Three Steps to Help Clients Better Tolerate Distress
When a client is in emotional distress, their first instinct is often to try to make the pain go away . . .
. . . but by avoiding those feelings, the pain usually just grows.
That’s why helping clients learn to sit with and manage distress is critical.
In this video, Michael Yapko, PhD, shares a three-step approach to do just that.
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Step 1. Distinguish between what is personal vs. what affects you personally.
Dr Yapko, your book 'Breaking the pattern of depression' is SO helpful to me. I can't thank you enough.
Thank you, from an elderly patient's view, without access to therapy or other helpful resources, holding on from a remote area.
helpful distinctions, saying "personal vs affects you personally" and also the idea of "importance of the goal". thanks!
Refreshing thoughts can be helpful (as this video stones a light on so well here), but working bottom up also where you acknowledge and support the client to learn to be with the feelings and over time to allow them to communicate their message and the unmet needs underneath
One of the most helpful videos I found on self regulation etc. in the last 2 years. Thank you so much, Michael. 🙏💐
Wise. Thank you, Michael 🙂
Could someone please summarize the points that are made in this video for us that are having trouble focusing?
is compartmentalizing desirable in the long run? It does help but does it cause problems later ?
Oh, my. The first 2 reasons he gave for distress? Happened to me. 30+ years later they still bother me. As a survivor of something that injured me for life, I only WISH that I COULD compartmentalize the trauma and stress from getting me to the GOAL!!! But my distress won't let me. That is what my therapists DON'T understand.
Could you please clarify the difference between compartmentalisation and dissociation? I know that dissociation sometimes involves focusing attention on a goal to avoid underlying feelings and needs.
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When there is not that belief (in some cases this is true) yes there is just pain. But you didn’t build on it.
Some distress is not just simply self-generated, - may occur due to having contributed, - but others have also played a role - but are unable to own it. What then? What if these few others are highly emotionally significant, but where one has owned our contribution, explained how it occurred, expressed this very clearly but this just falls on deaf ears, - who own nothing. Not overly convinced at all with this breakdown, nor of the importance of the "goal" - whatever that means. Notice not one reply.....! CBT pie chart would l suppose dial down the "distress"