I started watching you because I thought you were funny, but found your lessons to be sincere. Now we know why. God bless you and your family.

@tccampbell3751

6 ай бұрын

Same same!

@laurasell2353

6 ай бұрын

Same here!

@adamslaura768

6 ай бұрын

I had a feeling you were a believer…❤

@JoyCrossbridge

5 ай бұрын

Amen!

@deirdrecooper8804

5 ай бұрын

I agree!

That is why it makes you perfect to teach others. You lived and learned

@JimmyonRelationships

Жыл бұрын

That's true. I hope I can accomplish that goal of helping =)

@nachis3

6 ай бұрын

@@JimmyonRelationshipsSelf reflection and our heart discovering itself is a beautiful thing. Thank You Jesus.

@ebest1338

Ай бұрын

Amen

You verbalize facts in a way people can understand. No one shares these truths as clearly as you do. You’ve been trusted with much. Thank you for caring enough to share it with us. God knows we need it.

Professional counsellor you may not be but spot on you are.

I am not Christian by any stretch of the imagination. But I love your conviction and your knowledge. The support you use from the Bible is much clearer and not politically motivated. Thank you.

@florianopolis6299

Ай бұрын

That's the problem with the Bible.. Depending on which part you read, Jesus cries out different things in his last moment...or advice on how to treat your slaves or that rape is fine if there aren't enough women around. I always keep thinking: why limit good advice? It is good advice for everybody, not people that believe in that one God. It's the same for people believing in other stuff too. For me that is usually a downgrade which makes me a bit sad...

you cannot get a severe narcissist to give his wife 15 minutes a day...so after 33 years, I didnt care anymore. I hate divorce, but I'm so much happier without being called every filthy name for no good reason. I am now trying to find myself and my self-esteem.

@greatsmiles

6 ай бұрын

Oh sweet sweet lady….. you didn’t deserve to be called filthy names! I bet you truly know who you really are. Stand tall in your knowledge. Much much love

@user-gf6nr4tt6l

6 ай бұрын

you will get there Ann, i did after a 30year marraige ❤

@StaceyAnne702

6 ай бұрын

Truly there is "no good reason" for name-calling. It's just a quick hurtful tactic used by unkind people. Tell yourself you love yourself and are proud of yourself out loud as often as you think of it. It's a good self-esteem builder. Good luck and best wishes on your journey. ☮💜☀

@karenk2409

5 ай бұрын

I could have written this. Leaving was the best thing I could have done. After a period of grief, life has never been better and I am healthy and growing. You will sprout wings.

@Alltagundso

4 ай бұрын

The advice Jimmy gives is not for narcissistic people after all. 😢

I love that phrase - "the conversations that never happen". You have used it in several of your videos, and it strikes me every time. We tend to think that it's what is said that destroys the relationship, when the exact opposite is so often the greater destroyer.

@bekind5738

3 ай бұрын

Yes, Jimmy is quoting Dr. John Gottman.

Brother I’ve nearly come to tears finding your channel and learning from you. I’ve been a follower of Christ through my whole marriage but found my wife disconnecting and using language I didn’t understand to describe problems. Finally I set out a year ago to improve myself to do something different, I started reading books I thought I never would read because it was self improvement material , listening to podcasts that weren’t exactly Christian. I thought I was fading in my relationship to God because of how much I was learning from this material I was consuming not untill recently did I realize it was the opposite I was finding who I am being convicted of the person I am in relationships and was finally able to define my problems and what is love and also deal with trauma. Then I find your channel, your filling in all the gaps of my understanding and speaking things that I needed to hear more than anything. Thank you.

@brendarewan7441

6 ай бұрын

I like that you are trying many avenues to get help for yourself. 👍🏾

@opinionatedone

6 ай бұрын

The Earth is the Lord's and everything in it. He can use anything to heal, love and teach you. Blessings!

@dw3403

6 ай бұрын

God is love so how can you be being taken away from him when you are realizing what love really is? No greater love than the love he has for us. Churches have been missing this for a long time.

I still struggle at times, 15 years after my husband had an affair. I struggle with letting my heart be vulnerable. My husband grew up in a very dysfunctional home filled with abandonment. He grew up relying on himself and nobody else. And so as long as he was happy, that's all that mattered. And our marriage was built on that premise. We have 4 beautiful children and three grandchildren. They deserve a legacy void of this nonsense, and that's why I continue to not give up.

@easterfortoday712

5 ай бұрын

I hope your family is all growing to create a legacy that blesses our Lord and Savior and your family!!

@diananoonen2262

5 ай бұрын

Me too. I'm Christian Orthodox. My husband is a defined narcissist in counseling. As soon as I flipped focusing on Christ, and dealing with myself and my own salvation in confession and repentence is the key! God Bless you.

Jimmy you may not be a therapist but your advice is spot on and better than any therapist I've ever been too. I have been married for many years and am in the process of divorce. I told my ex multiple times that putting other things and people before your wife constantly, feels like a betrayal, just like cheating! Instead of listening he gave a contemptuous sneer. He's no longer laughing now that we're in divorce court.

@sassafras8677

5 ай бұрын

it’s true, like Jesus on the cross . Jesus is the loving patient spouse, we are the adulterers….

When I found out my ex husband was having an affair, when I was pregnant with our third child, 12 years of marriage, I remember directly asking him if when the first time he got into bed with her, didn’t alarms as go off in his head? Didn’t it feel odd or wrong to sleep with someone else out of the marriage? He just looked at me and said no. That was heart crushing. And so cold I felt it right through my soul. He had been upset about the third baby. A girl after two boys and wanted me to end the pregnancy. Which I wouldn’t do. Unfortunately she died a few years later in a car accident along with my second husband. I don’t even know if her death affected him. I think some people aren’t really cut out for marriage or being a parent.

@kelseymcmunn5348

4 ай бұрын

I am so so sorry. I can’t imagine that kind of pain of losing your child and husband at once, as well as reliving the pain of your ex not even wanting her. For what it’s worth, thank you for giving her life. 💜

@ecrislaprophetie795

4 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing your faith in Christ and allowing the world to be reconciled with God and one and other. It is the right timing Jimmy!

@dashetesfaye7054

Ай бұрын

I am so sorry and may God comfort and heal your heart in such a divine way that transcends human understanding!! 🙏❤

@rebeccatuma3360

Ай бұрын

As a fellow bereaved mom, I am so sorry for all that you have endured. It is the worst pain in the world. Praying for you. 🙏🏼

I remember when my wife said she wanted a divorce seven years ago, someone else told me that if the divorce happens, it will completely screw up my holidays. I love Christmas time with my family. I love Thanksgiving time with my family. And I didn't want to lose it. So that's what motivated the changes in me. And now my wife says she's very happy with our marriage.

It takes a brave soul to look inward and take responsibility. Wow. And then to take action. Dude.

What I have figured out after 23 years of marriage is people don’t necessarily grow apart but that as the wife I took care of all the family stuff and didn’t get to grow(it took all my time) where he cheated on us with his constant new hobbies. I was boring, always available, and nurturing other people. I feel stunted and am now starting to fight that with new hobbies and with the kids in college we found a mutual hobby that is helping us grow together. We followed old cycles we learned in childhood and are only now due to social media and the kids calling us out are working to break those cycles. The worst part is we did marriage therapy off and on for 10 plus years and not one therapist pointed out what seems obvious now.

@lisafeck1537

6 ай бұрын

Sister, you describe me and my marriage almost exactly. My husband died last year, and now, I am so so stuck. I want to know what went wrong, it affects everything, all my relationships now, and probably has all my life. I do not get to work through it with him. I have been praying for something to help me for real. Counseling, independent, and marriage never helped anything. Twisting in my mind, was knowing the relationship could not fail by only 1 of us, the whole, "it takes 2" to make it good or bad....and was he actually malicious, narcissistic? Idk at this point. I am so glad to have at least a clue now of my part. If there ever is another relationship, I will know myself better, avoid or at least recognize in a perspective man healthy and unhealthy....break the cycle for myself. Also, w my sons, friends, business dealings, maybe all of those relationships will be improved. I pray God's blessing for you and your husband, your family. The world needs marriages to be healthy. Thank you for sharing your experience.

@momk17

6 ай бұрын

Married for 26 yrs. dated 3 yrs. before we got married, he wants a divorce now because he said he wants to be happy + talk to someone without fighting. We have 3 kids: 26, 22, 16 (2 oldest are out of the house, is it emptiness syndrome?) Phil is always been a workaholic, I believe he puts his work/business before anything, fought for so long for him to love me (show of affection, no hugs or kisses) my friends say ask him, he is 62 and I'm 49 - yes we are 13 yrs. apart. I believe he should know. He always went to visit + talk to his late mom (I didn't mind, the Bible says to help the widow + orphans), but m husband never talked with me afterwards, I would ask how is your mom or how was your talk with your mom, just 1 single word -good. I wished my husband would of spent 5 or 10 min. talking to me but he didn't. He is a good man, he is a provider, a hard worker. I am praying God will take care of this marriage but my husband has already checked out (his heart, mind + soul is gone from this marriage, he has acted like we are divorced already we haven't sign any papers + he will not have sex with me either). I have been trying to fix this marriage: talkingvnice to him, cleaning more, but he isn't so I don't know what to do anymore. He still comes home on the weekend (he has a business to run during the week), he sleeps downstairs (he uses excuse like his snoring, I have dealt with it bcuz he used a cpap in our bedroom). I don't think there is another woman bcuz he is in the process of moving his business in another city.

@if7363

6 ай бұрын

​​@@lisafeck1537one of the best for traumas and healing with right amount of tough love is Crappy childhood fairy account here. Especially when therapies that have also it's place fail

@vintonreid3015

5 ай бұрын

Some, most times even, it doesn't take another person but really, both partners of the UNION being open to truly understanding the other. That's all it takes, to sit with each other and truly listen because it's the two of you who are in it. No one else.

@kicsms_science3729

4 ай бұрын

I'm so sorry you didn't have a therapist that gave you the help you needed. I can empathize.

I wish I would have found your content sooner. I destroyed my relationship and these videos of yours are teaching me things I was so blind to. Love requires you to deal with the others conflicts and feelings. Because the destruction that happened to their hearts in the passed, cannot be avoided for the sake of peace. 😢

@JimmyonRelationships

Жыл бұрын

You worded that so well. I'm so sorry about your relationship. I'm so proud of your growth and self reflection though. Sometimes we simply don't know what we don't know. And then when we know better we do better.

Thank you! I cheated my wife with work, myself, and things I felt I felt I needed to do on our property. I fully intend to change that. God had to put me on my back too

@JimmyonRelationships

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this honesty Loren!

Found you from Tiktok... I am so grateful for your content.

@JimmyonRelationships

Жыл бұрын

You're so kind!!!

Thank you for including your faith in your video. This is the first time I knew this about your journey.

@JimmyonRelationships

11 ай бұрын

I definitely need to talk about it more!

@stacypeasall

11 ай бұрын

@@JimmyonRelationships me too! ❤️

Thank you for sharing your truth! My marriage failed, however I will not ! I am choosing to GROW…thank you again. Peace to you and your family

I realize your faith is a huge part of your life (not an anti-religion post, I promise) and a huge part of how you worked through your issues but I’m not religious and have troubling relating to that. However, your advice and knowledge learned through mistakes and self-educating are incredibly on point and I am so glad I found your page and will continue to follow. Hearing and seeing everything I am going through from someone else who can put say it concisely and with humor has been beyond cathartic, reassuring, and validating. I just wish there was a way to simultaneously relate to something non-religious for those who can’t connect on that level. Thank you for your page, your openness, and ability to relinquish toxic masculinity in favor health and happiness, and to then share with others your discoveries.

@JimmyonRelationships

Жыл бұрын

Chris this means so much! I completely understand where you're coming from on the religious front. I had to make a decision whether to include it or not, obviously I would reach a broader audience if I didn't include my faith, but I decided that hiding my beliefs or some of the "why's" behind my behaviors would not be being genuine to who I am as a person. But I totally understand the opposite outlook as well. Really appreciate you taking the time to write this!!

@KenDunnUSNA87

Жыл бұрын

Hi Chris, I dropped to the comments to have this very discussion, so I'm happy to see you & Jimmy already having the conversation! Like you, I do not impute divinity to any particular religious faith. I *am* informed (literate?) in several traditions, though, and agree that Jimmy's work on social media are (in words of Abrahamic faiths) a blessing to many people (certainly to me). A blessing needn't be divinely granted; many things meet the definition, but at bottom it's just a special favor or benefit regardless of who's granting it. As for a touch stone for those of us who don't see divinity in any tradition, I see one thing in every religion I know about: transcendence. A sense of awe at things greater than one's self. Frankly I think humans are hard-wired to experience this, and it's possible to realize this feeling with or without a religious faith. It opens our minds to leaps of insight - in English we've even co-opted a Biblical word for this: epiphany (the word origin is far older, though than the Bible). But this door to insight is also described in other religious texts. Another touch point of most (but not quite all) faiths I know about is to see and to recognize the "divinity" (transcendent nature?) of others. A great lesson in Christianity. And Buddhism. And others. Jimmy's out here kicking the door on both those big ideas. Or at least telling people about them & dropping some breadcrumbs to help us see these in our mates ('specially dudes...). Meh. Maybe these notions help? I hope so, but secular society rather lacks the great liturgical language that religions have developed to describe these big, transcendent ideas. Even non-theistic faiths have great language around their great ideas.

@JimmyonRelationships

Жыл бұрын

@@KenDunnUSNA87 Thank you for these kind words sir!! And for your perspective =)

@vransome8278

Жыл бұрын

​@@JimmyonRelationships I just wanted to add too, I'm glad you included the background of your faith. Talking from the perspective of a cheater so openly seems rare, openly saving that relationship is even more so...but for people of faith, I feel like the judgement received from others is likely worse because somehow, you should have known better, done better, been better... I think we have all seen in life are not only judged/ rebuked from within our relationships but also those around us who know or think they know what has happened...I wonder if that is what you experienced? Do you think that people would have been less harsh if you had no religious faith? Did you feel more 'judged' by your faith or non-faith friends/family? I love your videos BTW! I stumbled on them in Facebook and went here to find more! Super insightful and you are definitely helping people ❤️

@dawnfletcher9838

9 ай бұрын

I've been really blessed with your testimony. I'm so glad you've come forth with the Source of your new understanding...Jesus Christ....the source of ALL truth!

One of the greatest gifts God has given his children, is the opportunity of repentance, which is a positive, not a negative. Now I work to both forgive and ask for forgiveness from my wife of 25 years.

Thank you for sharing this! I'm sure it was difficult to share this publicly. I'm praying for you and your wife. Also thankful that God helped restore your marriage (and probably answered the prayers of both you and your wife)!

@JimmyonRelationships

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this Emily. It means a lot!

I love that you are a believer. My husband and I have been together 34 years in April and married 29 in July. We are going through a lot of what you talk about. I have learned to no cry about stuff because it makes him uncomfortable, now I feel uncomfortable if I cry, I am a huge people pleaser and empath. I try to fix everything! So much, I am now in counseling trying to fix me. My husband is in counseling as well, for different reasons, but is also working on being a better husband. God has done some wonderful things with my husband, and we are getting closer. Thanks for your videos. God bless you and your family.

You are the first person I've listened to who actually seems to get it. The things you tell women about their husbands are the same things my husband had frequently said to me, things that I've finally begun to understand a bit more. And the things you tell men are the exact same things I've been trying to help my husbands to understand. We are nearing divorce, but I refuse to give up. So thank you.

You might not be a therapist but your personal experience makes you a great candidate to offer advice. I would like you to address that not only men cheat, women do it. It takes a lot of work to save a marriage but it's worth it if there's still love between both partners 😊❤

Came here from TikTok. Enjoyed hearing more of your heart in this video. I’m blessed and inspired. Thank you for your vulnerability and your boldness. May God continue to lead you in your marriage, your own personal growth, and your widening influence. To God be the glory.

Jimmy, I just found your videos. I am the one who has hurt my marriage. I am the betrayer. I had addiction issues. All while my kids were growing up. I used pills to try and cover up pain that I felt from some pretty serious life challenges. It took my husband to threaten divorce for me to go to rehab and find myself and get better. That was 10 years ago. This last year has been really hard. No, I haven't relapsed in that sense, but I coped unhealthy when my daughter got into drugs, by shopping. I got myself into some severe debt. My husband is now saying he wants a divorce again. I don't know how to fix this. The problem is too, he has always been emotionally unavailable our whole marriage. I have been told to leave him because he is not forgiving me for my past. And to be honest, he has a lot of narcissistic tendencies. he also can be borderline emotionally abusive. But I feel like I am the one who took him to this dark place because of my addiction. I am blaming myself. I am very religious. After watching this video, I cried, because I did the same thing you did last night. I looked up! I need my Heavenly Father to help me. I need my Savior Jesus Christ to help me. I want to surrender all. But I feel like it's too late for my marriage. I don't know how to make somebody love me again when they don't and haven't probably for a long time. We have been to therapy. And we gave it an honest good try. The therapist just let us sit there and fight the whole time. My husband told me today that I am the one who needs therapy and that he doesn't and that it's more important for me to get therapy rather than us get therapy. How do you motivate somebody who does not want to be motivated? How do you help somebody who does not want to be helped? I am so beyond lost. I am so beyond sad. I genuinely don't know what to do.

Oh im so happy i found you and we can learn from you! ❤ its great you found God!!! Hallelujah blessings for your life and marriage

Jimmy I found you by accident and found your videos funny and then extremely well done and full of great wisdom. And honesty and humor. I am not married anymore but I am learning so much about relationships. All relationships. Thank you Jimmy.

Again I am sooo thankful I too was a serial cheater and didn’t try to find the why, Your videos have helped me find God and work on changing me! Never stop speaking and sharing your words

@JimmyonRelationships

Жыл бұрын

Oh Jennifer that means so much to me. Thank you so much for sharing that!

This video made me cry. As a christian myself I have prayed to God in compelete despair to help me repair my relationships. I cheated on my boyfriend and it completely crushed me. I was chasing a feeling and not a person. A feeling of being wanted, loved and seen. I was so selfish and I only cared about how I was feeling without considering my partners feelings. I did not know how to communicate my own needs and feelings in a healthy way at all! Instead I was coming off very pushy, demanding, selfish and not understanding. Your advice has helped me so much, you have really opened my eyes. I am so grateful! Your channel, I believe, is the answer to my prayers. And I didn't even know you were a brother in Christ. 😢🙏❤ Glory to God.

Although you posted this a year ago, I just now saw it. THANK YOU for being brutally honest about your own past. We ALL have some kind of “past” and NONE of us are better than any other!! Thank God that He got your attention and showed you the power of His love, mercy, forgiveness and grace!! I mostly wanted to tell you I respect you very much and LOVE watching your videos!! And even more so now that I know the “background history” of how you (& God) salvaged your own marriage!! Be blessed!!

I admire how you can see yourself that clearly and open up that damn honest way. There are people who just explain that the sin they did is not that big so it is OK.... way far from you.... And you gave us trust and made yourself volunearable.... 💯 % respect. Thanks.

Thank you, Jimmy! This video with the gospel presentation was amazing! Blessings to you and your family! I enjoy watching! ❤️🙏🏻

I wish I could like this video 1000 times.❤ I love that you're unashamed of your faith.

@JimmyonRelationships

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Brandy!

I've been married for 22 years, yet I'm learning so much from you. THANK YOU

GRACE! Thank you for your honesty. I have learned so much through my past relationships. My 20 yr marriage failed because if NO communication no matter how much i tried. I lost my second husband to complications of cancer. I am alone on purpose to learn about my relationship with my savior! Most important of all. Thank you for sharing your true purpose through God. 💞 Ann.

This is the bomb! Thanks for sharing. I’m standing in a 40 year marriage enduring verbal and emotional abuse.

I have been watching your videos closely for months now. Unfortunately, my marriage is over but I've learned sooo much.

That was so vulnerable of you to share with all of us. You have helped us, me and my husband. I really appreciate you reaching out to help others! It has helped! God bless you for putting yourself out there to help anyone else. That's the most deeply touching thing. Thank you for sharing.

Thank you for all that you post you give me hope thank you for being vulnerable enough to share your story! You have helped me personally so much.

Oh Jimmy! THANK YOU for your honest testimony. Your message is relevant to ALL of us!

Thank you for your videos, Jimmy. I wish I have had them years ago when my most precious relationship died. We were boyfriend and girlfriend and he cheated on me and broke my heart. What I am saying is, a relationship is not only valid or worth saving when it is blessed as a marriage. People can still commit and apply these relationship advice before marriage, and it would be so much better if it was so as then, they would be kinder, more respectful, better prepared, and wouldn't hurt so many other people in the process. Because of the horrible break up we endured, and the fact that he didn't feel as commited as if he would have been married to me, I lost forever the man I loved. Your videos have helped me navigate through the grieving process and helped me understand situations I didn't have how else to frame and accept. I thank you for that, and I am happy you had a second chance with your wife. God bless you two...

you might think you are not a councilor but. .so so many men NEEDS to hear what you have to say because I never ever managed to get through saying what you are saying, even when calm. And I am not religious but you are so right about behavior with different kinds of cheating and emotional connections.

I've seen greed and gossip do so much damage, but no one puts them at the top of the "bad sin" list. Thanks for this video. I've wondered if that person popping into the back of the videos was wife #2. SO SO happy for you that she's your #1.

I have found that the best teachers that I have ever had, struggled to learn and that’s why they are the best equipped to teach someone else who is struggling with something similar.

Thank you for being authentic and vulnerable. ❤

@JimmyonRelationships

Жыл бұрын

It’s an honor :)

Dear Jimmy. I appreciate your work so much, what you say and the often funny but always profound way you bring things on the table. But what rejoices my heart the most is that you serve the Lord (I had until now most of the time the impression that you were a brother in Christ and hoped it would be true). May He bless you and your precious wife. It was a joy to hear about you and your faith. Keep the good work! I pray that many people see your videos and begin to reflect on their behaviour in relationship. So do I. Greetings from the Netherlands.

Thank you for these amazing videos♥️♥️keep saving marriages. Your doing a great job people need to hear these messages.

@JimmyonRelationships

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this! It means the world to me =)

AMEN Jimmy! Thank you for being so HONEST!

Thank you for being so transparent and sincere. God bless you.

Thank you for being transparent and sharing your heart. ❤️

So much respect for your humility and ability to take responsibility. May God bless you and your marriage!

From all of us who hear the message and are growing for ourselves. Thanks for the reminder, to be a better human.

Thank you so much for being vulnerable and sharing your story.

God bless you and your wife beyond measure, thanks for being a voice of encouragement on you tube

Amen! Good word and absolutely biblical for both the husband and wife. Thank you🙏🏻

Wow. I'm in awe with your brutal honesty....

Merry Christmas and thank you for your beautiful message!

I've only recently subscribed here and mostly seen you in facebook reels, so the faith component doesn't usually show up. Just the short quips to offer quick help and to pull viewers in... But I've always suspected your advice and your desire to teach and help come from a place of a relationship with Jesus. Your faith shows through even when you aren't directly quoting Bible verses. I strive to have that sort of living testimony/evangelism. Also, this short video was one of the most impactful sermons I've seen in quite some time. Thank you for sharing your knowledge, your wisdom, and your love for God with the world. You and your wife are a blessing to others, and I can only imagine the Lord will bless you for your openness and vulnerability to the world in sharing His truth with it. Thank you, sir.

So incredible! Thank you for sharing! I love what you promote and have learned so much from you!

Thank you for allowing God to use you in this capacity Jimmy. 🙌 💯

your advice is beautiful and insightful. I'm sorry you went through so much pain to come into the insight you have but it is beautiful. thank you for sharing. Its truly soothing to her a man speak the very words that i have so desperately tried to express. validating feelings for both of us. sadly he wont hear your words or mine. my heart is broken as our marriage falls into a deeper whole. Your words are healing. so thank you. you'd make an amazing life coach. Blessings to you and your marriage Jimmy

Congratulations for the hard work and the effort you have put into your inner work that led to transformation and healing whose results and wisdom you are now sharing and offering to all. This is the best path you could ever choose not only for your marriage but also for your self growth and for others' growth. I found your channel while dating an avoidant and the way you explain everything is so easy to get and the fact you speak from experience makes it so precious. Thank you so much ❤

Good for you honey! I am happy for you both, and I wish you all the Best. Thank you for your time and help, I appreciate how you are explaining things to everyone else to help them. Love ❤️ matters, quit hurting each other.

Seriously love your message, so much wisdom. 🙏

Such a beautiful video Jimmy! Thank you!

God bless you! He had a plan all along! Praise God for your testimony and your wifes faith!

Numbers aren’t everything but my goodness more people need to sub listen and understand the wisdom you’re bestowing upon us. Thank you for being open. For sharing the good the bad and the ugly. And most of all, speaking from experience. Thank you for being you!

WOW, thanks for your honesty. I can't believe that a man is able to heal, or save a marriage. To hear it from a you, a man is truely a miracle. Thank you for giving hope🙏

Your sincere videos have been a blessing. You’ve put words and meaning to issues I had in my marriage and I see my son repeating some of those mistakes. Maybe having greater understanding will prepare me to be available to him at some point.

He is into you if he's CONSISTENT. No mixed signals. Keep your spirit of discernment sharp, ladies! Giving the same energy that you're getting is key and if you don't like that energy then move on. It can be hard but that's when you need to choose yourself (over the damn illusion/fantasy!) A man who loves a woman will not ignore her, ever, period. So... If he ignores me I will step back and he will lose me. Simple. Simple. Non-dramatic and uncomplicated. I don’t, under any circumstance: play these childish-abusive-controlling mind games. I will only be with a man who values and appreciates me, and treats me as the Queen, I AM. (Daughter of the Most Hight; King of kings!) Because I am a beautiful and kind and divine and sexy and wise and intelligent and magical woman: who knows my worth. Period.

Thank you for sharing your testimony, it is wonderful to know where you stand spiritually. I love your videos, people need these videos. They are spot on.

Amen! God does the real healing! I applaud your perseverance in learning and delving into the difficult places of your heart to acknowledge the sins and repent but also to work on the relationship and then...to help others. Praise God for healing and restored relationships!

There is wisdom in experience and that experience is a gift to pass on we all need to accept that gift especially when it’s given out of love

I’m so glad to hear the foundation from which you share your wisdom. God bless you ✝️

You are super talented Jimmy. What a blast! How the hell do you pack all that convoluted knowledge into a couple of sentences! Incredible. So well explained! So authentic! Do not stop the comedy skiets. They are helarious!!

I needed this I’m so blessed I found your channel, may God continue to bless your marriage

You are such a blessing. Thank you for these videos. I’m SO happy for you and Emily

This is the best way to teach when you had the experience and make it right.

You make more sense than any counselor i have ever listened to. I learn something from every single video.

Thanks for sharing. Good message for everyone.

I thank you for sharing this. Beautiful message. Will keep following your videos.

We can learn so much from each other. Thanks for your authentic shares to help others!🙏🏻

Thank you so much for this post ! Proclaiming the gospel through this avenue is an incredible teaching tool. Thank you for being willing to share your flaws with us and being transparent. May God bless you and your family for what you are doing.

So, I watched a few videos on IG ... and I wondered - is it possible that you know the Lord Jesus Christ - because of the way you speak and how humble you are? And finally here is the answer - YES, you know the Lord! I thank Jesus for leading me to your page and that I and my husband are able to learn from you and what you have been taught. Thank you for making the content and sharing truth and lessons that are easy to understand. Now there is hope that I will learn to communicate better, to listen better and to finally, Lord willing, will be able to have a relatiionship with my husband where I can be vulnerable and be known. Thank you for being a tool in Gods hands! Greetings from Berlin, Germany

You are better than any counselor I have heard. You really understand human dynamics better than anyone else I have heard. To be coming from such a young person is amazing and you have my respect. I recommend you to others and I am proud of you. You are helping people, millions of them. Thank you. Your honesty, transparency, and wisdom are unmatched on the Internet.

Jimmy thank you for this video. You see for quite some time I’ve been watching your videos and the advice sounded so grounded and perfect even a Christian’s way of looking at marriage like healing and trauma without mentioning divorce and no-contact. This something I’ve seen other therapist and even other Christian coaches do. This video surely was God sent because I was wondering if I could listen to advice not grounded on faith and what if I fail. But I have nothing to worry now. Only men who are rooted in God can help other rise!

Outstanding!!!!!!❤🎉 Thanks fir taking your time to share.

@JimmyonRelationships

11 ай бұрын

Thank you!! Means a lot!

Your words and approach are nothing less than a counsellor. ❤

Youre awesome and i love your skits where you play both sides of a couple

Hi Jimmy, the comments are amazing .Keep up the good work!

Wow, this is so excellent. Thank you so much for your honesty, this really speaks to the situation. God bless you. Experience is the best teacher. Don't need a degree for that

@JimmyonRelationships

Жыл бұрын

That’s true Joanne! Thank you for your kind words

Agree. You definitely contribute to improving my relationship. Thank you

Excellent. Thank you for being open about your faith.

I admire and appreciate your courage and honesty to share your faith, include everything you've learned on your journey in life about healing your marriage. We are all flawed, it's painful to take an honest inventory of our mistakes. Thank you for sharing your experiences and the wisdom you've acquired that can help others heal their relationships and improve their lives. Bless your heart ❤️

I'm not in a romantic relationship yet nor am I married but I'm sooooo enriched with your videos. I've discovered you on Instagram just few days ago yet I've watched so many of your videos already. Thank you for sharing with us. God bless you and your family richly🙏🏾

This is beautiful! Thank you for sharing and for your vulnerability.

Thank you, for this content, serious and funny, and for clarifying who you are and why you are doing all this work. You have put yourself out there, way out there, incredible courage on display. You may have helped me. I'll see if I can carry on to the end zone. Not literal "end".

Amazing Grace♥️Thank you for sharing Gods word. We are all lost without God🙌🏼