I'll never forget how infectious Anni's laughing was in the early videos and the clay figures she'd make. I hope you both find happiness and success.

@aerocap

11 ай бұрын

I will miss Anni's awesome laughing!

I just watched 27mins of Finnish conversation where there were about 10 spoken words to each subtitle, but had so much respect for your honesty and openness, a great example for how 2 people can move on with their lives in different directions!

@pvic6959

Жыл бұрын

for future people: if you go to the 3 dotes near the thumbs up arrow, you can do "see transcript". you should be able to read that faster haha

@Warutteri

Жыл бұрын

The subtitles leave out some stuff that's kind of hard to translate (like culture specific jokes and references) but make all the important information easily understandable for any English speaking person... And yes, this is how to handle a divorce in a mature and respectful manner, a real prime example of how to part ways without any unnecessary hostilities

@broo_shs

Жыл бұрын

so true but i still hope at they get merry again later in future

@AlexKall

Жыл бұрын

I just hope they are happy in what they set out to do, especially private life, I'm just happy it was a friendly brake up :)

@superslash7254

Жыл бұрын

honestly all you really need to know for finnish is "perkele", "viina", and "sauna".

As one of your long time fans, many thanks to both of you for the years of excitement and entertainment you gave the world. We love you both and wish you both the very best in the future! Thank you so much for your openness about your personal lives and treating your audience with such respect. In the USA, we call folks like you 'a class act'. In my estimation, you guys are the classiest act of all. Carry on!

@Balinor72

Жыл бұрын

I was going to say this almost verbatim. I’m going to leave a comment any way but I completely agree.

@silvenshadow

Жыл бұрын

This. Thank you to you both for being so open and sharing with us all.

@wobblyboost

Жыл бұрын

What he says - I fell in love with you both on first video I watched many years ago, you both taught me much about Physics, metallurgy and Finish life and culture that I adore. Sharing your private life details with us as well is just proof you are strong willed, staunch and very rational - all very Finnish traits. Löytäkää molemmat ansaitsemasi rakkaus ja tyydyttävä elämä, rakkaat ystäväni.

@kartzgo9938

Жыл бұрын

I was going to say this aswell, you both inspired us to always be curious and know, danger is everywhere lmao. I was late to realize and wasn't sure what's happened. I'm glad you guys are in a very balanced understanding and I hope you both very happy lives!

@AlexKall

Жыл бұрын

Agreed!

If you guys ever get back together… could you crush your divorce papers in the press? But seriously I’m glad I found this video. I was confused. Wish you both the best! You 2 are a power couple even without the wedding rings!

@SauvikRoy

Жыл бұрын

This is the best comment I read today!

@renemunoz8965

Жыл бұрын

Amen

Setting the benchmark for how to handle things amicably in divorce. Congratulations to you both on new beginnings!

I found this video after wondering where Anni was. Having met you both 3 or 4 years ago, and seeing how well you worked together, I was shocked to hear that you had divorced. However, after watching this video, it is very clear that you have dealt with the situation in the best possible way; I hope that both of you have the best success in whatever you decide to do next (OK, I think we know what Lauri will be doing). Anni, I can highly recommend Lapland as a place to live, we moved here from the UK 6 months ago and we absolutely love it. It is a fantastic place for someone with an artistic mind to live, as long as you can cope with the isolation at times. I wish you both the very best for the future.

@nigelwatson2750

Жыл бұрын

My family relocated from Guildford to Pori in November 2022 - best decision we ever made.

After seeing the English subtitles now (thank you so much whoever did them!), this is truly inspiring story

@mtnvortex

10 ай бұрын

Even cooler is the "transcript" function. I know this is an old comment, but just wanted to give a heads up if anyone never bothered to check that out. It basically gives you the subtitles over in a chat-type box. Really cool. Also, best wishes to our hosts.\o

Kiitos for sharing. Not just this update; but several years of your lives with us. I divorced about 25 years ago after 9 years married. We also left on good terms and split our assets without any troubles. We have two kids (about your ages now) which help us keep in touch. Blessings to you both, and wishes for continued happiness as you seek new experiences and joys. Much love from WoodHobbyist Don. 🇺🇸

@_Mr.D

Жыл бұрын

Wow, I was married for 9.5 years, have 2 kids and been divorced for 26 years. My ex is still nasty with me. Our daughter died last year and she didn't want me at the service. She didn't even tell me when she was at the hospital. It's 26 YEARS! She had two more kids, has 3 homes and two companies. I'm like what the hell can you still be mad about. My ex created a rift with my kids. Glad to hear that your situation is different.

@bridgeboo3031

11 ай бұрын

@@_Mr.Ddamn.. life can really hit hard for some. Sorry for you brother, try to stay strong, I can recommend you some books that you might want to read

@dfinlen

11 ай бұрын

​@@_Mr.Dholy wow, some people have a gift for bitterness.

@_Mr.D

11 ай бұрын

@dfinlen I always tell guys that are going through divorce to preemptively be prepared to possibly be dealing with a person that they have never met before. Not all women are that way, but I think their bitterness combined with their attorneys pushing them to try to take everything is a catalyst for disaster. But don't get sucker punched thinking, "oh my wife is not like that". And for the record, in case people are thinking that I must have done something terrible, my bad deed is that over 3 years I went to different massage places for a handjob, 7 times. Nothing more! Not that this is a justfication for it but she would not give me sex. Because of religious beliefs we were both virgins, myself being a month shy of 26. So you can imagine how I felt the next day after the wedding night when I asked about messing around and she'd was like, "we just did that yesterday". O_o But I always stayed patient and kind and never forced her. I just got very good at slowly turning her on till she couldn't take it. But most of the time there was nothing. And if I took care of myself, then she was devastated. So sometimes she would ask me if I had. It was so hard. Literally. Lol and it's so sad cause she was extremely beautiful with, blonde hair and very green eyes and I couldn't love her like I wanted. But it was more than no sex, there was very little intimacy or at least feeling desired. She was so focused on work and other things and all I wanted was for her to hold my hand or cuddle or just sit and be present, but she was always ready to get the next thing done. But I still loved her so much. About 3 years ago, it dawned on me that for the most part, our sex life for the last 3 years was her giving me a handjob. In our whole 9.5 yrs I never got ONE BJ! Not even half of one. And the sex was very limited positions. TMI lolol Anyways I say all that to say that yes, what I did was COMPLETELY WRONG, but I would never have been going crazy inside if I was at least having sex with the woman I loved. And I was always extremely romantic, surprising her with trips (where I had the kids taken care of) jewelry, clothes, concerts, and anything I heard her mention that she liked. I always tried to hold her hand, to kiss her, to cuddle, but I don't know what it was. After the kids came, I was just so happy and in love with them that it really helped to lesson the fight. Crazy thing is that 5 days after the divorce was finalized, she told me that she was gonna be dating my friend, who was the one that introduced us. They got married 7 months later! Five years after the divorce we all became very civil.cause he and I had always been cool, and so we never ever got into any arguments, except one time when he was trying to tell me that he read that it's better now the children to stay the majority of the time with just one parent instead of bouncing back and forth every other weekend. Well I LOVE kids and especially my own, so that didn't go over well at all. But in 25 years, that was the only time, and even then, I was very kind in my words because he was one of those guys that really knew nothing about kids and was the guy that all the kids would gather around and play with. For years we got along. They had two kids and when their son was about two, on his own he started to call me "Black Papa" (my buddy was white). Later my ex complained that her husband never was interested in sex! Lolol That ONE TIME, she said, "I don't know why I didn't appreciate how affectionate you were". I was like.... um okay. But about 7 years later it got bad all over because one time when dropping of the kids she barged into my office cause we had been arguing about the fact that I wanted more time with them. The kids were in my home office as we were arguing (they were about 12 andv13.5) and I told her that they should not be listening to the argument and should go. She was like "NO, they can stay". @dfinlen I always tell guys that are going through divorce to preemptively be prepared to possibly be dealing with a person that you have never met before. Not all women are that way, but I think their bitterness combined with their attorneys pushing them to try to take everything is a catalyst for disaster. But don't get sucker punched thinking, "oh my wife is not like that". And for the record, in case people are thinking that I must have done something terrible, my bad deed is that over 3 years I went to different massage places for a handjob, 7 times. Not that this is a justfication for it, but she would rarely give me sex. Because of religious beliefs we were both virgins, myself being a month shy of 26. So you can imagine how I felt the next day after the wedding night when I asked about messing around and she was like, "we just did that yesterday". O_o But I always stayed patient and kind and never forced her. I just got very good at slowly turning her on till she couldn't take it. But most of the time there was nothing. And if I took care of myself, then she was devastated. So then she would ask me if I had. It was so hard. Literally. Lol and it's so sad cause she was extremely beautiful with, blonde hair and very green eyes. But it was more than no sex, there was very little intimacy or at least feeling desired. She was so focused on work and other things and all wanted was for her to hold my hand or cuddle or just sit and be present, but she was always ready to get the next thing done. But I still loved her so much. About 3 years ago, it dawned on me that for the most part, our sex life for the last 3 years was her giving me a handjob. TMI lololol In our whole 9.5 yrs I never got ONE BJ! Not even half of one. And the sex was very limited positions. Anyways I say all that to say that yes, what I did was COMPLETELY WRONG, but I would never have been going crazy inside if I was at least having sex with the woman I loved. And I always extremely romantic, surprising her with trips (where I had the kids taken care of) jewelry, clothes, concerts, and anything I heard her mention that she liked. I always tried to hold her hand, to kiss her, to cuddle but I don't know what it was. After the kids came, I was just so happy and in love with them, that it really helped to lesson the fight. Crazy thing is that 5 days after the divorce was finalized, she told me that she was gonna be dating my friend, who was the one that introduced us. They got married 7 months later! Five years after the divorce we all became very civil. He and I had always been cool, and so we never ever got into any arguments, except one time when he was trying to tell me that he read that it's better for the children to stay the majority of the time with just one parent instead of bouncing back and forth every other weekend. Well, I LOVE kids and especially my own, so that didn't go over well at all. But in 25 years, that was the only time, and even then, I was very kind in my words because he was one of those guys that really knew nothing about kids and I was the guy that all the kids would gather around and play with. But he was a good Father to them and I always insisted that they be respectful and never undermined him. For years my ex and I got along. They had two kids and when their son was about two, on his own he started to call me "Black Papa" (my buddy was white). Later my ex complained that her husband was never interested in sex! Lolol, That was ONE and only TIME that she took any type of accountability, and she said, "I don't know why I didn't appreciate how affectionate you were". I was like.... um okay. But about 7 years later it got bad all over again because one time when dropping of the kids she barged into my office cause we had been arguing about the fact that I wanted more time with them. The kids were in my home office as we were arguing (they were about 12 and 13.5) and I told her that they should not be listening to the argument and should go. She was like "NO, they can stay". I said that now that they were older, six days a month was not even close to enough time! Then she said it, she said "well you should have thought about that before you cheated" and then I said "well if you had been having sex with me then that would have never happened"! And that dear friends is the long version of why she hates me so much after 26 years. lololol And for the record, her and my friend I think just got divorced. I don't know, cause after my daughter died, she said a lot of very terrible untrue things, and now my son won't talk to me. I know that he feels like he has to be loyal to her cause before, it was my daughter that she would talk bad about me to. I KNOW he knows what kind of Dad I was, so I am just giving him the space until he is ready to talk. I love him so much, that it just kills me. But I'm hopeful. I apologize for that long, emotional dump. Lol Here is the page I designed for my baby if you are ever curious. www.lexylooloo.com

@dfinlen

11 ай бұрын

@@_Mr.D you should copy this to a journal or something. That's a start of a book. Haha

Aivan mahtavaa avoimuutta, ja aikuismaista asian käsittelyä. Kiitos teille.

I was missing Anni and now I feel better knowing you are still friends. I loved watching you two together cause you are so easy going and funny. Good luck Anni in your studies and good luck Lauri. Hope to see Anni occasionally 🙂

@AlexKall

Жыл бұрын

Yeah same here! There is a good feeling in the tummy now after this video :-)

Thanks for this. I used to watch your videos quite regularly, including Anni's vlogs, so it was really interesting to see this update on / epilogue of your relationship. The last chapters of your story, as you say. You got married so young, when it's hard to know what kind of people you'll become a decade later. I have a friend who met her husband at 19, but it's been a lot of work and compromise for both of them. And running a company together is another level. I'm so impressed by your maturity in figuring out what you both need and how not too hurt each pursuing it. A lot of people never "level up" to that. In my social circle, polyamory is pretty normal, so that didn't phase me. It was interesting to hear you both talking about feelings in such a thoughtful way, which is such a different side from a Beyond the Press video. And finally it's great to see Anni has kept her sense of style. The earing / coat / scarf combo is fantastic!

It’s so refreshing to see a divorced couple be so friendly and happy! That is genuine friendship there. It’s sad to see Anni go, but I am glad you are civil and happy! Good luck on the new chapter. Cheers.

Ei hemmetti noin järkevää eroomista voi olla kuin sadussa. Onnea kaikesta huolimatta.

@Anniarvaja

Жыл бұрын

Joo mää kans mietin, et mikä huijaus tää on, ku kaikki menee niin helpolla 😂😂

@antti-lassileinonen3344

Жыл бұрын

Pajamies HP veit lähes sanat suustani 👍

@Topsiekku

Жыл бұрын

Muuten paitsi tuommoinen avoin suhde ei oo ihmiselle hyväksi jos semmoseen jää elämään myös uuden kanssa. Myöhemmin ymmärtää ellei vielä. Palvelee ehkä ihmisen omia himoja ja haluja mutta ei mitään muuta, mutta kaikella on hintansa. Raamatusta löytyy se viisaus elämään:) Jumalan pelko on viisauden alku.:)

And this, ladies and gentlemen is how good sensible and respectfull people break up and move on in life, so much love i could allmost feel it thru the screen of my ipad…. Best of lifes to you both from Denmark 👍❤️

As an old fan all I can say is thank you for all the years of fun and entertainment - Thanks for the huge sacrifices taken to continue providing the best content possible for your viewers, and I can't think of a more self-less act than that! I'm happy the both of you are now officially happy again! It was one hell of a ride!!

As a long time fan and subscriber, thank you. Thank you for all your hard work and entertainment. Thank you for your transparency and maturity of what could a difficult time. I wish nothing but the best and looking forward to what is to come.

Huusin clickbaittia ensimmäiset minuutit mutta uskottava se on! Aina hienoa nähä ihmisiä jotka on kiitollisia menneestä avioliitosta ja osaa olla katkeroitumatta. Kaikkee hyvää Anni ja Lauri ootte yhtä hyviä erikseenkin!

Just saw Anni's video and came and watched this. When things with huge potential and expectations don't turn out as we expect, it's always sad, but I'm really pleased to see you both have used the last couple of years to recover, move forwards, and are at the stage you can appreciate where you've been. I really hope you stay close as friends (off camera) and wish you both all the best.

Hämmentävät fiilikset. Niin surullista, että teillä meni lusikat jakoon, mutta on silti niin perkuleen hienoo, miten hyvät välit teille on jäänyt. Voitte yhä itkee ja nauraa yhdessä. Onnea tosi paljon molemmille elämiinne! 👍👍❤️

@MrBrander

Жыл бұрын

Joo itsellekin jäi vähän hämmentyneet fiilikset, kun jotenkin vaikea saada otetta tästä tilanteesta. Sillä tavalla näkee, että kuinka paljon ns. isommalla tasolla tässä puhutaan näitä asioita ja kuinka paljon isommalla tasolla he ovat niitä käsitelleet varmasti aiemmin ja hyvin he kaiken selittävät ja kertovat tilanteen, mutta silti jotenkin on vaikea käsittää, ymmärtää ja sisäistää tätä asiaa, että tälläisiäkin eroja on olemassa. Ja kai tässä vaikuttaa sekin, että en itse ole ollut koskaan missään vuosia kestäneessä suhteessa, niin senkin takia tämä tilanne vaikuttaa jotenkin oudolta. Ja kanssa sekin tuntuu oudolta, että mitenkä vesimäisen soljuvasti sitten asioiden on vaan annettu mennä tuohon pisteeseen kuin missä se nyt on ja se on molemmille fine. Itselle jotenkin tuli sellainen fiilis, että tuotako se elämä sitten parisuhteessa on, että annetaan vain asioiden soljua eteenpäin sen sijaan, että oikeasti yritetään tehdä töitä sen asian ratkaisemisen eteen ja muuttaa sitä tilanteen soljumisen suuntaa. Mutta tässäkin, kuten kaikissa muissakin tilanteissa, kukaan muu kuin he eivät tiedä ja näe eikä myöskään pysty näkemään koko kuvaa. Eli siis en yritä arvostella heitä tässä tai mitään. Homma on mennyt niin kuin on mennyt ja se on mennyt heidän tyylinsä mukaisesti, mutta itseä vaan jotenkin ihmetyttää, että tälläisiäkin tapoja hoitaa parisuhde asioita on. Jotenkin tuntuu niin ihmeelliseltä. :D Noh. Eipä siinä. Ihan hyvä video ja hyvää asioiden läpi käymistä ja niiden valottamista yleisölle. Sivuhuomautuksena: Itseä vähän harmittaa, sinällään, että ei ole päässyt mitään tälläisiä itse kokemaan. Sinällään sen takia, koska itse koen, että eron kokeminen on aina ikävää ja en haluaisi sitä taas kerran joutua kokemaan (lyhyissä suhteissa, kun siis kuitenkin olen ollut pari kertaa), mutta siis olisi mukava päästä kokemaan edes tuollainen 12 vuotta kestävä parisuhde ja kaikki tapahtumat sen varrella vaikka olisi se vielä mukavampaa päästä kokemaan koko loppuelämän pituinen parisuhde. Ja jotenkin tulee huomattua, että mitenkä paljon isompi ja laajempi asia elämä onkaan sitten, kun on parisuhteessa ja se monimutkaistaa asioita paljon, mutta vaikka ne asiat ovatkin monimutkaisempia, niin ne eivät välttämättä ole hankalampia. Niiden eri asioiden ratkomiseen vain menee enemmän aikaa ja tällä videolla Anni ja Lauri omasta mielestäni ns. vahingossa sivussa kertovat kanssa, että parisuhteessa prosessien ja asioiden ratkominen voi kestää pidempään, kun vuosistahan he puhuivat aina aika-ajoin. Eipä mitään. Kaikkea hyvää teille Lauri ja Anni. :)

I am super bummed that you will no longer be creating together, some of my favorite videos were when you both were laughing and having fun. I am happy that you both are happy and moving on to healthy and wonderful futures.

I didn't realise that you had your own channel, Lauri, so I missed this... except I had already guessed what had happened. I won't comment on your's and Anni's business except to say that it's so good you can both laugh and talk openly still. I think you are both great, great people together and individually and I will continue to follow both of you.

Thank you for sharing this when you didn’t need to - I’m sorry it never worked out for you both, and the occasional look of hurt in Anni’s eyes was haunting, but if you are both on good terms, then I’m happy for you both - just goes to show how rare true love is these days, that more marriages end in divorce than stay permanent

This was extremely well done. I commend both of you for being so open especially with topics that for many people are taboo to discuss. Best wishes to both of you!

fairly long time fan, very happy you're both friends and doing what you want to do, all the best for the future. anni great to see you in a video again.

Thank you much. Freedom is priceless!

Yay, i missed Anni so much!! Good luck to both of you on future endeavors 💪💪

Thank you for sharing! Thank you for all your work that you've shared with us in the past and I hope you both find even more happiness in the future. Really stepping back from romance to friend isn't a bad thing, and I'm happy you can still keep that friendship in order to be free to pursue your dreams.

It went so well because your both genuinely good people! Good for you both & best of luck!

It seems like so many creators on KZread burnout. It seems like such a beast to feed with content to stay afloat in the algorithm Thank you for sharing the rest of your story together, I'll still keep watching whatever you all put out. I really enjoyed seeing life in Finland and you both have made it a must visit place for me in the future!

Thanks for sharing this. I'm sure it's not easy, but we appreciate the closure to our long adventures with Anni and Lauri

Thank you for everything you've created together. All the best for both of you for your future plans!

This was great, refreshing to see anni even if maybe the last time, she's awesome. Happy for your futures.

I feel sad to learn of the divorce but it doesn't feel like an ending. I hope that you both find more happiness and fun in your new adventures, together or apart. We can all learn from the wisdom, mature outlook, mutual love and respect that you have for each other. It's very refreshing and we need more of this in the world.

Growing older and apart doesn't always have to contain anger and sadness. Sure, you can feel those things, but it's important not to hold on to them. You two are a great example of that. My ex and I broke up, we were hurt and sad and then put that behind us in a healthy manner. 20 years later, we are still each other's best friend. Thank you for sharing your lives with us. Anni, especially about your mental health. Good luck to both of you.

Heard and understood you in finnish but mine is so bad that I reply in english. The exitement that Anni feels I have also felt a lot of times. Started my life over maybe 10 times but nowadays there is none of it what ever I do. Wish you both all the best. You have entertained a lot of people trough the years. Hyvää jatkoo ja terveisiö ruotsista!

Thank you both for all of the joy you both provided me with your youtube channels. In March, the same thing happened to my wife and I, but after 40 years. Poor mental health played a major role in our divorce. And likewise, being amicable is the best way to go. Take good care, and thank you!

I watched your videos from the start, the day you married, the house, the new car, the heavy equipment and presentations, the friends and so on. Loved the leggings and fashion choices. Love the house. I am surprised at your update. You have both changed a great deal over the years and yes Anni I saw your sadness. I am glad you are still friends. Please continue to make videos and good luck with both your lives xxx

@afrosheenix

Жыл бұрын

Seeing the hidden pain on Lauri's face many times while he was driving I get the feeling the divorce wasn't his idea. Like Anni was saying, she hit a wall and got burnt out, and she wanted everything to change I think. Maybe people like this should remain friends always and not get romantic, but that's the hard part.

@TheInsultInvestor

Жыл бұрын

@@afrosheenix Yeah typical girl wanting more, she's a ho o re and I feel so sorry for this guy.

@MikkoRantalainen

5 ай бұрын

@@afrosheenix As a Finn, I don't agree. I interpreted Lauri's face as "I wonder how should I select my words because I know this is going to be published?" instead of pain. Finns are not generally known for expressive faces.

Kiitos kaikista näistä vuosista, olette yhdessä tuottaneet mahtavia videoita tänne KZreaden, näitä on ollut ilo katsella ja erittäin hieno konsepti tämä uusi työmatka podcast. Kaikkea hyvää molemmille tulevaisuuden haasteisiin! Beyond the Press channellille toivoisin vielä myös jatkoa, jos vaan aika riittää tekemään lisää sisältöä 👌

@laurivuohensilta1387

Жыл бұрын

Eiköhän sinne kohta taas tule uutta tavaraa btpeellekkin, minulla on pari hyvää projektia ollut tässä työn alla ja uskon, että niihin löytyy nyt uutta energiaa kohta taas.

Lauri and Anni, THANK YOU for the hours of entertainment, and the sharing of your lives with all of us! I'm sad to see you go your own ways, but opportunities for both of you will be massive and great! I completely agree with imbok! You are both class acts, I wish you all the best of luck and overflowing success as you continue on your new adventures!

Well I've watched you guys a long time. I watched you with my mom and dad. My dad died last year, but I watched this video with my mom because we really think you are some of the sweetest nicest people to become famous content creators. We're very happy you've been able to be amicable and it was friendly. We send our blessings to both your futures. You're nice people. And you guys speak a lot of truth. My parents divorced and we still ended up living together in the same house after all because my dad became ill and we're a small family and he needed caregiving. Like Anni said, these are just different books. Every story is different or has a spin-off etc. I think it's honorable and good to know limits and knowing changes are important for the individual and for life. Wishing you both continued luck and happiness.

That is sad but not the end of the world. You guys are still young. We already miss both of you together but Life must go on and I prefer you happy that way. Take care.. both if you and many thanks for all of these years of videos!

Good treatment of Seiska caller! Good you both are on your way to fulfil/set best goals possible! So happy for the both of you!

This all makes a lot more sense. Glad you guys are happy, still a bit sad it didn't work long term

Glad you are both doing well, wish you the best for whatever is next!

Thank you so much for all your entertainment and laughter. I wish you both the very best.

I thought this was a joke looking at how well you still come along :D All the best to you and thank you for all these HPC years!

So glad you two are happy!

Really enjoyed the past vids together and i wish best for both of you and your futures. Also excited what's in store for the next ten yrs on HPC channels

Voi helvetti! I wish both of you the very best. I watched for many years and I will miss seeing Anni on the channel, or hearing her laugh in slow-mo. Really appreciate the explanation video, and the subtitles. Like always it was done with humour and intelligence. Thanks for all the laughs and enjoy yourselves in future.

Thanks to both of you for making this video and sharing your story 🙂 Wishing you both all the best for the future and many thanks for all the great videos you made together for us to enjoy 😀

We all go through difficult situations, and it's important to come out of them as best as we can. I'm glad that you are both apparently doing very well!

I can relate. Best wishes to the both of you! 🇺🇸 🤝 🇫🇮

Beautiful story. From beginning to end to new beginning. Much love to you both.

@zognaldblormpf5127

Жыл бұрын

It's a horror story

Aika mukava ulostulo tosiasioista, iso Respect 👍

Aiheesta huolimatta tosi positiivisia ajatuksia herättävä video! :)

You're both such good people and being very mature about this. I'm so glad everything is working better than expected and you're both happy with the split. I wish you both success and happiness!!!

What these two share is true love and respect. They love each other enough to let them go, without spite or hatred. The entire world can learn a lesson from this video. toivottaen

im gunna miss Anni's laugh.... good luck to you both :)

Thank you for sharing this with us. I wish you both the best of happiness! There is much wisdom in Lauri's comment that there are bad emotions but we don't arrange our lives so we never get angry; we also don't arrange our lives so that we never face sadness or the endings of things, and it is very clear in your words and appreciation of each other that giving up the previous 12 years to avoid the ending would have been a great loss. And the affection for each other that you clearly still have is what I would aspire to in all of my relationships.

Hands down the most adult and genuine relationship on youtube the second Ive ever known outside my own. Dont live your lives for the world, live it how you want.

I did't get it until now. Hope all is still good❤ You two really became part of my youtube watching time. Thanks!

glad I figured out that I could turn on the closed captions to see what you were talking about ! It is nice that you cleared the air and stop the gossip in the bud. I came over because I saw Lauri with some other woman in recent video and wanted to know what was going on . Anni - you are right - there is nothing as nice as freedom to go out and explore the world ( or stay home !) .

All the best to you both.

All the best to both of you. Anni - you are looking great, all the best for the future.

Thanks for this video.

I saw Anni's video first (fresh start). It made me cry. I don't know why. You guys seem so happy in this video. I'll wish you both the best for your futures, and am glad you're still good friends. It's good to have good people in your lives, and you're both really good people.

I just learned about this and honestly after years of watching you guys my heart sank. But I am really happy that you are on good terms. Going to miss your videos together. Thank you for the good content and the laughs throughout the years. Wish you both the best.

Such a lovely couple, sad you are splitting but happy for you both at the same time. Thankyou for sharing your story and being inspirational. Best wishes for the future

I just love anne her vibe and her laugh will be missed...so i just leave with wishing you guys both the best...especially anne with her mental state..sending you guys good vibes and love

Great to hear both of you are doing well! How are the cats though, haven't heard from them for a while?

Good luck and best wishes to both of you.

The big (and quite rare!) maturity and open-mindedness from both of you are very valuable traits. Even more so in combination with this childlike joy you seem to have in your hearts. From personal experience I know that depression can be really tough and draining...glad to see that Anni got out of it. I wish you two all the best for your future! (Some more translations would have been nice though ;))

I can't help but feel sad about your divorce, but I guess that's part of life as well. Hope you are both doing well and wish you the best for the future. As much as I like crazy Lauri I'd love to know how your new story will go Anni!

Good luck in your ventures, Anni. You've been great!

Olipa mukava Podcasti, tästä jymyuutisesta ei jäänyt paljoa lehdistölle mässäiltävää. Kaikkea hyvää teille ja hyvää uutta vuotta myös

Wish you both the best and glad you both can still share a laugh.

First let me say, Anni, you look wonderful! Seeing you happy and smiling is fabulous. It's easy to tell that all the stress is gone and you're doing well. So happy for you. Lauri, good to see you happy also. It's good to see you both able to interact and be happy, all divorces should end so well. Anni, I completely understand about your stress and depression, I suffer from it too. I need to get out of a relationship too but it's not so simple. I've had depression for years, maybe most of my life. You have to make changes that are good for you, but sometimes you don't realize it or know what they are. That's why its important to get good help and it looks like you did. Again I'm happy for you both. In society these days we seem to not pay much attention to mental health, except when it's too late. I wish good fortune to you both wherever life's journey takes you.

Best wishes to both of you!

Semppiä teille ja onnea omissa poluissanne ❤️

Thank You for explanation. Good luck for You both! And Anni, please post something on Your old channel sometimes, please!

I'm a little late to this, but you two have always been so sweet to your viewers and fans, I'm happy to see you are still sweet to each other. Love doesn't always mean marriage or romance. Sometimes it's something a little different, but the level of respect still remains.

Tosi hyvä video oli! :) Kiva saada esimerkki siitä, kun ero menee kivasti. Hiukan liikaa aina kohistaan kaikenlaisesta draamasta ja välillä tuntuu, että joillain on sellainen ajatus, että kun erotaan niin sit saa olla ihan niin ilkee kuin haluaa ilman mitään seurauksia. Sanotaan vain, että "kuuluu asiaan" ja sit jää kaikille edes etäisesti tilannetta seuranneille paha mieli, vaikkei sen tarvitse mennä niin. Itse uskon, että tosi moni asia on keskustelemalla selvitettävissä niin ettei kokonaan mene välit, mutta valitettavan tavallista on, että erotilanteessa oikein yritetään saada toinen hermostumaan, että voi sit jälkeenpäin ajatella, että "no se olikin ihan paska tyyppi" (vaikka oikeesti oli sitä itsekin). Monissa avoimissa suhteissa osataan selvästi kyllä keskustella ja tää kyl kuulostaa siltä, että se keskusteluyhteys on teitä tässä helpottanut. Tsemppii molemmille tulevaan, kuulostaa hienoilta suunnitelmilta! :)

@MikkoRantalainen

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Taitaa tosiaan olla, että kipeimmät erot syntyvät siitä kun suhdetta yritetään pakolla jatkaa liian pitkään ja tilanne räjähtää lopulta käsiin. Räjähdyksen jälkeen molemmat osapuolet ovat henkisesti niin hajalla, että eroa ei osata enää sen jälkeen hoitaa järjellä vaan riidellään henkisen hajoamisen keskellä.

Hienoa esimerkkiä myös muille, videosta jäi tosi hyvä fiilis! Toivottavasti nähdään vielä Annia tälläkin kanavalla kuulumisien merkeissä silloin tällöin.

Just got through four of the hardest years of my life - divorce is hard. Best to both of you.

Hienoa että noin hyvissä mielin olette eteenpäin menossa. Kaikkea hyvää molemmille.

@Anniarvaja

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Kiitos! 🥰

Will miss Anni in HPC content, but I am glad that you have managed to find a way for both of you to be happier and that you are still friends :) Also hope you are doing better now Anni, burnt out myself twice and know it's hell. PS. Thanks for the English subtitles!

"tosi hyvä seikkailu" ❤️

I will always love you both. I broke up a few month ago with my girlfriend of 5 years. And just like you, we're still friends. And just like you, we genuinely wish each other the best of everything in our lives.

Glad to see you remain friends! Anni if you want to visit Canada, comment back and we’ll get in touch. It’s like Finland, but warmer and more sunshine!

No way are the english captions saying everything.

Best of luck to you both, it is very nice to see you dont have any bad blood between you :)

paras työmatka podcasti tähän mennessä! Ja kai vielä vois sanoa että boonuspisteet Annista! :)

I Love you guys! I hope your happy moving forward!!!!

Best wishes to both of you! ❤

I was wondering what had happened when I suddenly learned about this in the last HPC stream on Twitch, a few weeks ago, and then Anni's recent vlog. I totally missed this stream :) A burnout is not to be joked with. Sadly I have experience with this. A lot of people think that living off of making KZread videos is an easy life, but many have seen the huge amount of work that goes into setting everything up, an recording, as was shown during your many live streams on Twitch. You have concluded that a married life isn't working out the way you both thought it would, and ended it in the best possible way; as good friends, each going their own way. Nothing but respect for that. I even recognized bits of Tampere you drove through :) I've visited friends there a few years back.

Sorry to hear this news. Blessings to both of you. Anni, lots of Finns in Florida.

Wish you both good luck! 🍀

Shame you guys went your separate ways but if you want different things from life, it goes down hill from the moment this is realised, from here either one of you have to sacrifice your wants, needs dreams etc and live feeling unfulfilled or you move on, no matter how difficult that may be, i have the opinion that once it gets to the point you are dating other people its only a matter of time until one or both fall in love with someone else and from that point separation is inevitable. I just want to say thank you to you both for the content you created and shared with us all over the years 😎👍 wish you both all the best and happiness for the future ❤👍👍👍👍👍

If it weren’t for the subtitles, I would think this is a couple of good friends having a nice conversation about Finnish things.

@philchadwick9470

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They were!

Hyvä meininki! Molemmat samaa mieltä. Saanu touhuta mitä haluu. Ja saa palata yhteen jos sille tuntuu.