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@lavenderlylin

Жыл бұрын

I’ve never heard of this! Really excited to listen to this while doing work!

@kenterminateddq5311

Жыл бұрын

Sorry, Cruel World, I knew NOTHING about Vanderpump (sounds like an adult film performer) until I saw your video in my recommendations.

@nicolajane6264

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your commentary on this ridiculous scandal which to me is just another blind spot. Bravo shows use low grade actors, models and while it's reality a lot of it is still heavily scripted. I have never like Tom S as I've always found him arrogant & self righteous. However I don't believe this affair at all. It all to get people hooked in and distracted from our own realities and the crumbling world around us. ROMAN EMPIRE, did the exact same thing when it was on the verge of crumbling it used scandalous stories & entertainment to side track its people. Influences, youtubers anyone with big audiences will be paid or manipulated to cover the story to keep people more intrigued. I have friends in the business so I know how this works. Its sad really how people fall foe this. Even bots in the comment section to keep all the excitement going....the world is but a stage....

@bravomommy

Жыл бұрын

Yes i have been following it since it started and watch the show now they are on season 10 if you want you should do a deep dive on how they profit of these scandals on the show it’s been going on for too long!!!

@nicolajane6264

Жыл бұрын

@@bravomommy thank Mona, if you deep dive into who owns Bravo it's the same people from the usual suspects. The same ones that own all MSM. All of the cast are connected in one way or another also. Kyle richards is in laws with the Rothchilds family. They are part of the Vanguard Group & black rock who own Bravo. All of these shows, are made to have drama, fights, fall outs! Watch the first lot of reality shows and how they are all completely different to how they are now. The shows got more violtile and more fighting at every turn. No one in real life act like these people. It doesn't reflect reality at all. Majority of the houses are staged props not even theirs. It's very addictive when constant drama is on repeat. Especially when your own life is painful we want to escape. We are all literally just surviving. Yet this is not being recognised anywhere.

Have I ever watched an episode of Vanderpump Rules? Nope. Will I watch this anyways because I love to hear about tea and drama? Absolutely.

@LynIsALilADHD

Жыл бұрын

Hard same. 🍿

@cruelworldhappymind

Жыл бұрын

I was in the same situation like two weeks ago 😂 now I’m wildly entertained by it all lol!

@martynawrobel9222

Жыл бұрын

Same 😂

@mr.r_r7199

Жыл бұрын

x2

@itsmevivi_

Жыл бұрын

Same...same, same 😅

the affair is awful, but the way she found out make it’s 10x worse. i can’t imagine going on my partner’s phone just to find a screen recording of my best friend “doing things” to herself. it doesn’t get any worse than that.

@pamelameadows9717

Жыл бұрын

Oh my gosh how horrible she must have felt. It's bad enough finding out about it but then to find it that way also. I think I would have really thrown up. What doesn't make sense is when Raquel's excuse was she didn't know she was being recorded. And you would stay with a man secretly!!!! So accusations of not knowing about it, and that he might have done that to show other men and you're going to stay with him?! I think that's just another lie. I actually believe she recorded herself and sent it to his phone. Anyone who does things like that usually want to get caught or they want the man they're cheating with to break up their wife or partner. So that the side mistress / side chick can be with the person they're cheating with so they'll break up.

@crab2195

Жыл бұрын

@@pamelameadows9717 it sounds like that’s what he wanted! i cringed when he said “she turned a blind eye” as if it was HER fault for not noticing. my ex tried to do the same thing… it’s awful. i genuinely hope she receives therapy and the proper help for this because it can cause PTSD😭🥺 the fact that she was betrayed by both a close friend and her spouse will likely cause long-term damage to her trust and faith in her judgment.

@readdeeply9278

Жыл бұрын

Might have been the way Tom felt when he turned around to see Ariana and Lala doing it in the back seat of his car ?

@pamelameadows9717

Жыл бұрын

@@crab2195 and he also mentioned trusting her. I remember a month or so when she has basically let her partner do what he wanted to do to make him happy. As far as him say turning a blind eye I said no she trusted you. And this is how you repaid her trust. And because of you and Rachel this is going to affect her for the rest of her life and a hurtful way. This isn't the first time I've heard a man criticize their wife or partner for trusting them. And I know they both lied and a lot of the women and men have lied it's usually the man. My ex-fiance wants told me you want to know how men are let me tell you. A woman walks in on her husband in bed with another woman she confronts him and says what is that woman doing in our bed and the man says to her what woman there's no woman here. He said what you try to do first is lie lie lie and then keep lying. I've got to say that's been a lifelong experience that I have seen. Especially with one guy I was with he was sit there lying to me and I can show him what he's lying about but he would just keep on lying knowing that I knew he was lying. Pretty sickening and amazing.

@jennifermartin7461

Жыл бұрын

Correct me if I'm wrong🤔. But didnt Ariana and Tom start their relationship while Tom was with his ex Kristen? And didn't Ariana cheat on Tom with Lala in the back seat of a limo🤨? Not that anyone deserves to be cheated on but I don't see many innocent figures in this story 🤷🏾‍♀️ (haven't watched her video yet, so hopefully she touches on this)

I hate when people say, ‘It was a convenience relationship. We were living separate lives. I was attracted to this other person….’ As though that’s an impossible situation with no solution. There’s a simple solution. end your current relationship 🤷‍♀️ Its weaponized incompetence

@LKTori

Жыл бұрын

seriously 😂😂😂 people act like we’re forced into marriages like its our families reputation is on the line, simply end your relationship and move on

@Lodeenie

Жыл бұрын

"Weaponized incompetence" is my new favorite phrase. Thank you!!!!

@hannahp1108

Жыл бұрын

These people weren't even married and had no children! What convenience is there to stay together???

@malayzharoseboro6294

Жыл бұрын

but that’s exactly what their relationship was. if you watch the show you will clearly see that Ariana did not take Tom seriously whatsoever and she was only with him bc he was attractive & they’ve been together for so long

@hannahp1108

Жыл бұрын

@@malayzharoseboro6294 No, if you watch the show, it shows Ariana was deeply in love with who he was as a person. They shared a lot of interests, she was unconditionally supportive of whatever he was doing (like his vanity band)...and she got totally screwed over financially when Tom took out that home equity loan because the way he explained it to her, that the money would come from his half of the equity so she wouldn't be financially affected, is BS. When you co-own a house there's no way to designate the equity 50/50 while still owning the place. So she believed in whatever lies he told her about that for the sake of Schwartz & Sandy's. She had faith in him and trusted him

This just shows once a cheater always a cheater. He cheated on his ex that he was with for 6 years for her, and then he cheated on her for someone else 10 years later.

@Drea62621

Жыл бұрын

@@zilazilazila Yup! And she cheated with lala in the back of Tom’s car while he was driving. That’s ok though? Double standards!

@girlypop1989

11 ай бұрын

@@Drea62621it wasn’t a full blown affair and tom was okay with it.. tom outed Ariana

@hitona684

10 ай бұрын

I’m confused did he have an affair with arianna while in a relationship with his first girlfriend?

@Drea62621

10 ай бұрын

@@hitona684 Yes! They kissed at a casino when he was with Kristen and Kristen cheated with Jax.

@girlypop1989

10 ай бұрын

@@hitona684 no. They probably had sex at one point but there was no affair and the general consensus is that they made out before Ariana knew about Kristen.

It takes some real audacity to stand there smiling while talking about how your sexual relationship with your friends husband started 🙄

@susansaphire5983

Жыл бұрын

And then say “I don’t know what the future holds” 🤮

@shortycakes2007

Жыл бұрын

He wasn't Ariana's husband.

@cynthiadalin4056

Жыл бұрын

The weren’t married but they lived together for over 9years. And bought house together both Tom and Rachel are degaussing people

@jrubenstein

Жыл бұрын

Not husband technically but point still valid

@MarnieGolde7

Жыл бұрын

It takes some real low self-esteem too. Like embarrassingly low. Like never-gonna-have-a-successful-relationship-with-a-man levels of low self-esteem. Bless her lil river rat heart.

Sheena’s lawyer is so petty for using “Rachel” instead of “Raquel” and I absolutely love it. 🤣

@ritanichole

8 ай бұрын

"Legal" obligation 😅😅

@marykuettner752

8 ай бұрын

Lawyers do use legal names and Rachel never changed hers to Raquel.

The thing that kills me about the Scandoval was that arianna who notoriously didnt want kids had harvested her eggs for Sandoval and they were in the process of fertilizing them to save for when they decided to have kids. He was planning on these kids with her, while sleeping with Raquel. That part just bothers me so much.

@StaciSchuck

3 ай бұрын

You cannot change his type of mental defect...

@SJTJ

Ай бұрын

The good news! She is seeing a new guy and she realized that she might actually want kids. She realized it was because she was with a partner that wouldn’t have made her feel supported. now that she has a new, healthy relationship, she says should can see herself having kids one day.

I love that bit where the one girl (I CANNOT keep them straight because I am nowhere near aware of these people) very smartly said that a girl can’t actually “steal” a boyfriend like he’s an Xbox or a hotwired car. Like yeah, the girl sucks for willingly going for a taken, monogamous man, but it takes both people willingly choose to value their relationship over the ones they’d be breaking to cheat. Beautifully mature and truthful.

@reinasherman8009

Жыл бұрын

Was that Lala? I can't even remember and don't fault you for not even knowing which one, they have all started to look more and more alike over time. I haven't watched in like 2 or 3 seasons but I always found Lala to be great with a turn of phrase.

@MementoMiri

Жыл бұрын

18:42 it was Christen 😉

@Orion_TheyThem

Жыл бұрын

​@@MementoMiri Kristen*

@ozla3489

Жыл бұрын

The fact that Kristen Doute stuck out as the mature and truthful one is HILARIOUS to me. I love Doute so much but she is one of the most unhinged 😭

@everydayistheworstday1237

Жыл бұрын

But it is always the women's fault because she knew men think from their dick. If you did not initiate or consent, the guy would just stay in one place with his woman. I know both are to be blamed but it is women who should keep their legs close first, because they already know "men want it and will give in easily".

I have never watched VPR, but when i tell you how INVESTED i am in this drama, im almost ashamed🤣

@cruelworldhappymind

Жыл бұрын

Same lol! Then when researching for this video I burned through like 5 seasons 😅😅

@Faye-vr6jc

Жыл бұрын

Ahahahaha oh my god guuuuurl you are dedicated to the content on another level!👏👏😆

@LoPop18

Жыл бұрын

Same! I love Lisa from RHOBH, but this is tooo much 😂 I’m already annoyed with this Lala character

@reginehunter

Жыл бұрын

Omg same! 😂 I don’t know who these people are but this is insanely juicy and gross

@X._.COCO._.X

Жыл бұрын

Finale is tonight!

I’ve never watched this show and I’ve been just *waiting* for a video from someone I trust to explain the whole situation for me. Thank you so much for covering it

@wickedashley

Жыл бұрын

Lo Lyse is doing breakdowns about the episodes of the situation too!

@gabrielagaliberflaquer1594

Жыл бұрын

she never dissapoints, I have been waiting

@gabrielagaliberflaquer1594

Жыл бұрын

@Renee Lynch i guess you got confused on the comment, we were waiting to know what went down, are u ok?

@valerie7422

Жыл бұрын

​@Renee Lynch ewww, I just threw up in my mouth.

@lisa-bm9vz

Жыл бұрын

@Renee Lynch sounds like u wanna be with him😭

holy crap my two worlds colliding this whole scandal is reality tv gold

@cruelworldhappymind

Жыл бұрын

Aw yay hope you enjoy the video! After finding out about this scandal I burned through like 5 seasons of vanderpump rules 😂😂

@readdeeply9278

Жыл бұрын

Ain't it great? lol I feel like it's the internet's best kept secret

Tom Sandoval is notorious for performative grand gestures for his friends (mostly when cameras are on) to enhance his, now shattered, reputation as the 'good guy' .

Note: Raquel left the Girls Trip when they said they didn't trust her around their men, & slept w/ Sandavol immediately! 🤬 Arianna left the trip earlu because her dog died, & she was the person that trusted Raquel around her man.

@thanksmilla-

Жыл бұрын

Oh my god I didn’t even make the connection of that’s when the boys night happened Jesus diabolical

@ashleyking1146

Жыл бұрын

Coming here after the 3rd part reunion and Rachel confirmed they’ve actually been sleeping together since Mexico, absolutely diabolical

@gigi40

Жыл бұрын

They were sleeping together long before that trip even happened! They were sleeping together since before filming started. That’s how diabolical and deceitful she is.

@surfagirl

2 ай бұрын

My roman empire is the rage texts in season eight. There's a video that they put in where Raquel is dancing and then she leans on top of Tom and then afterwards her phone supposedly dies when she goes home.And that's when james sends her all the text messages. There was even a deleted scene where tom was defending himself in raquel saying that they would never hurt james. I think the affair or at least some inappropriate flirting started way back then and I think the 2 of them were under the impression.That if raquel broke up with james tom would break up with ariana and they would be together. That is why Tom didn't seem shocked at the season Nine reunion he seemed almost on edge as if he thought some revelation was going to come out. Then I think Raquel pulled the trigger and started hooking up with different guys to try to make him jealous/Turn him on since he has admitted he like seeing his women with other men. That is why you can see on her face during the watch.What happens live episode with Schena Where she said that Tom was hot.She seems like a woman who is overrate and ready for the secret to be out. There is also the scene at The beach when she says so we're just not gonna talk about it. I think at that point she was really hoping he would just come clean and when he didn't, she started getting more brazen in an effort to get caught. I think tom's disgusting ass wanted to keep stringing both women along so he could have the public perception of the perfect relationship with ariana but still look up with rachel on the low. I think production suspected it for a long time.That's why they had so many clips available for the extra scenes. I just wish they would finally come clean about how long this relationship had truly been going on.Because it's stupid to keep lying at this point

@ChimeraTruely

2 ай бұрын

@@surfagirl I 100% agree with you on it going on longer than they admitted. When this story came out they kept having to admit it started on an earlier date over & over. I believe they settled on GUYS NIGHT because that was the last place that could be proven, because their friend videoed them talking while she & another friend narrated something making fun of what they could possibly be talking about. She had planned to post it on social for a joke. She realized some would get the joke, but others could use it to start a fire that Ariana didn't need to deal with while she was grieving Charlotte. There were rumors of Rachel kissing Tom at 2022 Coachella, & people thought it was Schwartz, but I think it was Sandoval

I’ve never watched a single episode of Vanderpump but I will be watching this deep dive ….

@cruelworldhappymind

Жыл бұрын

Aw I’m so glad you trust me in covering it, I was in the same boat until I heard about the scandal!! Hope you enjoy the video 💜

One of the things, among.. the rest, that makes me extra upset is that Tom absolutely took advantage of Ariana's depression and anxiety/low self esteem. He knew how to profit off of it for the longest time, but once she started to become more independent, he couldn't do that anymore. As Jax so surprisingly put it: "Ariana is a strong independent woman that Tom can't control anymore, but Raquel he can." Tom is a narcissist, no matter what he claims to be or not be, and is best friends with gaslighting and deceit.

I don’t understand how they could do this to their wife and best friend. How can they be so cruel and selfish.

@shortycakes2007

Жыл бұрын

They aren't married.

@jobowman6051

Жыл бұрын

shotycakes2007 is correct, they are in a de facto relationship. But your sentiment still stands. Repugnant behaviour

@kaffleen4626

Жыл бұрын

❤

@007nadineL

Жыл бұрын

Tom never formally made a marriage commitment to her so in guy's mind he's still single. Google: exit affair

@jennmcculloch143

Жыл бұрын

It's he/him, he is "a cyst male"

My husband was never a fan, then on March 3rd the Scandoval broke. He saw my reaction and saw that the whole internet was talking about it and wanted to know more. Now we watch every week. He has opinions about sandy. My husband is hooked. He lives Ariana, Lala, Katie, and Lisa. We cannot wait until the reunion.

@kryztynagil3858

Жыл бұрын

That's so cool! Lol and so fun for you to be able to enjoy the drama with a buddy now. Also cool because it seems like he likes all the same people I do haha

@LeeLee1985Official

Жыл бұрын

That's how we were about the Bad Girls Club! My man never really paid attention to the show. We both thought the ladies were cute but he never really watched. UNTIL: Season 7!!! We fell in love with Stashia!! She was the baddest bitch. We still re watch that season. ❤

@Mimatanikumi

Жыл бұрын

Hahah love it !!😂😎❤️💪🏼

@6Haunted-Days

Жыл бұрын

Sooooo you all are basically WHY such a toxic sociopathic people get to make millions and keep this 💩 show going? And I’m sure you also know it’s all scripted these are aren’t REALLY the people…..which makes you going on as you are EVEN WORSE…. So yea….keep blabbering about your ignorance……🙄🤣😂🤧

@kristinkahler1028

Жыл бұрын

My husband got into vpr while I was watching it well before scandoval. He was the one that told me when the news broke!

To be fair, the other cast members went on podcasts because Ariana signed off on it. She wants them to trash him and go in on him on behalf of her.

@TeeVaPool

4 ай бұрын

As she should 😂

Also, Raquel doesn’t deserve death threats. That’s never ok. At the same time though, I don’t really feel that bad for her because sometimes actions have really serious consequences…she can’t just blame her actions on “mental health” ridiculous

@MashaRistova

2 ай бұрын

Any time anyone gets criticism these days, they automatically say “I’m getting death threats!!” Because they think it will absolve them of their wrongdoings

It's disgusting how he didn't think to notify Ariana that their relationship was effectively over, robbing her of the chance to move on with someone new while he had a new relationship already secured. It's absolutely vile how he knowingly let her continue to waste so much time on what he now keeps describing in the media as a relationship that was dying/didn't exist anymore. I almost feel bad for Raquel that she's about to waste years with this man before he inevitably does the same to her. She really believes that he loves her. I'm sure he's convinced her that Ari emotionally manipulated him into staying in the relationship. But she willingly participated in the act of deeply hurting another person, so my sympathy is very limited for this 28 year old adult ass woman.

@cocothedino_2901

Жыл бұрын

many cheaters use the excuse of a “dying” relationship even when it isnt dying. like bro lied to raquel about how he was going to hit Ariana with divorce papers, and it never happened because he never actually intended to leave her. He just wanted the life of having two women to choose from, the stable loving wife and the taboo secret mistress. He’s trying to rationalize his situation to the public in a way that makes his decision sound just or reasonable but i highly doubt its even a little bit true. the only real just actions to come from this situation would be if raquel gets cheated on too, which is an inevitability really. if you only date cheaters then youre bound to end up on the other end of it sometime, even if it ends up not being with tom she’ll get a taste of her own medicine eventually

@brandonkennedy4160

8 ай бұрын

I don’t know. It seems like they both deserve each other. Both cheaters and both lied about it. I genuinely suspect they would both probably cheat on each other.

Cheating is hard, but you are definitely allowed to be mad at the other woman if she was once one of your 'friends'.

@bunnylacy2097

24 күн бұрын

If she knew about your relationship, you can be mad at her, just don’t forget about the guy who really was supposed to be loyal to you. And of course, you can be mad if she was your friend like you said. In that case, they both should’ve been loyal.

THANK YOU! I stopped watching Vanderpump before the Jax/Brittany wedding so I'm a little out of the loop, the queen comes through yet again!!!

@cruelworldhappymind

Жыл бұрын

Aw yay I’m so glad!! I hope you enjoy the watch love 💜

@Danielle-le2ly

Жыл бұрын

That’s around where I stopped too haha! Don’t know too much about the new people on the show, just remember the OG’s lol.

@paula92111

Жыл бұрын

Same!!

@CozieGhosty

Жыл бұрын

Girl I’m in the same boat!

@shanna2.2.2

Жыл бұрын

Same! I used to be a religious bravo tv watcher but stopped like 5ish years ago… I’ve thought a couple times about trying to catch up but… nahhhh

have I ever heard of this show? no. will I actually watch a documentary about it? absolutely yes.

"You can always borrow more money"...... thats, uhh... some solid fiscal advice!

@inkchip7351

Жыл бұрын

Right what could go wrong, also get a student loan and a mortgage at the same time for max efficiency! You can always borrow more \(`^')/

@mellow_mallow

7 ай бұрын

​@@inkchip7351 the kaomoji ಥ⁠‿⁠ಥ

It hits different for those of us who have been fans for 10 years and looked at Ariana and Tom as couples goals… there’s just no comparison between binging all the seasons in a short period of time and having been invested in these peoples lives for so many years and knowing all of the lure behind Scandoval all the way back to Kristin and Tom… I am so happy for Ariana though, she got rid of a toxic D bag boyfriend and a backstabbing Bambi eyed bitch of a “friend” and is getting so much positive attention and opportunities coming her way! ❤

@masterofwit339

Жыл бұрын

I stopped watching around the start of COVID but was intensely invested for years. This is so well said

@kelseywillow8110

Жыл бұрын

Were they couple goals? They have looked like a car crash waiting to happen for years. So many red flags

@stephaniebarreca

Жыл бұрын

Been here since season 1. What a wild journey it's been lmao

@annamarie8292

Жыл бұрын

Yess! Same for me! Season 1 from the beginning. I just rewatched all the seasons lol

@annamarie8292

Жыл бұрын

One thing I will say, I have always seen right through scumdoval.

The first time Sandoval & Raquel “kissed” wasn’t just a kiss - a little later in the Howie interview Sandy admits that the same night after they kissed they banged in the backyard by the firepit.

Reality TV shouldn't exist but unfortunately it does.

@cruelworldhappymind

Жыл бұрын

It is such an interesting phenomenon that is meant to build parasocial relationships but also I’ve noticed gen z is often learning about life from reality shows too… which I guess can be good or bad depending on what lessons you’re learning 😅

@geeniusbar

Жыл бұрын

reality tv is shit but dang is it good shit tv

@alkiebythesea

Жыл бұрын

​@@cruelworldhappymind I totally agree 100%. If we had Reality TV when I was young, I know I would have made a better & wiser choice with my ex husband 😅. The youngsters today have all the Tools etc to learn from other's mistakes.

@zitronentee

Жыл бұрын

I'm surprisingly ok if I know the 'bad reality shows' are fake and scripted. But if it's 50% real, especially when the people in the show are toxic, it's really disgusting for me. I still love Bondi Rescue and Bondi Vet though. Not sure if the shows are reality show or documentary.

@alkiebythesea

Жыл бұрын

@@zitronentee Awwwwe Bondi Vet & Bondi Rescue my ultimate Favorite ♥. Those VETS are SO dedicated 😍.

A part of me wants Madison's next video to be "How Illuminaughtii ruined her career". Just so this drama finally goes full circle lol

@Beepbopboop19

Жыл бұрын

Wait what? Are you talking about Madison from that Southern Charm show? Haven't watched that in years.

@kaijuteeth

Жыл бұрын

@@Beepbopboop19 no, madison is the name of cruel world happy mind

@liesbeneathoureyes

Жыл бұрын

Me too, I somehow feel like Madison won’t be covering this story though. She’s already experienced first-hand how threatening Blair can be, and probably doesn’t want to make herself a target again (especially with what we now know regarding the lengths Blair will go to to destroy someone who she believes has wronged her)

@shahinezbzd5412

Жыл бұрын

@@liesbeneathoureyes wait there was something between Madison and Blair? I used to watch Illuminaughty in 2020 when COVID was happening, then I don't remember who talked about her shenanigans ( I believe something about not showing proof of her findings or ripping off some of her content from somewhere else) and it made me unsubscribe at the time...

@hannahp1108

Жыл бұрын

@@shahinezbzd5412 I only found about it recently but some of Blair's content is eerily familiar to this channel. In particular Blair's channel did a video about Tyra Banks's MLM RIGHT after Madison did hers with very similar info

Remember when Jax's behavior was our biggest issue? I literally screamed when I saw this notification because my mom has been a huge VPR fan since it started and I've ended up getting swept up into it so I'm part of this world now lol

Thank you for explaining this whole situation! I don’t know who these people are and I am definitely so tired of seeing this guy’s p*rn-stache face everywhere 😫

@readdeeply9278

Жыл бұрын

What's more, the "affair" between porn face and Rachel was written into the script all the way back when James Kennedy proposed. They made sure Tom had invested both financially and emotionally in the proposal so that everyone could be all the more outraged later on.

@shadowclips3456

Жыл бұрын

@@readdeeply9278 oh my god 🤦🏻‍♀️ the audacity of it all!!

@stj971

8 ай бұрын

👍👍👍

I am SO glad you covered this! big time, die hard VPR fan and I so appreciate your commentary on this issue as it unfolds!

@cruelworldhappymind

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much love! Hope you enjoy the video and I hope I’m able to do this topic Justice! I was a little intimidated going into it since there are so many aspects to this story!

@missqiqilamour

Жыл бұрын

​@Cruel World Happy Mind as a long term VPR watcher - you did a great job! ❤🇦🇺

@frances173

Жыл бұрын

@@cruelworldhappymind it was SO GOOD! you explained everything so well and effectively - loved it!

Why does it feel like men who are in these 'power couples' end up becoming brazen, even though their brand is about being a devoted husband? Cheating does happen and while it's not right, it always comes off worse when your brand involves your perfect marriage.

@trailertrish

Жыл бұрын

they werent married tho.

@pisceanbeauty2503

Жыл бұрын

@@trailertrish No, but they were definitely viewed as the “sensible”, stable couple on the show.

@Smithanonymous

Жыл бұрын

It’s because they think people have fallen for it enough that no one would dare make accusations against them or even just bat an eye

It’s good that the restaurant is doing well because Ariana owns the house with Tom and he borrowed against the house. Boycotting the restaurant to support Arianna was about the dumbest thing anyone thought up.

I love Ariana ❤ she really didn’t deserve this. But my mom really has taught me “how you get them is how you lose them” so if he cheats with you, he’s definitely gonna cheat on you. But I love this show. I can’t believe how many people haven’t heard of it tbh. Not in the comments but even when my sister and I quote it, no one knows what we’re talking about and have never heard of it.

@bunnylacy2097

24 күн бұрын

I’ve heard this so many times. Maybe it’s something that’s not said as much now days? I heard it mostly from my mom when I was in my teens. I’m 26 now.

I definitely feel like reality tv plus social media has made people forget they're real people and not characters of a tv show. Dramatised or not, it just feels like bombarding a restaurant with bad reviews, podcasts, merch etc seems so interactive in a really cartoony way.

" Stay in therapy" Sounds like a plan...

@cruelworldhappymind

Жыл бұрын

RIGHT?!? Tbh the advice we all need 😂

I screamed at the Randall Emmett - Big Neck Ed comparison. That was my first thought when I saw 'Rand' for the first time too

Me and my husband noticed Raquel had black eyes through the season without makeup. I personally have a friend who got black eyes on and off because she had double rhinoplasty. If you look close enough you will see she has black eyes on a number of occasions in season ten and she did say she was getting a revision rhinoplasty last season. Nose jobs really take years to heal from and even after healing you will bruise worse then someone who doesn’t have the blood supply compromised in that area due to surgery.

I 100% disagree with the idea that the cast members are “using the scandal just to profit off of it and get attention for their own personal gain…” Literally EVERY ONE has been talking about it and giving their opinions (some KZreadrs are selling their own scandoval merch and profiting off the drama), so why is it not acceptable when the people who are closest to the situation get on social media to give their thoughts and opinions (with Ariana’s knowledge that they are doing so and her full support by the way) it is suddenly nothing more than a cash grab, and they must not care about their friend at all, and are just greedy and selfish? They are the people that the public wants to hear from the most because they are the ones who have been around people involved… They are also just as shocked by the whole thing as everyone else was so they deserve to vent and share their experiences, and their opinions, just like everybody else is doing. If they profit off of it, good for them! Screw Tom and Rachel, they don’t deserve sympathy so I say let the rest of the cast get their coin! Especially Ariana! Which she is and I am so happy that she’s getting some amazing opportunities coming her way because she’s very talented! She’s great at stand up comedy and I am betting she will do great acting in the movie she just finished filming! DWTS is absolutely epic and I love it for her!! Anyway rant over lol ❤

@christaabate4192

Жыл бұрын

100% agree with you! I have been watching since season 1...this shit is wild.

@MariniteLG

Жыл бұрын

Yes they all said Ariana said it was OK to talk about it. They asked her first.

@victoriabrooke26

Жыл бұрын

@@MariniteLG yeah… lol they did. Everyone except for Jax from the cast who has talked publicly about scandoval has explicitly said they asked Ariana if she would rather them stay silent or not and she gave them the green light… if it was my friend going through this crap on a national scale I would also make sure that she wouldn’t be hurt further by me talking publicly before I just went and did it 😂because that’s how friendships work lol

LOL'd at Big Ed and Randall being the same person.

MY WORLDS COLLIDING?!? Never in a million years did I think we’d get a deep dive on someone from VR?!? THE BEST!💜💜 SO EXCITED✨

@cruelworldhappymind

Жыл бұрын

Aw yay!!! I hope you enjoy the video love 💜💜

Another example of how you get em is how you'll lose them. If he cheated on Kristin with Ari, not sure why Ari expected him to stay faithful to her. Tom is a POS though.

Off topic but, I’ve seen how you handled the Illuminati tiff and you are an absolute queen 🙏🏻 Thank you for sticking around while her bullying finally comes to light

Does anyone this invested not realise, like you said, that the drama is manufactured, often scripted, and often are produced like literal sitcoms...?

@Yukinoomoni

Жыл бұрын

​​@Allting Even the social media stuff is manufactured. The cast members probably don't even care, but their agents and producers sure do. They're actors, no more, no less. Everything is made up, to almost every detail. It's wild.

@sassagrass7095

Жыл бұрын

It's theorized that ariana and tom stayed together so long for their brand and image. I'm indifferent either way, but I also think this was manufactured to liven the show up, everyone knows it was dying off. They knew a shit ton of people would watch, which means more money for everyone.

@sassagrass7095

Жыл бұрын

Also, I think all of the people on the show are sociopaths. I'm no doctor, but the vibes I get from everyone on VPR is just that- Malignant, narcissistic sociopaths.

I don't watch or know anything about Vanderpump Rules and haven't heard of any scandals, but I watched and appreciated this entire deep dive!❤ It was clear and concise and I am totally up to speed now! Thanks, Madison! P.s. I'm signing up for vitamins thru ur link too! 💋 xox

I just haven’t seen any trace of emotion (let alone guilt) on his face even now. It makes me feel uneasy. Hes always come off as a megalomaniac but this is a whole other level. This isn’t just one mistake; it’s thousands of decisions made in complete disregard of another’s well being. It’s sick

Thanks for all your hard work, bringing us up to date on so many different subjects ❤

@cruelworldhappymind

Жыл бұрын

Aw thank you love!! 💜💜 hope you enjoy the video!!

I don't even watch the show, but I feel heartbroken for her! Her husband... And best friend... 😢💔

@trailertrish

Жыл бұрын

they werent married. but they were together for like a decade. HOWEVER, he cheated on his ex Kristen w Ariana. so its karma comin round. 🤷🏼‍♀️

yes, the cast is aging but no that does not stop the drama. take for instance every real housewives franchise: full of drama and they're all in their 50s+ 😂

I feel like I comment this under every video on this topic, but: IF THEY CHEAT W I T H YOU, THEY'LL CHEAT O N YOU. A cheater is a cheater is a cheater.

The 'Coachella kiss' blind item doesn't mention 'Tom' it actually said 'Schwartz'. Apparently it was actually a guy in their group called Joey, who looks like a taller, more muscular version of Schwartz.

i will say both kristen and lala have said that ariana gave them the “go ahead” to publicly light tom and raquel on fire. also the frequent podcasting just doubles as promo for the show … sustaining interest/intrigue as the affair is exposed. on some level bravo is encouraging them to continue the convo.

This show/castmembers are so toxic. California is one of the largest states in the US & these ppl can't date outside of this show. Not watching this season but definitely watching my girl, Madison!

My take is that Ariana is totally fine with everyone commenting, essentially speaking for her. She’s appeared with them in IG posts etc. I also think there’s validity to the rest of the cast also feeling betrayed- Scheana in particular totally went to bat for both Raquel & Tom. The relationship with Tom & Ariana wasn’t separate from the rest of the group.

@WCmexico98

Жыл бұрын

Ariana told them that they could talk about it.

I binged the whole series due to the scandal and it’s so good 😂 thanks for this video ❤

@trailertrish

Жыл бұрын

me too 😂 hadnt watched it in a few years but when the tea dropped on insta i caught up and now i get annoyed that i have to wait in real time for new episodes 😂😂😂

literally choked on my water when you said "new york shitty" 😂😂😭 yet another great video from you ❤

I get feeling awful and empathy for the person it happens to but not viewers who act or feel soooo hurt. It’s a little crazy

When you sell yourself as an Amazing Person you can't cheat on your Life Partner with her friend, & then blame your victim. If he hadn't presented himself in a fake light for his "brand," this wouldn't have crossed over into main stream. If he would stop sad fishing, throwing around his Victim's Mental Health, & the things she said in therapy w/o her permission, he could have made a comeback. Instead he is doubling down and talking about his Mistress' Mental Health too. 🙄

oh i'm excited that you're covering this. i didn't get into vanderpump rules but my good friend did and it was so fun hearing her talk about this drama as it was unfolding.

I’ve been seeing this online everywhere and had no idea what was going on, thank you for making a video!!

TOM literally did what JAX and KRISTEN did to him! How does one hook up with someone with their significant other in the next room. INSANITY! But I can also say I’m not shocked because this is toms track record. He never EVER breaks up with a girl, he always cheats and lands himself into another full blown relationship. Although I love Ariana and I love how all the girls (even kristen) are supporting her but you lose ‘em how you get ‘em. Also Raquel’s growth from the first time she’s been on the show til now is wild. Everything about her has changed! And it’s because of those girls who supported her and lifted her up, and now she stabbed one of her closest friends and biggest supporters in the back in the most horrible way. i can’t WAIT for the mid season premiere and reunion. Thnx so much for this video Madison!!!!💜

@mzalaineyous

Жыл бұрын

Thank you! This is literally Karma! Arianna is getting what she deserves for being the side chick in Kristen's and Sandovals relationship. I can't wait for Karma to really hit Sandoval though...it's coming

@rondazug9967

Жыл бұрын

@@mzalaineyous yes!!! I do feel bad but it has came full circle for Ariana and Tom. That’s the way the world is! And I’m also totally with you about Tom, I feel as though he has yet to have his “karma” he kinda seems unbothered, no “real” consequences (except the obvious backlash and becoming a trending topic just for cheating, which everyone on the show does, they all literally have mixed and mingled with eachother at one point) but he’s still being seen with raquel, at her apt, doesn’t really seem to be phased. All the paparazzi videos / photos, he’s smiling, laughing etc.. while ariana looks devastated. Tom has been a self centered cheating a$$hole for a while, and has yet to have his karma. Will it happen? Who knows. Maybe raquel will be his karma, we have to wait and see how it plays out girlie! 😂

@jeffbarnett5844

Жыл бұрын

@alijoma hayward thank you. This was the comment I was looking for. I’m not surprised and I don’t feel bad for Ariana. I mean she knew he was a cheater. And with a bad attitude like hers it was only a matter of time.

I don't know why the idea of Scheana scrapping is so funny to me but it absolutely is.

You are an amazing youtuber. Your conclusion was empathetic towards so many, and it was grounding. Thank you, i’m glad i’ve been following you for a while.

YESSSS. When you mentioned Pump in the last video or so, I was like “I will scream if she makes a video about it”.

@trailertrish

Жыл бұрын

me too! i even commented it on that video "pleaseeee make a video about it!" 😂🙌🏻

Tom is either the hero or the victim of his own story. This is kind of been his personality and persona since the day he started filming. You see that that's just who he is off camera as well. I think everyone has a part of that to them to some extent, but in his case He is the extreme. I think that most people grow and learn from their experiences, both good and bad. I think that in reality TV sometimes the bad behavior gets rewarded. I hope that he takes his time to reflect. The episode where she's trying to fertilize her eggs and he goes down there knowing he's having an affair. His behavior is just beyond gross

Katie Maloney denied the reported salaries. They apparently make a lot more each episode. Raquel is from a prosperous family but I don’t think she has much in personal wealth. In an early episode this season, she said she was jealous because the other ladies had Amex cards and she didn’t.

ive never been into reality tv but i could watch you recap the drama all day

I’ve never heard of this show, but after watching half of this video I can’t help but think the couple had decided to break up, but wanted to monetize it. The show is fizzling out, what better way to revive it than this huge “cheating scandal” - the bread and butter of the show. Either way I love your videos! 💙

@michelleburken4070

Жыл бұрын

They aren't married.

@JLB0880

Жыл бұрын

@@michelleburken4070 I could have sworn she said the Ariana filed for divorce a week after finding the texts. My bad!!

@bish_puddin

Жыл бұрын

They may as well have been. Owned a home together. I totally agree that it makes for good tv, but would Tom be willing to look like the bad guy? I’m sure there were talks about how t0 monetize it for sure. The show got its start from a cheating scandal after all. RHOBH Brandy’s ex cheating with Scheena.

@YaBoiCharlieG

Жыл бұрын

See I’d think that but there’s absolutely no way Tom’s narcissistic ass would agree to being hated by everyone forever.

@shaylevene6754

Жыл бұрын

I don’t think so tbh cause her businesses are doing well as his are tanking and on top of that Rachel and Tom’s families are getting death threats and ish

It's so wild to me that a scandal this big happened and I've never ever even heard of the show or any of these people. Of course I still had to watch this video because your vidoes are always great!

been watching you for a long time and withe very upload the production just gets better and better!! appreciate you and your content!! 🔥💓💓 thank you for what you doooo

I’m 3 weeks late but I’m so excited for this video! I’ve (against my will) been seeing a lot about the scandal and I’ve never watched the show! I love all of your videos and your video format. You’re one of my top 5 favorite youtubers! You put out the best content and I can always tell how much work you put into every video! I know it is not easy and your little angel is under 3 years old and that right there is a job in itself! Thanks for your dedication to this channel and your supporters! Always wishing you love, happiness, safety and prosperity! ❤️

I will watch anything you post, even I am not watching these shows and completely out of the loop of reality tv. Your take is a breath of fresh air and calming among all the drama of the real world.

the work you put into your videos is crazy, thank you for everything you do, enjoyed this so much (even though i've never seen the show and now i'm so invested hehe🤭) much love💖

The excitement I feel watching a 1,5 hour long video, about people I have no clue who is. Unmatched.

I never watched this series, but I has heard plenty of news bits about it everywhere. Thank you for your comprehensive, well put together video. As always!

I watched this video because you made it, but I genuinely have no idea who these people are. I take it this was a show by your description and intro, but I have to admit I was completely lost as to anything else 😂. So yes, the rock I live under is huge apparently 😂😂😂. Oh and I'm British so there is a good chance this didn't broadcast in the uk 😂.

@nikkismith2858

Жыл бұрын

The first 5 season's were on itv in the UK

@R-A-Allan

Жыл бұрын

@@nikkismith2858 ok so the rock I live under is the size of a continent clearly 😂😂😂

I have never heard of any of these people. However, you did an amazing job making it easy to follow

I’ve never seen Vanderpump or know anything about the cast but I’m so ready for this video 😄 anything CWHM is perfection

OMG, thank you for breaking this down for us. I listen to a podcast that keeps bring up Scandoval and I had no idea what was going on

I’ve been keeping up with this intently, and starting to get a little wore out about it… Then she uploads a 1hr & 20 min video! Am I gonna watch every second of it and love it? Damn straight I am 😂🤷‍♀️

He's literally cheated on every girlfriend he's had. I feel sorry that Ariana was no different. You leave them how you found them

This video would’ve been the perfect breakdown for Howie Mandel to quickly understand Scandavol

You always do such a thorough job in your videos, but man, this one was so exhausting. I'm going to have to watch it at least five times lol

First-time VPR watcher, I binged all 9 seasons after the news broke and this is the best bandwagon I've ever hopped on

26:56 As a person who has never seen the show, I was like "Okay, 10 years of relationship was broken up because of cheating.. It's really none of my business..😅" After the friends analogy: "Oh, hell no!🤬" also.. Where was Ross in all this?

literally never heard of this show or this drama but here i am because i love your videos

I can't believe you're covering this! I'm living! Love your videos!! Great content 😁

I still can't explain how happy I am that Tom and Katie split finally, what a match made in HELL they were. Oh yeah, and LaLa will still have to forever stare at herself in the mirror, knowing she has a kid with basically BIG ED from tlc

I love how I'm getting back into this show because of this drama. I stopped watching right around the time Katie and Tom were signing a prenup so color me surprised to hear they divorced! Although I never liked Tom and Ariana, I'm 100% not surprised he betrayed her. While the way they got together left me sour on their relationship, no one deserves to be cheated on and I hope Ariana gets the help she needs.

Thank you so much for this video. I am so obsessed by this scandal because I watch VPR since it debuted so I am invested! You made a clear video explaining how things came to be as they are now. Love your work!

So glad you’re covering this! I’ve been watching everything on the Vanderpump drama 🔥 ☕️!

I hate so say it but Scandoval has brought me back to life. Thank you for covering it!

I have to disagree regarding the cast speaking on the matter. Every cast member at some point has verbally expressed that they have the "green light" from Ariana. It's apparent she is fine with her friends stepping in to help fight her battles. And lest we forget, Ariana was not the only person betrayed. It's fair game for them to discuss the matter with regards to their own personal experience, especially when Ariana has explicitly given them permission.

The excitement I felt when I saw that you uploaded! I have been having a marathon of your videos the last two nights. Better than Netflix!💖

I am so excited to hear your take on this ! I’ve been a VPR fan for so long and have recently gotten invested in all your videos. When these 2 worlds combine it’s going to be great .

I remember watching VPR as a kid with my mom since we used to have mother-daughter days where we would binge watch reality dv shows or dramas - hearing by this I knew something fishy was Sandoval... I didn't like how he brings all the drama and manipulation you can see when Jax and Brittney lives when they took the time to fix everything.... I feel so sorry for Ari knowing she just chill and speaks up when needed to- back to rewtaching VP

I'm so sick of people using "therapy" as an out. Those people are likely not even in therapy...its just wrong.

Girl I don't even watch vanderpump rules but you have such a calming voice and are great at telling a story

Right on time! I'm cleaning for the next hour and needed something to listen to. Thank you so much!