We parents must always remember that every step our children took towards being independent we felt a bit sad. It’s natural and normal to feel that way. Both of you have so many homes to go to. Your daughter, your son. Never feel these stray comments. We are all standing by you. Much much love and best of luck to the children.

@parveenmoussa8981

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You both are great parents. Be safe and healthy Alahumdullilah

@attiyatauqir1713

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No! ,for these kids ,for making life easier for them,they had been doing trucking,selling newspapers,being part of day care,standing at the cash counter for hours,....what not ?.It was the hardest thing for me to see Momma Zaid crying.After all these hardships,when both of them are getting old ,having history of heart problems ,they don't deserve this .If living alone is the last option,they should come to Pakistan .Food &Medical Care is not the problem but emotionally they seem shattered .They have their relatives &siblings in Pakistan .Spend time with them .DON'T LET YOUR KIDS to celebrate FATHER'S DAY &MOTHER'S DAY.... .I know Papa Zaid will be PRETTY ANGRY at me but after all we are YOU TUBE FAMILY.

@Thesureleague

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@@attiyatauqir1713 when our daughters get married and leave home, we parents are emotionally shattered but for a while till we accept it and then life comes back to normal. No parent, including me, has a right to blackmail children by telling them how hard we worked. Children were brought into this world by our decision. That’s the circle of life. Man is not that weak, that’s how god has made us. So anything we parents do for our children is our duty and responsibility. We dream of our children standing on their two feet in our lifetime, which is why it is essential we let them go and experience life and learn with our blessings. It is ABNORMAL and a tradition we have adopted because we were an agri based society. So everyone lived on their lands and hands were needed to till the lands and help. City life is just maybe a 100 year old thing and very unnatural. During the times of our prophets and before that, sons when they came of age were sent out to learn, to fight, to trade including our dear Prophet (PBUH) Hazrat Ali said “your children are made for another times”. This sense of possessiveness is most abnormal. Now for uncle and Aunty, they have the most loving caring children. If Aunty and uncle were sad that is a sign that they love each other so much. Their reactions didn’t come from a sense of hurt but a normal reaction. I have one son who left for studies 5 years back and ongoing for higher studies. We are emotionally very very close and in today’s world with internet and whatsapps we stay fully connected. I want my son to go walk his journey. There’s no sadness and we absolutely never emotionally blackmail our child. Remember a happy child is what we parents always want.

@talataltaf7376

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@@attiyatauqir1713 you are absolutely right ,l being a mother of two adult sons feel the same. They seem shattered.

@Dont_be_negative

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@attiya I don't agree with you. We parents bring up our children for the sake of Allah and it's Allah who reward us and provide us. Parents should not depend on their children but should have faith in Allah. It was their duty to raise their children similarly Children should be attentive to their parents need. Living in a separate house doesn't mean that children don't love their parents anymore. It's a circle of life. In Islam it's not obligatory to live with parents nor parents can force their children to stay with them. It's cultural thing that parents force their children to stay with them even if it cause toxicity in relationships.

I have 3 children 2 boys married and daughter married all my children live at there own homes We have done our job raised them educated them and married them now it’s there time to start what we have finished. It’s our time to spend quality time together and watch them grow you guys are lucky you have each other. You both are great and it’s nice to move with times that way everyone is happy Only selfish people will say negative things may god bless you all Jasbinder from Uk 🇬🇧

@ambreenjawaid7827

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I always love sikh ppl they are very sensible and understand life in better way

@kbear5836

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@@ambreenjawaid7827 thank you for sharing such kind words 😊

@imranasafdar778

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101% true...

@jasbinderkaur1992

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@@ambreenjawaid7827 thank you for your kind words xx

@nadiaahsan5980

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VERY WELL SAID SIR👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

Uncle you are such an honest, straightforward person,prayers for you and your family.

@ummohd5307

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ربي يحفظكم من كل شرر يارب العالمين

@papazaid

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Thank you 👍🙏

So Uzair ,Laiba& Usama ,THREE KIDS, are going to celebrate FATHER'S DAY&MOTHER'S DAY in a very SPECIAL &WONDERFUL way....Isn't. It was hard to see Momma Zaid crying.

You guys are so honest and continue to include us. Thank you for being so real and for creating awareness on how to handle such a topic with immense support and care towards your kids!! 🤗

@fluffy00123x

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Totally agree. They are so real xx

Beautiful parents! Well raised children. Both of you are educated, financially stable, enjoy your time, travel, make more memories, in the end all that remains is memories. ❤️

Ya dunia kisi ko acha nai dakh sakti, you are great 👍👍👍

Uncle and mama you don’t have to justify to anyone - May Allah always bless you , very good parents you are and your Family MashAllah is wonderful - I think you two should go on a nice trip and enjoy the summer together !!!

@memee4506

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@Misbah You are so right.. A nice relaxing trip will be good for the both of you.. Uncle and aunty don't worry Allah is the best of protectors and he is with you where ever you are .. Aameen Let the illiterate people keep writing negative comments, some people just have a negative mind !

I understand why mama Zaid is feeling like that, she’s remembering where she brought her kids from and all those little moments when they were younger you can’t help but feel like that even though your happy for them it’s ok mama Zaid we love you and have you in our prayers also love you guy’s videos ❤️

Good for both of you! You raised them well and nonmatter where they move out, you will always live in their hearts 💕

It's very hearttouching but remember ap b apni bibi ko chor kr aaye thy n that time ap ky bibi bht attach the laaiba n bchoon sy bt this is part of life.

You have the right approach to family matters. Wish you the best.

Just take care of yourselves, always have learned something good from you two as parents, really a great example setter for all.

It is not easy for the parents as well as children but it's part of life! Love and hugs!!

Good to see you guys encouraging them and supporting them to the best.

Cheddar soothing mama is the best treat for eyes! ❤️ I can't imagine the emotions you are going through, its definitely hard being abroad but trust me you will get used to of it and enjoy their frequent visits every time 😊👍

You guys are the perfect example of parents. ❤️

Salam I feel your pain my son moved out after his marriage and I was crying for days even though he lives on same road. Because it’s difficult for parents. We Asian mothers attached to our kids too much. May Allah Ta’ala make it easy for you. Gonna miss Zahira in your videos. Allah Ta’ala keep our children happy for ever wherever they are. Ameen summa Ameen take care. Don’t get upset sister Asifa. ❣️🥰🥰

Pakistan Mai hr fuarı family ki story same hai aaj kl bohat khush naseeb parents hain Jin k bcchy Sath hain

ماں باپ کی جزباتی کیفیت قدرتی ہے الگ ہونے سے رشتے ختم نہیں ہو جاتے قریب رہ کر نفرتیں پیدا ہوں اس سے اچھا ہے الگ رہ کر محبت سے رہیں لوگوں کو اپنی سوچ بدلنی چاہیے

Initially there is a feeling of loss but slowly one adjusts and life goes back to normal and even parents feel more free to do what they want..kids take responsibity for their lives .. lt is so natural for a mother to feel emotional 😊

you both are great parents and encouraging to other people and you have lovely and caring children, may Allah keep that love and care between you and your children Ameen, I wish your son best of luck and may Allah bless you and your family with happy and healthy life Ameen, a lot's of love and duas, always looking forward to to your video, keep smiling stay blessed always.

I don't usually comment on anyones video but Asifa auntie you reminded my mom. When i moved to states she cried and she still cries like everyday and it's been 4 months and our family is like yours and thanks to all those supportive parents who support their kids and auntie don't cry please. I wish them a happy life❤️

“Jin ki oladein nahi hai” very valid point papa Zaid 👏

You guys have done a wonderful job raising your children especially usama he is so respectful towards you both, also must give credit to sana she kept the family united . God bless you all 🙏

You guys are such awesome parents when kids start making money they want to just do that these you tube channels are entertAining for us but it’s a big toll on the family putting it all out there.

You are absolutely right sir ! I am happy to you that you have now have 3,&4 houses to visit them & enjoy , be happy 😊

nothing hurts other than memories attachments and emotions but stay strong every stage of life demands stronger you.

You are very strong and forward thinking parents I wish there was more people like you guys in the world. All the best to your family you guys are all incredible it is life cycle. Your kids are only a phone call away I know they will do what they can for u. Please ignore all negative comments. Xxx

Both of you are very understanding. You guys are great parents.

You're 100% absolutely right uncle

Sending lots of prayers and strength for uncle and aunty ❤

@lightshine9958

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Budi stop crying you have issue and Kai a to take care of you

Hands up to the way you think, uncle Zaid! 💚👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽 The bonds of love will get more strong ❤️💕❤️💕❤️💕 God bless You both iA!

Bhai ji aap Allah aap logon ko khush rakhay hamesha Ameen. Yeh sab tou hum sabhi ki life ka hissa hay . Aap kay bachay tou mashaAllah mashaAllah itnay achay hain ,itnay saadat mand hain kay un pay fakhar hota hay . Bus dua karein bachay jahan bhi rahein Allah pak in ki hifazat karay aur yeh khush rahein hamesha Ameen

Laiba and uzair should move in with them period! They should step up for the family

You both are great parents and you have amazing kids. May Allah bless you all and make this transition easy for you ❤️

Big respect to you phaji,you are wondeful parents.

Hamaray sath esa hi hova he meri mother mental disorder hoyi 9 years say sari olad chor gayi ab me hota hon or mother 80 year old hen me ab apni maa ka khayal rakhta hon hum 2 hi rehtay hen akailay sub chor gay Allah waris he dont worry

I know exactly how you feel, I am a grandma too. God give you strength, but now have fun enjoy yourself.

sending you both love & duas my parents have left this world but uncle you remind of my father so much ❤️

Asak.....I used to stay in Vancouver with my husband I’m 45 now .....four years back my husband suffered brain tumour and left me alone I don’t have kids till now .....I left vancouver and came back to India ....I have a brother and sisters here alhumdullilah Very loving and caring .....purchased a house here but I’m still alone .....missing my husband ..... Asiyah ur lucky tht zaid Saab Is there for u ..... and most importantly allah is there for u.......we came alone and will die alone .....sirf saat allah ka rahega......i want to see u similing in ur next video .....haste raha karo ......may allah bless u both happiness and health...... inshallah ameen

You r such a sensible father . Hats off to you .

It is very sad as parents to see them leave the nest. Sending lots of prayers to both to be strong, just look forward to visiting them with goodies.

Lots of prayers and love for you uncle and aunty!! My heart felt the emotions of aunty crying but inshAllah she will feel better soon. My parents live in Mississauga and i moved to vancouver 6 yrs ago after my marriage and as a child i wish i could stay closer to them but we cannot control and have everything as we desire. :( Time heals everything! iA

It's natural that no matter how supportive parents are, it's naturally to be sad when members of the family move on. It's the harsh circle of life but with time you guys will find a new routine insh'aa'allah. Now you have 3 homes to visit whenever you're bored and plus you have cheddar. You guys are young at heart, active and a KZread family too. You'll be ok momma and papa Zaid ❤️ 💙 💜

tears in eyes speaks something else

Love watching your videos! And your viewers love watching you guys you will always have us!

I feel it’s unfair to Usama and Sana to judge them for moving out, Laiba and Uzair also moved out before although they are both single. Usama has a family and more responsibilities, let’s respect their decision and wish them well

Mama and Papa Zaid do not bother with peoples comments. Liaba, Usama, Uzair and you are all in the same country and driving distant from each other. Alhamdullilah you are so close to each other and you will continue to stay in touch. I love what Mama Zaid said that "they are moving out but are not moving out of our hearts". Sending you loads of duas and salams.

MashaAllah we are also moving from Jeddah, KSA to Budapest, Hungary and my mother in law and father in law are very supportive and proud of our decision. Alhamdulillah. In laws are cool these days. Allah khushiyon k sath sub ko milaye. May Allah unite us all in Jannah.

آپ صیح ہیں ﷲ تعالی ساتھ ہے شے رگ سے بھی قریب ہے بچوں کو آگے بڑھنیں دیں

Aunty and uncle you both are lovely people and understanding. Allah bless your whole family ❤

Congratulations on your son's new journey papa zaid its very natural for parents to feel sad but we all have to give wings to our children to fly for thiet betterment. You are fortunate that all your children live close by and have three homes to live in.

it is okay to feel emotional any loving parent parent would be & you are excellent parents & i pray no matter where your kids are they always remember to give you time & love you deserve it & you still have eachother enjoy this time as a couple & the freedom ❤️

We love Zaid Family I am 36 and learning a lot from this beautiful couple. They are so sweet and not fake that’s all we need from social media.

Sending so much love to uncle ji and aunty. Your kids are so blessed to have understanding parents like you 🙏❤🧿 Bhagwaan ji aap dono ko hamesha khush rakhe 🙏

Papa zaid I think no one was saying bad it's just everyone showing concern as a family,we shouldn't make it normalized leaving parent's,why every time parent think for their kids why not children can't do the same , in Pakistan no support from government ppl those who lived abroad are blessed having facilities that government provide , ,you're such a calm and compose person not everyone has this stamina ,I am glad you both own the house and have giving hands ,ALLAH kabhi kisi ko kisi ka or na kabhi aulaad ka mohtaj banaye hamare lye b dua karye ga ❤

@Nehalkhan-bb3il

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Its true but many parents are destroying their kids marital Life.. they lack boundaries...

You are so right 👍 best wishes for you and your family ❤️ stay safe, healthy and blessed 🌹

Aww bless Aunty, stay strong! Your a lovely family, stay blessed!

Both of you are so amazing. Bohot achi soch ha apki tabhi aapkau bachay b apnay sth itnay achay hain ..her parent ko apsay bht seekhna chahaye. ♥️ mashaAllah Allah bless you Papazaid is my fav im a 24 year old girl and a big fan of papa zaid since years ♥️♥️♥️

You’re great parents Masha’Allah

Very well said uncle .. Allah is there everywhere .. and he is the best of protector.. nothing to worry in sha Allah 😊

You are absolutely right that it doesn't Matter that if you live here or Pakistan ,its totally in the hands of Allah ,its HIM who decides your destiny. If we moved abroad it wasn't our choice, it was Allah who wrote our destiny. Allah AAP ko aur Asifa behan ko sehat atta karay aur khush rakhay Ameen. Dheron duaein Sanna aur Ussama kay liye .Allah un kay liye buhat acha karay Ameen. Dheron kamiyabian naseeb karay unhein Ameen

Mashallah great parents Great thinking ❤️ Always love and sports to your family 😍

Now you have 4 homes enjoy andstay blessed I know you are missing zaira

God bless u all with this new journey. Thankyou for understanding your kids.

Please don’t get upset 😢 I exactly know your pain I have been through this as well

Lots of love and strength to you all.. this is a part of life too.. it will be the same for all of us. I also feel sad seeing u all sad . May Waheguruji give everyone courage, health and sabr. Everything works out .. God’s way is the best way. Love and hugs to you all 🙏🏽❤️

It’s actually absolutely abnormal to have children especially sons to live with their parents for too long. In the days of our prophets, the moment a child turned 11-12 they were sent away, that’s why so many achieved greatness. Children like Hazrat ali said, are for another time. Prising you both for your wonderful sharing

You r both very friendly with your children,you have given your children there own space , great 👍

loved how chedder puts his head on aunty's lap !

Your both great parents Masha'Allah.Its understandable why mama is crying its her first born son and family leaving.With time you will start too enjoy your time at home and travelling. You have bought up your children very well they will always be with you. We the next generation off parents have and will continue too learn so much from you all as a family. X ❤️

Uncle ji ur always right in everything u said, Aunty ji seeing u so emotional is hard to see but it's understandable, both of you are so funny and full of energy can't wait to see ur new life style routines full of uncle jis jokes and pulling ur leg. Your both great 👍.

@papazaid

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You are the best thank you 👍🙏

Salute to your thoughts ,great, always you show positivity. 😍

That cute moment when doggie is looking at aunty's face like, "why did you stop playing with my hair?"

Mashallah you are great parents ❤

It’s not easy for parents specially moms but you both are spreading positivity

Both of u great parents ❤

Hi, I agreed, my parents also encouraged me to live separate from them even I am single parent. But now I understand why they did this. My parents decision makes me strong and self made. Even my kids build good relationships with my parents. Hats 3to you.

Aunty jee trust me it is tough for the departing kid too...when I moved to US for my masters I thought it was the toughest point but now when I visit Delhi and leaving parents every time becomes tougher... So cheerup Aunty jee, we all go through this, now am mom and can't imagine my 2 kids leaving me but we grow as parents when they grow...love you guys

Mama Zaid I wish you could talk to my mom she will tell you that she cried so much when my brother and sil moved but now she’s so happy as she has so much less work to do around the house. And now they also have responsibilities and understand how difficult it is

Great parents and a lot of love for both of you 😍😍😍😍

You made me cry mama Zaid. I know it's not easy but stay strong. Allah is always with you and you know your children are all so beautiful and caring. Sending you a big hug from the UK.

Mashallah you are great parents ❤️❤️❤️❤️

So Proud of You Both.Dill se kahu tho zaid sahab n bhabhi aap dono bhut motivating hai. Stay Blessed.

Your children should be proud of your love and forward thinking attitude. There is hiqmat in allowing our kids to strike out on their own. Good luck to them in this new chapter of their lives. Best wishes for the two of you, it's an exciting new chapter for you as well!

Best parents let their kids spread their wings and fly.. you both are ideal parents.. misaal hain aplog.. aur apke bache bhi apki tarah bahut ache hain Mashallah… Allah ap sab ko khush rakhe 🧡🧡🧡 lots of love from Australia

best wishes to the couple and little zaira... LOVE LOVE your attitude :)

Salaams aunty and uncle. Thanks for your lovely vlogs. You share your ups and downs with us because we're all family. ❤️ Congratulations to Sana,Usama and Zaira on their new house. May Allah SWT make it a source of blessings and happiness for them. May Allah SWT make this transition easy for you and aunty. All these emotions are normal aunty. May your children always be the coolness of your eyes. Keeping you all in our dua's. ❤️❤️

I like your positive perspective,,

Very nice explanation! Bilkul sahi bola ap ne Zor zabardasti se kuch nahi hota dilo mai Jb muhabbatein ho to chahey bachey jitna b alag rahe kuch farq nhi parta hai

Pap Zaid and Moma ! You did great job ! So proud of you !! You work hard and settled your kids , now they are able to live own !! Great job ! Allah give strength to Mama I was crying with her . It is hard separation but she will be fine . You both parents are great 🙏🤲🥰

@papazaid

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Thank you 👍🙏

It's okay to cry momma Zaid. I did that too when my 2 kids left for college and never really came back home. But now we are happy that both are happily married, own their house, car etc. Concentrate on your travel, hobbies, excercise, eat healthy, go on cruise and enjoy your freedom finally! 😉

@lightshine9958

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It’s okay for laiba to move out but it’s a problem when sana and usama moves out

Absolutely agree with you my younger brother he stayed 5 yrs with my parents in new york recently last year they moved to their appartment and its absolutely fine we dont have that typical thinking that they have to stick with them forever we love each other we reapect each other as a child we fulfil all our duties and that matters dont bother these kind of comments and pls try not to show or say everything here in you tube that will save u from evil eyes also take care and stay blessed

You are the best parents ❤️

You are really good zaid bhai.

Uncle I am so sorry to hear that people commented like this. I believe those who post negative comments are unaware of the fact that your Vlogs are based on real lifestyle and not on any fakeness. I am from Lahore, Pakistan and I must say that I love your family ma sha Allah. Allah swt keep you all healthy, wealthy with abundance of blessings. Ameen Allah tala keep you all safe from every hardship. Ameen sum ameen Lots of love for Mama Zaid. I pray to meet you and mama zaid soon in sha Allah

@papazaid

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You are the best we will meet soon in Lahore InshaAllah 👍🙏

You are very nice and genuine people and you have raised your children really very well . Absence makes the heart grow fonder. This step will definitely bring you closer to your children. You have always taught everyone to stay positive and in sha Allah, things will definitely work out for all of you. Big love and duas😍

Uncle mashallah mashallah u r an example for our desi society.. this move is really commendable ....mohabbatein aur mazeed badhti hai distance hai...may Allah taalah bless u and aunty...

Good luck and congratulations to Usama and Sana! InshAllah their new chapter of lives will be great by the grace of god . InshAllah you guys will also be enjoying your own time and pursue new hobbies and all it is a new chapter for both 💗🤍may Allah keep you all blessed and happy forever

@papazaid

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You are the best thank you 👍🙏