Transparenting | Ep. 9 | True Trans

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There are a lot of challenges that come with the transition process, but one of the hardest can be explaining it to your kids.
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  • @JazzLafayette
    @JazzLafayette8 жыл бұрын

    "It's 'cause she's in a band." My goodness, Evelyn is a sharp little marvel.

  • @MetaCraken
    @MetaCraken9 жыл бұрын

    itz cus shez in a baaaaand

  • @lauren7318
    @lauren73189 жыл бұрын

    Sure she might get made fun of now and again, but all she has to say is "My mom is a rockstar. What does your mom do for a living?"

  • @jillmarie3841

    @jillmarie3841

    6 жыл бұрын

    Lol do you go on videos about trans just to spew crap because you find it worth your time caring about other people’s business?

  • @Sperminski

    @Sperminski

    6 жыл бұрын

    Jill Marie When I see BS, I respond to BS.

  • @Proto-Martyr

    @Proto-Martyr

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@Sperminski How pathetic, mate. Using big words is not gonna make you more intelligent. The amount of ignorance in your comment psychically hurts.

  • @Sperminski

    @Sperminski

    5 жыл бұрын

    Culte Satanique Perhaps, but they do make the dumb feel more stupid. The depravity shown in this video makes me lose confidence in humanity. I understand you are fine with child abuse. Good, I hope it hurts.

  • @craftingweirdo6498

    @craftingweirdo6498

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Sperminski Please explain. I´m just curious.

  • @Faunamusicmx
    @Faunamusicmx9 жыл бұрын

    This episode was so touching and so heartbreaking. I tried really hard not to cry when Laura spoke of the fears she had for her daughter. Fearing that she'll be confused, that she'll see her less as her dad and some new man will take that place, that she'll distance herself from her. As soon as the 'Two Coffins' song started, I lost it.

  • @danpiazza3803

    @danpiazza3803

    6 жыл бұрын

    I feel you, my god that's a fear. I know what Laura's talking about, it's like some/most (I'm not gonna pretend to be an authority) people think children need a father figure or at least they think they do and they have the support of an unfair society mostly. Love is all that should matter. She obviously loves Evelyn to death and rightly so. Why would you want some other dude to replace that?!

  • @xuntitledx6991
    @xuntitledx69915 жыл бұрын

    Laura and her daughter getting their nails done together is the absolute cutest thing i’m gonna cry

  • @darkmoon66
    @darkmoon669 жыл бұрын

    Why is it that someone is always cutting onions in my house during the last 3 minutes of this video?

  • @robertcrusher1972
    @robertcrusher19724 жыл бұрын

    This ep has me in tears. Oh how I wish my family loved one another like Laura does her daughter. How powerful the mortality in the song, and the beauty of the gesture of writing a song for her that is not afraid to talk about said mortality.

  • @adammiller800
    @adammiller8007 жыл бұрын

    As an FTM and a parent to a boisterous 4 and 1/2 year old boy, this really speaks to me. I have the same fears and hopes for my child, I live in a regional town so it comes with classic small town mentality, he hasn't started school yet and im just about to start hormone therepy and as I look less and less like 'mum' (although ive always been pretty masc.) i'm worried it will push him away from me. Ive never met or seen another 'Transparent' and this really helps me not feel so alone..

  • @downside8204
    @downside8204 Жыл бұрын

    this made me cry. i love laura jane grace so much ever since i first heard her music. she is absolutely amazing and i’m so happy that her daughter is amazing too.

  • @Scorpia161
    @Scorpia1616 жыл бұрын

    omg i didn't know two coffins was written for her daughter i kinda figured it was for heather brb gotta go weep

  • @aherrmie
    @aherrmie7 жыл бұрын

    There's nothing that my son could ever do that would change how I feel about him. Nothing. I don't understand these parents and families who can turn their children away over something like this. This series has helped me to understand so much more than anything else I've seen or read.

  • @michaelsieberg4216

    @michaelsieberg4216

    4 жыл бұрын

    Parents that shun their children for being trans are ugly people that lack the courage of unconditionally loving them due to their own and/or their friends beliefs. Just because they're parents doesn't give them the right to dictate who they're kids will be when they grow up. That's being such an ugly coward, and my heart and best wishes go out to whoever is going through it, you are braver than I could ever be !!! 🌈✌️ and 💖 the 🌎😁

  • @CreativeAnneUniverse
    @CreativeAnneUniverse8 жыл бұрын

    THIS IS THE CUTEST THING I HAVE EVER SEEN IM CRYING

  • @Tigerpuffer
    @Tigerpuffer9 жыл бұрын

    ...I really want a soundtrack album for this series, because Laura's solo versions of all these songs are amazing.

  • @caseylewis8768

    @caseylewis8768

    3 жыл бұрын

    Listen to The Disco Before The Breakdown. ;)

  • @jpuc12
    @jpuc129 жыл бұрын

    Shes a great parent to her daughter

  • @otakuofmine
    @otakuofmine8 жыл бұрын

    Awesome kid and awesome parent, nothing more to say.

  • @sohipimhop2980
    @sohipimhop29807 жыл бұрын

    oh my god when Evelyn goes "its cause shes in a bandddd" hearing her say she made me cry. I am so hopeful for younger generations when none of this labeling bullshit will matter (heres to hoping, anyway)

  • @butter366
    @butter3666 жыл бұрын

    I had no idea two coffins was written for Evelyn, that gives it a completely different meaning

  • @vancey7604
    @vancey76046 жыл бұрын

    I feel trapped in the wrong body. This series is amazing. Now I know who I can truly be.

  • @TheFlyTransGuy
    @TheFlyTransGuy9 жыл бұрын

    Can I please hire this beautiful child to correct all of the people who call me a girl? :P

  • @imheereimfine_7380

    @imheereimfine_7380

    6 жыл бұрын

    Me too dude, me too

  • @rabihbourji2069

    @rabihbourji2069

    6 жыл бұрын

    The Fly Trans Guy jesus fuckin christ

  • @rabihbourji2069

    @rabihbourji2069

    6 жыл бұрын

    The Fly Trans Guy youre so gay dude

  • @rabihbourji2069

    @rabihbourji2069

    6 жыл бұрын

    The Fly Trans Guy fuck you and israel

  • @arabellamlems1168
    @arabellamlems11688 жыл бұрын

    I love her music. She can both release all her seals and burst out a flurry of overwhelming sound AND play perfectly, following the song. Soul in music is transcending perfection, and honesty in music is like to unravelling the hearts of everyone who hears you. I can't help but to be moved by it.

  • @Itsmebaileyc
    @Itsmebaileyc9 жыл бұрын

    What a cute little girl :) And what a sweet parent Laura is!

  • @perfectlycorrupt420
    @perfectlycorrupt4204 жыл бұрын

    This just makes me so sad because she is obviously such a good parent and deserves to live without fear.

  • @ceevishus4130
    @ceevishus413010 ай бұрын

    her voice has always given me butterflies in my stomach

  • @gee777
    @gee7776 жыл бұрын

    Your daughter will love and accept you for all of your life. Who you are will never change that. You are her parent and I hope your fears will go away soon

  • @corderazo00
    @corderazo004 жыл бұрын

    That song was DARK! So scary to contemplate your relationship with people you love from that angle, even when that's the very nature of life

  • @anon9110
    @anon91106 жыл бұрын

    Evelyn is one little tough cookie, I can tell and the more she gets taught from a young age that transphobia is wrong, she will delevop a sense of justice and be the smart one in her class who sticks up for her mom and kids will probably use her anyway because her mom is in a successful rock band. What may even help is if her dad did a talk with her class when she begins school, not like straight away but eventually do an educational speech.. a bring my cool trans mom to school day.

  • @-Sharki-
    @-Sharki-4 жыл бұрын

    That little girl is PRECIOUS. “It’s cause she’s in a band!” Laura is such a beautiful and fun daddy-mom. ❤️

  • @rachelflow7985
    @rachelflow79858 жыл бұрын

    As a parent we all have fears of how are children will be treated by others. Kudos to you Laura for being to open and brave. You are giving your child such love and teaching her acceptance. Amazing

  • @unslaying5039
    @unslaying50397 жыл бұрын

    this made cry omg

  • @mycauliflowerrecipe
    @mycauliflowerrecipe8 жыл бұрын

    i've watched all of these episodes today and this is the only one to really make me cry, jeez

  • @fairytalles
    @fairytalles6 жыл бұрын

    This is definetely the kindest video I watched today. Two Coffins is my favorite song and I loved to know it was made for Evelyn. Now, it means a lot.

  • @shawntill
    @shawntill4 жыл бұрын

    Laura is such an amazing example of not just trans, etc but that we have one life and it should be lived in happiness and truth to yourself and the ones you love.

  • @meganbailey8539
    @meganbailey85399 жыл бұрын

    Tears. I wish nothing but the best for you and yours, Laura.

  • @davefisher1840
    @davefisher184010 ай бұрын

    The wonderful way you and Evelyn look at each other, really touched my heart.

  • @tonigrace7786
    @tonigrace77866 жыл бұрын

    Yes transgender people are parents (...and sons, daughters, husbands, wives and friends) Your world can and will change when you transition but the change is usually for the better! MUCH BETTER!!! 🐇

  • @michaelsieberg4216

    @michaelsieberg4216

    4 жыл бұрын

    Unconditional love is true love 👍✌️💖🌈

  • @raulsauce12
    @raulsauce127 жыл бұрын

    If I'm half as good of a parent as LJG, I'll be very lucky. What a beautiful gift she wrote for her wonderful little gift.

  • @lh2o748
    @lh2o7486 жыл бұрын

    😢 she's a great parent. They both are lucky to have each other 💛, I really hope there relationship continues to grow wonderfully !

  • @kurdtjohn
    @kurdtjohn4 жыл бұрын

    Evelyn is a smart kid. Laura is so lucky to have her as a kid.

  • @OhTheStuffMyKidSays
    @OhTheStuffMyKidSays6 жыл бұрын

    of the series, this was the most touching... That little girl is a beautiful gem, and Laura is an incredible mother. Blinking back tears ended a while ago... letting them fall.

  • @rcasey81
    @rcasey815 жыл бұрын

    Oh my gosh I'm obssessed with Laura. That voice, her story....I love her.

  • @leftieteen
    @leftieteen9 жыл бұрын

    Laura you are a wonderful inspiration keep shining crazy diamond!! Best parent ever

  • @caliecline6596
    @caliecline65967 жыл бұрын

    I loved this!!! totally had me in tears!! (':

  • @samwoodson9603
    @samwoodson96037 жыл бұрын

    i'm bawling

  • @jhellen77
    @jhellen777 жыл бұрын

    So your mini me - that dimple! 😍 I loved watching this, it made my heart sing ❤️ "Just 5 more minutes!"

  • @seitanicmechaincmama8948
    @seitanicmechaincmama89484 жыл бұрын

    Evelyn is so big now! Mama Jane is doing AMAZING. 🖤

  • @suljetulla2
    @suljetulla27 жыл бұрын

    2:32 is such an adorable moment

  • @marmi7754
    @marmi77549 жыл бұрын

    I hope nothing break that bone that those two have!! #besttransparent

  • @jaronlovely6276
    @jaronlovely62764 жыл бұрын

    My attention is on Evelyn! Your goddamn right!

  • @what-nd2vu
    @what-nd2vu3 жыл бұрын

    This whole video moved me to tears,, oh my lord i love them so much

  • @caseylewis8768
    @caseylewis87688 жыл бұрын

    Dang. Makes me feel happy everytime. Laura has always been my favorite artist. Gosh. I thought me being attracted to the same gender was bad. But I have so much respect for transsexuals or transgender people.... That is way harder than being gay. (like me)

  • @FlorenceFox

    @FlorenceFox

    7 жыл бұрын

    Eh, I don't like playing the "who has it harder" game. It's certainly not easy being gay either. And, hell, some of us, like me, are both :P

  • @coolowlman
    @coolowlman7 жыл бұрын

    This video made me so happy

  • @jacobbech8062
    @jacobbech80626 жыл бұрын

    Such a beautyful song. AMAZING rolemodel for that sweet little creature

  • @tycoughlin735
    @tycoughlin7354 жыл бұрын

    I'm not crying you are. God damn it stop being so wholesome Laura.

  • @dragonfly4470
    @dragonfly44707 жыл бұрын

    made me cry.

  • @BriansRainbowOverIreland
    @BriansRainbowOverIreland4 жыл бұрын

    evelyn is SO adorable and reminds me so much of my little sister

  • @jamesrobbins1243
    @jamesrobbins1243 Жыл бұрын

    This episode just crushed me. 😔

  • @pris8615
    @pris86159 жыл бұрын

    What a beautiful song!

  • @LittleFishyFishies
    @LittleFishyFishies9 жыл бұрын

    * Crying *

  • @dudedude8931
    @dudedude89314 жыл бұрын

    The heaviest of the episodes maybe. Evelyn is a beautiful child and lucky to have her parents.

  • @jaymzsmith3517
    @jaymzsmith35177 жыл бұрын

    if this didn't make you cry,then your already dead!!! LJG I love you 😆

  • @MaryAbigail1919
    @MaryAbigail19194 жыл бұрын

    Always be strong, you are my inspiration! Sending Love from Lisbon, Portugal

  • @dracomalfoy7739
    @dracomalfoy77397 жыл бұрын

    THEYRE SO ADORABLE

  • @TheMisfit291
    @TheMisfit2916 жыл бұрын

    Evelyn is totally adorable. I love her. Laura Jane you are an amazing parent. What is that song? I love it.

  • @jackdunn15
    @jackdunn157 жыл бұрын

    so awesome!

  • @hannah-clairevann7983
    @hannah-clairevann79837 жыл бұрын

    This is beautiful

  • @matthewgrant5653
    @matthewgrant56535 жыл бұрын

    Your lil Evelynn is always going to love you and I believe that no matter what you will always be her parent. And hopefully as time passes discrimination and judging and racism vanishes and people see each other for who we are and acceptance becomes a norm for everyone.........

  • @Kittenpoptartx
    @Kittenpoptartx8 жыл бұрын

    I cried so much watching this !!!!

  • @NanaYawAforo
    @NanaYawAforo9 жыл бұрын

    that's such a great song

  • @alexlloween
    @alexlloween Жыл бұрын

    She is the best mother in the world ♡

  • @beatrizugulino5196
    @beatrizugulino51964 жыл бұрын

    Literally cried when she started to sing

  • @celsoluizgarcia8399
    @celsoluizgarcia83993 жыл бұрын

    I am a 50 year old punk and have a 14 year old son who likes punk music. I introduce this song to him becuse it's wonderful and I really respect and admire Laura.

  • @anon9110
    @anon91106 жыл бұрын

    Send her to the same school as Bandit and Cherry and Lily.

  • @Me-pe8eb
    @Me-pe8eb5 жыл бұрын

    Ok but my heart does for this amazing rock singer also being adorabel with a child.

  • @zemyrbretas3247
    @zemyrbretas32475 жыл бұрын

    3:44 That look

  • @sii-amhamilton2055
    @sii-amhamilton20557 жыл бұрын

    Who is cutting onions? two coffins is beautiful.

  • @aybukebeyza4064

    @aybukebeyza4064

    6 жыл бұрын

    sii-am hamilton I am cutting onionsss for the second time (cried for the second time watching it)☺

  • @ghostofrhys
    @ghostofrhys6 жыл бұрын

    She’s so adorable

  • @User-hv9jj
    @User-hv9jj6 жыл бұрын

    I cried way too much

  • @imheereimfine_7380
    @imheereimfine_73806 жыл бұрын

    I love kids sm omg

  • @OneTwo-qn1vi
    @OneTwo-qn1vi4 жыл бұрын

    I dont care what you are. Keep making awesome music!

  • @dumpstercub2902
    @dumpstercub29025 жыл бұрын

    I've been to that playground before and it's tripping me up.

  • @h4tchetman
    @h4tchetman4 жыл бұрын

    Damn... Tears.. Ughh.

  • @michaelsieberg4216

    @michaelsieberg4216

    4 жыл бұрын

    Just means you have a good heart 💖👍

  • @mattfoley4749
    @mattfoley47496 жыл бұрын

    love conquers all

  • @wanderingrogue3039
    @wanderingrogue30394 жыл бұрын

    I can only imagine how much it hurts to still be called 'Daddy' even though she knows it's only because of how much her daughter loves her.

  • @gandalf7361
    @gandalf73617 жыл бұрын

    Sweet.

  • @sgtmian
    @sgtmian8 жыл бұрын

    omg, evelyn

  • @rafaelguedes4382
    @rafaelguedes43825 жыл бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @connorclose3256
    @connorclose32567 жыл бұрын

    Does Laura remind anyone else of Pam Beesly from The Office?

  • @fe5018
    @fe50183 жыл бұрын

    00:55 holy shit "I'm still your *parent* " smdh seemed to be enough, huh? Edit: 2:56 damn

  • @lokialutt3445
    @lokialutt34458 ай бұрын

    This is so adorable. I wanna be a Mommy so bad.

  • @JimmiAlli
    @JimmiAlli5 жыл бұрын

    Evelyn seems lovely

  • @judeesee894
    @judeesee8943 ай бұрын

    Poor kid. Her father is an AGP

  • @ssanctis2023

    @ssanctis2023

    2 ай бұрын

    Poor virgin

  • @mariadelrefugiovazquez5824
    @mariadelrefugiovazquez58247 жыл бұрын

    😈😈😈😈

  • @greenmind924
    @greenmind9245 жыл бұрын

    have you ever quabbed

  • @macaroniheart444
    @macaroniheart4443 жыл бұрын

    So, a few thoughts from a cis gender woman. When I stare too long at a person, any person, I am comparing myself to them. Sometimes I am saying to myself, 'that person has struggles I have never experienced.' And I am greatful to them because the strength I have is for my own growth and challenges and not for theirs and that is enough for me. When I stare at someone too long I may be in awe! I am jealous of some aspect of that person, any person, for being their self out in the world, as I perceive them. I strive to be myself out in the world, to accept myself. I am not sure why exactly, perhaps because I chose to see most people I meet as a unknown and try to be open, both my boys grew up with an acceptance/curiosity of people of every difference. I would talk to my children, I would explain things to them in a matter of fact possitive way. And yes as a parent I would be nervous, worried about how I may present to anyone I was curious or anxious around, and in turn I would mistakenly take on some kind of guilt from my own childrens behavior as if it were my own and be paranoid I was saying, doing, teaching the wrong thing. I am drawn to transgender people. I dont know why exactly but I believe it is because I have admiration. I have admiration because I think they are strong. I want to be strong. We are survivors.

  • @krishnan-resurrection714
    @krishnan-resurrection7143 жыл бұрын

    T7 and the Craft ,,,.....

  • @amyvic5121
    @amyvic51215 жыл бұрын

    Couldn't the line "in the dark of our graves our bodies will decay" be a little bit disturbing for a child?

  • @bellybutton2768
    @bellybutton27688 жыл бұрын

    iam female but I'd totally date Laura I love Trans people

  • @tristanmacrae8115
    @tristanmacrae81155 жыл бұрын

    you need to turn the gain down on that mic jeez

  • @sabmoris12
    @sabmoris128 жыл бұрын

    why this song there???

  • @whatusernme1706

    @whatusernme1706

    7 жыл бұрын

    cuz two coffins was written for Evelyn

  • @manuam98
    @manuam987 жыл бұрын

    Trans parents are people you can see through

  • @michaelsieberg4216

    @michaelsieberg4216

    4 жыл бұрын

    How are you so sure of this claim ?

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