same mistakes. I didn't even realize I was doing anything wrong till I came across Pastor RC Blakes, then stumbled upon Tony Gaskins. Wow, they opened my eyes! Thank goodness. Have a blessed day 😊
@rrnn6472
Жыл бұрын
@@lanis777 Thank you! Yes RC (and Redefined TV) are Awesom! Their platforms, much like Tony's put me in check. Blessings to you as well!🙏
People be out there being deceitful about there relationships 🙄 and sexual health. Find out what's up with this person and take your time. You can't go back on forward once you jump in on this 💯 😒 wrong relationship. U can't trust what a person says. Most men just want a booty call trying u like trying on a pair of 👞 shoes. Most men know if you are what they looking for as soon as u open your mouth to 👄. Get to know them physically, Mentally, financially and sexual health wise. Know them well. If u r not wife material for them they know right away they are going to get in and get out and roll out on you. Don't get played. If u aren't for them they won't be around for very long 💯 rather u sleep with them or not.
Seems easier to be by yourself these days. 💯
Tony you got me hollering 🤣 the wife might be deployed! Everything you are saying is so true and relatable. It's horrible out here. We got to be on the lookout for everything. Thank you ❤️
😂😂😂😂 Tony is hilarious and telling the truth at the same time! Thank you 🙏🏾
Thank you Tony. My sister and cousins have been getting on my nerves lately with dating advice and today I had to curse them out (they’re bullying me about being modest, calling me naive and a user of men). Basically I have a serious issue / standard with a man I JUST MET touching me in sensual areas. I’m very quick to show I dislike that behavior or I assert myself. Ny sister and cousins were vexed about me doing this because it “puts men off” when the reality is that - I DO NOT WANT a man I DO NOT KNOW invading my privacy and feeling entitled to putting a FINGER on me. Idc how attractive he thinks he is, that is my RULE. I also have a serious issue with men kissing me on the first date WITHOUT my consent or showing that I’m INTERESTED. These men will have a great time with me on a date and assume I want an unsolicited kiss that ultimately gets them blocked. A man that invades my space on the first date is a man that’ll keep testing my boundaries. I was starting to really wonder if I even liked men because I also do not like hugging a man who I don’t know. I have a serious issue with men being too friendly, sexual, flirty or anything with me and I sometimes friendzone myself with the fact I’m not even flirtatious or showing direct interest. I thought I was actually realizing I might be a lesbian since I face none of the issues with women touching me as nearly to the degree of men. My sisters bullied me telling me I’ll keep running men off and that I need to go down on a man to keep his attention and my parents raised me to be MODEST and have respect for myself. My first and only ex did not earn a real two arm hug from me until nearly six months in. We held hands around the one year mark (he didn’t like touching hands) and our intimacy didn’t kick start until later. We broke up over other reasons but the thing is he respected how long it took me to warm up and trust him. It takes TIME for me. And this wards men off because I come off immature and off putting when I reject advances when the reality is that I need TIME to develop genuine feelings and see what you’re feeling for me. When a man becomes sexual too quick (with me it’s within hours or days) I’m quick to SNIP em. I let men know I’m not the one and I’m not missing out on letting them pass on by. Any man who can’t wait, isn’t worth it in my opinion..so good riddance to him anyway.
@Beautycomesfromwithin
Жыл бұрын
Just be you! I am modest and I am the same like you. There will be a man that will truly accept you the way you are and vice versa.
@sparklesp9304
Жыл бұрын
I'm JUST like you. I don't like men forcing men into my physical space when I barely know them. It's violating, and they know EXACTLY what they're doing when they do it as it's an ego stroke at your expense for the guys who do it prematurely i.e. first and second date. Honestly, you're not doing it wrong either. I'd let them know from the jump that you're not into physical touch with people that you don't know well.
@monicanicole738
Жыл бұрын
@@sparklesp9304 I’m so glad to hear that I am not the only one! It’s reassuring because my sister and cousins really had me believing I was doing it wrong, telling me that “men don’t want to be friends with you, they want sex and you’re being a user of men for not allowing them to have sex with you or giving them signs that you want sex.” And I clapped back with “I want a man who can be my friend first and that comes with respect of me and knowing that I respect myself to not allow “lust” to overtake my judgement of discerning him. If a man can’t be my friend because he’s only expecting sex, then I’m good on him. That’s not how genuine relationships work nor last.” This ANGERED them. They’re vexed about my body count being 2 in my late 20s and that I have GENUINE men as friends! I was getting worried about how “off putting” I can be towards men, because one guy recently met me a single time in a parking lot, told me about himself and then I allowed us to meet about 2 weeks later, he immediately rubbed on my thigh when he sat down next to me. I looked at him, IRRITATED and I said boldly “do not touch me there again, please. I don’t know you, we’ve met a single time.” My sister got upset (she’s the one who introduced us) because she’s like “girl you have zero sex appeal and a grown man hates that.” AND? My sex appeal BUILDS AFTER I know him! She’s mad I can look at attractive men and not want to jump his bones, I need to know who he is first and that takes time, like being his friend and seeing what he’s about. My sister and cousins immediately jump in the bed with men and try to keep them doing acrobatics in the bedroom. Im going to start telling men on the first date about my no touching rule. I thought it would come off too forward, because it means he can pretend to respect my boundaries and I let down my guard and then im played. I’d rather they show me who they are, but the bad news is that I cut them off immediately because of it. I want to communicate it, I just don’t want it to backfire. I want a man to understand with the way I carry myself that he can read I am not the type of woman to accept that behavior from the jump. But if I need to start explaining it, I suppose I should do that..
@JB-ro7kq
Жыл бұрын
Check out Tiffany Buckner here on KZread. I’m think you’ll like her. She’s like the male Tony. She has a plethora of videos on dating, effects of fornication, so much!
@Liz-ic6jb
Жыл бұрын
1. I say stop telling your family about dating. 2. It appears you may overthink things from the fact you wrote such a long comment. 3. There's no need to be angry when men test your boundaries. THEY DON'T KNOW YOU! Simply tell them you don't touch early in the dating stage. Every woman they go out with is different boundaries and expectations. Also, they have to know what NOT to say to you (or any date ) without taking offense.
I love how his demeanour is much lighter when his wife is around ❤
In my past I've always felt like prey in hindsight ... and it was all on me from not knowing how to properly vett, and at times ignoring red flags. I am seriously praying that God just allows me to be a "spiritual eunuch", especially in this day and age (it's legit scary out here) lol. I do not have the energy to filter through the bs, to decipher the games, etc. Nor do I ever want to feel used again, it's one of thee worst feelings for me tbh.
"Singing on the microphone!!!" I am crying!!! But such a great topic! Thanks for the humor brother!!
If a man is touching on you like he said in the beginning of this video he is not even husband material! He wouldn't even get a chance with me touching on me like that. Respect must be served 1st
This is so informative and entertaining. People tend to date from where they are in life, that's how we choose a certain type of partner. These days most men expect so much from women so fast.
@j-tenn226
Жыл бұрын
It’s unbelievable. These men are inviting themselves over after one date. Sir, do you not have your own place to rest for the night?
@millicentstollenwerck5239
Жыл бұрын
@@j-tenn226 A man I just met is not coming to my place at all. Might not know where I live.
@BrooklynBaby-1
Жыл бұрын
@@j-tenn226 Seriously! Even these supposed “guy friends” they want to come over and watch movies… uh no sir.. I watch them by myself!
@daniellamoreno3616
8 ай бұрын
Right most them want that happy ending uhhh nooo…
Thank you Tony. Being easily impressed will backfire every single time. Lol I just about fell out when your wife showed up and your facial expression changed Tony 😂😅
Thank you Tony! This video really explained a lot. I don’t and have never slept around. Only man I ever been with is my soon to be ex husband. He was emotionally unavailable and emotionally abusive (just like my parents). I realized that I was never comfortable around him. And reflecting on how I got in that situation has been the greatest life lesson of my life. Never again. Now I do exactly as you say and I’m vetting everybody even potential female friends. I am highly sensitive to energy, I always have been but people in my family would tell me I was trippin or crazy because I would tell them I don’t trust somebody or something lie that and I was always right. But because they doubted me and put me down I started to not trust myself. Now I’m trusting myself again. It’s taking time but I’m definitely putting stronger, healthier boundaries up with everyone and I’m feeling good. Thanks again!
@fah232
Жыл бұрын
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@Q................
Жыл бұрын
When you started with emotionally unavailable parent/s it subconsciously trains you to pick emotionally unavailable men nd friends. I made the same mistake and when I realised I kicked myself. I wasted a lot of time but lesson learned we will never pick men like that again now we know the difference now we have learned the lesson I have turned a good few down since the last relationship because I can see the unavailable trait more clearly now and over enthusiastic men can not come into my life and hurry me to bed either. When I find out you are the same old type I block and ghost no explanation its not like they know where I live.
Ok I have to say - WHERE HAS THIS MAN BEEN MY WHOLE LIFE?! The straight up VALUE he is providing is INCREDIBLE + i have NEVER EVER laughed so hard while learning in my life! Thank you so much! Brand new Sub right here!
Bro you spit the truth on this one‼️🙌🏾
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 man i bout died when you stuck your tongue out 😂😂😂 deadddd
@lisasmilez
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@biancawilliams8107
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂he’s so funny!!!
This is true. I am a substitute teacher and the teacher's rolling assignments bins holder was leaning. The girls put assignments in bin. Three boys saw me struggling and asked if they could fix it. And they did within minutes. 👏🏾 The boys felt so proud and the class was happy. Boys want to fix it! 😊👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Tony look fed up on that thumbnail.. I know this bout to be good 😂
Tony always got me dying in laughter 😅😂. Great advice 🌟👏🏽🙌🏽
That cholesterol and blood pressure ain’t where it’s suppose to be 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yes Tony it takes time I was with my husband for over 20 years married for 7years we divorced because he was cheating! He killed the woman he was cheating with after a few months! Grateful God removed him from my life
@Gomlie1970
Жыл бұрын
Wow God really saved you from a. Wicked man🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@bevill72able
Жыл бұрын
Whew! You are covered and protected in The Mighty Name of Jesus! God Bless you!
This video was awesome. It’s so crazy to think how naive I was to the ways of a man. Didn’t know he was reading me the whole time.
@dublingirl1691
Жыл бұрын
Me neither and I’m in my mid 60s. Been a widow for 14 years, and the first man I dated; I was so naive when I got totally fooled by a man who was 5 years older! 😞
This video is Saved! I always save all the gems because I like to go back and listen to them again. Thank you Tony!
why God always lead me right back to Tony videos 😂 i can run but I can't hide! Not the "Jeffrey Dahmer vibes" 😩😅🙏🏽
@paulaq752
Жыл бұрын
lol that made me laugh. I was like what is he doing here 🤣🤣🤣🤣
“Truth is I’m tireeee”😂😂once again great advice TG!
Men are hunters by nature! Conquer, score and release if you allow it!
@direwolf1977
Жыл бұрын
I hunt for food, not women!
@charmingcharlie5211
Жыл бұрын
That might be true for you.
I love Tony for enlightening people that need a sound mind to bounce off of. Me myself I guess I have lived enough to know, I haven’t picked up anything that I didn’t know already. Women need to listen to this man. Women have an illusion of what a man should be versus what they really are.
The other day I was listening to a pod cast and the evolutionary psychologist was saying the prefrontal cortex of a male at ten years of age is the same as a female at twenty four. The prefrontal cortex plays a role in cognitive control function and impulse. That right there says a lot
@THATGIRL0121
Жыл бұрын
Can i ask which podcast and episode this was? This is very interesting
@THATGIRL0121
Жыл бұрын
@@juneelle370 thanks !
This was so informative. I subscribed immediately. I walked away feeling much stronger.
I ain't getting excited unless we talk and have major energy with eachother. Wine. Food ..gifts... don't do shit for me. I need the mutual vibe you can't see .. chemistry.
Treat dating like a job interview
I Have LEARNED SO MUCH FROM THIS MAN OF GOD 🙏🏽💕
I thank you… sometimes I be naive cause of a man’s charming nature but u done woke me up
Sad truth indeed thank you Tony🙏🏾🙏🏾
That’s great advice to look at your situation as if you are your mom or sister. I needed to hear that. Thank you and God bless!
It’s sad and true that we rush to sleep with one another but the pressure is real. Women run to sleep with a man thinking that will keep him but it doesn’t at all!! If that man truly cares and respect you as a woman, if you tell him no, he respects you and you wait for the intimacy then that’s the way to go but in 2022 we know men and women don’t wait. If you don’t give him what he wants, there are plenty that will and the same applies for women. This is why people are not getting married or getting married and divorced in record time!
You keep it Real and Raw TG! 👍🏼👍🏼 Peace and Love and Blessings to you and your family in Christ Jesus 🙏🏽🕊🤍
Thanks for this video, Tony!! ✨🙏🏽
Such profound advice. Legs closed, eyes and ears open ladies ❤
Bro Tony you on point with so much truth and lots of humor 😂😂😂 thanks for this message. Blessings to you always
Wow!! Awesome Message!! God bless you and your family!!🙏🙏❤️❤️
Uncle Tony dropping the wisdom bombs 💣 📚 Blessings to you and the Gaskins Family and your ministry !
Thank you for speaking the truth 🙌 🙏🏾
The part about a man with 3-4 baby mamas. And if that Leopard had changed it's spots. And If they're still on their cheating ways. That really spoke to my situation. I think he's still reoffending. Thank you Tony for this message. 🙏🏼
All I could say is “ Lord forgive me”
I have been tuning in for a few weeks and have watched at least 20 videos! Thank you so much for these gems you keep dropping!! My life is truly being changed over here. I pray God continues to bless you and your family 🙏🏾
This was so powerful. It needs to be watched again and again.
I just saw my coach up there ! ❤ Thanks for sharing some examples of the minimum of $25 an hour. Tamu is awesome and I see her every two weeks
“Destiny fix that headshot , come on now, you wasting ya money on here ain’t nobody finna hire you with that sideways headshot” 😭😭😭
@jaysharatoo
Жыл бұрын
Hilarious 😂
This yes exactly what I needed to hear. Thanks Mr Gaskins. Listening all the way from Sweden😀
Thank you, I enjoyed the video and the reminders, very helpful. God blessings 🙏🏾😊
Today my 4 yo son said, "mommy your nails beautiful, your hair is beautiful, your cheeks is beautiful 😅❤️❤️
Amen, I Thank you Jesus, I Thank you Tony, God bless you Sir!
PREACH TONY!!! All of this! All of this!
😂😂😂 this caught me off guard
Best video by far! Awesome, awesome, the truth served on a gold platter! Thank you my brother!
Thank you for laughter with a real message!
Wow another powerful lesson learnt 🙏 God bless you Tony & your family
The calendar is on point and hilarious. Thanks Tony!
You are preaching today 🗣👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾