Cheating is not a mistake. It's a choice.

@truthmatters7298

Жыл бұрын

💯

@quichequiche4274

Жыл бұрын

It's both. You can unintentionally end up in a situation that could cause you to cheat, not realizing you're developing or have feelings for someone else. But it's on you to choose to proceed in that direction or not.

@truthmatters7298

Жыл бұрын

@@quichequiche4274 it's 100% by choice

@biblosantral

Жыл бұрын

the ppl in the back didn't hear you, could you shout it out this time?

@sweetsweet81

Жыл бұрын

@@truthmatters7298 exactly. You can always say no.

She’s so afraid of being alone, she’ll rather stay. Damn shame🤦🏿‍♂️

@vonahlee5887

Жыл бұрын

I think so too because he's a Cutie, and she's all right looking.

@MsLady-gb3gy

Жыл бұрын

💚💫💚so sad she is gorgeous

Gurl - don't get mad. Get SINGLE!🙄😂

@mariahillenbrand8396

Жыл бұрын

This guy doesn't know what monogamy means, so why even waste the energy it takes to trust him? He's not worth it - stop hanging on to someone who doesn't really want to be with you????

When a guy starts off lying and/or manipulating in the beginning, leave immediately. Be the one who got away.

@creamekay

Жыл бұрын

I I don’t

@afrank1416

Жыл бұрын

@@creamekay It reads like you're stuttering. 😭😭

@user-cl8zg7gu4j

6 ай бұрын

when this happens, women stay when it's something they want. end of story.

@meikoorrick5634

6 ай бұрын

Exactly

At this point, this is all on her. She's making herself miserable. He is what he's been since day one.

@shalanathomas7751

Жыл бұрын

🎯

I’m really liking judge star… amazing balanced and beautiful

@keyeviondavis9647

Жыл бұрын

I agree she is beautiful ♥️

@gailsmith836

Жыл бұрын

Her hair and makeup 🔥

@tinajackson6875

5 ай бұрын

Her name fits her.

I was done when she said he was in an on and off relationship before he even got with her(which should have been a huge red flag to her), he disappeared on her, and she jumped into a relationship with him a year later without asking any questions. This woman has no standards no boundaries and no expectations. Smh

She plays innocent but she knew he was with someone from the very beginning but CHOSE to deal with him regardless,she knew what was coming.And some of us need to learn to be alone cause it’s quite obvious he don’t want her

@livinmabestlife

Жыл бұрын

facts! how you get em is how you lose em

@katrinab1516

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@strtrper628

Жыл бұрын

Preach

@queshebalittle6023

Жыл бұрын

We all that saying loose them how u get them.

@keaudriafrazier698

Жыл бұрын

It’s the last part for me “ Some of us need to learn to be alone” yesss! I’m fine with being alone and two of my cousins would save themselves so much heartache and drama if they learn to be alone.

They kill me with all the evidence, yet you want someone to tell you to leave or stay ? #mess

@kaskafuller8385

Жыл бұрын

Exactly 😂😂I don’t get it !!

@chynthomas

Жыл бұрын

Spend so much energy to prove that the person they’re with ain’t no good

@scottsh1120

Жыл бұрын

Waisting all of the Judges wisdom and time to continue to stay with the fool

@waltonjones5411

Жыл бұрын

Dumb!

Music Promoters & Rappers should be off limits ladies, how much more evidence do you need to see, THESE DUDES AIN'T IT, THEY ARE ONLY OPPORTUNIST 😁😁

@redbonemango1995

Жыл бұрын

THAT PART!!!!💯💯💯

@zulu3274

Жыл бұрын

😁 I couldn't agree with you more ... These guys work around hundreds of women on a regular basis who are artists and models and lets add groupies/fans too... Women like the status these guys bring/have but don't like the plentiful OPTIONS those guys have...lol

@crystalkimble7018

Жыл бұрын

And have no health insurance or IRAs😆😆

@franromany8096

Жыл бұрын

She reminds me of me 😏🥴🥴

@deja14

Жыл бұрын

Fact!! Men like this are totally off limits

At this point I blame her because how many times does he have to show you he can’t be trusted for you to actually believe him. After the first trip he lied to me I would have been out.

@amybynum8962

Жыл бұрын

Run 🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️

@KDanielsDesigns

Жыл бұрын

I’d have been out even before then 😂😂

@deegumbs1306

Жыл бұрын

When a person show you who they are believe them. She loves the drama.

I'm with judge Star, it's annoying as hell watching these women complain, and they have no ties with the guy, meaning no kids, and even if there are kids, why stay? He showed her who he was. Evidently she likes being disrespected. I blame her for continuing to be a fool for this man.

@wandagreene4668

7 ай бұрын

I am at 6:05 minutes in and I feel the same way.

She is getting on my last nerve....building a whole case for who?? Why are yall here

She aint no sweet angel. She knew he was with his baby mother from the beginning and got just what she deserved...

@Shellygrrl2573

Жыл бұрын

Facts!! U can't tell from her eyes that she is not all there...I hope she likes how that karma feels🤣

These are not mistakes, they are decisions, and there is a difference.

STOP GOING THRU THE PHONE ESPECIALLY IF YOU ARE GOING TO FIND DIRT THEN STAY, DON'T BE THE CREATOR OF YOUR OWN HELL, SMH 😠💯

@ThatGirlGiGiNYC

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@quichequiche4274

Жыл бұрын

Why scroll if you ain't gone roll! Lol

@barbeegirl7196

Жыл бұрын

Ooooh weeeee,words to the wise!!!!

@cheyb2257

Ай бұрын

Stop doing sneaky shit for the person to go through the phone in the first place

I loved when Judge Star said he's free to be who he wants to be, but if that's not what she wants then leave! Straight truth!

He so bad and she stays for it. Then comes to court and makes a fool of herself and admits she stays.

I’ve been cheated on & it hurts, but I’ve always walked away after. I’ll never understand people that stay with the person who cheated. If they don’t pick up that phone on the 2nd ring, your mind gets to wonder if they cheating again. You become a prisoner to your own madness. Cry if you must, but don’t go back. You will never look at that person the same again.

@stopit41

Жыл бұрын

This the one!!!! Women or Men who does this is stupid asf.

@_stlouisLady_

Жыл бұрын

Good advice!

She needs to just go. She’s going to make herself miserable tracking his whereabouts

When he started rolling his eyes at the judge, I started rolling!!

All i heard was....he was in and out of a relationship when we first met and i KNEW it was going downhill from there! 😂😂😂😂😫😫😫😫😬😬😬😬

@dabriahsease3416

Жыл бұрын

All I heard, didn’t care about a thing she said after that! Didn’t care about what he was doing with anyone just like she didn’t care

Tania - he's for the streets and his baby mama(s). Love yourself enough to be by yourself until someone truly deserving comes along.

“You need to roll” Judge Star. Need I say more 🤣😂😂

@sunburn1013

Жыл бұрын

No lies detected in that statement

She wanted that man, She got that man. She got exactly what she asked for dealing with a man who was already in a relationship. Leave him, or let him cheat in peace, but please LEAVE US ALONE.

@dabriahsease3416

Жыл бұрын

For real

@LolaSkyyBlue

11 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂EXACTLY!

She’ll do all this but LEAVE, ain’t that something

He's definitely not into this young lady....

@kattiethomas4687

7 ай бұрын

She's one of his toys 😮

Don't say you forgive somebody for an offense but hold it over their head for the whole relationship. If you know you aren't going to be able to forgive the offense, then leave. At the same time, if you commit an offense, you need to give the person time to heal from it. You cannot expect the person to just get over it. You do what's necessary to assure the person you can be trusted again.

@vonahlee5887

Жыл бұрын

True that!

@zulu3274

Жыл бұрын

💯... Couldn't have said it better...

@kathypartridge3651

Жыл бұрын

Exactly!

@quichequiche4274

Жыл бұрын

I think ppl ALWAYS think that they can forgive until they cannot, which is fine. Where we go wrong is, we don't put a plan in place for our EXIT once we find out the forgiveness was not warranted. You have to "ALWAYS BE READY TO STEP..." -Honorable Judge Lynn Toler

@livinmabestlife

Жыл бұрын

@@quichequiche4274 ooo thats deepp! soo true! miss judge lynn., she was fav on divorce court

When someone deceives you, LEAVE ..... never give them an opportunity to Lie to u again.... it's clear he was not ready for any relationship from the beginning!

@vonahlee5887

Жыл бұрын

I'm with you because you will always be suspicious.

@zulu3274

Жыл бұрын

He's ready for a relationship just not a monogamous one... But you got to be honest about these things from the beginning with whoever you are involved with....

@Singlehood2Marriage

Жыл бұрын

@@vonahlee5887 Exactly !

@Singlehood2Marriage

Жыл бұрын

@@zulu3274 Definitely …. Honesty is the best route!

why she come on tv just to know the same info she knew😂😂😂😂😂😂

I think he needs some place to stay, and Tania is his security blanket.

@jessicawojcik8546

Жыл бұрын

Remember he shouldn’t start anything and get someone’s hopes up. If he still dealing with his baby mama either leave the baby mama or stay with her he is in the wrong 😑

Typical Dusty Behavior he never wanted her nor that he like her he needed somewhere to go and she opened the door.

@tashefeyataylor8502

Жыл бұрын

Literally!!! Bum energy lmao

@DJ-vj4vi

Жыл бұрын

A typical user and hobo sexual bum with feminine energy!

@MiguelDLewis

Жыл бұрын

If he's a "dusty", is she a "dustette" for choosing him?

@tashefeyataylor8502

Жыл бұрын

@@MiguelDLewis most definitely!

@erinjohnson4273

6 ай бұрын

​@@MiguelDLewisAbsolutely! And as a woman, I'm saying that we have to take into account for our own actions!

yeah she ain't going nowhere. I've seen older women like her who's been with men like him for 20, 30 years complaining about the same ol' behavior they don't like about their men. I avoid befriending women like her cuz their stories get old and annoying and they always seem to find a problem in every solutions you help them find. girl let him cheat in peace. judge Star is fabulous as usual and shout out to the bailiff seems like a cool guy

I think she came to court hoping judge star would’ve said they can fix the relationship, hopefully she can find some self love , poor thing.😞

Her self esteem must be mighty low, to put up with his mess. You're never going to trust him again, so why continue the relationship?

It’s always the P WORD. POTENTIAL that get so many women in trouble with dudes like this?!?! THIS!! Potential means not there yet! Not mature, not sincere, not truthful, NOT FAITHFUL etc a lot of NOTS!

*Communication is hard when I lie and she catches me* 🤣🤣🤣

I don't think he wants her.

@brittanywilliams7727

3 ай бұрын

Right 🤦🏾‍♀️

He’s not into her

There're problem!! She has no self esteem which means he can do whatever to her because she won't leave!

The fact that she stayed when he cheated months in….🤦🏾‍♀️ it wasn’t like they were together long and she coulda left. He has the smuggest smile on his face the entire episode. He’s so gross.

Ms Taylor, I hope you in the comments seeing how majority of the people here telling you to go. Stop making yourself miserable. Is it that you think you won't find anybody else because being alone would be better than this relationship

He got liar tendencies!! I’m rolling… lol

I know it’s her choice to deal with this lying loser, but I am heartbroken for her. Low self worth is like a disease amongst women many of us want love but we are clueless what that is. I hope she decides eventually to chose peace and love for self.

RUN GIRL!! I AGREE WITH JUDGE STAR FROM THE BEGINNING

He has more than one baby mama? Girl he will never be faithful and committed to you. This is why I don't date men with more than one baby mother. One baby mama or ex wife is enough.

Why can't he be with his kids ? He shouldn't have to hide that y'all take social media to far no one should have to tell you to move around some ppl like drama and some ppl do what you allow

@syndib1177

Жыл бұрын

He lied if he wanted to see his kids he could’ve just told her that but he wanted to cheat too

@jessicawojcik8546

Жыл бұрын

He can but lies and sleep a with his kids mother while living with her

As Cynthia G would say, she needs to gets some standards, boundaries, expectations -- and to expand her options.

Sounds like a man that needs a place to live lmao

How much of the bills he paying😂😂😂 promoter

@naturallyflawed5472

Жыл бұрын

Nun..that’s the vibes I get 🤦🏽‍♀️

Omg!! If u have to be that policeing with your mate that’s just to much work… u need to get paid for that job!!! Return to sender, we don’t want it.

Divorce court is the new couples court😩

@corneliusfarrell8673

Жыл бұрын

I wonder when they gon bring that show back wit the Cutlers judges

@ms.clarkslearninghangout1253

Жыл бұрын

Time to change the name of the show.

Sounds like he just doesn’t WANT HER!.. actions spk louder than words!..

When she said he was in & outta relationships when they 1st met, DING DING! red flag!!

A promise ring?? WHAT ARE THOOOOOOOOOSE 😂

stop letting cheaters w/potential.. move in your home ?!!! their ex is always in the picture !!! update: she stayed and he still cheats lol

@erinjohnson4273

6 ай бұрын

Wait! How do you know? And for some reason I can believe it

This is a no! They started off in error and misrepresentation. He has a child with another woman that apparently he's dealing with on/off, but being a daddy is forever. This girl didn't inquire about the status or extent of his relationship with the mother of his child, because she didn't care to. She was a side piece, and now she mad that he has other side pieces, make that make sense. She has moved him in, playing house, when there's no clear indication that he really wants to be there, other than the lies he speak. He and the mother of his child will continue to have relations, that's a given, and if he can have them with this fool as well so be it. This man is not trying to build with her, he just found a damn good room mate. She gets her karma, and so does he. Period

Go ahead Judge Star. Keep being fly. Love that color. I'm a retired young looking woman, and I remember dressing just like you are everyday going to work, and I love your style. Your style is my style.

Wait! He was in a relationship when they illicitly got together. He ended that relationship and entered into a relationship with her. Subsequently, he cheated on her, and yet she is surprised that he did that. What am I missing?

She bringing in comments from tik tok...baby just let him go

"I care about him. I see the potential in him" sounds like a teacher/professor talking about a pupil she likes. Not a boyfriend. Move on lady.

She will NEVER trust him because she knows how SHE got him! She didn't respect the other woman and she's afraid of receiving the same disrespect that she gave!

Girl goodnight , we don’t care when you still sleeping with him

He sounds so practiced in his answers... it drives me nuts clear sign of manipulation. The Plaintiff's skin looks too good to let dumb stress to ruin it.

Queen, step away..he is not ready to be faithful to you..This Is Another Love TKO..Thanks Teddy Pendergrass

Promise rings over the age of 17 is wild to me. An engagement is a promise. If you have to promise you'll make a promise eventually I don't even want it

WOW he has no empathy. You can see it in his eyes.

Star whatever ur doing keep it up, u look absolutely amazing!!!!!

He don’t want you…. He’s not interested…. He doesn’t care about your feelings!! Girl leave

Something always wrong with her

@prestonmcleod1726

4 ай бұрын

People like her just scared of being alone, you gotta learn to love yourself before trying to love others.

"You have no reason to stay in an unhappy situation. The best part about free will... is the ability to exercise it! You need to roll!" -- Judge Star I love me some Judge Mablean and Judge Tohler, enjoyed Judge Faith... Yet Judge Star... she is shining! I'm loving it! 💗

Either be over your baby mama or stay with her don’t waste another woman’s time

He's so self righteous!!

Judge ⭐⭐⭐ You are looking absolutely Gorgeous today!!Just Glowing!!!So glad that you took over!!

...it sounds like he put his promoter game on her and she believed it.

😂I’m Star’s 🌟 new FAN after this Advice she gave on this case !! You go Judge!!! I’m still hollering love it!!!!!! 🤣🤣 laughing 👍🏾 I just hope she takes the advice

All that CSI work just to cry and stay. 🙄

Love that outfit Judge Star

A breach of trust isn't so easy to move pass. And forgiving a trust breaker majority of the time ONLY Ignites a sense of self entitlement in the form of giving them permission to cheat more

" what had happened was...."normally proceeds a lie

She needs to run he doesn't take women serious remember he as more than one baby mothers, he will never be faithful,

@cadillacdeville5828

Жыл бұрын

Regardless if he had multiple or none at all, he WOULD STILL do the same thing.

U blocked??? Girl...

Once I get to a point where I have to get out of my routine to check on the other person's behavior, I will disappear! Being the person I am, I will act like they don't exist.

Yah...he is a player...just find someone else. ROLL BABY ROLL!

miss lady what's the point.. just leave him. he's for the streets.

Judge star you always look beautiful. I also love bow you color coordinate your outfits with the flowers on the table

She lost me when she said he was in a and out of the relationship so she knew he was a player and mess with different girls so she choice to be with him and now mad that he cheating on her, (pikachu shock face) I don't feel sorry for her cause mostly likely she thought she could change him and now she mad that he ain't cheating and he sleep around that she saw the red flag but she ignore them cause she was hope he would change for her, she deserver at this at this point cause she knew what get herself into

If she feels like she has to do all this investigating and checking, LIG baby girl. LET IT GO. Whether he's cheating or not, if you don't trust him it's not worth it.

What's a promise ring purpose? Something to make you forgive a person.

That was her 1st mistake getting with a man that wishy-washy in and out relationship that red flags 🚩🚩🚩all day I would've deaded it right there from the start 💯

Oh no another Brooks

He has shown her multiple times who he was - A LIAR AND A CHEATER!! So why does she expect him to be anything else?? Why stay with someone you cannot trust!! The answer is simple - DON'T!!!

He's a grown man wearing pigtails, and she's tryna find reasons to stay???? She's not a victim, she's a volunteer.

No woman can change a grown man. He doesn't make you happy and he's obvi cheating. DROP HIM!!! She doesn't have kids with him!!! DROP HIM and KEEP IT THAT WAY!!! And yes how you get him is how you lose him. He told you what he is when he was going in and out of a relationship. That's a clue to stay away from him! PERIOD!!!

Why his head look like tht... I thought something was wrong wit my TV 🤦🏾‍♀️🤣🙄

She’s too good and beautiful for this negativity and drama. I hope she finds true love ❤

Good day Judge ⭐️ this one I agree with you 100percent mistrust she will just have to walk away can’t repair a liar 🤥 so sad

You don't marry potential. You can never change someone. They have to want to change. Never marry someone with the intent to change them. It will never work!!!

Don't ever let a sorry man have that type over power of you. I feel bad for her because in her mind she thinks this is a normal relationship. They both need to work on themselves. He needs to be single so he ain't gotta lie but hell that wouldn't change that either 😂. Ain't no way in hell I'ma turn into a cheater detective she should be tired😂

This isn't a relationship it's a relationshit