As an American woman, it’s sad they don’t understand the power of the media.

@tailoredbynature6984

Жыл бұрын

Sister, our ancestors and us continues to oppose instructions/laws that was given to us for our longevity, prosperity, and protection. One such command, is not to let strangers/heathens rule over us, or place engraved imagies aka statues on our lands. In stating all that, The Most High gave us free will, and with those freedom comes responsibilities. In closing, we were told every man/woman is responsible for their own sins aka actions, so it's incumbent on us to change our actions, so we can get better outcomes.

@mavisburke495

Жыл бұрын

They donot understand or would reject any opinion that's not "modern" the power of media brainwashing they would say didnot apply to them, yet one women is clicking her fingers a sign of approval in poetry or spoken word forum, yes it's mimicking.

@stellabrown909

Жыл бұрын

@@tailoredbynature6984 well said. Thank you so much.

@tailoredbynature6984

Жыл бұрын

@@stellabrown909 Respect.

@k-dwanks2481

Жыл бұрын

There's nothing media does In south eastern Nigeria where I come from In the oldies women had more powers than men Women marry women uptil now in some traditions, Women barely cover themselves, even till now Not everything that happens from the west is from the west Some are our culture

As an African American women. All I have to say is they have no idea how they will destroy their country if they continue in this way. Please maintain your culture. Don't move away from it.

@jeromewilder763

Жыл бұрын

Spot on!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@BIGDJCUZOSMOKE

Жыл бұрын

ITS SISTAS LIKE U SIS, THATS GOIN TO BE THE DECIDING FACTOR OF BLK AMERICAN WOMENS SALVATION! BCUZ THEY NEED TO HEAR COMMENTS LIKE THAT FROM SISTAS LIKE YOU!! IT IS GREATLY APPRECIATED BCUZ THEY WILL NOT HEAR IT FROM US BLK MEN! WE TRYIN TO CONTROL THEM WHEN ALL WE WANT IS THEM TO BE RESPECTABLE BLK WOMEN!!

@killpaleface3279

Жыл бұрын

Too bad they won't listen. They are followers of the world(society of the United States)

@soinda87

Жыл бұрын

There’s part of the culture that’s needs to go. If you didn’t grow in Africa you’ve no idea and that’s what they’re saying. We still respect and love our men.

@kingo5027

Жыл бұрын

They will regret it if they follow amerkkas ways withing the regard of relationships and men , they better stop and pump their breaks for real n cherish their african brothers and customs n ways more.

There are many women who love being home taking care of the children, I did so and loved doing it, but there are men who do not value the work of a woman who remains home to care for the family. They become embolden to believe “I am the one who works and I make the decisions “ not desiring input from the woman at home.

@georgethecoconut3854

Жыл бұрын

A man who doesn't appreciate a house wife must be put in jail women are not here to take care of anything but the house and a man who doesn't appreciate is just a lazy man and there is no part in the world for a lazy man

As a proud Black DNA African woman, young women, yes strive and achieve greatness in your personal endeavors in this life. This being said, be very careful what you are asking for because you just might get it. The westernized aspirations do not necessary set the standard for all women in the world.

@giftofgodstarnorth6363

Жыл бұрын

Yes that’s were, most of our problems is because the westernised aspersions for their women dose not fit into the black economic structure, because there is a imbalance between as and them.

I’m loving this new way of interviewing/debating. Hopefully we get to see more content like this on this channel with different topics for us curious diasporan brothers and sisters living out of Africa. Also mad props to the beautiful black Kenyan & Ugandan sistas.

@charlottebenyahsharel5833

Жыл бұрын

I have to ask you Will, why do you want to smack Yah?🤦🏾‍♀

@phyllisyovone1685

Жыл бұрын

Insecurity, Jeolosy, and hatred is real!

@phyllisyovone1685

Жыл бұрын

Wow! They are liberated, now! Now U know why, the African men"s yse to say, all the tine The American women!

@MsAppassionata

Жыл бұрын

@@phyllisyovone1685 Huh?

This was a very great conversation to watch. No fighting, no disrespect , nothing but love. I like the way they carry themselves.

@MariaGomez-nq1kf

Жыл бұрын

Of course they're not African American

@chunkyandjay

Жыл бұрын

@@MariaGomez-nq1kf I'm really so sick of people like you stereotyping all African American woman the same, I've been all over the world, not all blk women from other Continents or Countries are respectful, but what's makes me upset, wend others try to drag African American women, but everytime we turn around, they come to America trying to rip the benefits our ancestors fought so hard for, but talk rubbish on African American women, please do me a favor please stop talking and acting like you know all about African American women, because you don't, you look at to much of the media, portraying all African American woman all together, we are all totally different and we are not all disrespectful and fight over debates or conversations on important issues. I'm a African American woman and I carry myself with high respect even the way I dress for Yahuah, no short skirts, no trousers like a man, I am a woman, and I conduct myself as one, we are not all wild and out of control like you try to portray us, so next time you want to get on the platform stereotyping African American women, please educate yourself that African American women are just like any other blk women from other Countries, some are respectful and some are not....

@nightswan1234

Жыл бұрын

Very well said Ramona!!! As another AA woman I have nothing else to add ❤

@MsAppassionata

Жыл бұрын

@@chunkyandjay But she did not say African American women. She said African Americans. Did I miss something?

Congrats on reaching 200k subscribes GB2A! 🎊🎈🎈👍🏽✊🏾 I didn't even notice!

Being a black American woman I think black woman get this stereotype of being overly sexualized. All black American women are not the same as I’m sure all African women are not the same. Your discussion was a very good one. Our culture in the US is completely different than African women's culture in Africa . We are taught at a young age to be independent and not to rely on a man. You have a lot of unmarried black women in the US. The values and morels in men are different in the US. Women don’t feel the respect here from men as they may feel in Africa. This is my opinion and other black American women may feel differently.

@mavisburke495

Жыл бұрын

Many African women seen in social media are becoming oversexualize because they copy western media, movie, reality shows. Soon they suffer being ignored or disrespected like women here.

@coldhardtruth333

Жыл бұрын

But the majority are

@mavisburke495

Жыл бұрын

@@coldhardtruth333 Who can say the majority of anyone is sexual, European women are known to be sexual yet they are presented to be saints.

@virgomoonchild6302

Жыл бұрын

@@mavisburke495 exactly 💯

@multifacetedshaye6657

Жыл бұрын

Why isn't this conversation posed young men

A lot of times women and men chose the wrong partners in life.some time lust some time money..and then some time you grow apart..we live and learn..LIFE LESSONS.

@twanacisse3950

Жыл бұрын

So true picking the right partner is important

I'm in America but i rather an African dressed woman. I want a woman that respect herself and her body and demands that same respect from people..

@lorebay2593

Жыл бұрын

I dress very well as a black American woman an have self respect as taught by my mother.

@thisme392

Жыл бұрын

@@lorebay2593 that's 👏🏿👏🏿 we need more like you

@mavisburke495

Жыл бұрын

Agreed they see revealing outfits has showing confidence, self love, then men response is "cat calling," disrespect sometime a outfits is you seeking attention .

@willsmackyahsmith9796

Жыл бұрын

@@lorebay2593 Much love sista.❤

@melala7385

Жыл бұрын

And I prefer men that aren't the most conquered on the planet. Men that aren't known for comitting crimes and abandoning their children and blaming the white man for their own short cummings. If you want to compare lets do that I'm prepared.

I am from Ghana and moved to America when I was 5. I have lived here for over 20 years and these ladies have no idea what kind of pandoras box they are opening by trying to be like black American women. I understand that they don't want to be looked down upon by men in their culture, but there needs to be a compromise between the two parties and not women just claiming freedom and running off in a different direction than the men. They have no idea how expensive it is to live in America because everyone has to work. When you double the work force, everyone makes less money. I would love to be able to be a stay at home wife and focusing on home schooling our kids instead of both of us working just to make ends meet. It's a long rat race and the only ones who win are the wealthy.

But I think in my opinion we as African both men and women can modernize our own way rather than copying from the west. Liberate yourself with what you have, modernized what you have and improve your life but copying from others which is destroying them doesn't make any sense. African women don't copy anything from others, improve your own let others admire you.

@mavisburke495

Жыл бұрын

That's the major problem Africans DONOT think they can modernize without copying or mimicking the west, then they are insulted when it's pointed out that they are being robots, how many same talking points were copied in the video including mannerism etc.

@willsmackyahsmith9796

Жыл бұрын

That’s true brother. Our women barely copy culture because we have so much rich history in Africa as a whole. Tbh, the only times I’ve seen them imitate the western black culture is out here in the western world.

@nightswan1234

Жыл бұрын

That suggest that ALL Western culture is not bad just as ALL African culture certainly isn’t ALL good! Yes? Where is common ground my question?

@twanacisse3950

Жыл бұрын

Great thinking fresh and much needed. A more healthy responds towards creative solutions for a complex of problems.

It feels like the point is missed. It is about respect. Women all over the world want to be treated with respect regardless of the choice to have an education and career or be a housewife who rears the children and makes the house a home. We should want to respect each other and work together.

@twanacisse3950

Жыл бұрын

So true

@twanacisse3950

Жыл бұрын

So so so true 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

Just speaking about the dressing issue - As an American woman of African ancestry albeit I like wearing my pants during colder days, I wish I could afford some of the beautiful African garments women in Africa wear. Covered up? Heck, still beautiful. By the way, no style of clothing has ever protected any female from any sick predator.

@nanayaa.5325

Жыл бұрын

Real talk.

@virgomoonchild6302

Жыл бұрын

Facts

@twanacisse3950

Жыл бұрын

True

@smileycoast5331

Жыл бұрын

Amen

Meg the Stallion would be full agreement with these women in their "liberation."

@unwind1183

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

Only thing missing from the conversation is a African man's input

This is a very messy conversation. You have two men from the U.S. who want women to be women and yet have a queen. Their questions are so messy. I applaud these African women who never backed away from the conversation and did a GREAT job.

09:50 Red hair scarf had it right the first time because her subconscious mind kicked in ("you dressing indecently") but then she switched when she realised that comment wouldn't fit the narrative she's trying to justify. I'm sorry but if a skirt is (too) short then it is obviously indecent. Clothes don't justify how a person should be treated but let's not pretend that there aren't boundaries when it comes to decent and indecent attire 🤦🏽‍♀️.

@uri-yahu

Жыл бұрын

I thought the same exact thing

@BIGDJCUZOSMOKE

Жыл бұрын

THK U QUEEN FOR THAT QUEENLY STATEMENT!! WHY DO THESE WOMEN THINK AN FEEL THAT THEY CAN DRESS AN FEEL ANYWAY THAT THEY WANT WITHOUT ANY NEGATIVE ENERGY FROM BAD PEOPLE JUDGING AND MISJUDGING THEM SIMPLY ON HOW THEY ARE DRESSED AND HOW THEY PRESENT THEMSELVES!! THE WAY A WOMAN DRESS AN PRESENT HERSELF IS VERY TELLING OF WHO SHE IS, JUST LIKE WOMEN JUDGE MEN ON HOW THEY ARE DRESSED, THE BRAND OF CLOTHES THEY WERE, THE CAR AN MAKE OF THE CAR THEY DRIVE, AS WELL AS THE WATCH, AN THE SHOES AN SIZE OF THE SHOES A MAN WEAR, ALL THE WAY DOWN TO THE COLOGNE A MAN WEARS!! THESE ARE ALL THE THINGS MOST AMERICAN WOMEN JUDGE MEN ON, BUT WE SIMPLY CANT JUDGE A WOMAN WHO'S WEARIN A SKIMPY SKIRT THATS BARELY COVERING HER HOO HAW, AN THEN WHEN SHE ATTACKED BY PSYCHOS THATS OUT THER IN THE WORLD, ALL MEN ARE DOGS AN ANIMALS!! FOH!! I DONT THINK SO!! U CAN HAVE ALL YOUR FREEDOMS, BUT JUST KNOW FREEDOM IS ONLY A WORD, IT IS NOT FREE!! THERES A COST FOR ALL THE BAD DECISIONS THAT U WOMEN MAKE, AN YALL HAVE TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YALL ACTIONS, IJS!!

Aw, 😢Go Black 2 Africa you and your male friend miss out on a lot of points,

I love these young women. I want to thank them for speaking freely. 🥰

Brotha, GREAT conversation today...the best ever. You and Oshay dropped should serious knowledge for these young African women and the reviewers. Keep up the great work.

There are great points to draw from this interview. Feminism is not going anywhere. It’s here to remain because women want POWER just like men. I have three daughters. I am not teaching them to be a feminist. I want them to understand that we (men and women) are different and we play different roles. As a team, even while playing different roles, we can live in harmony. That’s the way the Universe intended us to be.

@twanacisse3950

Жыл бұрын

It’s not about wanting power. 6,0000 women are killed by their boyfriends and husbands a year in USA, 150,000 children are sold to porn, and sex trafficking by bad immoral men, right now Iran is on fire many people protesting in the street due to the death of a young woman only 23 years old by police because she did not wear her head scarf. Women want respect and protection. In Ghana young sisters are forced at certain universities to give male professors sex to get could grades. If you are beaten by your husband no police or male person in the family will come to her stop it. This has been going on for years. Two African American women were beheaded fighting in arguments with land guards in Ghana because they refuse to give them chop chop or dash cash. Why didn’t Go Black interview African women working in construction, corporate, Banking, Business, House wives, A woman going through divorce women fighting with one or two sister wives in the same house hold. I am proud to be a womanist and feminist and we do not hate men. The silly stuff about lifting a heavy sofa, or holding open the door is a insult. Why do you think a lot of women are forced to work. Go Back and read the slave narratives after they came out of slavery. Those Black women up still now had to work much much longer and harder long before the feminist movement due to racism. It was not a choice. Our grandmothers had to cook, cleaning domestic work, had to crawl on their needs, for white woken to keep their very large families from starvation . Who do you think kept things going when the KKK lynched our male folk? Who supported non busing, boycotting with Martin Luther King? Who supported the Black Panthers. Stop blaming sisters for white males BS. Who is still fighting and documenting the abuse in prison black women. I could go on and on . Yes you need to raise your daughter to demand respect. Right now women in Japan suffer sexual abuse and are choosing not to marry because they watch their mothers suffer and commit divide in some cases. In Iran, in Hawaii sisters are homeless and landless due to white wealthy males, from Indonesia’s, to Italy, to China, women are catching hell! Beatings on a daily bases. In Uganda they interviewed 25 men they said it we must beat our wives to keep them in line. Most of the filmed interviews were men under 35 years old. In Mali, Senegal and Nigeria some men not only continue to control their wives money, movement, and some still cut off the clitoris. I will not go on but the sex markets of Malaysia’s biggest economy is sex with small children. In Russia women are forced to use birth control by only abortion. In Somalian women can get ganged raped by a fractional tribal leader politically fighting his opponent. And you say we do not need a movement Aw!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! God spiritually is also female you will never never have peace and harmony in the universe when you disrespect the mother and even mother earth giving birth to substance life is the ancient symbol of a woman . Such fools some of you are. Half the world’s corrupt would end if men understood the balance of twinness! You must rule beside us not behind or in front but together. Your minds of some of you is so weak with out vision. But why?

@twanacisse3950

Жыл бұрын

All of this nonsense about the western influences . Yes of course they exist. That is why a African centered and pan African perspective is needed. But you can not appreciate or approach the complex subject matter from a decision of sexism or gender bias, or rage displacement from historical injustice of and by white males. Womenist do not hate men .

@twanacisse3950

Жыл бұрын

Sorry typing fast, i meant to say some in Japan are taught not divide but use death as away to end pain and abuse from their husbands if their husbands demand a divorce. Even if it’s not their fought. Say if he wants a new fresh wet youthful new bride, to than replace the old wife even if she still cooks for him. Same true in some corners of Pakistani men. They sat their wife’s on fire some of them to show her shame and embarrassment in front of the entire community. Then replace her in some cases with a child bride. They even exchange insurance police’s and bride prices between families. Of course some will say do not analysis other cultures. But in America’s past history your husband could give you a infection and put you in a insane hospital against your will. Take control of your kids , inheritance all of your cash, laws set in place to stop a woman from owning land, and blocking women or rather white women from getting custody of their children. Some Black women in the Deep South and past history in USA could not do certain legal things without their Black male folks permission, just look it up it’s in the history legal documents for research. Today some women loose their memories and end up in nursing homes against their will while in some cases the husbands then take over her bank account and move in the new lover, girlfriend, new to be wife, or worst some have sex with their caregiver of their wife. Legal power of Attorney problems are real!!!!! This is not about , oh I married a boy not a man. People change over time in a marriage of 25 or 5o years. Greed, selfishness, and the ability to no longer in some cases giving your partner sex after getting sick can be the case. And this can happen to men too, not just women. Life is complex and so are most people.

@markaurelius61

Жыл бұрын

Feminism is an unbalanced view of life that destroys the relationships between men and women. It seems beyond us to get the balance right but I hope we can eliminate both feminism and the apparent need for it.

@sv6775

Жыл бұрын

@@markaurelius61 It’s a matter of the heart. Hurt & pain leads to a hardened heart and rebellion. Healing is needed amongst us along with spiritual cleansing. 🙏🏾❤️

Out of curiosity. I would also love to see and hear more of this type of debate platform setting from our West African, Central African & South African sistas.

African woman you are beautiful and so is the African-American woman. God has devine purpose for woman and it definitely is not for you to be treated in a disrespectful and derogatory manner.

@sv6775

Жыл бұрын

Amen 🙏🏾 ❤️

Where are the ladies’ shoes, Mr. ODJ?

We really need to tackle the topic of how colonization (Islam and Christianity)had an impact on African cultures, especially regarding roles prior to the disruption.

Great conversation, waiting for part 2, would love to see it opened up with a few brothers from different levels of society, Class wise.

@nightswan1234

Жыл бұрын

Yes, that would or should reveal another perspective. People generally speak from their personal experiences.

Why, why, why would goblack collaborate with the likes of Oshay? Men discussing feminism with women is unproductive. Goblack needs to be speaking to oshay about masculinity not be sitting like little old ladies talking to women about their dam clothes, femininity and other crap.

@pattiamoh1136

Жыл бұрын

Goblack should deal with men issues

This was an awesome discussion I throughly enjoyed it and all points were valid.

I think that these women want to be treated as human! I'm all for Women having human rights, maybe it's because I'm a woman and not a man looking for some woman to submit, just a thought. Traditional African clothes do show women's bodies. So we are having these Old men talking to very young women. Where are the women his age. By the way modestly dressed women get raped every day. Children get raped everyday. Rape is a man's choice.

You can't make this ish up. This is the same handbook back in the 80's when we were growing up.

This was just so empowering. Seeing and hearing my smart, intelligent and mature fellow black brothers and sisters having conversations that matter. Keep it up @GoBlackToAfrica & @OshayDukeJackson you both are individually making a difference and we see, hear, and are inspired by you guys as well as many others... Keep educating & Keep fighting the good fight. Sending yall positive vibes and energy from Argentina, Tho am originally Jamaican hahahaha

@sarah.sonninem

Жыл бұрын

Whats empowering about them taking up western ideologies?

Great Well Needed Conversation! I also will love to see different variations of age groups of ones of Africa and also from the west having these questions presented.

WHY AREN'T THEY HAVING THIS CONVERSATION WITH YOUNG AFRICAN MEN? ASKING THEM WHAT HIS ROLE IS?

@sv6775

Жыл бұрын

Good question 🙏🏾

What I'd noticed here is that no one is talking over each other. They're all listening while each makes their points before they comment. They don't do that over here anymore. Both sides have valid points. Culture is a big thing over there that will dictate how the women per those African countries will gravitate towards what they see over here. Understandable. It's like seeing women over in Afghanistan dealing with the conditions over there. The problem isn't about wanting change. The problem is the toxicity of that coming from here in the States. "GO BLACK TO AFRICA", gave some examples. And the LGBTQ community is a prime example next to white feminist. And it's feminist that has opened pandoras box for the transgender community where they will fight for that same equality. And many feminist are not happy with it. But they fail to accept that thry created that Frankenstein that has backfired on them.

Sisters you cannot do both work and raise a family. You can't do both of them well. One need to be there for the child. My husband was the smart one well read. I was the one that was the go-getter. We worked it out. We was married 11 years and then decided to have a child. When he got hurt on his job. He stayed home and homeschooled our daughter. I went out and worked. You just cannot do both well. if you are out there working and your husband is out there working. There's no one raising the child but the streets. Somebody needs to be at home when the child just need someone to talk to not a babysitter Plus someone might be beating on your child and you will not find out until years later most of the time. one has to stay home and take care of home. that's the way I see it. We made decisions together on everything. I was raised in the family where my mom yelled and screamed and beat me. my husband was raised the same. that's the way it was then. but my husband said we were not going to do that to our daughter. we were going to make her a thinker. and that's exactly what we did no bathing no yelling. if I was mad at her when she was a teenager my husband told me to come to him and he would talk to her. and he told her the same thing if she was mad at me come to him and he would talk to me. that helped me get through her teenage years. like I said it takes both parents.

@tombimashri8149

Жыл бұрын

Truth

@mavisburke495

Жыл бұрын

Excellent points freedom shouldnot mean selfish, I know it all or I can do it all because I am independent that will be a disappointment and tiring, those women are MORE concern with finance, their mothers couldn't have been happy or content without wealth or careers is their opinion.

Wow I wish I could have been on this panel. There were so many additional questions, comments, and concerning view points I wish I would have had more clarification on.

Great conversations had. These are definitely the topics we need to be discussing. Mr Go Black has the golden voice.

Shout out to Oshay in that nice floral. The video has the perfect touch and looks brilliant.

Funny how you got Oshay there who has disdain for black women

@TheCelebrityJunk

Жыл бұрын

All u do is comment for years while doing nothing hating all day working for the white man and dusty

@sv6775

Жыл бұрын

James 1:8 🙏🏾

Congratulations on 200k.Go Black 2 Africa.

I'm African but Ugandan are too strict on theirwomen

Quite interesting conversation and thanks for the exposure. But it will be interesting to watch if you can pitch a debate between the African men and women to see what comes out of it.

@africaine4889

Жыл бұрын

I would love to see that

As an African American women, I see some differences but they shouldn’t look to us as role models. They should set the standard.

@tlfa5554

Жыл бұрын

There are a lot of African American role models (men and women) we just need to carefully choose who we want to follow

@africaine4889

Жыл бұрын

They are not looking to black american women. All they want a bit of changes in the african culture where some tribes treat women like nothing.

Great discussion guys I enjoyed 🥰

God gave us dress code for a reason.

@ayubarosalia9362

Жыл бұрын

Which God???

@kingra9186

Жыл бұрын

@@ayubarosalia9362 That's a good question.

@MariaGomez-nq1kf

Жыл бұрын

Not to dress so revealing

@MariaGomez-nq1kf

Жыл бұрын

Ayuba to answer your question, the God of Abraham Isaac and Jacob

@multifacetedshaye6657

Жыл бұрын

@@MariaGomez-nq1kf Soooooooo you don't go to the beach? I can see someone completely nake... I am not going to RAPE SOMEONE. I have self control.

Does Oshay and those ladies know that there is a concerted effort to engineer changes -- social engineering? Luckily for India, Rajiv Malhotra spotted this effort in his country and actually pinpointed it to a Texan organization and called them out. I remember many times the US gov made it clear they wanted to allocate money towards gender things aimed at Muslim countries and African countries.

@fromabove422

Жыл бұрын

He does

@blkqueen6201

Жыл бұрын

They are accepting social changes being incorporated by European standards they are desperately trying to find ground to bring in homosexuality.

@mavisburke495

Жыл бұрын

Those ladies donot know or understand social engineering ,they believe those ideas are coming about because they are modern women.Their basic mindset is that their mother generation was a failure. There were 3women, how many were truly listening and will seek Information about the women movement ? Everything do have consequences and involve sacrifice ,they maybe too young to realize ,you can't have it all at the same time.

@pattiamoh1136

Жыл бұрын

If a man is having a affair it has nothing to do with me

@nicholasdouglas1564

Жыл бұрын

They've been eyeing the strong woman objective but not the title of strong FAMILIES. This is the power of INFLUENCE, the culture is no longer defining itself but has allowed OTHERS to do so and as usual, it ALWAYS does more HARM than good. We have to realize the ONLY reason OTHER women can be demanding to be equals with their men was the fact they TRADITIONALLY were treated with scant regard(unlike the experience of women on the continent pre-colonial era); plus in order for you to fight for wealth/prosperity there must be a source/market. The continent and her children have ALWAYS been the source of wealth/market for EVERYONE and doing anything to cause the PEOPLE TO REALIZE AND CORRECT THAT wouldn't suite those BENEFITTING. So, instead, the PEOPLE are being further DIVIDED/CONFUSED to embrace things they could SIMPLY EXAMINE is nonsensical and guarantees the further breakdown and destruction of an already struggling continent/culture. It is of utmost importance for the PEOPLE to NEVER BE ALLOWED TO THINK FOR THEMSELVES as that would make them see the games played on them and the bag of rubbish they're choosing over something tangible as the continent and enduring as the culture they're giving up. The reason the ancestors placed those guidelines/rules were to keep away from temptations and situations which would destroy the famiky/society they spent 1000 000s of years fixing instead of REINVENTING THE WHEEL THE GENERATION IS UP TO TODAY.

Why aren't men spending a 10th of the time working on themselves as they do consistently and obsessively worrying about what women are doing?

@nanayaa.5325

Жыл бұрын

Good point they forget about themselves.

@shadeedmuhammad8107

Жыл бұрын

Maybe older women should be doing the same thing for the men. Like mothers and grandmothers. Not saying that it is impossible but may take ones life time to understand but with help may make the ride easier. Some things the opposite can help out in ways that one may miss

@sv6775

Жыл бұрын

🙏🏾❤️

@notorioushebrew4793

Жыл бұрын

@@shadeedmuhammad8107 maybe the men should be doing for the men. That's the damned problem now..they expect women to do everything. When and wtf are they doing? BESIDES WORRYING ABOUT WOMEN?? NOTHING??? OH..OK

Excellent conversation..go black you really gave some gud insights to the ladies for them to think about..there are some harmful covert agendas being pushed from the west n our women should be wise & discern these influences.

Oshay I have listened to some of your videos and I noticed that you also have a ANTI FBA Attitude and why are you not married?

@OshayDukeJackson

Жыл бұрын

@@thankyoumuch4287 brother I make more money than you and your mother I could have been your father if I wanted

Congratulations to 200K 🥳🥳🥳

These three women are elegant and intelligent. Their responses are well thought out and expressed clearly. The girl in the middle was very wise in her questioning. @31:48 Oshays monologues were jumbled word salad conflating women competing in the job market and competing for a protector and provider. Typical condescending manosphere talking points. to get

@blackbeauty_77

Жыл бұрын

So much manipulation it's ridiculous. I need them to verify when black women have ever been protected! Oshay use to talk about black women so bad, he was the second coming of Sotomayor. Now he moved to a place where he can try and manipulate women.

I wholeheartedly agree with YOU GB2A!!!!!

There are trying to confuse these girls

Educational conversation. Congratulations!

Peace & Grace GoBlack! I really wish they would have examined the analogy you made about the lion. They would have realized the responsibility women have in the way we are treated. Great conversation!

This conversation was lit 🔥🔥🔥 👍🏾

I hope Africans can create African solutions for African problems. The west is full of over corrections because there is no dialog and the disfunction often benefits political or financial interests.

I wonder what the men of their countries and ethnic groups think.

We must study African Tradition so we can gain understanding and Clarity so we can restore them based on the world we have inherited.

By far my favorite Pan-African colab. Good stuff guys

Oshay is a freemason... Duke of what? Smh

King Solomon’s Mom wrote Psalms 31 the 1st paragraph she told him how to be a King 1st: sober minded to make wise decisions, then the rest of the paragraphs to seek no woman that tears down the home n man, seek a woman that had a business to support her man children n run their home etc

Great discussion

I learned much from this beautiful conversation and I love that the women were not loud, demanding and over talking the brothers. Great interview! ❤

@sv6775

Жыл бұрын

Who can love a tyrant? How difficult is is to treat others as you wish to be treated? Ephesians 5:28-33 🙏🏾

This was a dope interview and these women were dope and feminine. Love to see it. 💯💪🏾

I love the young ladies responses. Even though I can see both sides

As a young man in America my personal opinion with the argument is us as men need to rather focus on building our mindsets up to become the better leaders and become the examples the beauty women we have, want to end up marrying I see too much of this blame game when we have the power to change things a lot of us are lazy and just expect women to listen just because when that shouldn’t even be a concept become a man of value and this will not be an issue

@nightswan1234

Жыл бұрын

They are purposely missing it. These guys here want to have it both ways and the Duke especially wants to change the narrative, better yet keep the old non functioning mind set of tug of war that too many men want to keep going b/c then they do not have to pay do diligence to upgrading especially their mindset! All that really needs to turn this whole mess around is for the men to step up and concentrate on being the best man he can be for his own secure self worth. This is the thing. What if the upstanding confident man do when he is rejected by a clown of a women? He instinctively walks off/moves on;no need to ask her anything else! Don’t try to convince her your the guy for her! Don’t broad cast your rejection to other men,just know the clown idiot did you a favor and learn to receive that rejection as a blessing from further negative involvement with her & others like her. Don’t waste positive energy! Let clowns be clowns; not your job to straighten her out! If men work on themselves trust good women won’t be sooo hard to find! The clowns will take notice and some will even change if the real men continue to past them up for the woman who is ALSO working to be her best! For men & women if you aren’t respected right out of the gate…………keep it moving!!! That’s not the one!

@nightswan1234

Жыл бұрын

And why are all the women barefoot here?

Go black 2Africa we want a Part 2

Wonderful conversation

Women continue the culture and traditions by staying home and raising the children. Don't let someone else raise them, not babysitters or schools. It's scary for women to be dependent, so men really need to treat women with kindness and respect.

@tombimashri8149

Жыл бұрын

What if one is a single mum in Africa how would they survive without working or hawking to feed the bay ND herself. There are rich ND poor people in Africa and their Governments don t give any assistance

@tombimashri8149

Жыл бұрын

Correction: to feed the baby

@susanbigknife

Жыл бұрын

@@tombimashri8149 If a woman is a single mom then the man has already failed and the woman has to do what she can to survive. That's why men need to be better before women can be dependent on them.

I’m a seasoned senior Black American female and here in America I’m seeing that some of us Black women are moving towards how the African females are dressing, natural hair wearing, beauty cosmetics, etc. I, myself are wearing my natural hair and do have some African attire that was given to me by some African friends, I’ve ALWAYS been natural in my body so not wearing makeup was never for me. I started watching African movies because they were NOT as the Westerner movies, but NOW I’ve noticed that the African movies are now moving towards the Westerner movies.

@redeemedliving2342

Жыл бұрын

Same here, All NATURAAAALLLL, and I to have been watching Afrikan movies for a few years now, because it wasn't overly sexual, but now, it's getting a little out of control and I see that they are pushing lesbianism as well in some of the movies. SMH

@cjamison_1

Жыл бұрын

I love Nollywood more so than American movies. They are non violent, very few sexual in nature. Always a lesson to be learned. African culture is very rich. Respect for the elders, family parents is so strong.

@emmabarnes9835

Жыл бұрын

It’s because of the buy out or collaboration of African producers with the” Hollywood” industry, so sad…it’s the same thing with the music. I’ve said this before watch the changes more white people, more Asians( women focus of desire) less sisters period! I see it clearly.

@immaculate2197

Жыл бұрын

The only movies who do that is South Africa , I saw one of their movie they were imitating AA . But Nollywood is different

Loving this platform

@WealthyThomas

Жыл бұрын

I'm a few minutes in and they sound like they have to get botched into a circumstance before they understand what is important.

@WealthyThomas

Жыл бұрын

Sad how effective western media is controlling the mind of the young.

Great conversation, I was hoping the topic of bride price would have been injected, and someone would explain why a woman's parents deserve "appreciation|" and a mans does not.

Oshay was getting too emotional. 😁

@mavisburke495

Жыл бұрын

O'shay appears to be speaking from his experience he feels a woman wants the best while giving the minimum.

@virgomoonchild6302

Жыл бұрын

He always is😒😒

@yayahallene3207

Жыл бұрын

@@mavisburke495 exactly. He spoiled the entire conversation. he is better.

@daviwilliam281

Жыл бұрын

@@virgomoonchild6302 you are a hater

When your running away from yourself you will seek yourself in many places. A mind that is not liberated does know what it means to be free-dom

Goblack it would be very interesting to have a panel of men to voice their opinion and concerns on same topics...skimpy clothes or modesty.

If you look loose, you’ll find men who have loose eyes” that’s bars right there. My daughter is 6 months old but I’m definitely gonna tell her that when she becomes of age.

Women should dress modest I feel sorry for our youth boys and th men because some women wants to show their body parts and it's for attention because some are insecure. Dressing half naked brings you trouble and when your disrespected by men then woman gets mad screaming men are so disrespectful when some woman don't have any respect for themselves.

@africaine4889

Жыл бұрын

So what will younsay about african women that walk around with bare breadts and short traditional wraps?

@dianeclemons7576

Жыл бұрын

🙂Hi Mrs Accountability how are you today? Yes ma'am I agree with you.

It’s the truth A Real Woman set the standard and can teach a Man Soooooooooooooooooooooooo Much . She can also learn from Her Man as Well

True Jezebel spirit

@sv6775

Жыл бұрын

Learned behavior, perhaps? From the opposite sex, maybe?

Yes I agree things must change.

The question is are the traditional submissive and meek African women protected by their men? Domestic violence and rape stats are crazy here, especially in rural areas where women are homemakers and financially dependent on their husbands.

The young lady are well spoken as they should. There is much more for all of us to learn more from the African American diaspora. African woman are going through their own transition which takes them away from a man dominated society. Interestingly itself is the fact that most African American Knowledge about our own experience have been limited by design, and remain the same as we speak today. How the women liberation of women in America have ruined the family. This discussion involves allot of individual perception and view which is find nevertheless, hopefully these young women don't leave with the perception that this is a generalized view of the African American community continues to struggle with their own identity. Today's scholars continues to new things every single day!

@twanacisse3950

Жыл бұрын

Well said

Who cares about Kevin Samuel's. All he did is put women down, we do not miss him at all

This is reality loving the way you all are breaking this down?

For anyone tuning in, it turns into a manosphere debate. When blue shirt starts to dominate, just go ahead and click out, it doesn't get any better.

If you are also going to idealize marriage, and bring up the topic of women getting married less, then you should also bring the high domestic violence cases that have driven a lot of African women to not wanting to marry, nor submit to a man. Oshay is also bringing African American views. A lot of African men and women are still getting married because they value marriage and family, unlike African American (men) culture. In Africa, a household where both the man and woman work is normal because child care and house help is cheap (so the challenges you bring up does not apply or rather it applies to those living in the village). A household where both couples work is the norm and is needed to make ends meet. Look at all the African female nurses in the USA, a lot of them are in their 60s, a clear show that women have been working for ages in Africa. STOP BRING (APPLYING) AFRICAN AMERICAN IDEOLOGIES AND CHALLENGES TO AFRICA.

@gy7422

Жыл бұрын

Black women and black women and children working ever since slavery please you don't know what you talking about 🙄🤨

@mizzobjectiveone3819

Жыл бұрын

@@gy7422 Actually, she does know what she's talking about because black American men and women are toxic and have a fractured culture. They bash each other, which makes one curious as to why two African Americans are preoccupied with the women of other cultures when they would only bring the same toxicity to their narrative if given the opportunity.

@tlfa5554

Жыл бұрын

Yes but how many African women know that they’re husband is cheating and they pretend they dont see , this is the difference in the Western world most of the women dont want to take it no more , most of the African men i know look at other ladies im African and i know that , being present not always means being loyal 😅

I hope they understand the power of the media

This guy in blue shirt is irritating me. He's Hella insecure. And I'm positive he has issue with colorism.

@OshayDukeJackson

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for your criticism

These broad statements to describe what Black Women want ignores a large portion of us who do not fit these narratives. I am not a feminist, I am a womanist with no need to be "equal" to a man when I fully embrace my power as a woman. It is about people who can fully respect one another. You have to have self love and treat yourself the way you want to be treated. You should not want more than you are willing to give on either side. You should share values and plans for growing together throughout life.

@twanacisse3950

Жыл бұрын

Again well said

@twanacisse3950

Жыл бұрын

True

Stay cultural! 🖤🇹🇹

American women compete with each other all the time, who has the newest trendy clothes, accessories etc.. Its just a game

@tombimashri8149

Жыл бұрын

Think majority Black women are the same not only American women.

@mavisburke495

Жыл бұрын

She was talking about competing with men or for men they tried several times to clarify that but it still wasnot clear.

Sister's, our ancestors and us continues to oppose instructions/laws that was given to us for our longevity, prosperity, and protection. One such command, is not to let strangers/heathens rule over us, or place engraved imagies aka statues on our lands. In stating all that, The Most High gave us free will, and with those freedom comes responsibilities. In closing, we were told every man/woman is responsible for their own sins aka actions, so it's incumbent on us to change our actions, so we can get better outcomes.

Ayibobo pou ou frèm 🇭🇹💪🏿🇭🇹💪🏿🇭🇹💪🏿

Change will always find a way...This guest dude is WAY to Emotional 🙄

Beautiful women on the panel 😍❤

Women are your nurtures ,mother ,grandmother aunties holding the family together. When the Man is right in the house offering very little. The Women has to run the hold SHOW not necessarily because she wants to its because the challenge is place in front of her.

@sv6775

Жыл бұрын

🙏🏾

Women must do what they want. Men must stay out of it. Also if you are looking for a pre-colonial Africa, IT IS GONE, ALL GONE.

A social worker can not get paid the same as an engineer