This definitely confirmed I’m not ready to have kids cause I would’ve just cried with him 🤷🏽♀️
@tarawright1287
3 ай бұрын
Nothing wrong with that
@echo4165
3 ай бұрын
To be honest sometimes that is what you do and theirs nothing wrong with that, if anything adults having big emotions too shows kids it’s okay to have big emotions and how you eventually regulate yourself is a great modeling opportunity to show your child what healthy emotional regulation looks like
@maryuhh89
3 ай бұрын
When they see you cry they stop and give you a hug. 😢 freaking angels
@echo4165
3 ай бұрын
@@maryuhh89 those are the days you cherish because you know you’ve done something right
@deathbloom27
3 ай бұрын
Yeah that's valid 😂 had I been doing this parenting thing alone like some of these amazing people out here then I'd have just been crying constantly. Just no end to the tears.
@ironman_5462 ай бұрын
There would be no hate in this world if all parents treated their children this way. Thank you for giving me hope
@person6768
2 ай бұрын
These are the kids that grow up and expect you to take everything they throw at you. This seems nice now but when he's screaming at people in McDonald's because they messed up it won't be cute.
@thetravelingmaid
2 ай бұрын
Facts. Their self esteem would be intact.
@marissa._
2 ай бұрын
@@person6768 Then don't have them. Problem solved. 🤷
@Jennifer-gr7hn
2 ай бұрын
it involves people when they are SINGLE, working on their wounds before marrying. That's the way.
@janiyahale6878
2 ай бұрын
@@person6768 She is teaching him to recognize and communicate his needs to prevent big emotions from leading to negative actions.
@justjosie89632 ай бұрын
That boy's smile represents the joy of being understood.....and loved.
@magorzatamargaret294
2 ай бұрын
This boy is too small to recognize this and HE needs first of all HUGS at that age. And his mother dont understand this basic rules...
@mixedlag
Ай бұрын
@@magorzatamargaret294 Oh please. She did a better job at handling this than most parents. He's not too small to feel the acknowledgement she gave him.
@WaterFountain
Ай бұрын
@@magorzatamargaret294 I've seen it with people around me when kids start acting out or crying real loud the parents getting annoyed and ignoring them. Some go as far as hitting them while asking them to stop crying. (Yes, it's sadly normal here) What she did was definitely a lot better than all the people I've seen dealing with kids.
@magorzatamargaret294
Ай бұрын
@@WaterFountain get to know what is an OVERTON WINDOW....because nowadays it is used in many different areas of life to fool people...and what is more to change people thinking for the one that is enforced from the top down...and is not necessarily correct and good.
@shaylacrossland1475
Ай бұрын
@@magorzatamargaret294That makes no sense. She handled it perfectly and with plenty of love. A whole lot of it.
@chrismetz71082 ай бұрын
Honestly, I wish us adults would speak to each other with this level of empathy and kindness.
@Emper0rH0rde
2 ай бұрын
Especially if we disagree politically
@SamoSjena
Ай бұрын
I made an experiment of doing so actually. So I speak to everyone who is upset with me or something else like she does with this child. Made MY life 100x easier! Would recommend, 10/10. So I guess we should all start at ourselves 😅
@mystosplosion
Ай бұрын
*Hug*
@martynatyna1111
Ай бұрын
Right💓
@youngamer6297
Ай бұрын
Here your blancket ❤😊
@Gossdo3 ай бұрын
She is so soothing with her kids. She is very intuned with their feelings. It's nice to listen to her talk to them. ❤
@darleneachille491
2 ай бұрын
🙏🏽❤️
@susancohen8009
2 ай бұрын
They are either tired, hungry or want to Play,Bless the Family
@jyotsnamuppala2888
2 ай бұрын
First of all she should hug the child. The child wants mamas hug.
@shaylacrossland1475
Ай бұрын
@@jyotsnamuppala2888She gave plenty of love and understanding.
@dimitrap2505
Ай бұрын
@jyotsnamuppala2888 when you hug the kid while throwing a tantrum you promote the tantrum. You need to stay calm and show him how to control big emotions, and when he manages to actually control them, when he laughs or stays calm and communicates then you hug him. You reward when the kid learns something new, cooperates and manages his emotions. The mom here does a great job, the kid will be more mature than other adults in his life.
@teslayogini4322 ай бұрын
I think this whole world would change if all parents were calm like this.
@lisamoscow8833
2 ай бұрын
🥹
@davidcambero7190
2 ай бұрын
I'm great with you
@marissa._
2 ай бұрын
It'd be better if they just didn't have kids in the first place. 🤷 They never asked to be here.
@TonyToad22
2 ай бұрын
💯💯
@annakleopatrabergendy9765
2 ай бұрын
Most of them wish to be but lack the resources and overall well-being to do so. The reality of most parents is sleep deprivation and constant financial stress. Hard to be this calm. Every day goes a bit differently.
@theSoftScenter2 ай бұрын
So great that she turned his mood around before putting him to bed. So many parents don't know how to do this and put their kids to bed and let them cry themselves to sleep. This is so much healthier for both the child and the parent. Bravo and kudos.
@andzelina129
Ай бұрын
Wystarczy przytulić,dziecko potrzebuje miłości matczynej. Nie umiałabym tak maleńkiego dziecka zostawić w łóżeczku z zadowalaczem w postaci smoczka. Oczywiście pięknie spokój mamy najważniejszy,gdybyśmy weszli w flustracje razem z dzueckiem to jestesmy na jego poziomie sami wtedy jesteśmy niedojrzałym dorosłym ale tutaj brawo spokoj i opanowanie ale ten dystans i tresura to nic dobrego one będą wszystko robić by zadowolić mamę i tak będą szły przez życie. Mało miłości w tym wszystkim.
@MessagesFromAurora
Ай бұрын
what distance, she is literally holding him the whole time
@brynne77
Ай бұрын
So, it's really important for the parent to talk calmly to a toddler like this when they're crying like that, even if they're really loud before putting them to bed?
@riorangerz
Ай бұрын
yes. 100%. THIS. it is SO important to not let your child cry themselves to sleep wondering what they ever did wrong. its important to comfort anf to understand, calm them down. it is a parents duty.
@riorangerz
Ай бұрын
@@brynne77correct!!!!
@laailahaillallah_h2 ай бұрын
All I notice is how Mama's tank is full so she could help with such nurture. So inspiring.. thank you
@aliceignis
2 ай бұрын
That's an important point! I want to be like that all the time, but I just can't when I am stressed from all the things on my shoulders or sad because of marital problems. My tank is often empty and I just can't behave in the right way. I keep on giving my best and working on myself. I hope I can be always that calm and empathic, soon!
@Golden_Queen_888
2 ай бұрын
@@aliceignisu start to fill it up alittle bit by not blaming ur self.. u do the best u can & u appreciate urself for that & for the fact that u want improvement.. and if u could.. u would! That’s a good person right there.. Taking away the guilt, shame & harshness with self will give u plenty of fuel 💕✨💖
@zeekachu000
2 ай бұрын
@@aliceignisI feel EXACTLY like that.... My husband doesn't give me any attention and so I've been depressed for past 4 months. We've had conversations on it but he hasn't changed much so I've stopped wanting or expecting..... My tank is very empty now.... 😔
@bonniepaora8664
Ай бұрын
@@zeekachu000honey, its time for the ultimatum. Tell him exactly what you need him to do, and how often, and that if he cant do that, then you cant stay with him. A relationship is supposed to support your mental health, not deteriorate it
@shaylacrossland1475
Ай бұрын
@@zeekachu000You sound like a very loving and kind person and you deserve better than what you are being given it sounds like. I hope it's ok to say that.
@ReapTheWhirlwind2 ай бұрын
Acknowledging a child's emotions is so important. Lil guy needed help deciding to take a nap and his mom let him know that everything he needs, including her, were available. ❤
@brynne77
17 күн бұрын
Ok, but what if his binky wasn't available? What if it was lost?
@SLEMPY2732 ай бұрын
Every child should experience this kind of love and tenderness.❤
@SaystheTruth3
Ай бұрын
Lol! On occasion... Times have changed, people divorced,& relationships failed
@dianeclayton49362 ай бұрын
This interaction warms my heart! This is how healthy tiny humans should be supported. Well done mom!
@darleneachille491
2 ай бұрын
Amen!!!‼️
@Muffinheadme2 ай бұрын
I'm glad I learned these methods in parenting at a young age. How to love and support your little, and adult children their whole life long. I'm 72, and now my children have grown children, and the love and peaceful discipline remain. I have amazing kids and 10 grandkids !!! Hopefully this compassionate way of discipline will continue for another 72 years.😅
@ollie85002 ай бұрын
I can confirm that this feeling never goes away when I’m tired
@millie_n11
2 ай бұрын
Where's our hugs and blanket... 😭
@21CCommunIT
2 ай бұрын
@@millie_n11 Aww, man... ain't *that* the truth...! 🤔😢
@heezypeasy86112 ай бұрын
First of all, that sweet boy is absolutely adorable. Secondly, momma you are killin it. You handled that so well. I admire your ability to stay so calm and soothing.
@MrCJ-qz9dl
2 ай бұрын
Would you expect her to lose her cool while being filmed for TikTok? It would spark outrage.
@randomvintagefilm273
2 ай бұрын
@MrCJ-qz9dl She isn't the type to lose her cool. She is consistently sweet and her baby feels safe with her
@MrCJ-qz9dl
2 ай бұрын
@@randomvintagefilm273 That's good to know.
@shaylacrossland1475
Ай бұрын
@@MrCJ-qz9dlIt's pretty obvious she's not the type to lose her cool even off of tiktok or KZread.
@MrCJ-qz9dl
Ай бұрын
@@shaylacrossland1475 Nothing is obvious if you don't know a person. Some people are smart enough to stage *anything* .
@hermonghermay54222 ай бұрын
She is full of Grace with take care of her kids. They are so lucky.
@sidraarshad83972 ай бұрын
I loved his laugh and comfort he felt, because mummy realised wht he is going through❤❤
@elenatramsti51763 ай бұрын
Mom handled this perfectly.
@leeluvslife
2 ай бұрын
I'd just take him to bed.
@lindaa24373 ай бұрын
Such kind and gentle mommy soothes her baby so fast! 💕 💕💕💕💕💕
@angelaworld53832 ай бұрын
If only all kids were treated this way, they could have a lot more better relationship with their parents… And yes, the world would DEFINITELY be a better place
@natemorgan1996
Ай бұрын
Ramen to that, sadly that isn't always the case with most people
@lenajane595Ай бұрын
The way he looks up at his mama 😭❤️ I’ll be honest, I’ve never wanted kids, not because I don’t like them - I think they’re adorable - but just because I love just taking care of myself. Seeing this though, damn, that kind of love is so beautiful
@Siddharth-Aerospace2 ай бұрын
Every mother should be like this 😊. Not every couple deserve kids but All kids deserve good parents .
@tonilehman62543 ай бұрын
I love how you parent River so calmly. I wish all parents handled their children in this loving manner.❤❤
@annabrahamson4320
2 ай бұрын
Remember this is KZread, you are only seeing the good outcomes only the best.
@9a_03_alishaturuk82 ай бұрын
These young parents will give a positive future generations to this world because they know handling traumas is one of the most difficult thing ❤
@natemorgan1996
Ай бұрын
Fingers crossed
@breathe82142 ай бұрын
Even I felt soothed😂😂
@maryjay78332 ай бұрын
Your method is great ; All parents should behave like you 🥺
@janellerudloff50732 ай бұрын
Currently 25 weeks pregnant with my first and it’s a boy!!! and watching these give me hope and this is teaching me a lot about validating my son’s feels and remaining calm. I needed to see this!
@FionaIngrid
2 ай бұрын
Congratulations! :)
@silkecarina991
2 ай бұрын
Im so happy about people like you. Slowly but steady the world will change into better
@1josi3
2 ай бұрын
Im in week 38 with my first, its also a boy and I love to watch those Videos, its helping me to be a better mom
@Mushroom321-
Ай бұрын
Congratulations! 🎉🎉🎉
@brynne77
Ай бұрын
Agreed and so did I :)
@justovaccu77682 ай бұрын
They get overwhelmed by the day just like we still do! And even as adults this is our heaven. Our bed and comfort.
@Mushroom321-
Ай бұрын
Right!!😊😊😮
@brynne77
17 күн бұрын
And also someone to give us a nice, big hug.
@mohammedyasin88172 ай бұрын
Not every parent has the ability to turn a negative into a positive... but when dealing with innocent children it's so important as it's less about what the child does and more about whay you do in situations. Well done & keep up the positivity. 👍😊
@robyndismon394
2 ай бұрын
yes they DO have the ability. but for so many its overlooked, diminished or even ignored Bcz abrasive, ugly and violent reactions are just far too common AND convenient
@brynne77
29 күн бұрын
@@robyndismon394 I can understand why mohammed might say that, for example if the parent has had a bad day, it might not be easy for him or her to be calm and talk to their toddler in a calm manner like she's doing, but I think all parents need to make a big point in doing what you said and keeping calm so they can talk to their child calmly to make him feel better.
@bonniescanlan87723 ай бұрын
So sweet when he smiles as you lay him down precious
@betford22 ай бұрын
I like this mom. ❤️
@jadeamerie892 ай бұрын
Nothing like a mothers love 💖 mothers heal , grow and nurture 🫶🏾💫
@trishervin3331
2 ай бұрын
Well ... Some do .... 😮
@CrushnickAngel2 ай бұрын
you will know how hard it is to be calm in that situation when you become a parent. She did it so great here
@ChannieTypeO-3 ай бұрын
You are right. We do this with our toddler often. Works.
@lindas37953 ай бұрын
Lucky baby to have a patience and well prepared with strong positive reactions. Salute to mommy🫡. Tq for the tips❤.
@tiffanysalling42722 ай бұрын
I suddenly want a nap so much that I started crying. That kid is such a sweetie - what a great way to help him with processing his emotions. Awesome job mom.
@elieenm43912 ай бұрын
Loving Mother with alot of patience and so much love. God Bless her
@davinahicks67642 ай бұрын
Good mom with listening skills!!! ❤
@karenemberley57862 ай бұрын
Refreshing to see a video of a mother comforting her crying baby. Most just laugh because for some reason they think it's hilarious.Good job Mom
@crystal-matthew4.4Ай бұрын
That look in his eyes as you lay him down 🥰. You mommy are the best thing in the word for him ❤️❤️🙏🏼
@manojtiwary68912 ай бұрын
Lovely caring momma and sweet cute boy. He understands telepathy of mommas not crying😮 by sweet communication. 😮
@Space_Princess3 ай бұрын
I love this ❤ it brought tears to my eyes because when i was a kid my brother and i used to get told off for showing emotions and we got punished. We would get told we cant have want we want/need and just have to suffer until we are allowed it because we were the child and they were the adults. Seeing parents like this teaching kids how to take care of their own needs and how to regulate is so beautiful 🥲 most people say this is what makes kids grow up to be snowflakes but actually it doesn't. we need more parents like this 🙏🏻💕
@RubyShelton-nf4mb
3 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experiences. I love how there she is for him. He can see and probably feel he has her full attention in a good way. Sometimes comfort is in tone and simple attention.
@alicechamberlain64113 ай бұрын
He’s so adorable and a good boy, tired boy !
@Ranoo8572 ай бұрын
Thank you for raising beautiful well mannered children ❤
@donnaflowers2007Ай бұрын
That was adorable. May God always protect him and the entire family. It made me cry.❤🙋♀️
@alphapbet3 ай бұрын
The Big nod from him just got me!
@randycarson34762 ай бұрын
What a great mama It knows how to handle your child when he's really tired and cranky love her
@tinapadilla47552 ай бұрын
Mom, very well done. All is well. ❤
@MozartHerbert27 күн бұрын
His beautiful smile and giggles at the end when you are putting him to slepp are so adorable 🥺🤏🏻🥰
@SaHayes-it2uw3 ай бұрын
I love how you love him and are so patient.
@MsJoyce312022 ай бұрын
Talking to him makes him laugh! 😊
@gloriabort28792 ай бұрын
Such a loving Mom. God bless.
@karen.island36973 ай бұрын
What a great mommy you are! ❤
@Saulat_zulfiqarkhan3 ай бұрын
This world is teeming with tiny angels, may Allah grant this baby a healthy and prosperous life, Ameen.
@Abu_Md_Numan22 күн бұрын
She is giving positive emotions, that good
@debbiewear78232 ай бұрын
You are a good mom I thought the little boy was so happy and cute to take a nap. You made the nap sound so cozy ❤️☺️❤️☺️
@Testimonials8432 ай бұрын
Yessssss validation is super important forr kids. It makes them feel safe and heard
@elysandjojo58592 ай бұрын
She is so patient, great job Moms 👍👍
@piekop41482 ай бұрын
Raise kids and put them on social media at all times! Great parenting 👌
@user-ym3no3ve9t2 ай бұрын
I love her calmness. The baby feels it!😊
@Sayspace2 ай бұрын
I don't have my own kids but I definitely love the way you raise your children. That's the way I would want to raise mine. If I ever have any thank you for the content because it does speak volumes
@lovelylibra876513 күн бұрын
These are going to be the sweetest, most well-adjusted people. You're doing an amazing job, mom.
@hockeymomWA26 күн бұрын
Mama understands that these big emotions come out due to physical needs. Being so calm and able to understand what her children need is such an amazing skill.❤
@Anita-pi9ip2 ай бұрын
These are future people who won't need therapy. Thank you Mom ❤
@ElizabethBallesteros-mo1zi3 ай бұрын
He is so adorable and cute 🥰
@sunnyquinn3888Ай бұрын
Amazing, as soon as she started talking happily to him, he calmed right down and started smiling and giggling!
@philiptromp2312 ай бұрын
Master level. Those kids gonna do really well in life! Great Mum! ❤
@SerenEnfys2 ай бұрын
Oooh this baby will grow up to have such a healthy, secure attachment! 🤩 lucky him 🥹
@jenrolo49502 ай бұрын
Beautiful to watch so much love and patience ❤
@MochiColorsZanosАй бұрын
The way he looks at her as she laid him down. Pure trust and the feeling of being loved 💛 Melted my heart 💛💫
@PrettyPinkGirlАй бұрын
guys she’s such a good mom ❤
@persiandrum98712 ай бұрын
What a great example this mother is. Absolutely wonderful. God bless the family.
@rmdimples7533 ай бұрын
I am sorry its off the topic but why people let babies overuse binkies, most toddlers i have seen on internet have an overbite why make their little life difficult . Maybe there is something that i dont know but we grew up without it and no one in ny family have any problems with bites or jaw formation
@Lea-bk3lx2 ай бұрын
The joy of being understood. Love it🥰
@ChineduOparaАй бұрын
I don't remember my daughter ever crying like this. 99% of my memories with her are smiles ,kisses, and fun. Our brains are amazing at selective amnesia!
@SDionne2 ай бұрын
Not sure how I got this video in my feed but I’m so glad I did. I have a 1 and a 3 year old….and I need this! Thank you!!!❤
@karlakrizek82122 ай бұрын
I wish that every baby would have such patient a loving mom. But many do not unfortunately.
@sumayahzadran7587Ай бұрын
Much love for this little angel. ❤❤ Thank you for being so good to children. I slowly get back hope into humanity when I see people treating their children well.
@exiromero759716 күн бұрын
I love how she given to her baby what she promised to him 🙏🏼is a lesson for the baby too.❣️
@jenniferlambert55813 ай бұрын
Hes a baby not a toddler!!!! Love your babies good grief
@anitapienaar73553 ай бұрын
You are amazing
@user-vl6zc6dx5j2 ай бұрын
Thank you for teaching us the correct way. Loved it!
@francestaylor91562 ай бұрын
I never found the toddler years difficult. Routine, proper planning and understanding triggers made for a wonderful experience. The toddler years are actually my favorite.
@HalfNHalf.
2 ай бұрын
I totally agree. Once you get in that routine, life is easy
@ladyvanilla33 ай бұрын
This video is amazing
@evanfrancisca967421 күн бұрын
That's a happy child growing up.We need more of them amd their loving parents
@jakj72732 ай бұрын
I wish when this kid grows up and looks at this clip he will know nobody loves him like his mom. Thanks Mom!
@maryuhh893 ай бұрын
I needed you 32 years ago 😭😭😭😭😭
@carolhunt2023
3 ай бұрын
I needed her 62 years ago. What an amazing mother. Will use this video to mother my own inner child. Thank you.
@ms79533 ай бұрын
😂Watch out for "trigger words" though. I've known some little ones if you said "tired" or "take nap" would move from big emotions to hysteria because they recognized the trajectory towards going to bed and they hated to go to bed.🙄But Sweet Momma here, good job.🙂🙂
@elisabetta447818 күн бұрын
To be a mother is a lifelong responsibility. It never ends ❤
@toniangelo555Ай бұрын
Everyone needs this female angel as a mom❤
@lauracofman71283 ай бұрын
Please allow the feelings.
@MaryBethKissel3 ай бұрын
Excellent mom....love everywhere !❤❤❤❤
@royalmeredith36952 ай бұрын
Ma'am, you are doing a great service to the community by sharing your valuable knowledge on PARENTING. God bless you and your family!
@MaryamIskanderАй бұрын
Warms my heart, your videos are like therapy to my childhood trauma. Thank you for being a good role model Olivia.🙂 Best wishes for you and your family.🌼
@angiejohnrc26273 ай бұрын
There are more acceptable emotions than just happy. What you are modeling says happy is the only emotion you can have. You can calm you tired baby with the appropriate emotional reaction, like empathy.
@retagorman43513 ай бұрын
He wants hugs. She holds him back. Not so much.
@KiAkKiErAlAАй бұрын
Enchanted by love shining in the baby eyes toward his mother.
@Nelson_Swamp2 ай бұрын
This was a seriously awesome display of how to model, acknowledge, and manage the emotional peaks and volleys of our youngsters. Bravo.
@michelepayne35463 ай бұрын
Yes, it's great that you were calm with him. What we don't see is all the setup to take advantage of this filming session. We don't see where the fussing started and then escalated to the point of making your filmable moment. Be real parents, not content makers.
@geoffcaflisch1352
3 ай бұрын
Someone may benefit from this clip and I think that's very helpful.
@swatipai1683 ай бұрын
Why no hug or physical affection. Mine used to calm down with a hug.
@Cruella_DG
3 ай бұрын
She did hug and kiss him
@WaiferThyme
2 ай бұрын
Mummy did a cuddle and a kiss after making sure he knew he was being heard and his needs understood.
@emilynunyabusiness4568
2 ай бұрын
She did, but even if she didn’t, he looks perfectly happy and loved.
@kaladwarakanath5503
2 ай бұрын
@@emilynunyabusiness4568A hug definitely helps.
@Azmina_the_warlock
Ай бұрын
Did we watch the same video? she clearly gave physical affection plus we didn't see what happened between the kitchen and the bedroom.
@user-bq7ci9px9w2 ай бұрын
I love children's smiles, laughter and cuteness. I love them so much 😘👶❤️😍 What beautiful children and that beautiful laugh, you made my day
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This definitely confirmed I’m not ready to have kids cause I would’ve just cried with him 🤷🏽♀️
@tarawright1287
3 ай бұрын
Nothing wrong with that
@echo4165
3 ай бұрын
To be honest sometimes that is what you do and theirs nothing wrong with that, if anything adults having big emotions too shows kids it’s okay to have big emotions and how you eventually regulate yourself is a great modeling opportunity to show your child what healthy emotional regulation looks like
@maryuhh89
3 ай бұрын
When they see you cry they stop and give you a hug. 😢 freaking angels
@echo4165
3 ай бұрын
@@maryuhh89 those are the days you cherish because you know you’ve done something right
@deathbloom27
3 ай бұрын
Yeah that's valid 😂 had I been doing this parenting thing alone like some of these amazing people out here then I'd have just been crying constantly. Just no end to the tears.
There would be no hate in this world if all parents treated their children this way. Thank you for giving me hope
@person6768
2 ай бұрын
These are the kids that grow up and expect you to take everything they throw at you. This seems nice now but when he's screaming at people in McDonald's because they messed up it won't be cute.
@thetravelingmaid
2 ай бұрын
Facts. Their self esteem would be intact.
@marissa._
2 ай бұрын
@@person6768 Then don't have them. Problem solved. 🤷
@Jennifer-gr7hn
2 ай бұрын
it involves people when they are SINGLE, working on their wounds before marrying. That's the way.
@janiyahale6878
2 ай бұрын
@@person6768 She is teaching him to recognize and communicate his needs to prevent big emotions from leading to negative actions.
That boy's smile represents the joy of being understood.....and loved.
@magorzatamargaret294
2 ай бұрын
This boy is too small to recognize this and HE needs first of all HUGS at that age. And his mother dont understand this basic rules...
@mixedlag
Ай бұрын
@@magorzatamargaret294 Oh please. She did a better job at handling this than most parents. He's not too small to feel the acknowledgement she gave him.
@WaterFountain
Ай бұрын
@@magorzatamargaret294 I've seen it with people around me when kids start acting out or crying real loud the parents getting annoyed and ignoring them. Some go as far as hitting them while asking them to stop crying. (Yes, it's sadly normal here) What she did was definitely a lot better than all the people I've seen dealing with kids.
@magorzatamargaret294
Ай бұрын
@@WaterFountain get to know what is an OVERTON WINDOW....because nowadays it is used in many different areas of life to fool people...and what is more to change people thinking for the one that is enforced from the top down...and is not necessarily correct and good.
@shaylacrossland1475
Ай бұрын
@@magorzatamargaret294That makes no sense. She handled it perfectly and with plenty of love. A whole lot of it.
Honestly, I wish us adults would speak to each other with this level of empathy and kindness.
@Emper0rH0rde
2 ай бұрын
Especially if we disagree politically
@SamoSjena
Ай бұрын
I made an experiment of doing so actually. So I speak to everyone who is upset with me or something else like she does with this child. Made MY life 100x easier! Would recommend, 10/10. So I guess we should all start at ourselves 😅
@mystosplosion
Ай бұрын
*Hug*
@martynatyna1111
Ай бұрын
Right💓
@youngamer6297
Ай бұрын
Here your blancket ❤😊
She is so soothing with her kids. She is very intuned with their feelings. It's nice to listen to her talk to them. ❤
@darleneachille491
2 ай бұрын
🙏🏽❤️
@susancohen8009
2 ай бұрын
They are either tired, hungry or want to Play,Bless the Family
@jyotsnamuppala2888
2 ай бұрын
First of all she should hug the child. The child wants mamas hug.
@shaylacrossland1475
Ай бұрын
@@jyotsnamuppala2888She gave plenty of love and understanding.
@dimitrap2505
Ай бұрын
@jyotsnamuppala2888 when you hug the kid while throwing a tantrum you promote the tantrum. You need to stay calm and show him how to control big emotions, and when he manages to actually control them, when he laughs or stays calm and communicates then you hug him. You reward when the kid learns something new, cooperates and manages his emotions. The mom here does a great job, the kid will be more mature than other adults in his life.
I think this whole world would change if all parents were calm like this.
@lisamoscow8833
2 ай бұрын
🥹
@davidcambero7190
2 ай бұрын
I'm great with you
@marissa._
2 ай бұрын
It'd be better if they just didn't have kids in the first place. 🤷 They never asked to be here.
@TonyToad22
2 ай бұрын
💯💯
@annakleopatrabergendy9765
2 ай бұрын
Most of them wish to be but lack the resources and overall well-being to do so. The reality of most parents is sleep deprivation and constant financial stress. Hard to be this calm. Every day goes a bit differently.
So great that she turned his mood around before putting him to bed. So many parents don't know how to do this and put their kids to bed and let them cry themselves to sleep. This is so much healthier for both the child and the parent. Bravo and kudos.
@andzelina129
Ай бұрын
Wystarczy przytulić,dziecko potrzebuje miłości matczynej. Nie umiałabym tak maleńkiego dziecka zostawić w łóżeczku z zadowalaczem w postaci smoczka. Oczywiście pięknie spokój mamy najważniejszy,gdybyśmy weszli w flustracje razem z dzueckiem to jestesmy na jego poziomie sami wtedy jesteśmy niedojrzałym dorosłym ale tutaj brawo spokoj i opanowanie ale ten dystans i tresura to nic dobrego one będą wszystko robić by zadowolić mamę i tak będą szły przez życie. Mało miłości w tym wszystkim.
@MessagesFromAurora
Ай бұрын
what distance, she is literally holding him the whole time
@brynne77
Ай бұрын
So, it's really important for the parent to talk calmly to a toddler like this when they're crying like that, even if they're really loud before putting them to bed?
@riorangerz
Ай бұрын
yes. 100%. THIS. it is SO important to not let your child cry themselves to sleep wondering what they ever did wrong. its important to comfort anf to understand, calm them down. it is a parents duty.
@riorangerz
Ай бұрын
@@brynne77correct!!!!
All I notice is how Mama's tank is full so she could help with such nurture. So inspiring.. thank you
@aliceignis
2 ай бұрын
That's an important point! I want to be like that all the time, but I just can't when I am stressed from all the things on my shoulders or sad because of marital problems. My tank is often empty and I just can't behave in the right way. I keep on giving my best and working on myself. I hope I can be always that calm and empathic, soon!
@Golden_Queen_888
2 ай бұрын
@@aliceignisu start to fill it up alittle bit by not blaming ur self.. u do the best u can & u appreciate urself for that & for the fact that u want improvement.. and if u could.. u would! That’s a good person right there.. Taking away the guilt, shame & harshness with self will give u plenty of fuel 💕✨💖
@zeekachu000
2 ай бұрын
@@aliceignisI feel EXACTLY like that.... My husband doesn't give me any attention and so I've been depressed for past 4 months. We've had conversations on it but he hasn't changed much so I've stopped wanting or expecting..... My tank is very empty now.... 😔
@bonniepaora8664
Ай бұрын
@@zeekachu000honey, its time for the ultimatum. Tell him exactly what you need him to do, and how often, and that if he cant do that, then you cant stay with him. A relationship is supposed to support your mental health, not deteriorate it
@shaylacrossland1475
Ай бұрын
@@zeekachu000You sound like a very loving and kind person and you deserve better than what you are being given it sounds like. I hope it's ok to say that.
Acknowledging a child's emotions is so important. Lil guy needed help deciding to take a nap and his mom let him know that everything he needs, including her, were available. ❤
@brynne77
17 күн бұрын
Ok, but what if his binky wasn't available? What if it was lost?
Every child should experience this kind of love and tenderness.❤
@SaystheTruth3
Ай бұрын
Lol! On occasion... Times have changed, people divorced,& relationships failed
This interaction warms my heart! This is how healthy tiny humans should be supported. Well done mom!
@darleneachille491
2 ай бұрын
Amen!!!‼️
I'm glad I learned these methods in parenting at a young age. How to love and support your little, and adult children their whole life long. I'm 72, and now my children have grown children, and the love and peaceful discipline remain. I have amazing kids and 10 grandkids !!! Hopefully this compassionate way of discipline will continue for another 72 years.😅
I can confirm that this feeling never goes away when I’m tired
@millie_n11
2 ай бұрын
Where's our hugs and blanket... 😭
@21CCommunIT
2 ай бұрын
@@millie_n11 Aww, man... ain't *that* the truth...! 🤔😢
First of all, that sweet boy is absolutely adorable. Secondly, momma you are killin it. You handled that so well. I admire your ability to stay so calm and soothing.
@MrCJ-qz9dl
2 ай бұрын
Would you expect her to lose her cool while being filmed for TikTok? It would spark outrage.
@randomvintagefilm273
2 ай бұрын
@MrCJ-qz9dl She isn't the type to lose her cool. She is consistently sweet and her baby feels safe with her
@MrCJ-qz9dl
2 ай бұрын
@@randomvintagefilm273 That's good to know.
@shaylacrossland1475
Ай бұрын
@@MrCJ-qz9dlIt's pretty obvious she's not the type to lose her cool even off of tiktok or KZread.
@MrCJ-qz9dl
Ай бұрын
@@shaylacrossland1475 Nothing is obvious if you don't know a person. Some people are smart enough to stage *anything* .
She is full of Grace with take care of her kids. They are so lucky.
I loved his laugh and comfort he felt, because mummy realised wht he is going through❤❤
Mom handled this perfectly.
@leeluvslife
2 ай бұрын
I'd just take him to bed.
Such kind and gentle mommy soothes her baby so fast! 💕 💕💕💕💕💕
If only all kids were treated this way, they could have a lot more better relationship with their parents… And yes, the world would DEFINITELY be a better place
@natemorgan1996
Ай бұрын
Ramen to that, sadly that isn't always the case with most people
The way he looks up at his mama 😭❤️ I’ll be honest, I’ve never wanted kids, not because I don’t like them - I think they’re adorable - but just because I love just taking care of myself. Seeing this though, damn, that kind of love is so beautiful
Every mother should be like this 😊. Not every couple deserve kids but All kids deserve good parents .
I love how you parent River so calmly. I wish all parents handled their children in this loving manner.❤❤
@annabrahamson4320
2 ай бұрын
Remember this is KZread, you are only seeing the good outcomes only the best.
These young parents will give a positive future generations to this world because they know handling traumas is one of the most difficult thing ❤
@natemorgan1996
Ай бұрын
Fingers crossed
Even I felt soothed😂😂
Your method is great ; All parents should behave like you 🥺
Currently 25 weeks pregnant with my first and it’s a boy!!! and watching these give me hope and this is teaching me a lot about validating my son’s feels and remaining calm. I needed to see this!
@FionaIngrid
2 ай бұрын
Congratulations! :)
@silkecarina991
2 ай бұрын
Im so happy about people like you. Slowly but steady the world will change into better
@1josi3
2 ай бұрын
Im in week 38 with my first, its also a boy and I love to watch those Videos, its helping me to be a better mom
@Mushroom321-
Ай бұрын
Congratulations! 🎉🎉🎉
@brynne77
Ай бұрын
Agreed and so did I :)
They get overwhelmed by the day just like we still do! And even as adults this is our heaven. Our bed and comfort.
@Mushroom321-
Ай бұрын
Right!!😊😊😮
@brynne77
17 күн бұрын
And also someone to give us a nice, big hug.
Not every parent has the ability to turn a negative into a positive... but when dealing with innocent children it's so important as it's less about what the child does and more about whay you do in situations. Well done & keep up the positivity. 👍😊
@robyndismon394
2 ай бұрын
yes they DO have the ability. but for so many its overlooked, diminished or even ignored Bcz abrasive, ugly and violent reactions are just far too common AND convenient
@brynne77
29 күн бұрын
@@robyndismon394 I can understand why mohammed might say that, for example if the parent has had a bad day, it might not be easy for him or her to be calm and talk to their toddler in a calm manner like she's doing, but I think all parents need to make a big point in doing what you said and keeping calm so they can talk to their child calmly to make him feel better.
So sweet when he smiles as you lay him down precious
I like this mom. ❤️
Nothing like a mothers love 💖 mothers heal , grow and nurture 🫶🏾💫
@trishervin3331
2 ай бұрын
Well ... Some do .... 😮
you will know how hard it is to be calm in that situation when you become a parent. She did it so great here
You are right. We do this with our toddler often. Works.
Lucky baby to have a patience and well prepared with strong positive reactions. Salute to mommy🫡. Tq for the tips❤.
I suddenly want a nap so much that I started crying. That kid is such a sweetie - what a great way to help him with processing his emotions. Awesome job mom.
Loving Mother with alot of patience and so much love. God Bless her
Good mom with listening skills!!! ❤
Refreshing to see a video of a mother comforting her crying baby. Most just laugh because for some reason they think it's hilarious.Good job Mom
That look in his eyes as you lay him down 🥰. You mommy are the best thing in the word for him ❤️❤️🙏🏼
Lovely caring momma and sweet cute boy. He understands telepathy of mommas not crying😮 by sweet communication. 😮
I love this ❤ it brought tears to my eyes because when i was a kid my brother and i used to get told off for showing emotions and we got punished. We would get told we cant have want we want/need and just have to suffer until we are allowed it because we were the child and they were the adults. Seeing parents like this teaching kids how to take care of their own needs and how to regulate is so beautiful 🥲 most people say this is what makes kids grow up to be snowflakes but actually it doesn't. we need more parents like this 🙏🏻💕
@RubyShelton-nf4mb
3 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experiences. I love how there she is for him. He can see and probably feel he has her full attention in a good way. Sometimes comfort is in tone and simple attention.
He’s so adorable and a good boy, tired boy !
Thank you for raising beautiful well mannered children ❤
That was adorable. May God always protect him and the entire family. It made me cry.❤🙋♀️
The Big nod from him just got me!
What a great mama It knows how to handle your child when he's really tired and cranky love her
Mom, very well done. All is well. ❤
His beautiful smile and giggles at the end when you are putting him to slepp are so adorable 🥺🤏🏻🥰
I love how you love him and are so patient.
Talking to him makes him laugh! 😊
Such a loving Mom. God bless.
What a great mommy you are! ❤
This world is teeming with tiny angels, may Allah grant this baby a healthy and prosperous life, Ameen.
She is giving positive emotions, that good
You are a good mom I thought the little boy was so happy and cute to take a nap. You made the nap sound so cozy ❤️☺️❤️☺️
Yessssss validation is super important forr kids. It makes them feel safe and heard
She is so patient, great job Moms 👍👍
Raise kids and put them on social media at all times! Great parenting 👌
I love her calmness. The baby feels it!😊
I don't have my own kids but I definitely love the way you raise your children. That's the way I would want to raise mine. If I ever have any thank you for the content because it does speak volumes
These are going to be the sweetest, most well-adjusted people. You're doing an amazing job, mom.
Mama understands that these big emotions come out due to physical needs. Being so calm and able to understand what her children need is such an amazing skill.❤
These are future people who won't need therapy. Thank you Mom ❤
He is so adorable and cute 🥰
Amazing, as soon as she started talking happily to him, he calmed right down and started smiling and giggling!
Master level. Those kids gonna do really well in life! Great Mum! ❤
Oooh this baby will grow up to have such a healthy, secure attachment! 🤩 lucky him 🥹
Beautiful to watch so much love and patience ❤
The way he looks at her as she laid him down. Pure trust and the feeling of being loved 💛 Melted my heart 💛💫
guys she’s such a good mom ❤
What a great example this mother is. Absolutely wonderful. God bless the family.
I am sorry its off the topic but why people let babies overuse binkies, most toddlers i have seen on internet have an overbite why make their little life difficult . Maybe there is something that i dont know but we grew up without it and no one in ny family have any problems with bites or jaw formation
The joy of being understood. Love it🥰
I don't remember my daughter ever crying like this. 99% of my memories with her are smiles ,kisses, and fun. Our brains are amazing at selective amnesia!
Not sure how I got this video in my feed but I’m so glad I did. I have a 1 and a 3 year old….and I need this! Thank you!!!❤
I wish that every baby would have such patient a loving mom. But many do not unfortunately.
Much love for this little angel. ❤❤ Thank you for being so good to children. I slowly get back hope into humanity when I see people treating their children well.
I love how she given to her baby what she promised to him 🙏🏼is a lesson for the baby too.❣️
Hes a baby not a toddler!!!! Love your babies good grief
You are amazing
Thank you for teaching us the correct way. Loved it!
I never found the toddler years difficult. Routine, proper planning and understanding triggers made for a wonderful experience. The toddler years are actually my favorite.
@HalfNHalf.
2 ай бұрын
I totally agree. Once you get in that routine, life is easy
This video is amazing
That's a happy child growing up.We need more of them amd their loving parents
I wish when this kid grows up and looks at this clip he will know nobody loves him like his mom. Thanks Mom!
I needed you 32 years ago 😭😭😭😭😭
@carolhunt2023
3 ай бұрын
I needed her 62 years ago. What an amazing mother. Will use this video to mother my own inner child. Thank you.
😂Watch out for "trigger words" though. I've known some little ones if you said "tired" or "take nap" would move from big emotions to hysteria because they recognized the trajectory towards going to bed and they hated to go to bed.🙄But Sweet Momma here, good job.🙂🙂
To be a mother is a lifelong responsibility. It never ends ❤
Everyone needs this female angel as a mom❤
Please allow the feelings.
Excellent mom....love everywhere !❤❤❤❤
Ma'am, you are doing a great service to the community by sharing your valuable knowledge on PARENTING. God bless you and your family!
Warms my heart, your videos are like therapy to my childhood trauma. Thank you for being a good role model Olivia.🙂 Best wishes for you and your family.🌼
There are more acceptable emotions than just happy. What you are modeling says happy is the only emotion you can have. You can calm you tired baby with the appropriate emotional reaction, like empathy.
He wants hugs. She holds him back. Not so much.
Enchanted by love shining in the baby eyes toward his mother.
This was a seriously awesome display of how to model, acknowledge, and manage the emotional peaks and volleys of our youngsters. Bravo.
Yes, it's great that you were calm with him. What we don't see is all the setup to take advantage of this filming session. We don't see where the fussing started and then escalated to the point of making your filmable moment. Be real parents, not content makers.
@geoffcaflisch1352
3 ай бұрын
Someone may benefit from this clip and I think that's very helpful.
Why no hug or physical affection. Mine used to calm down with a hug.
@Cruella_DG
3 ай бұрын
She did hug and kiss him
@WaiferThyme
2 ай бұрын
Mummy did a cuddle and a kiss after making sure he knew he was being heard and his needs understood.
@emilynunyabusiness4568
2 ай бұрын
She did, but even if she didn’t, he looks perfectly happy and loved.
@kaladwarakanath5503
2 ай бұрын
@@emilynunyabusiness4568A hug definitely helps.
@Azmina_the_warlock
Ай бұрын
Did we watch the same video? she clearly gave physical affection plus we didn't see what happened between the kitchen and the bedroom.
I love children's smiles, laughter and cuteness. I love them so much 😘👶❤️😍 What beautiful children and that beautiful laugh, you made my day