I don't know, why I'm always getting recommended these "foreign person now living in Germany" type of videos, because it's not the kind of stuf I woud normally watch, but its always interesting to know, how people view us from an outside perspective and what the cultural differences are!

This video was very funny! Thank you for the laughs!

We are romantical when we are young. and then society crushes romance and it all becomes a planing game :D

@simplenewzealandwithanna

3 жыл бұрын

So true 😅

@livics610

3 жыл бұрын

How can someone *not* be romantic? 😳

@mcmxcix4059

2 жыл бұрын

So true

@romasejahterachanel

2 ай бұрын

​@@livics610q😂q❤q 13th

Great video! Very interesting for me as a German guy as well...

I totally agree with the messaging part, german won’t send message and keep in touch everyday which is really not ideal for me personally, you should have a lot of patience and a thick skin not to feel bad about it, don’t take it personally, it’s normal for them..🤷🏻‍♀️

@simplenewzealandwithanna

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah agree!

@Meyouletsgo

3 жыл бұрын

Oh lord ! Yes definitely! Americans are more into understanding feelings Europeans lack that !

@Meyouletsgo

3 жыл бұрын

Arved Beleihe me I’ve dated both and even my Spanish friend confirm I feel Americans can talk feelings and handling it than Europeans

@user-jn9gs2vc2d

3 жыл бұрын

@petitgirl, am haba from Germany. I really appreciate your comment, because i had same experience Send me a gmail message so I can chat with you. samuhaba48@gmail.com

@tomoefrye1970

3 жыл бұрын

I agree. I want to contact my German man more often but once a day is enough for him.... that’s what he means keep in touch.

ýoure fantasticallý accurate : ) great content, greetings from nürnberg

You go girl 🔥🤩 Super cool! Well done. Liked and subscribed 💪🏼

@samkobby3567

2 жыл бұрын

I am in Germany, are you in Berlin?

For all those reasons, I married an American. I'm German born and raised. Dated a few German guys. I could never get warm with them. Meaning, they are to stur for me. I don't like a date planned out by him alone. If he invites me to dinner, I don't expect to pay half. It never happen to me when an American man asks me to dinner, that he would even asked me to pay half for it.Seems like things have changed since I lived in Germany. I was never asked to pay half of the dinner.

you are a good representative of a german girl, it does motivate me to push myself to the extreme to get one for me self

Good afternoon Anna🌺 German or Austrian Ladies usually have the self-confidence and the right to do things on their own, specially for paying the bill, but manners are also important for me as well. So open the door for her, let the lady choose the table, taking the bill, helping with the chair are things I like to do, but that's up to every man and what he expects from the date.

What she is saying is; they are more like Cavemen than modern humans.

There are 5 ways ppl show love, there was a book about it: - gifts, - helping hand/ utility/ practicality, - words, - physical closeness - time/ spending time with that person So some of us have different love language/s than others, it doesn't mean those persons are shallow or smth.

@simplenewzealandwithanna

3 жыл бұрын

Agree with you

@user-jn9gs2vc2d

3 жыл бұрын

@liv it's I appreciate your comment, You are brilliant. Can you send me an email so I can chat with you, samuhaba48@gmail.com

@samkobby3567

2 жыл бұрын

Are you in Berlin?

@samkobby3567

2 жыл бұрын

@@simplenewzealandwithanna are you in Germany ?

I'd argue that "chivalry" is dead but being helpful isn't. Symbolic gestures which are just there to show your support but hardly useful from a rational standpoint (opening car doors, carrying bags or coats which have basically no weight, flowers which have no place and will be dead in a few hours) are avoided but things which actually save work and effort (like keeping a door open if you already had to open it) or only one partner can actually do (like driving someone when the other person doesn't have a car, carrying heavy stuff, repairing stuff, cooking special meals) are still very much appreciated. You usually have to ask though as being pushy or assuming someone's intentions is also discouraged. (Many German women simply view the "mind reading lady's man" as annoying and patronizing, and men adopted. Same thing with paying for random stuff even though you have enough money yourself, many men think they are now entitled to some kind of compensation and women usually want to avoid that. If you are in an already established relationship and one person makes far more money paying for your partner is pretty common though, again, being practical, rational and independent are the most important virtues).

@Badhippy

3 жыл бұрын

that's right. nothing is free

Since the end of 2020 I'm meeting a russian girl, now I could simply show her this video :D

Yeah "special" in the German sense of the word LOL It can really be stressful. Chivalry is not only dead it is forgotten too...My last boyfriend actually asked me why he should carry up a case of beer in my car....Duh...because you are the stronger one and I cant?? I mean I helped him clean his whole house when he moved so I think he can bring up a crate of beer...But he really didn't understand. and presents? What are those? not even valentines day. Now to be fair he is much younger than I am and some older guys have more old school behaviors...But anyone under 40 forget it! Also on a first date you can't find out anything about them...They will pump you for information but answer your questions with one word answers.

@Hanmacx

3 жыл бұрын

They are told way to many times that holding doors or carrying heavy stuff is sexist So they don't do that anymore

@Rainerjgs

3 жыл бұрын

Ja, es ist noch viel schlimmer, denn höfliches Kavaliertum wird heute sogar von vielen - sich super modern gebenden Frauen - geradezu als Beleidigung empfunden. Ich wollte einer einer Dame in den Mantel helfen - so wie ich es gelernt hatte - und wurde dafür saublöd angemacht, bzw. zurück gewiesen! Schade, daß nach und nach die schönsten Formen ritterlicher Höflichkeit wegbrechen. Als Kind sagte man mir immer noch: "Sei ein Kavalier und helfe Deiner kleinen Cousine!"

@mariakaiser4403

3 жыл бұрын

@@Rainerjgs Das haben wir den verrückten Feministinnen zu verdanken !!

@nadiahakim6667

2 жыл бұрын

@@Rainerjgs 😣

@maryfiero8122

4 ай бұрын

​@@Rainerjgs diese "frauen" zerstören ladies, die einen normalen Gentleman wollen. Bitte nicht aufhören, diese feministen sollen gestohlen bleiben!

I am a 40 year old german man. I am not at all like the guys you met. Maybe you are in the wrong Area. Leave Berlin and you will find guys who know how to buy flowers.

@nadiahakim6667

2 жыл бұрын

Where tell me where haha

@mimung3185

2 жыл бұрын

@@nadiahakim6667 come to me Nadia 😉. Maybe i'll buy a flower for you. Southern Border of Germany.

@nadiahakim6667

2 жыл бұрын

@@mimung3185 haha

@nadiahakim6667

2 жыл бұрын

flower bouquet is the minimum darling 🙃

Don't be angry with me, but I don't understand the reference to BRAI(n). I don't know this acronym and couldn't find any interpretations. I am therefore unable to answer your post adequately, but I would like to thank you for your response.

вам так идёт этот теплый цвет волос, красиво сочетается с глазами)

nice this show 💖💖💖💖🎏

I'm dating a German man with one daughter but I'm getting scared because he still communicate with his daughter's mum because he said he have a kid with her. I don't understand. Is there possibility that they will get back together? It's been 6 years that they are separated

@juliushauck3981

Жыл бұрын

nope. That's pretty usual as they both are obligated to care about the kid together. You can't really do so without contact and it's way smoother if you can do that in a friendly way instead of having to fight each other all the time. There's a reason why they splitted up, but also a reason why they liked each other. So enough for having a nice talk but not enough for more above that. At least usually, you can never predict something for sure.

Wie alt sind Sie?

So many things I agree with her about German guys: no presents, less affections, trip to his friends... Good to know that someone have a same experience like I do.

@adrianbrett3879

3 жыл бұрын

That’s true so which man do you prefer from what country

@Dr-le4zt

2 жыл бұрын

I got my help from Dr. Stephen, he was the only one who was able to help me bring back my ex husband back.!! ☑️.

@Dr-le4zt

2 жыл бұрын

! ! ! ! ! ! Text him on WhatsApp or call him..

@samkobby3567

2 жыл бұрын

I am in Germany, are you in Berlin?

@tomoefrye1970

2 жыл бұрын

No I am in US.

Nice

Chivalry must be regained. We as women must demand more from men, starting from our profiles in dating app. We demanding.

@TK-el4sr

2 жыл бұрын

Well, sadly women with their femimism killed it in the first place.

@universofashion

2 жыл бұрын

@@TK-el4sr I'm not a feminist. I tell everyone we must go back to how it was before.

@sammencia7945

Жыл бұрын

You won't get it. First: Change all the laws back. Destroy divorce law, family courts, and have one solid decade of women paying men alimony and the men getting the kids 90% of the time. After, and only after, you do all of this you might get chivalry.

@sammencia7945

Жыл бұрын

@@universofashion Did you fight feminism or take the benefits?

@magorzatamargaret294

14 күн бұрын

@@sammencia7945 nonsense.

this is by far the best video on dating a german guy

@adrianbrett3879

3 жыл бұрын

It’s so true my daughter experienced that also

@samkobby3567

2 жыл бұрын

I am in Germany, are you in Berlin?

that sounds great - i'm in the wrong country!

German men have been brought up to believe that it is arrogant of them to help a woman without her asking for it. Then of course we help. I once got a slap in the face from a woman I didn't know because I held the door open for her.

Haha. This really pops the question into my head, how many countries´ men you were dating already. Please don´t answer, not my business :-))

@simplenewzealandwithanna

3 жыл бұрын

I just informed myself:)

Not every german men want to travel all the time. And not everyone hide his feelings as much. But for the rest of your Clip - Juhuu, endlich mal Klartext. Ich kann fast jedem Deiner Punkte zustimmen. Ich hoffe, dass Frauen, die nach Deutschland kommen, offen genug sind und diese andere Mentalität umarmen können. Jedenfalls die Frauen, die jetzt noch interessiert sind einen deutschen Mann kennen zu lernen, sind es wert und interessant.

@magorzatamargaret294

14 күн бұрын

Relation my DearFriend is about TWO PEOPLE....and if you as a German want to have a Relation you HAVE TO ADJUST ALSO YOURSELF to the expectations of the other person, because EVERYONE IS IMPORTANT, not only Germans and their expectations...that is all. And what is attractive in being with someone without feelings, withous affection, without giving presents....if I want a ROBOT I will buy one....if I want to be with ALIVE HUMAN BEING I am expecting from them that they act like human beings, not like a robots...

Fantastic video. Made me realize I won't be able to date a stereotypical German guy at all you look absolutely gorgeous by the way

I dated one and I decided to break up with him. He lied to me, cover things out and flirt behind my back in social media. He lock eyes and check out girls while walking with me even stop and look where the girl went. And when I point it out or get upset over all this and, that all his actions is hurting me he called me being insecurity, controlling and it’s normal in Germany and Europe. So now I’m confused. I am not sure what kind of German he is 😂.

@KlauzFlos

2 жыл бұрын

I am not trying to say anything negative about your ex, and I am sorry for what you had to experience. To those behaviors you have mentioned, I have seen in a few other countries too with my friend's partner or etc. I don't think it is necessarily a Germany or one nation thing but more like what kind of GUY he is. In my honest opinion, it doesn't matter which background are they from, if you are committed to a monogamous relationship, there are certain boundaries you shouldn't cross. Trust, honesty and open communication are always important in any form of relationship.

@gillianbenjamin7461

2 жыл бұрын

@@KlauzFlos Yea you are right but he was the one who told me “We Germans are like this basically all European are like this we are open minded and bla bla bla”. But as the days goes by yes, it’s nothing to do with the entire region but him. So I found out that he is a narcissist and so he blame others for his own actions 😂

@KalamwaShafic

4 ай бұрын

Omg this me i broke up with him yesterday he looks at other women he is egoistic , never wrong he is socially awkward i gave up it was draining

@KalamwaShafic

4 ай бұрын

I dont like germans anymore dude was like a rock

@KalamwaShafic

4 ай бұрын

I swear this is my german man

Anna can you remember your very first Date with a German man?

@simplenewzealandwithanna

3 жыл бұрын

Sure :)

@johanngiesbrecht3162

3 жыл бұрын

@@simplenewzealandwithanna Schön ist die Jugendzeit,

@MichelleBella-y20

8 ай бұрын

Hello

I' m sorry for you. Seems to me, you describe misbehaving boys wanna be men, but don't know what to do (education). Some generalizations.

@hillarybillary21

3 жыл бұрын

Yep.

What’s the top 5 ways girls in Germany show interest?

@simplenewzealandwithanna

3 жыл бұрын

I am not a dating expert, sorry:) pretty much basic things like in other countries

@oldeuropemyhome76

13 күн бұрын

When they have a deeper conversation with you, things are going well. When they want to see you again as soon as possible, things are going very well. When they suggest going on a walk together, their interest in you is very likely of a romantic nature. However, If you simply have a conversation about an obvious shared interest (e.g. you meet at a gaming convention and only talk about games) and plan to meet to follow a shared interest (studying for an exam, going to a sports match and you know she likes the sport and would have gone without you) - she likes you as a person, but you can't tell at all if she is interested in a relationship or just in a friendship.

Very conservative Germans and Austrians are socially pretty similar to Russians in my experience.

oh God this is so true like 98% true in my experiences dating Germans. But like two sides of coin, at some point could be good also bad at the same time.

@adrianbrett3879

3 жыл бұрын

Everyone can never be the same. Some guys might be bad and some good

i would bring Anna flowers and chocolate and wash dishes for her .

But do germans sometimes also care about other peoples culture why is it all about them

@magorzatamargaret294

14 күн бұрын

EXACTLY. I have the same question. They are not the most important. And if I want the robot I will buy one. If I want to be with the human being I am expecting HUMAN ACTING

It's not about equality. Or do you define equality and emancipation by opening doors and pushing chairs (we should be beyond that point)? It's about good manners and behavior. Have them, or not. Clearly not so wide spread in Mc surroundings. Sounds you only describing some sort of boy or wannabe hipster.

@simplenewzealandwithanna

3 жыл бұрын

maybe

@humanx7129

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, totally agree. the behavior she's describing, is IMO just a " boy" and not a man

To all the cute russian girls out there who want to put this tips into practise: Here I am.

@samkobby3567

2 жыл бұрын

I am in Germany, are you in Berlin?

My German Cookie Bf is not typical:) German

@samkobby3567

2 жыл бұрын

I am in Germany, are you in Berlin?

There are men in Germany who have forgotten how to be "attentive". I am german and i open the door for women, carry heavy bags, slide the chair underneath... For me, this is not a question of equality. I like and protect women and carry them on hands without being submissive. It is nice when women enrich my environment and are part of my appreciation. I am sometimes a little macho... I don't cry around, sometimes I bleed without noticing, but I am still empathic and I like to give honest compliments. I don't like sissies, assholes, lazy guys and pasha's. What I don't like about women is the tendency to demand a man with more feeling and empathy or even to raise him as a mum to be a "modern man" and then look for a real "asshole" as a friend because he is so manly and beats her. This is crazy and the girls have themselves to blame. Please stop this shit. If a (german) friend is not attentive, you have chosen the wrong one. Don't let this be sold to you as equal rights. Sure, women want to be equal and that's right, but that's why you can still make an effort for them. Men-haters, women who play their femininity off as a quota and man-women have to answer for the consequences of their actions themselves. Women do not have to play the male role in their job or family. We need femininity...no second guy. You make the difference...and you are wonderful that way.

@simplenewzealandwithanna

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your comment, world needs more men like you.

@UnitXification

3 жыл бұрын

Sometimes I chop of my finger and I don't notice. /s

@HumeAnn

3 жыл бұрын

You're absolutely amazing. The world does need more men like you

@alexpawlowski2743

3 жыл бұрын

@@HumeAnn Thank you for your kind comment. Women are a gift that can break, so you should always treat them well and be happy about them.

@QuynhNguyen-tn3hu

3 жыл бұрын

There are not so much man like you at the moment. And yes, it would be so lovely to be weak a bit in front of a man :D

Most german man would askt to carry your bag, if it looks heavy. ;)

plus: we onlý paý when we want to see ýou again ; )

@akashsahu3098

3 жыл бұрын

Amazing

Love is interesting, only if you find real dude that can prove it.

None of this is true. I lived in Germany for 6 years.

@annukimuni3389

2 жыл бұрын

It's actually true. You can't deny it just because it didn't happen to you.

Hmmmm...I believe you may have not picked up the signs that these men didn’t like you as much as you thought they did? I must be in Germany for work soon, and have already had multiple chivalrous offers in abundance from german men I met online. Our relationships developed into meaningful ones via FaceTime and phone. So far I have had offers to pick me up from the airport and to stay with them, and have all my meals cooked, drive me to work- everything has been arranged and offered once our relationship got to be important to eaciother. I don’t mean this offensively, but it is quite obvious that your ex was talking to other women when he was in chille, not because all German men don’t communicate! That is absolute nonsense. All the best xo

@samkobby3567

2 жыл бұрын

I am in Germany, are you in Berlin?

The first girl that entered our circle of male friends set the tone quit differently from what our parents did. She did not like us to open doors or carry her stuff. She just wanted to be "one of the boys" and treated like everybody else. In reality she was very good, a lot above average, probably one of the smartest classmates I ever had. Excellent grades as well. That was in the late sixties. Many of he women I later met were similar, wanted to be treated like men. Everything else was seen as being treated as inferiors. When I look at my daughters these days, things have changed a bit. They do not consider themselves inferior and treat their partners as "gleichberechtigt" and they in turn are treated the same way. So yes, to some extent the chivalry was killed by the successful fight for equal rights.

@magorzatamargaret294

14 күн бұрын

Some people are idoctrinated by this IDEOLOGY but it doesnt mean you should follow that rubbish..

Ha, sounds pretty boring, cold and rationalized. Don't really like it, but I'm also from Germany and it also goes vice-versa, meaning the women here are also like this or expect this. Yeah, but in the moment there isn't much choice. It's even worse during lockdown and home office. I basically just see women in the supermarket in real life at the moment 😄

@magorzatamargaret294

14 күн бұрын

All the lockdowns were always ILLEGAL and introduced just for controlling people, nothing else.

Russian guys sound amazing O.O

@vh6289

Жыл бұрын

oh believe me, they are not. Most of them are sexist and don't view a woman as an equal, even if they say otherwise. Mansplaining is a huge thing, I'm literally tired of cringing after literally EVERY Russian-speaking guy starts to mansplain you the second moment after you start to talk. For example, they ask your occupation and after learning that you are an artist, start on having a monologue about some stupid shit they read somewhere about arts (like: oooh do you know that man with flowers? He cut off his ear! Did you know that? I bet you didn't! And now let me tell you about how to paint flowers even though I've never done that but I'm sure it's easy and you're doing it wrong). And this all with a look of utter importance on their face. Or, the second option, they devaluate. Like: "ooh, an artist, it's not even an occupation, is it? What do you do there, painting walls? Ha-ha." And THEN they expect a second date and get aggressive if you deny. Some of them expect to get "paid" with sex after they've paid for your coffee. Well, I get there are exceptions that are not like that, but the majority of them ARE like that.

😨😨 Ok I think I can stop dating my German friend. No flowers.. Omg I can not

1. We are full of love. 2. We are full of evil. 3. We are full of truth. 4. We are full of Bullshit.

I want a German girlfriend

Hey everyone, I'm the guy who does cold approaches on the street here in Germany. I was also living in Poland. Here I exchange phone numbers with girls that I like on the street. Women in Germany have less social skills I would say, they don't know how to handle it. What I know is I need to be direct otherwise they don't understand that you're interested in a Romantic Manner. Some cases I remember over text girl is telling me I have a boyfriend etc. Because she didn't understand my intention. What I liked is they are loyal right from the get-go. I was the guy who doesn't know exclusive right from the get go and was seeing multiple women and my relationship contract vanished when they found out. I learned the hard way. Because German people even don't want to talk to strangers. Now I was telling about Poland if I compare these two countries the difference is a lot. Slavic women are more feminine when I compared to German women. Anyways, good luck with dating in Germany.

I carry the heavy things, German women are very unlikely to give you their handbag, almost like it is a part of their Body,ask german women,they hate it.

😔 guess I won't move to Germany then! That sounds terrible & like a lot work for a girl "who's not a farleft feminist"!! ... so disappointed.

@toomuchinformation

2 күн бұрын

You're right. Even listening to this video was hard work, not because of Anna (?) but of all of the hurdles she had to go through dating a German guy.

sorry, i m too old for you... ;-)

@KalamwaShafic

4 ай бұрын

We can talk about age later 😂

I dont understand why you have ex'es . Your gorgeous.

Put me off Germans dear😂

Why give a woman flowers they will die in two days....LOL!

@leorey3100

3 жыл бұрын

Lol. He says he loves you more. But, has difficulty being more patient, more generous and giving more time. Lol

@toomuchinformation

2 күн бұрын

​@@leorey3100There's someone else he's seeing.

Hehehe I bet that you'll fall for a Serbian guy soon.. Some like Miloš Biković maybe. 😁

@simplenewzealandwithanna

3 жыл бұрын

Haha who knows :)

Mit lauten Puepsen geht alles besser! It’s called the “ animal instinct”!! Pfui Deibel!!🤩🤮

Sounds like a royal german nightmare... :-/

Feminism has killed machism in western culture.