If your ex dumps you and has a new boyfriend 2 weeks or less later, they were not trying to make things work with you. Period.

@thaddiusglunt2424

5 жыл бұрын

@ageofbogyo you completely missed the point. We all have short lives. Ya, women don't age as well as men, but if ur in a long term relationship that's been going on for over 3 years, the right thing to do would be to try and make things work IF the guy is willing to make changes. This is often not the case tho and it's fucked.

@magdalenojuan

5 жыл бұрын

She was already talking to this person while being with you.

@thaddiusglunt2424

5 жыл бұрын

@@magdalenojuan in all likelihood, yes. Thats my point.

@magdalenojuan

5 жыл бұрын

Thaddius Glunt This is why “friends” is not good. But what can you do? Under Society’s norms you either are insecure or controlling lol If she is going to leave, it’s going to happen regardless.

@slicedtopieces

5 жыл бұрын

@ageofbogyo Your comment makes sense. We can't simultaneously say that "men age like fine wine and women like milk" with the understanding that "THE WALL takes no prisoners" and all that and then turn around and be shocked that women use that tight window to find the best mate possible. Still, we can definitely make some moral judgments around the dishonesty of monkey branching. Stringing a person along is fraudulent behavior when you're explicitly aiming for another person outside the first person's knowledge.

I'd say a lot of women over value their worth.

@crypter27

5 жыл бұрын

No truer words could be spoken!

@gregoryromero6856

5 жыл бұрын

To put it mildly...

@xxuncexx

5 жыл бұрын

But some do not and can successfully monkey branch

@cornstar1253

5 жыл бұрын

The current market will decide value.

@TravelBandit

5 жыл бұрын

What else do u expect with all you incels giving them compliments on the internet all day 😂

So, effectively, a woman is CONSTANTLY on the lookout for something better. Yet, they insist, either directly or indirectly,, that the man be totally committed.

@OGLOCK69

5 жыл бұрын

thomas rhodes they are the incarnation of hypocrisy and contradictory behaviour

@thomasrhodes5013

5 жыл бұрын

@@OGLOCK69 You gotta' love them. ....dating, and certainly marriage, now that is way too risky.

@wdd3141

4 жыл бұрын

Now we understand why women get all bent out of shape when a man who "belongs" to them looks at another woman. When a man does it, he's responding to his own innate appreciation of beauty, and seconds afterward he has forgotten the lovely lady he has seen (or ogled). But when a WOMAN looks at another man, she is actually shopping! She gets angry at the wandering-eye man because she assumes he is doing what SHE would do!

@thomasrhodes5013

4 жыл бұрын

@David Gibson ..........." that is what she said''

@hansmemling7605

3 жыл бұрын

Yup

If she can’t be single for a long period of time, stay away from her.

@justinr2564

5 жыл бұрын

Wish I could somehow thumbs this up 50 times.

@Cujo5

5 жыл бұрын

...and if she's been single for a long time, stay away from her. They can't win lol.

@jluck1399

5 жыл бұрын

Cujo I don’t know, some women are single for a long time for good reasons, but others are single for a long time because somethings wrong with them so I can kinda agree lol

@perretlaurent6665

4 жыл бұрын

Man, all women are made to be with a man. I know a girl complaining because she was alone. I asked her since when she was alone. She answered 2 weeks. At this time, I have not touched a woman since 6 months. They don't have the same time in their mine as ours.

@paulstewart3847

4 жыл бұрын

Hmmm this will most likely get me booed but when not in all cases btw a women says she has been single for a while they tend to omit certain things such as lots of dates and ons and semi regular fwbs

This happened to me 3 times in long term relationships. I have an extremely strong "us against the world" mentality in relationships and I'm loyal to a fault. It destroyed me. I literally lost myself for 5 years in chronic depression and am just starting to find joy in little things again. Beware men.

@betagimp127

5 жыл бұрын

Me to. I said fuck them and started putting all my energy into training boxing and lifting weights. I'm 41 now, spend most of year training in far east and never intend to have a relationship again. Its more fun pumping and dumping skirt half my age. Fear not , we hold all the aces

@veritasabsoluta4285

5 жыл бұрын

@@betagimp127 Having sex with a girl half your age is pretty fucking creepy mate. Get some help.

@veritasabsoluta4285

5 жыл бұрын

@James W You're telling me it's okay for a 41 year old man to have sex with a 20 year old girl? Fucking disgusting. Both of you are sick, jesus christ.

@pepeluis6549

5 жыл бұрын

@@veritasabsoluta4285 well guess... You are not Veritas Absoluta.

@trey-frey3963

5 жыл бұрын

@@betagimp127 till you catch something you can't give back😩

I accept monkey branching for what it is. The grass isn't always greener on the other side which is why I think it evens out for men. Let her be a another man's problem.

@MySalsaSalsa

5 жыл бұрын

Amen!

@Jonas-ue6ep

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly! Their hypergamous nature will always trick them into thinking the grass is greener on the other side. Then, they come running back, once they figure out it's not. They are too damn impulsive! Act now, think later is how they live

@PrinceRevolver

5 жыл бұрын

@Jase Fez did you not read where I said isn't always?

@JJ-vp3bd

5 жыл бұрын

as soon as she is gone after showing such behaviors the problems disappear

@TheyCalledMeT

5 жыл бұрын

if she's willing to do that .. you're lucky she left you .. but it's still a disgusting act of betrayal .. she would be so outraged .. she would spew blood .. if you woul've done it..

She's stealing his energy while she looks for another.

@thewhizkid3937

4 жыл бұрын

Bingo.

@riderviper

4 жыл бұрын

You got that spot on

@obadiahscave

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@Jester2415

4 жыл бұрын

Money, you mean.

@thewhizkid3937

4 жыл бұрын

@@Jester2415 bingo 👍🏿

My female coworkers talk about dumping their boyfriends for better guys and encourage each other do this exact thing. They especially encourage their younger friends to explore other options while having a boyfriend. It's literally just a game to them; one where they themselves make the rules. They will always listen to their girl friends more than they listen to their boyfriends.

@CrossingTheStreetArt

2 жыл бұрын

I swear if their boyfriends heard what they tell each other, they'd all be dumped and crying about how they lost (like they lost a game) and alone they are.

@Jugulator31

Жыл бұрын

The worst enemy of any woman is her immediate friends.

@TheRealJohnHooper

Жыл бұрын

That sounds like these women try to sabotage the relationships of the other women..

@timesize

Жыл бұрын

I am 2.5 years after being monkey branched and have only just begun to feel ok. She did not string me along, she maintained both relationships fully until snapping the one that becomes the past. There is no consequence for her, she’s engaged and likely married by now. I, on the other hand, have difficulty trusting anyone, namely myself

@abelsietecuatro9249

11 ай бұрын

Nothing wrong with being smart woman. Men are strong and smart but they are weak and naive in the subject of love

Mandatory paternity tests with full disclosure to every child born and half of these problems end.

@KallusGarnet

4 жыл бұрын

@John Murdoch well someone has to be the father or else the children could grow up fatherless.

@peaj4812

4 жыл бұрын

@@KallusGarnet Wow that's simply disgusting, your name fits almost perfectly you are very callous. An accused father should not be given the burden of raising a child that isn't his. Any argument to say otherwise is simply immoral.

@writerconsidered

4 жыл бұрын

@@KallusGarnet Its called paternity fraud and in some cases it is illegal. When you say father what are you referring to? In most cases it isn't fatherhood its wallethood. Men being forced by the state to pay for another man's child. It is done for "the good of the child." Really it is for the good of the state, the more men pay the less tax dollars pay. Please look into this subject matter, thank you.

@ramu992

4 жыл бұрын

@@peaj4812 i know right, it's disgusting.

@customsongmaker

2 жыл бұрын

Most of these problems would end if the government stopped giving women our tax money for free. Then they couldn't say they don't need a man, so every woman would have to make herself useful to one man.

People who stay with someone simply to avoid being alone are pathetic and deserve no one.

@YourDad-te9fg

4 жыл бұрын

It’s for the resources of the man in the relationship, and yes it’s downright disgusting

@garbonratslayer1387

4 жыл бұрын

That's most women. My neighbors were together for 6 years. She had a little girl who he helped raise. They had a child together and after a few years the place he worked at closed and she was gone. All of a sudden one day she told him she didn't want to be with him anymore. She moved out and surprise surprise she had a new boyfriend a week later. Turns out the new guy was a complete psycho and ended up stalking her. Now she's alone and miserable and my neighbor who she left found another good job and a girlfriend 15 years younger than him.

@thewhizkid3937

4 жыл бұрын

Well at that point. That is some sort of obsessive trait. A clinginess of some sort. May start from early age.

@garbonratslayer1387

4 жыл бұрын

@Nick Couture they share custody

@xenxander

3 жыл бұрын

so... women.

I learned a very long time ago, if you have an opportunity to get with a girl and she already has a boyfriend, you better believe that if you do get with her you are going to end up like said boyfriend more often than not.

@MrComic97

3 жыл бұрын

What attractive women doesn’t have a boyfriend?

@alphatrion4365

3 жыл бұрын

@@MrComic97 exactly.

Not only are those women wasting man's time, it is emotionally crippling if you see your ex girlfriend with another man shortly after the breakup.

This shows my ex-wife's weakness. She ignored communication and lied about not believing in divorce. She monkey-branched to a WORSE person than me...and I will watch her self-destruct.

@carloscabrera5311

4 жыл бұрын

Mine too. My ex wife monkey brached to a guy. He started giving her the attention I was not giving. Giving her compliments everyday and buying her flowers. She denied being with anyone for two years until I broke into her instagram account. 3 days after the break up she was telling him, "I love you baby." I later found out the guy is gay and it's using her to cover his preferences to his family.

@Niveous23

4 жыл бұрын

hard to be bitter like women accuse men when they provide such entertainment for us.

@canoelicker

4 жыл бұрын

Mine as well. Problem is we have kids and she has absolutely NO issue with what she's done to them mentally because she cares exclusively for herself 1st. It's been a few years and I'm happy for this happening to me, now, because I know who she REALLY is as a person but I hate her for what she's done to my kids. They don't deserve a "mother" like this. Don't sacrifice yourself and everything to better your women guys, it will NEVER be enough for them. One day you will learn. Learn the right way. It's not all about her - show her that.

@markrcca5329

4 жыл бұрын

we had our ups and downs, but the relationship with me and my wife has been remarkably stable. Somehow, my wife decided that I was the best she could do, and I've been pretty lucky for that :) But, if she ever changed her mind, I would be sad, but I also know I would get over it.

@Tawera1

4 жыл бұрын

Same here. The 'upgrade' didn't last long though and our daughter had to change the locks on him when he got thrown out.

This is where the notion of "She isn't yours, it's just your turn." comes from. Some men are becoming wise to this and treating women as if they too are disposable. Of course women hate the pump and dumpers. However this is men using the same tactic in turn in a masculine way. The female way is more insidious in my opinion, because she will latch onto the man's life, use his time and resources. Women will do this while leading the man on. The man is thinking that this is a real long term relationship. The man gives his all towards the relationship and is left with a gaping hole where his heart and wallet used to be. This tactic usually lasts for months to years, where the woman has put herself into every facet of his life. The male method leads a woman on as well. However this usually only lasts for a single encounter, to several weeks. The male tactic usually doesn't drain the woman's resources either. The emotional drain is typically not as bad either in my opinion as the man did not completely embed himself into her life. Only mislead her to believe that there was a potential future with him, but never really offered it. The male method is a plan. A plan with a set timeline that will be completed. The female approach to this isn't typically a plan, as a tactic that can be enacted at any moment. Sprung into motion whenever need, or opportunity presents itself. This is why a man can never really relax in a modern relationship. Myself and probably most men want to be able to relax themselves at the very least in their home life, and not be on guard at all times. This does not lead to men being content in life, and a relationship. A truly miserable way to live if you ask me.

@kryptoblade501

5 жыл бұрын

and this whole concept with "love" is funny because females dont believe in love however they want the guy to believe in it because it will make him vulnerable and weak while she takes his resources and time. They always talking about romance and all this shit and when a guy shows it to them they just run off and u can tell she doesnt care about love or believe in it because its always the guy crying and she wont loose a minute crying shes off to the next guy.

@victwenty2324

5 жыл бұрын

MEN LOVE WOMEN DO NOT a man sees his family as his family thats pure loyalty a woman doesnt see a family she sees HER OFF SPRING AND HOW THEY CAN HELP PROVIDE HER WITH """"THINGS""" MEN PROJECT TERE GOODNESS ONTO THERE FAMILYS AND PARTNERS THIS IS THE DOWNFALL OF MEN AS NON OF THE KIDS OR THE MOTHER HAVE ANY LOYALTY

@alenkratohvil9377

5 жыл бұрын

Bob Kane that is an accurate description and exactly what I say when I talk to my buddies who all interestingly experience the very same things with women time after time. And now we've reluctantly been pump and dumpers which we originally weren't and still aren't happy but hey we want females in our lives. EDIT: I should say we are not actually dumping after pumping, we are hoping to get a girlfriend or a real life partner out of it but it seems to be more accurate in our cases the women are dumping and not because we're not that good at pumping. They just get bored fast etc. They are not looking for a relationship etc. EDIT complete. That doesn't make any of us feel good, me or my friends who are going through the same experiences. We keep longing for the real deal that just doesn't seem to exist and come from women and it's disheartening

@catonthemoon2084

5 жыл бұрын

@@alenkratohvil9377 So true

@catonthemoon2084

5 жыл бұрын

Bob Kane great insight & sadly 100% true

"You don't go shoe shopping barefoot" is exactly the mentality that comes to mind

Alexander Grace is the person talking about controversial/red pilled issues with the best morals. He is also the most relaxed one, even discussing topics which are obviously frustrating for a man. So refreshing to have someone like him in this space. Thank you for what you do.

@user-tr6sz4pf8e

Жыл бұрын

He's Not a tater who goes wayyy too far the other way

@DragonlordVindi

Жыл бұрын

I'm now imagining Lain Iwakura watching manosphere videos and chuckling to myself. XD

OMG so true, my ex did just that, shopped around her orbiters till she found a better one than me.

@K9amilo90

5 жыл бұрын

The mere fact that she left you does not portray her in a positive light. You dodged a bullet in a long term. Hope you will find a decent woman

@durnel2001

5 жыл бұрын

K9amilo90 we're all hoping bro, but the demand is much higher than the supply...

@username2062

5 жыл бұрын

K9amilo90 I have thank you👌

@danielabreu2312

5 жыл бұрын

He is not better than you, brother.

@jakubrogacz6829

5 жыл бұрын

@@K9amilo90 Don't hope death for him, there is no women that is loyal that he wil ever find

it's all about taking responsibility for your own actions, which women will never do.

@chuckiegravesfield3170

5 жыл бұрын

never marry a career woman

@shulkb5

5 жыл бұрын

That's one of many things why men are superior to women, we evolve ! Women can stay childish even at an old age

@king49334

5 жыл бұрын

Even at 70

@WhiteLivesMatterPL

5 жыл бұрын

b whimmim stay childish all their life.

@thegamerschoice3887

5 жыл бұрын

what a bunch of incels

You have to change your mindset. It’s not your problem anymore. Let someone else struggle through that. Instead, be thankful she left on time and not when you have 5 kids and married. Separate memories from the person. You miss the memories, not the person.

@Motivation-_power

2 ай бұрын

I like this word I miss the memories not the person

Married twice... this happened to me both times. Absolutely crushing!!!

@swornxeno6723

5 жыл бұрын

Damn

@nothumanff5900

3 жыл бұрын

Well you learned after losing alot

@AmazingVidsXXX

3 жыл бұрын

Sorry you went thru that man. That’s why I talk to multiple women because they all talk to multiple dudes. 💯

@nalkassar

3 жыл бұрын

Your main mistake both times was marriage... :(

@anutpalgogoi9741

3 жыл бұрын

Damn bro

So true. A woman never moves on without carefully calculating everything and having a plan to go with someone else.

@bobsmith962

4 жыл бұрын

That's how the game is played.

@steveogle3679

10 ай бұрын

That's a weakness not a strength.

How funny. Last night I was doing Lyft and I got a request from a guy to pick up his girlfriend at a bar. She was hugging and kissing a dude who wasn't her boyfriend. I dropped her off at his place and he was waiting for her outside of his home. I didn't say anything. Sad, very sad.

@taylorc9212

5 жыл бұрын

If she wants to go to a bar without you then it's already over or soon will be. She'll be approached 2 dozen times a night and she'll likely give into someone that has a higher lms value than you. Even if you are very attractive it might only take 2 nights for that to happen

@catherinetexas1006

5 жыл бұрын

You should text the guy

@bullseye6969

5 жыл бұрын

I would have told that guy on face but that mught ruin my relation with both of them.

@joshuaattractsmoney

5 жыл бұрын

Wow. I would have said something. LMAO

@lionelhutz5137

5 жыл бұрын

Did you smash tho?

My wife of 25 years monkey branched out of my life. Nearly destroyed me. I am better now, and did manage to reinvent myself.

@risefromyourpain

6 ай бұрын

Well done sir

You nailed it! I love the way you summarized it. Unfortunately, the internet is full of toxic advice like "if you are unhappy, you don't owe him anything" "his suffer after a breakup is not your business, his friends and family should take care of him" such toxic advice make me sick in the stomach.

@bruegant

Жыл бұрын

Also, females now feel that following their emotions at a whim is healthy. It doesn't matter what the circumstances are, if you're not happy then it's not for you mentality. So now situations that help relationships grow are used as exist opportunities.

ofcourse its immoral! it shows a lack of loyalty, it also shows a lack of strength, its a weakness a strong person doesent feel the need to upgrade, a strong person stays and fights also... this is cheating in its own way, this is not something an honest and good person would do

@xxxSHyZAxxx

5 жыл бұрын

This is something that most women do...

@notreal3164

5 жыл бұрын

Greed is a common trait and sin...

@wolfgangpagel6989

5 жыл бұрын

There is not a single woman that is loyal in the long term. it is always a calculation of benefits. Just that they calculate also other dimensions of benefit.

@weissmag

5 жыл бұрын

@ EnderCrypt: Oh yeah just like a guy I know who now says he wasted the last 15 years of his life since he stayed at a family business he was loyal to starting at $9 per hour and now he gets &16 per hour after 15 years and they never as much gave him one week vacation !!! He now has a licence he could use to get $45 per hour ,but he is still talking about loyalty to the employer !

@MrOnetedify

5 жыл бұрын

@@Sp1n1985 true most females use the Flight option from what i have seen.

Haha, women thinking about morality. That’s a funny one.

@David-ni5hj

5 жыл бұрын

Nature Myth Women: *see morality* What kind of oppressive thing is this?

@tesfita1

5 жыл бұрын

Hahaha

@wolfgangpagel6989

5 жыл бұрын

Obviously morality is for women very important. It means to them to have power. Just that they are used to bending it until it fits them. It is the No.1 attack against other women.

@boss4330

5 жыл бұрын

@Andrei Preach!

@nathanielringdahl

5 жыл бұрын

Their innate solipsism denies them even the opportunity to consider morality ;) They simply don't have the ability

Last year my wife of 5yrs decided to leave. She broke her foot about a week after (we were still living together while I was looking for a place), I then spent the next 2 and a half months nursing her back to health (driving her to work and picking her up, taking her everywhere she needed to go etc.) all the while I was attempting to reconcile and save our marriage. I moved out after 3months and 1 month later she had another boyfriend. I can't help but think and feel that while I was doting on her and attempting to save our relationship she was already canvasing a replacement.

@peterrakoma7613

3 жыл бұрын

Did the pain of separation go away?

@Alfaskulls

Жыл бұрын

Read carefully and learn.

@dothedewinme

Жыл бұрын

Uh obviously that what she was doing. She knew she could use you to get all the things she needed while dangling the carrot and then when you’re usefulness was done she was with him immediately, it just want public for a month bc of how it would look. I’ve seen it happen many times and it happened to me once upon a time albeit much lower stakes

@dpeagles

Жыл бұрын

She already had your replacement.

@billyin4c514

Жыл бұрын

The fact that you were willing to help her after she discarded you may be the reason that she left in the first place. Apathy is perfectly appropriate for a stranger, after this woman decided to leave she might as well be a stranger.

Theses dating apps turned women into consumers.

@EnFuegoDuo

4 жыл бұрын

Nope. They always have been. These apps just amplified what they did naturally and prevent them from losing face in their own community since they can geographically isolate all their targets.

@disaffectedmale

4 жыл бұрын

and men into products. Usually decorations or appliances.

@Splatterpunk_OldNewYork

3 жыл бұрын

These dating apps destroyed whatever these women had left.

This recently happened to me. Only im the new branch the monkey is trying to swing onto! I met this girl in a cafe I frequent who has been flirting with pretty heavily. I have been kind of reticent to make any kind of actual move cause my gut tells me she is nothing but trouble. She told me she is staying in the neighborhood with a "Friend". Yeah right. That friend I come to find out is a guy. A friend of mine saw him yelling at her on the street. My gut was right.

@butterflymage5623

5 жыл бұрын

David Dez nah, why would you screw over another guy?

@theangrycro-mag9444

5 жыл бұрын

David Dez yeah. No thanks. I get the strong feeling that is well worn territory if you catch my drift. Not to mention she will be looking to glom onto me no doubt looking for a new place to crash. If I was 23 again? Sure, I may say fuck it and let the chips fall where they may. But at my age now? No thanks. Been there, done that. Believe me , I am flattered that such a young good looking woman is giving me such attention! It’s something I haven’t had in awhile. But nah. Just too much drama I can see coming from a mile away.

@shoryukenxx

5 жыл бұрын

@The Angry French Existentialist (AKA The Frenchistentialist) Hahaha 👍"My gut was right". Ya and I can take a guess why he was yelling at her lol

@theangrycro-mag9444

5 жыл бұрын

Banacek Haha. Yup.

@P3RF3CTD3ATH

5 жыл бұрын

@@butterflymage5623 you're not screwing over another guy. You're teaching him a valuable lesson.

If their are more Woman than Men, than how is this advantage possible.... it is only because Men give them this advantage.... Men , wake up and stop giving away attention to Woman who do not deserve it.... STOP IT.

@mihaiflaviusuhani5887

4 жыл бұрын

You are both right but in different regards

So, I was with someone for about 6 months. She was a part of my entire life. She'd want to be around me every chance she had. I thought, wow, this is great. This girl is so caring, feminine and beautiful. I would spend time with her whenever I could for months. Then, the cracks started showing about 4 months in. We had an argument, because I didn't want to go somewhere that she did, while she was spending the week at my house. I said, "you're welcome to go, I'm not going to stop you. But, I don't want to". But, she insisted that it be turned into an argument, even though it really didn't need to be. A few days later, I saw that she'd downloaded tinder when she was using her phone in front of me. I brought it up with her, and she said that she wasn't happy, but we talked and sorted it out. I thought it was all good.. A few months later, we had another argument leading up to Valentine's day. She then posted a video on Instagram of her out on a date... Then, called me after as if nothing had happened. I told her it was unnaceptable and to not talk to me unless she was not seeing him. She came over a few days later and slept with me, and then cried, saying she felt disloyal to the new guy. I told her to leave and not talk to me. For the next month or so, this girl would call me once or twice a week, to "touch base" and would emotionally blackmail me when I would ignore her. Saying she was crying or whatever. Because I still loved her, I'd give in and talk to her, then go about my business. All the while, heartbroken about what had happened. One day she called while I was at work. I told her I was busy and would call back when I had a chance. I went to a mates afterwards and planned to call her the next day when I wasn't busy. She messaged, emotionally blackmailing me again about how bad a person I was. I ignored her and called the next day when I was free. She said she'd ended things with the other guy and wanted to spend time with me. I figured she made the decision. For the next few weeks, we hung out as if everything was normal. Then, I could sense her pulling away again, but just let her pull away, not putting pressure on her. On my birthday, she came over and told me she was going to leave me again to be with this guy. Turned out it was never her decision to end things with him. They'd just had an argument and she didn't want to be alone and used me to keep her company in the meantime. I told her I can't forgive her for that and have blocked her from all things and deleted her number. I told her that she can call me in case of an emergency, but nothing else. She still calls about once every 2-3 weeks, just to "chat". Every time, I say I don't want to talk to her about anything, and that I'm only here for emergencies. If she calls again, I'll be telling her straight that she needs to stop, and that I'll be blocking her number. It's hard, when your brain plays the trick on you that you love someone. But, I don't love her. I love the illusion of what I thought she was. I could never love someone who'd manipulate people the way she does. So, I'm not mourning the loss of her. I'm mourning the loss of who I thought she was. People who monkey-branch, are insecure, emotional parasites. At the first sign of this behaviour, just walk and never look back. I wish I did that first time. I'd have saved myself so many headaches and so much money.

@JohnDoe-xk1dv

4 жыл бұрын

'I would spend time with her whenever I could for months'. This was your first massive problem - you, not her. Mr 'always around', Mr Available becomes Mr Boring. You set yourself up for the fall, sorry to say. Women like scarcity and challenge - sadly, it sounded like you were neither. Sorry. And after she downloaded Tinder?!, and you spotted it - the rest is irrelevant. You should have dumped her right there and then, and not spoke to her ever again. Did you realise you were out at that point? Why would you ever stay and touch the body of someone dissing and cheating on you in this way? Where's your spine as a self respecting guy? Ask yourself these things, and you might learn something. We've all been there, don't worry, but sounds like you've got a lot of learning to do still on this. You picked someone with no integrity too, but thats a moot point anyway now. Try maybe checking out the works of Tom Hodges (aka Doc Love's) The System for more insight. This isn't a plant, I studied it myself back in the day. Plenty of his columns free on the Internet to learn from. Good luck.

@virginiusmaximus7006

4 жыл бұрын

@@JohnDoe-xk1dv completely agree with you. I was probably a little too availanle and It was my fault. And like I said, I should have stopped talking to her when she downloaded tinder, but I was too much of a pussy. Not to worry though, what's done is done. It's all character building and a lesson I was going to learn sooner or later. Onwards and upwards.

@neodistinct

6 күн бұрын

Sounds like BPD

I like that you try to look at things objectively and not fall into the trap of ‘woman-hating’ - which lets face it, is the easier thing to do because when you have somebody (or a group) to blame then it makes you not have to be as accountable for your decisions/ actions. This is basically what feminists do but with men. I’ve been monkey branched from before and I’ve had friends (who are dudes) monkey branch from their girlfriends too on to hotter girls. Monkey branching is highly immoral and a reflection of what has happened to modern relationships - if something is breaking, nobody wants to fix it... they just want a new one. Great video!

@RC-qc2nz

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly. Many woman wants me and there are some young hot woman there but I stay with my girl. We are 7 years together and many of those woman especially the hotter ones, go crazy because I stay with my woman.

All of my 3 exes did monkey branching. One of them is the mother of my daughter. Honestly it's hard to trust girls these days. 😞

@thecustodian1023

5 жыл бұрын

Occasionally we win one even if its by accident. My Ex wife wanted to change me into the type of person I am not just so she could play the trophy wife game, despite having turned herself into what was basically the opposite of a trophy wife on every level. Since that didn't fly and she had near zero marketable value, thanks to her self imposed transformation into a overweight out of shape aging useless opinionated harpy, that was going to 'show me once and for all 'she was better' than me, we got divorced (she paid since there was no legally justifiable reason she could find for it and we both knew it) and she went on her own. She then went from a near $50K a year on 40 hours a week easy desk job with full benefits and having near 90% of that income as play money (being I paid the vast majority of the home expense other than her fuel to get herself to her job and what retarded overpriced fake health nut food she wanted that I refused to pay for) to basically having zero spending money and hole lot more working hours in day in less than a week! Apparently the dumbass did not ever think things out that once we were divorced, and she had her own place, I no longer had any obligations to pay for any of her past, present or future living expenses whatsoever! My life got greatly better and hers worse, the total opposite of what she shoved in my face and told everyone would happen for near a year if she left! :D

@jestersage8700

5 жыл бұрын

Get a DNA test might not be yours. But feel sorry for you brother. In your case she's extremely immoral because she put herself before the need of her kid. Yet the feminist narrative tells us that women are worthy of respect. I've always maintained a distinction between ladies and bitches. It sad to know that your daughter will grow up knowing her mother is not a lady. I wonder if these people ever think about their kids.

@MasterKnutA

5 жыл бұрын

@@jestersage8700 oh I know she's mine. She looks like me, we wanted kids back then 😄

@hereb4theend

5 жыл бұрын

@@thecustodian1023 I'd kick a girl out of my life the minute she gets fat 😜

@hereb4theend

5 жыл бұрын

@Mr. Green but then you won't be able to do rapemojis like this 😭😜

This is so absolutely true. Women do this so often.

@MrFastFarmer

5 жыл бұрын

Really? You need to understand what a women is!

@dorinoprea5835

5 жыл бұрын

@@MrFastFarmer i thought they are decent humans, jokes on me

@Godzilla-ct2pp

5 жыл бұрын

Man, this’s why I’m done with long term relationships. Just pump and dump them and you won’t get hurt. It’s really impossible to keep a woman happy and content.

Women always bang on about honesty, yet they don’t think it applies to them.

@bliepblooper2555

4 жыл бұрын

And trust. "You have to trust me 100%!" Said the girl who cheated on her ex to be with me and left me because of feelings for a new dude.

I've done everything and she never said anything until last minute, guys if shes acting weird it's a red flag,sit her down and have a serious conversation

@MultiWeen

4 жыл бұрын

She has no obligation to you. Her feelings are all she cares about. First red flag hit it one last time really good then dump her. Tell her goodluck.

@thebestforthemost

4 жыл бұрын

A conversation will not fix anything. Some of you already know this but to some of you it will actually come as a surprise but the worse thing you can do is to beg her or "give everything to her" because she will lose any respect that she had for you (and because then she feels that she can do anything -even walk away- and then come back to you without a problem). Best thing you can do is actually to be ready to let her go, let her know about it and to mean it and then she might stay a little longer because "your value" will increase in her eyes but she will never stop "monkey branching" so you should always be ready: "she is not yours, it is just your turn"

@DJW1981

4 жыл бұрын

@@thebestforthemost once those red flags start flying just change the locks and put her stuff outside under a tarp. You owe her nothing at that point.

@jnordne2

3 жыл бұрын

@ Bingo. She'll lie her ass off. When my ex-wife was having her exit affair, my gut was SCREAMING at me, but I still wanted to "do the right thing" and "be the better person", so when I confronted and she denied there being anyone else, I believed her. It took me months to get into her emails and social media, and of course, my gut was right the whole time. Then, she turned it around and blamed ME for getting into her "private" emails! :D

most women cannot be alone - they stay longer in a relationship until they can monkey branch. women are totally insecure ... most of them need a man who make decisions. it is better to make a wrong desicion than no decision, but women thinking about nearly everything - instead of monkey branching. they don't know which shoes to choose but monkey branch you really quick.

@MrSmithie25

5 жыл бұрын

@@bossgd100 and english is not my first languarge 😆

@tshaolin971

5 жыл бұрын

They are looking for men to fix their existential issues.

@frankys1820

5 жыл бұрын

Do you think that it also applies to pretty women? I don't think it does.

@MrSmithie25

5 жыл бұрын

@@Sp1n1985 yeah, i think no matter how a woman looks, monkey branching is in their DNA, even a woman who is a 3/10 can monkey branch, because they have unrealistic standards which they cannot fullfill by themselves but in the other hand, there are so many betas outside who just want to get laid.

I love to hear/read monkey branching stories gone wrong. Men, do not ever accept women trying to monkey branch from you, if they do, let they go to their merry life. The same way, refuse to be the next branch of a woman that is trying to de-branch the other guy to you.

When I was in my early twenties I saw many men work their asses off to get their woman through college. They ALL broke up after she was done or when she was close to finishing her degree.

@bigdeneen

3 жыл бұрын

I almost paid for my ex wife to get her PhD. she started acting strange and shows signs of trying to monkey branch. I never went through her phone until my sister told me too, once I explained her behavior to my sister. And boom 💥 she was entertaining a few other candidates. Well she never got her PhD and had to withdraw from her studies , because I stop paying for her classes and divorced her.

@slnerd3709

3 жыл бұрын

Liberal educated girls are soo scarey

Man I have been trying to explain this to people for years. Didn’t know there was a term for it. Thanks yo

At 62 yrs, I was involved with a psychotic, malignant narcissist. After I split, I come to find out from her son, that she hurt and destroyed many lives...going from state to state, love bombing, devalue, and discard.... including the monkey-branching to help with her next meal. Although, I didn't know what it was at the time. All I knew was that she lived in a "fantasy world and lied all the time". Horrible experience, and one that helped me understand this evil. It took a while to recover, but I am a better person for it, and enjoy life and nature, again.

This kind of personality trait is referred to as a ‘replacement’ syndrome. There are a large group of men and women who are incapable of total commitment and unconditional love. They are always looking for a replacement or an upgrade. As you get older you will be able to more easily recognize these types of people. Avoid them at all cost.

Literally 80% of women I’ve known...not dated...but known...monkey branch. I’ve had dozens of conversations about it with them and no matter how much I’ve objectively proven my point, they always come up with some justification for doing it...and it often doesn’t make sense. What adds insult to injury is that they are telling the guys they are trying to leave that they love them. My response has always been, you’re simply justifying being selfish. If you care about him, leave and give up what he’s providing. What they don’t realize is that men have always known that women do this and from a young age. I’ve explained to them there are certain tells a woman gives. Usually it’s a gut instinct to us as something being off. No matter how subtle the difference is, we can tell. What usually happens is she gets played either by leaving only to having the new guy use and dump her...or finds out that he’s low quality with a high quality appearance. It goes to the cliche, you never know somebody until you’ve been with them full time. So usually...justice is served. A high quality woman would never monkey branch. She’s comfortable in being truly single because she values herself and operates in integrity.

@mikereiss4216

Жыл бұрын

I believe you. They are able to justify (in their mind) why they do it in the same way they are able to give excuses as to why they want the man to pay for them on the first date.

@dothedewinme

Жыл бұрын

We didn’t have the name for it but we were talking about this happening even back in high school like in 2008. Even back then being like 16 we knew exactly what they were doing

My boyfriend monkey branched out of our relationship about a month ago, I’m still heartbroken over it, it’s the worst... monkey branching is immoral... it should be illegal.

@slnerd3709

3 жыл бұрын

Yes I hope you were a good gf for him. Otherwise you are just bullshiting here

@camillemerkt7134

3 жыл бұрын

@@slnerd3709 As a matter of fact it would take the woman vote to make it illegal. Highly doubt women would vote down one of their greatest tools of hypergamy.

It's happened to me multiple times, and has destroyed the lives of many others I know. Many women on social media openly BRAG about their "orbiter pools" and monkey-branching to other men; sometimes using it as a threat to their current man to, "Stay in line, or I'll have your replacement in my bed tomorrow, because there are 100 others in my inbox waiting to take your spot." It's terrible. Thank you for this video and really concise break-down, bro.

@eecajledo8430

5 жыл бұрын

Then let the girl leave and go get another GF. There is nothing wrong with doing that. She wants to go then bye. Right? Am I seeing something wrong ? Why is it when I try to tell others this they can not get it or just dismiss the idea.

@alphamegaradio

5 жыл бұрын

@@eecajledo8430 That's exactly what I did. And agreed. That is the best thing to do.

This has happened to me and I think pretty much all of my friends. But, this behaviour was limited to when we were in our teens and early 20s. Thing is, teens and early 20s are very formative years that will almost certainly define, or at least greatly influance, the rest of your life. Its hard to forget the bad behaviour of young women.

There's this saying that I heard once: Men play to win. Women play to not lose. Rings true nowadays imo. Not for all. But for most women in my generation (I'm 24).

@versatilelord8893

4 жыл бұрын

CoreConcept 94 where did this saying come from because there’s so much truth to this

@misinglink15

4 жыл бұрын

Here is another take from the late comedian Patrice O'Neal: "Women dont want to win they want a winner."

@goodoldschool898

3 жыл бұрын

Women don't play to win they 'PLAY you to lose".

It's not always about finding someone "better". It's about finding someone unfamiliar and new. In fact I'd say it is mostly about finding someone new and exciting than finding someone with more status/ looks. People get bored

Not just time, it's also psychologically damaging them.

You must become the most slippery branch so she falls to the ground. Be the greasiest branch of them all! lol

Well maybe if we stopped raising every little girl with the disillusion of grandeur into believe she was a princess more of them would settle down. I've been around plenty of women throughout my life and most of them that suffer such delusions do so because they were brought up being handed everything and without any expectation to have to work for anything. What you are seeing is the echo's of crappy parenting and most of what is out there today is 3 generations of crappy parenting. Just as I've met a lot of Rowdy women who talk about being tough and will act crazy as shit for years, right up until they cross one wrong guy and get a bit to physical for his taste and the minute he knocks the crap out of her in seconds and she completely shrivels up into a shadow of herself. The last one that started talking like that to me I just stopped her mid conversation and asked her if she had ever been in an actual fight where she was unsure if she was going to live through the experience. She got wide eyed and told me she's never been in a hardcore fight. And I told her maybe she should keep her hands to herself then before the day comes where she has to make a choice that could change her life forever. One stupid decision is all it takes. The major failure of women is the fact that they never factor in the what if, and so they wind up in situations way out of their own control and since society protects them generally they live within the illusion that it can and will always save them no matter what. Usually right up until the moment it's to late. I've met maybe a handful of guys I would actually refer to as "Prince Charming's" in my adventures in this world. The chances of most women not only finding one but meshing with him is extremely low. Yet I know plenty of "Prince Harming's" and the sad fact is most of them used to be the first type and wound up becoming the second type after being stabbed in the back with the exact method you just described time and time again. Experience has a way of making people Jaded throughout the years. She hurts him, then he goes out and pumps and dumps a bunch of girls then they wind up cheating on their new men. It's a crazy cycle.

Don't leave one job till you have another one lined up. You have more value when you have a job than not.

@SuperThisishowwedo

4 жыл бұрын

marky MArky word.

@chowmane9584

4 жыл бұрын

Cant compare a job and a relationship my nigga ,2 completely different things

As a man, I recently broke up with my ex. I told her that I was willing to do anything to make it work with her, and to find ways to fix it, but if she wasn't willing to do her parts to the minimum extent needed, I would break up with her or sleep with other chicks. I told her what I needed, I told her what I felt. I told her what she could do, I gave her every tool she needed to make her own decision, I did all that out of love. I feel like I couldn't have acted in a much more morally correct way than I did. I've never heard of a woman doing that for a man, but it may happen, though probably not nearly as often. I'd like to add one thing to complement the video a bit Monkey branching is immoral. Do you want to be a good person or a bad person? Regardless of being male or female, it may be hard to do the right thing, but your heart will thank you in the long run. It's better to feel like a good person than to feel like a dickhead, that shit will just spiral downwards so easily, stripping you of so many opportunities you could have had to achieve happiness and love in the future. So yeah, do what's right boys, I believe in you!

@skuyzy198

5 жыл бұрын

Morality is one of those things that we humans have and other animals don't. And I want to be a fucking human, not an animal. Those who have their animal part so deeply integrated in their behaviour and decision making are just bald monkeys.

@leeprice7810

4 жыл бұрын

Nice one .

@thebestforthemost

4 жыл бұрын

Calling "monkey branching" immoral is not helpful because "monkey branching" is what women do. That is why women usually pick an older man, or a stronger man or a man that appears to have great futures. They pick a strong branch or a branch that will get stronger and remain in that branch only as long as that branch remains strong or as long as they believe that the branch has a chance to get stronger but if they can jump to a stronger branch that will let them stay they will jump. It just is what it is and labeling as immoral doesn't change it a bit.

Even _a pigeon knows_ to be committed and pair bond with *one partner.*

@thenarrator1984

5 жыл бұрын

a black pigeon? lol

@namewithheld7835

5 жыл бұрын

@ Yes but. I have seen them stay with one partner. They don't all of sudden forget when their partner goes out

I identified this tactic in some women many years ago. i gave it the term ' Lily - Padding'. The idea is never to have to swim,or even get your feet wet. Stay on your current 'Lillypad ' even if your unhappy with it so as not to be alone and have to go without sex. Instead wait for a better lilypad to come into range and jump,-no wet feet or treading water for you.Better still straddle both your old lilypad and the new prospect to make sure it is an upgrade before fully giving up your old one. after all you don't want to have to swim back to your old lilypad all wet and embarrassed!

After watching this video I wrote something in my journal. Something I hate discussing and haven't in many years but I still felt a since of closure has to be made. Though it's very personal, I will leave this long, and admittedly boring story here, just to maybe contribute to anyone going through this: I'm 25 and I have never had a sexual or long term physical relationship with anyone outside my high school sweetheart. She had a boyfriend for over a year. I flirted probably too much with her, but we really enjoyed our time in class together. She eventually broke up with her boyfriend, in an attempt to date me, and I did not approve. She was manipulative and cruel to the man at least for a few days. Despite barely knowing him, I invited him to come to my house and discuss what happened, and I let him know I would not date her without his permission. Being agreeable and strong, he immediately gave me permission, even after I asked over and over. In hindsight, I should have stopped. But after reading her texts saying I was a better man for her and all this nonsense, I realized the deep trauma she was causing for no reason. I lost a lot of respect for her for this and I made her apologize and patch things up with her ex if she wanted to continue seeing me. One month later I was with her. This man spent a lot of time protecting her from a stalker she had whom she claimed raped her when she was 14 and he was 17, even forcing her at gunpoint to commit sexual acts on him. That man was never convicted and she never pursued legal action, nor did her parents for whatever reason. Later I encountered this stalker, waiting for her at work, and he left hundreds of 'love notes'. I read them all. Pathetically written, like a 2 year old, with misspellings, cut in the shape of hearts. Almost like the love letters girls would pass to me in elementary school. He struck me as a fatherless goober with the look of the stereotypical incel school shooter. I threw them away and pretended they didn't existed. She started telling me she knew about the love letters and didn't want to see him. Clearly he has a communication channel with her that is open. I am conservative in relationships. I do not have sex with someone unless I truly believe I will marry them, and after a year of our relationship being sexual, she asks me if she can hang out with some girlfriends. I allow her to. Later I find out her supposed rapist is friends with one of these women. I said that's odd and forbid her to ever be around him. One night she had sex with me, told me she loved me more than anything, and by the very next morning, she told me "i dont love you anymore" started crying, left. I told her I accepted her decision but would like some clarity. She said 'I dont have to tell you anything, you dont own me' things she'd never dare say to me. She left me in the dark and I lost all trust for women. Later I find out she has been seeing him, and monkey branching to the pathetic weasel that apparently raped her as a child. Later I had friends purchase drugs from drughouses and they said she was there, naked all doped up laying on that guy. Also a gay friend of mine was in a suicidal state, deeply depressed and acting uncharacteristically. He was drinking a lot, doing drugs, things he never did. My ex got him drunk and convinced him to have sex with her. The next morning he called me balling his eyes out, terrified, disgusted and ashamed. He wanted to die. I had no interest in what she did but I wanted to save him. A few months go by and I am working a new job as a laborer, I'm lifting heavy crates in the parking lot and I hear my name called. I look up and there she is. She gives me a little wave and smile as though nothing happened except a little angry text message, oblivious to what I know. I gave her a long hard stare as I continued working. My heart was filled with disgust, disapointment, and anger. Eventually, she felt the pain and she choked up, looked away, and cried as she walked away. We both know what she did to me and my friend. I didn't deserve it. He certainly didn't. This concept of monkey branching, or opportunity relationships, is what lead me on a path of total absence from women. I flirt with girls at every chance I can but I cannot date, as women seem to be completely sold that relationships are not sacred, and can be thrown away at the slightest whim of opportunity. A man loses his job needs a rub on the back and the wanted ads brought to him, spiritually speaking, but instead is handed divorce papers. I have many other stories with women but even worse, and friends that have gone through the same but worse. She treated me like shit because I treated her well, chivalry just loses every second to whore makers and perverts, and the reason is MOST women are whores. Not a small minority, the VAST majority of millennial women, are complete whores. I have started attending church and church events because there are far less whores and arrogance among the women. I can talk with them and I feel no urgency in building our relationship, things just feel natural and at a steady pace. But there are not so many girls like this that are single, and I don't like being dishonest as I am not really a Christian. I sure hope nobody has to go through this. In all honesty I rarely think about these relationships, I know she's in some trailer living with her whore mom, bored with her life... I'm in a new town, very alone, building my career and working hard every single day. All I wish for in life is more time, and I know she probably can't decide what to do with it. I forgave her a long time ago pretty quickly. When she left me, I didn't think it was a big deal. Only later did I learn what was happening, but 7 years later now, I'm sure she thinks about me all the time, and I never really think about her since I work, I have a home, I work for myself and I work hard every day. I only thought of her after watching this video, and because of it, I have written this in my journal. This will be the last time I discuss this to myself in this journal, and publicly now I guess. I never hated or resented her for what she did. Because I think she is a typical woman... taking what she can from people, never really considering the impact it has on men's lives she's hurt and nearly ended. Hopefully this can shed some light to men doing through the same thing. My 'look for the right girl or none at all' attitude has lead me down the inevitable path of loneliness. I have not had sex since I was a teen, and I am 26 now, and even though I have high confidence and regard myself as high status, I do not think I will ever find a woman in my life time, ever again. It has become a distraction from life and has decimated my soul the way watching murder videos will. God bless you all. Keep your feet.

If Alexander grew his beard out, got tattoos, and just went ham, he would be smashing straight 9s/10s all the time

I suffered from that for 10 years more than necessary. It was a magic mushroom trip that brought her to honesty and gave me an opportunity to find myself, start again and get on with life.

my ex did exactly like that to me. i was weak as f___. learnt a lot from it. I wanna share one of them: If her best friends or her friend circle do not like you and she clings on to them for dear life, i don't know what your relationship would look like in coming days but something bad bad

This happened to me a few months ago. It’s so undeniably painful I don’t know what to do sometimes. Out of a 9 year relationship I don’t even recognize myself anymore

@teastrainer3604

7 ай бұрын

They do it in reverse too. I know a woman who was once very beautiful and quite cold toward almost every man. But the wall took care of that, and now she's alone and is making her way back down the tree, with a much friendlier attitude.

Every man in here knows their girls next guy... he's been to your house, he drank your beer and ate your food at last years bbq.

@EcHo8484

5 жыл бұрын

This

Completely agree with you Alex. Unfortunately this phenomenon is quite common, actually I've had this done to me in both ways, as someone to go to after a break up as well as once in the relationship. Shows a warning flag of lack of empathy towards a partner

"You can't make soley selfish decisions" Tell that to a narcissist and she will say you are egoistic. 😂😂

Your analysis is spot on. Thank you ever so much Alexander, for your mental clarity and bravery. May God continue blessing you my friend. Live long and prosper.

Women can expend the kind of energy in monkey branching that men cannot. It's in their character; which is a refined way of saying women have no character. Jack Nicholson in the movie "As Good as it Gets," describes women's character this way. Take a man . . . "then take away reason and accountability." That's a woman. That's what men are dealing with.

I like your honesty.. great video. I have seen that all to many times and those women are making me sick

She lies and says shes in love with me......Can't find a better man..... There is nothing worse than a girl who says "I met my current BF through my ex"

My sister is a raging feminist. She's always railing against men and "toxic masculinity". So naturally, she married a cop/soldier. They're on their 3rd marriage counselor. My sister told me recently that she's pretty much done and ready to leave. I suspect she'll let him in on it once she's found a suitable replacement. She'll probably leave him for another feminist man....perhaps a firefighter or a construction worker.

My coworker really put me in that awkward situation of her flirting with me. Eventually her boyfriend started hanging out around work and making things more awkward like calling me her side hoe. Breh, it's why I don't be messing around. I'd say her bf is better looking than me so idk wtf her problem is.

@nerychristian

4 жыл бұрын

Women just like manipulating men. They like having power over them. Even if they aren't interested in being with you, they like to know they have the ability to control you.

@PimpMatt0

4 жыл бұрын

@@nerychristian They broke up lol I have my own gf now tho

@slnerd3709

3 жыл бұрын

She used you to get more power in her relationship with that guy.

@PimpMatt0

3 жыл бұрын

@@slnerd3709 I think so too

Most women I have met do not believe that they are immoral especially in regards to sex and relationship selection. But once you realize how they select their mates, you might feel uneasy about having a friendly relationship with them because you know that morality may go out the door any time. Looking back at past relationships, I'm very happy at the outcomes I have had with most women that have tried to become more friendly on a long term basis. Many of them were shallow, so being curt with them actually was very truthful and honest toward them where they were dishonest toward me in what their goals were. Surprisingly, the happy times are the secret moments of mutual honesty that most couples or singles never really want to speak about because false people will try to artificially create those moments which defeats the purpose of actually feeling a connection.

People who do this, lack emotional empathy, that is the bigger picture, this people never really love anyone, and will repeat the same behavior with the next person.

World class! good point... I hope this concept goes viral in all aspects of life

phenomenon - singular phenomena - plural

@Zurvan101

5 жыл бұрын

phenomenal advice

@Feber2001

5 жыл бұрын

Thank YOU!

@elteacheralan

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you, good sir.

@electricshrapnel4368

5 жыл бұрын

And might I add: might have- not might of, aitch- not haitch, something- not somethink. I know these things didn't come up in this video but your comment got my dander up about this type of thing.

Another point to make is that a lot women do give men a way out of a relationship. Some guys just don't pull the trigger thinking they can fix the relationship even when the woman has been over the relationship for months or even yrs. Don't put yourself through stress trying to make someone that doesn't have your interest best at heart happy.

@PrinceRevolver

5 жыл бұрын

@ true. If she's willing to do it to one man she'll do it for all men she's in a relationship with. It's just a matter of when.

@thenarrator1984

5 жыл бұрын

@ brilliant post.

@thenarrator1984

5 жыл бұрын

@@PrinceRevolver you're implying she WILL do it. you're wrong. but its true that women are more likely.

@PrinceRevolver

5 жыл бұрын

@@thenarrator1984 I did say it was a matter of when which means she will.

@zoulsgaming9455

5 жыл бұрын

See this is just entirely moronic from my point of view "they give them a way out", then just say "i want to break up", acting like women refusing to take responsibility and tell the truth allowing the guys to move on is somehow a "good" thing is disgusting. This to me is like if a guy just stops messaging a woman, ignoring all contact, and ghosting her, would you call that merciful? or is that just a pure act of cowardice.

You're a good dude for bringing awareness to this and posting these videos. :)

The branch is always sturdier on the other tree. Oh no the branch just broke, I think I'll keep my branch free of burden and weight.

They think they can have it all..

Yes girls can have endless tinder requests but this in itself produces significant problems for women; note how confused they seem today.

@thenarrator1984

5 жыл бұрын

@ you are lost in the haze of hate.

@thenarrator1984

5 жыл бұрын

Max ward you are absolutely right. the women of today are lost. they have no self esteem and they have no idea what to do with themsleves

5 жыл бұрын

The Narrator What are you on about? “Haze of hate”? Women are lost for choice. Their only problem is that they can’t make the men they find attractive settle down with them.

@MRRM828

5 жыл бұрын

"Paradox of choice" this psychological experiment confirm what you say.. yt or google it

@Redhotlugnut

5 жыл бұрын

@ If a woman has many options, why would she bother doing the work on herself or the relationship for that matter if she has a huge buffet of possible suitors to choose from? It just means if she's challenged on her bs or doesn't get what she wants when she wants it, she can go find one of many other possible mates. There is a real issue now with the constant 'trading up' until women find themselves in their 30's and single asking 'where are all the good men'? "You were dating them a decade ago but traded up because it was so dam easy!"

A women with only 1 pair of shoes doesnt throw them away before going to the shoe shop to get replacements.

I agree. It's better to be on your own than to be unhappy in a relationship. That's why you shouldn't be hitting on someone else's relationship partner. If that person is open to you, you may be taking on someone else's problem.

Yep , happened to me after 14 years of marriage. Should have seen it as inevitable as I was her 3rd husband, now onto her 4th after leaving me and 2 weeks later moved in with a "work colleague" of hers. When it happens in your later years as it did for me you can't really get back into a similar position as it leaves you poor AF along with needing to sell your home, and then there's the complete lack of self confidence which I now have. At 50 I just can't risk or want to go down that road ever again.

@acch20

Жыл бұрын

It doesn't pay to be loyal does it.. perhaps relationships just aren't worth it unless your one of the self centred ones

So true. It's also a lot easier for a woman to start a new relationship with all the orbiters so many woman have. Even if they don't have another guy waiting, they won't be alone for long. Studies have shown that while men accurately consider half of women above and below average - that's what average means. Women wrongly consider 80% of men below average unattractive. Women will therefore have a much easier time attracting a new partner than men will. For women it won't be too hard to find a new branch to hang from.

PREACH. THANK YOU. I shall share the hell outta this video, man.

@4:50 This is why the video rental places used to have steep late charges for videos returned late. Great video! Thank you!!!!

You're absolutely correct about this Alexander. It's immoral no matter who does it.

You described it perfectly. Women swim in male attention. It's kind of depressing because they have so many options that is no wonder a lot of them don't appreciate or cherish their current partners.

Mine did this to me :( With the classic 'Dont worry about him'... As we were LD, she slowly but surely got closer to him, while telling me she loved me and wanted kids/marriage. Then a week later, left me. 99% sure its to go be with him, evidently she saw him as a better prospect. Coward!

@saycuso8539

Жыл бұрын

My long distance gf left me after 2 years of being together, she monkeybranched to a guy even tho we promised to be together soon, Infact i was planning to meet her a year later. But she didn't had enough patience, she just want to enjoy her life. She didn't let me know about that guy untill her friend told me about their relationship, she cheated on me . Upon asking her she was embarrassed and asked me to be friends , which i denied. I'm in no contact now.

Happened to me 2 years ago. Now im doing ALOT better without her.

Dang I had this happen to me. Her new dude ended up cheating on her, though.

@gensaikuroki1793

5 жыл бұрын

Sweet sweet karma

@remet911

5 жыл бұрын

Same with me bro haha Whoever said Karma isn't real didn't live long enough

Then these same women actually have the nerve to whine and complain when the shoe is on the other foot and *they're* the ones being dumped for something better.

This has happens in gay relationships too. Some men are just looking for that relationship where they get everything they want emotionally and financially. Just like women even though they work they want a sugar daddy and if they don't get it they start looking for men that might have more to offer.

Chase excellence, chase $$$, chase memorable adventures, chase self-improvement......women will soon chase you.

@carlitosbrigante6889

5 жыл бұрын

if someone does nt love you in your bad why will you want then to love you in your good , it s better to keep away that kind of people

@DJW1981

4 жыл бұрын

Women do not chase. Ever.

@raycebannon73

4 жыл бұрын

DJW: Haven't gotten 6 'likes' within the past 2 days on a dating site. They gave me their number without even knowing my name. Women don't chase? Unfortunately, you are sadly misinformed.

@DJW1981

4 жыл бұрын

@@raycebannon73 Certainly not in my experience. Perhaps it's a cultural thing.

@raycebannon73

4 жыл бұрын

DJW: What culture? specifically.

'You' re not the only person being affected here. It is immoral to continue in a relationship that you've already mentally and emotionally checked out of. ' -One of my wisest friends told me the same, kinda, and also defined *morality* as well...

"You need to weigh your needs against the needs of the other person" That is not part of the female programme.

"They're literally swimming in male attention". Yes but let's be honest The ATTRACTIVE, YOUNG ones are. Very important distinction to make. Because when women are younger there is no doubt all dating is highly skewed in their direction. But once they hit their mid 30's everything shifts and no one really wants them. Contrast to a man who early in life is in a very negative position but as he gets older everything skews in HIS favor. If he is at least competent and successful to some degree. He can pick a hot young thing, an older woman (who's probably desperate) or, heck, both. That's the reality. There is a balance here but you have to see the longer picture.

@GUITARTIME2024

5 жыл бұрын

I hear your point, but with Tinder and such, even the older ones and bigger ones are getting a lot of attention (especially from black guys and Hispanic guys). Not nearly as much as the younger hot ones, but plenty of guys want a one night stand.

@Asofe17

4 жыл бұрын

There is no balance if you want a young female to start a family, who the hell cares about ran through, old and infertile women with tons of issues. Men get their "time" because we are in reality from the start, we need to work hard and develop ourselves, so we are not completely written off and useless ance we get older, because of self development and hard work we acquire value. While women are given huge value early on and it just fades, because they waste it.

@thebestforthemost

4 жыл бұрын

@@GUITARTIME2024 Yes, most women can get one night stands even as they get older but "monkey branching" is not about one night stands and the older they get the less options they have for "monkey branching" until the moment that basically all of those options disappear

@DJW1981

4 жыл бұрын

This isn't entirely true, or at least not in all cases. In my life as I've got older I've got richer, got my own house,cars, good job etc yet I'm somehow *less* attractive to women now. The ones over 30 (I'm almost 39 now) want a typical Chad or a bad boy still. It makes no sense, but then logic is not a female trait I suppose. I still believe that generally speaking looks trump everything else. If you are not especially good looking all your effort probably won't pay off. If you're good looking you can have an awful personality and it gets overlooked. If you think about it we do that a lot with women!

A woman’s ‘love’ is opportunistic. They love what a man does and provides, not the man. Men are expendable and that has always been the way of things throughout history.

I agree that men and women do this at different stages in life. Its a faze women go through were they don't want to settle down. It does hit some of them later when they get to be my age and there still single. But after this age you get tired of it and you stop going to the club. Some women still do it well up into their 40's I knew a woman like this, needless to say were not friends anymore. Seeing her bring a guy home every weekend didnt really set a good example for me either so I moved out.

@MRRM828

5 жыл бұрын

Annelee Girl kzread.info/dash/bejne/pat7xMWwhdype7Q.html Female nature.. sorry

@Jerryossai

5 жыл бұрын

You changed when you hit the wall.

@spacelyman9482

5 жыл бұрын

@@ROrionis Exactly.

@t.s5806

2 жыл бұрын

It's called aging, running out of options and being forced to settle

@thedarkone5459

Жыл бұрын

I am 30 and I dated a woman in 40s who did this after a six month relationship. She gaslit and lied to me when I called her out for being weird and acting differently. Then weeks later I saw her out holding hands and being kissed by another guy

Brilliant! Monkey Branching! I’ve been calling this the spider-woman for a long time! Spider-Man or in this case Woman. Is swinging around the city. Notice how she/he doesn’t let go of the old web until the new one is secured! just look for a classic Spider-Man swinging video and you can see this!

_I did this with my current fiancee, you're absolutely right about the dating situation in the West, so I traveled to reverse the odds_