Hey spuds! Hope you like the video and it brings you a little bit of happenis 😜 I focused more on what to expect from the actual surgery, rather than results etc. because I’ve covered that kind of thing in other videos. Much love 💛

@Andythenurse

4 жыл бұрын

The aubergine emoji is entirely appropriate after bottom surgery.

@gabef6754

4 жыл бұрын

You are helping me through so much and I just want you to know this. I am a non-binary pal and I still haven’t come out To my parents But you and Noah have been giving me hope and something to look forward to when I’m older and can pay for top surgery. So thank you, a million times Thank You, so so much for being here for everyone and you are so amazing!

@MM-dq2pi

4 жыл бұрын

You're a great communicator. i had to giggle when you talked about thinking it would be easier to poop after bottom surgery. Plus your absolute joy after getting the catheter out and sitting on a cloud lol

@keanubooth1288

4 жыл бұрын

Im gay

@keanubooth1288

4 жыл бұрын

@Robin Ramsdell ~it's kinda cute

Jammie is like the trans dad of the lgbt community and i love it

@Jammidodger

4 жыл бұрын

I accept this title

@sophonborrowedtime415

4 жыл бұрын

Its facts

@FrazzledKeys

4 жыл бұрын

This is very true

@allisonb6200

4 жыл бұрын

My favorite dad ofc

@allygtf

4 жыл бұрын

Best comment, and so true. Trans icon and true, real time educator. We Stan hard. Xx

When he said: “poop hit the fan” for some reason I thought that was an actual problem.....

@jordiflower

4 жыл бұрын

Same!!!

@daisysmum7336

4 жыл бұрын

LOL! Me too.

@candy8323

4 жыл бұрын

Same😂

@MaryTheresa1986

4 жыл бұрын

Same here! I mean, we weren't far off. 😂😂

@ooiamsamoo

4 жыл бұрын

Same 🤣

As a cis female, I appreciate how informative your videos are. It helps me understand more about the trans community and perspectives that are different from what I know and experience. Thank you so much. 😁 Also hehe happenis. Peen humor.

@0ut.the.0x

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for being a truly amazing ally!!! ❤️

@artycraftyally8148

4 жыл бұрын

😊

@dazberry4038

4 жыл бұрын

Really great you do this! More people should learn about this stuff to become more understanding

@shiroganetsuki9634

3 жыл бұрын

You're precious!

@MaryAnnNytowl

2 жыл бұрын

Hey, I'm also a cis female, here to learn more about what trans perspectives are. I have a trans cousin, f to m, that's had top surgery (partially paid for because he had breast cancer, otherwise the good old US "healthcare industry" would have made him pay all of it!). He's been debating bottom surgery, so I wanted to learn more about what his decisions would entail.

Jamie: "It's weird, it hurts, it's uncomfortable, it takes very long" Me: "I see. Can I has?"

@eramsey6028

4 жыл бұрын

Have*

@FaultAndDakranon

4 жыл бұрын

@@eramsey6028 No, look at the name. Felix is a cat.

@sofiebonaparte7831

3 жыл бұрын

Ikr

I had a meta two years ago and agree with all of that. The pain at first was fucking horrible, pooping ugh, and the catheter was the worst thing on earth! I had the uretha lengthening, but it was still horrible. I also had an urinal infection because of it so it was even more painful. Honestly, that surgery was probably the hardest thing I have gone through in my life. I'm only 25, but I really dont think I will go through something as hard physically and mentally again. I just can't imagine it. However I do not regret it one bit and I am very happy with the results now (after having some complications some months later and getting it fixed). Just fair warning for people wanting the surgery. Be ready for it to be hard.

@Jammidodger

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing! Sorry you had a rough recovery, but glad you also find it worth it!

I will never see the word “happiness” again after hearing Jamie say “hap-penis”... 😂

As a semi-out bi woman just starting to dip a toe into the LGBTQ community and embracing the entirety of my own identity, this channel has been the most educational, affirming, and friendly resource I've found so far! Also so so so much appreciation for all unisex merch!

Cis female here and I’ve had 3 babies... your description of pooping after lower surgery reminded me very strongly of pooping after having a baby. No catheter, but the rest was the same. So awful! If Shaaba ever has a baby, you will be the most empathetic husband ever! Love this video and all you post. Thank you for the education and the humor! ❤️

@Veronica70379

2 жыл бұрын

This is an old video (and comment) but I’m reading comments to see if any other cis females related to postpartum pooping! “Waiting for it to fall” was spot on!

Pooping after a baby feels the same. Feels like everything will fall out.

@philippaclarke2844

4 жыл бұрын

That first trip to the loo after stitches... Ooof! Terror! Also, catheters, not fun.

@paigeolfert3382

4 жыл бұрын

@@philippaclarke2844 after I had my first kid I opted not to have stitches (I'm terrified of needles), and I immediately regretted it.

@dinalou8827

4 жыл бұрын

Ashley Perry I thought the same. After a c section you have to position yourself so carefully. I was scared to strain incase my stitches exploded!

@ashleyperry8918

4 жыл бұрын

@@philippaclarke2844 I feel that. I never got a catheter I didn't get an epidural for my birth but I needed 6 stitches and they hurt the most I think of the whole experience.

@ashleyperry8918

4 жыл бұрын

@@dinalou8827 I honest waited until I had to go so bad that it happened pretty naturally without any push it was the only way I could 😂

For Trans Male, it’s all about Pursuit of Happenis!

@0verth1nker60

4 жыл бұрын

hahahaha

@soupsoup4245

4 жыл бұрын

Life, liberty, and the pursuit of happenis

@annamermaid6359

4 жыл бұрын

Life, liberT, and the pursuit of Happenis

The way you talk openly about things most people are embarrassed of even thinking about.. You are such an amazing, beautiful person inside out.

(Americans, Aubergine=Eggplant)

@theDyingAtheist

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks, River, I'd no clue! 😄

@Green-us9kf

4 жыл бұрын

ohh! that makes sense

@hawkfishandy7584

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks!! I had no clue and didn’t even know how to start spelling it to google 🤣

@heatherjane910

4 жыл бұрын

Eggplant emoji 🍆 = penis

@midnightnyx261

4 жыл бұрын

My husband was super confused. I had to explain it to him as well.

After my hysterectomy (which didn't affect the outside bits at ALL), bowel movements were nearly impossible it was so painful. Like, when you're freshly missing organs right beside where your bowels exist and those bowels have to MOVE to push something out, it is a whole new hell that I was not at all prepared for. The pain meds were not nearly enough, besides the fact that they also make you more constipated. I feel like there has to be a better option.

@Fullmetal1890P

4 жыл бұрын

@Mia Smith Mind you, this was merely post-op, not post-healing.

@Fullmetal1890P

4 жыл бұрын

@Mia Smith Oh yeah, I'm fine now. It's great.

@FronteirWolf

Жыл бұрын

There is a better option. Just not having a hysterectomy.

@fluffytank_10

Жыл бұрын

​@@FronteirWolf Be gone, opinion not asked for

I love following your channel and your journey Jammie. As a cis (gay) man and HUGE supporter of my all my trans brothers and sisters your channel offers insight and education from a real, relatable perspective. You’re open, honest and so adorably likeable. You’re a beautiful human being, and so, so handsome. Ive shown your videos to acquaintances (definitely not people I’d consider friends, and sometimes just arseholes) who don’t believe that trans is a “real” thing, and you’ve changed their minds, because they cannot believe that you would ever have been assigned female at birth, they can only se you as a man. They’ve realised that it’s not about being “big, butch and manly” it’s about your soul, your essence and fundamentally being who you are. You’re changing lives, you’re changing attitudes, and most importantly I see so many trans kids comment on you videos that are so much stronger and braver because of you. You are a WONDERFUL human being. I wish you every happiness in the world, you deserve it, and you’re changing so many lives. Don’t ever stop Jammie, it’s people like you who change the world, and I love you for it. ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🖤

@vegaschick4eva590

4 жыл бұрын

Allister Flannigan GOD DOESNT MAKE MISTAKES

@smudge8882

4 жыл бұрын

@@vegaschick4eva590 Exactly. God made us trans and chose for this to be our journey, transition and all. It's all part of the plan, just like it was part of the plan for me to have Crohn's disease and undergo treatment for that too.

@vegaschick4eva590

4 жыл бұрын

S Mudge u obviously don’t know the BIBLE . Why did GOD DESTROY Solomon & Gomorrah .

@smudge8882

4 жыл бұрын

@@vegaschick4eva590 You obviously don't know what being trans is. News flash: being trans isn't the same thing as homosexuality. Two totally different things. Also, pretty sure God killed Sodom and Gomorrah because of the attempted rape. If a rape is occurring between two men, it's pretty messed up to fixate on the fact that it's two men rather than the fact that it's rape. Says something about your morals.

@Wasp239

3 жыл бұрын

@@vegaschick4eva590 one he did for sure. You.

As a writer that wants to include trans characters in my stuff, your videos are amazingly helpful on giving me a personal point of view on the technical stuff! Thank you for sharing your experience!

@Slaptop.

2 жыл бұрын

thank you :)

It sounds like pooping after bottom surgery is as terrifying as pooping after giving birth 😂.

@bek2837

4 жыл бұрын

100% thinking the same thing lol!

@piercedprincess6669

4 жыл бұрын

My first thought

When I look at you I see a softer bearded David Tennant???

@azuregriffin1116

4 жыл бұрын

Lmfao you're right.

@roriemarie2968

4 жыл бұрын

It's his expressions!

@amandamusic80

4 жыл бұрын

Nailed it! I was thinking he looks like someone but couldn't find the name!

@ameliareads589

4 жыл бұрын

I'm always thinking that, too!

@finefelinegirl

4 жыл бұрын

MangoesAndGrapes YES!!! But more handsome tho than David Tennant 😘

As a lady who has just had the opposite surgery, all of the above applies apart from the aubergine willy part. I'd say its more of a plum pudding sort of deal with the fanny.

@mrsbeard5225

4 жыл бұрын

Wooo! Good luck on your recovery! Wishing you all the best :)

@someonessidechannel1485

4 жыл бұрын

-I woulda traded with ya darling!-

@horsewithnoname12345

4 жыл бұрын

I love your creative use of words. Congrats!

@xstanstanstan

4 жыл бұрын

Is it weird that few things frustrate me more than the fact that we can't all just trade??? Like, I have what you wanted (congrats btw!) and you had what I want and we should just be able to trade and call it a day. lol

@waffal66

4 жыл бұрын

I take it you're not American. Fanny is something else over here

“Happenis!” Best thing ever!

I just started the gender reassignment therapy a few months ago, and I'm going to get puberty blockers next year! It's a really small step, but it's really big for me and I'm super happy :D

@HisNeverland

4 жыл бұрын

Congrats!!! :D

@olivander6990

4 жыл бұрын

CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!!!

@piegarifam5859

4 жыл бұрын

Did you choose implants ot shots? (I'm 12, trans, and going to start soon too. Like as soon as the doctor calls. I already went to the endocrinologist. I think I am going with shots, but I am not completely sure yet.)

@Green-us9kf

4 жыл бұрын

congrats! i dont know if puberty blockers makes it easier or harder to transition, but im 13 and i think its safe to say im past the point of puberty blockers. good that you are getting them though! :D

@federicaghezzi8001

4 жыл бұрын

King Valiant congratulations 💪🏻

"I did extensive reasearch, I did much much reading, and went into it not knowing everything that was going to happen" Jammie, I thought you were going to talk about your experience? Why are you telling everyone about mine? I always appreciate the highly relateable content!

I am a trans woman who had basically the opposite surgery in November 2019, and had a revision a month ago, and oh my god, a lot of what you are saying here applies for our surgery as well, is so similar. The pain was the most awful thing in the world for me though. Legitimately the most painful thing I've ever been in in my life, after my first surgery. Thankfully, revision wasn't.

7:16 you said that you had to tape the catheter to yourself... while touching your nose. For a milisecond my brain was like "WTF! Why would you tape it there?!". Then I understood you were just scratching your nose haha

@Jammidodger

4 жыл бұрын

Hahaha, that would have been a look

@charliestrickland6194

4 жыл бұрын

Same

@plan4life

4 жыл бұрын

ValeryVal SAME!

I heard a debate recently about how a bunch of people apparently think that if people are allowed to transition “too easily” then a bunch of men will transition to become female, so that they will win at professional sports. They should see your videos. Anyways...I’m glad your new happenis didn’t fall off when you pooped. Much love.

@Lauren-fi2rd

4 жыл бұрын

Magicme79 god, I fucking hate people who think like this. Jeez, get a brain

@Magicme79

4 жыл бұрын

lyla 07 I know, right? It’ll probably be a reality show, eventually.

@gxs2542

4 жыл бұрын

@@lyla0775 yeah but what if they were normally trans (male to female) and wanted to do sports professionally. What would you say to that? (Just curious)

@lyla0775

4 жыл бұрын

Gella Yxs I don’t think it would necessarily be a problem because many cisgender women take testosterone for sports so there’s always going to be some level of variability

@smammy9581

4 жыл бұрын

Also I think it’s really funny that transphobia think no penis=female. Like no, now you just don’t have a dick.

Greetings from Toronto! As a ciswoman of colour, your comments regarding bruising has lead me to wonder about people of African descent as we can tend to get keloids (raised scars). Just something I thought your trans viewers of colour looking into bottom surgery may want to talk to their doctor(s) about. Full disclosure: I clicked on your video because you look like David Tennant in the thumbnail. Tee hee. No matter - brilliant and informative video. It is a topic have wondered about (I'm a bi gal with trans people in my social circle). Anyways, many thanks for the info.

I love trans youtubers, sharing information we need that we all need!!! Jamie, you’re the best!!!

@buffmusicman

4 жыл бұрын

Oh! And off topic, i just got my first binder! My friend ordered it for me, my family doesnt know, but i have it, and its amazing looking in the mirror and being slightly less repulsed by what i see in the mirror

@melloncollie9031

4 жыл бұрын

@@buffmusicman Aw, congrats! Hope you feel alot better with the binder! But trust me, I know that telling your parents is a scary thing, but I believe in you! Just tell your parents when your ready. Have a great day/night!

@nobodyyo

4 жыл бұрын

@@buffmusicman stay safe

@solsimane

4 жыл бұрын

Congrats!!! My friend is getting me one for christmas and im getting my hair cut and potentially coming out to my mom tomorrow!!! Super proud of you and good luck!!!

@egad_gadzooks

4 жыл бұрын

@twistedApocynacae so happy for you dude!

Man, your authenticity and your sense of humour are a gift to all mankind! Thanks a lot, u make us all better humans!

As a cis female I have no why this ended up on my feed, but I'm glad I watched. It never hurts to learn and you are so adorably animated.

No it wasn’t TMI. I really admire your honesty and openness. I think any surgery down low will be rough. After my csection my vagina literally looked as if it’d been beaten with a baseball bat! 😳 all those multicolored bruises and lower than the incision at my pubic bone. Your so blessed to have your love by your side to support and soothe you. Some people don’t have any support. You’ve seriously got balls of steel NOT silicone man! You also seem so happy and comfortable in your skin. Good things!🤗😀❤️

i’m so moved by your whole journey! thank you for putting yourself out there for the sake of educating the world. you’re so brave jeez!!!

I find it interesting that I'm a transwoman yet I find your videos to be amazing and inspirational and can relate to a lot of what you talk about. I plan on having bottom surgery but I am still only about three months into estrogen and my doctor is still waiting to start me on t-blockers(newer research show delaying the t-blockers result in better breast development, apparently) so it still feels like it's so far away, yet I keep pushing each day and try to enjoy this weird early stage of my transition as much as I can. Just knowing that others have gone through exactly what I'm going through(transwomen as well as transmen) makes me feel hopeful for my own transition.

@mikuenjoyerXD

3 жыл бұрын

Update? :o

You are so awesome! I can only imagine how much your info has or will help someone during their transition. You are open, honest and comical. Yet retain enough seriousness appropriate to talking about a serious medical proceedure. Just made my day to see a new Jammidodger video pop up!😊 Please give the lovely Shaaba a big warm hug from me and offer her my condolences on the loss of her Nana. Much Love, from Ontario, Canada 🍁...Keli 💖

Awhile back, I watched a documentary about transgender people, which included information about gender affirming surgeries. It was so interesting, and really neat!!! That was like 2004/5, on an airplane of all places. Transgender was still a fresh concept to me, but I went into it with no biases. It was really beautiful because it’s like we are all equal, and made of the same bits, so why not support people in their process? I really love that people can transition - we have come so far 💜💜💜

I'm so grateful I found you. You're not only entertaining, you're informative. I'm watching these vlogs to know what to expect for my son if he decides on these surgeries. Thank you, Jamie!

Your honesty, openness, and candor are amazing and welcomed. Thank you for sharing!!! You've helped a number of people today!

Thanks for this information man!! Not many trans guys talk about this which I understand but.. It is really important. I'm happy to see you happy😄

Omg!! Because of ur channel I’m learning so much about my up coming journey! I was so scared but u have let us know about those questions that are floating around our heads. Thank you so much hun!

You are so lovely. Thank you for this documentation of your transition. It is so helpful for people to see your progress! I’m glad you have moved passed the pain and still want to help people into their transition. It is so beautiful ❤️

I’m not personally going through anything like this, but I love how candid you are. I started watching out of interest and wanting to be more informed but I subscribed because of you. Always click when you post, no matter what you post about 😁

When you want lower surgery but you're terrified of getting any kind of surgery... Dope

@YojmaxDjabox

4 жыл бұрын

same

@Jammidodger

4 жыл бұрын

I was the same! Honestly, no idea how I went through with it - but I pushed past the fear and it was worth it (I realise it's easier said than done though).

@OK-hi5ym

4 жыл бұрын

If you don’t mind blood and stuff, I had to have knee surgery and I found it super helpful to go online and watch an educational type video of a DR showing and explaining each step of the surgery. It took away a lot of my anxiety knowing exactly what was going to be happening to me and my body.

@matthews8838

4 жыл бұрын

@@OK-hi5ym I'll have to check that out! Thank you. I just haven't had any kind of surgery before so I'm super nervous. It would be nice to know what will be going on!

@jonahbeard2806

4 жыл бұрын

@@matthews8838 Hey, I have heart surgery before and that's something I am used to - I am very nervous about top and lower surgery though. I will just say that honestly, it is normal to feel frightened, anxious and afraid because it is such an abnormal situation but the doctors are really skilled and can really look after you. It is almost a case of psyching yourself up and reminding yourself you're going to be okay. Do pros and cons too and look at whether the cons of surgery are short term things like fear, discomfort and pain and whether the pros are long term things such as feeling better in yourself. It may not help but I found it helped me with rationalising all my heart operations.

Months of discomfort for a life of happenis. I'm happy with (for) you it went so well.

@colinernest8430

4 жыл бұрын

I like the pun lol

I'm following your channel for over a year now and one of my friend's children came out lately. So I feel better prepared to understand her and her journey as a transwoman now and I also told her parents about your channel. You are such an inspiration, Jamie, thank you!

You are so good at explaining with out any kind of feeling of any kind of useless false embarrassment while still being funny and open about it, you sharing is real and to the point. You always make me feel better about people. Sympathy to Shaaba on her loss of someone she loved deeply it is hard but you will carry on as you always do, he was loved and he knew that very well

i just want to say thanks jamie to you for sharing these things with us on the internet. it’s good that you can be so open and i find it both entertaining from your personality and informative as well :)

Jammi, as a Parent I am glad to hear your happy. Thanks for sharing, it gives others non trans insight into your mindset and what you went through. God Bless

Such honesty!!! Such courage to go into such detail, but I'm sure many people wonder about this.

I love you so much jamie! thanks for opening up about this -- its super helpful for people in the community!

You're literally the best person ever.

Loved how you treated the subject with honesty and authenticity... This contribution helps everybody understand the process.... well done friend!

Thanks for being so open about things. As a person who won't ever have that surgery and would never be forward enough to ask a trans person of my acquaintance, this has really satisfied my curiosity. You are doing a public service I swear.

Jammi, you are so entertaining to watch and I very rarely subscribe to youtube channels but I just need to keep watching you and your lovely lady. You are an inspirational human. I have been blessed to have been born into a body I identify with with I am hugely compassionate towards anyone who feels differently. Thankyou for your content and educating the world!

I really have to applaud you for the straight goods delivered open and honest. It's a little sad that people can't get this information from their doctors or pamphlets or medical info somehow... but I am going to say a great big "thank you" from everyone in the world for being brave enough to put this out there. How else are people to know?

Kind of reminds me of things you didn’t get told about child birth. When you described all these people scrutinizing your perineal and pubic areas that’s like when you have a baby. Only of course it’s a very different overall outcome for sure. I found I was more concerned about my babies than my own well-being after both. The hospital wouldn’t let me go home until I peed and pooped and both were scary after delivering my first baby. My second baby was an emergency c section. It wasn’t as bad really as a normal delivery like with my first child. Then of course you have a very tiny mini human to learn to take care of! Considering the nature of your reports you’ve done a nice job without getting too graphic here. Wishing you good luck with your new you!

*Hap-penis*

@oopsmygaynessisshowingagai9604

4 жыл бұрын

webba03 i snorted

@kortmann9

4 жыл бұрын

Man, I need me some hap-penis in my life...

@tundraillustration

4 жыл бұрын

The comment I was searching for! :D

@bunkyman8097

4 жыл бұрын

Hap-penis, reminds of a king of the hill episode when Peggy hill was a substitute teacher for sex education

@DevilAriana

4 жыл бұрын

Bunkyman that would be a good episode

I know this video is at least a year old now, but I truly just want to say thank you, Jammi. So many people are so afraid to speak on these facts & information, & I 3,000% understand why. It’s so intimate, personal, something people struggle w/ for years, sometimes their entire lives, & since not everybody is intelligent enough or caring enough to be understanding & *mature*, it can be very scary. But I can’t thank you enough for all of your videos. I love you & your lovely lady so much & appreciate the information you give. It not only helps me personally, but it allows me to have the CORRECT information, just in case I ever need to help somebody feel more comfortable & understand. ❤️ I also feel more comfortable myself too learning all of this b/c ever since I was able to talk I always asked my mom when I was going to be a boy. & I truly still feel this way to this day. I don’t think I will personally go through a transition, but I have always been curious about going through it, & if I EVER WANT to go through w/ a transition, your videos help me be more comfortable exploring that thought. Sometimes I even puts me at peace a little bit w/ just the way I am now. Just so you know, either way, you help me so much & I can’t express my appreciation enough. Keep being you sweetie. You’re an amazing soul. ❤️

I had a cyst on my tailbone as a teenager. I was told I would have a tiny scar with a couple stitches. I woke up from surgery and I felt like I was hit by a car. It turned out I have several cysts from the tip of the tailbone to my mid back. Since its tissue the xray didnt see it and only one actually felt like an external lump. I had in excess of 100 stitches and a drain. At the hospital I was at they had never seen this. They kept parading in interns and nurses to look at it. I had to be on my belly for a couple days with a pillow under my groin. I was on iv fluids only for 3 days post OP. There were times a dr would come in with a colleague and compliment on how nicely it was stitched. Meanwhile I had scarring so bad and the tube made it bump up like a ridge. It was so awful. I was getting close to my 16th birthday and it impacted my self esteem greatly. Back with this was done teens had way less options , the parents usually made the choices. Maybe it wouldn't have made a difference but if for sure was the worse thing I'd dealt with.

@kaitenvonbitchguru3600

4 жыл бұрын

Laura Coleman that sounds quite horrible. Hope you are doing fine now ❤️

@lauracoleman8114

4 жыл бұрын

@@kaitenvonbitchguru3600 it wasnt the most fun thing ever lol. I'm now in my mid 40s and it is less of a concern to me. It did cause some issues later is life due to scar tissue but I manage 😁 thank you for being so kind ❤

TIL that 🍆 is “aubergine” in UK English (like French!) rather than “eggplant” in the US. Learn something new every day 😃

@fleon4115

4 жыл бұрын

Afaik it's aubergine almost everywhere

@mnimytzy

4 жыл бұрын

It's "brinjal" in Southeast Asia!

@Titoo126

4 жыл бұрын

What's Brinjal? I am from bangladesh.. Here eggplant is called brinjal (in english) and in our language its বেগুন / Begun.

@LaDivinaLover

4 жыл бұрын

It’s aubergine in the South of the U.S. too. No one in the south that I know says eggplant...

@Crazygirl-eu5dc

4 жыл бұрын

It’s called Bengan in most Indian languages including Bengali, Hindi, Punjabi, Marwadi and several others. But yeah in the Indian subcontinent it would be called Bengan for the most part. It’s called aubergine in the UK where I grew up.

OMFG.. you look in every video better and better. I just fell in love😍

I really don't mean to be disrespectful or cause anyone discomfort, but it's incredible to me how much the experience of medically transitioning sounds like my pregnancy and birth. Everything about changing bodies, not recognizing yourself or knowing how to feel about yourself, the incredible invasions of privacy... I'm still recovering from my pregnancy and cesarean, but it sounds like a finished and healed surgical process is exactly as wonderful and relieving as giving birth and getting my body back, plus a wonderful new tiny human, was for me. My sister is starting her medical transition this year and I'm so excited for her to feel comfortable and happy as she progresses 💖

It's so awesome that this information is out there for people. You've done a real service, I'm sure of it.

Thank you so much for videos like these especially for talking about bottom surgery so clearly and truthfully!

Right on. I experienced everything except the extensive bruising. After 7 days in the hospital (ALT phallo) I couldn't get the pain meds for 5 [FIVE] days. 6 weeks of physical therapy, and as for pooing, It was as close to giving birth as I'll ever get. It was 35 minutes of excruciating pain. This began an almost 3 month cycle of painful BMs which caused a 1 inch tear (terribly painful) and inflammation of the hemorrhoids tissue which made things worse. It felt like pooping razor blades. I was on stool softeners the whole time. I decided to do a 7 day fast so as to poop as little and few times as possible. Once the tear healed, I was able to finally apply hemorrhoid cream and it eventually got back to normal. Other than a small common fistula that healed in only a few weeks, no complications occurred. Thank heavens!!!!

I have to say, I learn so much from your videos and I'm grateful for your candid truths about your experience. Also, MAD PROPS for what you've endured, you are one total BAMF, and I have so much respect and appreciation for anyone who commits to this process. I cannot imagine going through all of this pain and long months of recovery to get to where you are. Also, you're gorj. Totes gorj.

Sounds like some of the same things that happen after giving birth.🤯 You're so brave for sharing all this. Thanks for giving us all more common ground.

Love the darker highlights in your hair. Don’t know if it was intentional but it looks really good.

Thank you, I know this is an old video but seriously thank you people don’t explain openly frequently enough to really glean an understanding of what the types of bottom surgery even are let alone the realities of recovery!

I got trans friends and your videos really help me understand the stuff they have to go through

I love your hair!!! Thanks Jammi !!! Love you!!

Me and my best friend have been watching your video to get information to help him understand his transition so thankyou for helping ❤️

I saw this in my feed and even though I’m not trans, one of my closest friends is so I decided to watch it so that if/when he did get said surgery I’d be able to support him better, and I got a lot more TMI than I expected, but it was a very good an informational video!

I know this is sorta unrelated. But! I just came out as transgender to my parents. I'm blessed with very accepting parents. Next is my siblings 😅. Anyways, I wanted to say thank you, Jammi you've been such a really cool person to watch as I figured myself out.

@emilycoxon5226

4 жыл бұрын

Congrats 🎉 Good luck on coming out to your siblings💕

@kaitenvonbitchguru3600

4 жыл бұрын

I am so happy for you ❤️

@newjeanskitchynicknamethat2258

4 жыл бұрын

♥️

Love your honesty and openness

Final count lol (including all names) =15

Thanks again for your videos! These are so helpful.

Thank you for your candid videos, very informative. Education is everything and I thank you for your knowledge and first hand experience. God bless!!

Thanks for this I've found lots of videos about changes on T but not much at all about bottom surgery... So thank you.... Although this is a long way off for me (years 😢) it's great to be able to watch video like this 👍

Your amazing So strong a person We need more people like you in life x

Thank you for educating people about this!

I’m lookin into surgeries at this point for that area. Im on a list for top surgery but haven’t decided on lower... Honestly this helped me a little. I like to know alllll the details before going in. So I know I’m not DYING.

Thank you for sharing! What a journey you have been on. Xx

Thanks Jamie for this; you are awesome!

Quite thoroughly honest mate. All the best.

omg...I had to have a hysterectomy some years back and when you said the part about it feeling like everything was going to fall out or off of you when going to the bathroom...I felt that...I never thought that anyone else would understand that...

What an amazing brave journey you have been on.... good heavens sweet guy.... bless your heart.... I wish you all the perfect health now....

EARLY SQUAD JAMIE...LOVE FROM INDIA... Just need a 💓😍 Thanks for the info

Well ... this is just excellent. You are delightful! I love your positive attitude. I love your honesty. You are so brave to come forward and share this valuable and sensitive information about your own experience. I can well imagine that you are helping so many people by demystifying this procedure. I am a gay man. I am not transitioning. But, I really appreciate knowing more about what my trans brothers and sisters go through. Thank you. I admire anyone who lives in their own truth like that. Best wishes.

Not trans myself (gay male here). I found your recounting of some aspects of your experience "uncomfortable" to conceptualize in my minds eye, but man(!) do I respect what you have gone through to create synergy between your body and your soul! Props dude! Through this post, you have done a great service to all of those who now find themselves facing similar realities. Kudos! I don't typically watch trans content of KZread, (no relation to my life experiences and struggles), but I very much enjoyed your contribution to the self-identity conversation. May your journey's end be even more fulfilling than you ever imagined en route.

I Love you! You are so brave! And I adore your blatant honesty n candor and "TMI" shit you share cuz you are Right on honest with it all! Btw you make a nice looking man!

The pain you described from bottom surgery brought back memories of 2nd degree tearing after delivering a 10lb baby. For me, it was as bad as labour that lasted weeks. Oh the pooping on the toilet nightmare afterwards! Feeling like everything was going to fall off!

I had first stage RFF phalloplasty with Mr Rubin in London 5 weeks ago, I’ve been documenting on my Instagram (@alexharker) because honestly it was SO difficult to find info on lower surgery in the UK and I couldn’t find anyone who had Rubin as their surgeon until a few days before surgery. There is so much that nobody talks about, like the burning pain in your groin from the nerve hook up or how difficult it is to wear pants 😅 It’s really important to get this information out there!

thank you so much for this vid, its super educational!

I used to date a nurse who attended trans people at our university trans ambulatory (sorry if thats not the correct translation, it's a thing in Brazil) and we went to the first Brazilian WPATH event - World Professional Association for Transgender Health. We set down for the lectures about surgeries, and they gave every information possible about the procedure, showed pictures of every step and everything. But said nothing about anything you and others say in these videos. Keep up the good job :)

Your such a handsome and funny guy. I enjoy watching you and I get sleepy each time I m listening to you.😘👍

I had 3 csections with my kids and most of the same immediate bodily functions after surgery are the same. It was definitely unexpected (and terrible)! Thank you for making this video, it gives tremendous insight. 💖

Your REC shirt from NY looks so good!

I was worryingly far into this before I realised you weren’t actually getting surgery on your actual bottom.

So happy for you and Shabba.congratulations on finalizing your birth certificate.

Thanks For The Info!!! Great Job As Always!!! 👏👍😎🐺✌

I’ve literally put off my septoplasty/rhino for 20+ years because I’m scared of the pain and recovery...I can’t even begin to imagine what gender reassignment surgery entails. Kudos. You’ve got BALLS 😊