“Sorry Huddy” “It’s okay” Those 2 sentences took me out. They are so precious

@medb8882

2 ай бұрын

So cute, me and my second eldest brother used to fight all the time. It got to the point where I figured out if I ran into my room and put a shoe against the door, the rubber would stop him from barging in 😂😂 good memories tho, we talk about them all the time. Once he hit me with a sliotar and I put a plaster on the bruise, which made him mad for some reason lmao

@MargueriteFairProductions

2 ай бұрын

That's a good mom.

@fifihull4587

2 ай бұрын

The two phrases melted my heart.what beautiful little humans they are.well done mimma❤❤❤❤

@aneshawarren7216

2 ай бұрын

Sentences 💀 but anyway it’s still super adorbs

@wendysaville8423

2 ай бұрын

Me too.

Awesome work, i am hopeful this next generation will be kind and understand boundaries

@sylvia7958

2 ай бұрын

Unterstand boundaries by broadcasting children, crying children to millions of strangers on the Internet?

@samuelpotter6919

2 ай бұрын

Looks like you watched none of the short. Kids who are disciplined through conversation as opposed yelling and physical altercatios will learn boundaries through verbalizing their needs. Do you do that? ​@@sylvia7958

@dirkdiggler8427

2 ай бұрын

@@sylvia7958 yes. It’s 2024. It’s a very common income. It’s so important new moms or even older moms, see other moms discipline methods. You don’t have to share a thing hahahahhaa let them make the $$$$ 🥰

@kyranx602

2 ай бұрын

NICE FUCKING JOKE BUD

@samuelpotter6919

2 ай бұрын

@@kyranx602 who even are you

This type of parenting would have greatly changed my life . Every parent should watch this a hundred times over.

@judith153

6 күн бұрын

I can not wait to see the world with more people growing up like this in it.

@bigballox6454

4 күн бұрын

Im so glad my wife and I are bringing our 5 and 7 year old up like this. We are so proud of them.

@becz9485

4 күн бұрын

Its honestly amazing seeing the results of this type of parenting. We are all just grown up kids, if we teach kids to be empathetic and kind, they will always have it as their core!

@tabithasanders5407

3 күн бұрын

I dunno why but this comment made my cry/.

@JoshCrilley

3 күн бұрын

That’s an amazing type of parenting

This is the cutest video of a mom handling her son’s unacceptable behavior. She’s so calm & collected! If only this would be affective for every parent!! ☺️😍🥰😍☺️

@gorzata84

2 күн бұрын

This isn't cute. This children have rights to have some privacy. Petenta should give children some plece to feel all nad feeling and to lern how to deal with this stron emosuion. They dont need thausend od people wtaching them where they are sas and angory

@AkaHeart1

2 күн бұрын

@@gorzata84 ????????? 🤔🤔🤔 Wish I could understand your comment!

@bmckong

8 сағат бұрын

@@AkaHeart1they’re saying that not everything needs to be posted to the internet, especially children who can’t give consent.

@AkaHeart1

5 сағат бұрын

@@bmckong I see it differently. To me, this teaches other moms how to effectively talk with their children rather than get angry and possibly using physical force to get the message across. Nobody teaches us to be good communicating parents. We learn effective ways by seeing other alternatives to disqualify anger when dealing with a particular situation. I do however agree that much is splattered on social media; especially where children are concerned, but then again, I can be open minded if it helps just one mom. Thank you for elaborating on the above comment!

I love it when she said, " don't push people that way, instead of ' don't push your brother that way" . In this case, its not only his brother but anyone else. Waw may God bless you 🙏

@eternallife9786

Ай бұрын

​@@seanhughes6697they're probably a little assholes then

@Sungirl88

Ай бұрын

I hope to be a wise mother one day too this is a great example thank you

@nulifersen7034

Ай бұрын

Genau so 👌❤️‍🔥🤝❤️‍🔥🤲🤲🤲

@nulifersen7034

Ай бұрын

👌❤️‍🔥🫂❤️‍🔥🤲🤲🤲

@eyelavadershine

Ай бұрын

❤❤❤❤best mother must be hard 3 brothers. Take good care of yourself mom too❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

See when I think of gentle parenting THIS is what I’m talking about. Still very firm, but soft and understanding. Job well done, ma.

@GoldenLight22

27 күн бұрын

yes this is what gentle parenting really is, different than no parenting which is what people think gentle parenting is. It just means no screaming or hitting, but talking firmly and kindly

@TuscaGabriela

26 күн бұрын

😊😊

@Getclappedboyeeee

26 күн бұрын

@@GoldenLight22 so what are you gonna do when your 5 year old kid smacks you in the face when you don’t get them the toy they want. Are you gonna tell them to go on a timeout for 5 min? 🤣

@annaglass9943

25 күн бұрын

@@GoldenLight22w

@eileen3046

24 күн бұрын

​@@GoldenLight22THIS EXACTLY! You couldn't have explained it better

Love this...I can't stand when kids get away with hitting others and the parent does absolutely nothing about it. This mother should be an example to all.

@gorzata84

2 күн бұрын

No. People should not expose theri children difficult emotions on KZread. Children need some respect. If you wolud'nt treat ypur children with respect, they wilk never lern that they feelings and other people feelings are important

@ashleighhaldeman

12 сағат бұрын

@@gorzata84so you can never post a child crying? Yeah it might be difficult emotions for their child to process because it’s a child but it’s not like they’re posting them being traumatized. Parents post their kids tantrums all the time and these kinds of videos are necessary because so many people hate on gentle parenting and say it’s just enabling their kids bad behavior when this is what real gentle parenting is. It is absolutely necessary to show how it works and teach.

I almost started crying when he said „Sorry Huddy.“ 😍🥲

@MikMok

2 күн бұрын

I am 😭

@paulalianca1831

8 сағат бұрын

Same here.

The way the baby hugged his brother warmed my heart ❤️

@goodguyaus

2 ай бұрын

I pretend he's leaning in to whisper, "I'm gonna git you later"

@blaackberry

2 ай бұрын

So cute! He wanted to get in on the action 😂

@DazylinLambert-bo8gq

2 ай бұрын

Me to ❤❤❤

@hopeomoregie3416

2 ай бұрын

Me too so cute!!❤❤❤

@hananatiyah1268

2 ай бұрын

@@DazylinLambert-bo8gq❤❤❤❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💟💗😢

This is how I raised my sons. Growing up they have always just had a nice, easy going, respectful, let’s talk it out, kinda personality! Good job, mom.

@nataliegillmore7436

2 ай бұрын

She's doing a 1derful mom.

@user-ll1nc2ru4t

2 ай бұрын

And good job to you too what a wonderful gift to give the world

@maryam.asadi97

2 ай бұрын

Good job to you mama

@darayy6352

2 ай бұрын

GOOD JOB TO YOU

@braelynnmarie8590

2 ай бұрын

Just because you were abused doesn't mean other kids deserve to be abused too Derek.​@@ponz-

This is great discipline she’s a great mom!! Kids will turn out great human beings!!!!!! 🙏🏼❤️❤️❤️

This is the kind of parenting we all needed. This should be taught in school

"sorry huddy." the CUTEST ever!!❤ thx for the likes!!

@user-mn2ii9vd6w

2 ай бұрын

Ikr ❤

@Justicia007

2 ай бұрын

MELTED

@margaretgrabill9842

2 ай бұрын

God bless this beautiful mom for doing the very best for her children 🙏 ❤lovely little family - blessings to all of you❤❤

@abadahoussem4866

2 ай бұрын

Supermom❤

@CameronTucker06

2 ай бұрын

Ain't it!

This is what REAL gentle parenting looks like. Setting clear boundaries with your children and still maintaining an atmosphere of unconditional love.

@kainejoyes2981

2 ай бұрын

No such thing as 'unconditional love'

@bryanblandon

2 ай бұрын

@@kainejoyes2981everyone has their own standards, don’t ask others to abide by yours

@RuthEsther-nn6qe

2 ай бұрын

We use the Bible method!

@chimpouh9402

2 ай бұрын

Yes there is unconditional love. Actually all love is unconditional. When something it is conditional, it is not love

@RevealedFilms

2 ай бұрын

Yea then 5 years later we hear she’s been arrested for abuse of those same children. I don’t trust any KZread channel that profits from their kids anymore.

Great mom❤the way Hudson said "its okay" you know mom is on the job.That hug she gave him made it all okay for him.

Well done, Mom for explaining clearly what your older child did wrong & the consequences for his action. Showing your love was reassuring.

I love that her emphasis was not punishment, but learning, change, and reconciliation. I love that she didn’t lose her temper and speak out of anger, but spoke firmly, calmly, and lovingly. That’s great parenting.

@gomezaddams6470

2 ай бұрын

This comment deserves far more attention and likes❤ The only thing I can see that should be different is a little bit of explanation about feelings. Explaining empathy is really important

@lhmccool67

2 ай бұрын

I agree! Her voice was clear and firm, as well as calm and even toned. There was no attempt to shame or I still fear. She also maintained that with Hudson and didn't switch to an overly coddling tone, which can be confusing for children and potentially create a friction between siblings. Great job mama!

@spittinfireALLNEW

2 ай бұрын

Wait, this is great but, every kid is not as gentle some kids need a lil more aggression.

@sybilsadie620

2 ай бұрын

This is how Supernanny do it Love to watch her videos

@spittinfireALLNEW

2 ай бұрын

@1nf3ctedd Not all the time, some times kids develop their own personality and it could be more aggressive then another. This is why parents of many tell you all their kids have different personalities. Even if the parenting style is soft and gentle.

I also appreciated the Mothers tone of voice. It let the child know that this was serious and Mom's not joking around. Great lesson in how to administer proper discipline with hugs all around afterwards.👍🙌

@juliasnow-xz4kt

2 ай бұрын

I agree with everything you said, I really do. Now what happens when the child does the same thing a bunch more times and in the same day. That's the reality.

@battyboifided6629

2 ай бұрын

Facts ​@@juliasnow-xz4kt

@TheEijkmanProject

2 ай бұрын

@@juliasnow-xz4kt It's obvious the kid is aware it isn't right, he is being taught totally decent manners by a mother with a kind and honest heart and a great set of brains. The little tantrum is ignored, not criticized, as a child that age can hardly control his emotions when felt overcome by them, but mom handles everything with respect to herself and every child around her, appreciating good traits, making them aware of bad traits. Only a mother with respect and kindness in her heart and mind would do this. One without would not do any effort to raise the kid as she should, but would fall prey to any mannerisms badly taught to her in her youth.

@juliasnow-xz4kt

2 ай бұрын

@@TheEijkmanProject Are you speaking from theory or experience? How many kids have you raised, just curious? There's a reason you see frazzled Moms, Moms who raise their voice or Moms who ignore their screaming child in a store. None of that is good, obviously. I was lucky in that of my four kids only one of them would do things on the sly when I wasn't looking. The others would respond to discipline much like these cute kids, but I also adopted my sister's kids when she died and I also did daycare and there are kids who don't learn lessons the first time, or the second, or the third. They have a stubborn streak or get moody, are young and don't want to share. It's reality. That's all I'm saying. I thought I was such a good Mom because I genuinely didn't have a hard time with my own kids, but when I tried to apply the same rational, talking it out and explaining like this Mom did I didn't have quite the same results and was often left frazzled at the end of a long day of fits and tantrums. (both my sisters kids are ADHD). I stopped judging Moms like I used to after that. Do what works. Every child is different. Start with what the Mom in the video did, but don't be surprised if it doesn't work and you have to move to time outs, taking things away etc...

@ruckyg3177

2 ай бұрын

Maybe he accidently pushed in enthusiasm and I would say sonething like be careful, no pushing. But making it a huge issue creates a rejection for him. He is the bad guy and sent to his room. I think it could be handles lighter while still explaining him to be gentle with his brother.

Such a great mum! She could teach so many frustrated mums how to deal with sibling confrontations. ❤

You’re a GREAT MOTHER! I absolutely LOVE this! More parents need to reinforce bad behavior with this kind of discipline. You remained Calm yet Firm. You took away any fun time for a certain amount of time vs rewarding him. You asked him why he was in trouble (so he would understand) but most importantly you showed him that even though you had to discipline him you still LOVE him. Excellent Job Mom!!! ❤❤❤

Raising three little kids and having patience and handling it the way she did shows how good of a parent she is. Amazing mom

@FTW13MMC

8 күн бұрын

But how is she during the 23 hours and 59 minutes she's Not on camera? Watch the movie, The Truman Show, then decide how children fare being raised with a camera and audience.

@storyofmylife5979

7 күн бұрын

@@FTW13MMCain’t no way you’re comparing a movie about a man being trapped on a studio set to a real life few second KZread short. Y’all will say anything to support a narrative.

@adararelgnel2695

7 күн бұрын

It's one tiny clip that she decided was good enough to be online. I wouldn't make judgments about her parenting, good or bad, based on a 1 minute clip.

@ms.brittany1391

7 күн бұрын

She has 7 kids

@DefyantFoxV2

7 күн бұрын

Easy when dad is making all the money and all she has to do is raise the kids and collect.

That's the kind of parenting that eliminates narcissism. Good job.

@gabbysegura7453

2 ай бұрын

She is a amazing mom to show her kids responsibility

@debussy842

2 ай бұрын

@@gabbysegura7453 She's a highly irresponsible mother. I am a single male, 39, with no kids. The reason I am boldly prefacing with that is because what I am about to say is blatantly obvious to all human beings 30 years and over: It is highly inappropriate to film, and broadcast your children like this, in general, but especially for cash. Also, they are so used to being constantly filmed they are not even looking at whoever if filming them. This broadcasting would have been unthinkable 15 years ago but the new generation can not longer distinguish trash. To her defenders, that a mother needs to make a living, how do you think mothers made a living prior to tictok 5 years ago??? The answer: a real job, not posting their children on the internet.

@ludwigwittgenstein1280

2 ай бұрын

No it DOESN’T! That’s a physical condition!

@peepeepoopoo8498

2 ай бұрын

@@debussy842i totally agree but it’s also showing examples for a good cause it’d be nice if her kids didn’t have to be involved though to get the point across

@tub-tube7686

2 ай бұрын

​@@debussy842 you are so right. I am male, 37, father of one Kid. Never ever would I film such a highly emotional situation and load it up. Also this is not how to eliminate narcism. This is narcism at its best. Selling the emotions of your kids on the Internet.

I can't face a class of children a few years older than me, but she can keep calm and teach some much younger children what respect and kindness means. ❤

The way mum made sure he understood why he was sent to his room is so important.

She has such a calm voice. Very patient. Teaching her children at the same time. Beautiful

@Venus_baby_18

2 ай бұрын

I like how it's was calm and assertive but she didn't talk to them like babies. She talk to them like human who are going to be adults one day and need to know now how it ought to be

@sweng0717

2 ай бұрын

@@Venus_baby_18 yes and she also wasn’t shouting or raising her voice She simply had a calm and firm tone of voice when addressing them

@ceeejay9112

2 ай бұрын

perfect tone, when disciplining and when validating etc also

@Venus_baby_18

2 ай бұрын

@ceeejay9112 yesss , goes ti show u can teach kids and discipline them without making them feel like shut abt themselves because really what does that even do. Accept your mistake apologize and move one good mama. No need to go on an on an on this will prevent alot in the future :)

@Ahbhswrzq9221

2 ай бұрын

I actually felt the tone to be harsh more than assertive and you can tell the child was scared and felt shamed. I believe the tone should be much lighter.

Notice how the youngest boy was comforting his brother when he was crying. That is how you know they are being raised in a discipline yet loving household.❤❤❤

i like that she asks him why she sent him to his room! it’s so important to ask kids and explain why they are wrong instead of just saying “don’t do that”

@gorzata84

2 күн бұрын

important is to not expose on KZread this kind od difficult moment for children. Children arę important, they have to lern, and develop. They dont have to be dom kind od entertainmet for entire world

@urmotha976

2 күн бұрын

@@gorzata84 it’s not entertainment, it’s showing how she parents…

Priceless. With all my heart, I wish they did parenting like this back in the day.❤

The way he ran back to his room the second time shows how he was happy and confident that he is loved

@bianka5824

2 ай бұрын

saying, 'Don't' to a child gives way for an unhealthy child. you are defying their natural instinct to survive (learn). thx

@bb7961

2 ай бұрын

No, it made him feel like he doesn’t deserve love and playtime for a small Mistake. Children don’t know what’s boundary and space

@SKY031

2 ай бұрын

no, it shows that being sent to a place with toys isn't punishment, and the kid learned nothing.

@zoiefinnian3540

2 ай бұрын

This was plenty for this small child to think about what he had done and apologize for it. That’s all he needs at this age. Parental guidance with love.

@peaceofmindofpeace1650

2 ай бұрын

​​@@bb7961 I agree.I feel pain as he runs to his room to sit on his bed. Maybe he accidently pushed in enthusiasm and I would say sonething like be careful, no pushing. But making it a huge issue creates a rejection for him. He is the bad guy and sent to his room. I think it could be handles lighter while still explaining him to be gentle with his brother.

'Now give me a hug' is so important. The little child now knows his mother only rejects his behaviour he showed, but not the child as a person. Socialy smart mother.

@shssddg88

2 ай бұрын

Was searching for this comment! It's really important. In this way, the child will not be embittered against everyone. Children's psyches are very vulnerable. Therefore, it is necessary to make it clear to the older child that he is also loved, despite his mistakes.

@babyrne78

2 ай бұрын

And the "good boy" comment.

@stevostevo5773

2 ай бұрын

Hugs are for celebrating after you score a goal and/or girls

@Nikos169

2 ай бұрын

Yes never label a child as ‘naughty’ . Focus on reprimanding his/her behaviour .. *Emphasise that it’s the behaviour you don’t like not your child.

@Nikos169

2 ай бұрын

Telling your 2yr old 'Give a hug’ is fine. Asking 3-5 yr old ‘What can you do to make your brother feel better?’ is appropriate also. *Encourage your child (3yrs +) to think of a solution themselves

“Don’t push people that way” best mom and best teacher 👏👏

This is the type of parent I envision my daughter will be. Can’t wait to see her love and discipline in this manner. Great job mom.

Her tone of voice used for disciplining was perfect. Way more effective than yelling and screaming.

@AnnaLee33

2 ай бұрын

yelling and screaming should't even be an option.

@markmitchell4400

2 ай бұрын

I don't know about that, but she did do a GREAT job!!!

@chokingonflowers

Ай бұрын

@@markmitchell4400why would you want to yell and scream and be aggressive towards your children

Firm, fair and reasonable. This is how discipline should be.

@michaelheery6303

2 ай бұрын

the Americans in will buy GUNS.

@conny-zk7et

2 ай бұрын

but not on camera in social media!!!

@BryanMetcalf-ld7cb

2 ай бұрын

​@@conny-zk7etthere are parents who need to see this. Why is it wrong to post this?

@kermitthefrog5446

15 күн бұрын

@@BryanMetcalf-ld7cb no, there aren’t. they need to read a book if they can’t grasp such a simple concept.

@XX-pe4sj

14 күн бұрын

@@kermitthefrog5446damn you s0und m!serable

Wooow..I lyk deh way yuh disciplined him...#I pray to be a mother lyk yuh when in terms of disciplining my children#👏🏼🥰👌🏻

Their relationship is just wonderful ❤

I love the way mum said "don't push people down. It's general, not only the focus on his brother. Well done mother! I hope they grow up with a good heart❤❤

@JeramiahFontenot

10 күн бұрын

I was crying for her because that’s what I did to my baby cousin

@leslies.massachusetts8966

6 күн бұрын

They most definitely will and they’ll be the best of friends to if only every parent was like this!! This world be a better place to live in!!

I really appreciate that you didn’t tell any of the kids to “Stop crying.”

That’s a good mom right there. No screaming involved!

They way the world would change if there were more moms and dads like her, raising emotionally healthy kiddos 🤍

Man, the self control and sacrifice it takes to be a good parent.. it's so touching. Thank you for your service to this world and your sweet kiddos ❤️

@livjowen

2 ай бұрын

Thank you for your kind words and your support ❤️

@tracygarrison892

Ай бұрын

I love how you kids are so kind and respectful. I'm so happy for you because you have kind and respectful kids. I'm going too have a kid I am 8 weeks pregnant I hope my kids are just like yours. I found out my baby's ginger its going to be a baby girl. Ween I was a little kid I wanted to have kind and respectful and honest kids so I hope she is just like that. You kid are also honest. And you are sooo pretty are you are a great person and mother. And also ween I was younger I always wanted to have a baby girl but I am haveing a baby girl I would be also fine with a baby boy but I always wanted a baby girl I am coming a mother I don't have any kids yet but I just wanted to till you that and I subscribe your channel. 😊

@kaylamccorkell8453

Ай бұрын

I'm crying and that is sad bc now he thinks he isn't allowed to play with his brother bc his mum disciplined him

@reelandwrite

Ай бұрын

​@@kaylamccorkell8453 What? Where did you get that from?

@85Wright

Ай бұрын

​@@kaylamccorkell8453lmao did your brain fart or are you a troll?

This mother is amazing. She knows how to raise children. She communicated with her children. Disciplined, comforted and reassured that she loves them.

@ekinie3854

Ай бұрын

knows how to raise them except for the fact their lives are documented for millions to see...

@susanbarker2525

Ай бұрын

Not my experience of life with kids!!!!

@susanbarker2525

Ай бұрын

Not my experience of life with kids!

@burntieburntwell7111

Ай бұрын

I want you to imagine that other person standing in the room with the camera right on top of those kids and in their faces. And then tell me how the HELL this is “amazing”

@troythemighty3683

Ай бұрын

Almost like she’s done this before. I wonder if those are her first kids she’s killing it as a mom

She's a great mom and mom role model. Love is the key.

You are a Great Mom. Children don’t understand things sometimes. “Raise them up in the way they should go so that when they are old they will not part from it.”❤❤

She is a good mother and sets a good example for those of us who have children, teaching them values and respect in time.

@nataliaiwaniak8682

2 ай бұрын

Cute❤❤❤

@lidip8700

2 ай бұрын

This is what a strong foundation looks like. I bet she'll not need to discipline them much as they grow older because she did so well as they were younger. And don't you think they'll want to be just like mommy, someday! Some cultures the parents just scream & are out of control. So sad.

@RichAsher

Ай бұрын

Not really isolation is not good for kids

She did a great job! Explained without shouting or getting upset. Teaching respect and being kind is so much better. Gentleness is not taught, it is a blessing! I wish more mothers could see this and teach their toddlers kindness and to be caring!

@toodleloo2253

2 ай бұрын

And it's so cute how siblings can Forgive each other so quickly!!..Boys need very firm, but kind, boundaries, & she did it SO well for them!!- Kudos!!- :)

@sandramartino3243

2 ай бұрын

Then giving him a choice....loved that.

@T.R.6105

2 ай бұрын

More Mothers and Fathers...

She is truly a great mother & very patient. If only I had a mother like that growing up lol That was beautiful to see, like some people could learn a lot from that.

So perfectly handled. No shouting on the lil boy , yet your message was very clear to them.

@AG-yc7vt

2 ай бұрын

Once they go to school and outside influences start shaping their life, we’ll see if “no yelling” works. Because the bully at school who was constantly yelled at and that is the only way for them to actually change their behavior won’t care what Little Timmy says in a calm demeanor. So Timmy will have to figure out a way to stop the bully in another way that isn’t “having a civil conversation”. And Timmy will learn yelling. Greatest parent in the world, but you can’t keep your kid in a protective bubble 24/7. (Technically you could keep your kid in a protective bubble 24/7. But would you be the greatest parent in the world anymore? Releasing them at 18 or 25 or 30 into the real world after being sheltered and shielded for decades. )

@AandM8

Ай бұрын

@@AG-yc7vtare you suggesting we teach our kids to be the bully because they may get bullied?

@AG-yc7vt

Ай бұрын

@@AandM8 I’m saying no matter how well you parent. Outside influences will throw a monkey wrench into your plans.

When he said "sorry Huddy" my heart melted. so cute and sweet.

@patmanpatmanson

2 ай бұрын

And this is the reason why you guys, women, do that. I think you have the best intentions but you do it because you want to feel something and not because you want to teach the best lecture to them. I think stuff like the woman does in the video makes them weak as a man. I mean what has the other one done? He pushed him down is what she said? I tell you to shame a boy because of being a little bit aggressive makes them weak and is the best way to make them that they never can get beautiful women and make a family. It just makes toxic shame in them.

This exactly how i brought up my lads. 20 and 18 now. Yes, they still fight, but not long after you'll hear the one who started it apologise to the other, then you'll hear them telling the other they love them. It still gets me right in my heart. I know I did good by teaching them this way. Keep doing what you're doing, Mum! You'll have boys that absolutely love and respect each other and others when they're grown. 💜

this was so satisfying and emotional to watch idk whyy😭

Parenting - real parenting. The most important and rewarding job in the world. Patience, kindness, firmness and wisdom, paying close attention to the child. If I could have anything I want, I would want this for every single precious child on the planet at all times.

Thats called being a mom 👏🙏🏼

@normacollins3844

Ай бұрын

AMEN!!! I didn’t know people these days knew how to do that!! If more parents did these things, teaching their kids right from wrong, there would be more adults that knew how to act and that would teach their children the same!! That way when the children were taken out, like to eat, they wouldn’t act like heathens!

She raised her sons good she’s such a good mother

Hats off to this Mom, my greatest respect for you! You solved everything with calm in no time👏❤️

This was the perfect combination of sternness and compassion. A lot of parents are way too soft today but she was very clear to him with her tone, choice of words, and eye contact that what he did was unacceptable. She made him understand that there are consequences for bad behavior when she sent him away and allowed him to reflect on his behavior. Then she reassured him that she still loves him and that he can make it up to his brother by apologizing and setting things right.

@Tesitankgurl

Ай бұрын

Either too soft or don't care enough. Alot of the bad kids in our area. Have parents who don't give a shit about the kids. 😢

This is how I raised my boys. I hear all the time what wonderful respectful young men I have raised 🙌 great job mom.

This was so lovely to see but gosh my heart broke seeing your middle child’s face in tears at the beginning 😣 what an amazing family you are bringing up!

Hudson saying “you’re ok” was just so precious. Huddy loves his big bro no matter what? This is amazing parenting and the children are just so sweet. Good job mom and dad!

We need more moms like this to eradicate the bullying at schools, social media, and otherwise

@SJ-ce6rn

15 күн бұрын

Agree, Moms need to be home to teach right and wrong, with love, understanding and patience.

@cristinauto

14 күн бұрын

Moms who make their kids act for likes? 🤦‍♀️what 4 yo says reflect on my behavior? Y’all are lost

@Threecharacterhandel

14 күн бұрын

@@cristinautoNobody ever said that he said that. Maybe you should avoid having an opinion until you can at least understand what you are watching 🤦🏻‍♂️

@cristinauto

14 күн бұрын

@@Threecharacterhandel 🙄 what kind of mom stops in the middle of disciplining her kids to turn on the camera first? Just stop

@Threecharacterhandel

14 күн бұрын

@@cristinauto Lmao could you shift the goalposts any harder?

I like that he no longer wants to be bothered with them

This is exactly how my husband and I talk our kids through situations. Extremely effective

My dad growing up “you gonna take that sh*t? Hit him back!” 😂

@akalurch5805

Ай бұрын

For real! This shit don’t work!😂😂

@cheshire_skatkat9093

Ай бұрын

Nope.

@angiemanges7945

Ай бұрын

It all depends on what type of environment a child grows up in whether this type of discipline works or not. So yeah it can work.

@keviiinramaaaage7650

Ай бұрын

@@angiemanges7945 Oh I’m not saying this ladies wrong and my dad was right. The man’s advice certainly had a habit of getting me in trouble lmao

@CourtofRecord

Ай бұрын

qays, in the making 😮

UR A GOOD MOM I CAN SEE IT IN UR EYE'S . BOY'S ARE BLESSED WITH A BEAUTIFUL MOTHER. 🌹🙏💙🙏🌹

@heskehypnotherapy6369

2 ай бұрын

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

I work in childcare and I'm a mother of 2, I really love the way this was handled, so proud of you mumma

I can’t help myself when I heard him saying “Sorry Huddy”. The way the brothers hugged and reconciled, I would never know how that feels but it’s beautiful, truly.

I'm OLD and LOVE THIS! She does it all perfectly: Accountability, modest transfer of displeasure, specific about misconduct, age appropriate consequence, relationship restoration, status quo. GOOD GOOD!!!

@trrulieeeee

2 ай бұрын

my concern is that she never asked him why he pushed his brother. it’s possible that he was responding to something inappropriately. he could be getting the message that other people can do bad things to him, and he can’t do anything about it. if that’s the case, he also hasn’t learned an appropriate way to respond when his brother treats him badly. he also may have hugged his mom for the purpose of regaining favor, when hugs should be reserved for authentic love. that’s why i never demand a hug, i only ever ask. she also told him to apologize instead of asking if he wants to apologize, which is bypassing his own moral compass and forcing him to abide by hers instead of his own. if he didn’t want to apologize, she could have explained to him why she would apologize if she were in his shoes, or she can explain how he and his brother will feel if he doesn’t apologize so he can have a better understanding of how to apply the skill in the future. there’s nothing inherently wrong about what happened here, especially when you’re busy, but there are many opportunities for teaching and connection that were missed here.

@tikkun888

2 ай бұрын

@@trrulieeeee Вы абсолютно правы! У Вас абсолютно ЗДРАВЫЙ взгляд на ситуацию! Спасибо Вам за мудрость и привет Вам из России! 🙌😊

@breeze_japanese

2 ай бұрын

There's no universal textbook. Case by case. Family by family. Individual by individual. What works for her, might not work for others. Also, this is a montage. We don't see what happened between cuts.

@dreamchaser7177

2 ай бұрын

​@@trrulieeeeeI used this method with my kids and they are all adults now. They are emotionally stable and know how to treat people as well as how they expect to be treated by others. I guarantee that this mom addresses both sides before making a final judgement.

@Phogramo

2 ай бұрын

@@dreamchaser7177no you didn’t, if they’re all adults then you’re a liar. Look at how confused this kid is when they have a camera recording the situation. They did this for views and it’s disgusting.

I wish I had their upbringing. What a wonderful mother. Those children will grow up to be productive, kind and happy adults!

@3pleSss

2 ай бұрын

Give me a break. All she did is sent a kid to his room while blasting him in front of everyone for show and likes at his expense. Yea grate mother she is. SMH

@kasey3210

2 ай бұрын

@@3pleSssthat’s not why she posted it she posted it to show the effects of proper parenting

@svetlanamihajlovic7464

2 ай бұрын

Molim prevod komentara na srpskom..hvala

@chrissylucas237

2 ай бұрын

@@3pleSss You obviously don't have children or shouldn't have a child be in your care! This was amazing from a mom of 3 to achieve such respectable results means so much in the moment not for the camera ...you jackass!

@chrissylucas237

2 ай бұрын

hope your sterile lol

Now that I’m older I see how important it is to be stern, gentle and loving while parenting. Excellent job Mama Bear 👏🏽❤️

I absolutely love this. I try very hard every day for this to be my parenting style. About 80% of the time it works. About 15% of the time I have to be more stern in my approach and raise my voice for a few seconds, but the end result is still the same. Hugs, a short time out, validating both of their feels and talking through their actions and choices, with reconciliation. Then there is 5 percent of the time… that 5 percent really gets you. When your words mean nothing to them and you end up having to yell like a maniac to get them to listen. There is no one to blame but yourself when that happens. I know in my case, I allowed them to go too far and get too worked up to a situation where I had to be the “bad guy”. It still always ends with the same result as the other 2 times. Although I hate when that side of me has to come out, I also think it is important that you show that you are the one in control, and do what needs done to get everyone listening and behaving. I always feel guilty after I yell at my kids, but I know it’s a necessity at times, and at the end of the day they respect me and know I’m a loving mom they can always come to, but also don’t play with me. It was hard to find the balance. But I think I’m finally there!

Oh she did a perfect! Appropriate amount of time in timeout, repetition of the reason why in terms a child can understand. Love it!

@sorenludwig3978

2 ай бұрын

thats totally bs. You cant handle a child like a small adult.

@darylmorrison6598

2 ай бұрын

Try that with a kid with ADHD or ODD. Good luck!

@AG-yc7vt

2 ай бұрын

@@darylmorrison6598exactly what I was gonna say. That word shizz don’t work with ADHD. They need to be affected by the repercussions. It’s technically a mental illness even though they aren’t acting out 24/7 like some of the more extreme illnesses.

@miguelkaka1889

2 ай бұрын

Nah she didn’t kid is gunna be soft as can be when he’s older he started crying more when his mom sent the other kid away your suppose to make your kids tough not little girls crying just cause a feather hit their shoulder

@valerieickstadt4044

2 ай бұрын

​@@sorenludwig3978yes you can, what I wouldn't do is make them say sorry, saying sorry means nothing if you don't mean it. But the rest, especially because if the age, is amazing. When this happens with an older kid you can encourage them to think about other solutions in time out and talk with them about it afterwards, but i think that kid is too young for that.

It's the best example of loving-kindness and patience. And making the time teach in such a way that their children are not damaged by it. I saw the video and I started crying. It's so wonderful to see someone actually take the time. To love on their kids

@rain3743

2 ай бұрын

Exactly. I never had to strike my children. Little ones can understand consequences and time outs and then corrective experiences. Really sweet little brothers. Boys can get super aggressive and it’s sweet to see a Mama take time to patiently teach her children how to be better humans.

This was my mom and it always made me understand even young why I was being punished. There was never a moment of not knowing why she was upset with us. Then after some time called us out and have us positive affirmation. That’s all a child needs to know, is that even though you got upset or disappointed with them you still love them. ❤❤

I love this! That’s tenderness and empathy. 🥰❤️🌻

I love the way the baby brother came up and hugged the middle child to comfort him.

we need more moms like her teaching her sons how to be kind and gentle to one another. little brother just wanting to comfort his brohters

Roman chose his room, can't get him twice!😂

Awesome parenting. She was stern enough to let him know, she’s serious and that wasn’t nice, but not too stern to make him super nervous and scared

More Parents need to be like this, INSTEAD of yelling and screaming at their children !!

@jessicareyes5266

2 ай бұрын

Yes. We do.

@YesThings

2 ай бұрын

only on camera 😂

@keishavaughn7546

2 ай бұрын

@@YesThingsyep

@Empress422

2 ай бұрын

Why does your comment seem like you're yelling at others with the explanation points??

@autumnhomer9786

2 ай бұрын

🎀Some people have not been taught another way. Don’t be judgmental.🎀

I love how people these days are seeing parenting as a important thing. Much love to everyone who is working on themselves to make the next generation better.❤

@kelliintexas3575

2 ай бұрын

Yeah, but CLEARLY they are NOT PRACTICING IT. We would not be coming apart at the seams as a country.

@annataymond9529

2 ай бұрын

@@kelliintexas3575bro did you not watch the video

This is absolutely amazing I'm in awe of how you dealt with this beautiful had me in tears

Everything aside... that tiny one is trying to have a hug .... ommmyyy the cutest thing ever 😍

You are not only growing up a good children, but a good gentlemen. Great Mother,Respects madam😊

@magorzatamargaret294

2 ай бұрын

No, she is growing CASTRATED GUYS, who in the future will not know how to act like the real men. NO BALLS, CRYING LIKE BABIES when they are adults. She is deeply indoctrinated by this stupid propaganda which is running around nowadays and which is PLANNED...

This is powerful parenting right here. Imagine how the world would be if all children had this kind of parents. Wow! ❤

@kennethyoung6014

2 ай бұрын

@@millieyinaski8495agreed cause it doesn’t work for everybody

@antoniogalluccio4213

2 ай бұрын

Kids can be very happy to play in front of camera and watch themselves again. Let everyone live their own life. Fpr this stupid privacy reason one day in the UK they will arrest you if you take a picture of a kid that's not yours! Not everyone does things for bad reasons

2 ай бұрын

Ffs, it's common sense. THIS IS SUPPOSED TO BE NORMAL, not some outlier

@stevostevo5773

2 ай бұрын

It would be more flowers and same gender lovers

@Infamous_B_C

Ай бұрын

Taken over by the neighboring country.

We need more parents like you Today!

I appreciate this… and your calm the whole time keeps the environment controlled and level

I'm a Father of a 6 years old, this made me cry. Good Job. Really good job.

Precious mom, teaching how to play correctly & be respecting others! God bless your family & your husband!

You tone of voice is so genuine and gentle yet firm ❤ what a great mom

Wow, they will grow up to be good people. These is how we deal with children, and they will remember this forever ❤❤❤❤

A rare example of a positive short video. Well done to you the creator 👏 ❤

I really like her as a mom, handle her kids misbehaviour really well. She gave them time-out, talked to them about why it was necessary, and ended with hugs. It’s great to see discipline combined with love and communication like that.

@lennyvelez5929

2 ай бұрын

OH YEH DID YOU LIKE RUBI FRANKIE AS WELL? THIS IS THE SAME KIND OF CHANNEL UNTIL THE CHILD ABUSE WAS REVEALED ... AND NOW SHE IS IN JAIL FOR 60 YEARS. THIS WOMAN LOOKS JUST AS NUTS. I HOPE THESE KIDS ARE OK

@katniss4670

2 ай бұрын

@@lennyvelez5929You seem disturbed

@tumpadasgupta9165

Ай бұрын

Time out is not ok it can affect them a lot

The world needs more parents like this

As a single father with full custody of my two kids, this is the only thing I'm missing in my life. Amazing job being a mom.

Love the caring way she disciplines!! So important and her kids will be happy people!!

@carolinewilson8048

2 ай бұрын

Yes.

Yesssssss Momma!!!!! And that’s how we raise productive citizens, honorable adults, and just overall wonderful people!

@darrylmatthews5184

2 ай бұрын

You can’t be serious!!!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@michaelirvin4555

2 ай бұрын

You mean getting your husband setting up a phone and taking a video and then you post it. That’s how you raise kids lol

@IMPORTGUY15

2 ай бұрын

LMFAO seriously

@mirzetklinac794

2 ай бұрын

That's how you raise a simp not a man

@HockeyFan102

2 ай бұрын

@@michaelirvin4555I can tell you have never had good parents.

Amen ❤❤❤❤ I’m so glad some of our parents changes the narrative for us to be able get to this. To get to the point of understanding. ❤❤

This is perfect parenting. This is a golden example of a woman who understands what needs to be done to resolve a situation in a way that everyone involved can learn, grow, and feel safe all at the same time. I do wish this was more common, but seeing it at all gives a man hope for the future.

@MikeSW

6 күн бұрын

It doesn't fall upon a woman to do this. It falls upon the father.

Nice job mom. Brings the siblings together. If only all parents understood the importance of discipline.

Best way to teach your child. Let them tell you what they did wrong. Then you know they have learned. I do the same thing. Love it. Your a great mom and your kids are amazing. ❤

@tur74d56

Ай бұрын

True but kids do lie a lot

@megv7481

Ай бұрын

​@@tur74d56 this is different, the situation happened in front of the parent so they know that their mom knows and they cannot lie. why would they? also this gives them a chance to explain if something else was bothering them like "he pushed me first!' or "I didn't push, he tripped!" clears up the situation. always give kids a chance to talk

@ders972

Ай бұрын

​@@megv7481the punishment was reflecting and reviewing.... She almost had it.... Everything she did was great except there were no actual consequences. It'll be a rude awakening in society for him when there are still consequences after reflection and apologizing

@ders972

Ай бұрын

​@@megv7481normally I would never tell someone how to treat their own children but she is posting this like a smug tutorial. She needs humility.