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@i_make_shorts_

Жыл бұрын

​@DidiDi-ic1keSTOP being a bot it's so annoying

@rhall5662

Жыл бұрын

I sure😮 wish you were near me. I hate when haircut day comes!!!😢😢

@BarryAllen333

Жыл бұрын

Im a special needs kid myself so I HAVE to see this shop!! WHERE IS THIS!!❤❤

@BarryAllen333

Жыл бұрын

@@i_make_shorts_fr

@c.cortez1508

Жыл бұрын

​@@BarryAllen333it is in Nutley, NJ

I love that he explains and corrects the father.

@calebmanger

10 ай бұрын

This man is a gem

@winterwithawhyknudsen5166

10 ай бұрын

But doesn’t explain what is going to happen next to the child. That can cause a lot of distress.

@ian7897

10 ай бұрын

​@@winterwithawhyknudsen5166this

@bern9642

10 ай бұрын

​@@winterwithawhyknudsen5166how do you know he didn't. This is 30 seconds video

@ericdevere888

10 ай бұрын

Yeah, I think that's the best part. The one thing you need to know when working with individuals with special needs is everyone is different, and us neurotypicals take SO MANY things for granted and then wonder why it's so hard for the little ones to learn things.

This man is low key teaching this man how to handle his child’s emotional outbursts better love it

@johng180

Жыл бұрын

So funny. He's spot on !

@miriammartinez6649

Жыл бұрын

Hell yea he is!!!

@rowdyyates724

Жыл бұрын

the lord is using this man to bless others in need In so many levels..

@kingvegeta6826

Жыл бұрын

Very smart man... He even knows how to communicate with the parents who are also a lil uncomfortable. I'm glad he is doing this........

@justsuzy321

Жыл бұрын

This!👏👏👏👏 That is what impressed me so much about Billy. Handling the kids is not a biggie for him, it's the parents. And he is gently teaching the right way to defuse and reward his kid.

It takes a special person to receive constructive criticism. I'm glad that dad didn't become defensive.

@tinypugs5567

9 ай бұрын

you have to be an understanding person if you have a special needs child.

@kimlarge4077

9 ай бұрын

@@tinypugs5567 That's for sure.

@guerostaybanned

9 ай бұрын

some of us dads know we still got a lot to learn trust me i know 😭😂 so we don’t mind someone trying to help us out just don’t be rude abt it that’s all 😂

@ItsAme7143

8 ай бұрын

Nah really the only thing that stops people from being able to take that in is their ego but I don't think it's really a special thing I just think people have gotten generally more selfish and self righteous, that should be the standard for how we act especially when it comes to something as important as your kids

@peacekeeperbabe

6 ай бұрын

No. As beings, constructive criticism is a fact of life to take and accept it.

That man has a special place in heaven!

@omniomega1

9 ай бұрын

❤❤❤❤❤

@exifyPR.

9 ай бұрын

Only if he believes and give God his life

@autumnssssss

9 ай бұрын

can people just be good without you forcing your religion down everyone’s throats? this is a great human and he deserves genuine recognition for it. not a reserved spot in an imaginary place that you supposedly dont even go to until after you literally die. to me, youre saying “he is such a good person that he doesn’t deserve recognition for it until after he’s dead”. gross.

@historyraven99

9 ай бұрын

​@@autumnssssssYou are grossly mistaken. But it's your eternity in hell, not that kind of man's soul. 🪽🪽🪽🪽✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

@exifyPR.

9 ай бұрын

@@autumnssssss he does deserve Recognition for it but not just when he dies and how is he shoving his religion down your throat? He is just saying he deserves heaven. Seems a little dramatic and uneducated to me🤷🏽

I liked that the father showed respect and trust for the barber.

@kj3026259

Жыл бұрын

I find a lot of brother respectful of thier barbers heck some trust thier barber more then thier own family.

@gjones6464

Жыл бұрын

Facts he had to humble himself and that's difficult as man so it's essentially difficult as a father

@ZaeOSWS

Жыл бұрын

@@gjones6464not when your a new father willing to learn different from what your parents did which is something a lot of folks aren’t willing to do.

@WIZZYDAN

Жыл бұрын

​@@gjones6464It's actually very easy it's difficult for men who have ego problems

@rosalynmartin519

Жыл бұрын

@@gjones6464 I can imagine. It’s difficult as a woman but 100x worse for a man. Definitely earned much respect for his reaction.

not just a barber...this man understands behaviors, psychology, development. absolute hero

@gamer546lg5

11 ай бұрын

He doesnt

@gamer546lg5

11 ай бұрын

If he did, he would know that the kid just has bad behavior due to being a brat

@gdpix3354

10 ай бұрын

⁠@@gamer546lg5did you not hear the part where he said that the barber is for special needs kids? Of course he’s gonna act like that he’s scared but the barber knows how to calm him down

@idilhassan1959

10 ай бұрын

@@gamer546lg5 you are acting like a full blown expert. That man got way more years of experience then you for sure.

@audhdcreativity5899

10 ай бұрын

@@gamer546lg5 you sound really low info... I bet you would punish that inoocent, disabled kid and wonder why you are getting worse and worse behavior...🙄

Billy, I have an autistic son who thankfully tolerates haircuts most days but I'm intrigued by the similar traits in what he doesn't like and amazed by your comfortable nature, outside of a parent you rarely see that. You have a gift! ❤️

People like this are why the world hasn't yet destroyed itself. Thanks for holding us together.

Billy is truly so wholesome for opening a special needs barbershop ❤

@marktaylor865

Жыл бұрын

Guys a nonce

@linternauta

Жыл бұрын

Bot alert

@TheMorganGibson

Жыл бұрын

@@linternauta I'm definitely NOT a bot but okay 🙄😂

@alexjara1288

Жыл бұрын

​@DidiDi-ic1ke what if I'm ready to die huh? Jokes on you!

@ThatBurnedCoconut

Жыл бұрын

@DidiDi-ic1kenah I ain’t subbing to an npc

I like how he schooled the dad with such grace

@shayslay3416

Жыл бұрын

He didnt school him, he taught him. Thr dad is probably no older than 30 meanwhile the barber is like 50-60.

@carlao7157

Жыл бұрын

​@@shayslay3416ok.....clearly u don't know what schooled means

@lashawannajoyner5993

Жыл бұрын

Yeaaaaaaa stern but respectful with it! 🙌🏼🙌🏼❤️💯

@nancyvandermeer4480

Жыл бұрын

​@@carlao7157schooling is being used in a negative way more so than positive. Both mean to teach but schooling is being used to say smt bad about the person learning and their willingness to learn. To school someone means that the person is ignorant and/or doesn't care enough to learn so someone needs to "teach them a lesson" So yeah I would also say the words don't fully fit the scenario here

@Taxmandarmus

Жыл бұрын

​@@shayslay3416semantics you go to school to get taught😂

I've been working with special needs individuals for 6 years, both kids and adults, and this has to be the most awesome thing I've ever seen. Well done!

@goestheboom5211

9 ай бұрын

Same but for almost 3 it's super cool

Nah this man is more than a barber he understands and has patience

Billy giving real advice to every parent.

@daynawith_a_y

Жыл бұрын

💯

@VioletJoy

Жыл бұрын

Right?? I was a hairstylist for many years and did kids once in a while. They always did better when the parents would mind their own business. Lol. They'd want to bribe them ahead of time instead of giving them a treat afterward.

@Moethelock

Жыл бұрын

yes cause this generation of parents, a lot have grown up with 0 parental guide.

@topwolf2977

Жыл бұрын

​@Moethelock I guess you can say it runs in the family.....

@levardotts9026

Жыл бұрын

@@Moethelock That's part of it, but even with parental guidance, sometimes this generation of parents believe they can do it better than the previous one or that all of what was done then is outdated now because it's 2023. Heard my baby boy (7yo) having a conversation in the backseat with his brother saying when he has kids he's gonna do things differently...

That "wait until the end to give him candy. If you give it to him now then you'd be rewarding him for standing up only" from Billy was good parenting advice.

@iherduluvlawngdich

10 ай бұрын

That's not at all what he said lol. He said he wouldn't give it to him even after he is done and he explained why which makes total sense. You don't reward the kid for doing what he's supposed to do. (At least in the form of a dopamine rush like candy, of course you reward them with encouragement and congratulations like he did here)

@JaiK64

10 ай бұрын

@@iherduluvlawngdich lol you wanted me to quote the whole video? 😅

@iherduluvlawngdich

10 ай бұрын

@@JaiK64 bruh what you're quotation is longer than mine and it's incorrect lol that's my only point.

@JaiK64

10 ай бұрын

​@@iherduluvlawngdichmaybe you should rewatch the video but this time don't read the incorrect words on the screen.

@JaiK64

10 ай бұрын

@@iherduluvlawngdich or rewatch it with the CC on, it has the right words

Billy will live forever in the minds of the people he selflessly helped. Partial faith in humanity restored for the day :D

There is a special place in heaven for folks like this.

The Barber gave that parent a good parenting moment. ❤

@OctagonalSquare

Жыл бұрын

Exactly! And good on the parent for being willing to listen. Too many parents take it as an insult to their intelligence when someone corrects their parenting style

@normified

Жыл бұрын

@@OctagonalSquare Mutual respect is all the world needs

@tonytonydouglas9354

Жыл бұрын

❤❤❤❤❤Awesomeness King U a blessing love it ❤

@laceyp3320

Жыл бұрын

It takes a village

@xlady7772

Жыл бұрын

Yes even protective parents need teachable moment billy should have made the news for his service his heart is there

Seems like he’s good at educating parents as well! How sweet

@maxwellquipey1

10 ай бұрын

It's important to spread some tips around, indeed.

@sir2657

10 ай бұрын

People who do this VERY RARELY did they NOT have experience with disabled people....he opened this probably by inspiration of something in his private life

This is both the nicest, and most patient man ever-

My grandson has autism and haircuts were a challenge until I met his current barber. I travel from Georgia to North Carolina to get his hair cut. It’s not a special needs barbershop. I’m grateful I found a barber that’s kind, compassionate and patient.

@goestheboom5211

9 ай бұрын

You gotta live right boarder I hope

Patience and empathy are solid traits to have.

@mr_hands

Жыл бұрын

empathy slows people down. that’s why i don’t have any friends since they just slow down my brain. empathy and kindness is a weakness.

@triliner254

Жыл бұрын

@@mr_hands Ok mr sigma

@danielguerra548

Жыл бұрын

@@mr_handsfirst you don’t have friends because of your attitude second empathy is one of the best traits to see in a person and third friends push you forward they are always there when you need them

@mr_hands

Жыл бұрын

@@danielguerra548 explain to me then why i am the owner of a multi-million corporation and you’re not? 🤔 the sigma nation taught me all i know so shut your mouth

@lixue_izar

Жыл бұрын

@@mr_hands ah a classic, blame ur lack of bitches on being a lifestyle choice. yalls type thinks ur so cool for not having friends when u got the most copy-paste teenage boy personality around

That’s why you don’t “baby” a child with special needs. You approach things differently. It’s all the same. Just love them

@ellevatewithelle

Жыл бұрын

‼️‼️‼️

@GoodwillWright

Жыл бұрын

100% agree. You don't approach them less, you just approach them differently. Granted there is the odd child who is really, really, really-really special. But out of 800 kids I've tended to over the years, only 1 of them was that kind of special.

@commotus8319

Жыл бұрын

Anyone agreeing that its all the same raising a "special child" is lying, and ignorant. Try even having a kid let alone a kid with extra needs. Ridiculous what people will chime in about without ever having a clue.

@EJay00

Жыл бұрын

Facts!! you don't baby them. My autistic son is in college and drives because I did not baby him.

@lordgammadonkaargon2830

Жыл бұрын

​@@commotus8319i got Asperger autism and my parents mostly treated me Like any Other child. Punishment and reward in a authority/democratic way of rising is a good way to Turn children into good adults as Long AS the Hand Cap is Not severe

Parents take back seat on this… this guy is legit

That’s a human with a pure heart of gold right there.

I love how educated he is about reinforcement - he is making a difference in not only the kids’ behavior but how the parents respond to them

@nyamburakinuthia4354

Жыл бұрын

exactly💯

@sharita7270

Жыл бұрын

Yes indeed!!!!

@bre4230

Жыл бұрын

y’all in the ABA field too?👀

@Stopthisrightnow560

Жыл бұрын

No. No. No. This is how you traumatise autistic children. They are not fucking dogs to train.

Having a son who had autism, I can say that this is a God send.

@janis9523

Жыл бұрын

Agree

@elliottwilford6457

Жыл бұрын

Im so sorry for your loss. I have a 14 yr old son with autism and at the moment he’s finding it tough in school!! These kind of vids always give me hope 👍🏻

@chriswampler1

Жыл бұрын

@@elliottwilford6457autism isn’t a loss. What makes you say Sorry for your loss?

@chriswampler1

Жыл бұрын

Joseph, challenge your son. Most autistic children are light years ahead of others in some way. Challenging your son with different things will help you find his strength. Some have strengths in music, some in art, math, sculpting. They are born naturals.

@creatortheoc2434

Жыл бұрын

​@@chriswampler1i think the wording might have confused them since the OP said "who HAD autism" and since you cant cure autism, maybe they assumed loss? If not, its ableist as hell to say that Autism is a loss.

This man is an angel on earth 🌍 😇

This man choose the hardest job on earth, give him a raise

@goestheboom5211

9 ай бұрын

Definitely not the hardest job on earth but it does take a lot of patience which not everyone has which is okay.

Gave him some straight up fatherly advice to go along. Nothing but respect and admiration.

@kimlove2897

Жыл бұрын

Nothin" but!! We lov him for a very hard job!! I wk w/spec.ed..what a job❤

This made me tear up. This barber deserves everything.

@freesmokeatyoneck

Жыл бұрын

Me to trust ..I worry about my autistic Brody ..I hope the whole world opens up and respect him

@dougfredricks2017

Жыл бұрын

Good video. Helping the kids

@LJInnes

Жыл бұрын

I teared up in the first second too / love this man

He deserved respect more than doctors. It’s takes time and patience to finish one hair cut but he does this not for money but as missionary work. Thank you behalf of parents!🙏💗

This man not only soothed the child who was clearly distressed but he also gave the father some valuable lessons on how to cope with his son's meltdowns. Also for those who say the kid is simply "throwing a tantrum" perhaps it's also wise for you to be taught some lessons too. It's possible this little guy is on the spectrum and it's well known that some with ASD can experience sensory overload/overstimulation.

Imagine a world where all people have this level of kindness

@Starz1288

Жыл бұрын

🎉 The world would be an amazing place. I'm still wishing and praying for it!

@BonesMalon3

Жыл бұрын

@@Starz1288 be that person

@BonesMalon3

Жыл бұрын

then be that person

@charmingjmace9401

Жыл бұрын

@@Starz1288 that aint gonna happen

@camronmarriott2250

Жыл бұрын

The world would be super boring

Exactly, you don’t reward bad behavior. Billy is getting the kids straight as well as the parents.

@beverlywilliams9644

Жыл бұрын

It's not bad behavior he's special needs. There's a difference. Coming from someone who works with special needs children and adults.

@Devin3Anthologie

Жыл бұрын

I remember watching the movie about Helen Keller. Just because she was most definitely unable to do what other kids usually are able to do, that teacher reminded her parents that she still needed discipline. While she needed extra attention, she also had to learn not to be a brat and that she couldn't have everything her way. It's possible to do both for children that need extra TLC. 🙂

@Taxmandarmus

Жыл бұрын

​@@beverlywilliams9644I get bad is probably the wrong adjective but I get what he means, you can't reward challenging behavior you reward compliance.

@beverlywilliams9644

Жыл бұрын

@@Devin3Anthologie but you have no idea of what the backstory is. This is this child's first time with this Barber who is absolutely wonderful special needs children as you can see. But it's clear to me that whoever if anyone that was cutting his hair prior to this had never made him comfortable by taking away the fear of the Clippers and the sound. Helen Keller seemed a little bit spoiled to me and this probably is not the case because he seems to be a bit autistic and that's a whole new ballgame that requires a whole nother level of patience.

@beverlywilliams9644

Жыл бұрын

@@Taxmandarmus if you've never worked with special-needs children you don't understand and you can't understand the level of challenges children have nor the level of patience that it takes to train them. It's not about rewarding bad behavior or challenging Behavior because if you don't know what he's diagnosed with you don't know how unless you worked with special-needs and clearly this Barber has that's how he knows to make the child comfortable by taking away the fear of what's being done to him and reassuring him that it's not going to hurt nor is he trying to hurt him. Some of my guys are autistic some have schizophrenia amongst other conditions and they're not all treated the same the training isn't the same. Some require a higher level of patience and training than others depending on the level and or the severity of their condition. It's not like they understand or can comprehend in most cases. But this gentleman opened up this barbershop for special needs because evidently he has some background and training maybe a family member or friend or just a heart of gold. So he's taking the time to know how and what to do

What this man is doing is amazing. He was so patient and even explaining what he needs from parents and his process. What he's doing is truly beautiful.

Billy you are a very special man. I love the way you handled the Dad, with kindness and respect. I'm sure Little Man will return for future styling. God Bless you!

This barber just taught that man how to be a better father. This is more than just a haircut... It's a lesson in life

@lordfriezachrist6546

Жыл бұрын

that haircut he gave was mid

@tanyasmith2173

Жыл бұрын

It's just a basic buzz cut. Most young children with special needs have zero desire to get their hair cut at all, let alone sit there for even more time to have it meticulously styled. They'd rather just get it done and leave.

@lordfriezachrist6546

Жыл бұрын

@tanyasmith2173 i wouldn't pay for that, I'd just cut it myself. No point in getting a professional to butcher a haircut 🤷🏿‍♂️

@ironcatalystcs

Жыл бұрын

​@@lordfriezachrist6546 then don't have kids and don't take them to a barbershop

@lordfriezachrist6546

Жыл бұрын

@ironcatalystcs are you slow??? I wouldn't pay for that mid buzz cut haircut for my child. That was was straight boo boo 💩 and can be done at home

I love how he’s not only reassuring the kids but the parents as well. I hope this man live the rest of his life happy and fulfilled.

@redneckgirl2894

9 ай бұрын

He's amazing for real!! ...made me tear up how special this human is ❤💜❤

@MelloMe_

9 ай бұрын

Yes. It's so hard for parents to see their child crying or melting down and not being able to calm them down.

@midnightstriker7343

8 ай бұрын

This is amazing

@jay0546

8 ай бұрын

He’s not reassuring the parents he’s telling them they are bad parents 😂

Bless this amazing kind man, the way he works with these special children is simply rewarding. What a great barber.

This man shows kindness to children who are scared for their first hair cut.

I loved that billy communicated with dad about how to let him lead in that space. Very respectful about the rewarding system. Awsome job

@rearviewviewer

Жыл бұрын

Teaching the young pops how to be a pops

@itsomarsopinion

Жыл бұрын

He wasn’t that respectful he Lowkey had a attitude regardless if u are a specialist in special needs or not that is still his child which he knows best

@pamelamohn5931

Жыл бұрын

​@@itsomarsopinion Did you hear the part about not confusing the child and rewards and that the father is the first authority to the child? Also there are many times a child will act up when the parent is there simply because they can. ❤️

@mackendietoussaint5135

Жыл бұрын

​​@@pamelamohn5931ood job my guy I don't know what the hell this guy talking about did he not hear the f****** video or watch it damn these people are f****** babies men it's like they hear something and it goes out the other ear The man is teaching the father that stop f****** babying that kid let him do his job by making the kids face his fears I swear your people are like female cuddling The child you might be the same type of dude that's going to do that dumb s*** let your kid learn he was respectful about it telling the Father that whatever you say goes the kids not going to learn when he feeds off of you let the professional handle it he know what he's doing

@sldrgrl20downzerotogo11

Жыл бұрын

​@@pamelamohn5931Ditto! What she said, Y'all!

Made him comfortable in the space he was in and gave him a fresh cut. Inspirational

@jackweber3660

Жыл бұрын

he was holding back tears

@dandy432

Жыл бұрын

​@Emit.Why don't you give it a try then? Go on, try and do this without traumatizing a child.

@chazallen8969

Жыл бұрын

@@dandy432 i pretty sure he just misspelled impressive like chill out bro

@basketballlegend8977

Жыл бұрын

To all of you saying they were uncomfortable, they’d sure as hell be less comfortable if you tried to cut their hair so stfu

If you can handle giving an autistic child a haircut and come out the other side still smiling , you are a saint.

as someone with a little brother who has autism, i am on the verge of tears. we NEED more people like him in the world.

@pagliaccisghost269

Жыл бұрын

AMEN❤❤❤❤ ✌️

@k.fleming4156

Жыл бұрын

Nall Bro I’m Balling like a baby 😢

@Ventingthetruth777

Жыл бұрын

True ❤

@AmericanWithagun

Жыл бұрын

Im not like him i cant take special people

@robertmaxwell1016

Жыл бұрын

There are many more like him, but social media and the internet in general push negativity.

If you listen to him he's also giving the parents lessons on being Good parents !!! 🥰

@phashaunjackson

Жыл бұрын

Hell yea

@Hydr4...

Жыл бұрын

yea, and they not complaining by saying "dont tell me how to parent" w parents, w barber.

You are a saint of the utmost quality. Thank you for loving and caring for our neighbors.

This made me cry because people need to have respect for disable kids and even adults 😢

@sheilapate7604

Жыл бұрын

Facts 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@bobtheball5384

Жыл бұрын

Ditto

@moodybloomscraftsandfloral

Жыл бұрын

Everyone needs their own spaces to be themselves.

@peterssister421

Жыл бұрын

❤

@drazugo4992

Жыл бұрын

What about the elders?so you do not think its right for the elders what is wrong with you maybe dont be so racist and sexist next time😶😐

he’s not only helping them with a haircut, he’s also helping to teach parents about their child and the things they can do to help remedy when things get rough, need more shops like this !

@nancym5341

11 ай бұрын

He must have a child or sibling who also has special needs.

My Lord! Please cover and bless this man…wow, so heartfelt ❤❤❤❤

Magnifigance man...hands down a true human we need in any community

Billy, you're not a barber, you're an angel, bless your heart ♥

@stelbertstylton

Жыл бұрын

😇🙏❤

@Concerned_one

Жыл бұрын

Well actually he is a barber and an angel🤷🏽‍♂️

@drazugo4992

Жыл бұрын

I think you are mistaking in the video hebis cutting hair and obvi he is a barber and i dont see how is he an angel,so ypu are wrong but if you think your are right you may need to educated yourself before you type this🤫

@lydiaricher2732

Жыл бұрын

@@drazugo4992 your the one that needs to be EDUCATED, it's an expression, an old saying, and a compliment, to this man for having the compassion to have a business that caters to special needs children, wow chill out Karen !!!

@lydiaricher2732

Жыл бұрын

@@Concerned_one Yes he is 😊

As a father who has two special needs children this guy's a blessing

@Shadoukuron

Жыл бұрын

Whats up with Ur genetics

@RockNRolla1212

Жыл бұрын

​@@Shadoukuron🥶

@ACGreenTV

Жыл бұрын

This ain’t a special needs barbershop tho … prolly just the kid first cut

@tonyhormiga5242

Жыл бұрын

@@Shadoukuron Probably the vax dont work well with them. They can be fixed.

@ErenYeager6777

Жыл бұрын

​@@Shadoukuronbro you taking cause you don't know his pain

Having an autistic son, I truly love this! Wish more were available nation wide.

A grown man, teaching a young man, on how to raise his own child. Well done.

Billy needs to open a parental advice place too!!!! Good lawd almighty, Man has an abundance of patience!!!! God bless him!

@Noxic72

Жыл бұрын

The kid has special needs bro

Just him being patient and WILLING to do the cut is amazing in itself.

@TiTi-pm4my

Жыл бұрын

For real. God bless this man! 🥰 We need more like him

@Natashajb

Жыл бұрын

Shame their parents didn't care enough to do it.

@pinkusdean1178

Жыл бұрын

​@@Natashajb?? The parent took the kid to a professional who could get the kid used to it. Not everyone is equiped to do it. Thats not a lack of care? A lack of care would be just not getting the kids hair cut at all or forcing them through a forced one. Yeah they could of learnt to do it themselves but this is still a caring solution and not any lesser

@treyjordan1284

Жыл бұрын

​@@pinkusdean1178dont waist time on idiots. people just talk to talk. lmao

@biancaw796

Жыл бұрын

@@Natashajbwhat the fuck are you even saying??

i love the clear set of boundaries. understanding that the parents have the official say, but if the child continues to sit in the barbers chair then the child needs to listen to the barber. obviously this is to make sure things stay safe and instructions are clearly heard. but also so that the child can start to feel comfortable based on the direct communication, not confused by others input. he’s great.

Not all heros wear capes. He is a great man...

A polite way to say “shut up Dad, I’ve got this” 👏🏻

As a father who has to cut my kids hair because they are autistic and can't handle the barber, I salute this man. I wish there were more like him.

@Christopher_J

Жыл бұрын

The Lord bless you and your children sir. You are doing a fantastic job and hopefully a specialist barber will become known to you soon to assist you in this endeavour. 🙏🏾

@Iaserz

Жыл бұрын

Aye good luck man hope you raise them well

He seems like hes been working with special needs kids for years before he opened this shop. Brought tears to my eyes. This is a good man.

God Bless Billy & ALL his super special clients

Sounds like Mr Billy knows how to handle the parents as well. Great job sir. Blessings upon blessings to this special man.

@mikewilkins2030

Жыл бұрын

Straight up. He ain’t play no games! Lol

@TaySaidSo

Жыл бұрын

But he did it with respect, a bit stern but he explain to dad how this has to work. This was field of study for 6 years and many times the parents come in a overshadowe the teacher and it confuses the child, by changing the dynamic. Fantastic job mr billy.

Everyone needs a Billy from time to time. Thank God for Billy.

@tychris9464

Жыл бұрын

Amen😊

Excellent job Mr Billy. You helped the son and educated the father.

Thank you Billy! Ppl dont realize how difficult these things are for special needs families

He's someone with common sense of how to teach children. Special needs or not. Kudos to this Barber!! 😊

@TheKatarinaGiselle

Жыл бұрын

PERIOD!!

@one-day-at-a-time4134

Жыл бұрын

Agreed ☺ Also on a serious note I didn't know temper tantrums were classed as special needs/autism these days?

@mastertofu

Жыл бұрын

​@@one-day-at-a-time4134They aren't. Special needs kids can throw tantrums more often than normal but they aren't diagnosed for their tantrums.

@one-day-at-a-time4134

Жыл бұрын

@@mastertofu I appreciate the info, I thought I was missing something. As someone who has special needs family members, they don't throw tantrums and never have, so i'm just baffled as to why/where all of the sudden tantrums became a part of special needs.

@mastertofu

Жыл бұрын

@@one-day-at-a-time4134 I'm the opposite. My special needs family members and classmates always throw temper tantrums, which was why I was confused about your reply. It's good to know that it's a spectrum.

Heavenly Father, please bless Billy for the role he's playing as your example of what expectation, love and reward looks like. This warms my heart. I'd love to work with someone like Billy!

@godisawesomeasalways6004

Жыл бұрын

Amen

@ShadowfirenYX

Жыл бұрын

Amen

@skycat1350

Жыл бұрын

Amen!

@DecemberHeath

Жыл бұрын

Amen!! 🥰

@IIIRorschachIII

Жыл бұрын

Verily Verily

He’s not doing this for money. This man has a purpose and a mission ❤

I’m a barber own my own shop. This man is a saint, my father is a barber retired now. All the kids screaming moving crying etc etc.. all were his customers bc he’s a saint also.. I know how hard it is to give them a good haircut. It’s a blessing if u can find barbers these days like them..

As a special needs father, people don't realize what a struggle a haircut can be for the kids.

@marykitten4947

Жыл бұрын

I understand what you mean, I'm a mother of 2 special needs kids and it's so hard to cut there hair every time. I love that this man did this and is bring awareness of this.

@LovelyAngel840

Жыл бұрын

Is it the sound??

@scoober7666

Жыл бұрын

@@LovelyAngel840I would assume so, also most likely the vibration coming from the clippers

@bigjam9973

Жыл бұрын

Just cut the hair by yourself it aint that hard

@nolandeaton1355

Жыл бұрын

@Blueness1230how? I mean they need haircuts and as a person who has physical disabilities and has seen a lot of people with mental disabilities sometimes you need to force them to do needed things like bathing, getting a haircut and other basic needs. Even if their not in a state to understand or like these things they need to be done unfortunately.

teachers who work in special education need to see this. as someone who was put through that system for anger issues, seeing those who require genuine special needs be abused by teachers who hate their jobs broke my heart, but this guy loves what he does.

Very smart man. Your doing an amazing job sir.

He has more patience than 10 people combined

@Formerlywarmer

Жыл бұрын

Nice work Billy!

@djramiofficial

Жыл бұрын

Or maybe a million people

Billy is not only a great barber, he's teaching parents how to parent. The kids would probably do better if the parents weren't in the shop.

@enoughstuff333

Жыл бұрын

I agree, but it's so hard to leave our special angels in the hands of others. Mine is a young adult now and still I hover... Always ready to rush to his aid.

@thelovelyone7737

Жыл бұрын

I think you missed the point that the child has special needs and mostl likely has a sensory disorder so he doesn't like the sensation of getting his hair cut. This is why learning about invisible disabilities is important so many special needs people and children get abused or neglected because people think they're simply misbehaving.

@hereweare9096

Жыл бұрын

I would disagree. The child isn’t misbehaving. People with disabilities react differently to things. It could have been the sound of the clippers. Or the feeling on his head. It took us years to get our son used to getting his haircut. We initially would cut his hair while he slept. We had to very very slowly introduce it. Now he can sit in the barber shop and have his hair cut. Parents know their special needs child the best. Being their for our children for reassurance is the just the same like any other parent would be for their child.

@SoCalJellybean

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, you really need to educate yourself on special needs people and the challenges we face on a daily basis. This is NOT a misbehaving child, this is a child with sensory issues!

@KristyRamirezgomez

Жыл бұрын

Might wanna look more into Autism Spectrum Disorder.....

He is right that they need to listen to him and not the parents!! Great job sir. Should be a lot more people out there like you! God bless 🙏🏼🙏🏼

Ppl like Billy are the soul of the neighbourhood. God bless him!

Dude has my utmost respect. The patience a job like this takes in unfathomable, good on him

@keepitsoreal7870

Жыл бұрын

Mines too ❤️

@INDIGO.GODDESS_573

Жыл бұрын

I LOVE CUTTING SPECIAL NEEDS PEOPLE HAIR

You can tell that Billy really cares about these kids and knows exactly what to do to make them comfortable during their haircut ❤

@Gir-Riff-raffe

Жыл бұрын

Look I’m sorry but if he never said NICE WU SHIRT LIL KID! ….then frankly he’s not doin enough 😄

Thank you Billy!!! Love you!!

Billy is amazing and deserves non stop business for his Heart. We need more people like him. Especially today.

The fact the barber is teaching the parents and child how to cope is amazing

When I was a kid, we had a barber named Mr. Wilson. He was a therapist, teacher, disciplinarian, and father figure for some and big brother for others. I have so many great memories sitting with my dad learning so many things. God bless great patient men like this!

@CARLOSESCOBAR-tz8yc

Жыл бұрын

Y son (zutistic) had such a wonderful man. He did wonders

People like Billy are gems in this ruthless and cruel world. We don't need more Billys, we need more people to be like Billy.

Yes you have to be this specific with autisic people/kids. What a good dude

God Bless him. We must love and teach society to love special needs children and adults.

Gave his father a free parenting class too! 👏🏽He’s absolutely right about not rewarding children for following simple requests for their benefit. He’ll have a much harder time adjusting to society, if that expectation becomes embedded into his mind. 💯‼️

@joescheller6680

Жыл бұрын

Nothing wrong with being rewarded for doing something.

@Momo-cd5pw

Жыл бұрын

​@@joescheller6680There definitely is. I learned that early on. As a sibling with a brother with special needs you dont reward like that. Change is such a big deal for them. If you reward hitting, just to calm them down..its going to be a lot harder to change. The barber was right. There dosent need to be confusion..the less change the better in this situation. So the father and barber need the same plan.

@bigde131

Жыл бұрын

@@joescheller6680depends on what you’re being rewarded for. Rewarding small things is how you can get entitled people who want participation trophies for doing the bare minimum. I was talking to somebody yesterday who was like “i pay my bills, cook my own meals, and go to work everyday! No help!.” Sooo you want a pat on the back for being an adult lol?

@pazza4555

Жыл бұрын

​@@joescheller6680For doing something correctly. You don't give the reward while the child is still not doing what's needed.

This is what “love your neighbor” is all about.

He is so wonderful, I pray for all the blessings of God to hom.

Parents don't realize that THEY are the ones who are sometimes the fault of misbehavior with their children. This is a prime example. The barber handled this very well!

Loved this and loved how the barber communicated with the parents also. Loved how he knew the child wasn't so fragile like most people think. He spoke with logic.

I have autism, and haircuts have always been hell for me, the ladies that cut my hair are absolutely amazing. They don’t make me feel like crap for it and treat me human, just like this guy. I applaud him❤

This man really deserves some kind of commendation or special award. What an amazing service he's offering.

@goestheboom5211

9 ай бұрын

I mean I feel there's probably more important people those rewards could go to before we reach him but that's nice

He truly a kind men❤

This barber is tha BOMB! His patience kindness compassion and empathy make him amazing! Tears came to my eyes!

I love how he respectfully checked the parents, because even though the parents do mean well, the barber has his own system and method to calming the children down. My mom would get so mad at me when she saw I didn’t raise any hell with the beautician but would raise it with her 😂

@evelyn7881

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely. If the parents don't want to allow him to cut the child's hair using his " barber expertise ", then the parents should take them home and cut the hair themselves.

@patricesutter4344

Жыл бұрын

Man I sat so still at the beautician 😢😢😢

@heathersworld9881

Жыл бұрын

When our local haircutterys new stylist noticed my autistic 4 yr olds funky chop job I did she asked if I would wait till she was done and she would do him she had experience. she was a life changer that I can not put into words this video brings back so much happy tears.

MY HEART 😭😭 what a beautiful man!! I hope he has nothing but joy and good fortune in his life

I could never do this respect for this guy’s patience

My son is autistic and his barber is amazing. Even the other customers have been kind. My son screams and crys so im constantly apologizing but everyone is always so understanding

@I-Read-KJV

Жыл бұрын

He is Avery nice man! But he sounds and looks like Dr.Reed

@dr.100purrscent5

Жыл бұрын

Bless your Heart. Most parents want their children to do their best to be on their best behavior in public. That isn't an uncommon wish, but it isn't a realistic request more than 1/2 the time. Children, special needs or not, need Adults who will give them grace, thoughtful correction, mentorship, guidance; in a protected space where they know they will be Loved even if they mess up or miss the mark from time to time. You keep providing that for your Child and like-minded people will support your lead and/or efforts. You must doing many things very well because your kindness is being reflected back to you wherever you go. Bravo ✊🏾💗

@CrustyUgg

Жыл бұрын

@Blueness1230he would never 😂 hates anything on his face. Its just something he needs to get used to over time

@CrustyUgg

Жыл бұрын

@@dr.100purrscent5thank you! I still try and encourage him of course but everyone assures me it's ok to be scared and that he will get better with time. It lets me breathe a sigh of relief ❤