u don’t get it, u just don’t get it ☹️

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  • @cincries
    @cincries Жыл бұрын

    the song is “party girl” by lana del rey (unreleased), ill stop replying to the comments ‼️ *You guys are very welcome to vent here (anybody can talk about their body, not just skinny people!), I’ll delete all the hate comments(INCLUDING THE “you’re so lucky” comments) to make you feel comfortable, vent all you want, some people might relate to you and you can have a talk with them :) This vid isn’t aim at people w specific body types!! It’s aimed at people who won’t respect our insecurities and I saw some of them in the comments getting mad* 💀 my personal rant lmao “omg you are so lucky to be skinny, be grateful 😱😱”, that’s like telling me i am not allowed to have insecurities about my body, any type of body shaming is bad. if u want somebody to respect u, u better do it back bc im NOT letting y’all come in my comment section and start yapping 😭🙏🙏

  • @maureenodonnell8042

    @maureenodonnell8042

    Жыл бұрын

    I feel the same way like bro don't be mad at us skinny also insecure ppl that your fat and lazy

  • @Ang3l_l33

    @Ang3l_l33

    Жыл бұрын

    Or when someone says have you feed your kid she so skinny or when there proud of you for getting over 60 pounds be happy for you kid that there healthy still and that they eat it toxic

  • @luna_love5700

    @luna_love5700

    Жыл бұрын

    I dont like my body or height I mean I'm skinny but makes me shorter

  • @Wonderhoe69420

    @Wonderhoe69420

    Жыл бұрын

    Same☹️

  • @Dayren.

    @Dayren.

    Жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @saiharazq.
    @saiharazq. Жыл бұрын

    "your so skinny" "your so fat!" pick one god damn it i cant keep trying to please you with my body 🙁

  • @faithbauer5042

    @faithbauer5042

    3 ай бұрын

    One of my friends do that😕

  • @jadonthebullrider5932

    @jadonthebullrider5932

    3 ай бұрын

    Bro I get called fat a lot by my friends my parents my brothers and sister

  • @xSharkiexjessiex

    @xSharkiexjessiex

    2 ай бұрын

    Then don't life is too fucking short to care what people that you don't even know/like think of you

  • @itsyourdudealix

    @itsyourdudealix

    Ай бұрын

    @@xSharkiexjessiexthats the spirit

  • @zero_the_artist_

    @zero_the_artist_

    Ай бұрын

    I can relate. Very very much.

  • @eventful.poniess
    @eventful.poniess Жыл бұрын

    “Girl you need to put on some weight!” “I’m too skinny” “Loose some weight” “I’m too fat” “Count your calories” “I wish I was dead at this point” 😢

  • @torkslay

    @torkslay

    Жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @Heather-ip8sd

    @Heather-ip8sd

    Жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @MohamedMagdy-wg3wy

    @MohamedMagdy-wg3wy

    Жыл бұрын

    Boi same they are saying that ur so fat look at yourself aren't you embarrassed

  • @eventful.poniess

    @eventful.poniess

    Жыл бұрын

    @@MohamedMagdy-wg3wy sometimes people don’t know what your going through that’s what hits hard

  • @lleane826

    @lleane826

    11 ай бұрын

    Same.

  • @Fish..Plug.
    @Fish..Plug. Жыл бұрын

    my family keeps teasing me of my skinniness, but when i actually gain weight from eating, they still tease me, it feels like im never perfect.

  • @__lummy

    @__lummy

    Жыл бұрын

    same but im fat

  • @Chen.roblox

    @Chen.roblox

    10 ай бұрын

    Fr same.

  • @aki_san
    @aki_san Жыл бұрын

    My friends all keep telling me that "I'm a stick." I already know but them reminding on a daily basis is starting to hurt. I know I'm underweight for my age and my doctor says that I can eat more, but I'm already eating as much as I possibly can. I could have sweets and lie in my bed all day, and only gain a pound or two. I know I shouldn't bring myself down with my insecurities and it's just hurting me more, but it's not easy to stop being insecure and moving on from that "phase". I hate my body, I hate my face, I hate everything about me except for my talents and smarts. I hate how I have belly fat and can't do anything to get rid of it. I hate my mother for reminding me I have fat and how she's encouraging my brother to do the same. I hate how people see me on the outside and not the inside. I hate how people don't see how others are struggling with their own problems. I hate how people try to bring others down "just because they can." I'm sorry. I just had get it out of my system, but now it feels like I have more weight on my shoulders for typing this. I know I'm not one to talk and people say that "I should be grateful God gave me this body." but I don't feel grateful at all. I feel sad and empty because of how I look. I'm sorry, again...

  • @aki_san

    @aki_san

    Жыл бұрын

    @@turkeevr9065 Thank you ❤

  • @chips3536

    @chips3536

    Жыл бұрын

    It’s ok. You should feel proud and it’s ok to have insecurities. I posted a comment about my family saying I’m “overweight” and I’m glad I’m not the only one going through this even if our experiences are a bit different

  • @IDontHaveANamejustcallmeA

    @IDontHaveANamejustcallmeA

    Жыл бұрын

    Ur pretty I’m skinny too not sure how skinny you are but I know u are still pretty

  • @IDontHaveANamejustcallmeA

    @IDontHaveANamejustcallmeA

    Жыл бұрын

    @@chips3536 I have a friend who’s like you but everyone in school loves her and she’s really popular so if she can be loved you can also

  • @amandamiddlebrook8083

    @amandamiddlebrook8083

    11 ай бұрын

    Don’t be sorry for being sad

  • @xxsleepy_
    @xxsleepy_ Жыл бұрын

    “I’m not skinny…” “Bro shut up and just stop eating or something” *things I get at school…*

  • @aoi142

    @aoi142

    Жыл бұрын

    Same, there is a guy who literally calls me short and fat, it hurts a lot. I just can't stop eating, I never feel hungry so I don't know when to stop. (btw I'm using a translator, so sorry if I spell something wrong)

  • @DINOSAURINYOURFRIDGE

    @DINOSAURINYOURFRIDGE

    7 ай бұрын

    Never understood bullying because of heights. What’s the literal point? It’s not even that funny.

  • @R0cksandwcue

    @R0cksandwcue

    4 ай бұрын

    ⁠@@DINOSAURINYOURFRIDGEFR I WAS 5’4 AT 9-11 AND PEOPLE WERE LIKE “Why Are you so tall?” “What did you eat to Be so tall” “How’s the weather up there” “Ever Said Fe fi fo fum”

  • @user-ks5gk4oy2o
    @user-ks5gk4oy2o Жыл бұрын

    Bro, in grade 4, my teacher is discussing about body fats and how they keep you warm. And she says that we you don't have fats, you wont get warm. And within an instant everyone looked at me. I wanted to cry but I just laughed along... it hurts

  • @Snippetscove

    @Snippetscove

    10 ай бұрын

    I'm sorry that happened to you :( Are you alright now?

  • @itsyourdudealix

    @itsyourdudealix

    Ай бұрын

    o damn i actually know the feeling of that, im so sorry pls get better

  • @Altacclove
    @Altacclove Жыл бұрын

    As a obese person, any kind of body shaming is bad. Even if your skinny or any shape of body. It does not mean that they aren't insecure of it😕 (I hope you're okay, sending love

  • @hasforlifebesties2501
    @hasforlifebesties2501 Жыл бұрын

    I’m too skinny and too tall for my age- and I’m insecure

  • @lilijakubiec7315

    @lilijakubiec7315

    Жыл бұрын

    Same💀💀💀

  • @hasforlifebesties2501

    @hasforlifebesties2501

    Жыл бұрын

    @@lilijakubiec7315 I’m almost 11 and I’m like 5’5 or 5’6

  • @ballincat458

    @ballincat458

    Жыл бұрын

    @@hasforlifebesties2501 I am 14 and still 4'9 ft 😭😭😭😭🔪🔪🔪🔪 I hate my height

  • @shrekisba3

    @shrekisba3

    Жыл бұрын

    dw!! I bet all of you look fabulous and gorgeous!

  • @mycoplasma.gallisepticum

    @mycoplasma.gallisepticum

    Жыл бұрын

    im only 8, 5'9 🤭

  • @East_Dakota
    @East_Dakota Жыл бұрын

    Skinny shaming is just as bad as fat shaming. Everyone’s body is perfect, it’s the person themself that matters.

  • @danielcox3288

    @danielcox3288

    4 ай бұрын

    NOBODY IS PERFECT!

  • @East_Dakota

    @East_Dakota

    4 ай бұрын

    @@danielcox3288 Exactly. So it doesn’t matter. Saying everyone is perfect is a more optimistic way to say nobody is perfect. Perfection is something made up my the human mind. Perfect does not exist, it is a descriptor of what the human race believes to be good, great, and cannot get better. Saying nobody is perfect implies perfect exists and perfect can be achieved.

  • @_.hala0923._
    @_.hala0923._ Жыл бұрын

    i feel the opposite, i used to be really skinny, but then i gained a little weight and then even my own parents body shame me and now im insecure about my belly fat and just my body in general :(

  • @sai.zil0

    @sai.zil0

    4 ай бұрын

    That’s so true

  • @Mila_x_Yuni

    @Mila_x_Yuni

    4 ай бұрын

    I’m insecure too. Even one of my bffs bodyshamed me

  • @tazule6874
    @tazule6874 Жыл бұрын

    aunt: you should stay skinny you’ll be so happy in life me 10 years old and standing right next to my therapist mom (and not this my aunt has said things like this my whole life)

  • @mafuyu_og
    @mafuyu_og Жыл бұрын

    Thats what my mom says.. “Oh be grateful your so beautiful!”

  • @user-wf1pz4fd2e

    @user-wf1pz4fd2e

    Жыл бұрын

    But its your mom bro and she says "your so beautiful" that means you are EVERYONE is! Your special i know this does absolutely nothing to how you think about yourself but if anyone saying something like that is means your beauty is so powerful someone needs to speak about it.

  • @BaileytheDoggy

    @BaileytheDoggy

    Жыл бұрын

    Well you should be

  • @Niko-ci8sw

    @Niko-ci8sw

    Жыл бұрын

    She's right though, no matter how your body looks like you should learn to accept it and love yourself :)) It might sound hard, I was like that too. But you can definitely get through this self-hatred.

  • @mafuyu_og

    @mafuyu_og

    Жыл бұрын

    Okay thank you guys! I just wanted to let yall know

  • @hazelz_1.0

    @hazelz_1.0

    9 ай бұрын

    when I say I want to go on a diet to my mom she says "No ur so skinny. Be grateful"...

  • @_WaffleWCUE_
    @_WaffleWCUE_ Жыл бұрын

    I hate being skinny because I have to wear a belt on whatever pants I wear jeans,sweatpants,leggings and more 😢

  • @burnlavatoast

    @burnlavatoast

    Жыл бұрын

    same, but i have to make extra holes on the belt cuz it doesnt even go that far :/

  • @_WaffleWCUE_

    @_WaffleWCUE_

    Жыл бұрын

    @@burnlavatoast I know right!

  • @nature__elf5825

    @nature__elf5825

    Жыл бұрын

    Same but my mum takes them in for me because she can sow

  • @Youremomlol903

    @Youremomlol903

    Жыл бұрын

    And embarrassing shopping in the children's section:(

  • @_WaffleWCUE_

    @_WaffleWCUE_

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Youremomlol903 ikrrrrr like in the girls kids section it’s only pink pink purple unicorns and all that and I like black more :(

  • @MaxterWaxter
    @MaxterWaxter Жыл бұрын

    I understand… I had a friend who was upset over her body and I was trying to tell her how pretty she is, and she wrapped her hands around my waist and said that I was super skinny and wished she was that skinny… it kinda made me uncomfortable and question my body for the first time…. Everything’s good now, I feel comfortable with my body, and I hope everyone dealing with problems with their bodies will get to a stage where they feel comfortable with themselves soon. Have a wonderful day/night everyone

  • @scoutproc7564

    @scoutproc7564

    6 ай бұрын

    ME TOOOO

  • @rosen1351
    @rosen13515 ай бұрын

    I feel the same, I have a medical problem that makes it very hard to gain weight. People have always commented about how much I eat and questioned how I don’t gain any weight from it, it makes me super uncomfortable. Many people have gone as far as comparing their body’s to mine, grabbing my wrist and touching their fingers together, and even some saying how I should watch what I eat so I stay skinny. This has always been a huge problem to the point of not eating for weeks because I’m scared I’ll gain weight and no one would find me attractive or “healthy“ anymore. Thankfully I’ve been getting better after a lot of work and self improvement. But I wanted to share my experiences and struggles for anyone else. ❤

  • @alicepuppies5900
    @alicepuppies5900 Жыл бұрын

    Same, I've had people be like "OMG!! Ur so skinny!" "SO luckyyyyyy~~~" But I've been under weigh, not hungry, seeing my ribs

  • @FREEPALASTINE4EVER

    @FREEPALASTINE4EVER

    Жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @luhvstella

    @luhvstella

    Жыл бұрын

    Same (But I ignore whatever they say)

  • @Mochi_movies

    @Mochi_movies

    Жыл бұрын

    I know, it gets a little triggering since you’re not even hungry yet you’re so skinny. I can relate to this

  • @toree5290

    @toree5290

    Жыл бұрын

    If I breath in I can see my ribs, my sis calls me lucky for being skinny

  • @aestheticbutterfly21

    @aestheticbutterfly21

    Жыл бұрын

    I feel u girl me too

  • @-Tomioka-Giyuu
    @-Tomioka-Giyuu Жыл бұрын

    The reason why I hate being skinny is that people compare you to a pile of bones or either compare you to when you were chubby. It’s so hard to meet society’s standards that even being skinny isn’t even nice.

  • @Defonotwalter

    @Defonotwalter

    3 ай бұрын

    Same, I've been skinny and tall all my life and I get commented on by people who say "hello boney-lady!" Or "your like a skeleton!"

  • @thelatinasisters4956
    @thelatinasisters4956 Жыл бұрын

    Ahh I get it I was overweight at one point and then I was like if I were skinnier I wouldn’t be insecure and then I went very very skinny and I was insecure but for different reasons it helped me understand insecurity’s from both sides ❤

  • @xKoi_fishx
    @xKoi_fishx Жыл бұрын

    I had PE and the made us use a website to tell our BMI and when I did it is said I was obese. And I hate they had us do that cause that gives kids insecurities 😢 everyone wants a body they can feel comfortable in

  • @BraeGaming
    @BraeGaming Жыл бұрын

    A lot of people tell me I’m so lucky to be skinny, but I never really feel that lucky. I weigh less than 100 pounds, I get hurt really easily, and I have so little weight that my hip bones look like they’re about to break the skin. Some people just don’t understand. Thank you for listening to my vent 😊

  • @toree5290

    @toree5290

    Жыл бұрын

    Same I could just slightly bump my leg and there’s a giant bruise :(

  • @y3et0facl1ff3

    @y3et0facl1ff3

    Жыл бұрын

    Just a small punch and I cant breathe, I weigh less then 75 pounds and I can hold my ribcage. I hate it

  • @Qiqiii-xm4ty

    @Qiqiii-xm4ty

    7 ай бұрын

    @@y3et0facl1ff3I weigh 60-59 pounds 🙁

  • @froggyroadto500
    @froggyroadto500 Жыл бұрын

    I swear I get that all the time “Be lucky that your skinny!” “Gain some more weight” Like just let me be please That’s all that I ask for

  • @Meiruno
    @Meiruno Жыл бұрын

    Me being called slow eater: **sings my mental breakdown in the shower**

  • @AngelaPaz-eu4ne

    @AngelaPaz-eu4ne

    3 ай бұрын

    OMG SAME 😭😭😭😭

  • @kolaiia
    @kolaiia Жыл бұрын

    that's literally me, but i feel what your going thru just know that you just shouldn't listen to them

  • @furriestfurball
    @furriestfurball Жыл бұрын

    I'm really sorry you feel like that, nobody's perfect. Your still beautiful even if you decide to show it or not 💖 Here's my vent :') "You need to lose weight, it's easy" I absolutely hate my weight and I don't really have the body strength to work out. My last resort was going on a Keto diet. The good thing is at least I'm tall for my age and I'm still growing so my mom says I'm going to get taller and slim down more. I'm 11 btw But to anyone who can relate I would appreciate if you comment and no matter what insecurities you may have, your still beautiful 💝

  • @kalponaakter5629
    @kalponaakter5629 Жыл бұрын

    Same But it's like me explaining why my class is boring, unfun, stressful I'm sorry you feel this way

  • @ThatOneWeirdSimp_1

    @ThatOneWeirdSimp_1

    Жыл бұрын

    I feel bad for you my class is very chaotic and fun💀

  • @_Froggi._.Bunn_
    @_Froggi._.Bunn_4 ай бұрын

    I get called skinny all the time and told I need to eat more but I eat and finish all my meals. I don’t understand why everyone thinks it’s okay to body shame anyone. I get called a stick even if I eat ice-cream and candy and anything it just hurts, I don’t know why I don’t gain weight (I don’t think I do, I never weigh myself and everyone’s responses are always the same..) but it should be clear as crystal that ANY form of body shaming is okay. Even backhanded compliments, I’ve seen SO MANY videos about people being told “omg! You lost weight, you look so much better!” Even simple sentences can hurt a person so much. Sorry about ranting by the way, I just hope people can see that even little words can hurt. Edit: for me, I haven’t gotten to the point where I’m insecure and hope I never reach that point, but i hope everyone who is insecure can realise that they are perfect the way they are and that they are beautiful in their own way ❤

  • @sophiaritz7754

    @sophiaritz7754

    4 ай бұрын

    I had the same exact problem until the past 2 weeks I saw I was gaining exactly one pound a week, but this week I’ve only gained half a pound so we’re back to the skinny problem.

  • @jellyjazmin1731
    @jellyjazmin1731 Жыл бұрын

    I literally have the same problem: People: lUcKy No it’s not.

  • @cyberzzyyxx
    @cyberzzyyxx Жыл бұрын

    “too skinny, get fatter” “too fat, get skinnier” NOBODY SAID THAT TO ME BUT WHAT THE HELL DO YOU WANT ME TO BE THEN 💀💀💀

  • @Abany2cool4u

    @Abany2cool4u

    Жыл бұрын

    ACTUAL THO💀💀

  • @xerx_gacha3925

    @xerx_gacha3925

    Жыл бұрын

    A ROACH?!

  • @lovinqel
    @lovinqel Жыл бұрын

    I totally understand being slim shamed hurts as much!

  • @Amethyst_theWolf_
    @Amethyst_theWolf_3 ай бұрын

    I feel the same way about my body. People just don’t get it when I say that it hurts…and then they go on and on about how it’s unhealthy that they can see my rib cage and bla bla bla😭😭

  • @Totallydidntmakethistocomment
    @Totallydidntmakethistocomment8 ай бұрын

    As a skinny person I feel this

  • @Snippetscove
    @Snippetscove10 ай бұрын

    I'm the lightest person in my household, and sometimes i get a fear of things that are bigger than I am. My family doesn't have much money for food, for I can't eat much so I can't gain much more weight. I weigh at least 80 pounds. It was horrible at public school for being picked up by my friends without permission. I hate breathing in and being able to see my ribs. I feel like no matter how much i eat, i can't gain anything. And I hate it. I'm so sorry to all those people out there who get body shamed or made fun of. No matter what you look like, or who you are, just know I love you no matter what.

  • @Snippetscove

    @Snippetscove

    10 ай бұрын

    Another thing, I'm only 13. Yet I think I look ugly in everything

  • @anisatms1308
    @anisatms1308 Жыл бұрын

    Idk if this will be a long vent or short. Here is my vent. I hate my life. Am not lying It's too much pain. "Don't vent to me" "Stop being so ungrateful" Am thanking you so much for letting me vent c ! n I wish I could k/// myself. But somethings stopping me. Am the worst Am trying my best and My grades are still bad. What. Why can't you understand I told you my feelings You think ignoring it is okay. I try my best to be nice I just dont get it School makes me stress, have anxiety, and bullys. The worst. One time someone said "Nobody wants to sit with "my name" " "Why is she acting like a pick me" I have so much more vents i might edit this and tell them but rn i have to go thank you so so much for listening to this have a great day I love you. I hope you will be okay c ! n Have a great day. I wish I could give you the love you deserve

  • @yinyang_iii

    @yinyang_iii

    Жыл бұрын

    I dont know what I can do to help, but I hope it gets better for you !❤

  • @Louduser_0
    @Louduser_0 Жыл бұрын

    Being the Bad Guy because of how Toxic and Manipulative I am , i often gaslight alot of people for my own needs, im selfish and i know that , im a show off . I comfort people so they could depend on me more .I have a great reputation at school so i use that to my advantage . I talk to people i know are lonely to make them see that im there only hope , then i'll cut them off and the'll come despretaly to me , I know im the bad guy in the story of " Life ".

  • @m4ya-sxriix
    @m4ya-sxriix Жыл бұрын

    Im also skinny,people always think im “lucky” to have this type of body

  • @themoonwarrior
    @themoonwarrior Жыл бұрын

    Gotta love it when someone says “just eat something, you’ll gain weight”..Other times people say that I’m lucky to be skinny and not gain weight or that I’m a skeleton..It really sucks

  • @Ashxrzz__
    @Ashxrzz__ Жыл бұрын

    I understand you a lot. When I say a lot? ALOT. Let it out. You can, I wont judge you at all :) Here’s some tips to become larger to! (I’m trying these, it’s kinda hard 💀) Eat more frequently. When you're underweight, you may feel full faster. ... Choose nutrient-rich foods. ... Try smoothies and shakes. ... Watch when you drink. ... Make every bite count. ... Top it off. ... Have an occasional treat. ... Exercise.

  • @Tuski_13

    @Tuski_13

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for not judging but you should not be trying stuff like that because it could harm you in multiple ways YOUR BODY IS PERFECT THE WAY YOU ARE!!!!

  • @Marcus.kc273

    @Marcus.kc273

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Tuski_13 they may be talking about if they’re extremely underweight.

  • @sophiaritz7754
    @sophiaritz77544 ай бұрын

    I literally hate it when people tell me that, it’s annoying bc my family is constantly telling me to eat more bc of how “skinny” I am. People are constantly calling me a twig and don’t see how much it hurts? I just don’t understand why people are saying that, like I get it, I know what I look like, you don’t have to remind me! Basically I agree with you on hating being skinny.

  • @eshonorxv._
    @eshonorxv._ Жыл бұрын

    Everyone just calls me fat... I've been trying to lose some weight, but I always lose hope because they kept telling "Your finally working out, eat less, move more" I hate it..

  • @Emilyy35
    @Emilyy35 Жыл бұрын

    In fact i used to be like this (the "you're lucky" guy) when i was younger because i have always been just really fat and judged by almost everyone including my mom. But now after I'm a bit older now (still a 14 year old kid) i really just get it all now. Being too thin is just as bad as being too fat, maybe not the same pain, but both are struggling. I hope all people being told the "You're so lucky" get over their pain.

  • @MoonBeanTherian
    @MoonBeanTherian4 ай бұрын

    Honestly, Its so ANNOYING! Whenever i eat something. MY PARENTS SAY" OHOOO look hes eating!" Its infuriating, and they always pick off my plate, And people asume im not HEALTHY!? They keep saying "Ohh honey, Youve got to eat more" And the worst part is they dont know my pain. That is why i eat alone, Why i wear baggy clothes. I am scared that ill be told to eat more. And recently ive been insecure about how mich i eat. and they dont realize what is happening. It is so painful.

  • @signal666
    @signal666 Жыл бұрын

    I'm skinny to, I eat then look at myself thinking I gained something.

  • @shamikshaheartkitty
    @shamikshaheartkitty Жыл бұрын

    This is so true so many ppl want to be skinny but being skinny....

  • @ineedbleach
    @ineedbleach Жыл бұрын

    I feel you except im on the opposite side. I'm trying my hardest to get at least average weight but due to me being stressed 90% of the time, its so hard. Yet there are people thinking that at least I'm "fed well" or "not a skeleton". I know the video isnt aimed for me but I really need to get this off my chest

  • @Zombie-puppies
    @Zombie-puppies4 ай бұрын

    I’m so sorry for you, i feel the same way, some people don’t understand the things we’re going through.

  • @funky_daze
    @funky_daze4 ай бұрын

    I'm not skinny, but i'm also not overweight. I just hate my belly fat. It came to the point where sometimes, i can't tell if i'm sucking in my stomach or not. I know that it's bad for you to suck in your stomach, and it can cause issues, but, literally, no matter how many times someone says that. I still seem to do it :

  • @SomeRandomIdiot495
    @SomeRandomIdiot495 Жыл бұрын

    Yep thats true some people suffer cuz theyre too skinny for me i suffer from being too fat

  • @c1rse.
    @c1rse. Жыл бұрын

    They think calling someone "skinny" is not body shaming ☠️☠️

  • @-glowingpearl-
    @-glowingpearl-9 ай бұрын

    I feel you I have the same problem I just hope you get better and feel better about yourself you deserve better honestly

  • @Velitt.a
    @Velitt.a Жыл бұрын

    Bro 1 day I told my friend about my insecurities and this was the conversation (btw im fat) "Hey... Can I vent, I mean we're here for eachother right?" "Yeah of course! Whats wrong?" "Well... I hate my body sm *then I told her how I was so insecure about being fat and things like that*" "Wtf, you're so lucky, I wish I was like that stop complaining" "Oh... Yeah..." People sometimes dont understand, they just dont know how much I go through how much almost everyone in this comment section goes through... I did EVERYTHING to have the body I want, healthy and unhealthy things and nothing works, I can't vent bc I have no one, I tell someone and they come with this sh*t? Thats why I dont vent w/ people I know Sorry for this but I really needed to do this...

  • @diamondrosequartz
    @diamondrosequartz7 ай бұрын

    I know what you're talking about: People always ask you if you've eaten and stuff like that...

  • @ThatCoquetteGirlie
    @ThatCoquetteGirlie4 ай бұрын

    I used to always eat cookies and foods with really high calories and thought nothing but later then I started to become aware and always got really anxious when I wore two rice swimsuits and revealing clothing because I thought “what would people think of me when they see I’m so fat…?” And thought people wouldn’t want to be friends with me because I’m fat. Some of my “friends” became more aware a started telling me things like lose weight and get more skinny Thank you for reading have a great day!

  • @rachelseeboo1339
    @rachelseeboo1339Ай бұрын

    its very annoying people say im to skinny i try to gaint weight but i cant i eat so much that i feel sick. i just cant gain weight and when people say im to skinny it makes me more insecure than i already am ☹. so then i wear baggy clothes but they are colourful and then they say im a softie or something and i hate when they say that idk why. ️

  • @elianasolosxx
    @elianasolosxx Жыл бұрын

    How my life has gone: “You’re so skinny…gain some weight.” “I try, I can’t gain it!” “Ugh, whatever” Me: *gains weight* “Eww! You’re so fat, lose some weight you pig!” “But, then I’m too skinny? And I don’t know how to lose it..” “Just try” “Well I can’t control it, I always have the urge to eat!” “Then starve yourself and maybe you’ll get into the habit of not?” “Oh. Okay.” *I become skinny, again.* “Do you ever even eat?!? Have some food my gosh. Twig!” “But you said for me not to eat-“ “Can you shut up for the love of god?” “Yes ma’am/sir.” *I become a good steady weight* “You’re so, ew. Ugly, get a glow up chicken pox!” (They call me that because of my acne.) p2 of my life???

  • @hyacinthstudios__
    @hyacinthstudios__ Жыл бұрын

    thats me too.. story 1: one time i was in class and my classmate went: ‘dude you’re so skinny. do you eat?’ story 2: one time i was texting my friend, and i said i was skinny. then they went onto saying that ‘at least i’m skinny’ then went on saying they’re fat.

  • @solar1979
    @solar1979 Жыл бұрын

    i feel the same even tho i eat alot i just wish i could gain weight ...

  • @Lemon-wu9lr
    @Lemon-wu9lr Жыл бұрын

    "Everythings okay." "Just do it" "Just dont be sad" "Stop crying"

  • @ITZM0CH1
    @ITZM0CH1 Жыл бұрын

    I love my body although I hate when someone reminds me that I’m skinny and that I should eat more.

  • @Kindness.is.enough
    @Kindness.is.enough5 ай бұрын

    Am not skinny neither am I fat, but I am still insecure bc humanity can be so terrible sometimes. Nothing around us can be 100% safe after all…

  • @Frosty_Editzz
    @Frosty_Editzz4 ай бұрын

    I’m incredibly skinny to where I feel like I’m just skin and bones yet I eat normal sized meals everyday it feels like I can never gain weight.

  • @Olgalidia-1978
    @Olgalidia-1978 Жыл бұрын

    “Look it’s her the fat rhino” Someone told me this at school Which is kinda why I hate school..

  • @S1llyzHere
    @S1llyzHere4 ай бұрын

    I kinda relate, but I'm im overweight instead. People say stuff like "Be positive about your body" or "You're beautiful just the way you are" like STFU! There is NO changing the fact that im insecure about my weight

  • @mc_navias2

    @mc_navias2

    4 ай бұрын

    FR OMG I HATE THATTTTTT

  • @preschoolpuppi
    @preschoolpuppi Жыл бұрын

    always thinking I’ve been ugly, social media will hate my face, I’m like a sqaure head freak, i tried watching stuff to be as cute as my friends but I will never be cute, shaping my body, head, comparing myself to others, always telling myself I’m ugly and I’ll never be a normal person, god why did you make me as ugly as a donkey? ☹️

  • @0_-RIVER-_0
    @0_-RIVER-_04 ай бұрын

    “Your too skinny just eat more.” “Your too fat go to the gym.” No matter what people do it’s never enough😞

  • @ryu._
    @ryu._ Жыл бұрын

    "Do you even eat?" ...

  • @musiclyrics249
    @musiclyrics249 Жыл бұрын

    Sometimes i say "you're lucky to be skinny" just because i wish i was that skinny, but i forget that what for me can be the dream body to achive, for others can be an insecurity. So you're totally right

  • @hiiml-lolbit
    @hiiml-lolbit10 ай бұрын

    There is no such thing as a “perfect body” in this world it’s always “count your calories” “your to fat” “loose some weight” or “eat more” “your to skinny” “Gain some weight” in my opinion most people are just jealous

  • @toefur___
    @toefur___4 ай бұрын

    I hate it sometimes because I’m skinny and have a bigger chest I can’t wear a lot of clothes. :/

  • @xneviix4276
    @xneviix4276 Жыл бұрын

    I feel the same way except I’m not skinny, I’ve tried all diets to be skinny but nothing works mainly either because I give up because my sibilings put me down by saying “oh wow I never seen you drink water before, your not having some pop? You usually eat junk food, you don’t want chocolate?” It’s like I’m trying to be beautiful for highschool! Because my friends are skinny and beautiful and I just want to fit in my old boy bsf said to me “you used to be skinny” I was so heartbroken..

  • @Thatonekitty-ho7wy
    @Thatonekitty-ho7wy5 ай бұрын

    People say that I’m fat and I get that skinny people go through this too! The fashion is terrible now 😢

  • @Gnat.erpillar
    @Gnat.erpillar Жыл бұрын

    I used to try to talk about my issues to people who I trust so once I was talking about how I feel like I need to gain weight to be healthy (I wasn’t underweight but I felt like I was.. I was also healthy-)and they were trying to be nice and say crap like “you should feel lucky!” And “so many people want to have your body!” I found it so annoying that they wouldn’t just say “hey, it’s okay we’re not all the way we want to be, it takes time, don’t pressure yourself to eat more.” Or even just a “I’m so sorry want to talk about it more?” But NO. All I get is a stupid “be lucky you have a great body!” I’m sick of it. I only wear sweatshirts and loose pants because if I don’t every middle aged to old ages person I meet is gonna be like “oMg yOu’Re sO sKiNnY, eAt A bUrGer!”. I hate it. I hate it. I HATE IT! This is why I can’t trust anyone when I talk about my body insecurities. It makes me so pissed. It always the “oh feel lucky!” Or the “eat a burger then!” And they don’t see it as rude. If they’d only take a walk in my shoes. I haven’t brought it up in years. I might never bring it up again… sorry for the rant… it just hurts… a lot… not many people that I know understand how I feel. I can see my ribs through my skin. I hate it. I don’t want to be able to see every bone in my body. I have a fast metabolism which doesn’t help me gain weight easily. Sorry for the really long comment. Thank you Edit: sorry I thought of more basically this isn’t about skinny shaming but it still hurts… one time I was talking to my friend and this girl who goes to my dance studio (let’s call her “kaley”) says “ (my name) can you do us all a favor and shut up.” It hurt a lot and I never really got over it… then the next day they started making fun of me kaley and chelsie (chelsie is not the actual name) and they both start talking about how they’re gonna go to the mall and we’re gonna replace me with Rae (again Rae is not their actual name) and then both chelsie and kaley start laughing and Chelsie started saying crap like “I’m the better friend haha!!”. It hurt. That’s why I don’t trust them anymore.

  • @Aerith_Heloise
    @Aerith_Heloise Жыл бұрын

    I can relate, MY MOTHER ALWAYS FORCES ME TO EAT A LOT JUST BC IM SKINNY AND IM TIRED OF IT😭

  • @Michelle-rm8dp
    @Michelle-rm8dp9 күн бұрын

    For anyone who needs it I love your hair or lack of I love your forehead I love your eyebrows or lack of I love your eyelashes or lack of I love your eyes I love your ears I love your nose I love your cheeks I love your mouth I love your laugh I love your teeth or lack of I love your chin I love your neck I love your shoulders I love your chest I love your arms I love your hands I love your tummy I love your hips I love your thighs I love your knees I love your shins I love your feet (not in that way.) I love your moles/marks I love your scars I love your voice I love what you do I love your personality I love you on your good days I love you on your bad days I love you when you when you wear makeup I love you when you don’t wear makeup. I love your skin I love you when you’re sad I love you when you’re mad I love you when you’re happy I love you when you hate me I love you when you love me I love you when you forget me I’m proud of you for getting some sleep I’m proud of you for trying to sleep I’m proud of you for waking up I’m proud of you for getting up I’m proud of you for brushing your teeth I proud of you for tending toward your braces I’m proud of you for doing your hair I’m proud of you for washing your face I’m proud of you for doing skin care I love you for doing your makeup (if you wear it) I’m proud of you that you got out of your room I’m proud of you for getting dressed I’m proud of you TRYING to eat breakfast. I’m proud of you for being clean I’m proud of you for trying to be clean I’m proud of you for being alive I’m proud of you for being a good friend I’m proud of you for trying to be I good friend I won’t judge you for your looks I won’t judge you from your race I won’t judge you for your life I won’t judge you for your family I won’t judge you for your past/childhood I won’t judge you for your body I won’t judge you for your tears I wont judge you for your age I won’t judge you for your sexual orientation I wont judge you for your gender I wont judge you for your money I won’t judge you for where you come from I won’t judge you for your language You aren’t ugly You aren’t too fat You aren’t too skinny You aren’t annoying You aren’t mean You aren’t evil You aren’t crazy You aren’t weird You aren’t worthless You aren’t scary You aren’t selfish You aren’t too feminine You aren’t too masculine You aren’t too young You aren’t too old You aren’t disgusting You aren’t a doormat You aren’t a toy You aren’t a monster You are beautiful You are pretty You are handsome You are kind You are cool You are everything you want to be You aren’t perfect, nobody is, but you are perfect in my eyes I wont judge you for anything Im so proud of you I love you. Now it's your turn to share this message

  • @chezzyunne
    @chezzyunne Жыл бұрын

    Im skinny too i really dont like my body but i do try to accept myself

  • @Thedumb1here
    @Thedumb1hereАй бұрын

    That’s why I always wear baggie clothes bc I don’t want ppl say like r so Lucky man r so fat r smt. every body is just perfect!

  • @bvblyics..lvcies
    @bvblyics..lvcies4 ай бұрын

    I wish everyone loved how they looked and never changed for anyone. I never changed for anyone and I used to think I was fat.. few years later I love my body and people should stop body shaming it’s horrible

  • @Jody_lazy_analog
    @Jody_lazy_analog11 ай бұрын

    I’m skinny I’m a little bit insecure about it. People at school call me skeleton body and other people say that I am ungrateful and they point out my sister is fatter than me and I’m lucky but I always tell them that it’s not really a gift but every time I do they say that I’m ungrateful, even though how much I eat I’m never fat. I try to eat a lot but it never works…

  • @R.Rubyoffical
    @R.Rubyoffical4 ай бұрын

    fat people want to be skinny. skinny people want to be fat. ugly people want to be pretty. pretty people deny it. this world is just cruel cause of all the bullying

  • @FlatPixels
    @FlatPixels Жыл бұрын

    This video was maybe like 2 weeks ago but yea. I never had problems with my body until I turned 9.I started to worry about my weight and looks at a young age.I tried everything I could,exercising,eating less.I stop gaining weight for a few days and suddenly I start to drink a little bit more water and eat a bit more and it always extends my stomach.I hate seeing myself in the mirror(always.).Before school,when I wake up,and when I walk past it(mirror).I feel disgusted at my body and the way I look.I try everything I can to be like the pretty people in pinterest or somewhere where I see good looking people.It just hurts to see that all my work(trying to lose weight) was for nothing.Im still fat(stomach,thighs,arms,face etc).I hate it sm.I hate being in this body that looks like they cried all day.I fr hate when I see myself in the mirror and its always at that time when I feel so proud that I'm losing weight.It just hurts because ik ill never be like those people in magazines with a nice body and face. People say they're jealous of me,but I always tell them that they wouldn't want to be me. I'm not 9 now,I'm hella older than that.

  • @coolio90
    @coolio904 ай бұрын

    As a chubby person, im so sorry. I have an ED and it gets hard for me to control sometimes, people tell me to just stop eating or eat gum but it doesn't work for me like that. People cant mind their own buisness.. fat, skinny, healthy, dark, light, WE ARE ALL EQUAL ❤🎉🎉

  • @E.S.C.H
    @E.S.C.H17 күн бұрын

    At first my family told me that I was a "fatty" When I lost weight they told me that I was underweight Then, I gained weight again and they told me that I should eat less, WTH DO THEY WANT!?

  • @Luv920
    @Luv9204 ай бұрын

    i know my vent is relevant but it relates to this song. recently my mother got onto me and my sis for fighting because my sister had literally yanked my head making my neck like crack or some shit WHILE i was eating, AND SHE HAS THE AUDACITY TO SAY " atleast your sister can actually sit there and listen instead of talking over us" to my sister, WELL NO SHIT? I CANT FUCKING STAND UP FOR MYSELF BECAUSE IM SO INSECURE AND IALREADY FEEL LIKE A FUCKING DISAPPOITMENT, SHE LITERALLY DOESNT GET IT.

  • @justalazymoon
    @justalazymoon Жыл бұрын

    This is true! Tons of people are like your so lucky no were not! I see someone they tell me I should eat more!!!!

  • @snowdropkittymeow1234
    @snowdropkittymeow12343 ай бұрын

    I understand that people tell me to be grateful but they don’t understand..

  • @Datone_girl
    @Datone_girl6 ай бұрын

    I can relate as an overweight person I say like I’m fat and they’re like no you aren’t you are so smart, pretty, and perfect I wish I was you idk if this makes sense or not

  • @I_quit_youtube_on_this_acc
    @I_quit_youtube_on_this_acc Жыл бұрын

    I wish I was skinny:( Me and my friends love to tease one another to get one another mad, 9 months ago my friends stopped telling me I was fat but in the past they always say to me I am fat or fatty or fat girl smth like that now it's my best friend's turn and my friend I really hate my friend for doing this I would always tease him, in my playground 1 time I couldn't hold it anymore... I literally couldn't I brusted tears out of my eyes, but the reason is why I still am friends with them is because when I cried 1 of my crush came and comfort me and then the others too, I kept walking away from them but they tried to comfort me, my crush had moved away tbh I heard he liked me I was blushing so badly, people like me and say that I am perfect but I always say I am not, not to long ago my mum said something embarrassing but I told her not to then my cousin got it then she said it then I ran to my room crying shutting the door loudly my bestie saw what happened 1 hour later my bestie wanted to give me a hug (even though she hates hugs) i kept hugging her then we watched Instagram, then I told her everything that I want to do like suicide

  • @revv13.x0
    @revv13.x0 Жыл бұрын

    Ikr, im skinny too and my "friends?" or friends of my sibling always come to me like:" do you eat?" "Wow you're so lucky!" "Omg like- THERE IS A SKELETON LOL OMG" I just- i cant- STOP. THIS.

  • @Citkatz
    @Citkatz10 ай бұрын

    I am too skinny. You can see my bones, sometimes even my muscles. My parents refuse to believe I have an eating disorder. I may be curvy and have large thighs, but I’m so skinny to the point you can push my skin inside of my bones. I’m always dizzy to the point where I pass out. Everyone says I’m just tired. I’ve had a large head ache whenever I move for the longest time. I’m not insecure. I am just worried about my health. My torso is literally in the shape of my rib cage(parents say it’s gross), the skin is pushing down on it. I just want to eat, everyone says I’m a picky eater, but whenever I eat something I don’t want to try I throw up(apparently that’s just anxiety). My body just won’t let me eat. My favorite food is plain noodles, and I eat that along with maybe 1 or 2 snacks almost daily. I’m always hungry.

  • @_moonrose.
    @_moonrose.4 ай бұрын

    im skinny too i feel this-

  • @KurokisChannel
    @KurokisChannel Жыл бұрын

    I’m skinny too. I have a bit of a problem with that, but I have something else that feels more “intense”:) I get annoyed often/angry often! Some of my friends or other people dont get “me”. It just makes me feel horrible

  • @sunshine_child7
    @sunshine_child73 ай бұрын

    I have always been a very broad/strong person and even when I was a little girl I would look at my friends and ‘They’re so small, why don’t I look like that? Is it bad I don’t look like that?’. I’ve been aware that I eat a lot, like not an unhealthy amount but a lot of food regardless. And every time I think about cutting down on how much I eat it never works, the only time I don’t eat during the day is breakfast and on days that I zone out and forget to eat at all.

  • @sssoybeann
    @sssoybeann Жыл бұрын

    ‘You’re so pretty u don’t have to worry about ur weight’ It’s hard to get over being underweight I do not want that again

  • @rotting.corpzz3__
    @rotting.corpzz3__ Жыл бұрын

    "you need to gain some weight" "you need to eat more" I hate when people point out the fact that I'm skinny, Ik that I am but I'm insecure about it;; and the fact that my mother tells me this too is just annoying.

  • @Go2sleepnow3
    @Go2sleepnow34 ай бұрын

    Hating your body, being insecure, SH, everything negative you do to your own body, you shouldn't get attacked or getting bullied for having an opinion or doing something to your own body, if you do anything that is harming yourself in any way, just remember, your still as pretty/handsome as everybody does, it's just that people don't see it.

  • @sxshim
    @sxshim4 ай бұрын

    People tell me I’m “lucky” because I’m so skinny, but I don’t feel like it. I remember one time in class, the teacher said “ I fear your legs will snap off, *real name*, we need to feed you a burger!” It hit me like a million stones. People don’t realise that body shaming isn’t just fat shaming.

  • @TemmieWhite-vw6de
    @TemmieWhite-vw6de7 ай бұрын

    *I Feel that... In my school i feel like my classmates in their mind Say Stuff About Skinny*

  • @IHEARTST4RS..
    @IHEARTST4RS..8 ай бұрын

    I was always so insecure for being fat I was so obsessed with being skinny I almost starved myself at one point just to make other people happy.. but I learned, you are not ugly, don’t change yourself just to please other people, dosen’t matter if your fat or skinny, if your gonna change, do it for yourself. Not to please other people

  • @Not_Christine42
    @Not_Christine426 ай бұрын

    As a skinny person i can relate to this

  • @xRayzzxx
    @xRayzzxx9 ай бұрын

    i used to be so skinny i saw my ribs and my mom said i was too skinny, i gained weight and not even this is good. My mother keeps reminding me of 'how pretty i was when i was skinny' and that i should stop eating. But when i don't eat anything, i am forced to. i am tired of never being able to do anything right

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