"rather than trying to make a good impression, you're trying to create a good expression" Dang. That's good advice

*lady looking at books in a bookstore* "do you like books?" lmao i lost it.

@YourCharismaCoach

6 жыл бұрын

I aim to be creative

I thought the "do you like books" comment was hilarious! It was witty in its own right

@GovnaBuckingham

7 жыл бұрын

indeed you just have to back it up with a smile to make it clear you were joking

@JessBess

7 жыл бұрын

hahaha i know right! that was the funniest one, along with the spy

@renekrsnadasa14

6 жыл бұрын

So did I. I actually laughed so much because it's something I would say in such situations

@swisscheese9540

5 жыл бұрын

You need to read more books.

@anthonysmith1228

5 жыл бұрын

Bee Movie reference?

"do you like books" was funnier than all of the actual jokes

@YourCharismaCoach

4 жыл бұрын

This is the way

"Wouldn't go up there mate, bit boring it's full of books." Ahahaha. :D

Dictionary joke made my day.

@YourCharismaCoach

7 жыл бұрын

This comment made mine!

I love how your advice is more lighthearted and rooted in compassion rather than the lecherous vibe that pick up artist videos put out. Seriously, this is awesome!

@YourCharismaCoach

8 жыл бұрын

+yeah oh right Thank you! Its good to be light hearted.

@the_contrarian

7 жыл бұрын

And what about if one is actually stupid one is maybe also witty?

I was dying when he said" I wouldn't go up there, it's filled with books"

@YourCharismaCoach

6 жыл бұрын

Glad to see you are alive and well now

@CC-qg6zl

Жыл бұрын

@@YourCharismaCoach 😂

@stephenwalsh4481

Жыл бұрын

😂

I think its sad I'm searching this

@YourCharismaCoach

6 жыл бұрын

Not if you're trying to improve your life. That's commendable

@mitalivaidya8512

6 жыл бұрын

SAME

@manojkumargaranayak3821

5 жыл бұрын

YourCharismaCoach Please make video about how to develop communication and some fun joke that everyone will laugh please do this 😀? In confidence I am pretty low so I can learn from you and some different from many people that gonna help my life ?

@jeremysolterbeck6713

4 жыл бұрын

actually extremely witty well done

@FernandoAlbertoFloresLazo

4 жыл бұрын

I think it's sad you searching this too. Jk :p

step one of seeming more witty: sound british

@YourCharismaCoach

8 жыл бұрын

+roywhiteo5 Huzzah!

@swisscheese9540

5 жыл бұрын

Or kill a brit

@andyricardez8536

5 жыл бұрын

,😍🤩

@ameliakingston1618

5 жыл бұрын

roywhiteo5 easy when you are British😂...I’m British.

@morbius768

3 жыл бұрын

fuck i don't want to be witty anymore

I don't think this guy really gets bookshops -"look around at all the bored looking people reading books"

@redsol3629

4 жыл бұрын

Wildonederer legit.

@hashimsama6075

2 жыл бұрын

I can see why you need help being more witty and playful lol

That “Do you like books?” in a book store made me die of laughter 😂

"do you like books"😂😂😂😂

@kobesnow8609

5 жыл бұрын

to be honest that could be funny to ask depending on your tone xD

*do you like books ?* i died 😂😂

Who else has offensive humor

@MattTheJoker

5 жыл бұрын

Defo your mother... how are you son.

@CliffordStarks1

5 жыл бұрын

I don't have offensive humor as my channel shows, but I do find it funny 😂😂😂

@lunch7213

5 жыл бұрын

The best type of humor 😂

@natthekoala9553

5 жыл бұрын

Meeee

Does anyone else have a hard time understanding someone whispering in a British accent??

@YourCharismaCoach

7 жыл бұрын

Tell me about it, I can't even hear myself think sometimes! ;-)

@MrSdsok

7 жыл бұрын

Me

@carltube5028

7 жыл бұрын

Alyssa SanJorge I know I do!

@broccolinyu911

6 жыл бұрын

its not that, the music's too loud

It's really great, perfect

'Expressing yourself' - right on! love it

I really liked the dictionary one lol

@noneofyourbusiness910

6 жыл бұрын

Me too. That made me chuckle.

This was really good and helpful. I realized when my humor is too serious or unfunny or when to switch it up. Thank you!

Hey Marcus, After discovering your videos tonight and watching several of them in continuation with(out) particular order, I wanted to stop and not only thank but encourage you to continue to deliver your insight, work and knowledge on the things you talk about. Your lessons delve into subjects that cover many different psychological fronts and I think it's important to note that with use of the internet you are distributing great understanding and all in all bettering the people who engage with your content. I only say this as this relates to me and I will accurately assume it applies to others. Please continue to be who you are.

@YourCharismaCoach

9 жыл бұрын

Caleb Simmons Thanks for the support Caleb. More on the way soon

I love this channel. The real-life aspect is fantastic; so entertaining and inspirational. Thank you :-)

Good to see you back Marcus

@YourCharismaCoach

9 жыл бұрын

Thank you! Good to be back!

The world needs humor now more than ever.

the dictionary one got me haha

I watched this video ages ago, annd now I'm coming back to be re-inspired by this all over again. It's how I found this channel. mman I wish they still uploaded, their stuff was incredibly helpful!!!!

@YourCharismaCoach

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks! We're still around and we here ya! We better make some more videos :-)

I really love who you are bro, and to think i could have found your content all of 7 years ago. really solid advice and steps, thank you

Great videos Marcus, thank you. They're really helping me a lot. I would really appreciate it if you could do a video exactly like this again in a bookstore, and make it about tips to add more excitement and energy to your facial expressions in conversation? (I really struggle with this, because I'm a really calm person and I think I project my conversations to be dull and boring, and I really need some tips on facial expressions and voice tonality to help me out). Thanks for your time.

I love this! thank you marcus

Very useful! Please keep doing these videos :)

If I were at a book store and a guy came up beside me and asked if I liked books, that would honestly make me laugh. 😂

Great stuff Marcus, agreed its all to do with whether you find it funny, and the vibe you have. The book upside down is a classic, have done that a few times and is definitely my fave :).

Fantastic content as always buddy! Keep em coming!

Love these videos mate! Cheers from California

I love your videos! :) thanks so much for making these.

@YourCharismaCoach

8 жыл бұрын

+muses&mustangs Thanks! More on the way!

Thanks man! I did this about 20 years ago, whit a much older married woman and it worked! Then few years later the Game came along (pua's) and i got lost in this war of marketing between the routine guys and the so called naturals. This video is great man!

Nice video. Keep up the good work

"The Dictionary" sounds like a badass action spy film.

the dictionary line was a good one i havent seen before. ill try that next time im near a book store. thanks guy

@kevintio3067

7 жыл бұрын

The Great Deception what did he say? Haha I c

Thank you for this video. I liked how you not only gave your advice but also put it into action. Subscribed, sir!

@YourCharismaCoach

9 ай бұрын

Thanks! We better pull our thumb out and make some more videos!

Hi Marcus, just passing by to say that you had here the best channel on this topic. I hope you resume your videos soon!

@YourCharismaCoach

6 жыл бұрын

Thank you! My aim is to get more useful stuff out shortly. Hang in there!

Book upside down. Flips over. That makes much more sense, unlike my life.

@YourCharismaCoach

6 жыл бұрын

That's pretty funny! Definitely would have used in this video

“PENNsylvania call and wants it’s pens back” is what I said in my college library. Then sat down in the table across and pulled out my pen collection to rewrite my notes. (I’m talking 15 different colored pens)

Way to go! I love this, especially that if a moment in which you could but didn't talk to somebody pases, later you find yourself in a similar situation and use the line or witty remark that you felt bad for not using in the first place. On a sidenote your videos have been getting better visual quality which is great. Thumbs up for more videos in the future! ^_^

@YourCharismaCoach

9 жыл бұрын

More on the way

Great content. Fun viewing. Last sentence was brilliant! Look forward to experimenting 😂

@YourCharismaCoach

Ай бұрын

Please do! It'll often feel a bit awkward but push through that because the risk makes the reward!

If it's too clever, you run the risk of intimidating her. Don't ask a question or make an observation that doesn't leave room for a response.

timeless

Bros in creative mode just using human experiments

nice use of the four words of power in your videos

I see your digesting that book what flavor is it

brilliant

I looked up “Witty Banter” and I got this

Honestly if someone asked me do you like books I would burst out laughing. I would fire back I can’t stand them I came here to glare into them so they know my hatred!

@YourCharismaCoach

Жыл бұрын

That would be brilliant!

I loved the package one. It's made me giggle

@YourCharismaCoach

5 жыл бұрын

That’s the goal.

I see you, stealing all the words out of that book for free =))))))))))))

"Rather than creating a great impression, you're creating a great expression"

Delivery is key

I had to be patient watchin u.. funny for me....

Really good advice, do you think thinking in my head works or have to write it down

@YourCharismaCoach

2 жыл бұрын

Experiment! Writing tends to help the mind cement behaviours, so it's worth a try.

Iam investing in myself!

The sound quality wasn't great, by I get your point thanks

The hardest part about this would be actually walking up and using the lines on the people.

@YourCharismaCoach

5 жыл бұрын

We can teach you how to do it effortlessly. It really becomes very fun.

@c7zr179

5 жыл бұрын

@@YourCharismaCoach Wow, thanks for the reply, dude. :) This was a great video by the way. I took notes and I'm actually gonna use it.

@YourCharismaCoach

5 жыл бұрын

Great! Let me know how you get on with it.

That was entertaining

Great video Marcus, just next time please turn the music a bit down so I could hear the splendid charisma coming from your voice! 5Q + 5Q ..... ;)

0:33 You could probably do something with the Kama Sutra on the top left shelf

@YourCharismaCoach

5 жыл бұрын

Sure. You might like turning it upside down and remarking “There. That seems like the right position now.” With a smile. And see what happens.

I come up with really silly shit to say in my head. I'd laugh at my own expense haha.

Some of these were funny and I’m stealing them

Instructions unclear, brain has gooped out of head

not many people can look so cute in that cap not even cats but you do ;D

lol that dictionary one was good :) I like this advice

3:25 made me laugh so hard

It's finally here!!!

Man once he put his lines to the test i couldn't understand a damn thing he was saying

its fine line between appearing idiotic and witty.....

I love trolling people but i dont do it enough. I should do it more

* be funny * Me: searches "how to be funny"

was the sounds super low for anyone else, or just me? had my speakers turnt all the way up lol

@YourCharismaCoach

6 жыл бұрын

I can't quite hear your speakers from here. Could you turn them up a bit more?

It's finally here haha

Over in Canada, making a witty joke to a random woman in a bookshop gets you labeled as a rapist.

it would be funny if you messed with people and get great reactions like how some pranksters like LAHWF, BigDaws etc. (they do simpler pranks like giving awkward compliments etc)

I wouldn't be able to force myself to say these things, maybe I'm too self conscious?

@YourCharismaCoach

10 ай бұрын

It's always a risk to say something different. If yous ay it with a smile, you reduce the risk of it falling flat.

Would be great to see the captions :(

@YourCharismaCoach

4 жыл бұрын

I'll look into it

your audio is small

How to be a creepy cringelord in the library :)

@YourCharismaCoach

6 жыл бұрын

Maybe we should run with that title! ;-p

Heres my attempts...id prob never say them because i feel like they are all dumb but these are what id write if i actually wrote something in a bookstore... Why are all these dvd cases full of papers? Excuse me do you know if they have any books in here? Hey can you help me? How do you turn on the audio book feature? *Hold book to ear* Excuse me sorry to bother you but im not a very good reader... Can you help me with this word? *Open book and point to the "a" in a sentence. Hey is that book your reading the one about the guy who interrupts the woman reading so she can put her number in his phone and take her out for coffee the next day? (Then give her your phone in the contacts section.... Kind of a pick up line i doubt would work but still counts right?) Dont you just love bookstores? I certainly do... Except for all the book...

@YourCharismaCoach

5 жыл бұрын

These are great! As long as they make you happy, you’re winning. At this point, it doesn’t really matter how they react. The point is to express yourself and have fun. You’ll notice that many people “rejected” us at first. That’s to be expected. In some cases I’m breaking social norms. In others it is just unexpected and they are confused for a second. You can try these out and see what happens. Even if they are lame, you’ll learn something important. Go. Have fun!

I’m supes antisocial and shy, hence why I’m here. Would you say that trying out the jokes in person is really vital in the beginning? Or is it unnecessary, since the purpose is to think faster (I am pretty sarcastic and dry tho)

@YourCharismaCoach

5 жыл бұрын

Trying out the lines allows you to express yourself. That way you are not worrying about impressing anyone. Simply enjoying the things you’ve written down to try. You’re also going to get valuable feedback on what you’re doing by trying them out. If that’s too big a step right now, writing things down allows you to train that part of your mind to be flexible and witty when you want it most. Saying them out loud can be the next step you get to.

👍

im a gemini so i must be okay

Your not supposed to plan out your conversations! 😂🤦‍♀️

@YourCharismaCoach

5 жыл бұрын

You’re right. If you want to stay at your current level.

lol

I think being light hearted is great but way way better if it’s spontaneous. The canned and pre planned lines really felt awkward, forced and fake

Some of these felt preplanned and cringe but most are very witty and funny 👍

If people say you shouldn't judge a book by it's cover why is it that people are always looking at its backside?

@YourCharismaCoach

4 жыл бұрын

That's sharp! Love it

@avopeac6300

4 жыл бұрын

@@YourCharismaCoach :) Love your video

The best joke was stealing those for free

Great. I learn nothing

There's a lady reading a book...and also a guy picking his nose at 1:40...

@YourCharismaCoach

4 жыл бұрын

Straight out of a Nick Park animation!

You're telling me to go to a bookstore with the intent of talking to strangers, sit down with a pad of paper and a pen, observe people trying to privately shop, then develop a funny thing to say to them so they will like you and talk to you? This is straight out of the book of an intense sociopath.

@YourCharismaCoach

9 жыл бұрын

It's not about making people like you. It's about developing more fun ways to interact with the world and the people in it.

@metallijames

9 жыл бұрын

I see. Thank you for the reply! I was just joking, after all.

You deserve more subs

@YourCharismaCoach

6 жыл бұрын

My favorite kind of sandwich

Who the fuck goes to libraries anymore? Do libraries still exist? If they do then Phone booths do too.

@jakcarn4184

7 жыл бұрын

true. libraries are declining worldwide. less books more internet cafe type areas being setup instead.

I need more lame jokes my jokes are usually they miss or seriously crack ppl up but lame jokes everybody laughs either cuz it was actually funny or they don’t want to make u feel bad

@YourCharismaCoach

2 жыл бұрын

Trick is to also deliver them with a smile so the other person knows your joking (although a dry delivery can also be fun!)