Uncomfortable conversations about sex btn parents and their children

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  • @fatmahnakazibwe5151
    @fatmahnakazibwe51519 ай бұрын

    I am a very quiet person since childhood and people used to tell my mum oyo omwana yesirisa Naye ajja nakufuna olubuto kulugya yet I was innocent, and whenever I did any mistake at home nga my mum kyakulembeza ngayomba. So I never opened up to her, When I went to university people were surprised and the said kigenda kwononekera ku uni, I graduated and waited for two years, then they said nadiba and my mum could confront me about every thing bad people could say about me. After those years I got my man who understands me and when I told her nti ayagala kukyala she couldn't believe it. In fact no body believed it

  • @user-ud4ds9ne2d

    @user-ud4ds9ne2d

    9 ай бұрын

    You are just a special person which they didn't understand

  • @mukisajoankabogza2586

    @mukisajoankabogza2586

    9 ай бұрын

    ,,,😅😅thats my first born musilise naye ntua akuma nyo ekyama ohhhh

  • @fatmahnakazibwe5151

    @fatmahnakazibwe5151

    9 ай бұрын

    @@mukisajoankabogza2586 try to be close to he or she will be open. But my mum took people's words seriously ngabwagamba wantamya okwesirisa so I couldn't open up

  • @Amish07

    @Amish07

    9 ай бұрын

    People don't understand that there is introverts that really respect themselves

  • @beckynamubiru2095

    @beckynamubiru2095

    8 ай бұрын

    Bambi but parents why

  • @carolnakityo4223
    @carolnakityo42238 ай бұрын

    The gift and the blessing of having a mother in this world is underrated❤

  • @nassolojauharah870
    @nassolojauharah8709 ай бұрын

    Namisinga binji era silina love jenafuna ku maama wange yanvuma nga buli kadde😢😢 naye kati mutabani wange he respects me and we are friends and open to each other he tells me everything wether necessary or not I direct him bambi I thank Allah 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @evelynk8092

    @evelynk8092

    9 ай бұрын

    Mwaana gwe leka I reached to the extent of ask myself oba siyanzala

  • @nayigajackie8609

    @nayigajackie8609

    9 ай бұрын

    ​@@evelynk8092me too,some mothers olemwa

  • @nassolojauharah870

    @nassolojauharah870

    9 ай бұрын

    @@evelynk8092 upto now I don't love her but I love my daddy so so much coz he was there until now may Allah bless him and protect him

  • @mukisajoankabogza2586

    @mukisajoankabogza2586

    9 ай бұрын

    Abazadde bedda bali webatyo naffe abaana tubade tukute li e eyo.nze mbulilidwa nyo ne vidoes zino zituyambye nyo.so tonenya maama wo

  • @NakiddeChristine

    @NakiddeChristine

    9 ай бұрын

    Nze owange namubuza Nako oba siyanzala nga emiggo ne bivumo binsuseko naye nyabo nalinga eyeyiye Amanda mumbugo😢😢

  • @jenniejenny2135
    @jenniejenny21359 ай бұрын

    Thanks Auntie Bala and Nisha; in my opinion, It's good to talk to our children as early as possible btwn 2 and 3 years omwana aba ategera. For example, my son was around 3yrs something woke up my mind it was like two to three times: this boy could come to me, and touch on my breast just like a child I assumed but, I then noticed whenever he would do that he would stand straight that's when I sat my boys a 3 and 4 years old and had a serious conversation with them as Dad Tom teaches us. I actually started praying over them more kubanga the way the devil is targeting our kids in this era. Only prayers. Let's talk to them as early as possible and always keep bringing these conversations to them omwana abeera mwana nga ali ne muzadde we, the moment they walk away from your sight, aba wa nsi. God please keep our Children for is. 🙏most importantly PARENTS BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR CHILDREN.

  • @lilliandaisy8109
    @lilliandaisy81099 ай бұрын

    Mummy and daughter is always de best moments i wish my mother is still alive

  • @kalibbalabwanika

    @kalibbalabwanika

    9 ай бұрын

    Im so sorry for your loss muzadde munage,cyber hugs mukwano

  • @lilliandaisy8109

    @lilliandaisy8109

    9 ай бұрын

    @@kalibbalabwanika thank you mummy Ruth bt what pains me I don't have any memories abt mummy they told me we were still young

  • @glsflorahflekerntuuyozange

    @glsflorahflekerntuuyozange

    9 ай бұрын

    ​@@kalibbalabwanikamummy Ruth, I love the way you cooperate with your children and I say I wish I can ...I have 3 children 2 girls and I boy and I'm a single mum but I'm feeling disappointed with my girls I have been struggling alone from day one..but now I want to send them to their father and forget about them in my life

  • @marieannie9505

    @marieannie9505

    9 ай бұрын

    Ooooh so sorry kikwano 😢

  • @Debs567

    @Debs567

    9 ай бұрын

    @@glsflorahflekerntuuyozange Oooh this is so heart breaking💔to hear, coz one thing I know, Omuzadde yena, nadala bamama, ayagalanyo abannabe, bwebuba, obulamubwe. However, when it comes to single parenting, it can be quite tricky and overwhelming. As a result, a parent my be hash to raise her child in a way trying to play both roles as a mom and dad, but by doing that, the kids don’t understand that! They think they are being mistreated which is a misconception, remember this is a struggling Mom who is trying to make ends meet. At that point, they miss having a special relationship of parent and children which actually builds their self-esteem and confidence… In a long run, a child will be easily swayed away by an outsider who tells her that she is beautiful and ends up preying on her. Then another thing, generations differ, as much as we want to raise kinds in the olden style as we were raised, our kids are in a different era. Shouting at them may not work nor shying away from information may also not work. Telling them everything there is, in a friendly, respectful and balanced manner, may will yield more. It is so sad, that you’re letting go of your girls… but don’t close the door please. May be a change will make a difference in their lives. It is so painful to see a parent go through this kind of thing. Imagining her sacrifice and devotion to her kids all her life, and they can’t accept that everything she did was out of love.😢 Take heart my dear! One day, they will come back to thank you, for your love and sacrifice when they get to taste the waters out there mukazi munange. 🤗 🤗 🤗

  • @sylvialuutu9124
    @sylvialuutu91249 ай бұрын

    Wow. She is so brilliant and her reasoning capacity is on point 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉. Thanks Mum and dota

  • @aishajohannveronica1414
    @aishajohannveronica14149 ай бұрын

    Thank for educating us Ruth.❤❤❤❤

  • @iteknologgie
    @iteknologgie9 ай бұрын

    There is nothing good as watching these 2 on set cheei full of vibes. Thank you Nisha for your highlights as parents we appreciate

  • @nakayiwinnie3373
    @nakayiwinnie33739 ай бұрын

    Thanks for always teaching us Ruth you are such a blessing to us the parents

  • @birungisarah8764
    @birungisarah87649 ай бұрын

    Ruth,I love it when you are with your Daughter. One of the best shows. ❤

  • @NadiaRurw

    @NadiaRurw

    8 ай бұрын

  • @pamelanabwire7093
    @pamelanabwire70939 ай бұрын

    Thank you for this show. Fantastic approach- parent - child. God bless you Ruth.

  • @namubirujoan2015
    @namubirujoan20159 ай бұрын

    How can i like this a zillion times? thank you very much for this conversation, its been very helpful and insightful

  • @nakirijjamary2359
    @nakirijjamary23599 ай бұрын

    The best ever,thxs for this talk. Parents it's our responsibility to talk to our children

  • @sumayahabdallah1737
    @sumayahabdallah17379 ай бұрын

    I love the interaction,my mother died when I was only 6yrs so I grew up without that motherly love thou I was not mistreated. Am trying to do my best as a mother and I have learnt from these conversations to always complement my children,how to control my tamper and approach to situations. Using words of affirmation with them thou some conversations are still uncomfortable to approach 😊

  • @noreennakazibwe1435
    @noreennakazibwe14359 ай бұрын

    God bless me with grace to talk to my children 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 great thanks to Ruth and dota advise to us parents ❤

  • @jerrynakitende3669
    @jerrynakitende36699 ай бұрын

    Great show. I always look forward to this mother and daughter talks. Thank you Ruth and Nisha

  • @mulindwajonathan3470
    @mulindwajonathan34709 ай бұрын

    Thanks Ruth...show...more blessings

  • @babzhellenugwakyagulanyi60
    @babzhellenugwakyagulanyi609 ай бұрын

    I'm so happy to see you again with your sweet daughter ❤❤

  • @kalibbalabwanika

    @kalibbalabwanika

    9 ай бұрын

    You are so kind

  • @hanifahnamuli947
    @hanifahnamuli9478 ай бұрын

    Bambi thanks for your show, it's eye opening for especially mothers❤❤❤

  • @rachelnaigaga6634
    @rachelnaigaga66349 ай бұрын

    I enjoyed this conversation.....i admire the way you interact with ur daughter freely, ur like siblings❤😂😂

  • @florenceflower9816
    @florenceflower98169 ай бұрын

    Thank u so much mum ruth and your daughter, for this wounderfull talk u really inspire us

  • @sophynabukeera4736
    @sophynabukeera47369 ай бұрын

    Mmy Ruth i can't thank you enough for this 👏🏼👏🏼🙏🙏

  • @pricytudorsdiaries3457
    @pricytudorsdiaries34579 ай бұрын

    Hi Ruth this was so beautiful, we need to talk to our children as early as 4 years old

  • @jacklinemujuni6223
    @jacklinemujuni62238 ай бұрын

    God bless you bleeeeeeeeeess you ×infinity. What an educative message! And your daughter is so intelligent 🙏

  • @dgkalisa2130
    @dgkalisa21308 ай бұрын

    Ruth and daughter this is very good bambi...am a daddy with 9 and 7 yo girls....not very easy for us fathers....please mukole those specific sessions of daddy - daughter talk...keep it up both you you❤

  • @nabbosashamim
    @nabbosashamim9 ай бұрын

    This is so great to us parents thank you so much Mrs Bwanika and the daughter

  • @jacksonmusinguzi4585
    @jacksonmusinguzi45859 ай бұрын

    Ruth you're such a DARLING mother indeed OMG ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @lornatwins9944
    @lornatwins99449 ай бұрын

    This was very educative and inspiring.

  • @tinolizzy1167
    @tinolizzy11679 ай бұрын

    Beautiful inspiring conversation btn mother and daughter. The bond is priceless ❤. Blessings kamaama 💞🙏l speak to son about bad touches and sex always and l started it last year when he was 9yrs

  • @nabukenyadianamasengere391
    @nabukenyadianamasengere3919 ай бұрын

    Wow this so true thank you so much

  • @prossytessy5271
    @prossytessy52719 ай бұрын

    This message is Directly to me,,thank you mummy Ruth

  • @ismaeltwahassesimba4773
    @ismaeltwahassesimba47739 ай бұрын

    Ruth thanks alot for this educative talk... I am dad who loves my 2 boys en little one gal. For sure its good advise for a parent to sit down and talk to our children at young age.

  • @PrincessAnitah-gi9el
    @PrincessAnitah-gi9el9 ай бұрын

    Woow thx so much for the nyc program

  • @NansasiS
    @NansasiS8 ай бұрын

    am a 21yr old mom to a 5yr old daughter. This conversation has made me realise alot and put me in alot of fear for my girl. I've learnt alot thank you gals.

  • @katusabejackie2798
    @katusabejackie27989 ай бұрын

    Thanks soooo much for the insights. Bituyambye nyooo. Be blessed

  • @dareengift3270
    @dareengift32707 ай бұрын

    Thanks a lot Ruth for this teaching conversation

  • @rinahkayz9508
    @rinahkayz95089 ай бұрын

    Mbu even on my wedding i will not dance 😂😂😂naye Ruth I like the mother nd dota talks full of fun nd positive vibes ❤❤Parents we should always make our children to be our n.1 friends see this beautiful family Mash'Allah.

  • @kalibbalabwanika

    @kalibbalabwanika

    9 ай бұрын

    🥰🥰🙏🏿

  • @evelynk8092

    @evelynk8092

    9 ай бұрын

    Munange some bazzade babanga police

  • @rawashia
    @rawashia9 ай бұрын

    Thanks Ruth for wonderful talk

  • @Nakandimilliemaria
    @Nakandimilliemaria9 ай бұрын

    Thank you mummy Ruth this is really educative and helpful conversation to us parents

  • @namubirujoan2015
    @namubirujoan20159 ай бұрын

    Wow wow wow I have really enjoyed this conversation and I've learnt a lot. thanks very much.

  • @Hamahjahans
    @Hamahjahans9 ай бұрын

    I was Dadz gal😢😢and i thank him coz he was very close to me to the extent of telling me everything coz he had no option since mai mother had died years later forexample “when you do sex u get pregnat and HIV so please take care” i really followed his words and now i dont regret of being agood gal😍😍😍so parents has to be so open to us

  • @nyakatoviolet860

    @nyakatoviolet860

    9 ай бұрын

    That was good of him, most parents can't do that as if they're ashamed 💕

  • @Amish07

    @Amish07

    9 ай бұрын

    We women have downgraded men but men can actually raise better children

  • @sgjjchiio7245

    @sgjjchiio7245

    7 ай бұрын

    Your married now even me my dad too😂

  • @rachellekandi1084
    @rachellekandi10849 ай бұрын

    BEING RAISED WZ GOD FEARING PARENTS IS DA MOST BEAUTIFUL THING IN LIFE. U BE EXPOSED TO MANY THINGS AND AT TIMES KNOW HOW TO APPROACH ANY PROBLEM. Mother and Daughter much love 💜💜me ma Mom at 10 had already told me about sex. It's consquences, and how to Overcome and avoid it. Thank You mummy💜💜

  • @nakamichelle8198
    @nakamichelle81989 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for that conversation with ur queen. Bambi ur really good mother. Also trying with kids and i try to show them that am there best even when i go to their school and some students think that am their sister because of the way i go down with them. I don't want them to see other new things from their classmates.

  • @RizikFatia-vj2nl
    @RizikFatia-vj2nl9 ай бұрын

    Banaye ka Dota kali so mostive 😂😂and beautiful ❤❤

  • @lydianabacwa9398
    @lydianabacwa93989 ай бұрын

    Thank you, mum Ruth, and dota i love the sharing.

  • @akamperezadianah9935
    @akamperezadianah99358 ай бұрын

    This is beautiful. Thank you

  • @nailahhashim9095
    @nailahhashim90959 ай бұрын

    Wow I just love the mum-daughter relationship 👏👏👏 Thanks for being so educative!!

  • @shanitahshanitah5948

    @shanitahshanitah5948

    8 ай бұрын

    Banange nze nina omwana yasilika Banange shirat yasilika omwana tayogera omwana waliwo lwataama😢😢😢😢😢tanyumya

  • @kahundesylivia910
    @kahundesylivia9109 ай бұрын

    Thanks so much for your concern madam Ruth with daughter, forsure us mum's who are hustling abroad we are worried abt our kids only God can understand our situation

  • @evajoyschorer8669
    @evajoyschorer86699 ай бұрын

    She looks exactly like her mum .thanks somuch for the show

  • @RLrayan
    @RLrayan8 ай бұрын

    Thank you mum Ruth for enlightening us

  • @mutesisylvia5304
    @mutesisylvia53048 ай бұрын

    Thanxs for da show,, mummy and daughter we love u ❤

  • @NabatanziHsckk
    @NabatanziHsckk8 ай бұрын

    Nice message for us thanks dear we are waiting for next time

  • @royserunkuma118
    @royserunkuma1188 ай бұрын

    Thank you guys, let's wake up as parents, this world is going nuts in all corners

  • @namukisaphionah4963
    @namukisaphionah49639 ай бұрын

    Mukama mpa family I behave like Ruth to my kids 🙏🙏🙏

  • @ant8952
    @ant89529 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤waaw my inspiration person forever

  • @imeldanakityo7004
    @imeldanakityo70049 ай бұрын

    Thanks for teaching us ruth and daughter.

  • @florenceflower9816
    @florenceflower98169 ай бұрын

    Mum ruth 😊❤bring back your daughter❤both of u your talk is so sweet😊

  • @muwalawakatonda558
    @muwalawakatonda5589 ай бұрын

    This was beautiful Ruth 🥰🥰

  • @nakanjakoedith7686
    @nakanjakoedith76869 ай бұрын

    Thank you mummy Ruth and Hanisha for this wonderful talk,so educative please

  • @kalibbalabwanika

    @kalibbalabwanika

    9 ай бұрын

    Thanks for watching

  • @sulainakenge6123
    @sulainakenge61239 ай бұрын

    This is what my daughter's and son's miss ohh my God thanks it's the first time to come across your conversation but at least i have got something let me even subscribe

  • @lydianamata7642
    @lydianamata76429 ай бұрын

    I like the conversation and mummy Ruth you have a beautiful daughters like mine 😂😂😂 glory be to God

  • @kigongowinnie4014
    @kigongowinnie40148 ай бұрын

    I love Ruth n her daughter. You're incredible duo

  • @laviniahkirungu-id2ui
    @laviniahkirungu-id2ui9 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for blessed conversation btn mummy en daughter ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @ramulahmasembe
    @ramulahmasembe9 ай бұрын

    For sure onjigiriza how to talk with your daughter era am on hurry to see her again

  • @carolinebatwaawula8011
    @carolinebatwaawula80119 ай бұрын

    Boy friend part she is right, it's good to first confirm someone and then nomulaga abazadde , I enjoy mother & dota conversation big up ruth

  • @nakkazipeaceresty650
    @nakkazipeaceresty6509 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much Madam Ruth Owange mulenzi, bulijo mbade ntyamu okwogera naye. Kyoka bwenkikozi it was just easy and the boy looks happy and he just told me , mum thanks for being "a good mum and teach, am so Lucky to have you mum"

  • @florencebangi4475
    @florencebangi44759 ай бұрын

    Thanks so much dear mum Ruth and daugher Nisha,may the Almighty God bless you always 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @nalungadeborah3504
    @nalungadeborah35048 ай бұрын

    Woooow ❤, Thanks mdm Ruth and daughter 🥳

  • @jussynakalema2295
    @jussynakalema22959 ай бұрын

    Amazima Gali nti munsomeseza . Thanks for the conversation between mun and Daughter.

  • @tumainigrace8696
    @tumainigrace86967 ай бұрын

    Wow I thank God for my dad who throughout my childhood used to tell me that I am very bright and beautiful and it kept ringing in my heart till now❤

  • @nalubegakevin9031
    @nalubegakevin90319 ай бұрын

    I am feeling happy to see this bond between mum and daughter ❤❤

  • @NadiaRurw

    @NadiaRurw

    8 ай бұрын

  • @nambasadeborah7708
    @nambasadeborah77088 ай бұрын

    Banage thank you so much Ruth and Nisha,you left me smiling. Bonding with our children is really important ❤❤

  • @nakamogachris4601
    @nakamogachris46019 ай бұрын

    Thanks so much mummy and daughter more blessings 😘❤

  • @aminahkisha9708
    @aminahkisha97089 ай бұрын

    Thanks for this conversation

  • @prettyanitah4846
    @prettyanitah48469 ай бұрын

    The way am enjoying banage thanks for the mother and daughter conversations ❤

  • @kalibbalabwanika

    @kalibbalabwanika

    9 ай бұрын

    Thanks for watching

  • @prettyanitah4846

    @prettyanitah4846

    9 ай бұрын

    @@kalibbalabwanika it's my pleasure 🥰

  • @nanoshakira3884
    @nanoshakira38849 ай бұрын

    Thanks so much Ruth and daughter, waiting for part 2

  • @sharoncarol4905
    @sharoncarol49058 ай бұрын

    Its quite educative❤️

  • @nambozejosephine2656
    @nambozejosephine26569 ай бұрын

    Mummy and daughter thanks for the good information message

  • @nabiryejustine5590
    @nabiryejustine55909 ай бұрын

    Waawoo mummy nga afanana daughter eeee so so beautiful ❤❤❤❤

  • @gloriagorret4120
    @gloriagorret41209 ай бұрын

    Ruth and daughter I admire you alot especially that bond

  • @martharinebiseko1457
    @martharinebiseko14579 ай бұрын

    Love these hearty conversations

  • @Shifah-sharifah
    @Shifah-sharifah9 ай бұрын

    Wawooo beautiful

  • @Moureensanyu
    @Moureensanyu9 ай бұрын

    Ilove this bond ❤ I wanna go how to start being with my girl coz she is turning 9yrs soon i really want to bond with my girls iwant to be their best friends ❤❤❤

  • @sumayyahkalyegira106
    @sumayyahkalyegira1069 ай бұрын

    We do really need to hear this. Oh God!Bambi so many children got spoiled in this error bcz parents don't talk to them others have no even time for their children Thanks alot for the show 🥰🥰

  • @timothybalusaga8708
    @timothybalusaga87089 ай бұрын

    Yes thxs mom #always on point 😘👌👌

  • @rosenantale2800
    @rosenantale28009 ай бұрын

    I like her sound mind moreso wen she said none is safe really true and making our kids friends is more important n helps dat a child doesn't shy away from you and can easily confide in u incase of anything. Thx mom n baby Hanisha

  • @JOURNEYOFELEGANCEUG.
    @JOURNEYOFELEGANCEUG.9 ай бұрын

    Thank you Ladies ❤

  • @user-np1pf8ob5c
    @user-np1pf8ob5c9 ай бұрын

    Bigup bambi thxx

  • @gloriakasirye1793
    @gloriakasirye17939 ай бұрын

    Hello ba dear, I like your mum daughter conversation . I wish u could always have a topic on a weekly basis.

  • @scoviamasika-su2xk
    @scoviamasika-su2xk9 ай бұрын

    Thanks for this show,bannage I also met a friend's child in act these where young boys of around five to six years but the parents never minded,parents bannnage let's really be serious on this .Big up to Ruth and the daughter

  • @nakanjakkodorothy2032
    @nakanjakkodorothy20329 ай бұрын

    Webaale nyo bambi Ruth ,emboozi ne muwawo nyinakyengifunyeemu

  • @nalunkuumamoureen897
    @nalunkuumamoureen8979 ай бұрын

    This is amazing

  • @kirabostella8911
    @kirabostella89119 ай бұрын

    Bambi may God give such a connection to most parents with there children 😊. Madam Ruth well done bambi.

  • @wakoresty1343

    @wakoresty1343

    8 ай бұрын

    This bonding is built from childhood, it doesn't come as a miracle or from prayer, you need to struggle hard as a parent to bond freely with your kids, building confidence, keeping constant communication etc

  • @eiasemusisi6548
    @eiasemusisi65488 ай бұрын

    Awesome talk

  • @namulindwaprossy3515
    @namulindwaprossy35159 ай бұрын

    Mom and baby mbagala nyoo mwena banange ❤❤❤watching you from Saudi Arabia 🇸🇦

  • @zaharaperuth6366
    @zaharaperuth63669 ай бұрын

    Wow mother en dota I liked this conversation, it teaches me how to be friends with my children❤❤

  • @namaaalwamary4842
    @namaaalwamary48429 ай бұрын

    Wawooo l love the combination here mums love

  • @kalibbalabwanika

    @kalibbalabwanika

    9 ай бұрын

    Thanks for watching

  • @zeinprincess9355
    @zeinprincess93559 ай бұрын

    This is the woman of all seasons imagine with your daughter 💕 but you like sisters ❤❤❤

  • @kulthumhearts002
    @kulthumhearts0029 ай бұрын

    Mashalla ❤❤❤❤

  • @olivejacobs2509
    @olivejacobs25099 ай бұрын

    Ebiwooma biggwa byookya but thanks for the show I have picked up something ❤❤❤❤