Children don't just distance themselves from their parents for no reason. There are a lot of missing missing reasons in the comments here. Every case is individual, but that kind of estrangement usually comes about because there's too much toxicity in the relationship, and the child needs space for their own safety and mental health. A lot of the people commenting here remind me of my mother - my actions and need for space are always untenable, unfathomable, selfish and mysterious, no matter how many times I explain to her and re-establish my boundaries. Thus, we are now VLC (very low contact). Your kids will have told you what was wrong if you actually listened and took some responsibility for your own actions. If this isn't relevant to you as a parent, great, move on, but if it's tiggering you to read this comment, you should consider why that might be.

@elinaelina2610

11 ай бұрын

Exactly!

@junejunejuniejune

11 ай бұрын

yes 1000%!!! all these comments on here also remind me of my parents. My mom abandoned me at aged 4, my dad was abusive all my life, and they are both bewildered at the fact that I want nothing to do with them...like you said, children don't distance themselves from their parents for no reason. I think they are not being honest with themselves, they did not listen to their children's pleas. It's not that I don't want a relationship with my parents, its that I want a GOOD relationship with my parents. They have never wanted to hear me or fix any of the problems, they believe it's their right to treat their children however they want, and we have to just deal with the physical and emotional abuse. I honestly feel better in my life when I haven't talked to them, or I would talk to them.

@skincareceo

11 ай бұрын

It was a messy divorce and her kid chose to live with the ex, at the end of the day 17 year old who live with parents who financially support them don't get to chose the terms.

@zkhhsmith6921

11 ай бұрын

@@skincareceo the daughter later alleged neglect and emotional abuse. I checked it out after watching this video. Maybe she was manipulated by the husband, but that's a pretty extreme thing to say about your mother out of nowhere. Mom herself admitted she had reparations to make, in later articles.

@trufflier

11 ай бұрын

exactly. the parents in these comments that say they have “no idea why” or “for no reason” their child went no contact are delusional at best. i don’t know why it’s so hard for grown adults to take full responsibility, give a heartfelt apology, & commit to therapy or changing their behavior. i don’t believe any child wants to stop talking to their parents, they’re forced into that position bc their parents won’t listen or change.

I am estranged from my father. If your kid wants nothing to do with you, I think it's important to understand why your kid has set that boundary instead of assuming its a 'phase' or whatever invalidates their feelings. I have had a very abusive relationship with my dad, and he was always emotionally manipulative, so I set the boundary that unless he got help, I would not keep allowing him to hurt me. he has never taken that step, and has 0 insight into why I want nothing to do with him despite the fact that I've told him a million times, or that it's obvious if you hurt your child they prob don't want to be around you. Heres the thing.... its not that I don't want a relationship with my father, I want a HEALTHY and HAPPY relationship with my father, and I am sure most of the children estranged from parents feel the same way. So be honest with yourself if you want to fix your relationship, look at the hard things, validate the feelings of your kids, be open to a change for the better.

@seeleygirl6178

11 ай бұрын

Both sides need to take accountability. Me and my mom clashed. Yes she was the parent. But now that she’s gone I see where I was wrong too. I hope you can give him some grace and know we will never be perfect as humans. I think an imperfect relationship with forgiveness is better than none with no forgiveness.

@heatherthompson8878

11 ай бұрын

Same with my mother.

@terriyip7715

11 ай бұрын

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@kristinfreespirit4life615

11 ай бұрын

I recently had to let go of my family. Mostly my Dad and brother, unfortunately for my mom not being independently strong...i had to walk away from her too. Lost my sister 2 years ago suddenly. With this happening a lot of truths and deception were revealed. Reality is until i am spiritually fit and healthier i can NOT be around them. It's the hardest thing i've ever been thru..One of the biggest lessons i learned from my sisters death; is cherish every moment with ppl you care about. Unless you've been thru a loss with someone dying waaaayyy too soon you won't understand. So unfortunate i had to walk away. I just hope i can get to a healthier place where i can rebuild a relationship with my mom one day 🙏 As for the other two, i'm done for good. I will cherish the good times with them, but sometimes you have to walk away, even when you don't know if you have tomorrow. 💫💕

@NoneNone-uc9lw

11 ай бұрын

What beautiful, profound words & wisdom. You said it all & said it perfectly, & by doing so have helped myself & so many others. Thank you & may God bless you always

I recall Tamera saying, her daughter just, only knew her from being on the reality show. And I remember thinking, how sad it must be to the daughter.

I don't watch reality tv shows, but Eddie is adorable.

I know estrangement all too well. I was estranged from my parents for over 9 years. The reason, my mother is a narcissist. She destroyed our family. Their are always two sides. Please keep that in. Ind when people play the victim and turn on the crocodile tears. My mother is notorious for that as well. Unfortunately families don’t always reconcile either. I got to spend a few hours with my father when he was hospitalized and dying from Covid. My brother also wrote her off for good shortly after our dads passing. Even though our mother bad mouthed us even as children, still tries to manipulate, you have to take a good look at yourself and ask why your child wants nothing to do with you. It isn’t always the children at fault!

@sun_shinecs8272

11 ай бұрын

This is so true .

@junejunejuniejune

11 ай бұрын

my thoughts exactly! there are 2 sides. I think people assume it's an angsty kid, vs in reality its parents being manipulative or abusive and children setting boundaries.

@irishsphynx

11 ай бұрын

My thoughts exactly. I tried for my entire life to maintain relationships with my toxic parents. Until eventually I had to walk away for my own sake

@danniellejohnson448

9 ай бұрын

I can relate and straight facts. Tamra gives off narcisstic mother vibes. No one cuts people off permantely for no or minor reasons

I hope Tamara and her daughter can reconcile and have a good life.

@kevinp8108

11 ай бұрын

@terrinew9474 - this was recorded many years ago so we should know by now if Tamara and her daughter have reconciled. This episode is at least 5 years old.

@terrinew9474

11 ай бұрын

@@kevinp8108 you know what I didn't even think about that oops lol.

@marjoriedeamond252

11 ай бұрын

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@DannyPop2013

11 ай бұрын

@@kevinp8108tamra is on the new season of OC and said things are better. I think Simons cancer was a huge wake up call

It is like having your child die. I had to stop because the anger directed at me was too much. Knowing that they are living and I am not a part is devastating.

@jeanlarson8505

11 ай бұрын

Are you her daughter?

@delaineymacphearson6850

11 ай бұрын

@@jeanlarson8505 no. What makes you think that? Just to be clear, I was commenting on her comment about how not being connected to her child felt. I know how she feels.

@ridingtheroad185

11 ай бұрын

I always say, they are alive and that alone is what I can live with.

@delaineymacphearson6850

11 ай бұрын

@@ridingtheroad185 I agree.

@Neesie75

11 ай бұрын

This is so true, it is awful.

Parental alienation IS the hardest thing a parent can go through. Every day I just want to die and have this nightmare over with.TRUTH

I like how they have people watching in the back room and to see their reactions. Wow, what a hard life for her mom.

@threecatsandalady64

11 ай бұрын

You don’t know how hard that mother has to work. It’s work to take care of a house, a career, and a husband who has heart issues. Get over yourself.

@Snoops510

11 ай бұрын

He brought up very early on that he saw a little girl cooking on the stove. That was spot on.

Eddie’s reaction is priceless! I knew Tyler’s mother wanted to meet Tamara and Tamra’s mother is a big fan of Tyler. What a great get together!!

@jeanmaxx1

10 ай бұрын

Your daughter is not dead.. Dont compare the two things.. A dead child NEVER comes back..

I too am estranged I totally understand your fears and pain plus the feeling you did something wrong.

I haven't seen or spoken to my son since November 2021 and it breaks my heart :(

@Secular-Serenity

11 ай бұрын

No! 😢

@hesentmeorbs101

11 ай бұрын

My son and i had a falling out shortly after my granddaughter was born in 2016. I saw through his in laws and he still needed to see what they we’re about. I didn’t wanna get in the way and because I wouldn’t just allow them to treat my family any old way so he chose to not speak to me. During that yr i still wished him a happy birthday and just sent him texts here and there which he didn’t respond to. Anyway, the very day they betrayed him he called and came back home. i didn’t do anything but love and support him through a lengthy and costly court battle. We had the best bonding that we EVER had. He even won full custody of his daughter. Life was life for almost 3 yrs Then on 10/18/21 he suddenly lost consciousness and stopped breathing, i even did cpr and he was on life support for 9 days. He officially passes away 10/27/21 after his donor surgery. It was some massive heart failure. He was only 35. I understand your pain of the non communication and i have no idea what the answers are, shoot i didn’t know what the answers were for my own situation. I just did what I thought was right to give him his space but occasionally reach out. I just knew it would eventually work out. . I really just want to send prayers, hugs and good vibes. On a side note he is very much with me in spirit and in fact it’s changed my whole life. I started my channel about 6 months after his passing to share how incredibly close the spirit world is. It’s amazing!

@mediumshipwithmel

11 ай бұрын

Sending you peace and hope.

@NN-id8bk

11 ай бұрын

What did you do to your son? I haven't spoken to my birth mother since 2019. She doesn't wish me happy birthday or marry Christmas even when I was still speaking with her and I was a very good child even friends would tell her and she's scoff at them. Then she decided to cause a rift between my friends and I and despite all that I still wished for her to love me and wish me well and wish me a happy birthday. I finally threw in the towel in 2019. I gave up!!! Priest and wife say I should not, but I really do not see myself even wishing to see her or hearing her voice. As a child she did and said horrible things to me and even when she said she didn't want to breathe the same oxygen as me, I still wanted her love and blah blah blah. Now I'm like whatever. I don't even look forward to bumping into her in HEAVEN. I hope Heaven is really BIIIGGG!!!

@amyjones7962

11 ай бұрын

My heart and soul go out to you. My son hasn’t spoken to me in 4 1/2 years now. Along with a LOT of crying and up and down emotions over it, I just keep working on healing myself and hoping. ❤ 🙏🏻

I am estranged from my daughter. It was my birthday yesterday, and I was hopeful my daughter would reach out. It's been 7 years now, and am losing hope. It's devastating for sure.

@positively_queen0620

11 ай бұрын

I'm praying that God changes thing's around for you and your daughter and he fixed what is broken between you ladies and last but least don't lose hope an if you need anything I'm here always ❤️🌹

@KMnnA

11 ай бұрын

Happy late Birthday ! 🥳🎂♊️🎉 I hope things get better.

@rosaliemccallum

11 ай бұрын

@@positively_queen0620 thank you so much💕

@rosaliemccallum

11 ай бұрын

@@KMnnA 💟thank you

@positively_queen0620

11 ай бұрын

@@rosaliemccallum Aww your welcome Queen & Happy Birthday 👑👸🏼🎂🍦🍾🎈🎉🎁💌💝🥳💕🌺🥳

I’m sorry Tamra but don’t compare your estrangement from a living child to the loss of a child! It’s not the same thing. I lost my beautiful son four years ago and can’t ever change that! My son is never coming back.

@tessalubi37405

11 ай бұрын

So sorry 4 your loss. I am going through same thing with my daughter. And I know its not same thing as a child dying. Neither one are easy and both are devastating. Especially when they are being manipulated by an ex. You never see or talk to them. There not in your life ever. Not because of something you specifically did but rather through manipulation of an ex(male or female). Silently your still greiving 4 a loss. Im far from perfect and made my share of mistakes. She still wont give me specific examples.

@Lilmansamsmom

10 ай бұрын

Yes, huge difference in the two situations.

@mandamorris7934

10 ай бұрын

At least she has a LIVING chance to get her s@#$ straight. I lost a daughter at age 33 to cancer... and thank heaven we said and did everything we needed to... I'm so grateful, but none the less, she's gone... I'd pray for this woman's peace and for resolution to this sadness.

@donnanegri3186

9 ай бұрын

I’m so sorry for your loss no parent should ever go through that loss💕

@donnanegri3186

9 ай бұрын

Xo

If your daughter is estranged.....then stop talking about her (and your relationship) in public!! Nothing would push someone away more than discussing them with the world.

@colleen8718

11 ай бұрын

So true!!

@HeadNtheClouds

11 ай бұрын

I know! She is so self absorbed & annoying! Can’t stand them!

@elizabethkelley3080

11 ай бұрын

Until you are a parent of an unfortunate circumstance, you'll never know the internal pain she deals with daily as a mother

@toddsoper8709

11 ай бұрын

@@elizabethkelley3080 spot on Elizabeth! well said :)

@threecatsandalady64

11 ай бұрын

Until you have a child that chooses to be estranged and don’t know the circumstances and the child doesn’t know them either, then you have no business judging Tamara. You can blame the parent, but even if you are the estranged child you don’t know all of what has gone on that led to the parent’s responses and actions. It’s like you only have bits and pieces of the puzzle and are judging the parents without all of the information and only your own limited child like viewpoint. Sometimes the estranged parent has done everything they can to protect the child from the truth about the other parent or what the other parent did to them. They don’t want you to think less of the other parent.

Biggest heartbreak when your child is estranged but prayer got me through and I now have my wonderful son back in the family. I went through 30 years of HELL.

Tamara, you summoned up exactly how I did. Without going into a long story, my son and I were extremely close. He went away for a tour to Afghanistan and my marriage broke up. He became very angry and we were estraing and I compared to, mourning my son that was alive for three years. We are well and on track now and I am enjoying my two Grandchildren. ❤ Hang in there and never give up. At that time I had to walk away because I would no longer be verbally abused. He needed to fix his self as I had to fix me.

I too am estranged from my daughter. There was a lot of hurt after my divorce. She lived with her father form many years, and I know how manipulative he can be. He manipulated me all of my marriage. I couldn't take the narcissism anymore and left, even though I knew he would manipulate my children and pit them against me. I have had to wait many years for them to see the truth. She is the only one who is still figuring it all out. It has been very difficult. It is like they are dead, but still living. You grieve the same way as a death. When you finally come to acceptance, this is a good place to be. I am here for her, anytime that she needs me. I am here anytime that she wishes to establish a relationship. However, I am no longer going to beg for it. I am no longer going to reach out anymore. It is up to her to do so. And if she never does, I believe that she will regret it after I am gone from this earth. I will continue to pray, until that day comes, and if it doesn't, God will keep me and her happy and in peace!

@mylifeinanutshell6931

10 ай бұрын

I have seen several parents in your same situation. It is very painful. Many that I know were told it is their fault which is crazy and toxic in itself.

This was really touching. One of my favourites in the series.

thank you for this

What a wonderful reading ❤

Tamra, I feel for you, I have both adult children alienating me and have walked away. I am left with the devastation, the unknowns and so many questions. Estrangement is so cruel when you have not engaged in any of it, and left alone to carry that burden, as you say, they are alive but are dead for you. My heart breaks every day. 🙏

@TMGold60

11 ай бұрын

@@Paisleyrosa Normally yes, I agree in most cases there has been some great tension or trauma, but unfortunately not in my case or for many others. I raised my children but a well expected divorce over three decades of control/ abuse, I set sail abroad, I was always open about my intentions, never abandoned my adult children and communicated daily, I am now returned but to no avail. I have two grandchildren and two adult children they were my life as you can imagine? What is wrong about estrangement is that those who ghost you do not give valid reasons or explain, you are left forever wondering, and I even blame myself which is so wrong when the blame is not mine, I did not want this or expect it. You are judged by others, a great stigma follows you around, it hurts because they live and are not dead. The worst is, they give full attention to my toxic ma-in-law and her son who never even wanted children, I can only imagine while out of the country, their slander turned them away from me, if I were back in their life, I would be the square peg in a round hole?! Ma-in-law has the money...I feel they were born in a time of no communication skills, all devices, where as I always believe in talking, emotions are real, its part of us, its easier to just walk away and say nothing of relevance, no explanation.

@JoanneGoldsworthy

11 ай бұрын

Tamra, my heart breaks for you. I am estranged from my son and two grandchildren. It’s been years since I’ve seen them. I pray every day that we will be together again. You are in my prayers…🙏

@BarbieKyzar1964

10 ай бұрын

Praying for healing for both of us. Ephesians 6:12

The O N L Y thing about Tamra that I like is SANDY! Sandy is a good time.

My ex husband has been gaslighting and manipulating my daughter for years with lies about me, the divorce, everything. He’s actually projecting everything he did onto me. She’s a daughter. She wants a dad. Has been hurt and ignored many times by him but keeps going back for more. I’m hoping she starts to see him for what he is. A diagnosed narcissistic psychopath. So I wish Tamara all the best. I understand the frustration and tolerance and heartbreak and feeling helpless…all the time. I agree with Tyler. Maybe you can help with your book. Yourself and others….our stories matter.

@Snoops510

11 ай бұрын

Girls want their daddies. Especially if she fears he might leave her. It's those fathers that the children cling to. She knows that your love is unconditional...but his is not.

I know her pain, as both my children haven’t spoken to me in almost 2 years. It’s the hardest thing that I’ve have been through and I just want them back in my life. I love my kids with everything I have and would give my life for them both. I hope she gets the chance to be in her daughters life again as I wish the same for myself 😢

@AirJKB13

11 ай бұрын

Sorry love. There’s nothing worse. Don’t wait. I lost 8 years of my life waiting in a chair. Alone. It’s regrettable how much of our own lives we spend waiting for people who aren’t thinking about us.

@donnanegri3186

9 ай бұрын

Xo

@danniellejohnson448

9 ай бұрын

What did you do why she stopped talking to you?

@AirJKB13

9 ай бұрын

@@danniellejohnson448 some people get off on telling anyone why. This makes it very hard psychologically. Torture. The puzzle is unfinished. Wondering what is wrong with me became a habit for years. It’s a terrible habit I didn’t deserve to put myself through. But my mind knew no other way to live with the unanswered questions. These days I wonder what’s wrong with them. I’d miss me if I were them. Meanwhile I found myself which a lot of moms never get to do. So, there’s an up side to the trauma.

@user-ep3fo5vw1v

4 ай бұрын

I don't know your situation but if both of your kids stopped talking to you, take a good look at yourself and self reflect.

My step daughter and her mom were causing so many problems in our family that my husband had to set a boundary with her and she didn’t like it. We were given no choice but to go no contact for our own peace and to end the abuse we were facing from a narcissist. More people need to discuss the abuse issue between children and how they abuse their parents forcing them to go no contact. You don’t have to suffer from abuse just because they are your blood. Nobody deserves that.

@kaykay2000

11 ай бұрын

So straight to no contact no therapy btw your husband,his daughter, and ex...cause you came after so you shouldn't be interfering..I'm sure you soley listened to your now husband when courting and believed his ex was the villian😂😂😂.you drank the Kool aid. When your turn comes don't look to ex to valid you 😂😂😂

@jlongino51823

11 ай бұрын

@@kaykay2000 LOL!!! Aww. Honey, no. As a matter of fact this happened when the ex-wife found out she was cheated on and then got dumped by her felon boyfriend from jail while we were on our wedding trip getting married. We found out from the child’s therapist. Her jealously turned into rage and she chose to ruin things between the child and her father/us with lies because the child adored us and she couldn’t stand it so she threw a wrench into perfectly healthy relationships with lies. She was a miserable person like you seem to be and she tried it with every single person in the family. There are lawyers involved and contempt of court warrants for her if you wanna know all the facts. Miserable, unhappy people ruin others’ happiness every day but to hear you tell it you know our life. Nice try but it ain’t gonna be me. I ain’t no ignorant b!tch so go after someone else because here you’ll be laughed at and I’ll let you know real quick the facts. Run along and act like you know strangers online somewhere else. I don’t need you or anyone else to validate me. Learn grammar and spelling before you come at me next time. You look stupid.

@elenaescocia2479

11 ай бұрын

If it was me in that situation & my child was hurting that much! My child would come first! I certainly wouldn’t cut them off!

I just love Tyler. I wish I could get a reading but can't afford it

@loveisallthatmatters21

11 ай бұрын

I would give him my car for a reading but no way to get one. I was on his collective app but no luck there either. He is just too good!

Tamra, I feel your pain. I, too, have a daughter that has gone away. It is so difficult to acknowledge their desire to be apart when I miss her so. Best wishes❤

Great reading - Tamara is as gorgeous as ever!

Tamara,I too am seperated from my daughter. I miss her so much. I have hope always that she will reach out someday soon. Good luck!

@soniatenorio4438

11 ай бұрын

I too have a estranged daughter . It’s been 4 years. It’s heartbreaking ❤️‍🩹.

Tyler makes another believer! Definitely hope mother and daughter can mend. Not my favorite episode but still a good one

Eddie hugs ❤️ Tamara n mom too

9:14 That’s Really Huge, Amazing and YAY! ❤

Hubby reminds me of George Michael when he smiled...❤

Some of these adult kids maybe setting boundaries, but it's important to specifically tell the parent what you're feeling.

I really hope she does!!! 🙏🏼❤✌🏼

I thought her daughter didn’t want to be talked about or be on tv or the internet. And the reason she stopped talking to her after the first reconciliation was because Tamra posted her pictures of her graduation when she was asked not to.

@dr.jenniferma3914

11 ай бұрын

Not to mention the fact that Tyler said everything that could've been learned through the show. I'm doubting him.

@kristie979

11 ай бұрын

If only parents did what their God damn kids wanted always. Grow up .. that's a proud loving mother showing her daughter graduate.

@Dan-ys8nk

11 ай бұрын

@@kristie979 more like an entitled person who acts like she can violate someone's boundaries without repercussions.

@kristie979

11 ай бұрын

@@Dan-ys8nk oh my God... isn't she a horrible mother taking a picture of your kids is abuse.. somebody call the cops man

@seeleygirl6178

11 ай бұрын

@@Dan-ys8nk I don’t think she talked about her. Only her own feelings.

My oldest has not spoken to me in many years, but she doesn't acknowledge me as her mom. Since she feels I wasn't there for her. But I know I was. She has disowned me as her mom and won't talk to me on any site were on. She won't even give me her phone number so I can call. I pray about since she has my 2 grandsons. I don't fight her on anything she feels so. I just cry on all the Holidays and her Birthdays. She is now 40 some years old and I know exactly how Tamra Judge feels and what she is going through daily. Maybe one day she will come to see that I was always there for her.

Wow! Either I need Tyler to read me, or have a drink with this guy. I was adopted too. Same boat brother.

Tyler mentions so many things that no one could find by researching these people.

Absolutely love Tamra and Eddie and this was so great!

Tamra's consistent consideration of her daughter's feelings over the years, knowing that it was her ex who alienated her, shows Tamra's warm and tender side. It is clear that she would never do anything to upset her daughter from afar. Praying that Tyler is right. As her daughter grows and matures, she may realize that she needs her mother in her life.

@ellaunicorn6278

11 ай бұрын

No to say it’s Simons fault is lack of accountability

@AnonymousPerson0182

11 ай бұрын

Tamra is incredibly self centered!

This woman just refuses to stop talking... Tyler shows up and speaks for about 2 minutes, while she just sucks the air out of the room. (I know some people love to hear the sound of their own voice, but seriously, this woman must be exhausting to be around.)

@molly5262

11 ай бұрын

Agree! Always thought she was obnoxious!

Tamra is so cool and I can't wait for her to start talking to her Daughter again! Eddie and Tamra seem to have a lot of Love for each other and that is awesome!

Parental Alienation Syndrome, WOW. Personally , there are two sides to every story. I don’t see my parents anymore because one is verbally abusive, and the other watches and condones. Most estranged parents could more than likely be insensitive, callous, cruel A holes who don’t deserve the child, and portraying them as victims is beyond ridiculous. I love Tyler’s readings, just have a real issue calling neglected children the cause of someone else’s misery.

Love Tamra and Eddie

He knows about her daughter because it’s all over the place.

I love her, on OG!

If you cut a parent out of your life, you’d better have a damn good reason. Once they're gone, you can’t get that time back and the grief and regret is soul crushing. That being said, I know there are some toxic, psychopaths out there who do horrible things to their children. I certainly wouldn’t blame anyone that was subjected to serious abuse and needed to end the relationship.

I have an estranged adult son and it is very sad and painful

I had no idea her and Eddie would last this long

Just started a good relationship with my oldest daughter after 6yrs. I'm going to hold her tight!!!!

Just keep praying for her

@Dan-ys8nk

11 ай бұрын

😆😆😆😆

What ever happened to the days when you loved unconditionally and knew that your parents did the best they could with the tools they had? My mom was a single parent and she was not perfect by any means but the fact that I knew she was doing the best she could was all that mattered. The internet has armed generations to come with knowledge, which is something I didn’t have as a resource but I believe it influences young adults into thinking they know it all. I, too, am missing my almost 40yr old son and he holds so much contempt and anger. I can’t allow him to lash out and manipulate me anymore than he already has. I love him with my heart and soul but I believe the more I cow down to him, the less respect he has for me. It is a heart wrenching situation that no one should have to go through - both parent or child.

Tamra just blathers on and on, filling in all the details.....well just give him all the info before he even has a chance to speak. Let Tyler do his work and stop handing over your life story.

@wf9220

11 ай бұрын

This comment is so unnecessary..she's just feeling in the gaps..so he can see full picture..gheesh

I to understand completely what Tamara said about grieving the loss of a child even though they are alive. It took five years for me to come to terms. Still don't understand, but I wouldn't allow the abuse anymore. Do I want reconciliation yes, but I won't be able to trust.

I get it Tamara! My son has cut the family out

I wish they would just let Tyler talk and just answer the question etc

My son and I have been estranged for ten years. It's been devastating because my grandkids have been part of the equation much to their detriment per a grapevine source. 😢

@JoanneGoldsworthy

10 ай бұрын

I am in the same situation. Not only have I not seen my son, I have not seen my grandchildren. 😢

Jesus Tamra. Tyler is a medium. Not psychiatrist. Your husband stayed quiet and respected your time with Tyler, but when Tyler was talking to him, you spewed out things about your husband on tv and he was embarrassed. Then you revealed more than you should have about your daughter.

I love Eddie & Tamra!! So glad she’s back on RHOC

Does Tyler have a new season of the Hollywood Medium? Where are these full episodes? R they on TV?

I ❤T

Not gunna lie I love Tamara x

He needs to read dc young fly

I love Tamra ❤

Thats a good way for her husband to become a beleiver. She doesnt shut up giving all info.

There is should be no judgment for someone to speak about how they have experienced and processed their life. Truely there could be misunderstandings and no one is at fault. Ive been a child and now Im a parent.90% of situations are not just black and white. Everyone deserves healing. Even when it is obvious a wrong or right . Being a parent is the hardest thing I've ever experienced and who doesn't make mistakes ? All that being said there children and parents with regret and pain. So why can't we just address all things can be true at the same time.

Maybe her daughter is just humiliated and embarrased of moms behaviour on tv. Her antics and justification for a paycheck really shows how immature and selfish Tamara. I would be off that show so fast to have a real healthy relationship with my daughter. Its not up to Sydney to make it work...its Tamara. She is hardly someone you would want emulate.

Anyone who's a fan of RHOC knows how skeptical and rational Eddie is. Says SO MUCH that he recognized Tyler's gift and was impressed by it

I love Tyler. So apparently he only watches the Real housewives on tv. 😁

He didn’t say that they would reconcile he said there will be an opirtunity to have a conversation although I hope that leads to a reconciling

Kids don’t alienate GOOD parents….. simple as that

@seeleygirl6178

11 ай бұрын

Sometimes the kids are the problem.

@Neesie75

11 ай бұрын

No, but exes can alienate a child from a good parent.

@oliviam8980

6 ай бұрын

All people are flawed. Forgiving is harder than it should be for many.

Even Maya Angelou said, when someone shows you who they are the FIRST time, BELIEVE them! It does not matter if they are blood, because it is NOT your job to change or fix or maintain, where there is pain or distrust being created. Leave it alone, let go, walk away, distance, or cut off completely... listen to your inner guidance & don't feel bad for doing what you need to do for YOUR OWN wellbeing

She doesn’t let him speak.

I can't be the only one that noticed Eddie saying what an amazing woman after she said she could do no wrong..😅

I think Tamra is one of the most authentic housewives there is and was nice to see Eddie and Tamra in a different light as a supportive couple. Eddie walls being broken down was a nice surprise too

A lot of comments hear judging Eddie (see what I did there) for his demeanor. However, he seemed skeptical but also nervous about what he would hear, as he has both biological and adopted family. I am adopted also. His response to hearing about his biological family makes sense, as he made it a point to state he was not interested in knowing details. This concept is difficult to understand if your genealogy and your origins are unknown, especially if you do not want to know your biological family. I actually went to a psychic and was told I was a victim of sexual assault. She could have been lying or making it up, but also it could be very real.

Some of these clients do more talking and I don’t understand why they need to meet with Tyler if they’re just gonna talk the whole time. Her hubby was prob like, don’t give him so much 😂

I'm surprised he knew who she was. It always kills me when these self-absorbed people assume they're known. I have no idea who half of the people are that he reads for.

@seeleygirl6178

11 ай бұрын

She was happily surprised too.

Sure-this will help the mother/daughter relationship a lot lol

I couldn’t imagine my 2 beautiful daughters not taking to me, it would just affect you everyday of your life, my life wouldn’t be complete… Tamra needs to just leave it and leave it to her daughter when she’s ready, if ever, in life we all have to learn to live with situations that are beyond our control!

They could have looked up that Eddie is adopted... That she is writing a book... That her daughter is estranged. What was so unique?

So Lovely!!!!!!! 🙏🐾🌈🦋🌱🐇🍀♊️😇🎈🌻💖❤️💡🌎💌

Her man is so handsome

I don’t speak to my father anymore. That happened at 38 years old. It should have happened at 18. But I tried. For too damn long. When a child creates that boundary, it’s not a phase. It’s a choice. And one that as a parent you have to respect.

I no longer have a relationship with my father I had enough of his narcissistic behaviour at least Tamra cares and wants a relationship my dad doesn’t care at all! It’s nearly 3 years only now am I beginning to have counselling and healing

The way Tamra answered for Eddie is so cringy I never disliked her till seeing her answer for him “Sorry”and that look on her face She doesn’t seem to care about anyone else but herself it seems like I totally see her differently now 🤮

@alyssagoddess4353

11 ай бұрын

I didn’t see it like that at all

@trishs3150

11 ай бұрын

Ok

@alyssagoddess4353

11 ай бұрын

@@trishs3150 yup

I always ignore episodes like these because tyler says older lady and then the person being read gives all the information themselves with Tyler nodding. No validation in these episodes. Its episodes like this that make me think fake

Tamara is so BEAUTIFUL!❤

Well stop telling the medium everything he needs to know. Gawd...

Another good reading. Her husband has a big ego and has to learn how to manage it, and expand his consciousness. Tyler just helped him a little bit with that. ;)

@senzafinee

11 ай бұрын

I'm sure he was nervous about what would come up during the reading. I am adopted as well and have thought of this same situation when around people who have gifts, i.e. mediums, psychics, etc. There are biological ties to family and then your adopted family. I believe he was skeptical but also perhaps nervous about what he would hear.

@adriancampbell8310

11 ай бұрын

@@senzafinee Yeah probably. I'm adopted too, met my biological family in 91 when I was 23. I was lucky, my biological parents were both lookimng for me. :) Take care.

We just LIKE U AT ALLL....BYEEE

I never knew she had a daughter 😮

@melaniejohnston2224

11 ай бұрын

2 girls and a son with Simon

It's been 12 years and I've never met my granddaughter. If you want to share stories, I have one.

As children, we long to be connected with our makers. Adopted children look for their parents and those who were victims of parental alienation, eventually realize what happened and return. ❤❤❤❤❤ Nature’s Law

@junejunejuniejune

11 ай бұрын

it's not that I don't want a relationship with my parents, I want a GOOD relationship with my parents. The estrangement is because they have been physically and emotionally abusive all my life, and my ONE ask was for them to get help, which still has not happened after years of setting that boundary. Children do not alienate their parents for no reason, as you said we long to be connected to our makers, so it takes a lot of hurt and pain caused by that parent for a child to leave. Not validating the trauma, not acknowledging any wrong doing, having 0 accountability is exactly what causes estrangement.

@Vicky-Lynn

11 ай бұрын

@@junejunejuniejune Very true, through my recovery from childhood neglect and abuse, I have forgiven. To set my free. They haven’t changed. They still are they way they are. I don’t get triggered anymore. When they don’t respect my boundaries, I walk away. Say, see you another time when your can show me some respect. They have learned to keep it light 😆😆

Eddie is not being sincere. Tyler is on to him, but Eddie doesn't want to face something.

I would like to know if Tamara Judge had ever done laundry, or cooked a meal, or cleaned a bathroom and a whole house! Has she ever done yard work?

I Am MANIFESTING MY NEW ROLE AS AN ACTIVITY COORDINATOR WITH SCC. I AM ONE WITH THE UNIVERSE, I AM SUCCESSFUL, I AM POWERFUL, I AM A SUPREME MIND. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU 🙏🙏🙏

Who ARE these people??