Things to avoid if You must develop Yourself

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  • @solomonjohn1481
    @solomonjohn14815 ай бұрын

    Things to avoid 1. 3:46 Friendship that is not taking you anywhere 2. 4:01 church politics 3. 5:05 always weigh whatever men are doing with the word of God 4. 6:07 dont carry family matters on your head 5. 8:27 dont carry tribal matters on your head 6. 9:24 dont carey doctinal matter on your head 7. 11:18 dont destroy the body of Christ. Thank you Dr. Charles Apoki.

  • @margaretnjoka5169

    @margaretnjoka5169

    5 ай бұрын

    Amen I totally agree don't fight for family ptoperties

  • @TheLegend-uq1gz
    @TheLegend-uq1gz Жыл бұрын

    I like your points. To buttress your point, one wise person stated: Before you break your back for others, first & foremost, find out who will push you when you are in the wheelchair. Don’t kill yourself for people who don’t care about you.

  • @blessingpereye1258
    @blessingpereye1258 Жыл бұрын

    Life will ask you questions.... Be prepared!

  • @user-yf2zm9eu4s

    @user-yf2zm9eu4s

    5 ай бұрын

    the questioning is getting out of hand..lol..i prepared 4 it..but life is asking me too much question..life must be a police officer..

  • @MrTrebor_

    @MrTrebor_

    2 ай бұрын

    I didn't prepare for life's questioning. It asked, I became dumb and because I couldn't answer her, appropriately, she knocked me hard. I'm a man who has tasted my own version of Biblical Job's misery; No I haven't lost anyone in my family to death but I lost every wealth I had. Everything burned to the ground. At this moment, whoever reads this, please pray to me for God's mercy and divine encounter meet someone that could take me out of this misery.

  • @reelfarm
    @reelfarm Жыл бұрын

    I wonder why this video has not reached 100k views. This is what people pay millions to discover. God bless you sir.

  • @DrCharlesApoki

    @DrCharlesApoki

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks so much please help share with others.

  • @catherineumeike5830

    @catherineumeike5830

    Жыл бұрын

    Because no be their yeye comedy skit

  • @user-ho2qt1qh5v

    @user-ho2qt1qh5v

    5 ай бұрын

    WOW! The journey of Great men has never been easy. Today I came to this channel not by chance, but destiny. May the Most High continue to bless you Super Abundantly.

  • @user-jz2tp4sy4t
    @user-jz2tp4sy4t6 ай бұрын

    After we lost our Dad in 2015, I was a teenager then and the fifth born, we are six in numbers. our most elder brother who was suppose to manage the legacy and assist us, he failed and squandered every of our late dad’s properties including our dads car and a piece of land. He sold that land while my mum was still on her mourning attires. He mismanaged the fuel station and borrowed money with our house. Then, I was so angry and always want to fight him. One day, he cursed me while we where quarreling as usual and he said I will go to prison some day, and it actually happened I was imprisoned in one neighboring Africa country. I did one year, I came back home And returned to the same country the next year, after one month there, I bought a very big land very close to my late dad’s land that was sold by my eldest brother, and also mould a lot and lots of bricks to start my building. I even fenced the land. So, I really get your point Sir and I appreciate your kind. I love your speech and you make me laugh a lot especially when you are saying, I remain your friend Dr Charles Apoki. 😊😊😊😊😊😊❤

  • @DrCharlesApoki

    @DrCharlesApoki

    6 ай бұрын

    Great testimony.

  • @ranjusranjus143
    @ranjusranjus1435 ай бұрын

    1. Women 2. Women 3. Women Do your hustle, succeed, and women will follow you

  • @enobongjackson2484
    @enobongjackson248410 ай бұрын

    Thank you Dr. I agree with you on carrying family problems on one's head. I've learnt my lesson the hard way. After all the sacrifices, some are really ingrates, who didn't seem to appreciate anything I did for them. I focus now on developing myself.

  • @solomonjohn1481
    @solomonjohn14815 ай бұрын

    2:44 i don't stop i must finish anything i start -Dr Charles Apoki

  • @namwandimarkus8857
    @namwandimarkus8857 Жыл бұрын

    I am a fan of Dr. APOKI. He spits wisdom. Much love from Namibia 🙏. Keep up the good content Dr.

  • @doinglifewithkingwoman
    @doinglifewithkingwoman Жыл бұрын

    Be at peace with all men. This is my personal mantra

  • @davoupwol736
    @davoupwol736Ай бұрын

    Any time I hear you, you talked like a father to me. You words come from a heart of love and a desire to see your listeners succeed and do well in life. Thank you sir.

  • @godsonnsofor1554
    @godsonnsofor15546 ай бұрын

    How i i wish sumone told Me all this in my university days government really meed to include talks like this in our school curriculum . Nice one daddy u already have a staunch fan in me 💯

  • @dorcas3966
    @dorcas39662 ай бұрын

    Am so blessed to listen to wisdom from your. Thanks Dr Charles

  • @chinaecheremezenma8720
    @chinaecheremezenma87205 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much Dr. Charles Apoki, my mum introduced me to your channel. I have learnt it's wise to; ❤️‍🔥REFLECT more and DEVELOP myself, build my finances, my family, my mind and my capacity, because it's myself I would give a report of. ❤️‍🔥Also to focus on Christ, the Author and Finisher of our Faith. ❤️‍🔥Not to carry family, tribal and denominational/interdenominational matters on my head. I am super grateful sir😊

  • @VoliqueServices
    @VoliqueServicesАй бұрын

    Life will ask me lots of questions. I will focus on developing myself first. Don't struggle property with siblings. Make it and buy property.

  • @SenaJabulani-rr9fq
    @SenaJabulani-rr9fq Жыл бұрын

    The bottom line is don't try to impress others but yourself

  • @charlesotim2522
    @charlesotim2522 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for addressing these difficult and thorny African family issues. I completely agree with you.

  • @Xenlacasa45
    @Xenlacasa455 ай бұрын

    Your my favorite channel for life advice now god bless you sir

  • @brightdominica1923
    @brightdominica19236 ай бұрын

    You are a blessing to mankind

  • @relaxingt1728
    @relaxingt1728 Жыл бұрын

    Migwo sir. Thank you for always impacting my life.

  • @DrCharlesApoki

    @DrCharlesApoki

    Жыл бұрын

    Vrendo.

  • @t.kayoung5304
    @t.kayoung5304Ай бұрын

    Thank You Dr. Charles Apoki .... Following from Cameroon

  • @blessingchukwu3967
    @blessingchukwu39676 ай бұрын

    God bless you Sir.

  • @meneedwin8460
    @meneedwin8460Ай бұрын

    I love you sir Charles Apoki ❤

  • @chidij20
    @chidij202 ай бұрын

    Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @sylvanascott1166
    @sylvanascott11664 ай бұрын

    💯Percent correct

  • @gborowme
    @gborowme5 ай бұрын

    Wise man

  • @CJILMinistriesprotruth
    @CJILMinistriesprotruth5 ай бұрын

    Words etched in gold.

  • @user-ho2qt1qh5v
    @user-ho2qt1qh5v5 ай бұрын

    Dr Charles Apoki just came to your channel and subscribed. You're talking to me. Thank you!

  • @dianakumwenda7976
    @dianakumwenda7976 Жыл бұрын

    Powerful video.

  • @ifeanyiamah1711
    @ifeanyiamah17115 ай бұрын

    Thank you Sir

  • @okhuosuyiosazee5556
    @okhuosuyiosazee5556 Жыл бұрын

    Powerful message ❤

  • @sandrawithoutborders5631
    @sandrawithoutborders56315 ай бұрын

    That’s is loaded with wisdom. I have been binge watching since I came across your channel this week.

  • @bryandutches2282
    @bryandutches22826 ай бұрын

    I agree 💯

  • @felixa6997
    @felixa69975 ай бұрын

    Very wise words sir

  • @GregoryValentineAnimations
    @GregoryValentineAnimations2 ай бұрын

    Very good.

  • @Mr.Oct___
    @Mr.Oct___5 ай бұрын

    Your words are wise & a boon. -Thank u.

  • @okoteteprudence5970
    @okoteteprudence5970 Жыл бұрын

    Good advice...

  • @uzodikepaulinuschukwudi3696
    @uzodikepaulinuschukwudi36966 ай бұрын

    God bless you Sir 🙏

  • @CJILMinistriesprotruth
    @CJILMinistriesprotruth5 ай бұрын

    Wonderful and much needed counseling.

  • @africasvanguard
    @africasvanguard5 ай бұрын

    Thank you Doc🔥🔥🔥

  • @sylvesteruwadiae8825
    @sylvesteruwadiae8825Ай бұрын

    Nice one!

  • @gborowme
    @gborowme5 ай бұрын

    Good advice

  • @edwardaburuayi3296
    @edwardaburuayi32966 ай бұрын

    Wow. Dr. Charles is an asset. Keep it up Sir

  • @obieneonemi1980
    @obieneonemi198010 ай бұрын

    God bless u sir

  • @gregorycanady2530
    @gregorycanady25304 ай бұрын

    Somehow, the words of this man speak to me ..................Religion balanced with common sense..........nothing demanded of me.

  • @yh6896
    @yh6896 Жыл бұрын

    I must thank you for your views on religion. ❤ from Canada

  • @soglobalresources753
    @soglobalresources7536 ай бұрын

    Thank you sir You actually said everything right😊

  • @sabi_doctor
    @sabi_doctor2 ай бұрын

    Brilliant sir

  • @Marvin_Shandy
    @Marvin_Shandy2 ай бұрын

    Your guidance always hit home keep up the good work.

  • @graceasantewaatwumasi
    @graceasantewaatwumasi Жыл бұрын

    This is wisdom! Thank you for sharing Sir

  • @jabulanisena6288
    @jabulanisena62885 ай бұрын

    That's my man

  • @Anonymous121
    @Anonymous1212 ай бұрын

    Beautiful message Mr dr Apoki my friend bless you and your family brother we love you over here in California ❤❤❤

  • @gladunegbu4021
    @gladunegbu4021Ай бұрын

    So true my Papa

  • @demelvah7236
    @demelvah72365 ай бұрын

    You are a blessing sir Keep teaching

  • @CoachCollo
    @CoachCollo2 ай бұрын

    yes you are my friend a dad figure I never had man am learning alooooot from you. thanks

  • @ghostflxxer9171
    @ghostflxxer91712 ай бұрын

    All Facts. Thank you for sharing your Wisdom.

  • @gentlegiant3683
    @gentlegiant36836 ай бұрын

    Dr. Apoki,this raw wisdom.Thank you very much sir.

  • @XQRobertz
    @XQRobertz6 ай бұрын

    May Almighty Father in Heaven please kindly bless you Dr Apoki, You're wisdom is real top notch!! thanks a lot ❤

  • @namwandimarkus8857
    @namwandimarkus8857 Жыл бұрын

    I am a fan of Dr Apoki. He spits wisdom. Keep up the good content Dr 🙏 . Much love from Namibia ❤

  • @gayorwisdom75
    @gayorwisdom75Ай бұрын

    God bless you sir 🙏🏾❤️

  • @jerekclothing_Worldwide
    @jerekclothing_WorldwideАй бұрын

    I love you sir ❤

  • @HominisLupis
    @HominisLupis4 ай бұрын

    I love you Dr. Charles, from India

  • @virtualcreativecollaborations
    @virtualcreativecollaborationsАй бұрын

    ♥️ Beautiful Blessings

  • @byaikubofrancis1452
    @byaikubofrancis1452Ай бұрын

    Thank you very much papa for the advice am from Uganda

  • @uyordestiny8075
    @uyordestiny8075 Жыл бұрын

    Rational advice to us all. God bless you more sir 🙏. Best regards from Nkem Collections.

  • @user-hm2ic1xz2g
    @user-hm2ic1xz2gАй бұрын

    My bruhda!!

  • @anthonyomoko6433
    @anthonyomoko6433Ай бұрын

    Grace and Peace to you, Dr. Akpoki! ✨️🙏 💛 Greetings from Delta State ❤🎉

  • @stephenkaloi5139
    @stephenkaloi5139 Жыл бұрын

    Dr Apoki you are a blessing and God send in my season. I appreciate your speeches on this platform. Im becoming!!!

  • @DrCharlesApoki

    @DrCharlesApoki

    Жыл бұрын

    You are so welcome

  • @timileyinafolabi2842
    @timileyinafolabi2842 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks sir 🙏

  • @DrCharlesApoki

    @DrCharlesApoki

    Жыл бұрын

    Most welcome

  • @gilbertwarui593
    @gilbertwarui593 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Dr,for those great words⁹

  • @DrCharlesApoki

    @DrCharlesApoki

    Жыл бұрын

    You are very welcome

  • @chantkressmyfavouriterockstar
    @chantkressmyfavouriterockstar6 ай бұрын

    thank you

  • @DrCharlesApoki

    @DrCharlesApoki

    6 ай бұрын

    You're welcome

  • @eghobrown
    @eghobrown Жыл бұрын

    thank sir

  • @DrCharlesApoki

    @DrCharlesApoki

    Жыл бұрын

    Welcome

  • @obinnanwakanma2059
    @obinnanwakanma20595 ай бұрын

    Thank you Dr Charles for being a blessing.

  • @DrCharlesApoki

    @DrCharlesApoki

    5 ай бұрын

    You are very welcome

  • @nourishbmercy2148
    @nourishbmercy2148 Жыл бұрын

    I loveeeeeeee listening to you. Thank you sir. I will love to meet you in person some day

  • @DrCharlesApoki

    @DrCharlesApoki

    Жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @amjentertainment1842
    @amjentertainment1842Ай бұрын

    MY adopted mentor,you videos are my morning tonic.Good message from a good man.thank u sir.. Chief Christopher Geoman

  • @gmanjordan4154
    @gmanjordan41543 ай бұрын

    Dr. Charles, you tend to philosophically contradict yourself from other videos! 😂😂😂

  • @DrCharlesApoki

    @DrCharlesApoki

    3 ай бұрын

    @gmanjordan4154. Truths are parallel. God is love but God will people into hell. You must learn to compartmentalize truths. It takes intellectual maturity to do that.😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Mathefusions18
    @Mathefusions18 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks alot sir....but sir, how can one develop himself or her self ? Can you please elaborate a little more on it?

  • @chisaraprisca-eo6bd
    @chisaraprisca-eo6bd3 ай бұрын

    I'm blessed to share in your words of wisdom sir.

  • @DrCharlesApoki

    @DrCharlesApoki

    3 ай бұрын

    I appreciate that

  • @Beacons-of-Light-JustBeIT
    @Beacons-of-Light-JustBeIT2 ай бұрын

    Great points. No need to fear GOD. God is in You. So Why Be Afraid of You Who Were Created in The Image of GOD.

  • @DrCharlesApoki

    @DrCharlesApoki

    2 ай бұрын

    Reverential fear.

  • @lucienasone5751
    @lucienasone57515 ай бұрын

    Wise man, you talk all the time but every phrase that comes out of your mouth is super important. We thank God for your wisdom and for the passion you have to share with others.

  • @DrCharlesApoki

    @DrCharlesApoki

    5 ай бұрын

    I appreciate that

  • @nazywamsie2304
    @nazywamsie230426 күн бұрын

    🙏🏻

  • @mcdion6820
    @mcdion6820Ай бұрын

    Llive your life like you are alone in this world. No one dies for the other or will want to die because you are dead. You are on your own.

  • @godsroseinbloomh3246
    @godsroseinbloomh32463 ай бұрын

    Dr. Please tell me why and when you stopped practicing medicine?

  • @DrCharlesApoki

    @DrCharlesApoki

    3 ай бұрын

    I stopped in the year 2020. I had made up my mind in 1983 that I would not practice medicine beyond the age of 40, because I wanted to be a business man. I felt that for me to become a professor of medicine I won't be able to acqualise my visions for myself and my family.

  • @godsroseinbloomh3246

    @godsroseinbloomh3246

    3 ай бұрын

    @DrCharlesApoki Thank you for your answer to my queries. I appreciate your transparency and willingness to share that personal information. I'm enjoying your videos and your titles are eye-catching. God bless. Keep up the good work. Again, thank you very much.

  • @vieopulente7268
    @vieopulente72682 ай бұрын

    YOU ARE YOUR MAJOR PROJECT! YOU ARE YOUR MAJOR PROBLEM! YOU ARE YOUR MAJOR ASSET! -Dr. Apoki🎯

  • @jmmanuelseale823
    @jmmanuelseale8235 ай бұрын

    My name my friend is not Jesus...it was never Jesus..that was the name of a slave ship ..and some white god..my name is jmmanuel(Manuel).in China it was issa..in India yuz assaf....there is something I would like you to share with your listeners..speak on meditation...please..most are so caught up in doing and having...but only a few in a state of being...which in fact is the state that both of these other states should emerge from ...I enjoy listening to you and find only one thing that is concerning..you are too focused on preparing for death..2000 years ago....all I ever spoke on was eternal life and that is immortality..I'm back in a body ..last one for ever.. indefinitely.. every day is that ..ever lasting..one day I will meet you before you leave that body and revitalize it and you will change your mind on death..peace always be with you my friend... jmmanuel..2024 feb

  • @numberone4326
    @numberone43265 ай бұрын

    You lied when you said that Jesus broke the scriptures. Let God be true, but every man, a liar. Do whatever you want, but please don't misinterpret scriptures to justify your ways. Jesus did not break the scriptures but fulfilled them. Regarding the issue of washing of hands before eating, that is a tradition of the Jews and not an ordinance given by God. Regarding the woman caught in adultery, those who wanted to stone the woman to death wanted to fulfil scriptures, no doubt, but by showing her mercy, Jesus showed love. And scriptures says all the laws are summed up in love. God is love. Again, regarding the keeping of the Sabbath, the Jews would readily rescue a donkey that fell into a ditch on a Sabbath day but frowned at Jesus for healing the sick on a Sabbath day. Between a donkey and a human being, which is more valuable to God? It is human, of course. But the Jews considered healing the sick a violation of the Sabbath but didn't think so about helping a beast of burden from a ditch. If at all Jesus violated anything, it is human traditions. But not God's ordinances or scriptures.

  • @jeangray6863
    @jeangray68635 ай бұрын

    You're experiencing late midlife crisis. You're in mourning because you're getting older

  • @ighorashekeh7465
    @ighorashekeh7465 Жыл бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @chituruoji8939
    @chituruoji89396 ай бұрын

    God bless you sir.