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Absolutely, narcissists do have fear, and it's not something you'd expect. This fear is deeply ingrained in them, originating from their past relationships and interactions. This information might surprise you, as it could be something you've already stumbled upon. This fear causes them profound embarrassment, to such an extent that they would dread the thought of you discovering it. Intrigued about what this fear is? I urge you to continue reading.
Greetings to all, and it's a pleasure to reconnect. I trust that everyone is in high spirits. Today, we are going to delve deeper into uncovering the most profound fear that narcissists harbor when it comes to their ex-partners or past relationships. I can assure you, this revelation might startle you; it's not something you would typically associate with the fear a narcissist might have of being exposed by a former partner or relationship. It's essential to understand that narcissists, despite common misconceptions, do experience fear profoundly. These fears strike a chord with their deepest insecurities and emotional wounds. These fears, when triggered, are something narcissists dread and will go to great lengths to avoid. This could manifest in their sudden silence or the initiation of a smear campaign.
Let's now uncover the fear that looms largest in the minds of narcissists. This fear is deeply rooted in the dreadful possibility of you deciding to leave them, of you choosing to abandon them. This strikes at the core of their deepest insecurities. The narcissist will pull out all the stops to prevent you from leaving. Reflect on your past relationship - can you recall how many times they attempted to thwart your departure? Even after you've taken the step to leave, they might have tried to coax you into returning. The narcissist dreads the thought of you leaving because that's their ultimate fear. It's the reality they fear the most, the one they are most desperate to avoid.
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How bizarre... When someone toxic leaves, I feel relieved.
@NarcPedia
4 ай бұрын
Feeling relieved when a toxic person exits your life is a natural and healthy reaction. It signifies the removal of negativity and the beginning of a healing process. This relief can be the first step towards reclaiming your peace and well-being. Embrace this feeling as a positive sign of personal growth and a move towards healthier relationships and environments. You're not alone in feeling this way, and it's a reminder of the importance of surrounding ourselves with positivity.
People with narcissistic personality disorder may not want to think that anything could be wrong, so they usually don't seek treatment.
@pallasathena1369
4 ай бұрын
I think they enjoy inflicting pain.
@NarcPedia
4 ай бұрын
That's a very insightful observation. Indeed, the nature of narcissistic personality disorder often leads individuals to resist acknowledging any flaws or issues, making it challenging for them to seek or accept treatment. This self-perception barrier contributes significantly to the complexity of the disorder, affecting not only the individuals themselves but also those around them. It highlights the importance of understanding and patience, though it also underscores the necessity of setting boundaries for one's own well-being. Thank you for sharing this important point.
Outing them is what they fear.
@CoachCreesh
4 ай бұрын
Definitely. It has literally cost many men and women their literal lives. Some will do anything to protect their secrets. They're real live demon 👿
@NarcPedia
4 ай бұрын
Absolutely, the fear of exposure is often a significant vulnerability for narcissists, as it challenges their carefully constructed facade. By bringing their actions to light, we can not only protect ourselves but also empower others who might be in similar situations. It's important, however, to prioritize safety and well-being when considering outing someone, as the repercussions can be unpredictable. Sharing experiences and truths can be a powerful step toward healing and awareness, but it should be done thoughtfully and with support.
The other way narcissists were created was when parent(s) put them on a pedestal and could do no wrong. They didn’t lack parental affection. Quite opposite. Had to much to the point they think they are above everyone else
@lynettecaballero1660
4 ай бұрын
I agree. My ex was a spoiled child and could do no wrong and expected to be forgiven for all of his transgressions abuse and mistakes. He felt entitled to do whatever he wanted without any consequences or remorse or empathy. In the face of negative consequences he created, it was always somebody else's fault. The narcopath excuses justifications and blame game. They are truly evil. Often know what they are doing yet lack the self-awareness of The negative impacts they cause others and themselves to be able to ever change. They are filled with demons and often hide behind acting religious. Very scary.
@NarcPedia
4 ай бұрын
Absolutely, you've highlighted an important aspect of how narcissistic traits can develop. When parents excessively idolize a child, without setting boundaries or teaching empathy, it can foster a sense of entitlement and superiority over others. This form of overindulgence, rather than nurturing a child's emotional intelligence and resilience, can indeed contribute to narcissistic behavior patterns in adulthood. Recognizing these dynamics is crucial for understanding the complexities behind narcissism and emphasizes the importance of balanced, empathetic parenting. Thank you for bringing this perspective into the conversation.
@NarcPedia
4 ай бұрын
@lynettecaballero1660 Your experience sheds light on the deeply troubling impact of growing up without accountability and the profound consequences it can have on adult relationships. It's distressing to hear how entitlement and a lack of empathy can manifest in such harmful ways, not just to those around them but also to themselves, perpetuating a cycle of blame and justification. Recognizing these patterns is a crucial step in healing and moving forward. Your strength in facing these realities and sharing them is invaluable, offering understanding and solidarity to others who might be going through similar situations. It's a reminder of the importance of self-care and setting boundaries against such destructive behaviors. Stay strong.
@CoachCreesh
4 ай бұрын
Some narcissists LIE about the "trauma" they experienced to justify being evil. They'll lie on their parents and make up horror stories to justify being mean and hateful. I personally know one! They're DEMONS I don't care what no one says🤷🏾♀️
They are cruel, and only get joy from being cruel to naive people.
@NarcPedia
4 ай бұрын
The behavior you've described is deeply troubling and highlights the painful impact narcissistic individuals can have on those around them. It's important to recognize these patterns and protect oneself from such toxicity. Thank you for sharing your insight.
@pallasathena1369
4 ай бұрын
@@NarcPedia it was realising that which helped end the cycle, there is just no way to go forward with a person who makes everyday awful. And cheats, lies and just is not going to change.
Thank you for the spot on description of these individuals. They really need help.
@NarcPedia
4 ай бұрын
Thank you for your comment! You're right, those showing narcissistic behaviors do need support and help. It's important to approach this with empathy and encourage professional guidance for everyone's well-being. Your insight is much appreciated.
No words to appreciate,greatfuly thank you, Iwill takecare
@NarcPedia
4 ай бұрын
I'm genuinely touched by your words and so glad to hear that you found value in what I shared. Taking care of yourself is the most important step, and I'm proud of you for committing to that journey. Remember, you're not alone, and you deserve all the happiness and peace as you move forward. Stay strong and keep nurturing your well-being.
This is extreme knowledge and a wise video. Accurate information and spot on. I needed this! Thank u for your work mw
@NarcPedia
4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your kind words and encouragement! I'm truly glad to hear that the video provided you with valuable insights and information you needed.
Toxic Relationship Move on Keep Your eyes on Jesus ❤️
@NarcPedia
4 ай бұрын
Thank you for your supportive words. Focusing on moving forward from toxic relationships and keeping one's faith and positivity as guiding lights can indeed be powerful advice. It's important to seek paths that lead to healing and growth, and for many, spiritual faith like keeping one's eyes on Jesus provides strength and comfort. May everyone find their peace and strength in whatever form it takes. ❤️
I have been in a narc. relationship for 42 years and have come to the conclusion that at this time of this game I have no desire to end this relationship just for the getting rid of this person. As far as I can see is a very tormented poor soul and it would not be fair just to dump her.. I have lasted that long and I feel I can last a while longer. It is not easy but with the right attitude I believe I am doing the right thing. Just keep my boundries . Let see what will happen. I am prepared for the worse.
@jamesrasmussen2663
4 ай бұрын
I dont know you but can relate to what you describe. I've been through it, it's torment for us too, from one good soul to another, look after your needs in any way you can.
@andrewbeckman7687
4 ай бұрын
46yrs of abuse sir caretaking need years mental treatment brain scan Dr Amen you leave enjoying life? Not me they don't care at all
@andrewbeckman7687
4 ай бұрын
People with narcissistic personality disorder may not want to think that anything could be wrong, so they usually don't seek treatment.
@herbvoigt9002
4 ай бұрын
Thanks@@jamesrasmussen2663
@herbvoigt9002
4 ай бұрын
@@andrewbeckman7687 Thanks
I cannot stay here with him any longer. I’m just sick to my stomach disgusted on how he could do this to me eight years of physical abuse, psychological gaslighting financial neglect you name it.
@nji7772
4 ай бұрын
You will damage your physical, mental, and emotional health more each passing day. It is like a slow poison drip. The longer you stay in it, the sicker you get.
@NarcPedia
4 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry to hear about the pain and suffering you've endured. It's incredibly brave of you to share your experience, and recognizing the need to leave is a significant step towards healing. No one deserves to be treated in such a harmful way, and you have the right to seek a safe and supportive environment. Please consider reaching out to a trusted friend, family member, or professional service that can provide the support and resources necessary for you to navigate this difficult time. Remember, you are not alone, and there is help available to guide you towards a safer and healthier future.
@nji7772
4 ай бұрын
PS Danish Bashir (survivor) RE: reactive abuse. There is NO such thing! We reacted in whatever manner as a result of extremely long term abuse perpetrated against us. It was a reaction by our mind, body, and soul for our very survival by those who, with full knowledge, wanted (and probably still do) to destroy and thus " murder" us. Danish Bashir Reactive Abuse Doesn’t Exist - You Tube #narcissist
@nji7772
4 ай бұрын
After two visits to the hospital (inflamed STOMACH) re: chronic vomitting and IVs for minerals, ect, I had to stop allowing the "creature" to destroy me. He was not ever physically abusive. That says nothing about how subtle and evil these "shy" "victim" types are out there. Free, wiser and I know never again will I be "deceived" again. Glory to The Most High. My lessons are complete.
It's funny to hear their biggest dear is you leaving them, and they will do anything to get you to stay. Because they sure WILL and ARE going to leave you! And will care nothing about how you feel when they do it.
@NarcPedia
3 ай бұрын
Absolutely, the irony is striking. Narcissists often project their fear of abandonment onto their partners, using manipulative tactics to keep them close, yet they won't hesitate to leave when it serves their interests, showing little regard for the other's feelings. It's a painful reality that highlights the importance of recognizing these patterns and protecting oneself. Thank you for sharing your insight.
My narc planned 35yrs how to get rid leave for the new supply my life were in dangers as for my kids mental health thank God they are grown and their mother can work on her health and spiritual life, thr is no remorse he just lockup and leave and his family support him and feed him new family supply
@NarcPedia
4 ай бұрын
It sounds like you've been through an incredibly tough and prolonged ordeal. It's heartening to hear that you and your kids are now in a position to heal and focus on your well-being and spiritual growth. It's unfortunate when someone shows no remorse and is supported in their actions by others, but your strength in moving forward for your own health and that of your children is commendable. Remember, healing is a journey, and it's okay to seek support from those who understand and can help guide you through this time.
Very well said thanks
@NarcPedia
Ай бұрын
Thank you for your kind words! I'm glad you found it helpful.
Glad i could reject them 🙂
@NarcPedia
4 ай бұрын
It's empowering to hear that you were able to recognize and reject such toxic behavior! Setting boundaries against narcissistic individuals is a crucial step towards protecting your emotional well-being and fostering healthier relationships. Stay strong and continue to trust your instincts. Your courage serves as an inspiration to many.
Recently, each time i speak with my mom she often gives me grave threats (she said she is going to kill me yesterday) but I've gotten numb to her lash outs (I've been emotionally numb for as long as I can remember)
@NarcPedia
4 ай бұрын
Hearing such threatening statements from a parent is deeply concerning and unacceptable, regardless of the emotional numbness you've developed as a coping mechanism. It's crucial to prioritize your safety and well-being above all. Please consider reaching out to trusted friends, family members, or professionals who can offer support and guidance. There are also resources available that can help you navigate these threats and find a safer environment. Remember, you're not alone, and taking steps to protect yourself is not only brave but necessary. Your feelings and safety matter immensely.
I found out from my friend’s sister that he had a tinder profile. I was blindsided by this. Waited a few days then went to his place with a HUGE suitcase and took all my belongings and took my power back. When he opened the door it looked like he saw a ghost, his eyes were black !!! I was calm, didn’t yell, showed him the screenshots I got from my sister’s friend profile pictures on tinder. Unfortunately he is my brother in law’s best friend and nephew’s godfather so he is in my orbit. It’s been 2 years and it still bothers me. I now realise that he is a narcissist because there was no closure.They are sick people. I am not conceited but his GF is a total downgrade. He is obsessed with thin tall blondes that dress sexy and she is the complete opposite Chubby, not attractive and dresses like a granny 🤣🤣🤣. His son is very disrespectful towards her.
@CoachCreesh
4 ай бұрын
Those black eyes were a literal demonic manifestation. Thank God you made it out safe. Those black eyes occur when they experience major emotions. They're full of demons. So glad you're safe!
@Hanka1981
4 ай бұрын
@@CoachCreesh thank you 🙏
@Hanka1981
4 ай бұрын
@@CoachCreeshand his real eye colour is blue
@NarcPedia
4 ай бұрын
It takes immense courage to confront a situation like yours, and taking your power back in such a calm and resolute manner is truly commendable. It’s understandably challenging to navigate the complex emotions and social entanglements that follow, especially when closure is elusive and the person remains in your life in some capacity. Remember, healing is a personal journey that takes time, and it's okay to still feel bothered after two years. Focusing on your growth, well-being, and surrounding yourself with supportive people who value and understand you can be incredibly empowering. It's also important to rise above comparisons, as everyone's value is intrinsic and not defined by external attributes. Keep embracing your strength and moving forward on your path to healing.
@Hanka1981
3 ай бұрын
I agree I shouldn’t compare however I’ve know him for 18 years. I am very athletic and when I was with him, I asked him if I gained 20 pounds, what would you do? He said we would end up being good friends.. His ex was anorexic and my sister told me his curent gf is chubby and he sais how happy he is and she remarked it was so fake. I get triggered so easily I hate it.
Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it
@peterwilliams6361
4 ай бұрын
there is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
@MajorCockbern
4 ай бұрын
its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.
@peterwilliams6361
4 ай бұрын
this is helpful, I will look her up. I hope this works for me too, I really miss her.
How can you love someone that abuses you? Could you please tell me
@dianagarrison3138
4 ай бұрын
It’s not love. It’s co-dependency, and it’s about repeating your childhood in some way, trying to “fix” it. When you’ve been abused, you don’t know who you are.
@user-nn3kk3ql2k
4 ай бұрын
Just for give them inside your heart and soul then you can love them even you are in far away from them and no contact..but if you still stay that narcissists person it's very hard to love them uncomfortable tonal it's because the devil will do his strength to ruin you too..that's why I advise you run as you can and don't comeback just pray them night and day that God will help me to see the truth ..also you can love tour enemy if you love first God then G9d will teach you how to love our enemy..
@CoachCreesh
4 ай бұрын
If your entire life only tasted salt and never tasted sugar; every time you see salt you'll believe it's sugar. Sadly, same thing with love and hate 😢
Thanks!
@NarcPedia
4 ай бұрын
I'm truly grateful for your generous Super Thanks gift! Your support not only encourages me but also helps in spreading awareness about narcissism and aiding those affected by it. Thank you for standing with me in this journey of understanding and healing. Your kindness shines bright!
I’ve been told over 500 times to get the fuck out
@NarcPedia
4 ай бұрын
Hearing that you've been told to leave so many times must have been incredibly difficult and painful. It's important to recognize that such repeated messages, especially in a toxic or abusive context, can be deeply damaging. Remember, your safety and well-being are paramount. Seeking support from friends, family, or professionals can provide the strength and resources you might need to navigate this challenging situation. You're not alone, and there are people ready to help you through this.
But if they continuously asks you to leave your marital home?
@mapitsonthongoa1658
4 ай бұрын
I have also been asked to leave several times and finally I left, I can't describe the peace I have in my heart and mind. I have been experiencing a lot of flashbacks and I could identify all the signs leading to this kind of personality. I can only thank The LORD for sustaining me through it all. I have regained my spiritual connection when I pray and study the bible. I pray for healing and restoration for all affected 🙏
@NarcPedia
4 ай бұрын
If they're repeatedly asking you to leave your marital home, it's essential to consider the underlying motives and the impact on your well-being. This behavior can be emotionally draining and manipulative. It's crucial to seek advice from legal and psychological professionals to understand your rights and the healthiest course of action. Remember, protecting your well-being and finding a supportive environment is paramount. Your safety and happiness are of utmost importance, and there are resources and support systems available to help you navigate this challenging situation.
Can her be healed to some reasonable degree that's acceptable and you can be somewhat know that they won't cheat, lie and betray... I like to hear plse 😢
@douwe4549
4 ай бұрын
No, get out..
@pallasathena1369
4 ай бұрын
They enjoy cheating and lying, and it makes them feel powerful. Leave. No amount of love fixes them.
@nji7772
4 ай бұрын
A narc is ALWAYS single. I will NEVER risk my physical health (STDs) nor my spiritual health (their entities than run them getting "attached" to me. Hell NO! No they can not heal without a lot of work and correct therapy. It is very rare (watch Leon Walker Jr if you care to know exactly what they are - he did decide by himself, to get help at the age of about 57 because he did not want to HURT anyone anymore). Raw. Real truth. They have NO remorse but do feel shame. The shame of you knowing who and what they are. Empty, hollow, dark void - parasite. I am not interested to be a martyr for anyone.
@NarcPedia
4 ай бұрын
It's a tough question, and the truth is, healing and change in individuals with narcissistic tendencies can be very challenging. While people can change, it requires a significant amount of self-awareness, willingness, and sustained effort over time, often with professional help. It's important to protect your own emotional well-being and not hold onto hope for someone else's change that may never come. Focusing on your own healing and happiness is key. Remember, you deserve a relationship built on trust, respect, and honesty.
@user-os5xj7ce4k
4 ай бұрын
No!
Have a TBI then look at the world when you're with a broken down partner. And then be the hero that they need you to be. Why can't the host talk about this stuff. You all are just feeding off this thing called hate.
@CoachCreesh
4 ай бұрын
Can you explain a little better. You were with an abusive narcissist, they experienced a tbi and you're treating them with love, care and respect?
@NarcPedia
4 ай бұрын
I'm sorry to hear about the challenges you're facing. It's crucial to recognize the complexities of navigating relationships, especially when dealing with significant health issues like TBI. The aim here is to foster understanding and support, not to spread hate. Your perspective is a valuable reminder of the diverse experiences of those dealing with narcissistic relationships, and the importance of addressing these issues with compassion and depth. Thank you for bringing this to our attention; it’s an area we should indeed explore more to support everyone in these challenging situations.
✌️bye
Then they ate a fucking get over it