Bi problems: going through phases of liking girls or guys more and unintentionally confusing everyone.

@jennabrown6798

7 жыл бұрын

Hannah Smith I feel this so much

@jumplead79

7 жыл бұрын

Hannah Smith

@creaturebeechx

7 жыл бұрын

TheUnPCDrunkBastard _ Well, no, cause you still like both genders. Dumbass. You seem confused, judging by your spelling and grammar and whatnot.

@creaturebeechx

7 жыл бұрын

TheUnPCDrunkBastard _ You're definitely the confused one, you are an alcoholic after all. Some of the most unintelligent people in the entire world.

@SabrinaRosa02

7 жыл бұрын

Hannah Smith yeah :/ going through this right now but gotta stay in the closet for a while cause school and parents rip

when i told my therapist i was bi she literally said “oh so your experimenting.” NOOO. i’m bi

@myshreksbox

5 жыл бұрын

Damn at least I can put safe space as one of my options with my insurance

@goodgriefcharliebeef

5 жыл бұрын

Aaaaaand time for a new therapist

@allisoniraheta8271

5 жыл бұрын

I think she meant bi curious

@paulasanders508

5 жыл бұрын

I think you should change therapists if you can

@ewww_its_eva4846

5 жыл бұрын

@@unicornsanddinosaurs3681 well with me my WHOLE family dosent approve of gays or anyone lgbtq+ bc theyve all complained about lgbtq+ people to me without knowing im bi

me: i'm bisexual. person: oh! so you have double the chances me: 0×2=0

@abieskyevalin1191

5 жыл бұрын

Relatable

@lamamoustafa5503

5 жыл бұрын

I cracked up😂😂😂😂

@delmabessa3536

5 жыл бұрын

Lol same

@darao.4907

5 жыл бұрын

This is a personal attack. That hurt

@regularseagull7426

4 жыл бұрын

I can't laugh everyone's asleep. I sound like a dying horse but not loud

“Oh so you’re gay right? Does that mean you’ll date me?” I’m gay, not desperate

@paris5410

4 жыл бұрын

I mean, maybe I'm also desperate, but not THAT much.

@aaronlandry3934

3 жыл бұрын

I mean, would you date me? Are you sure I’m the only bisexual here?

@QwertyRulz2

3 жыл бұрын

When you say you're whatever and then they think you're attracted to them, especially the more bigoted people. I now just respond with, "I wouldn't date you. I have standards and self-respect."

@theodwravlaxioti8232

3 жыл бұрын

bahaha

@yepperoniii6504

3 жыл бұрын

I’m bi and desperate-

I am a male, and I have a girlfriend. When I'd tell people that they'd say "But I thought you were bi?" wtf? You literally just answered your own question.

@ShaunaRose1111

7 жыл бұрын

Tyler Ryan 😂😂😂

@Andromedafoxxx

7 жыл бұрын

That is SOOOO true! Everyone in my family is rejoiced at the fact that I am now dating a male and that I am all of a sudden "straight" sorry, but I am *still* bi, as much as you'd hate to accept that. Jeez.

@RBstationable

7 жыл бұрын

OKAY SAME. Currently dating a guy, and I love him, but I have definitely had some female interests.. and since people know that, they think it's weird that I'm with a guy. l m a o

@thatjoyfulmama

7 жыл бұрын

Tyler Ryan me as a bisexual female with a boyfriend 😂

@melodiehenry5960

7 жыл бұрын

Tyler Ryan I'm a bisexual female. I'm also single and will probably be alone forever.

I had a girl next to me in English, after me telling her about my girlfriend, say "I had too much drama with girls, that's why I stopped being bi." And I, a bi person, was like "that's???? Not How It Works?????"

@dragibusdrawer8446

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly, you can't run away from your sexuality....you are born this way....

@totallyoutofit6989

5 жыл бұрын

"You too can stop being bi now! Try... STOPPING BI" 😂

@jasmineclear878

5 жыл бұрын

@@dragibusdrawer8446 HOOOW CAN YOU BEEN BORN SO IS SOMETHING YOU DESIDE

@detonationlurks

5 жыл бұрын

Oh god. I’m personally having boy drama atm but I don’t say that I’m NOT BI anymore. Statements like that make things worse for us bi people.

@doseisan8311

5 жыл бұрын

Omgsh the same kinda tjing happened to me !! I came out to my friend and she was so serious whenn she said this "*deep breath* yknow i used be bi" i was like "girl, you cant walk away from you sexuality dude" bruh how can you just STOP being bi like ???????

"I'm bi" "Oh, so you just wanna, like, get with everyone?" "I have standards, ya badgers armpit"

@Roebloz

4 жыл бұрын

My version "I'm bi" "Oh, so you just wanna, like, get with everyone?" "Yes, except you."

@jeanmichellelaurent

4 жыл бұрын

Haha I’m Bi and everyone is hot fuehdsxhsz

@alonelypotato3581

4 жыл бұрын

I’m pan. And I get that all the dam time. It’s annoying enough when people ask if I’m attracted to literal pans 😑

@EiferBrennan

4 жыл бұрын

If you didn't read "ya badgers armpit" in a Scottish accent, you're lying.

@riceisbetterthanyou5077

3 жыл бұрын

EiferBrennan I did it in a Northern England accent idk what it's called

Me: *is a bi female* Me: *comes out as bi* Me: You know that bi means I like guys and girls, right? Friend: yes. Me: And you understand that, right? Friend: yes. Me: And you’re okay with that, right? Friend: yes. Me: *gets a boyfriend* Friend: *WaIt I tHoUgHt YoU wErE bIsExUaL*

@Ejiro__Kirishima

3 жыл бұрын

tanya misra ha my crushes normally go like the song ‘I wish you were gay’ (for the dudes) because they just aren’t interested in me.

@iam_sherlocked8421

3 жыл бұрын

oh my God... being bi doesn't mean that I'm gonna date girls and boys at the same freakin' time! :D

@narutobaruto8123

3 жыл бұрын

Omg that's really annoying

@fluffy_bees_9136

3 жыл бұрын

I feel this deep in my soul XD

@breakfeast9362

3 жыл бұрын

That happens to me a few weeks ago🙃 and that's annoying

I'm a closeted bisexual. One day my mom made a cake where one half was chocolate and the other half was cream. And cut this cake in pieces. I asked myself for a piece with both parts saying "I take the best from both sides" Looks like coming out failed.

@charliehickman7749

5 жыл бұрын

Okay, I get it, but What kind of cake was your mom trying to make???

@gabriellerwe

5 жыл бұрын

Пепе Килджой you could made a pink, blue and purple cake. Or put those color toppings, and choose a slice of each of them, or checkered bi colors I dunno, your choice

@marshy_5406

5 жыл бұрын

gotta try harder next time XD

@koolcat6320

5 жыл бұрын

was the cake good though

@marshy_5406

5 жыл бұрын

@@koolcat6320 XD the important question is asked

I hate when girls find out and then think you're gonna hit on them or look at them in the locker room. I mean seriously? Do I look that desperate?

@rileyg.3405

5 жыл бұрын

The Treacherous Leech IKR

@bluntridge8008

5 жыл бұрын

Omg yes it’s like you’re a creep or something like sis calm down 🤦‍♀️

@halokit9000

5 жыл бұрын

My best friend was the first person I came out to, her immediate reaction? “You don’t have a crush on me right?” “No! You’re like my sister!” She accepted that real quick her mom on the other hand? Her mom doesn’t know my sexuality nor does she need to but she is 90% sure I’m gay her daughters gay and that means we’re dating??? Like no??

@etheral7418

5 жыл бұрын

LITERALLY I HAATEEE THAAT

@donovanwhite6281

5 жыл бұрын

- because it's true no straight girl want you watching them in the locker room you big lez

"you're just doing it for attention" I have social anxiety. I do nothing for attention. That's why I didn't come out until 10 years after I realized I was not Heterosexual

@Scream_Tail_0985

4 жыл бұрын

dang 10 years? I only took 5

@amirazara3131

4 жыл бұрын

I told my Friends and they reacted normal and they asked normal questions. Since I came out to my friends, one of them are confused about her sexuality and I'm helping her with ir

@csengelajos

4 жыл бұрын

I came out as bi just a couple weeks ago, and the weirdest thing was that no one really reacted. Like sure, my mom said a joke about it but that was?? All?? None of the other people (my dad, sister & a couple friends) even said a word.. My best friend's reaction was "aha" before she went on about her ex.. Like, isn't there supposed to be at least something like a "we accept you" or even just an "ok cool"? Am I doing this for attention? Now i feel like I am. Feck 😳😳

@centuryfiles9558

4 жыл бұрын

Aw, I fee ya. Hope everything’s going better

@aperon

4 жыл бұрын

That is why I used the global lockdown to finally come out. No way people say I want attention when nobody is allowed to meet.

People be like: Oh how are you bi when you havent even dated both yet? Me: Well Samantha........how did you know you were straight when you never dated a dude before?

@theorangedinosaur4098

4 жыл бұрын

Crushes?

@JoAnna-le2wr

4 жыл бұрын

@@theorangedinosaur4098 YEP.

@aliceflensburg421

4 жыл бұрын

can we be friends? I love the sass you have :)

@khalix1011

4 жыл бұрын

*hah uR sO sMaRT gOod RoAST*

@davsinclair

3 жыл бұрын

@@khalix1011 its just cringe

the girl in the green sweater is so pretty omg

@phiaoconnor

7 жыл бұрын

I know 😍

@s.7686

7 жыл бұрын

Ikr 😍

@reneep2240

7 жыл бұрын

izzynct Literally

@gettin-ziggy-with-it

7 жыл бұрын

izzynct I know right! I was thinking she was gorgeous the whole time😍😍😍

@DendyJungle

7 жыл бұрын

izzynct what a boring, shallow, uninteresting comment.

Do you like girls or guys? Yes.

@alexluvvsu

6 жыл бұрын

Is that a Thomas Sanders reference I spy ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ

@sapphytaffy6861

6 жыл бұрын

Is Lafayette ur profile pic

@macky1474

6 жыл бұрын

sapphire shimmer um yeah! I mean it's Lafayette!

@marsisgay936

6 жыл бұрын

Somehow this phrase perfectly fits your profile pic I ain’t sayin nothing bout Laf but like

@macky1474

6 жыл бұрын

Booper Boops i couldn't agree more!

To put it bluntly with that last question: it doesn’t suck being bi, it sucks being surrounded by people who are biphobic and won’t bother to understand it.

@randomk7198

4 жыл бұрын

Tbf its not like bi ppl can be bothered to explain their just like "omg how dare u question my sexuality" and its like i dont understand sorry ya bam

@atticusv668

4 жыл бұрын

@@randomk7198 You'd really be surprised how little people can understand it. Even when its explained there's still morons who say "its just a faze" ext, people in the LGBTQ still don't accept us, christ one of my dad's friends think its the same as gender fluidity.

@randomk7198

4 жыл бұрын

@@atticusv668 fair enough but u can see how their dad might see it as similair but still hes pure stupid

@depurasangre86

Жыл бұрын

Oh I understand it. I just think it is gross. Like how I think people who are into bestiality are gross. You can't help who or what you like...but we dont have to accept your views.

@RassleBock

Жыл бұрын

​@@depurasangre86 false equivalence you got there. You yourself are more perverted than you're insinuating bisexuality itself is with that mindset..Via ignorance..I'm not even Bi myself and it doesn't confuse or disgust me. Educate yourself & grow up.

Gay Thanos: no Straight Thanos: no Bisexual Thanos: balanced as all things should be

@alexandraghita7239

4 жыл бұрын

Is this why Thanos is purple?

@someguyinjeans5273

4 жыл бұрын

Alexandra Ghita exactly

@Network-yp8de

3 жыл бұрын

thanos doesn't discriminate, he will kill you all

@schecter5035

3 жыл бұрын

@@liz8477 wait what if they did this on purpose

@poets_and_books5523

3 жыл бұрын

HOLY- YES

It's sad when we get hate from both gay and straight people and I find it really frustrating.

@rhashaudfelix7960

6 жыл бұрын

Awesome Pet even tho I'm gay I wish people would stop labeling people and make them choose sides or descriminate because it's wrong to do that to other human beings and I think everything that is good should be respected and people in the LGBT+ should stop descriminating other LGBT people because we as a community sometimes get hate, so why should we hate on each other, I'm sorry if I'm ranting I just hate, hate in general.

@TheDevilWearsPrada.0

6 жыл бұрын

Awesome Pet yeah

@Brend.0

6 жыл бұрын

I dont hate you. I just don't want to date you.

@djmackifre3717

6 жыл бұрын

Awesome Pet I know right people are so negative

@OverratedPerson22

6 жыл бұрын

Ruhe1986 No one said anything about dating you thoough, it's not like being bisexual will instantly make someone want to date other people.

coming from a bisexual person, ALL of these things piss me off. people need to stop criticizing people who are bisexual

@jplegend98

7 жыл бұрын

kamilla tombeno no one is, stfu. no one hates you.

@lc6296

7 жыл бұрын

people actually do, though. biphobia in particular happens among LGBTQ people- i don't think i've ever been in a LGBTQ space without someone or other having something negative to say about bi people, about how they're just straight people experimenting or trying to be cool, or just gay people who are too scared to go all the way... so there's both hate from homophobic straight people, and hate from our own communities (although, obviously, not everyone is like that). it really is a dealbreaker for some people as well

@lc6296

7 жыл бұрын

not to be overly personal, but are you a bisexual person? because just about every other bisexual person i've spoken to has had similar experiences to what's being spoken about here- being stereotyped as unfaithful, indecisive, just wanting attention, etc, or being made to feel left out of LGBTQ communities, and I would be surprised if many bisexual people would say that wasn't the case. it isn't really a small minority at all. I agree people could do with being less sensitive and easily offended, but that has little to do with actually ostracizing people from a community- that isn't something that's offensive but you can brush off, it's something that actually majorly impacts peoples' lives

@jplegend98

7 жыл бұрын

Chi Colborne i am but i dont really hang around large groups of people and i dont go to lgbtq events or clubs. i sit at home on weekends and i work way to much overtime during the week.

@lc6296

7 жыл бұрын

But can you see how for people who spend more time with others and make their social life a high priority (which is often essential for some LGBTQ people, that sense of community) feeling ostracized from that or having that experience made negative (as well as all the day-to-day standard homophobia from straight people) it could be really hard? I'm not much of a social butterfly either but I feel like i would be much more connected with the community if there hadn't been negativity there- when I actually have reached out that's when I realize how much biphobia is a real thing

Legit when I came out to my mother about being bi, the first thing that came out of her mouth was "So you want to date me? So you want to date your grandmother?" And just remember crying for a long time that night because she literally thought I would just date anything that was female. She would always downplay my relationships from that point forward because "but you're dating a guy! So you're not a lesbian." Even now in my wonderful relationship, I'm apparently "straight" and have "come out of a bisexual phase." A similar thing happened with my Step-Grandmother when I gently came out to her at 17 about being bi but she instantly said "No! You're either gay or you're straight, being bi is just greedy. You're either one or the other." I didn't sleep that night because I was crying so hard. Parents and relatives of Bisexual/Biromantic children/relatives please just take them at face value. If they say how they feel, it means they trust you enough to tell you in the first place. If you love them enough, then please please please don't yell or tell them they are wrong or assume anything. If it's an experiment, they will likely tell you they are experimenting, you don't have to tell them they are. If you love them, tell them you love them. Try to learn about bisexuality and get your information straight from the bisexual community. Hell, get your information from the LGBTQ+ community, because your family member will appreciate it and will trust you more in the future. If you are a family member learning about bisexuality and LGBTQ+ through this video, thank you. Knowledge is a wonderful thing and to learn more about us will always be appreciated. Have a lovely day. :)

@Real_creator

4 жыл бұрын

NoxNilrem I’m here for ya

@zirconblue1249

4 жыл бұрын

Me too.

@safoorachaudhary1223

4 жыл бұрын

Im so sorry, u deserve better

@CorvidDarkness5852

4 жыл бұрын

What they said to you was very hurtful...

@riyak1011

3 жыл бұрын

Just say if I was straight , does it means that I wanna date my father ,my grandfather? Everything gonna be ok! :)

Me: I'm bise- Society: Oh, so you're *experimenting*

@yian95954

3 жыл бұрын

No. Like I haven't date all genders I know I'm not pan but poly. 🙂

Just because I'm bi doesn't mean I don't have standards.

@emeryd.2570

6 жыл бұрын

Wasteful Girl So true though!!! Like, oh, do you like everyone? No, you have a type or certain traits in a person you like not just any girl or guy walking down the street

@knrdvmmlbkkn

6 жыл бұрын

"Just because I'm bi doesn't mean I don't have standards." No, correct - that means you have DOUBLE standards. Ha ha ha!

@laughingcryptid3210

6 жыл бұрын

"Just because I'm bi doesn't mean I'll sleep with literally anyone. I mean, I will, but more because of my daddy issues than my being bi" -quote from a bisexual friend

@miarosemae8077

6 жыл бұрын

I know right! When people hear that you're bi, they're like, "So are you just attracted to everyone?" Well, you're straight, right? Are you attracted to every guy? No! You're not! So why should I be?

@risuhijirikawa5901

6 жыл бұрын

Lol i can relate to that, it's just we still have standards and they don't understand that

As a bisexual I really had trouble with my friends. And dating, some gay girls refuse to date bisexual women, some guys feel they can do whatever with me just because they think ‘because I’m up for dating women as well’ Respect the B in LGBT

@carleytimmerman2279

5 жыл бұрын

Peachycow yes!

@zadaqatrunadafani5555

5 жыл бұрын

Geezz i feel u 😔

@gr3yfaerie

5 жыл бұрын

Yes queen, as a fellow bisexual army, I feel you 😔

@daisy3839

5 жыл бұрын

💜💜💜you💜💜💜💜 @expectaetions x

@totallyoutofit6989

5 жыл бұрын

YES 👏YES 👏YES 👏

My friend came out to her family as bi and her mom and sister both said: “You can be straight or lesbian. You can’t be both”💀

@nkelly5851

5 жыл бұрын

What's sad is that she's not "both straight and a lesbian" she's entirely bi, so they're right, she can't be both, but being bi ISN'T being both, it's just being entirely bi! *sigh*

@Roebloz

4 жыл бұрын

@@nkelly5851 I mean, technically if we look at it from a VERY, VERY, *VERY* simplified angle, it's being straight and gay/lesbian at the same time.

@rocksolid4597

4 жыл бұрын

@@nkelly5851 it is the same thing

@lukeallen7304

4 жыл бұрын

Because you can’t be both they are very smart people

@rocksolid4597

4 жыл бұрын

@@lukeallen7304 because being bi is diffrent than being straight and lesbian at the same time, you're right, very Smart person

Oml storytime: So, in school, I drew an LGBTQ flag on my arm because I was bored, and I didn't think much of it. Later, when I went outside with my friends, one of em said "Dude are you gay?" as a joke, which I was extremely annoyed about, and I said "Yes." (Note that I'm bisexual and closeted, so I just said I was gay bc I assumed my friends dunno what Bi meant) She INSTANTLY BACKED AWAY FROM ME. I hope it was merely a joke, but still, that hurt bro, like being gay/bi etc isn't like a disease T^T

@pris1145

4 жыл бұрын

Oof that reminds me of one time that my friend was playing with my arm and she misheard say that I liked a girl and she immediately let go of my arm and backed away. That hurt a lot.

@sorafanchick

3 жыл бұрын

@@pris1145 Maybe she didn't want to give the wrong impression.

@Slavaisusukhrystu

3 жыл бұрын

I wonder if men feel like this, I usually avoid touching them entirely 😰 So thank you for sharing your experience, it helps us straights understand how not to hurt you better!

@andrejprenkelushaj9578

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah lol, just cuz ur gay dosent mean ur in love with him

*I edited this comment so now no one understands what's happening in the reply section*

@Octavia-nd3br

5 жыл бұрын

The majority of the LGBT people are bisexual and are underrepresented. 🤔

@j.oaklley8965

5 жыл бұрын

DO. YOU KNOW THERE is a HELL???

@Octavia-nd3br

5 жыл бұрын

@@j.oaklley8965 You don't know that.

@j.oaklley8965

5 жыл бұрын

You don't. know who has VDS or AIDS !!!!

@Octavia-nd3br

5 жыл бұрын

@@j.oaklley8965 Wait Wtf 😅. I'm confused. Why are you talking about aids all of a sudden?.

"It's just a phase" Sweetheart our relationship is about to be a phase too.

@tinusweetu5336

6 жыл бұрын

im Kindaproblematic 😂😂😂😂😂

@julianabeesly8070

5 жыл бұрын

I love this comment 😂😂

@symmetricalshinagami5717

5 жыл бұрын

PREACH THAT IS AMAZING

@elielinaukio

5 жыл бұрын

I hope I could say that to my mom😂

@astrius4125

5 жыл бұрын

im Kindaproblematic But the thing is many gay people come out as bi at first. Somehow they find it easier, at least in my generation it was like that. My best friend said to me she was bi even though she already knew I was gay. She even made out with some boys. A year later of so she admited she was lesbian. I dated a lot of "bi" guys in my younger years. They didn't want to put the "gay" label on themselves, but with time they ended up doing so. It came to a point that I thought that bisexuality didn't exist. One woman told me she was bisexual, and i was really wasted that night so I bluntly replied "bisexuality doesn't exist", and she got so mad lol. To this day, i've still never met a bisexual person that doesn't end up being actually gay. I don't deny the existence of bisexuality, but I think the "it's just a phase" thing is not unreasonable given the circumstances.

My aunt found out I was bi and she told me that I'm just going through a "phase" but my "phase" has lasted longer than her marriage

@youngbutretro4228

3 жыл бұрын

Oof

@oi.lilian

3 жыл бұрын

turn down for what??? 😎😎😎😎😎😎😎

@sukanya3411

2 жыл бұрын

oh shit

Telling someone in a relationship you’re bisexual and having them stop talking to you because the guy thinks you’re going to flirt with him and the girl thinks you’re going to flirt with her while at the same time they both think you are going to flirt with their partner behind their back. UGH!

@witchcraftispolitical

3 жыл бұрын

Ikr. Like, we are JUST PEOPLE! Maybe look beyond the sexual?

I get "so you're dating *insert guy name* ...does that mean you're straight now?" 😒

@alex-xi7jk

5 жыл бұрын

I get this all the time, I broke up with my girlfriend then tons of people asked if I was straight now

@nofunmercury7611

5 жыл бұрын

people in my school keep asking me if im still a lesbian (which i’ve never identified as btw) even though i’ve had a boyfriend for over 8 months now 😂

@user-cf3by5bu5t

5 жыл бұрын

Yeet exactly ! Im like stfu that’s the point of bisexuality ! We don’t have straight phases or gay phases we are just bisexual duh

@GreyPlaysTunes

5 жыл бұрын

SAME

@mattyy101

5 жыл бұрын

@@user-cf3by5bu5t I go through phases were I wana be with a female then phases were I want sleep with guys an now am with a trans female lol

We're open doors we swing both ways *wE DoN't liKE evErY PErSOn We sEe*

@fionna294

5 жыл бұрын

We don't let just anybody cross to the other side, we aren't sluts, we're bi :3

@keithm.3456

5 жыл бұрын

swinging both ways nuff said

@intothestreets8099

4 жыл бұрын

Oh my god , the last one is so true

@shadowingfas6792

4 жыл бұрын

Yea, with some people we like hitting them in the face. *Like a door-*

@gmdelvisvissie5339

4 жыл бұрын

Yup

'bUt yOu dOn'T hAvE a bOyFrIeNd!!' - Yeah, and I don't have a girlfriend either, what's your point? XDD

@chaxi155

4 жыл бұрын

LITERALLY

@X606

4 жыл бұрын

alone bi people gang

@DeianiraJax

4 жыл бұрын

Stand-bi

@yian95954

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, many hetrosexual people are single, so do you mean they're actually not straight??

@xXRusky_SevmorXx

2 жыл бұрын

Bi-myself

"You're doing it for attention." With my social anxiety? Never😅

My struggles with being ‘gay’: *your crush being straight*

@emma.prince

5 жыл бұрын

THAT'S ME RIGHT NOW I CAN RELATE

@angel_aki

5 жыл бұрын

Sins_amon xx OMG SAME like why does this happen I don’t even get a chance

@mgam4963

5 жыл бұрын

Maybe something unlogical like in the mangas will happen and somehow you turn the straight person gay JK it wont happen in real life but I wish it did then love troubles would go away

@theradiantreddiamond2930

5 жыл бұрын

OH THIS IS SO TRUE IT'S HURTS ME RIGHT NOW

@angel_aki

5 жыл бұрын

MGAM /// I turned a gay guy bi and a straight girl bi (well they were always that but I made them realize it LOL)

I laugh at myself when I used to say "I just really support the LGBTQ+ community" like no honey, you're in love with your girl best friend and are 110% bisexual, just admit it 😂

@KiryuZeroFan

6 жыл бұрын

isabella-umbrella big mood 😂😂😂

@ellicetytler1165

6 жыл бұрын

fuckin me

@odinrice8583

6 жыл бұрын

isabella-umbrella Reminds me of me but i stopped supporting them

@ellicetytler1165

6 жыл бұрын

stopped supporting the community? can i ask why

@odinrice8583

6 жыл бұрын

ellice tytler Well first off im bi and it seems more like a community only for librels and only they can speak for "acceptance". Also they spead alot of hate towards Christians ,straight people, and conservatives. Its overall a toxic community in my view

Guy at start of video "Can't you just choose?" Me *Honey you got a big storm coming*

Whenever my mom sends me a ❤️I always send 💗💙💜 She hasn't understood yet... I'll outright come out if this gets 77 likes

@hrm6734

5 жыл бұрын

Precious Pets the bi flag is 💖💜💙 x

@abigailweeramanthri3373

5 жыл бұрын

#77thLike

@aubriethegreat8175

5 жыл бұрын

did you come out?

@camisnotok6239

4 жыл бұрын

Oof

@fatmah6097

4 жыл бұрын

Did you come out?

Literally I told my friend I was bisexual and they were like do you have a crush on me? I was like I have certain type just like all of you! just because I’m bisexual doesn’t mean I like everyone in the world!

@sophiaj4488

5 жыл бұрын

I can relate to this

@generalblade7504

5 жыл бұрын

Yes. I came out as gay to my best friend and that same thing happened. Me: I'm gay. Him: We can be friends just as long as you don't come onto me. Me: DUDE! I have a certain type...and you ain't it.

@adoreeun

5 жыл бұрын

"like uHM I HAVE STANDARDS. FIRST OF ALL."

@jkletssing

5 жыл бұрын

I know right! I hated when people said that!

@byebish8493

5 жыл бұрын

I’m straight but my friend told me the same thing whenever she tells someone she’s bi they always assume she likes them are bisexuals not allowed to have types ?😂

"It's just a phase." "Yeah and so was our friendship, now it's over."

@lisyaorancrazed

5 жыл бұрын

"Bye, Felicia"

@animangle8479

5 жыл бұрын

I luv it

@moth3113

5 жыл бұрын

sanfu YES

@citizenm2655

4 жыл бұрын

oof

@sirscribble6808

4 жыл бұрын

LOL, I'm using that next time.

“I’m bi” My sister: “Oh ok” *Later* “Hey, since you’re now a lesbian-“

@luh.4968

4 жыл бұрын

i've had the same experience, my best friend was so accepting as first but than he asked me if i was straight or gay every two minutes smh

@Metron3

3 жыл бұрын

LMAO that’s kinda funny ngl

@DeEchoVibeWontDie

3 жыл бұрын

Bahaha

Bisexual female struggles: All the cute boys are gay and all the cute girls are straight.

@paris5410

4 жыл бұрын

RIGHT? JUST... HOW? WHY?

@zosima2149

3 жыл бұрын

:((( yesss

@allisonmccall1421

3 жыл бұрын

literally me tho

@wildele9699

3 жыл бұрын

Not for me cause I’m a guy So I’ll get either

@splitlele

3 жыл бұрын

I FEEL ATTACKED--

things I hear/see as a bisexual woman: "but you're in a relationship with a guy, right?" "but how do you get...you know...your uh...fix? with girls?" *predatory male stare* "so you like threesomes?" "no you're not" *that girl who thinks you're going to pounce on her immediately after finding out you're bi* "you're giving us(lesbians) a bad name" "I bet I can turn you straight/gay for good" "how are you going to get married?" "I was bi once too! I kissed my best friend at a party on a dare!" "so you're half gay then yeah?" "so you're half straight then yeah?" "gal pals"

@kamilamartinezzeledon1227

6 жыл бұрын

Jessica Landwehr I relate so much to this!! xD

@sl3068

5 жыл бұрын

Ugh this is so true it's sad.

@stephaniezapata6764

5 жыл бұрын

Jessica Landwehr I've only hear you half gay then and I only came out to 2 people

@SOFIA-vo7bl

5 жыл бұрын

Jessica Landwehr I dome think I’ve ever related to a comment so much....

@kaibear2344

5 жыл бұрын

I'm bisexual as well and it sucks sometimes

A friend of mine thought being bisexual meant you have a girlfriend and a boyfriend at the same time. When my brother found out I was bisexual he forbid me from being alone with his girlfriend at any one time. Never mind that she wasn't my type, why do straight people assume that you fancy anything with a pulse just because you're bi?

@Anonymous-en3ik

5 жыл бұрын

ChiBiMo Because they are ignorant

@Alexi22

5 жыл бұрын

Omg I am so lucky with my friends, after I came out to them they were super cool with it. With family, well...they are homophobic and basically everything that's not straight phobic so I didn't come out

@davidgammon4934

5 жыл бұрын

PurpleFrenchie all straight ppl or straight guys? Bc if it’s guys, then that’s bc they at times fancy everything with a pulse, so they assume you do.

@ChiBiMo

5 жыл бұрын

Dee Gee no, just straight people in general - my male and female coworkers were equally confused as to how I could be bisexual and married to a man; one woman asked how women even had sex with each other (I would point out that there was more to sexual pleasure than penetration), and the men were unsurprised that my husband didn't mind me swinging both ways, though one was unsure how he would react if his missus came out as being bi. The funniest one was my best friend in college, who constantly asked "but you don't fancy me, right?" to the point where I eventually did start to fancy her.

@DakotaofRaptors

5 жыл бұрын

What they're refering to is "pansexuality".

My friend came out to me yesterday I’m so proud of her!

"If you're bisexual, why do you dress so girly?" Bruh???? Is dressing up a specific way identifies your gender? My cousins mock me that "Im faking" just because I dress so girly.

@witchcraftispolitical

3 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry. I've been there. You're not faking. When you know it you know it. Dresses don't matter

It said Adam and Eve, so I did both.

@deathincarnate4970

6 жыл бұрын

darya garnett YES!!!!

@alex-wz6jd

6 жыл бұрын

Mood

@pencilwisdom6161

6 жыл бұрын

Good one 😂

@elsasjustvibin1545

6 жыл бұрын

mood

@gabrielakasten809

6 жыл бұрын

BI PRIDE

I hate when people say “just pick one”

@Ilybryson

5 жыл бұрын

pick one

@idaekberg8586

5 жыл бұрын

me too, it really hurt.

@felivino6613

5 жыл бұрын

My mom accepted the fact I liked the same gender, but she kept asking which one, and she wouldnt accept both so I was forced to choose one so she would piss off

@Karzrulez

4 жыл бұрын

Love your profile pic! Peridot is my favorite green smol space dorito!

@chubbybunny9206

4 жыл бұрын

Same

We’re way to straight for gays And way to gay for straights

"I'm happy to be bisexual and I think other people need to stop being biphobic" GO OFF YES

My friend and I were having a conversation once and somehow we both ended up telling each other how we were bisexual and I was just like "bi-five?" and after that we died of laughter and still do every time we do it

@justaperson4656

6 жыл бұрын

alex yes.

@thatgypsygal1727

6 жыл бұрын

I have a BBF Best BI friends

@riverbillman7541

6 жыл бұрын

alex I have a huge crush on this one girl, and she knows it so whenever she asks my opinion on something she did/how she looks, etc. I give my answer and say “but idk, I’m probably bi-ased”

@msbunny6671

6 жыл бұрын

alex that was funny bi-five i love it lmao

@knrdvmmlbkkn

6 жыл бұрын

alex: That sounds too good to be true. I just don't BI it!

One girl from my class once told me, that I can't change in the girls locker room, beacause I like girls. So I asked "Where should I change then?" And she was like "In the boys locker room" And I was like "But I like boys as well" And then she was like "But you can't like both" And I was so done with that shit, that I didn't change at all for the next year, and got bad grade from PE.

@glenjones7597

5 жыл бұрын

aaahahah

@alexthebudgie9071

5 жыл бұрын

Haha, lol. That is funny.

@thispersonnolongerexists845

5 жыл бұрын

Yo! I came out to my PE class and they started getting super paranoid, and anytime I would glance at the for a second, they would literally say, "stop staring at me! Lesbo!" I'm like: "I'm not a lesbo, I like boys to ya know, and just because I like girls doesn't mean I like you. You don't like every guy in this school, why would I like every girl?"

@thispersonnolongerexists845

5 жыл бұрын

@sad sushi agreed. lol

@bobblob6220

5 жыл бұрын

Zelinda Ubren You should have answered "I have a taste, you know?"

My ex girlfriend used to always say “oh, you aren’t bi. You’re gay. You just don’t know it” and honestly it used to - and still does - make me really sad and frustrated

Bisexual does not mean having sex with everyone. It means being attracted to both genders.

Then what does the B in LGBT+ stand for?? Bees??

@rmstarred8084

6 жыл бұрын

gemlikestardust Beyonce obviously! (This is sarcastic)

@funbiokenla465

6 жыл бұрын

gemlikestardust yes. we will release the bees when the time is right

@karenp.1634

6 жыл бұрын

Bogus, no woman love both men and women

@sweety4271984

6 жыл бұрын

Karen P. Well I like both, so you're wrong

@davestrider4846

6 жыл бұрын

gemlikestardust Brendon Urie.

The most annoying thing as a bi, is if u tell a straight person of the same sex ur bi, and they instantly think u like them

@juliacarey555

6 жыл бұрын

Thai Soop ikr

@maddicassinova3554

6 жыл бұрын

Thai Soop yessss

@claraovejero2448

6 жыл бұрын

I GET SO ASHAMED THE WHOLE TIME BECAUSE OF THIS AND I SHOULDN'T BECAUSE I'M JUST BI, I'M NOT IN LOVE WITH YOU, THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR YOUR UNDERSTANDING.

@justanothergeekinacrazywor1689

6 жыл бұрын

Yessss its so annoying 😂

@sillybutter_haha2626

6 жыл бұрын

omg yessssssss

My friend is bi and this person once said to him "If YoU hAd To ChOoSe BeTwEen BoyS aNd gIrLs wHo wOulD you cHoOse?"

@arianrolex6456

3 жыл бұрын

*both*

@elmhopesmp3321

2 жыл бұрын

G-... w...well...maybe guy... girl..... wait FU

As a bisexual I can confirm: these questions are annoing af.

"Bisexual people do not exist" Because the B in LGBT stands for banana

@tinusweetu5336

6 жыл бұрын

La Shava De los Memes 😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂

@nezaapsner5682

6 жыл бұрын

Futuristically Fat Wombat UwU it's clearly for Bees don't be ignorant

@atomiclps7934

6 жыл бұрын

Uh no it's Bees

@anothersoulintheuniverse

6 жыл бұрын

XD

@cheesycorndog2874

6 жыл бұрын

Futuristically Fat Wombat UwU Nah it stands for Beyoncé 😂

i'm gay and i just wanna say bisexuality (and pansexuality!) is 100% valid and i appreciate your existence dear bi and pan people!!

@geddyleesbassguitar5382

7 жыл бұрын

oopsie thank u :3 I needed this

@justaperson4656

6 жыл бұрын

oopsie thank you :3 i wanna be friends cause you just made me so happy rn

@morganmcguire5102

6 жыл бұрын

oopsie thanks man

@odinrice8583

6 жыл бұрын

oopsie whats the real diffrence

@applepie8847

6 жыл бұрын

Paaaaannnnnnseeeexxxxuuuuallllll!!!!!!!

My friends: you have two times more choise than us how are you single Me: I-

@miyanorei9309

4 жыл бұрын

Well If you aren’t interested in anybody so it would be like 0x2=0 (Unoriginal)

@xmalin1375

4 жыл бұрын

@@miyanorei9309 lmao true but in my situation nobody is interested in me

@miyanorei9309

4 жыл бұрын

xMalin1 I feel ya

I just want to be left alone and do whoever I want..

“Oh so you’re a cheater” or “it must be so much harder to resist cheating” Seriously no just stop

@Brend.0

6 жыл бұрын

Natasha Longley when you've been denied the other set of genitals for years and years. You'll eventually cheat. Bisexuality means you are attracted to #crave sex with both sets of genitals eventuality you will want the other. And most people are not ok with having a third person on the bedroom so you'll eventually cheat out of sheer sexual frustration.

@AppleWhiteFan

6 жыл бұрын

i havn't been told that yet but if some one said that to me i would just slap them XD

@safuaia5261

6 жыл бұрын

Ruhe1986 Your argument can apply for straight or gay people as well. Eventually you can get tired of the same pair of genitals you've been having sex with and you'll desire someone else of the same gender. But that's not the case necessarily, why? Because most people respect themselves and have morals and aren't driven by sex ffs. Being bisexual means you like both men and women, it makes you openminded not hornier.

@Brend.0

6 жыл бұрын

soraji- and unfortunately there are more that are driven by sex than you think. And it's an unfortunate reality that there are body parts I don't have that a bisexual person will eventually crave and not be able to get in any way shape or form other than cheating with me.

@funkyfresh8364

6 жыл бұрын

You sound like the clingy girl/guy in the dms after the relationship who make an ama later on why you shouldn't get into relationships.

I'm bisexual. And the one comment I'm starting to get a lot is "I thought you were gay because you hang out with dudes" and "I thought you were gay because of how you dress". I've always been a tomboy my whole life. Never been comfortable in dresses always preferred jeans and tshirts. So because of this,people that don't get to know me just assume I'm a butch lesbian lol. I find it funny that how I decide to dress should somehow determine my sexuality. There are very girly dressing bisexual women but no one assumes they are gay. So why should who I hang out with and what I feel comfortable wearing have anything to do with who I love? I just never understood that logic.

@yeemann4515

7 жыл бұрын

Breyana Me too.

@coexisting3666

7 жыл бұрын

Breyana omg this is me .....i relate to this so much ...its so stupid. like you cant be bi because ur a tomboy

@AkronMadeYas

7 жыл бұрын

coexisting vlogs EXACTLY. It's like a stigma that you are either not gay enough or not straight enough to be Bi. It's annoying as fuck and it needs to stop.

@amiejuline2457

7 жыл бұрын

i'm bi too, with a prefercence for girls. i dress my self in a very feminine way, i always get told that i am straight. like tf no just cause i wear dresses and a lot of makeup and like to do my hear doesn't mean i am hetero?

@ImTwizzler

7 жыл бұрын

Breyana You are basically me most of my friends are guys and I've always hated wearing dresses and skirts and shorts I'm always wearing either ripped jeans skinny jeans and t-shirts even in the summer.

When I first told my friends I was bi that looked at me and said “but you have a boyfriend” Seriously

I got, “So you’re bisexual, does that mean your by yourself?” Me: “wtf?”

@mslightbulb

4 жыл бұрын

Welp. They need to study a little bit of language to know what the prefix bi means and the prefix a means. Because that’s not the same thing no matter were you put it.

I hate it when you tell your friend your bi and they’re like “oh that’s okay as long as you don’t flirt with me”

@lisyaorancrazed

5 жыл бұрын

this is why i'm glad almost every friend i have is bi or pan.

@reeeinc6843

5 жыл бұрын

That's when you start flirting with them aggressively.

@AliceInWonder46

5 жыл бұрын

Omg this is exactly my life Scratch that I flirt with him aggressively

@hamsandwich7986

5 жыл бұрын

My tactic is to start moaning very sexually and aggressively whenever they touch you. It is great for aces and aros

@sweetsugarhoneycandy5458

5 жыл бұрын

I'm too introverted to flirt

I hate telling women that I'm bi because then they always think that I'm coming onto them. Anyone else have this problem?

@bonnecherie

6 жыл бұрын

Actually yes, my best friend at the time thought that I was totally going to have sex with her. Never happened so I don't see what she was so worked up about.

@knrdvmmlbkkn

6 жыл бұрын

Not exactly that problem. I rarely dare to tell anyone because I'm afraid they might think that. (Or think that I'm actually homosexual and are lying.)

@natsuki4021

6 жыл бұрын

Not yet. I havent told anyone. The people I know are kinda homophobic

@deathincarnate4970

6 жыл бұрын

Ali Reed I do, and I'm married to a guy

@chimchim3677

6 жыл бұрын

Ali Reed oh gawd a lot, I came out to my friends on National coming out Day and they over reacted.....”OMG IM SCARED DON’T RAPE ME” “You’re just saying that to scare us because we had sex-ed” “Wait......are you thinking about having sex with me!?..... Eww” “......You’re gonna rape us one day” Smh smh 🙄 after I came out to my family I’m done coming out to peeps. But my family was very supportive since my Aunty is Transgender 💗

Who’s bi and didn’t come out to there parents? I I I ^

@shivamordhaus9586

3 жыл бұрын

I didn't need to come out i just kinda fell out of the closet

@Metron3

3 жыл бұрын

I am sooooooo ok with not coming out to my parents lmao

@probally04nine58

3 жыл бұрын

Me, ik my mom will accept its just that it will he awkward so yeh

@johndm.a0252

3 жыл бұрын

I'd rather not get the death sentence...

@yian95954

3 жыл бұрын

When I come out as bi, my parents don't have much opinion about it. But they had against me about being transqueer lol.

I HATE it when people tell me it's just a phase. Like, no the hell it's not

Yes I am bi. Yes I am selfish. All the chips are mine I'm not sharing, get your own.

@missoringasm7144

6 жыл бұрын

Aki Okami Same... Lmao

@DutyJames

6 жыл бұрын

LMAO

@bruhmoment3203

6 жыл бұрын

Aki Okami You just described me 😂

@melkidrizzly7390

6 жыл бұрын

whiffleknob WWII Selfish about what? XD

@thattheatrejen9987

6 жыл бұрын

Aki Okami yes. Bi power. Same.

i had a crush on this guy and he wouldn’t date me cause i was “too gay” because i also liked girls. a couple years later i had a crush on this girl who wouldn’t date me because she thought i was “a wannabe gay”. it sucks.

@kettle9416

3 жыл бұрын

I know I'm late but that sucks, I hope you find someone who deserves you

@johndm.a0252

3 жыл бұрын

Well, as a bi, you're picking the person not the gender. And anybody who goes with "you're too gay" and "you're not gay enough" can go to hell.

@Pie_The_Man

3 жыл бұрын

Honestly any girl or guy who says shit like that isn't worth your time. Be glad you didn't date people like that.

@bonk1312

3 жыл бұрын

Dude I know.... it sucks... Even with everyone knowing about bisexuality it’s still *a stepping stone*

@JulieC.870

3 жыл бұрын

Just be you Juts ignore what they say

I told my friends Im bi they were really supportive it made me really happy

@notquitesquare

2 жыл бұрын

@@cassius348 well if they don’t support they aren’t good friends

my bisexual story B- basically a lesbian except I- I like Tom Holland update: Basically a lesbian Yeah thats it

@zypher6018

4 жыл бұрын

Yes

@legacy756

3 жыл бұрын

You're still lesbian lol

@lixonzito2481

3 жыл бұрын

mariofranco not necessarily. im pan but very similar. i mostly like guys but i have crushes on two or three girls and two gender-fluid people. doesn't mean im straight

@zypher6018

3 жыл бұрын

lixonzito yeah people have spectrums of who they like more

@luisaabreu4028

3 жыл бұрын

@@lixonzito2481 Isn't the whole pan thing about not having preferences and liking people REGARDLESS of gender?

You exist Your not a going through a phase Your not doing this for attention You don’t have to pick one or the other Your not confused You may find one gender more attractive than others. But that doesn’t make you any less bisexual. I’m bisexual too. Let’s make this year our year! Have a great 20BiTeen everybody!!

@arson4003

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks. I needed that

@dragibusdrawer8446

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you i did my coming out a couple of hours ago and it was very disturbing....i definetly needed this ❤

@ButterflyColors

5 жыл бұрын

Kenza Hanchir ❤️

@fredpownall8347

5 жыл бұрын

You can only know that you exist. The rest is uncertain.

@elisewoodworth7323

5 жыл бұрын

I love this comment, but it's you're* Sorry I had to ;-;

The thing I hate is when people tell me I'm straight because I'm currently in a straight relationship.... But I'm still bisexual.... Then when I date a girl I'm automatically a lesbian and must hate men er something.... Like no, I'm still bisexual, doesn't matter what gender I date, still bi 😂

@keithm.3456

4 жыл бұрын

@@johno4521 - that's so true what he's gonna do her makeup

@CutsiePie_

4 жыл бұрын

@@keithm.3456 Can you just delete your channel? Your homophobic comments aren't doing a thing.

@CutsiePie_

4 жыл бұрын

@@keithm.3456 🙄 Cute.

@mila5907

4 жыл бұрын

@@kylesimpson3669 wow...i-this comment is just👌👌👌 Thank you for making me feel grateful I didn't form beliefs like this and I could have turned out WAY worse

@regularsizedwithahat1935

4 жыл бұрын

@@keithm.3456 Sounds like somebody is deep in the closet

A gay guy said to me: "yeah no you are not bi, you've never been with a girl" oookay not like you've ever been in a relationship with a man but go off

"Oh, so you're bi? But you don't dress bi, you look straight" WHAT THE HECK DOES THAT EVEN MEAN? I like boys and girls, that makes me bisexual, I don't have to dress a certain way or listen to a certain type of music to prove it.

I’m a bi girl but poor bi guys get it the hardest

@zemorlockwarlock8791

4 жыл бұрын

I.Y.A X i’m super late but: haha get it the hardest

@mothersuperior2673

4 жыл бұрын

Ya if a guy says "I'm bi" everyone is like "No you're gay"

@johno4521

4 жыл бұрын

Ooer, missus

@prado7391

4 жыл бұрын

1. Some women like submissive men 2. Being bi doesn’t make you submissive 3. Being bi doesn’t mean you’re a bottom 4. Being a. bottom doesn’t make you submissive 5. Idiot

@kylesimpson3669

4 жыл бұрын

You should marry one and put him out of his misery lol

This one time a dude from my math class came up to me asking me to the upcoming prom, I said no. He said, "Why? Are you lesbian or something?" I said "No I'm bi." he says "Ok. I changed my mind. Don't wanna be cheated on."

@yanthipenrose9844

5 жыл бұрын

trash can at least you know a person liked you *im lonely*

@Mothman-185

5 жыл бұрын

trash can aaaaaaaaAAAAAAAAAAAAAaahahahahahahahahhaahaha I love people like that yey

@andrewp9827

5 жыл бұрын

trash can get epically trolled bruh!!1!11!

@w_alderson21

5 жыл бұрын

Big oof

@stayhydrated2371

5 жыл бұрын

lmfao he salty

I don't get how people don't get the concept of being able to be attracted to more than one gender.

Love is the closest thing we have to magic. Doesn't matter how. Everyone deserves to be loved & accepted.

Why would I be Bi for attention...like wtf?

@sesseljabs964

7 жыл бұрын

you aren't bi for attention, but you can say you're bi for the attention

@justanotherzombieFJ

7 жыл бұрын

I have a name for those girls at my bar. they are "barsexual" meaning they kiss women to turn on men.

@flissfloss915

6 жыл бұрын

Kawaii We can make a sexuality out of this

@elenaprodromou6658

6 жыл бұрын

Riiight...the shy socially anxious person who wants nothing to do with your bullshit would love to get attention by "pretending" to be bi

A phase? This phase has lasted almost two decades. But seriously I told one guy that I was bi and he instantly stopped talking to me, I was just being honest. Do I ever wish I wasn't bi? No, I feel more comfortable being bi than anything else

@HeavenlyChainsaw

5 жыл бұрын

My aunt thinks I dunno what I’m talking about when I told her I was pan and then I sorta came out to her about me being trans, she thinks it’s a phase and it’s been 6-7 years

@AutomaticDuck300

2 жыл бұрын

I wish I was entirely straight but only because I had a conservative religious upbringing.

I always get: "Does that mean you're always hard?" And I'm like " Uhhhh noo...."

Sometimes I wish I wasn't bisexual only because I can get crushes on literily anyone

I am not bi, but I hate it when people say that bi people are transphobic because being bi indicates there are two genders. An orientation that you have no control over is not transphobic.

@audreydoyle5268

5 жыл бұрын

No, bisexuality is an attraction to the typically binary sexes: males and females. Gender is different to sex. I consider myself to be bisexual panromantic because I am sexually attracted to both male and female bodies (as well as intersex, because they are usually a combination of both), and because gender is not a binary thing, hence the pan meaning all. I agree that being bi doesn’t automatically make them transphobic, because regardless of body parts, what matters is their heart.

@MrsTold

5 жыл бұрын

Bisexual means 'attracted to 2 or more genders' and has been around way longer than pansexual etc. We're not transphobic, we do not have problems with nb-people. If a bi person has a preference.... still not a horrible thing. People just love to hate us :/

@rorytelling

5 жыл бұрын

Bi nonbinary person here! To say bisexuaity is inherently transphobic is in itself biphobic AND transphobic. Trans men and trans women are still men and women. (So to say someone is pan, not bi, because they also like trans people is treating trans people like a third thing when they're not). The purple stripe on the bi flag represents attraction to nonbinary genders as well as a mix of male and female (so to say bisexuals are enbyphobic is just untrue. I'm a bi enby. Am I enbyphobic?) to any accidental Biphobes reading this: Do not minimize the definition of bisexuality just because pansexuality exists and overlaps. Both bi and pan people can be transphobic. But neither sexuality is inherently

@blordsay7991

5 жыл бұрын

I just tell them that whatever has a dick and whatever has a pussy will do, so many trans people freeze up when I reply with that statement. I also prefer my men pussyless, and my ladies dickless

@jjjjjj-wq9eq

5 жыл бұрын

In my belief which is correct, there are 2 genders trans is a surgery to change gender

They forgot “so do you want a threesome?” I made the mistake of telling my bf I *might* be bi and now he keeps hinting at threesomes. It’s driving me insane and reminding me of why I don’t like men as much as I did when I was a naive high schooler.

@jbluewind4727

6 жыл бұрын

Oh hun *hugs* I know that pain. Best to sit him down and explain that just because you're bisexual doesn't mean your polyamorous.

@Andyatl2002

6 жыл бұрын

Nicole C, you should sit down and explain this to him because it's better for your relationship in the long run...

@morelove1111

6 жыл бұрын

Dump him sis

@deathpixie777

6 жыл бұрын

That's why I'm afraid to come out to my boyfriend.

@1337Shockwav3

6 жыл бұрын

Being a guy I feel sorry you have to experience this. Funnily enough I've had it the other way around back when I was "just" straight and told my bisexual girlfriend back then I was ok with her having sex with women as long as it's not behind my back. She actually understood it as me asking for a threesome at first.

So I have this friend in my class and she is known as the "bisexual girl" and honestly I feel so bad for her. PEople are always mocking her because of it. Almost everytime someone mentions her name someone would always say "lGbTq PlUs!" and then laugh at her becasue of that. It's so rude

Think about pansexuals :'D "So you're greedy?" "So you want to date everyone? "Do you like me? _No_ But you're pan, dont you like everyone?" No hate to bi people tho, this shit is tough 😂

@violet6968

4 жыл бұрын

bi people can like all genders, it isn’t just pan

@travisscott2085

2 жыл бұрын

@@violet6968 yeah, bi people can like all genders, but it’s with preference and not a lot of people know that Bi’s can like all genders, it’s usually only Pansexuals and omnisexuals who are accounted for liking all genders because being bisexual clearly states liking two or more genders , with or without preference and, plus, lemon never said they couldn’t

I told a group a friends that I’m bi and one person said:”really? You look pretty straight.”

@glenjones7597

5 жыл бұрын

why would you even come out to you mom? just get a boyfriend for goodness sake

@glenjones7597

5 жыл бұрын

what can she do? no one is beating you or keeping you from eating

@MyNguyen-gv2ip

5 жыл бұрын

@@glenjones7597 Because people don't want their own family to assume them

@gummieboy16

5 жыл бұрын

@@MyNguyen-gv2ip Some people strengthen their feelings and don't care how others perceive them.

@MyNguyen-gv2ip

5 жыл бұрын

@@gummieboy16 This is the internet

I was in my schools LGBT pride club and we were talking about bisexuality and this girl started saying that bi people are transphobic. I don't understand where she got her info from but I've never met a transphobic bi person. And also we were in pride club, aren't we supposed to be supportive of each others sexualities?

@F1.4the-moment

6 жыл бұрын

Sara Nicole hi I know 8ts a bit late on j7st read your comment and yes you are meant to be supportive of each other. The reason they say that they are transphobic is because saying you're bi is basically saying there is only two genders male and female. I was talking about this recently and mentioned in surprised there hasn't been something like this sooner where bi will be seen as the outsider for only liking or acknowledging two genders. Hope that helps if you read this.

@emilydunn6634

6 жыл бұрын

erudis morningstar12 it’s overly triggered trans people.

@F1.4the-moment

6 жыл бұрын

Emily Dunn yes triggered for the reason I stated. It's all pretty sad if I'm honest alienating anyone that doesn't share your thought pattern even if it could be considered a dysphoria. I'm fine round trans as long as we respect each other but I don't feel comfortable with all this political correctness that only benefits one side of the coin. 🤔

@SupMyHomeSkillet

6 жыл бұрын

Some people think that if you're bi that you won't date someone who is trans. When really bisexual and pansexual can mean the same thing. It depends on how person defines it however

@jammedgaminghq6048

6 жыл бұрын

Sara Nicole well there are only two genders And those have two sections Trans or not I thogught they want to be the other gender not a NEW gender

I am bi, I remember coming out to my friends and they looked so scared. I felt so hurt but I still told them that it was a joke, then they looked relieved and said "Oh thank god, don't scare us like that....." They still don't know and probably never will

@mackaylacook148

5 жыл бұрын

Oh god that's sad, I'm sorry about that

@gin9473

5 жыл бұрын

That is why it is so much better to remain friendless.

here's my story im a bi teen when I was 7-8 I had a crush on 2 people. my 2 best friends. this went on for 2 years until I told my girl best friend I had a crush on her. she is didn't feel the same way and rejected me. when I went home I cried and cried. my best friend who was a boy is against gay relationships I found out the next day. I got so sad I didn't go to school for a week. when I came back my girl best friend left my friend group and I never saw her again. when I was 12 I moved away. it was hard but I got thru it. my family didn't know about my sexuality. at my new school, I made a friend who was just like me. we came out to each other and she became my best friend. when we started high school we made more LGBTQ+ friends a few were gay, pan, ace. we had finally found our people. some were in a relationship and some weren't. I knew I had to come out someday. so one day I came out. they didn't like it. in fact the bullied me. they called me names and made me wanna kill myself. the only person I was alive for was my best friend. if she was gone I would be too. that brings me up too now r/im14andthisisdeep

And this is why I don’t tell people I’m Bisexual

@rileydean925

5 жыл бұрын

good.

@oopssadness586

5 жыл бұрын

Well u just did

@kristensanke9887

5 жыл бұрын

You should tell people. It makes you feel much better. At least for me. I have depression so I'm dealing with that, but coming out to my friends made things feel better.

@lotusflower_

5 жыл бұрын

Lmao thats why i dont tell my parents, for different reasons tho (they would disown my ass lmao)

@timowagner1329

5 жыл бұрын

what du u say instead

I'm surprised the one I hear most isn't on here: "What's your preference?" I don't have one. It's personalities I'm first attracted to, not genitals.

@hollybollybingbong_

6 жыл бұрын

Does that make you pansexual? Sorry I'm confused

@kendraryan316

6 жыл бұрын

Some people use "bi" to mean only attracted to men & women and "pan" for attracted to more than those two genders; the other main definition is "bi" for two or more genders but where gender still plays a role in your decisions; and "pan" for that the gender doesn't matter to you, it's personality foremost. Personally I identify as bisexual under the second definition because I can be attracted to people of various genders but I still have a gender bias in who I like

@elmoelmerson172

6 жыл бұрын

Many do have a preference tho'

@beccaisbonkers

6 жыл бұрын

I've been asked what percentage gay and what percentage straight I am before, as if I have a little pie chart which I update each morning

@kidswithhalos552

6 жыл бұрын

thaNK YOU

Person: Are you gay? Me: No. Person: Are you straight? Me: No Person: *Visible Confusion*

Bisexuals:I’m bisexual People:Bisexual?,never heard of her

Ugh I can relate.

@Bestovius

6 жыл бұрын

Big fan

@holliebrundrett1274

6 жыл бұрын

EllieJayden same

@anamarierowley

6 жыл бұрын

EllieJayden me too I get asked this a lot from my strait friends

@micah135

6 жыл бұрын

EllieJayden Samee

@naylaalmussawir666

6 жыл бұрын

EllieJayden me too

Just because I'm bi doesn't mean I fancy everyone..

@terilynn7074

6 жыл бұрын

No you just fancy male and females,No one should trust you

@nezaapsner5682

6 жыл бұрын

Yes hahaha I love it when I come out to a girl and she thinks I automaticaly like her like sweetie congrats for the confidence but that's like assuming every straight male on the planet likes you

@AppleWhiteFan

6 жыл бұрын

i haven't come out yet but when i do i hope no one automatically thinks i like them XD i wish my crush liked me tho XD she wears the most cutiest cat ear headband ever XD my crush is who made me realize i was bi :p

@mani2058

6 жыл бұрын

I can relate. The girl who made me realize I was bi is like 3 or 4 years older than me though. 🙁🙁🙁

@annbrown9273

6 жыл бұрын

This is pretty common. Most assume that having a preference means you will be attracted to everyone. That's not how it works. I think this is why understanding romantic attraction is just as important as understanding sexual attraction for sexuality to be truly understood.

Sis its not just the "B" that needs more respect its also the "T". I've seen hella "LG"s being awful to our "T" homies

I’m a 35 year old bi man. It’s not a phase because I’ve been into boys and girls since as far back as I can I remember. Evan as far back as first or second grade. Sooo...when should I expect to come out of this phase? Cause it’s been going on for close to 30 years now. 🤷🏻‍♂️😂💖💜💙