My mother was a horribly abusive, neglectful, toxic substance abuser who put her many, many, many men ahead of her children. If a woman blames my brother for not wanting to be around our mother, then maybe she needs to check her parental privilege

@AshleyBruton-rh4fc

16 күн бұрын

Autumn frost I can relate except my mother did not have any substance abuse issues but she did put men before her children sorry I said it everyone have a blessed weekend❤❤

More important is even the relation father had with his Mother because this is real pattern of men- woman relation guy really has

@tutsybassista

29 күн бұрын

The entire family were narcissists. I just didn't know because this came before the Internet.

Even his sisters! I met someone who treated his one & only sister so badly. He was so disrespectful yet he was living in her house & she helped him get a job. For me that was a red flag. So yeah, u are right about the mother.

His mom rejects him and he hates her and he’s not closed to his sister 😅

Getting my guy to answer questions is like pulling teeth sometimes.

I should’ve realized the first time I heard him talk to his mom… of course when we dated, he said all the right things. But watching them interact, his poor mom, I wanted to shrink into a corner. His dad too though, and anyone really… he speaks down to people with an air of superiority.

What if his mother is deceased?

From my own experience this is very very true

This is 100% percent true. He is no good with his mother is no a good for relationship. But no always when they have a good relations are good partner

Unhealthy attachment to his mum which was what I was hoping for but no room for 2

I agree

It’s how the relationship his parents had they treat women bad and treat mom good it’s cultural

Before putting these advice to practice, it’s important to also know what kind of mother the person has. You cannot demand neither a man, nor a woman to have a healthy or pretty relationship with their parents if they have an abusive family dynamic.

True ❤😅

If a man is being financially dependednt on his mom - he will expect you to pay for him on dates too etc.

@tutsybassista

29 күн бұрын

Not only that. I caught my now Ex redeeming my $10,000 bond. I actually won $15,000 back! If only I found it 5 years earlier, it would've been a Federal charge and 20 years in prison....

Excellent advice. WOW.

@MatthewCoast

Ай бұрын

Thanks for watching!

Or what if he suffered abuse as a child by his parents

I love my mom just wish she lives closer to me

He loved his mom very much from this day. He is so loving and so Karen, just like his mom. One reason why I fell in love with him. Cause I love how she always made everybody matter. But it's hard for me because he has to be the center and for me to join in. He gets upset and jealous LO. L confusing, why should it be happening? Cause he wants to be the center, he's just like a child. But I love that he is a child. I have 6 kids with him from this day. I will never stop loving him. And he will always love me. Just need to be socializing with people and he'd be okay with it.

What if is mother was a narcissist?

Exactly

100% true

What if his Mother died at a young age??

What if he spends too much time with his mother? They go out to eat every Friday night and he goes to her house or she comes to his multiple times a week? It almost feels like he’s dating her and she’s my competitor. Sometimes I think men like this push women away because they haven’t yet learned to push their mother away.

So what if the person was adopted?!

He respected his father so mych nit mother not me

I’ve never lived her so that’s why I was left he dident me either no respect. ❤

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