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@michaelswinburne4350

Ай бұрын

Pretty shitty editing

As a survivor of childhood trauma who waited far too long to get therapy, I can assure you when those floodgates open it sets you free!

@stefanforrer2573

3 ай бұрын

sadly the freedom that this kind of release grants is only ever temporary... at least in my personal experience

@IExpectedBSJustNotThisMuchBS

3 ай бұрын

I'm approaching 70 and it took some really huge bouts of CPTSD (not the minor ones lasting hours or a few days or a few weeks) lasting years that allowed me to actually feeling the feelings from the time and process them versus crying for the child that suffered through that or for the damage that remained. So in my late 40s to early 50s I got to most of it. But it was clear there was some early stuff that I could talk about, but my therapist said that I'd look like I was in shock as I was talking about it. Finally, I was in my late 50s nearly 60, when my cousins got in a fight in front of me repeating the generational trauma and that set off an even more entrenched bout of CPTSD, but in the end I reached all of it. And then I did rewind therapy to help with the intrusive thoughts. I don't think it's ever completely over and I could have a huge bout again for something that wasn't in my consciousness, but I feel more settled than I ever have been. The work I did in my late 40s got rid of suicidal ideation as an escape mechanism. And I look back now and can't imagine engaging in that like I did. I just had routines that I played out over and over and over again. (E.g., I used to pretend I was blind every single day until I told my older brother about it. He reminded me of getting locked in the basement in the dark and how he would make a game of it to keep me from being scared.) Gone.

@issi529

3 ай бұрын

​@@stefanforrer2573 Its not. If you do it often you wil be free. Your right in your experience.

@jason_v12345

3 ай бұрын

This is a complete Hollywood distortion of real-life psychotherapy. Discovering it's "not your fault" does not by itself heal trauma, and it is certainly not achieved by simply repeating the statement over and over.

@ElizabethRye

3 ай бұрын

Exactly especially when you realize how much trauma you were exposed to

Rest in Peace , Robin Williams ...

@nsasupporter7557

3 ай бұрын

Yes, watching those clips now that Robin Williams is gone now just hits so much harder

@tdcfc

3 ай бұрын

One of the few celebrities that still make me sad when I remember he's gone.

@nsasupporter7557

3 ай бұрын

@@tdcfc yes, him and Sean Connery were the only 2 celebrity deaths that I cried over… so far, anyway

@syteanric

Ай бұрын

We miss you Robin

Whoever is running this channel is trying to kill me. This and the "is he smart" video in the same day? I can't keep crying like this while I'm working.

@MemphisJagsfan

3 ай бұрын

Definitely asshole behavior and even though I instant clicked...still.

@uofajoe99

3 ай бұрын

😢

Notice that once Sean (Robin William's character) begins repeating "its not your fault" that the camera starts to pan specifically between the distance between Sean and Will. The more Sean repeats himself, the more zoomed in and claustrophobic the shot is. The purpose being that the cinematography is mirroring Sean's intentions, hes there to get Will to confront his trauma and theres no escaping, no room to weasel out of it- just confrontation.

@montoyastevenjsm31

3 ай бұрын

Masterful direction from Gus Van Zandt

@manny4707

2 ай бұрын

psychologically you can also see the way will refuses to make eye contact with sean as he says he knows it’s not his fault, and the moment he does lock eyes with sean he begins to breakdown. The mind will know the truth yet refuse to accept it just because it believes it doesn’t deserve pleasure but only pain.

@randywhite3947

Ай бұрын

@@montoyastevenjsm31sant not zant

The moving part of that scene is that Matt is still saying "I'm so sorry"

@xarachne8473

3 ай бұрын

Well he was an ass to Sean the whole time and even pushed him in this scene

@sabrinashelton1997

3 ай бұрын

Um, wow. That's what you got from the movie? Yikes. @@xarachne8473

@NeroSparda99

2 ай бұрын

@@xarachne8473 yeah but Sean knows that

@randywhite3947

Ай бұрын

@@xarachne8473well obviously

@billymuellerTikTok

29 күн бұрын

he's not apologizing to Sean, he's apologizing to himself and forgiving himself

Seeing people experience true empathy, in grieving over someone else's pain and rejoicing with them at a breakthrough, restores my faith in humanity. We need more of this.

@kylel7158

3 ай бұрын

The beauty of film

@rufflesdan

2 ай бұрын

Amen..

@davestang5454

2 ай бұрын

The reason why Sean can have true empathy is that he understands real pain and loss firsthand. Sean and Will are kindred spirits.

After years and years and years of being told what a pain in the ass I am, now I write children’s stories about adversity, perseverance, redemption, self-discovery, and deep friendships.

@sergio765410

Ай бұрын

Keep going.

@jamesolson4975

14 күн бұрын

Can I read some of those stories? And man I'm so happy for you!

There's a great moment in Just Trust Ash's reaction after this, where he just says about Robin Williams, "I just wish someone could've saved him." It was a really genuine moment.

@christophermurillo7250

2 ай бұрын

That moment is why I started following their channel. Ash showed so much vulnerability there and you can see he is genuinely sad about William's passing. It got me in my feelings.

And with 4 words Robin Williams won an Oscar and broke our hearts....damn I miss him

That feeling. The pain, emotion, thoughts, guilt, anger, disgust, hopelessness, that's been pushed into the back of your mind for your whole life. You're in a space that's safe, and someone, something, has brought your mind to that point. You can feel the pressure, the dam beginning to break. It hurts, you cant breathe, cant feel anything except whats inside. You panic, try to hold it together, but this is it: your subconscious realises it's a safe space and this time it's ok. And it breaks through. All of the pent up agony of your life flooding out. Poison gushing out from the broken walls. You feel it all as it flows through you and out of your whole being, eventually leaving just an exhausted relief.

@rosenappi6663

3 ай бұрын

Said it all 🎉

@cactusonline

2 ай бұрын

exactly :D

I’m 60 and still dealing with stuff that happened in my childhood. It became a part of who I am. I’m finally starting to treat myself better by stopping drinking and smoking - trying to improve my life rather than escape from it. And I still partly believe it was my fault.

@williambryan3346

2 ай бұрын

I’m 54. It’s easy to believe that it’s your fault when the people who are responsible for you tell you that it is while abusing you, instead of being loving and caring people. The truth is rarely, if ever, heard. It’s tough, but, at least for me, being around people who truly do care about others helps an immeasurable amount. Take care one day at a time and you’ll continue to be better for it.

Man i miss Robin Williams. Crazy to me how someone who brought so much joy and smiles to ppl was so tormented inside. I was born 1990 and so Robin was a huge part of my childhood. Hope you are at peace Mr. Williams.

@krpyton7368

2 ай бұрын

i was born 1990 his smile remind of grandfather

This reminds me of Will breaking down when his father left. It's essentially the same. Imagine Uncle Phil telling Will, "it's not your fault." I wager same reaction.

@motorcycleboy9000

3 ай бұрын

Why don't he love me, man? I was the young son of a single mother when that episode aired, they should've warned me somehow.

@unclelink

3 ай бұрын

@@motorcycleboy9000 I don't think it matters. I had both parents at the time and because of their conflict it was like one alone was there. Raise a hand if your parents divorced but still lived in the same house🙋. It'll hurt anyone with a beating heart. Only consolation is to not share the experience with your own.

@ELmayberry

3 ай бұрын

​@motorcycleboy9000 right.. had me all in my feelings.. still made me cry when I would watch reruns 😢

@davestang5454

2 ай бұрын

You mean Will Smith in a scene from "The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air' in an episode where his biological father (played by Ben Vareen) leaves him. Another great scene like that is in the movie "Antoine Fisher", when an adopted child from the "hood" hunts down his biological mother and asks her why she abandoned him.

The acting choice to have Will look away every time he says “yeah I know” until he finally breaks is such a little detail but it makes so much impact. Under all that toughness, all the wit and anger, he’s just a hurt little boy. And while he might logically know it wasn’t his fault he still can’t believe it deep down, he has to learn to give himself permission to let it all go. Matt and Ben wrote this when they were in their 20s, holy fuck

I love Robins smile in the hug. It’s like a big “I WIN”

@MrTille

3 ай бұрын

Or ”he won”.

@bethjarzombek4742

Ай бұрын

They both did

This is a heartbreaking scene, but I worked for over a decade in child welfare, I have seen some pretty awful things in my time. When you have to deal with this for real, it is something else entirely, whether it is physical abuse, emotional abuse, or sexual abuse. The damage is long-lasting and permanent. You can spend the rest of your life trying to fix the wrongs of the world that are visited upon a child. 😢 I can tell you this with absolute certainty, I miss working with children, but my health has deteriorated to a point where I can't physically handle it anymore. Yes, if you want to know the answer to the question, I was also a childhood survivor of physical and sexual abuse.

It's one of the best scenes in all of modern cinema, in my opinion. I'm still amazed Ben Affleck and Matt Damon had the skills to be able to write this masterpiece, at their age at the time, and get everything so perfect, especially their understanding of psychology and trauma. Even the cinematography for this scene is absolutely perfect, bringing the viewer into the interaction to make you feel how trapped Will feels in that moment. It reminds me of the "mind reading game" in Sixth Sense, where the camera moves in and out to mimic Cole's responses to Dr. Crowe's guesses. That's the kind of cinematography I end up noticing on my tenth viewing. It's so subtle, you don't even know it's happening unless you're taking notes, but it still works to pull you in and deliver the emotion.

@randywhite3947

3 ай бұрын

Cinema period

@mr.kinkade2049

2 ай бұрын

Accidental masterpiece.

So many misinterpret this scene as Sean saying that Will’s crimes are not his fault. What he’s saying is that Will, who has been stuck emotionally as that child who suffered that abuse, did nothing to deserve that abuse. People that are abused as kids often get emotionally frozen as that child, believing that they did something to deserve it. Sean freed Will from that cycle of self-hatred and allowed him to move forward emotionally, to mature and grow. That crying, was the crying of that little boy that was hurt, but was never allowed to react to it and grieve. For someone like Will, being given the permission to grieve is huge. It shows the trust he had in Sean, which allowed him to drop his guard and feel that trauma.

@RushISVarietyB

3 ай бұрын

I think we get it

@tomaszarchie5207

3 ай бұрын

Everybody watching knows that…er, …strange point

@Brianml77

3 ай бұрын

@@tomaszarchie5207 No, not everyone. I’ve literally seen therapists call this scene problematic for the very reason I stated.

@jellyrollnorton

2 ай бұрын

Thanks for pointing that out. There likely are some viewers who didn’t fully get it.

@samiamfam

2 ай бұрын

i got this when i watched the movie, but reading your comment just made me cry

The veins in his arms indicating how he was hugging him so tightly like he was hanging on for dear life; choking up right now just talking about it and seeing it again,truly a powerful scene for a terrific and amazing film and What makes it even more Devastating is the fact that the "its not your fault" was acted out by a man who himself was going through struggles and possibly needed multiple hugs to save his life!😢😢💯🔥👍

One thing I find very interesting about this scene is that they never make it clear who's flash back we're seeing, because they both suffered the same trauma. So, to each of them, it was the same faceless monster seeking to commit the same cruel act upon an innocent child.

Brilliant acting from two brilliant actors. To me it is if Matt's character had this gift inside him, but he didn't know what to do with it. Robin's character, cared enough to point him in the right direction, probably the first person to do so in his life. Who would have known that Mork would have that inside him, it was a revelation to all who had followed Robin's comic genius to see his acting skills appear and blossom. Just like Bill Murray, under that funny veil, dramatic genius. Very good film. Ben and Matt did good.

Children of abuse, neglect and dysfunction always carry some amount of guilt and if you could see in their soul you would witness true torture... My father was suicidal and my mother was weak, malicious, narcissistic and on pills. Imagine being a small innocent defenseless child having to grow up in that environment, to survive that environment... All i wanted was a little bit of attention, a little bit of connection and support, and to see my parents happy. And all i got was apathy and hostility.

When I saw this for the first time, when he said it again I was like "uhhh". After about 4 times I was like "dude needs to shut up". But after about 7 times I started crying.

Everyone’s reaction shows how much we ALL relate to this trauma.

It's amazing how four words can have such a powerful impact.

I love Shawn's smiling eyes after Will breaks down and starts crying. Breaking down that emotional block was like cutting out cancer; it hurt, but he knew now that the healing could begin.

2:54 slays me. I blame my Irish DNA for loving redheads. And have my own experience of a past... not as violent. I think I was treated well. Just unwanted from my pops. I love this movie. Makes me cry and makes me proud and sad and happy. No idea how two kids (Damon and Ben) put this together. Its a masterpiece.

The crazy thing is, this isn't even the best scene in the movie. The scene on the park bench next to the pond where Robin Williams has that monologue is, in my opinion.

@mediumchungus9662

3 ай бұрын

Absolutely

We all love ❤️ & miss you 😔 Robin Williams.

I imagine myself a big tough guy until I start crying every time even though I’ve seen this many times.

Almost everyone is speechless during the scene. Very good.

I was hoping that this is how it would be for me when I started therapy, but instead the therapist point out that most of my problems were actually my fault unfortunately

@clarkmacgowan5114

3 ай бұрын

Any therapist who tells you that, you need to walk out on them. I tell people this all the time. Just because somebody has degrees and a title doesn't mean anything. You need to find the therapist who will actually help you. I'm sorry you got so let down, that makes me so angry.

@Utonian21

3 ай бұрын

I'd like to apologize for laughing at this comment

@paulrobinson3213

16 күн бұрын

​@@clarkmacgowan5114What if it was their fault?

Knowing what Robin was going through his entire life and how it ended makes all of this even more heartbreaking

RIP Robin, you fantastic being

It's ironic you can tell who was raised properly and who wasn't based by their reactions.

@MrMice...

3 ай бұрын

The irony in the irony of what you said

@randywhite3947

3 ай бұрын

@@MrMice...what do you mean?

I never experienced anything like this, but this really hits home as I know people who have. Soooo beautifully written and acted...

I'm going to call this video, how many times will I start crying!?

I was abused as a child so this scene always makes me cry.

Man Robin Williams what a legend RIP

Slays me every damn time for all the right reasons.

You’re killing it with these videos dude

I could use some robin Willam’s words right now 🥺

Anyone else feel like a marathon crying session tonight? Me too.

I had an abusive stepfather and I wonder how many people fully understand Will's answer to why he chose the wrench. It's the only control a victim of abuse has in that moment. It's a message. "You can hit me all you want and I can't stop it because I'm only a kid, but I will not let you win at your game. I will not admit I'm afraid of you and choose the less painful weapons. So grab that wrench and let's go. Because you can beat me, but you will never break me."

This scene broke my Father, After years of his own psychological abuse dished out from his own father, being scared to death he'd do the same to me, so much so he left and divorced my Mother and stayed away for 24 years, only to come back into our lives and re-marry my Mum. I got him this for his birthday because it's a great movie he'd never seen and just heard him gasp and say "I wish someone told me that, I might not have made so many mistakes in my life and ruined yours as a result. I'm so sorry for that." and wept... I just grabbed his hand and said "Dad look at me... It's not your fault, it NEVER was, it was HIS fault for not seeing you for who you are and always have been, you had the courage to stay away in order to protect us, from HIM as well as your own darkest times and doubts, you also to come back and face up to your only mistake, doubting yourself! Yet, you STILL came back to us in the end, Mum made that possible because she never had a bad word to say about you, remember what I said at our first full Family dinner...? Now I know what was missing all my life... You just fit in because this just feels like perfection, Thank you for coming back and showing us this. I meant it then and I mean it now. Stop tearing yourself apart for it, you've been in my life for more than half of it remember THAT 1st and foremost, don't regret the past, it's past and there's nothing we can do to change that, live in the now and aim for a better future!" Only 2 times I've seen my Dad in tears....

I feel like this entire movie was just leading up to this scene.

Man.....These comments..... Make it feel like I was the only person who had actual parents as a child. Jesus Christ I hope you all are okay. ❤

@bobthecone

Ай бұрын

We all find each other. We're good. It's this weird little club of dark trauma where we all know each other; even if we never met.

There's a reason they both won Oscars for this...

@jeremesmith9266

10 күн бұрын

Well deserved too

Thank you for doing this!! I absolutely love it!!

Seeing Matt Damon and Robin Williams in a hug makes me feel like everyone wishes they could have had the chance to give Robin Williams a hug.

@JnEricsonx

2 ай бұрын

Saw the man live 2x. It was the Weapons of Mass Distraction tour. Which was good-but if I had seen Night at the Met or Live on Broadway live I would have died in my seat laughing.

I wish with all my heart I could have given that same hug to robin. He brought so much happiness to the entire world, but still didn’t feel like he was good enough. I’d give anything to have spoken with him. The dude will forever be a national treasure

Men don't get enough sympathy, it's tough to see a man cry. Not because they shouldn't, but because they need to more often. All these men out there just walking around with all those repressed emotions. I'm just sitting here wondering, are y'all okay?

"That's why you don't put kids through stuff..." Truth couldn't be spoken more

Has anyone not felt better after a big, good cry?

@4pace

Ай бұрын

Nope only worse for acknowledging the truth of the pain.

Such a simple line delivered by an absolute genius of a man and it never fails to make ur heart hurt a little. Rest Well Robin. Ya great glorious giant of a man. May he only ever know peace.

"I'm unwell, yet again" while literally watching a movie about people letting their baggage go. Very sad.

“cuz fuck him, thats why” is one of the hardest lines in cinema

I envy people that cry during movies. I wish I could feel that deeply about them

I don't have any personal experience with abuse, but to all of you in the comments that have just know that I'm sorry for whatever you all went through.

I just cried for ~15m straight and it's not my fault.

it's like watching an abused stray finally get love and care, not knowing how to handle it at first, but then finally accepting and trusting and becoming a dog again

whenever an earthquake kills hundreds or thousands of people I like to spend a little time in San Andreas and say, "it's not your fault..... it's not your fault."

@920WASHBURN

3 ай бұрын

A bit wordy but I'm on board

@VerisimilitudeFilms1

3 ай бұрын

We all have our faults. Mine's in California. ;)

What a performance

This world is without Robin Williams. And that's a tragedy

This is why Robin Williams won the Oscar....Both of Dad's had issues. I wasn't abused but abandonment hurts just as much. One had mental issues and the other didn't know how to be a Dad because his dad wasn't a dad to him.

@joywinchester1127

3 ай бұрын

We All Need to hear that it's not our fault.

*"... I had to go see about a girl."*

I like how this scene goes from making you cry to making you laugh with " only if you grab my a$$"

Well deserved Oscars !!!

Beautiful reactions from beautiful people. Faith in humanity restored. ❤

Just found your channel. Great Video!!

another example why women should realize how much men live with... we dont often have the avenues women do to talk and or release the things we have been through......

Every. Single. Time....dammit.

At 62 years old, I'm still dealing with the trauma of childhood abuse at the hands of a violent alcoholic father. If you're out there, get the help you need before it becomes almost unbearable to deal with.

It’s not your fault breaks me every time

I love the channel!! If you haven't seen them, White Noise Reacts, ur Internet Mom Ash, Badd Medicine are great movie reaction channels!

You're gonna need to update this since Awkward Ashleigh just dropped her reaction today and it was a spectacular salt-fest.😭 Amazing scene, anyone who doesn't at least well-up is emotionally constipated.

I was abused by both of my parents when I was a kid, so this was the only movie that ever made me shad a tear

🙏❤🌹 Robin 🌹❤🙏

Powerful moment and and comes again in family guy rip Robin Williams

In my top 5 movies. I love this movie.

The way he says “don’t f*** with me NOT YOU” kills me. Will LOVES him and the thought of HIM mocking Will is too much to bear. Anyone else, but not you.

Could you do a compilation of the argument with his girlfriend scene?

The entire film is excellent! 👍

This Chanel should do a reaction to "A man called Otto" I don't usually cry and that movie got me 4 damn times. And I was on an international flight, so I told another woman across from me to watch it and she was crying too. Please 🙏

RIP Robin

For Justtrushash, even though it’s a different scene, you should have included ash saying I just wish somebody could have saved him

@azzula729

3 ай бұрын

The little story ash told about how much Robin Williams means to him made me cry more than this movie.

I had a counselor tell me that it wasn’t my fault and I immediately broke down like that. It’s not your fault are powerful words that can help begin the process of healing.

Yeah, Cinebinge are just awesome!!

Great movie!!!!!

What a lot of people don't think about when they are watching this scene is the horrible demise of Robin Williams hiding behind the great performances. It seems to be true that so many of the funniest people out there are angry and frustrated inside.

Nobody deserves to be treated that way

Ramanujan was special

A hyeh hyeh hyeh hyeh hyeeeeehhhh!😢

Thats totally a Meisner acting excerise.

Matt Damon

Men hold it in... but you need to be careful, because if you pop that bubble a lot of shit is coming out.

Am turning 60 years old in acouple of days. I experienced dysfunction childhood. Today. I leaned it's not my fault. The forever healing and Resilience continues to aid me into my Golden year's. (You all want to know a little secret to my new profound happiness and freedom?) FORGIVENESS TO MY PARENTS. FOR THEY DO NOT KNOW WHAT THEY ARE DOING. THANK YOU LORD JESUS CHRIST FOR SAVING ME.

Rough stuff, child abuse.

there is a great scene like this in "The Prince of Tides", where the character is able to release years of pain in a similar fashion.