I agree with everything you said. Prayer has definitely helped me with submission lol I have a small testimony 😅 one day my husband hurt my feelings ( I don’t even remember what he said) but the fleshly me wanted to argue but I held my tongue and I prayed a quick prayer “ Lord, please handle him because I want to say something.” My husband went into the prayer closet and came out about an hour later and said that God rebuked him and told him to apologize to his wife. So he hugged me and loved me and I was never so in shock 😂😂😂 God had my back on this one lol

@AnnaDysett

Ай бұрын

I’m obsessed with this story! God is so good!! Just yesterday I was about to angry text my husband because he put the stroller away somewhere I couldn’t get to. Holy Spirit intercepted, and there I was backspacing until I closed my phone 🤣

Thank you for this lovely video! My husband is definitely a "true and faithful servant" for getting up at four a.m. every morning and working hard all day. One thing I do for him is that I pray for him while he is at work, sometimes in the car while running errands, etc. There are days this has made a huge difference for him and there have even been small miracles! Sometimes he comes home and says, " you must have been praying for me today, thank you!" It really warms my heart when he says that!🙂

@AnnaDysett

Ай бұрын

Awww! I can’t think of anything more bonding than that moment! ♥️

You're a real gem. Please continue to upload these beautiful videos. I am a wife trying to conceive and my yearning has drawn me closer to the Lord, after many years of being away. I listen to your videos while I clean my home. I will pray for you, so that your sleep paralysis is there no more. Thank you so much! ❤

@AnnaDysett

Ай бұрын

Thank you so much! I don’t plan on going anywhere as long as this is where Our Father wants me ♥️

Such a beautiful message, something that, as someone who was an atheist and feminist, I’m constantly learning now. ❤

@AnnaDysett

Ай бұрын

Praise for opened eyes 🙌🏻

I had the same spiritual attacks this year !! I even met with my pastor about it!!! What helped me is a made a notes on my phone about Bible verses about not being afraid and God being with me etc. and every night when that happened and I was afraid I would pray and speak these verses out loud!! And then I wrote it on note cards and put next to my bed. I did it for a few weeks, and then one night I know I felt the Holy Spirit and just told to keep praying and don’t stop and my whole body felt warm and tingling, then I felt peace! And it hasn’t happened again since then!! I would love to share the verses for you if you want

@AnnaDysett

Ай бұрын

Prasie God! The Lord did show me Psalm 46:10 after it happened, and it changed my life! But I would also love to know which verses you clung to! Thank you ♥️

@user-mx5xu7tk8m

Ай бұрын

I would also like to know which verses you prayed.

As my kids have gotten older and now becoming teenagers, I feel more and more appreciative of having a strong husband and father figure to hold the line on disciplinary issues, especially with our boys. I wish I hadn’t undermined his efforts so much to discipline them when they were younger. I now see it is a necessary part of parenting, even when they are young, to set the expectations early on. And I find men to generally have an easier time with it because they don’t get so caught up in empathizing and emotions, the way us women do. :)

If you have been having subsequent spiritual attacks I recommend going on a fast! I’ll be praying for you and your family God bless!

@AnnaDysett

Ай бұрын

Thank you so much! I already had it on my heart, and plan to this coming Monday! Hearing someone else suggest it makes me feel more confident in it as well - thank you again!

So thankful for this video! You are changing my life with these thoughts! Thank you for sharing ❤ praying for you in your struggles!

@AnnaDysett

Ай бұрын

So grateful. Thank you, Father! ♥️

I submit to my husband and lean into my feminine nature by allowing him to do things for me. It took me realizing that I don’t have to constantly prove myself in order to be loved. I realized letting him serve me isn’t a sign of weakness on my part and it allows him to express his love for me. ❤

@AnnaDysett

20 күн бұрын

Amen! I love it ♥️

@Mt4evr

13 күн бұрын

This is so beautiful! Something that I am currently struggling with. I feel as though if I can't do it all, I am a failure.

Beautiful. Thank you! I submit to my husband by praising him and bringing to light all that he is good at.

Hi Anna, praying for your low ❤ My low of the week is my lack of energy and my high is staying positive and enjoying the sun ☀️ (we had so much rain recently 😅). I love what you shared in this video, it is an interesting topic that I discovered in a podcast and make me see things differently.

I love to hear that we view and practice submission very similar! I feel that women who have difficulty with submission do not see their husbands as worthy of their respect. I agree that submitting with discipline can be difficult. One other practical way I practice submission is cooking for our family based on his preferences and dietary needs!

I love this!! I’m teaching the 3-6 year olds at Vacation Bible school this week. I’ve been trying to stress that God always hears our prayers. Also that we are never alone, that He is always with us. Praying for your sleep paralysis! Lord comfort Anna and let nothing unclean attack her. 🙏🙏 Amen I use to date a guy that it felt like it got to the point that we were fighting over the feminine side. I knew at that point he wasn’t for me. Great video! God bless you, Anna 🩷

@AnnaDysett

Ай бұрын

Aww how fun! The little ones are so precious in their faith. We teach them, but honestly they teach us more. Thank you so much for your prayers! He has delivered me and taught me so much!

Anna thanks for another thoughtful video God bless you and Family ❤

Praying for you. Thank you for the video, just recently found you. I struggle at times with letting my husband disciple our children sometimes I feel like he is too hard on them, but I have learned to discuss it privately rather than in fount of our children when he is in the middle of the discipline.

I used to argue with my husband in each sentence and had a difference of opinion every single time. Once he was talking, I just listened.... Without interrupting and without correcting him. I just listened and let him finish.. honestly, I felt so feminine and beautiful just being like dat. I got it at that moment. N now do dat more .

Very helpful video ❤Thank you!

Beautiful video! You are inspiring💕 thank you

I'm working on this. God Bless you abd your channel 🙏✝️🩷

Hi Anna! Sleep paralysis can be so scary and disruptive 😩. I experience "night terrors" and with that at times comes sleep paralysis. I dont know what causes them (but they can be terrifying to see i.e. faceless intruders in my room, spiders, opening doors or moving shapes and even small children 😫). Praying alongside you sister! ❤

@sambailie4773

Ай бұрын

Will pray for you sister xx

@kazmcdowell8102

Ай бұрын

@@sambailie4773 thank you ❤️❤️!! Had another one last night!

@mellisugahelenae

13 күн бұрын

🙏kzread.info/dash/bejne/dYCgqJKsgNnVZtI.htmlsi=r1vFX5AVhGfwUbVj

I love your videos and really feel I am learning and gaining so much strength from them❤ thank you! Btw, your blouse or dress is so beautiful, may I ask the brand or where you bought it?

@AnnaDysett

Ай бұрын

I’m so glad and thankful! Thank you so much! I got this top and skirt from the goodwill 😊 I couldn’t afford half the stuff I own if I didn’t buy secondhand. The top is a brand called Chelsea and Violet (I believe sold at Dillard’s) and the skirt is just a high waisted white cotton skirt. It doesn’t have a brand on it. Hope this helps!

Low: -Mood instability and chronic illness issues High: -Going out to the mall w/ my little family and picking up a few gifts for itty bitty's birthday. We had a lot of fun.

@AnnaDysett

18 күн бұрын

Praying for your health, sister ♥️ Aww! That is so much fun! Makes me think of Mathew 7:11 too! 11 If you, then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask him!

Hi Anna, this was so amazing to watch as I've been praying for a husband and wanting to understand Godly marriage and how a wife is to be to a husband, I did not see examples most of my life but God has been teaching me even through other videos like yours so thank you! Regarding sleep paralysis, if you know someone who does deliverance I would recommend seeking deliverance from what is tormenting you, it could be generational or an open dorr somewhere. I have a deliverance ministry so thats why I know it would be good for you to consider, I have not had sleep paralysis but God taught me about it in a dream - pray about God to lead you to a deliverance minister its amazing the freedom that will come from it. ❤

@StrawberryJamJam29

13 күн бұрын

Both me and my mom have had sleep paralysis at different times of our life. It usually happens when our relationship with God gets stronger. My mom has had deliverance and it still happens every once in a while. What has helped was praying before I go to sleep.

The dishwasher story is so heartwarming 🥺

Love this and thank you not a wife yet but learning from others

My parents were married 32 years, and my mom wasn't one to submit. What I saw of marriage growing up was enough to send anyone running the opposite direction. At 52, I raised my daughter, and now I look forward to God bringing my husband to me for us to come together. Raising children isn't for cowards. I agree with you and your husband about spanking. My daughter was eight when I caught her playing with fire. God gave me a brilliant idea: TAKE HER TO A FIREHOUSE. Yeah! I took her to see a fire fighter. She's 21 and still is reluctant to touch fire. The second method of discipline I used was my crazy music. I grew up listening to the androgynous music of the 1980s. KISS, Motley Crue, Ratt, and so on. She hates that music now. I found the threat of mommy's crazy music to be more effective for behavior correction than time out. She knew if she did something I had told her not to, it was mommy's music. I have always received compliments on how well behaved She was in school. Now you know why. Oh, by the way, please pray for me as I am pushing that music out of my life. It's not going to be easy, but it must happen. It had its purpose, and now I am over it. I hope.

@AnnaDysett

Ай бұрын

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@mellisugahelenae

13 күн бұрын

🙏for you from 🇨🇭 . kzread.info/dash/bejne/dYCgqJKsgNnVZtI.htmlsi=r1vFX5AVhGfwUbVj

Anna, another great video, thank you so much! I agree with all of your points and man even after so many years of marriage I still definitely needed this important reminder. Also, satan doesn’t bother with non and lukewarm believers so much but when you’re furthering Gods kingdom, yup, boom there it is…you know what I mean? I’ll be praying about the attacks of the sleep disorder you’re experiencing and asking God to cover you, shield and protect you. ❤

@AnnaDysett

Ай бұрын

I do know what you mean. It reminds me every time that I know I’m on the right track. If Satan is mad, then I must be doing something right. Thank you so much for your prayers! You are such a blessing of encouragement here for me ♥️ a true Titus 2 woman!

Thank you for putting this video together. In since I have been washed in the spirit I am amazed at the amount of people, male and female, that do not know the true meaning of being/having a submissive wife and what it truly means. I know it is because they don’t read the Bible as a daily habit thus not reading the many places that explains what being a submissive wife means for both the wife and husband. God does not want a dishrag for a wife but an intelligent woman who will discuss with her husband and a husband who will listen to his wife in order that he may go to God and come to the correct conclusion in all matters. Anna, you are a kind, gentle, intelligent person and you explain very well. 🙏🏼❤

I love all of these things. I definitely need work with the first and second. I’m so bad about letting my emotions get the best of me. I get so stressed and anxious at work sometimes and I cannot get it to go away. So sometimes it comes home with me. One of the most heartbreaking things I’ve heard was that my husband said sometimes when he comes home and I’m in a bad mood, he just wants to go back to work. It makes me feel like such a failure at being a good wife.

@AnnaDysett

Ай бұрын

That is heartbreaking! Are you praying or worshipping during your stressful times? Or are you trying to handle it with your own control?

@HeatherLaurenCo

Ай бұрын

@@AnnaDysett Honestly, I’m just trying to survive the moment/day. I get so panicked and anxious, breathing, trying not to cry, and taking the next step in my day is all I can focus on. I know I should be relying on the Lord. While I was saved as a child, I am just now taking my relationship with God more serious and prayer is hard for me.

@AnnaDysett

Ай бұрын

@@HeatherLaurenCo Father, I just ask you that you please help Heather with her prayer life. She is struggling to pray to you and we know it’s truly the most powerful tool you give us.. being our accessibility to you. Lord, I pray you show her how simple it is to lean on you. You are so kind and gentle and always present and I ask that you please reveal to her how true that is. Give her strength, wisdom, and self control. Give her peace and gentleness. In Jesus name, Amen. I also encourage you to open your bible today and meditate on Psalm 23:1-4 ♥️

@HeatherLaurenCo

Ай бұрын

@@AnnaDysett thank you Anna ❤️

This is what is a wise way to do it❤

I love you and your videos. Will you please start with the lows first? But we'll pray for you sis!

@AnnaDysett

Ай бұрын

Great feedback! Yes I sure will!

To anyone suffering from sleep paralysis, don't sleep on your back. That helps me so much. I feel it has to do with my oxygen levels sinking. I had a lot of terrible paralysis but it stopped when I started sleep on my side. I don't invalue your experience of it being a spiritual attack though. It is interesting that it happened a lot when I came to Christ as a teenager and also when I slept to christian music. One time I woke up to a psalm sounding like a demon roaring. Still terrifies me to this day. So please consider this advice, as a protective measure that doesn't leave you vulnerable. May God bless you.

@AnnaDysett

Ай бұрын

Oh my! Yes, I agree the back sleeping can be an issue. I have had it on my side, but typically on my back. I have had an experience with a demonic roaring voice like that too! I was trying to scream Jesus when I was younger and the demon was mimicking me screaming Jesus and laughing at the same time. I still remember it so vividly so I know exactly what you are referring to and how it is traumatizing in a way. It was hard for me because I remember everyone saying the name of Jesus would have them running.. but that’s not always the case. Some of them don’t bat an eyelash.

@charlesbotensten

Ай бұрын

Amen! If I wake on my back I immediately go to side or stomach sleep

Anna, you explained a very complicated topic (in our society) very beautifully. Loved all your thoughts on that.❤️✨ Your point like the "Generational Curses" one is soo true cause when I was facing the same situation, people told me you are just acting. And I was all alone there. 🥲 Looking beautiful as usual... 🥰

Hope you feel better soon ❤

@AnnaDysett

Ай бұрын

Thank you! The Lord taught me a lot! Can’t wait to share it with you all!

As a Muslim woman, I love learning from my Christian sisters, I wish to be married one day so I watch these in hopes that in the very near future, I’ll be able to implicate these tips in my marriage life

i just found you , but god bless your sleep , brenda

I like your videos and I appreciate your perspective. I have seasons where I submit and seasons when I don't because my husband makes poor financial decisions. But I still love and appreciate him and try my best to see his authority. Personally we spank as a warning for life in the world. We leave anger out of it for we dont believe it to be a justification. But to mirror how in society if You break laws or hurt somewhere there will be memorable consequences like how spankings are memorable we believe is justified. Some young children forget explanations and verbal warnings quickly like our two youngest. Spankings have been the only thing that helps them remember the rules. But it's not beneficial for all children. Thanks for sharing 😊

A little tip for sleep paralysis (I have narcolepsy so they are one of the symptoms). Try not to sleep with your face facing directly upwards as you are drifting off to sleep. Rest it to the side. It works well for me.

So beautiful!

I am struggling with this lol. As a career woman that is use to being in charge, it is so hard to turn it off when I get home. Especially when I feel like I do everything better or faster lol.

@angelaa.7352

Ай бұрын

Oh and he is not a push over hence the struggle haha 😂

@AnnaDysett

Ай бұрын

🤭 I promise I get it! My husband is the same way.

@estherj.walker8658

Ай бұрын

😂 What I do when I feel I can do it better or faster I think two things #1 do I want my husband to be there for me provide/protect? #2 Am I doing all the things he has asked me? If not why do I want to show off in something small just because I'm impatient with him? Shouldn't I focus on what I need to do first?

I can’t believe someone else experienced this!!!!! I had sleep paralyses 25 years ago, I was wrestling with coming to Christ. I got saved, praise God but thank you for sharing that….. I really thank you. It was a strange season. I will be praying for you sister. I too wanted a masculine husband and so glad I have one. He’s a gentle soul but a proper man. My husband was attracted to me for being a feminine woman who dresses modestly so girls please remember, you’ll attract the right man if you don’t put everything on show (I don’t mean that judgy).

@AnnaDysett

Ай бұрын

Thank you so much! From my short experience here on KZread, demonic attacks in the form of sleep paralysis are all too common when coming to Jesus. Thank you for sharing that it happened to you as well as it build everyone’s confidence in what is happening spiritually!

@sambailie4773

Ай бұрын

@@AnnaDysett Thank you sister x

Praying for you Anna! These attacks just tell me that you are following the Lord’s will for your life and doing exactly what you should be doing and the enemy hates that!! I pray the Lord covers you in His blood to protect you and your family from the enemies attacks and that you continue to be emboldened and preach the Good News to women through your channel 🤍🙏🏼 Highs: my baby and I had our second week appt with our midwives. She was born 7 lbs 3 oz and is already 8 lbs 8 oz! My chunky healthy girl. And I’m recovering well, although I’ve got some things I’d like prayer for… Lows: that being my lady bits are healing but are still rather uncomfortable. I have a yeast infection which is so annoying as my tears heal. Please help pray that goes away so I can feel some relief and not be uncomfortable anymore and feel back to myself fully! That’s literally the last thing bothering me as I recover from birth.

@AnnaDysett

Ай бұрын

Thank you so much for your prayers ♥️ Father, thank you so much for a beautiful and healthy baby girl. We praise you for your breath in her lungs. Lord, we just ask that you please reach out your hand and heal any residual discomforts from the birth. Thank you and we love you so much! In Jesus name, Amen!

@KimisBeautifulLife

Ай бұрын

Amen, thank you my sweet sister in Christ 🤍

Can you share where your top is from, please? ☺️

@AnnaDysett

14 күн бұрын

Brand is called Chelsea and Violet. I picked it up at the goodwill though so I’m not sure if it’s something that’s still available or in season. You may want to check eBay or Poshmark 🤗♥️

Praying for you Anna

@AnnaDysett

Ай бұрын

Thank you so much!

Have you tried writing down everything that's bothering you and putting it in a God box? I recently had a counselor tell me about it. I also spray my feet with magnesium to help sleep.

Praying for you ❤, please pray for me and my marriage

@AnnaDysett

Ай бұрын

Praying that the Lord be glorified in your marriage!

What do you make for breakfast ahead of time and freeze? 😊

As always Thank you.😢as for me is not the same. Yes my husband is a Godly man much more to say a man after God's own heart. Me well I'm lacking in Soo many areas of my life. We have a beautiful 6 yr old daughter whom is being raised Godly, and I'm with you in that my husband has the last word. Just I need a spiritual check up. You are Soo beautiful as you also carry yourself with 2 kids and the way you wait for your husband looking as you are the only thing he is looking forward to see wen he gets home. God bless you continually and bringing us your personal experience to grow in faith with Jesus. Thank you.

@AnnaDysett

Ай бұрын

We are all lacking in some area and that is just where we know we need to pray more ♥️ it sounds like you are really doing great though.

Notice how each of these begin with "I let my husband", even though he has the final say this proves that it is an equal partnership

@GenXQeeenB

Ай бұрын

Marriage is 50/50.

@HMFIH

Ай бұрын

@@GenXQeeenBmarriage is 100%/100% we give all to each other. 🙏🏻

@ArielGonzalez1

27 күн бұрын

"i let my husband" as of they voluntarily submit....

I think sleep paralyses can be also nutrient deficiency. Try eat meat/fish or other animal products to have correct amount of minerals and vitamins plus vegetables/fruits

@AnnaDysett

13 сағат бұрын

Interesting! Something to look into. I eat all those things - and my sleep paralysis laid dormant for a decade when I was living in the world. It wasn’t until I started doing research on Christ that it came back.

HI BEAUTIFUL SISTER, IM A WIDOWED BAPTIST PASTORS WIFE FROM GEORGIA. I COULD USE ALL THE PRAYERS I CAN GET. I. A KZread CREATOR. IT HAS HELPED ME ALOT. OUR OLDEST SON TOOK HIS LIFE. OUR TWINS NEED PRAYERS AS WELL. MAY GOD BLESS YOU BEAUTIFUL SISTER ❤❤❤

@AnnaDysett

Ай бұрын

I’m so glad you are here and we are connected now. Truly, what a heart breaking loss. I am so deeply sorry. Praying for peace and healing for your heart ♥️ Father, please.

@candicethepastorswife7396

Ай бұрын

@@AnnaDysett thank you precious sister, I truly appreciate it. May God bless you

I was wondering if you have or would be willing/able to make a video talking about being a Christian influencer. How you create your content and manage it without getting overwhelmed or overtaken by the worldliness of the platforms I feel a desire to share things I have learned from the Lord in my years of being a wife and mother but I feel so intimidated by how easily these platforms can get someone off track

@AnnaDysett

Ай бұрын

I know exactly what you mean! My suggestion is to pray about it - a lot. I felt the Lord call me to do this, and I prayed for a good while to make sure it was Him. I really didn’t want to come back to any form of social media after quitting many years ago, and the thought of sharing my testimony or being in the public eye made me cringe. But I spent so much time working for Satan on social media, I knew it was time to work for my Father. So pray a lot and ask yourself what your intentions are. Do you want to spread the gospel or do you want to be acknowledged/praised? Would your KZread be ran by your love for God or by your pride? It’s really all about your heart.. but certainly don’t disobey God if you feel He is calling you. In this world, we need more Christian influencers!

You know what the blessing sleep paralyses has done for me? Even though i dont wish sleep paralyses to anyone ever. Its really creepy and it frankly annoys me. But it has been a blessing in the sense that nothing and nobody can tell me that God and the Devil do not exist. And if they do that doesnt change the fact that God is Real and so is the devil. We have seen the enemy in his anger lash at us with these sleep paralysis and its an awesome thing to be able to have supernatural confirmation that we are doing what is right before God. And we also have seen the goodness of God and His Might by the power of His Word and Name. Praise be to Him!! Ive had sleep paralysis for almost childhood. My dad was a pastor, and the devil sure likes to hit for home. But i praise God i had a dad fearful of God and showed me the way. And what to do when i get those attacks. Those annoying attacks. Sometimes he appears to my kid, and I remember what my dad would do, Pray and annoint our home and foreheads with oil and prayer, and mark our homes with Gods Name by our voices. And the devil does leave. Amen. I don’t believe its because we are in sin we experience these things, but sometimes it can happen when we are sensible in our spiritual walk. Its a spiritual walk. God is spirit and so is our enemy. So we are bound to see him in the spiritual realms. Something we are unable to experience these supernatural things when we walk only by sight and flesh, and not by spirit and faith. But we need not to fear for our Lord Jesus Christ has overcame them!!! And we are more than victorious through God Our Lord Jesus Christ❤️ You are not alone Sister ❤️

Hi, Anna! Of course I will pray for you.🙏 Jesus Is Bigger and Stronger than everything and everyone, so He will bless you in Jesus Name. Couldn't agree more with you. Being submissive isn't the same as being a door mat. It's being soft and feminine and wanting the best for your husband and for yourself. I was also blessed with a manly man and it is so good to feel safe and taken care of and in return, loving my husband and trying to do the best I can for him.❤ Have a blessed weekend!

@AnnaDysett

Ай бұрын

Thank you so much for your prayers. I always look forward to your comments as they are always filled with so much wisdom! ♥️

@nunoepaulasantos7839

Ай бұрын

Aww, you are so sweet!🥰 I can say the same about your videos. I always look forward to them!❤

_HI BEAUTIFUL ANNA 💞._

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I love to submit to my husband as a Christian woman because he does his manly duties. God bless you my sister in Christ.

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For those who are coming new into Christianity, we need to make sure we are not in an abusive relationship before we decide to “submit” to our husbands.

@AnnaDysett

4 күн бұрын

Really good point! I regret not prefacing this video a bit now.

Hi! 💕 I sent you a message on Instagram. Loved this video and hope you’re having a good day 😊

thats an interesting view on authority in the home. Yes the husband is the head, the leader and he has many atributes but if you look to that picture that circles the internet about authority in the family, and you read the bible you surely will realise that we are to run the house as we see fit and educate the children. God gave us the authority to teach in the family. Yes we are to obey and respect the leader who's leading the home but we are also to manage and run the home. Remember proverbs 31? shalom!

@AnnaDysett

5 күн бұрын

I don’t disagree with any of what you said! ♥️

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Biblically does it claim its okay to discipline your child by a spanking? Nothing more or abusively but for correction depending on the actions?

@AnnaDysett

Ай бұрын

I believe it does. Here is a great article I found. www.gotquestions.org/disciplining-children.html

@britneydavis704

Ай бұрын

@AnnaDysert thank you so much! I just really want to please God and your videos are very helpful and I don't want to be doing anything God doesn't desire me to do

@AnnaDysett

Ай бұрын

@@britneydavis704 Yes, absolutely! I get it 100%!

I doubt that the Bible was truly divinely inspired, mostly due to the confusion in the church (God is not the author of confusion). However, I do believe that the early Christians and Jews were more interested in righteous living than virtually anyone else who has ever lived, so I am still very interested in what they have to say. Paul says that wives are to submit to their husbands, but Jesus says to love your neighbor as yourself. Loving your neighbor as yourself would seem to mean that any social arrangement should be beneficial for everyone involved. So, in order for Christian teachings to be consistent, it cannot be the case that wives submitting to their husbands is purely for the husband's benefit. I think wives submit to their husbands because it's the husband's job to take care of her, and it's hard to take care of someone who won't do anything that you say. It seems to me that men are better suited to dealing with material problems than women. This is due to the fact that men are bigger and stronger (so are more easily able to physically manipulate the physical environment), they are more logical, and more interested in material things. It seems to me that if there is a dearth of feminine influence, then life might be a bit boring/stale, but a lack of masculine influence means that there will not be food to eat or a roof over your head. I also think that men are in general more interested in righteous living than women (how many women do you know who are philosophers?), so that a man is usually better suited to be a role model for an ideal than a woman. I also think that at the base instinctual level, men desire women for sex, and women desire men for their power. The man wants to own and use the woman as his sex toy and brood mare, and the woman wants to use the man as an ATM, body guard, emotional tampon, etc. The natural relations between the sexes are that men try to deceive women in order to get as much uncommitted sex as possible, and women deceive men in order to try to extract as many resources from them as possible. Romantic love is inherently selfish and uses the other person as an object. I think marriage is the only way to make romantic love into something good, because it means that you voluntarily offer your whole self in exchange for using the other person. I think a happy marriage is two selfish people who willingly offer the other what he/she can't help but selfishly desire. This means that the woman submits to the husband (especially with regards to sex), and the husband makes material sacrifices (time, money, health, energy), that the wife can't and won't reciprocate in-kind. I think there are several reasons that modern people don't like submission. One is that due to the welfare state, women don't actually need individual men anymore. They have the state as a surrogate husband. At the base instinctual level, women use men for power, so, when they are doing fine on their own, they don't bother trying to please men. Feminist propaganda also teaches women to hate and despise men. Also, society is less religious than it used to be. This means that most people are hedonists. If a wife submits to a Christian man, then she is submitting to a man who is submitting himself to a higher ideal. That means she is using her husband as a role model that points towards something higher than her own husband. However, if the husband is a hedonist, then the wife's submission means that she is a sex toy and a cook and a maid and nothing more. Feminists imagine that this is what submission means, because they have no concept of a higher purpose, so that serving another person for them can only mean serving his arbitrary whims. I have been thinking about what I will tell my daughter about marriage when she is old enough to understand. I think a good rule is, "Look at your husband. When you see that he is working to take care of the family, then let him be the leader. This sometimes means that you will let him have his way even when you disagree. This is good for you, because it makes sense to try to please the one who provides for you." I think this is a good rule, because it appeals to a woman's selfish nature, rather than just making a humiliating declaration that sounds arbitrary. Also, this rule would not cause abuse, because she is only supposed to submit to her husband when he is working to take care of her. It is also simple, so it would not bore a child too much who was not interested in philosophy. As a husband, I have a rule for myself that I won't ask my wife to do anything unless I am already doing everything that I know how to do. And I consider her needs to be at least as important as mine, so that I will always do something good for her when think of it. I do think, however, that when it seems to me that I know better than my wife, that it is not only a right, but a duty to tell her what to do. She is a naturally loving and humble woman, so if I'm able to simply explain the benefit of doing something that she knows little about, there is usually no argument. I've never been able to get her to overtly submit to me though, which makes me sad. It makes me sad, because I see her submission and my duty to take care of her as the same thing, so I feel like we'd be closer if she did that. She is very stubborn and practical, so she will spontaneously do things like cook dinner every day and do the laundry without me even asking, but talking to her about abstract principles doesn't accomplish anything. If she can't see the direct connection to something that she can see or touch, then she's not interested, and it's nigh impossible to convince her. But I can only control myself, so I focus on what I should do, and let her focus on what she should do. edit: seeing if my comment is still here

@AnnaDysett

29 күн бұрын

I honestly loved every second of reading your thoughts. Thank you so much for sharing!! I encourage you to ask God for yourself if the Bible is divinely inspired or not though.🤷‍♀️ Ask him to prove it. What harm can it do? I think Paul would totally agree with you on the marriage thing. It’s more hassle than it’s worth. He was celibate and wished everyone else was too! But in 1 Corinthians 7:9 he said - 9 But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion.

You have nothing against spanking per se? Nothing wrong with hurting these little bodies which were made by God? It's an awful sin to hurt anybody, especially a helpless child which you were supposed to protect.

@AnnaDysett

Ай бұрын

One could easily argue that they are protecting their child by teaching them the value of authority. It also teaches consequences which is what God teaches us. Obviously, just because a parent spanks their child doesn’t mean they are hurting them. If we cannot respect our parents who we can physically see, how are we even remotely supposed to respect God? We don’t spank.. but I understand both sides and won’t put down a parent who does and tell them they are in the wrong.

@sambailie4773

Ай бұрын

@@AnnaDysettI was smacked when I did wrong (not beaten, but a controlled smack) and I grew up with respect for my parents. I can see both sides though x

@Mona...134

Ай бұрын

@@AnnaDysett well, that is your opinion. Poor children won't be asked. I Was beaten as a kid and I know what I'm talking about, such as many of my friends. Authotity can be teached in many other ways than that. People who beat their children are no authority, neither deserve they respect. Period

I repeat getting sooo shocked that spanking is normal in other countries! It is completely illegal in Denmark. Soooo old school! Im so glad you dont hit your kids!

@Vic2point0

10 күн бұрын

Why would it be shocking? I can understand finding it *weird* (just like anything else that's different from one culture to the next), but shocking?

Interesting video.

HAVE. SOME. INDEPENDENCE. Feminists are not cruel man-haters, they are just trying to prevent people from being pets just because they identify as or are born as women so please, for your own sake you are valuable! Not only because of how you act, because you’re “pure” or because you’re beautiful (which you are btw) but because women have potential!

@Vic2point0

10 күн бұрын

Why do you conflate submission with a perceived lack of value? Is an employee saying they have less value as a person than their employer? Because if not, I don't see why we should accuse tradwives of saying/thinking it...

@Pompom_fluf

10 күн бұрын

@@Vic2point0 I’m not saying that, I’m saying that these types of relationships are often abusive and neglectful and that you are valuable but not because you should submit to your man.

@Vic2point0

10 күн бұрын

@@Pompom_fluf "these types of relationships are often abusive and neglectful" And you're basing that claim on what, exactly? Because I and many of my family members and friends have been in long-term marriages founded on these same principles and none of us have been abused or turned abusive. Meanwhile, we hear that lesbian relationships (in which there are *no* men) tend to have higher rates of abuse than any other... "and that you are valuable but not because you should submit to your man." Nobody believes that their value comes specifically from submitting to a man, but it is part of the role that some women have chosen toward a specific goal (usually building and maintaining a stable family). Just like I'm not saying my sole value comes from how much money I can make to buy things for my wife, but it is a part of the role I've chosen toward that same goal.

@Pompom_fluf

10 күн бұрын

@@Vic2point0 don’t think I’m reading your essay on why you’re right. Have a great day

@Vic2point0

10 күн бұрын

@@Pompom_fluf That's fine, no pressure. I was just seeing if you actually had any reason to believe what *you* asserted. You have a great day as well!