This is a GOOD story!! I always say school is NOT for everyone! If you not serious with college, or don’t have a major in mind, you just wasting money away! Business is always the way to go if you willing to take the sweat! But now in days you can come out of high school working @some fast food restaurant as manger n make over $100,000 a year! Lastly, poor parenting skills has caused lots headache and stress for our kids. I hope going forward, hmoob people can learn how to be better parents and accept their kids desire to achieve anything out of the ordinary…. If they choose a path different from other Hmong kids, so be it! Just learn to accept n love them for who they are, is the way to better relationship n family!

True story and great message to all the og's out there don't ever judge your son by the cover because who you associate with. whatever they see is not what you are and all the og's needs to understand that and make sure they fully understand that. What they see is not who you are.

Brother I am so proud of you that you are bettering your life you prove to your dad that you can do anything much respect I always say never judge a book by its cover continue to keep it up 👍🏼

Koj txiv txoj kev cem koj yeej yog lawm vim koj twb rsis xyaum zoo. Txhua tus niam txiv yeej txhawj txog me tub menyuam. Tab txawm yog koj kiag los yog tam sim no koj muaj ib tug menyuam tawv ncauj li thau i koj ces koj yeej txhawj ib yam. Tsuas yog tias koj muaj experience ua laib lawm es koj paub tias zoo li cas xwb. Hos koj txiv tsis tau ua laib nws thiaj thiab ntxhai tshaj. Thiaj cem tshaj. Tsis tau txhais tau tias txhua tus menyuam ua laib thaum kawg tau qhov zoo li koj. Feev coob yog cov poob mus rau kev ploj kev tuag xwb. Yog li koj txiv thiaj cem koj heev. Koj lucky koj mus poo tau tus plooj ywg coj zoo koj thiaj uali nws hais koj thiaj tau qhov zoo xwb os

@HomeMadeWithLove23

2 ай бұрын

Yog

You know it’s because your father was hard on you that helped you to change your ways. You should be thankful instead of resentment. If he was easy on you and let you do as you liked, you probably ended up as nothing. If you’re holding grudges, you are still far from success. You should be grateful that’s someone loved you enough to push you, regardless if it’s not the way you would have wanted it. Just look at the outcome. Your dad didn’t try to sabotage you or keep you from doing good.

@kevinher3546

2 ай бұрын

Well said it

@vangxwb

2 ай бұрын

Agreed👍

@NightmareActual1

2 ай бұрын

I believed this guy have always had a goal to become wealthy at a young age like he stated at the beginning of his story but his dad shut him down when they spoke about it. His dad did not support his idea and way of thinking, also said that he ain't going to be successful and will stay a gangster. The way he dress to how he didn't get his high school diploma and had to get a GED instead. His dad didn't claim him and was embarrassed to acknowledge that he was a son during his grandpa funeral which he had found out from his friend only. This is what's wrong with the Hamong people and their ways of taking credits for something they never help and support. The famous saying just Like the main comment I'm replying too😂 This guy didn't become wealthy because of the way his dad treated him and he didn't become wealthy to show them but he did it for himself because he believed in himself. Stop giving credits to people who never support but all they do is talk down and kill dreams.

@kevinher3546

2 ай бұрын

@@NightmareActual1 yes I agree

@ChewyVangPYSH

2 ай бұрын

💯

Koj txiv yeej coj yog kawg lawm nawb. Txhob tu siab rau koj txiv.

Es yog li tsam no koj muaj 4 tug me nyuam Lawm es yog Li koj puas xav kom koj cov me nyuam tsim txiaj Los yog koj cia koj cov mus ua dog dig ma Koj hlub koj 4 tug li cas ces koj txiv nkawv hlub koj ib yam nkaus xwb mas

Those of us who are rebels growing up, we push ourselves to the max to reach our potential. Often times, our parents don't understand or support that idea because it's not what they envision for us. Challenges and hardships allow us to grow and adapt.

What a wonderful story. Thank you for telling us your story. Much respect. My husband and I are in the processing of becoming our own boss. It is so hard when you have no one to support you financially but we are getting there, slowly.

You are the result of the saying living the American dream. You can make yourself into something when you have nothing. Proud of you

Mi tub kuv nrog koj zoo siab uas koj tseem muaj koj txiv cem2 koj es koj thiaj peem tsheej los muaj hnub no os mog..!! Rov tig mus ua koj txiv tsaug os!

I was a small business owner for nearly 2 decades; I estimated the average earned incomes of small businesses were among $500,000 and $900,000, but expenses were among $450,000 and $700,000.

I think all black sheeps can understand this man and his life. Somehow we endure and overcome without anyone. And at the end, our elders depend on us the most. So proud of you uncle. Keep putting yourself and your family first.

Yg ib txj kev kawm uas zoo kawg nkau li

Your life is successfully today it’s because your parents were hard on you back then. You didn’t even finish high school, you were a gangster, and your parents still wanted the best for you only so be thankful for that.

Koj yuav tsum ua koj txiv tsaug rau qhov koj txiv cem2 koj es koj tu 2 siab es koj thiaj li muaj peev xwm li ko os mi tub nkawv yeej hlub koj kawg os

Great story, most of the time you’ll only get back on your feet when you hit rock bottom.

Brother tsuas yog zoo qeej leej xwb os, glad you one of the strong man and make your life successful 👏👏

Wow..cas ib leej txiv yuav tsis txawj xav li..es yuav hais lus tau tu siab rau ib leej tub ua luaj

I am glad you have a successful story to tell. Be grateful to dad. Some children lived and learned the hard ways. They are their own success. Every child has it’s own ways of learning. As a mother, i am afraid to see my children makes mistakes therefore we want to guide them in the right path but ruins a parent child relationship.

Wow great story! Bravo!

Tiag2 cov thaum hluag ua2 si laus lawv txhawj khwv, mob siab khwv thiab hlub poj niam me nyuam tshaj os

Yuav tau ua kj txiv tsaug vim nws cov lus phem kj thiaj ua neeg zoo thiab

Need to hear more stories like this, great job brother

Yes he right about that everyone is good at some thing in life

Wonderful story!

Tij laug koj nyob twg os yog kuv xav kawm kho tseb dawb dawb kom muaj experience thiab es koj puas kam ne yom?

Don't encourage kids to get out of basic schooling. Doctors and lawyers can still be business owners. What you need and what you did not have was a foundation.

I'm proud of you brother for taking control of your life and success. Your hard work paid off. You've paid your parents back enough. If you were not successful and have money they wouldn't have nothing to do with you. Now your dad expects you to buried him and pay for his funeral. Remember he refused you help and shut the doors on you over and over. He didn't support you nor even help or pat for your wife. Yet he keeps trying to get you to divorce your wife and create dispute and problems in your marriage and your home. You need to send them packing back to his othe4 son's that he gave and did everything for and love and supported.

Proud of you, brother!

👍👍👍👍

I'm happy you ended up doing very successful. I'm happy you learned to forgive your dad and love him. Sometimes it's our parents for not supporting us, but sometimes it's our wrong choices that we made too, so don't have too much resentment. Just be glad you all are still alive and healthy. Keep up the great work, and keep loving your parents. Best wishes.

Kuv zoo siab rau koj lub neej vam meej muaj nyiaj muaj txiaj tab sis raws kuv paub los neeg tus ua zoo yeej tau qhov zoo,koj ntshe yog 1 tug ntawm 100 tus xwb mog

Kv yg TU nyuam kj cov neej Ng tshaj tab si kv g paub yuav ua ca thiaj Tau kj hai kv zaj

Need more stories like this instead of cheating stories all the time

Ua niam ua txiv ces nyuab tshaj yog yug tau ib niag tub laib tsis mloog lus os. Kos yuav tsum ua koj niam łój txiv tsaug tias lawv niaj hnub qhia koj

I believe that parents back then had anxiety about not going in the same track as others, but you had confidence in yourself from a young age. I think that is a great aspect to have and you continued to believe in yourself. I don’t think you’re a laib, you’re someone who chose to not follow others in good faith in yourself.

Yus nrog yus tsis tsim txiaj thaum PiB es txhob tu siab rau tej Laus os!

It is an encouragement fiction. As far as I know of most people who ran a car repair shop don't make it, even just one shop instead of three shops as you said. I do income-tax for people for over 30 years and none of my clients who run car repair shop did not get rich. They quit within 3-5 years

@dohcvtecboy

2 ай бұрын

Thats true, it's hard running a car repair shop. Gotta be a good mechanic and and have loyal clients. My wife tells me to start my own shop, even me as a Master technician, I'm scared and dont want to fail like others I know. So i just start small as a side job first.

@gerryvang3244

2 ай бұрын

@dohcvtecboy Do it as a side job is a good idea. It provides you with an extra source of income while you can still work full-time at something else. I did income tax and real estate as a side job while working full-time as a chemist at a company. Later, I transitioned from my job to real estate when I had the experience and feel confident of running my own real estate. Now I don't have to work for someone else.

12:04 don't really matter if there good kids or bad kids..they're still your kids. Love them as much as you can so live with no regret. You must accept your kids no matter what. Let them learn there lesson.

My father never had faith in me he called me gangster only. Person like me can't make it through life. At last i am the one that has the biggest house, nicest car, and a business of my own. My father regretted because my brother s are renters and woryin to company.

@hlixyooj8179

2 ай бұрын

Why do you think that is? It was from his verbal battering that your determination to succeed was born. When you get praises all the time, you don't feel the need to improve.

White Tiger Killa!😂

Tus tub kuv muaj ib tug zoo li koj thiab tiag kuv tus mus Ua laib li koj thiab tam sim no nws lub neej luj zoo lawm thiab nws tsis Ua lag luam Los nws tau zoo hau Lwm ua nws kuj ua neej zoo lawm

You r destined to have money and good life but when u r talking the the chance to becomee great, a person with no vision and does not listen to anyone, this person chance of success is very slim. I am glad u become a successful person but majority will not succeed like u r.

Kuv xav nrog koj tham yuas ua cas thiaj hu tau koj os

Koj yog ib tug tub tsis muaj siab ntsws li koj txiv hais tiag ! txawm koj tsev neeg lawv yuav ua phem npaum li cas rau koj los koj ua zoo li tsis muaj siab muaj ntsws ces koj yug los tiam no thiaj tau ris khawv yeej khawv yws, kuv yog koj ces thaum kuv txom nyem kuv poob rau txojkev com kawb tsis muaj leej twg xav pab xav txhawb, tsam no kuv zoo li tus me nyuam qaib kuv tsoo tau lub plhaub tawg kuv tawm tau lawm ces txawm yuav zoo thiab phem los cia nyias tev nyias kaub puab ib tug tsis txhob lees paub ib tug ntshe yuav zoo dua. Txawm yog niam txiv tu siab tias nkawd yug tau ib tug tub tsis tsim txiaj zoo li kuv los kuv yeej tu siab rau nkawd tias nkawd pom xeeb yug tau kuv phem zoo yog nkawd li roj ntsha kuv yuav pojniam nkawd tsis kam nta ces hnub twg nkawd tuag kuv yuav tsis tshwm tus qaib cos muag los nkad tsis txhob tu siab rau kuv.

Don't resent your dad, he knew what kind of parenting you needed for you to be successful. Look at you now.

Cov zoo li koj tsawg2 xwb os..kuv twb muaj ib tug nus zoo li koj niaj hnub no tseem nyob jail muaj 2 tug me nyuam ho

Koj txiv yog ruam tsab ntse xwb nws twb tsis hlub tsis care txog koj li tab si koj los yus yog me nyuam lawm rov qab hlub yus niam yus txiv nawb mog txawm lawv tau ncaim lawm los yuav foom koob hmoov rau koj tsev neeg

Don't feel sorry that your dad is ignoring you. You thank him for the great lesson. If your dad and your mom keep you in the home the way you were. You wouldn't be the way you are now.

I hate parents playing favorites. It's not like you can tell the future. I only have 2 kids but I try so hard to be equal and fair with them both.

Txhob tu siab os, look from his point of view, he don't know any better even nowadays peb hmong tseem saib tsis ntau cov ua hauj tau nyiaj me just like you right now, money is money. Hate people who look down on company workers. You got lucky it turned out okay most dont.

Cov lug no puas yog koj kav teeb xwb? Koj muaj tiab pluas los yog koj tseem ua neej nyob ces yog qhov zoo.

I feel like you didn’t listen when you was younger which made your dad talk the way he did but as a parent you should help your child especially over the years he has changed. At the end it’s better to be able to do everything yourself without anyone helps.

Bro, you've proved your parents wrong.

$2 million a year? Wow. Only if paid zero tax. This guy needs to be reported to the IRS and get audited. Like a lot of people, especially Hmong, who has businesses/self employ, they don't report or under report their income. Most of it is probably from weeds/illegal drugs using their business as a front. I know of a Hmong family who did this and got raided.

Just a bad parents

There is something this brother is not telling us. He's not telling us what he did for his family to be scared of him. To the point the cop constantly comes to your father's house to look for you, there's a reason. And even your father said it himself, all you did was fight and bring trouble. Look at yourself first ua ntej koj yuav tu siab rau tus ub tus no nawb mog. There is so much you're not willing to share, brother.

Should thank your friend, not your dad. Your dad only wanted you when he saw that you were going to benefit him in his last years of living.

He made it on his own. His dad had nothing to do with him being successful. His dad didn't support him. All his dad ever did was talk trash and insult him. This is how hmong people think... Oh, if his dad didn't do this or didn't do that; he would have never turned out to be somebody. Everyone always wanna take credit when their child turns out to be somebody. If they don't turn out to be somebody, then he's not my son or never acknowledge their child. This is hmong people way of thinking. If you don't support your kids. You should never take credit or say it's because of you that they became successful. GET REAL!! His father deserves nothing in return. Look at his father trying to play the father role now. He was never there, he should'nt talk.

cav muaj ib co niam txiv zoo no thiab

🙏 amen. Kuv tus tub ntse kawg tabsi tsis xav mus kawm college los yog technical school kom tau ib txoj hauj full time. Kuv tseem tsis tau tag kev cia siab rau nws thiab os.

This guy have always had goals to become wealthy since he was a teenager but due to his ways he was seen as a gangster and a nobody to his family. The Hamongs commenting that he should thank his dad for the way his dad treated him is what made him successful. He didn't become successful to show them sh*t, he did it for himself the little boy gangster that no one wants to accept and acknowledge his existence. Ya must be the jealous brother, uncle or cousin🤣💀 Stop giving credits to these people that never believed in you nor supported you. Some people just can't be happy for others hard work, success and achievements. Ya crazy😂

Stories like this makes me realize how poor I am

Hell no I would never take my parents in after what they say and disowned me..

@flryprn745

2 ай бұрын

Learn to get along is the best way to go!

Trying to become your own boss is the hardest when you have no support from family members! Your not alone, I hate it when people compare me too like we “NOT HUMANS.” The nice part is; a strong person will always achieve anything that they put their heart into & it’s the best feeling ever!! 😢❤😮 When your the only person they don’t respect and support, they never expect you to be the one to make it to the TOP!! 😢❤😮

You have kis too,how do you teach your kids? Right now, and future.agree with your parents please.

Know you have money and you think you are better than your parents Remember parents want the best for you This story sucks lol

Well, if it wasn't for your parents, you wouldn't have gotten your life straightened out. He has to push you to your limit for you to be a changed person. Your dad was mean, but had he continued to support you, do you think you'd be the person you are today?

@wonderwoman8139

2 ай бұрын

😂

@Nkaujzajib

2 ай бұрын

Wow, instead of praising him for his accomplishment, you had to go there. He could've gone in a whole different direction just so you know. Smh

@Nkaujzajib

2 ай бұрын

Wow. Instead of praising him for what he's accomplished, you had to go there. He could have gone in a whole different direction just so you know.

Your dad taught you a tough love. Unlike my parents, they continuously support my oldest brother even when he was a trouble son for years and then finally stood on his two feet for a decade .Then he had marriage problems, among other stuff and they still stand by him. Guess what? Their support taught him nothing because he became a drug addict and has been absent for almost 10 years and my dad passed and ge didnt care so.....i hope you put down a notch on your ego

WTF IS WRONG WITH YOU? DO YOU NOT HAVE A HEART? Why would you take your despicable parents in? They don't deserve your love or kindness. Now that you're doing good and have a home, money, they want to mooch and live off you. They're using you. Their favorite son's don't want them. They have nowhere to die or live. He freaking cut you off and refused to help you. You need to cut, blocked, and go absolutely no contact. Do not let them destroy your marriage or your life.

@flryprn745

2 ай бұрын

WRONG! His dad was harsh to get him back on track. Most hmoob parents R like that! But a true son learns n forgives n comes back. He did the right thing!!! Bcuz family is everything! It’s not like a divorce, his dad n mom R still together… they just give tough love is what it’s called. Parents have every right to lecture their kids. The runaway kids R the weak link. The kids that learn n forgive R the strongs. Think positive.

Inspiring story. My story is different but I can relate to your story brother. The BOLD and REBELLIOUS are more likely to succeed in life. We are curious, courageous and we’re not afraid. A degree can only take u so far. But a business can take you to a new level. Don’t let your family influence you especially your dad. They’re jealous and want to see u at the bottom of the pit.

@flryprn745

2 ай бұрын

I don’t think so. His dad wants to see him succeed! No parent would wish for their kids to hit rock bottom. His dad is old-school thinking. It’s the kids duty to keep the parents updated with modern thinkings n kids don’t always have to agree with what parents say but should correct them!

@nyiamnkawgsaiv9748

2 ай бұрын

@@flryprn745 His dad complained about his wife basically wanting him to divorce her. That’s a really bad influence especially from his own father.