Never apologize for being you. I think celebrating your family is perfect

You are the one who will make a difference in your children’s life and their happiness. I think you are brave and an amazing , selfless mom. May the Lord heal your broken heart and bless you ❤

Sweet India. My heart broke seeing her precious face at the end. I wish i could give you all a big hug. I will continue to keep you all in my thoughts and prayers, and your names in the Temple. Julie, never apologize for being you. That's the one thing I love about your channel. You're always so open and real. God bless you and your family.

@BrendaD72

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Right? The older two were trying hard to be positive for the little ones, but they are so much more aware of what’s happening. 💔

This was my most favorite blog! Do not ever forget that you are not alone. You have a KZread family that cares for you and the children very much ❤❤❤❤❤❤heart

Julie, you are gonna be fine…..Gods got your back! Cares and prayers your way!

Happy family day Boyes 💗!!! Julie, you will always be your children’s anchor and light. They will always be grateful for you as allow them to SEE YOU as you SEE THEM ❤️‍🔥

YOU Are A Beautiful And Strong Woman And Mother! Your Children Are So Blessed to Have You As Their Parent and Mother. They Will Watch Their Mother Being A Super Hero While They Are Growing Up. They Will Thank You When They Are Adults. You Are A Blessing For Each Other! 💖💪

It’s okay to feel the range of emotions. It’s part of the healing.

Julie, what a beautiful way to celebrate such a special day. You made it special for your babies and made a new tradition. I'm not going to lie, I cried through your birth stories and watching you hold it together for the sake of the kids and seeing how hurt the older kids are, I am praying for you and your special family everyday. Never apologize for being you, this is your life and anyone who has something negative to say shouldn't be here anyways. I look at this beautiful family that Alex helped create and get so angry that he just walked away... Trauma or no trauma. I am however praying for him that he see's the light and finds his way home. So many of us just love you and your family, I wish I wasnt a half of country away in Florida, I want to give you a hug so bad, I know your pain... God bless all of you.

Happy family-versary!!! 🎉🎉🎉 👏👏👏 love you and your amazing kiddos! ❤️❤️

You are an exceptional mother.

BEST FAMILY THERAPY SESSION EVER!!!!❤ This was a wonderful way to show your children that there are beautiful blessings in some of the most painful times in your life. Keep finding your blessings!

Your older kids understand and also have feelings about this day loved that you turned it around and made a family celebration. Praying for your family.

Never apologize to show your feelings, we are here for you and your kids, celebrate their life, this is your family and you are the best mom, your kids will always respect, admire, love and look up to you, and only you, you are their mom and that’s the greatest gift, only you will guide them and you are and will be strong! You cry, you scream, you are allowed to be human and your kids will be stronger for it. We all love you so much, always remember that, hugs and kisses for you and your kids and your pups❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘

Julie you are an awesome lady You are a super mom and you will be blessed. Heavenly Father loves you and he is there for you. Hang in there Love you sister.....

My heart goes out to you ,I have only been a visitor to your channel for maybe a month and have found you and your family just wonderful and loving and real,I pray your heart can mend,you deserve love and happiness

I LOVE THE TRANSPARENCY... THAT'S WHAT'S REAL. ❤️ YOU'VE GOT THIS !!!

❤😢😊🥰 Julie, that was beautiful what you did with the children you are amazing mother and thank you for letting us in your world. Love you all.❤

You got me over here crying with you I am so so sorry that you and them babies are going through this rough time 💔

Oh no. I am sorry, Julie. I agree that it is a day to celebrate your family starting, no matter the condition of the situation right now. It is hard. I admire your desire to find the good. 💞 {{{Hugs}}} You found something special to do with your children. 💜 God bless you all. Peace and love and joy always, even in the hard times.

I had just about stopped crying from seeing you cry when precious little Ari said "and he left us." Then I started sobbing! I know his pain, and your pain Julie. My father walked out of my life when I was 14. Left me standing in my aunt's driveway with my heart in my hands and wondering why he didn't want to be my dad anymore. He said "see ya, Moose" and just drove away...and ended up driving 600 miles away from me to settle down and be a family man with his girlfriend and his new step kids. I know your pain because I have been abandoned with children and hit square in the face with the fear of suddenly being the only one there through the all night fevers, the parent/teacher conferences, the days they came home crying because of bullies...and the nights they went to bed still hungry because dinner just wasn't enough and I had nothing more for them. My heart hurts for you and I want to be able to wave a magic wand that will bring Alex home (where he belongs) and that will erase the pain and heartache from the memories of each of you...but sadly, as adults we know this isn't a fairytale and only time, perseverance, a million tears, a billion prayers and strength y'all didn't even know you had will be what brings you through. You are amazing! Much stronger than I...and I love that you made this a day to celebrate the beginning of your family and to tell each of your babies how special and unique they are! If no one has told you, I'm telling you now that you are special and unique also! Where do you think your kids got it?? I'm praying for you, your kids, and for Alex to come home to the wonderful, beautiful, loving, incredible, amazing wife and children that Heavenly Father gave him. I know it's hard...I know it's painful...but you're rockin' it and I'm so very proud of you!!

@BrendaD72

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This just pissed me off for her kids and for you. Regardless of whatever crises he claims to be going through, it’s NO excuse for making your kids feel that way.

@rhondalancaster1910

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Love you and your sweet family and just want to say that you are brave and strong and can do hard things because you have no choice.

@anniepeters2409

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Sweetheart I'm sorry you had to feel that pain as a child and as an adult it's f***** up my father my biological father was never in my life yet he decided to be father to a stepchild and a woman a woman that not even to the woman that he end up marrying it's f***** up because the woman that he end up marrying he feels quote on quote she's too ugly for someone to really be with he's just with her for the money and yet he calls himself a pastor but thankfully my stepdad who I consider dad he's been in my life for a long time he's watched all three of my children come to this world and he's helped raise them I just recently lost my mother my fiance and two guy sisters practically back to back like literally one month for one and then the next month and then 2 months after that and then the last guy sister a few months ago so it's hard nevertheless I have been lost my grandmother unfortunately my mother and grandmother raised me no one should have to feel this pain my fiance he may not have been the father of my three children but he was a wonderful man he stepped in no hesitation my girls loved him to death no pun intended he's always going to be dad in their eyes my step dad which I consider dad he's always going to be there biological Granddad in their eyes because the true biological one ain't s*** like I said but good things come to those who wait trust and believe me when I say this any of us that have been through any type of Heartache especially s*** like this as a child and or adult with people walking out and leaving us to fend for ourselves and to be broken hearted they're going to get what they deserve and we're going to get what we deserve even if we all have to wait until Judgment Day and Lord have mercy for the ones that have done wrong if you have to wait to suffer until Judgment Day is going to be way worse that's when a person is going to truly feel it heart mind body and soul so they should welcome punishment here on this Earth cuz the afterlife Judgment Day man oh man are they going to fill that raft hard in some way shape or form even if it's the guilt The Unbelievable gut-wrenching heart-wrenching guilt but to everyone out there the person that made the long comment and to Jules honey you and your children y'all got this you all are strong family you're United we all are going to make it through these heartaches these hardships so I say that to say this everyone stay safe stay warm unless you stay in a hot climate in that case stay cool but most importantly stay blessed everyone and Happy New Years to everyone

@Dewalsh929

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Beautifully Said I too know that pain all to well, but you know what I made it through the storm you made it and so will Julie and her Beautiful kids, I send you and Julie NOTHING BUT BEAUTIFUL BLESSINGS & POSITIVE VIBES ONLY, MY WISH FOR JULIE IS THAT I COULD HEAL HER ACHING HEART JUST KNOW JULIE WE LOVE YOU & THE KIDS AND WE'LL DO ANYTHING WE CAN TO HELP YOU GUY'S OUT. TRY TO HAVE AN AMAZING DAY🥰❤🥰⚘⚘⚘⚘

@reneepaquette488

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You do not deserve to be left in the lilch, and God is our ultimate! You ❤️ shine♡

Never apologize!!! We share each other’s burdens! Celebrating your family is the best most grateful way to celebrate!

I really love how you decide to celebrate with your kids instead of being in bed crying, just goes to show how strong of her woman and mother you are. I felt exactly how India feels, when you are used to having your dad already then you hardly see them. I would tell India like I tell myself all the time, even though my father decided not to be around me for some reason, doesn't mean he stop loving me and to never forget all the great memories we had together

Never apologise for showing your feelings sweetheart....this is your vlog your life & your story with your beautiful family....Your children are learning from you that it’s ok to express your feelings & that you are all there for each other....sending lots of love..❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

I'm here for the transparency. I wish you weren't going through this, but I love your family and your willingness to be real and raw, with the good and the bad. Praying for you. 💕

❤I love the way you celebrate your marriage and your children. All your children are so beautiful and intelligent. Keep the good work up Julie we love you.💙💙💙💙💘💖💗💓

I don’t know you personally, but I love you. You are the best mom to include them in this bittersweet day. They will always be your number one fan! Hugs from around the world ❤

Oh my goodness now I'm crying,I love the way you just did that and it is the day you started your family and now it's the day you celebrate with your family please be proud of yourself you are doing such a great job prayers going out to you and your family

What a perfect way to make your kids aware that no matter what they are loved, wanted and cherished! God knows how hard you are working and is by your side and at times carrying you! ❤️

What a great celebration 🎊🎉 the kids can understand an I love how you went from Adanna to Nyoma .Day to day is all we have.God be with you an Bless you

Loved it....crying like a baby.....but family is all that matters....kids keep you going!!!!🎉🎉🎊🎊💕💕💕💕

I absolutely love and adore this idea. Such a wonderful family.

Girl...In no way shape or form are you a baby!!! You are being a wonderful Mother and Woman!!!

That was so beautiful, you are a strong wonderful woman and your kids truly love you as much as you love them.

Your family celebration is bringing me to tears. It's so beautiful to see the love shared between all of you creating this new tradition together.

Julie and kids, This one made me cry. I'm hurting for you and the kids. I haven't been a member of the LDS church for 40 years now but it is where learned to love the Lord. It's where all of my morals come from. I'm very glad that I was raised in the LDS church. Your family is so precious and those kids. I could go on and on about your kids. As your heart may be sad and hurting right now know that God has your back and you are going through this for a reason. You may not know the reason but he does and he will get you through this hard time. Let your kids inspire you. Lean on them for the love you are missing. Do fun things with them like playing games, coloring with them, reading books with them. I'm sure you already do this. Know that your family is in my prayers.

I bet the spirit was so strong in that room. What a wonderful Mom who knows how to find joy in the little things. A mom who knows what is important. They are lucky to have you as their Mom and can tell they are going to do great things. Excited to see what great things will come next, because I already know they are going to happen.

Julie this was beautiful! you took a day that brings you pain and turned it around to be something fun for the kids. That was awesome! I had tears watching the beginning, seeing how hurt you are. I know this may sound hokey but it's HIS loss. You are an amazing Mom , woman and person. Hang in there girlfriend!

@lovelove-nc1fh

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@walshgeorgia1

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Wait when did this happen did her partner walk out? Is there a video about it?

Julie you celebrated perfectly ♥

You are incredible! Your beautiful family tribute was so special!

I'm sobbing 😭😭😭😭 life is so cruel poor kiddos India's pain breaks my heart but God will heal your hearts life has to go on without him his loss your amazing Julie in everything you do love you beautiful sending lots of blessings to you all 💕🙏💕🙏💕🙏💕🙏💕

Your feelings are completely valid and understandable. Going through my separation/divorce, I felt a lot of heartache . I had to let go of that part of my life and everything I hoped it would be. It felt like grief. I applaud you for making it a positive experience for your kids. You a tremendously strong woman and a great role model for those babies 🥰

You are the best mom. It’s his loss because he had a awesome family..

Julie I'm so sorry that you had to be going through this I know having an anniversary is hard without your husband but you are a very strong woman you have a wonderful children they will always be there for you stay strong Julie you can get through this and God will always be with you and your kids I wish I could be there to give every one of you a hug cuz this has got to be hard to go through much love from Arizona

I’m heartbroken for you Julie 💔 you are strong, you will get through this. I pray your family can be a whole again but if not YOU GOT THIS ❤❤❤

Hello, I'm a new subscriber...since your wrist slip😬🥺..... and my heart aches for you... what ive seen is that you are a warrior and so incredibly inspiring!! 🙏🏽💪🏽 ❤

@TheBigFamilyJewels

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Thanks for subbing! And welcome

When he said " but he left us " broke my heart. Most heartfelt video. This was the most amazing idea !!! Way to turn it into a day everyone can celebrate. I am thinking of u and your family! Keep going warrior mom.

Julie that was lovely and to turn it into something so lovely you are such an amazing person God bless you all 💞🤗🙏

What a great way to celebrate in spite of the grief your heart carry’s

You got this mama I’ve been married 27 years and I couldn’t even imagine but you did nothing wrong! Luv ya hun! ❤

Your children were brought from love.. you are blessed and surrounded by love you will be forever loved

You are such a beautiful person and you have made such a beautiful family. Bless you. Keeping you in our prayers and sending positive energy your way!!

I feel your pain! I just wept looking at this vlog! Keep going! You all are in my thoughts!

What a beautiful meaningful way to celebrate an important day in the lives of your family. And I welcome whatever you feel the need to share , yet I respect what you want to keep private. I think it's a good thing to show people what the collateral damage looks like when a spouse/parent walks away from their family and leaves behind the broken hearts of so many. I commend you Julie for showing such strength to your children and reminding them all how much they're loved and cherished no matter what. ❤

Your children are so adorable ❤I love how you celebrated all your beautiful children your special blessings from your marriage....You are amazing ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Julie.. This was beautiful to watch🥰. I'm Sorry u and family are going threw this. But u and family are very strong. Keep your head up high and love those guys so much.🥰🥰🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️

Beautifully said. I pray the Lord blesses you and your family with love and comfort and magnifies your ability to shoulder your burdens. I hope this year brings you wonderful solutions beyond your wildest dreams.

Julie I think you started a whole new tradition. That was great! You are a true woman warrior Much love and many blessings to you and your 👪

No words. Just a wee hug 🥰

Praying for you and your kids’ hearts. May God give you His strength for each day as you fill in the gaps and move forward with your precious family. 🙏❤️

You have a beautiful family and beautiful kids, stay strong Julie

My heart goes out to you,happy anniversary and big hugs

Happy Famiversary guys! Julie you are strong, you are a fabulous caring mum, you are raw, you are open, you are determined. Never apologise for being you or sharing what you want to share. If someone doesn't want to hear or see it they don't have to be here. It will get easier as the children grow. your children know how much you are there for them, they want to be there for you. Keep on going girl! Heavenly father knows you. PS I am attending Church tomorrow because of your example :) Love ya SIs!

Also tell them stories of how you met, the fun things u did dating, places you went, towns you lived, where you went to school, sports you played. Maybe even pics so they can see how it was a happy and loving new family made

You are amazing! The strength you show is in another realm. Good things are on their way for you.

I just lost my older sissy just a few weeks ago and my heart is 💔 you made me cry and smile . Your a great Mum and Alex needs to come home and put his family first . God bless you hun ❤🙏🏻

Julie my heart hurts for you. You are a AWESOME MOM & person! Love you & your beautiful family! 💋❤️

This is the best celebration ♥️ I love the stories of each of them.

I am so sorry for your sadness. You know what you want and who you want. How could he leave his beautiful family I know it hard for the kids. Eight beautiful children. All the good times you had. All the times you were alone and he was some where doing his music. There is a saying if you love someone set them free if they come back they are yours and if not they never were. Prayers for your family.

Julie I know how you are feeling luckily my kids are all grown when my husband left after 37 years marriage so the heartache is still there but luckily for me no kids to worry about to raise you are an amazing woman and just show him that you can be very strong without him

I can't stop sobbing. I'm praying for your family.

Time will heal you.. Until then we are here for you.. You are Not Alone... And you are a Great Mother. Never forgetting to put Yourself First once in a while.. 🙏 for you and your Kids... 💙💜❤

Oh Julie my heart just about broke when Ari said "then he left us" and at the end with Indy, she doing her best to keep her emotions in broke me altogether. Big hugs and prayers to you and your beautiful family. Hopefully 2023 will turn out the way you want ❤

YOU ARE AMAZING! 💜 I continue to be amazed by you... But this... THIS... Has topped it all! How you just turned your family's hurt into something SO touching and memorial is THE most beautiful thing I have ever seen! I am in tears! I watch every one of your videos and have never commented but had to on this one! I have prayed for you and your family... I believe God puts us in seasons of life to help us grow and lean more on Him... It is in darkness that we grow just like the mushrooms in the meadows... YOU, Julie are an overcomer! You are making our Heavenly Father so pleased as you are depending on Him and doing beyond what many can face under these circumstances! Your children will be THE best human beings because of what you have done for them! May God store those tears in a bottle and turn them into pearls of joy! Prayers for continued strength and peace.... Long time subbie, Lisa ❤️

@TheBigFamilyJewels

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Thank you Lisa!!

Celebrating with the kids was so beautiful and tears of mine for you, Julie. You're a strong woman, and God loves you very much. I'm so sorry about all of this my heart goes out to you. Happy family anniversary ♥️

You are a great mum and a very strong women I pray God gives you all the happiness in world.

Heartbreak is so so awful 💔 My 28th Anniversary was supposed to be a few weeks ago-but life had different plans. That day is also my youngest daughters birthday-which is now an even bigger blessing to me than I ever thought because it gives me a reason to celebrate that day instead of only completely struggling through it (although it’s still super hard). I love how you choose to celebrate the day ❤️ Your kids are going to always know how strong their mom is ❤️

What a precious "Thank you, Mom."!

Your strength amazes me. Keep going Julie. I love you!

That was so sweet,no matter the storm you’re riding through god bless you and protect your kids by any means.

The more you share about what you are going through the more it will help you heal. Do not stop sharing all your feelings and experiences of your life that is the point of having a vlog in my opinion… it’s to be REAL.

Oh sweet India, you are such a beautiful young lady! Your tender heart is a gift. Julie, I'm continually in awe of you! You are such a beautiful example to me, and I know so many others! Each of your children are so incredibly amazing! So much love to all of you!

Routing for you Julie....God has you and the kids through, you are more than conquerers.

Julie I’ve been where you are. Never apologize for being real. What you dId to celebrate this day will bond you and your kids for life. It’s so hard but the way you are handling it is right. I look back on it now and I see where there were important life lessons that we had to learn to break the generational habits and curses in our family. What is going on with Alex is not surprising considering what went on in his life. God is with you and you are turning the hearts of you children to God which is exactly what God wants. He wants to all to draw closer to Him. I am still praying for all of you!

Brilliant!! Always celebrate with them! They will learn how it’s done from you. They will follow your lead. They true and faithful to you and because he left they will remember you as being strong faithful courageous faithful and wise!! Always celebrate with them they are truly your family and heaven on earth!

Love and hugs to lift you up Julie.

Celebrate your blessings you have a super family, you are blessed with them. You are blessed in so many many ways! I pray God's greatest blessing be yours, this day and always! You are dearly loved

Do not ever apolgize for how you and the kids are dealing with this. Everyone deals with grief and loss differently and you do whatever works for all of you. Keep being the strong amazing mom to those beautiful children and you break when you need to and laugh when you need to and cry when you need. Prayers, love and hugs being sent for all of you! God bless you.

Never ever apologize for how you feel. You and your family are not alone. You are an amazing, beautiful, loving Mom. Your kids are amazing. You are doing an amazing job. I wish I lived closer so I can help you. I wish you and your kiddos the best.

Alex is a total jerk for leaving. I’m sick of everyone dancing around and making excuses for him. He chose to leave and he’s a butt for doing it.

I just don’t know how you do it. You are such a great Mom to turn that day into a celebration of your kids. They were sad but you proved y’all could keep going no matter what.

I'm so sorry Julie. I can't even imagine. Our kids are almost the same ages. My first was born 2008 and I had 9 in 12 years. I understand the busy fast life hot having them quick. My husband is gone a lot working 2 jobs for our big family, but he's still home a little. I can't imaginevdoing it completely alone. You are A Rock 🌟Star! I admire your strength. I'm so proud of how hard you try each day. Love You!💕

Oh my... you're killing me with your tenderness.

@noname-nr4iy

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In a beautiful way..... 🤎🤎

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.❤️🧡💙

😪I'm so sad for you and praying for happiness for you soon

Prayers for you and your beautiful family.🙏❤

Watching you guys from Germany ever since. And it breaks my heart because you guys don't deserve to go through this. You are a great Mother! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

You are a wonderful person. I know your heart is broken. Just remember that you have someone who can carry you through anything. And that is God. Praying.

Julie you got this mama you and your babies got this just keep loving one another as y'all do.And never apologize for your moments of heartache that is life for anyone and anyone that judges you is nothing but evil so just know God has your back and Us on KZread that love and adore your family are supporting you and loving you and your family and are so proud of how all of you are handling this heartache I love watching your family through the good and the bad I will continue to watch and love you from afar..from my beautiful little mix family to yours I love you guys. 🙏🏼🙏🏽🙏🏼🙏🏽🙏🏼🙏🏽❤️💜💖💓💗💕🥰

I’m so sorry that you’re going through this. I hope you have peace and joy. I know it’s difficult now but I hope this for you.