This would actually be a dope title for a song

@ArtistFormallyKnownasMC

10 ай бұрын

Agreed

@GraceRoberson

10 ай бұрын

Yes

@jazminesancheezy6148

10 ай бұрын

YAAS TRISH MAKE A SONGGGG!!!! OWN IT BETCH

@dotdotdoyjvkb

10 ай бұрын

real asf

@Vgs183

10 ай бұрын

100% I hope she sees this

i have NEVER left a youtube comment in my life but i feel like i just want to remind you that clothes are meant to fit YOU, not the other way around. It is so common to have wide calves and these boots are definitely made for skinny legs for the oversized look. The problem here is Givenchy not being inclusive to anyone who isn't a size 4 or below. We love you Trish and we want you to be the happiest version of yourself!

@marcellepepe

10 ай бұрын

I don't the price of these but I would imagined that at this cost, they can kind of tailor/adapt them for you...

@13ladybugs

10 ай бұрын

Right?? I don’t know anything about designer but I feel as though they should sell them custom fit 🤷🏻‍♀️

@KittyO7878

10 ай бұрын

​@marcellepepe If they're straight off the shelf sadly not l.

@donavanalkatib

10 ай бұрын

@@marcellepepe$6,500😳

@Rumpelstiltskinsdaughter

10 ай бұрын

For bigger legs it’ usually will say wide calf and not wide. I have the same issue. I always have to buy wide calf because I have muscular calves.

I know that feeling all too well Trish. It is embarrassing and it hurts our self esteem! Don’t beat yourself up too hard. It’s so awesome how honest and self aware you are. Love you!

@sophies695

10 ай бұрын

I saw this girl wearing these really cool knee high boots. Worked up the courage to ask her where they’re from, found a pair to try on and this exact thing happened to me. This is so real of Trish to share!

@MadisenParks123

10 ай бұрын

@@sophies695 I agree!!! I had a similar issue happen yesterday when I was leaving to go to a ball game. Nothing fit and I was just so annoyed with myself!

@stephy5276

10 ай бұрын

lol its laughable she should realize not all brands are inclusive duh

@MadisenParks123

10 ай бұрын

@@stephy5276 I don’t think it’s laughable..do you see anyone laughing? Come on now..

Trish you make me feel good about myself every day, never forget that clothes are meant to fit YOU, you aren’t meant to fit the clothes 🩷 love u girlie

Queen for showing us this and NORMALIZING that people don’t fit in everything!!!

@MissSweetieShortie

10 ай бұрын

Trisha paytas is my favourite human ever... I been struggling with my weight and so frustrated that I been WATER fasting and feeling sick and emotional from not eating Thyroid and pcos is the worst combo to have for weight But Trisha looks so so stunning and she's a similar body type to me

@amandamiller7926

10 ай бұрын

But if so embarrassed then why put it out online for millions to see??? Whatever...

@teddymaclemore

10 ай бұрын

@@MissSweetieShortie . it is a 7i

@kaymo225

10 ай бұрын

@@heartslove8449you have to be at least 280 and 5'3"

@WhatShouldINameMyself1

10 ай бұрын

​@@heartslove8449It is your body's fault if you're obese

We need a plus size Trish X Givenchy collab 💕 manifesting ✨

@A.girl.from.the-NORTH

10 ай бұрын

No we actually don’t. $6000+ for those boots was silly. They aren’t even cute the purse isn’t either. Designer products I have owned a few. And although they have a good quality, so do a lot of more affordable brands. For $6000 how many peoples rent could have been paid like a grieving mother who hasn’t been able to work since her child died or somebody suffering from cancer who can’t pay their rent because of chemo therapy. The list goes on happiness is not found in paper bags. Happiness is found in helping others when you have the ability to.

@Hi.Im.Lovely

10 ай бұрын

@@A.girl.from.the-NORTHgirl what? 😂 you saying a whole lot of nothing .. she works for her money and she can spend it how she wants and I think a plus size collab would be amazing .. just because u don’t think it’s worth it doesn’t mean others don’t .. imma buy what I want especially if I’m working for my money and my bills are paid .. y’all act like people with money are responsible for those struggling, their not .

@A.girl.from.the-NORTH

10 ай бұрын

@@Hi.Im.Lovely I said, my opinion, and gave my reasons for why I have no desire to see that. Apparently you have an issues that you think this is a direct attack on you. You can thumbs up for that colab, I can thumbs down for it . I would actually like to see her not be ashamed to return things, and I would like to see her do more things for her community because I like her but I would also like to see how she helps people. Being in lockdown with a lot of designer stuff did not make the majority of us with money happy.

@Bxr12

9 ай бұрын

@@Hi.Im.Lovelydo we?

@Hi.Im.Lovely

9 ай бұрын

@@Bxr12 do we what?

Trish, I’ve known of you for a long time but I didn’t really watch many of your videos until Just Trish and I just wanted to say that you’ve helped me feel way more comfortable in my skin. I’m only a teenager, but I’ve always struggled with fully loving my body- you and your openness about your struggles helped me tremendously. I will forever be thankful for you because of that. You are perfect and so is your body. I know the feeling of being disappointed when something doesn’t fit, but you’re not supposed to fit into clothes, clothes are supposed to fit onto you. If that makes any sense haha. Also, my mom was always very open about how she felt being a plus size woman and you remind me of her in multiple ways. And I know that your daughter is going to appreciate that one day, you get to teach her how beautiful people are, no matter their size. 💗

I cried my eyes out at 130 pounds at 14 years old in a fitting room because I felt so fat from my ED and like no one would ever love me. I'm now 25 years old 210 pounds and I have a husband and 2 gorgeous daughters who think I'm beautiful. I still struggle terribly from my ED and the amount of guilt that I experience for just eating necessary nutrients is terrible but this illness is relentless. You are and always have been beautiful, gorgeous and perfect just how you are. Thank you for sharing Trisha it isn't easy to share this stuff it is so triggering but I'm so proud that you shared it anyways for us who struggle. Much love to Trisha, Moses and Malibu

@MissSweetieShortie

10 ай бұрын

@peps1943

10 ай бұрын

How tall are you?

@veil693

10 ай бұрын

I’ve been 112 pounds in high school.. in college I got up to 150 and actually went in for a consult for liposuction because I felt like I looked disgusting and felt like I couldn’t lose the weight on my own. I never went through with the lipo and then I’ve had health problems and many many medications and I got up to 240 at one point. Today I’m 133 and am still struggling with thinking I don’t look good enough 😢

@samanthawright7053

10 ай бұрын

When I was 13 I was 5’4 and weighed 130 pounds. I got super self conscious, went anorexic, and almost died. 11 years later I still struggle with ED and would rather kill myself than gain weight it’s hell but unfortunately it’s a part of me now

@katmdean

10 ай бұрын

not that it changes anything but 5'7"@@peps1943

I hope you know when you are vulnerable with us, we feel it and appreciate it and makes us feel seen.

Clothes are sewn and constructed to fit our bodies. Our bodies were not made to squeeze into clothing. Designers need to do better. I’m so sorry you had this experience Trish❤️

@bd1043

10 ай бұрын

Or people can stop supporting brands that obviously don’t care about them. Not all brands need to tailor to everyone

What’s crazy is that you are not even fat, you are thick in all the right places.

@LeeLeeCRN

8 ай бұрын

Fr! To me she's "normal" I have a similar body type as her. I'm not quite as thick n not as blessed in the booty (although I wish I was. Lol) but I'm super short..curvy with a big chest . Just kills me that she's considered "plus size" when really she's just an average size\shape!

Thank you for rising above the embarrassment and sharing this for those who need it. That was awesome of you, I’m sure so many people resonated.

This is your sign from the universe that paying $7000 for boots you’ll wear once is not a good idea

@pa5666

10 ай бұрын

I absolutely love Trisha but the thing that has me even more gagged is that she made a big deal about the money taking five days to be returned. That's very normal no matter where you shop. That's also an extreme sign that you shouldn't be splurging on things that expensive if it has you this stressed.

@phenomenalwoman6111

10 ай бұрын

​@pa5666 What's worse is the reason why she doesn't know it's fairly common. She doesn't return things, which is a huge problem. I hope moses helps her return stuff, like that $130 Erewon tote 😬.

@JNMKlover

10 ай бұрын

Especially when the economy is poor, there is a child who relies on structure and stability. And addiction to A, is putting the time and money into shopping addiction.

@natashab3412

10 ай бұрын

@@JNMKlover stop

@natashab3412

10 ай бұрын

@@pa5666 not at all the point . She said shes donating to charity

Trisha! I work in a retail luxury boutique and the pay by link option takes so long for a refund because it’s basically ordering it online and the way that an online order is processed is different than how an in-store purchase is processed. So the store itself does not have, or did not take the money, but an online retailer who is allocated in a warehouse, took the money. So the store facilitates the return on your behalf, but it is a separate entity. I know it sucks, but that’s what’s happening. So don’t worry about the refund, it will definitely get processed, but unfortunately, there are a couple of extra steps.

trisha your feelings are so valid it’s okay to be upset about this!! we love you ❤️

I completely understand this. I’m curvy (not plus size officially but UK 16, US 12) but very short and curvy: really thick calves and bum etc; and my partner loves me as I am, but explaining to him that something doesn’t fit anymore or something in “my size” that officially should fit me doesn’t, always stresses me out and makes me ultra insecure. I think if you’ve never been “too big/too fat” it’s hard to understand how much shame you can feel and disappointment, even though of course you shouldn’t feel like that. I think being a millennial the whole 00s skinny culture really damaged our perception of ourselves.

@MissSweetieShortie

10 ай бұрын

I agree also it's more emotional when it's shoes... My older long boots don't fit in my calves anymore I used to be 130 and I miss it but my thyroid and pcos is so bad making me balloon plus fibromyalgia

@pettyycrockerr

10 ай бұрын

@@MissSweetieShortieI feel this so much! I love tall boots. But I’ve gained weight back from where I just had another baby in March. While I’ve lost some of the baby weight off, my tall boots still don’t fit my calves & it’s sooo depressing! Especially since fall is coming.😭 I also feel you on the PCOS. Having another child really messed with my PCOS & Endo. The flair ups have been ROUGH!

@kassiuh6119

10 ай бұрын

1000%

I’m gagging as a wide calf baddie I’ve been invested in this boot journey and all I can’t is SOMEONE BETTER ALTER THIS FOR MOTHER TRISHA RIGHT NOW!!!!!!!!!!

@amberevol

10 ай бұрын

I'm honestly so surprised they couldn't even offer to like alter them for her, she's such a big name

@ryanessery8643

10 ай бұрын

@@amberevol seriously!! Even tho she is such a big name it’s just wild to think you can pay so much money to a brand and them not even have altering options available for their customers!!

@amberevol

10 ай бұрын

@@ryanessery8643 I can't believe they made her try them on again in the store also, like why not just believe her when she says they didn't fit. That feels rude to me.

She did the hohoho food-excitement laugh😂

@kivs3007

10 ай бұрын

YES!!!! And it’s my favorite reaction of hers! Makes me crack up every single time! 😄

I totally understand how triggering that is. You are loved and full of love no matter how your body looks or works. It’s ok to feel down sometimes, even when things seem great. 💖

Hi Trish, I can really appreciate where you’re coming from and am glad that you felt comfortable sharing your feelings with us. I want to let you know that I share a handful of the struggles you do. Ever since I was 14, I’ve been going to an eating disorder therapist. For the longest time I didn’t want to listen to do advice that was given to me. The older I got, however, I really started to apply what I had learned. I’ve really benefited from what I had learned, and I recommend going to an eating disorder therapist to anyone who has an ED. I really believe that if you went to an eating disorder therapist that it could help you with your struggles. Most therapists are not educated, thus aren’t able to properly treat individuals with EDs, similar to how most therapists aren’t equipped with the right tools to help people with BPD. If you’re wanting to loose weight on your own, I recommend not giving into the classic diet culture “tips” out there. Instead of focusing on calories, try balancing your macros (carbs, fats, proteins). This REALLY helps because a lot of times we don’t realize how many carbs are in something like a serving of chips. I know you may not see this comment, but if you do, I really hope you consider some of the things I’ve said. There’s nothing wrong with your body, but in order to help yourself and see lasting, positive results, you have to tend to other things first.

thank you for this. i'm always struggling to get calf height boots bc i'm fat, it's comforting to see i'm not the only one who struggles especially since i don't see you as very "fat". it's also so comforting to hear you talking about your body insecurities on Just Trish, the things you're saying always correlate with me and i love you for being so real💖💖💖

You should return the other items! If they bum you out, get rid of them, it’s easier to return then try and resell. You’ll find a better use for the money.

❤❤ I went hiking with my husband and I couldn’t keep up, he literally just hiked without me. It was so embarrassing and emotional to feel so fat and out of shape and you can do what you want to do. People might say it’s a simple change and dedication, but when you have an E.D. It’s not a black and white strategy. Sending you lots of love and hugs

trisha we love you so much please try to take it easy on yourself and if it helps just imagine if it happened to malibu and how you would want her to feel. let yourself feel your emotions and then try to let it go. you deserve to feel happy and good about yourself. don't allow the stupid fashion world designed to make everyone feel bad about themselves win this one.

Trisha: my heart breaks for you in this moment. I’m triggered to the moment, (many moments) where I spent many times a dressing room crying my eyes out because I could not fit in something because my chest was too big. Every one around me telling me “You’re lucky to have a big chest” Yeah, lucky. Lucky to have a mother who understands how her daughter can only see her chest as a problem because it draws the wrong kind of energy, it makes her self conscious and sad. She will sit outside the door of every dressing room, comforting her awkward, mixed race daughter who doesn’t understand her body or her family who calls her fat all the time, she just wants to be normal and look like everyone else. I truly understand how you felt. ❤

Trish, I so freaking needed this today. Was trying on dresses for my dang wedding shower and broke down in tears. I didn't feel so alone anymore after watching you. Thank you for being vulnerable and for showing me that I'm not alone. I hope you see this! I definitely could use a girl friend right now!

@silk132

8 ай бұрын

i hope your wedding goes amazing . you’ll look stunning!

The refund delay is because if you dispute the payment and they give you a refund and you win that dispute, then they’re out double the money.

@Serenity888Meow

10 ай бұрын

Wow knowledge ! I just learned

I’m so happy to see you back and living life happily! This is the Trish we all needed and wanted! 💕 Also, you ARE FUCKING GORGEOUS!!! Don’t let those boots get you down. It’s honestly Givenchys loss. Cause you would have rocked tf outta those boots!!!

omg trish this is SO relatable!! i'm 190 pounds currently and i can't ever get anything over my calves! and my legs are the skinniest part of my body! you aren't alone 💕 maybe it meant wide fit for the foot not the leg!

This broke my heart !!! It’s so relatable !!! You are not alone at all. I’ve always had big calfs and I just wish I could get a cute pair of knee high boots! I don’t even think it’s a weight thing because even when I was smaller my calf were still big!!! I had the same thing recently with a pair of joules Wellington boots, my dad got my mum and sister and I all matching wellies and I had to send mine back because they don’t fit. And it’s so hard not to reflect on yourself and blame yourself, and your body. They just need to make wider boots. I just think some of us have big beautiful calf’s and we deserve big beautiful boots to put them in!!!!!!! Sending you love and positivity Trish xxxxxx

thank you trish for being real with us, i relate to you so much. thank you for being your authentic self💓

I just wanna give her a hug 😢 you’re beautiful Trisha

Trish I’m literally so proud of you! I’ve always looked up to you and your journey with self image. You are absolutely stunning. I wish to look like you one day!! And your a mama!! Keep that chin up babe

I have watched Trish from the beginning but this video moaning about givenchy not paying the money back quickly. “ I could use that money to do something extra for my daughters birthday” oh come on, had the boots fitted you wouldn’t be moaning about the nearly 7k not being in the bank, you can’t complain saying you need it when you would have been happy to keep the boots.

I used to feel like this. I finally woke up one day and said “fuck this!” I dove head first into fitness nutrition and just overall my well-being in the spiritual and mental sense and have not looked back. Not saying this is you or anyone other than myself, but for me there was an emotional tie to food, a safety. I too had an eating disorder…I’d be anorexic in some seasons trying to fit into things or completely binge in other eras of depression. There was no in between because i never learned how to eat…what was healthy and what actually made me feel good. That’s all since changed. I lost 100lbs and I became a personal trainer, life coach, and nutrition coach. Trust me. You can do whatever the fuck it is you want to Trish. You are an incredible force on the planet. Stop shaming yourself because the boots didn’t fit. If you feel good about who are that’s all that matters. If you want to change something so you never have this issue again, just apply yourself to learning from someone who understands where you are at and where you want to go. set small achievable goals that will set you up towards your finish line. The hardest part is just starting. But once you get into a rhythm you will feel incredible (you already look incredible). Be nice to yourself and if you ever need help, I will gladly be a resource to you as you have been there for me when i needed someone. Let’s change those tears to happy ones. Sending you lots of 🫶

Girl I was just thinking how AMAZING you looked during the DONNY podcast!!! Like you were glowing and living your best life!!! I’m with you though, having an ED is really hard and stressful and people who haven’t experienced the constant “food noise” will never get it. I will say I started Mounjaro because we have been TTC for a year and I knew it would help if I lost some weight. I’ve lost almost 50 lbs now and have gotten off it and we are on our first cycle TTC again! If you want to try Ozempic or Mounjaro you should and focus on losing some weight for a few months. I bet you could lose 30-40 lbs in 6 months or less! But just know that YOU ARE GORGEOUS no matter how big or small you are. Just want you to feel good NMW because you are in such a great place right now. The effect of GLP1’s on appetite and food noise is astounding though. I remember thinking after my second injection “is this what normal people feel like?” No food noise. No constant hunger. No binge urges. It was awesome and the effects have lasted since getting off it about 3 months ago! I think it might have reset my hunger cues, etc. Sending you love and prayers for peace with your body!!!

Just some advice for the future Trisha, you need to go to the store and try things on before paying for it if you're buying designer. They are constantly making their return policy more difficult and you're lucky Givenchy even allowed you to return the shoes at all. Some people have recieved damaged items and haven't been able to return it without waiting for six months ❤

I’ve been 112 pounds in high school.. in college I got up to 150 and actually went in for a consult for liposuction because I felt like I looked disgusting and felt like I couldn’t lose the weight on my own. I never went through with the lipo and then I’ve had health problems and many many medications and I got up to 240 at one point. Today I’m 133 and am still struggling with thinking I don’t look good enough 😢

Trisha, you look so so good! You look slimmer. You were blessed with beautiful legs. I honestly think even if you did lose weight you would still have wide beautiful calves. You know who else has always complained about boots not fitting her wide calves? Britney Spears!!! So you are in good company. Don’t let these luxury brands make you feel anything less than beautiful! I think too often we forget that all we see are filters and angles. Yes there are skinny fit people but also, we need to realize that health comes first. Loving yourself, taking care of your body whatever that looks like and having your health is way more important. I’m proud of you for walking so much and making all this growth with your mental health. Look at all that you have been through recently! You are crushing life girl! Your body is decompressing from all the stress. Cut yourself a break and just keep doing what you are doing. Love you so much!

TRISHA please please please do not go onto Ozempic.. The horror stories are AWFUL and I do not want to watch you go through that and your family aswell.. If you are wanting to lose weight, I would recommend walking as much as possible! Start off small! If you have a smart watch, track those steps, try to beat records from the previous days and try to maintain an average amount of steps! Walking is one of the best exercises you can do and it will help you stay healthy with limited impact on your joints! I used to be a runner and now I can't run as much due to knee issues from my younger running days.. Walking is my go to and I try to get an average of 12k a day, my watch lets me know when I hit my goal and its a nice little celebration every time! With walking you can also spend quality time with your girl, push her in a stroller or one of those little pushable bikes! Remember that whatever you do decide to do, Moses and your family will always be there for you and all of your followers will be too! Take care!

i saw on tiktok first and it broke my heart !!!! as a fellow wide calf girly i’m devastated

You're Beautiful no matter what !! And you always help so many people out there, in more ways than you'll ever know!!! You may not be eating enough, often enough. Everyone's metabolism is different, but sometimes not eating enough to keep metabolism moving is key. I always struggled with weight, but after adding more meals and snacks in between, along w water has made a Huge difference. Thank you for being You !!

Trish this video absolutely killed me! I’m so sorry you went through this and it’s so not something you need to blame yourself for. Every body is different and just as beautiful as the next! You are such an inspiration for people who go through this kind of stuff as well and I’m so thankful that you are open with us with your experience. I feel very seen as a girl who is not skinny and always worries that things won’t fit. Thank you so much and you are so amazing.

Trish I am a “healthy” weight (size 6) and most boots don’t fit me! I just have genetically big calves 😅 so it’s not my bodys fault, it’s not your fault

I know you had a whole convo about the pasta consumption on the pod with Moses. try eating protein penne or chickpea pasta. it really helped me. it’s not like the zucchini noodles that you’ve stated you don’t like lol.

Prayers for you, Trisha. Hope you can get back to feeling better mentally and physically ❤

I swear I'm looking similar if I eat what I want versus starving myself it's so frustrating... I been CRYING OVER MY WEIGHT too it's so hard.but it's my stomach that I hate the most .. but you look amazing so watching you makes me feel better

I dont have friends and watching your videos have always made me felt like I have someone who gets me. keep it up trish

Thank you for sharing!! I know the feeling... you sharing helps people not feel so alone 🫶

It's not silly girl. I know the feeling, when I didn't fit my Thigh high boots it felt like my world was just crumbling. ED fucks so hard with our heads and getting sad and depressed over things not fitting is not silly. It hurts so much and your brain just feeds into it. It's horrible 🥺 stay strong 💖 your feelings are so so valid.

I relate so much to your feelings and being triggered by things like this, but it hurts my soul that you’re so hard on yourself. Literally you’ve always been body goals to me and at any size you’ve been, are sooo beautiful. I know it’s hard to accept ourselves but please know you’re perfect the way you are!

Wide fit is in the foot not the calf

My metabolism is fucked too. I had to be in a calorie deficit for 3 weeks before I could lose 1 pound. But then it finally started falling off. It’s not easy!!! And it sucks 😩

What if the boots did fit would you have said I can use this money for my daughter's party ? It was only after they did not fit you wanted to use the money for that Using the money for the party should have been your first priority if that came to mind, in my opinion respectfully. However it's your money and you will spend it the way you see fit.

Trish, you are absolutely gorgeous. Weight loss is the most difficult thing after 30. Especially after kids. I know it's possible, it's just not a quick thing. I've struggled for years even with diet and exercise. My son is 8 years old and daughter is 2years old and I am still 40 lbs over my pre pregnancy weight 9 years ago. I learned that an overall change in lifestyle dietary changes makes such a difference in your mood and health. You might not see weightloss in days, it takes time and patience. I got a Fitbit and it has helped with accountability and tracking my movement. I don't log my food or count calories, I took out sugary drinks and snacks out and reduced carbs by half. I've lost 10-15 lbs up and down between those amounts, but have not gained extra in the past year. Keeping the weight off that you've lost is hard at first, but making the lifestyle changes in food a daily habit helped me. I also struggled with infertility and that is why my son is 8 years old and my daughter is 2, so I know how hard it is. Stay strong. Don't beat yourself over it. So many of us are in the same boat and we are all rooting for you the way you are there for us all with your encouragement in so many ways. Sending positive energy and baby dust ❤

You're not less of a person because you didn't fit into an arbitrary amount of material ! You're not alone in feeling like that 😢

18:55 aww trish, im so sorry the boots were a bust. :( as a fellow fat person, thank you for being vulnerable with us and telling your story. we’ve all had this happen and it feels absolutely awful, but it doesn’t take away from who we are! love you trish, and you are always enough! 💖

clothes are meant to fit people not the other way around! you are so beautiful. its sooooo hard to lose weight but just know no matter your weight or size youre soooo freaking beautiful trish🤍

Your vulnerability and openness is a beautiful thing. ❤ I wouldn’t blame you if you don’t read these comments, but I wanted to tell you how proud I am of you for how you’ve learned to handle things. It’s perfectly okay to have moments where you get upset, your feelings are valid and many women can relate. I think you’re absolutely gorgeous just as you are, but if you want to lose some weight, I think hiring a professional fitness coach would be really good for you! You’d have someone fun and motivating to interact with and they can guide you in how to achieve the results you want. 😊 I think it would be very encouraging and good for you to have someone like that in your team!

As a plus size woman myself, who just turned 40 in April, I completely get it. I just started seeing a dietician to help lose weight, for health reasons, and it’s hard. I hate trying on clothes and there are a lot of stores I won’t even go into cuz I know I’m not gonna fit anything.

Designer brands profit and thrive off exclusivity, meaning they are made to make others feel unwelcome and not fitting in "their" community. They are purposely discriminating in sizing and price, and thats nothing to be scared or ashamed of. You wouldnt blame yourself if you couldnt afford the purse, so why feel bad about not fitting in it. You created a life in your daughter and your body has done a lot. It's beautiful and designer brands sizing is not a reflection of what is good or beautiful or right, they make money off being discriminating.

You aren’t alone Trisha. What I would do is go to a nutritionist and make sure that they set you up on a manageable plan and also do some testing to see what might be working against you as far as health conditions that make it harder to lose weight. I have insulin resistance which makes it very hard as well as PCOS so you may have something too that makes it harder for you. Work with other people similar to you to stay motivated and don’t give up or be so hard on yourself. You will get there ❤

@XingAoShen

10 ай бұрын

i have that, what helps with nutrition when you have insulin resistance? any tips?

One loving point to make. Isn't it interesting that when we are the biggest we are in our lives, we are also our happiness in our lives. You have a husband you have a daughter a beautiful home and family unit and happen to be bigger than you were in the past. Happiness is not measured by how big you are. Please truly and honestly know we love you the same regardless of your size. I think you know that deep down. I know this is a deeply ingrained trigger in your life. But I truly see you as one of the most stunning people I've ever seen on KZread. You are so beautiful and you will never be ugly because that is not possible for you. Big hugs from New York. ~Cody

Aw babe hugs. Just know you’ve got this. I commented before that you can eat more calories than you were allowing on restriction because of your bmr. I didn’t mention that it’s also because I would put my clients on a hiit + strength training regimen, which really revs your metabolism- not to mention improves mood so much! I’ve brought so many ppl through mega weight loss, some lost over 100 pounds, so we also focused on their mentality. We worked on re-training their minds to see themselves positively, which is a huge part of the puzzle!! Anyways, hope that helps a bit. Cheering you on 😘

your have nothing to be embarrassed of, it breaks my heart to see such a beautiful soul feel so broken, and ik it’s not just about the boots for you, the universe will bless you

Be kind to yourself babe❣️ You look fabulous... No matter what fits or what doesn't fit! You've been really doing your thaaaaaaaang thang lately and you should be damn proud of yourself! Just be kind to yourself and give yourself a lot more credit than you have been❣️ You're doing an absolute fantastic job! Don't be sad... We Love love love you girl🩵💙💜

Trishhh! I had a stressful return today too! And gotta wait 5 days for my money back! I ordered from sephora but stupidly had my old phone number saved on my account. It was supposed to arrive today! but the driver ig came and called my old number, and then just left with my package without leaving any package slip or anything. It was a specific online only item. that my mom wanted for her bday this weekend! I was crying so much when I realized! I canceled the order tho. And bussed to sephora to get a similar product. Thankfully i found a pretty good dupe. But i totally understand the stress of these things. I mean ik this isnt body image related . but i can only imagine how much worse having that stress going on, on top of this situation, would have been. And i feel your pain about waiting for the refund! I had to dig into my savings to buy the dupe product, cause i gotta wait for bank to process it😭 Sending u lovee! 💕💖 And refund vibess! 🤣

trish!! also you have to remember that calf sizes are mainly genetic! im a size 6/8 but most tall boots dont fit me because i got thickies so dont be so hard on yourself even though i know it's really hard, ive been there countless times too 💕

I feel you on the thick calfs and thighs. I used to lowkey dislike them on myself but I'm Rican and after I accepted that they are just THICK because of my genetics I just learned to accept them.

So sorry that happened. You are a Queen ❤❤

Having my daughter changed the way I talk to myself; it started with deciding I was never going to tell her that she was too small or too big for anything-it’s always the shirt or the pants or the chair or even the fridge that is the wrong size for her. And one time she corrected me when I said I was too big for a pair of pants, and without ever knowing it, she changed how I felt about sizing. It’s never my fault, if I can pick a different size, I will, but if not, the design is not for me. And that’s not on me.

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That being said, I understand being triggered and hurt and those are valid.

I’m a plus size girlie with wide calves too, Trish. The wide calf boots at Torrid won’t even fit my calves and I had to realize that it’s not because I’m plus size - it’s because I was a soccer player for 14 years and they’re MUSCULAR. Sure, there’s some fat on them but even if I lost all the weight in the world I will forever have super wide calves. I have never been able to wear boots, I feel you but babe - don’t beat yourself up over it. Your body is perfect. You birthed a whole human. We’ve known designers cater to smaller people. Manifest that this video will help designers realize they are missing an entire demographic of people and they could have even MORE business.

so real for posting this, totally within your right to feel upset by this. you’re so beautiful and such an amazing person

First world problems

I also have an Ed but the opposite. Being thin can be just as bad. Just bc I’m thin doesn’t mean I’m healthy… I’m very unhealthy actually and my body is also having problems just different ones. There’s always time to change and do what’s best for you and your body❤️ do it at your pace and push yourself but not too hard too fast

You should exchange for the green! it’s so cute but your other purses are so similar . Could you buy boots that fit you and get them blinged ??

We love you Trish!!!

I know exactly how you feel. Never forget how much you’re loved 🥰 You will get through this, it takes time but you will.

I know how that feels and I’m sorry you had to feel like that. You are NOT fat… just because your body isn’t the same as models bodies doesn’t mean your body is less than. I think your whole body is cute! I think your legs are just so adorable, please do not feel embarrassed. I know, easier said than done but you are perfectly you Trish. I also love the white sadboy2005 sweat outfit I just bought from your poshmark!!! Love you girlie!

Hey Trish! I totally feel you. Bứt recently, I learned that you can be better at least 1% a day. Don’t be in a hurry in losing weight. Just do something that makes you better everyday. Make a habit and you’ll achieve your goal. Even if you don’t want to be successful, if you have good habits, you have no choice that success will come to you. Have no expectations so you don’t feel disappointed, just do the habit that will make you 1% better everyday. So dont be too hard on yourself because a lot of people are rooting for you. ❤

Try them on before you buy!!!

you're so brave and honest Trisha. Thank you for posting this video, you are helping soooo many feel validated in similar struggles. I hope you never forget how much love you bring to this world

Be patient with yourself. It’s okay to be upset about this situation. I would feel the same way! You’re so beautiful.

I am not particularly curvy and I'm of average weight, I've sometimes been underweight, but my calves have a separate identity :]. So I relate. Body sizes are something curious and just can't be in "small, medium, large." I have this with my torso too. I have always had a tiny waist and a really looking torso loool so every top looks short and I can't fit into any boots unless tailored for my calves. I'm older now and disabled, but before that these weird physical measurements also meant that I could run cross country without training, that I could wear any waist hugging clothing and be the centre of attention. So there are always pros and cons. I'm sad you couldn't fit into those boots and hope you figure out a way to tailor them to fit maybe. But it's also just one of those things because we all have so many beautiful different sizes of our many parts lol.

Very relatable! So disappointing when something doesn’t fit, especially after all that build up and anticipation.

The next time you are advised to try on a return item, definitely decline. You do not have to do that! That was a sales tactic.

I just love ur energy. I love who you are as a person. You are very compassionate. Empathic .giving. real..you wear ur heart on ur sleeve. Honest..For being so famous you don't think ur better. You girl have been threw hell and back by society and yet ur energy is so positive. You are you and u embrace it as you shld. I cld go on and on. I'm thrilled that you found such a gentle soul in ur husband. Thanks for sharing urself. I'm nothing like you and I need to change my mindset n u help me. God Bless you and ur entire family.

Boots: Shark Lock Boots in Strass $6,500 Dress: 4G Toweling Mini Tank $1,690 Earrings: 4G Claw Paved Hoop Earrings $890 Bag: Mini Antigona Top-Handle Bag in Strass $3,000 Total: $12,080 😂 So much for saving. Hope you got paid more to be there and got your money back on the boots you couldn’t even wear.

you should get the green and return the pink!

Trisha I really appreciate you sharing with us. I work in the fashion industry and had to FIGHT my office to change our fit model from a size 2 to a size 4. (We were supposed to have a size 10 fit model but they pushed back to a size 4, which is sooo unrealistic imo.) It is the job of ALL designers to be inclusive. People are simply asking to PAY HARD-EARNED MONEY for something in their size. That is not too much to ask at ALL. Love your content, and wishing your family well 🤍🤍🤍

I LOVE YOU TRISHA!! You are such a role model fro being vulnerable and sharing this with us. You are perfect in every way and you are such a strong person. I love you!!!!

Don’t be sad Queen!!! I also have big calves and can’t wear cute boots so I understand!!

Don’t let this make you sad, make it your motivation to keep going! Change doesn’t happen overnight it happens with consistency. Look how great you look and how healthy you are than a few years ago! YOU LOOK FANTASTIC!

TRISHA I LOVE YOU SO MUCH 😭 stop I feel the same way as you I LOOK UP TO YOU DO MUCH YOU MADE ME CRY

same here i can never find a nice pair of boots my calves wide too, nice to see i'm not the only one who struggles

I love the Poshmark try on hauls!! You should keep doing it pls! So fun Poshmark even started doing lives so we can see it on video and ask questions etc 💖

Aww Trish I feel like there’s got to be someone out there who could adapt them for you, I’ve seen some amazing things done with designer goods on socials. Also give ur self a break sis, ur doing great things. ❤

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I was thinking the same thing … I was hoping there was some sort of way to tailor them / take them out / restructure them some how .. to fit . Alas 😢💔😓💕💓😳😳😳😣🥺🥺

I’m slim calf and I’ve not been able to find boots to fit my calves either except for one or two brands. The struggle is real for anyone that’s not what’s considered “normal”

You’re not alone!! Wide calf girlie, ED recovery ❤ Designers would sell soo much more if they would extend their sizes. Most only carry up to like, a size 12 which is insane!

You need to get help from a fitness trainer and dietician. The weight you’re at now you have to be consistent with your weight loss plan. Use your income and employ professional help to lose weight.