Hey! I’m Lex and I’ve shared my life on social media for nearly 10 years. It’s time for a change. #lifeupdate #glowup #lifeafterbaby
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@brylenebutler3 ай бұрын
Honestly I haven’t watched in a long time because I stopped watching family vloggers. I am so happy you are making this decision. Children deserve privacy and cannot consent to having their information and likeness on social media. Good job Lex!
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
One thing cybersecurity work has thought me is that digital footprints are out there whether we intend them to be or not. It’s a really scary world out there, especially with AI now.
@athompson12183 ай бұрын
I think you'll be surprised at how many still watch and follow. It's a change but a vast majority have been growing and entering the same stages you are..with you. I found you while pregnant with ibthink it was your first while i was also pregnant...so this is something we can all enjoy going through as well ❤❤
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
You know, I’ve thought about that! I really hope that’s what happens. I hope that the most people who stick around are in the same season now too.
@adventuresofamom41323 ай бұрын
I'm here for it all! I'm currently going though all the same things. Trying to make healthier changes, more me time and self care. ❤
@azpatriot66833 ай бұрын
I totally agree!! I used to put my kids on my Facebook, but not anymore!! I will still be watching :) You helped me through my miscarriage so thank you!!!
@high-five-creative3 ай бұрын
I'm loving this. Honestly with all the abuse lately in some family KZreadrs, I think it's nice to see those protecting their kids' privacy. ❤️
@kalyco62113 ай бұрын
I applaud you for doing what you feel is right for your family. WHATEVER that is! I look forward to see future content!
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
I appreciate that!
@mleaist3 ай бұрын
You're making the right choice. The internet is too scary of a place for so much personal information, especially small children's before they can give consent, to be so readily in the hands of people who may use it in the wrong way.
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
It’s just at the point where my youngest is about to turn two and my children aren’t babies anymore. I’ve never been the type to push their children in front of the camera, they’ve always just co-existed around me while I filmed. But for the last two months or so we’ve completely shopped showing them and it’s honestly felt so right.
@alexiscrawford41783 ай бұрын
My husband and I are currently going through a major life shift as well. He is now waiting on a kidney transplant, and we are moving houses so lots going on! I think it will be awesome to see these videos of how you're also navigating change and finding what makes you happy! Very excited for you!
@tygenreeder93923 ай бұрын
Ive been here since your pregnancy with your daughter, and Ill still be here through this transition and support you! I totally get it. Its scary out on the net now. I also have made changes, I no longer have public profiles on social media platforms and I barely post. When I do its barely with my kids I can just text, email or message family and friends the important things. Anyways, I'm excited to go along this journey with you as long as your comfortability allows.
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
I feel like it’s so important to hold space for everyone who is simply spending each day making one decision better than the next. It’s okay to evolve and decide that you’re no longer comfortable with something that you once were. Situations changes, facts change… I applaud anyone who just keeps moving in the right direction
@danyell20182 ай бұрын
Omg yessss I can follow you again!! You were the only family vlogger that didn’t make me feel bad you’ve always been real. I just couldn’t watch people sharing their kids anymore. You may lose the wrong people but you are getting a lot back I’m sure.
@MelissaAHargraves-bz3ky3 ай бұрын
Lex I'm so proud of you and the person, wife and mother you are. Keep it up
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
Thank you 😭😭😭
@mariedisneydiva26533 ай бұрын
Good for you Lex! You are doing what is best for you and your family! I can't wait to see the new vlogs! 💕
@cherielee81943 ай бұрын
100% support this, thanks for the update Lex ❤
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
You're the best!
@MISarsfield3 ай бұрын
Love love love this - you are making the best decision for you and your children. Will always be by your side. 7ish years of following you, we have grown together during our miscarriages, pregnancies with our almost now 6 year olds, etc. love you so much girl!
@largefamilymama27253 ай бұрын
I would absolutely love to hear what foods and workouts you're doing! Our youngest is 5 and I homeschool, so going to a gym or cooking something crazy just won't work. Can't wait to see what you'll do here!!! 🎉❤ Excited.for the glow up! ✨️
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
Yes! This makes me so happy. I have a lot to share. 💙
@alexusk973 ай бұрын
I think a lot of people would agree, when i follow people for specific content, it starts because i relate most of the time. But i continue watching because i love their personality. Ive continued watching people who change their content because theyre still them even if the content is different. If they still share their personslity its all the same. Its actually interesting when this happens because i see other things i dont relate to and i do think people who live differently are interesting and show me something to learn!
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
Wow that’s a really cool perspective and so true!
@nerysseupton77833 ай бұрын
LOVE THIS! As a mumma to 2 kiddos under 5 I need the inspo for improving my health (physical and mental) and I love this direction you are taking. Good on you and congrats on moving onto the next season in your life!
@leslieelizabeth89253 ай бұрын
Your babies are so cute but I always followed you for you haha 🤣🩷 love your personality 🙌🏻
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
You're the best! 🤣🤣 thank you!
@elliemoore38313 ай бұрын
Love this! I agree that it’s the right decision, even though I will miss seeing the kiddos (in the least creepy way possible, its just fun to see kids cause I don’t have any of my own yet) I will continue to watch and support you! You are an amazing person and an amazing mom ❤️ Love your content, new and old
@thecherishedlife2 ай бұрын
😭😭😭 I’m soooo sad! But also completely understand, and am really happy for you ❤️ I just LOVED watching your sweet little family while I was in the throes of it right alongside you. But we are at the exact same point in our lives once again, finding ourselves after 4 babies and I know it will be great! Just have to grieve the loss of the old a little 🥲 I wish you the best of luck with absolutely EVERYTHING that lies ahead of you, and I’m excited to see what’s next!
@leiaharris92783 ай бұрын
I understand. I actually have thought about doing this as well.
@HanahFiles2 ай бұрын
Been watching since your pregnancy with cooper. So happy for you to be in this stage of life, as am I. Continue being yourself, and what makes you happy!❤
@anikabeukes26413 ай бұрын
You're growing as a person and that's okay! You might loose some but you'll also gain a lot. I also started watching as a mom growing her family. Now im past the having babies phase and looking for a creator to grow with. You're doing amazing!❤
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@katGuzman113 ай бұрын
As much as we love your babies that’s a good idea. This world is legit scary. The viewers that matter will always be here for you 🩵
@sarahpuckett30123 ай бұрын
I’m actually very excited to see this change! I get so worried about people with kids they show all the time! The internet is terrifying and I feel like people don’t need to see every thing! Privacy and personal growth are so important ❤️ you do you and I’ll keep loving your channel!
@dianecorbin33733 ай бұрын
I love your channel, no matter what it is about. I've been around since it was only Cooper, and I will continue on. YOU DO YOU!!
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
I appreciate that! Thank you 💙
@sunshinemillan62883 ай бұрын
I can't wait for the recipes! On the same journey as you!
@janeschmidt96113 ай бұрын
I will miss watching the kids growing up and seeing Dan but I will still be watching you because I like you. 🥰
@reailia3 ай бұрын
I’ve been on this whole change of life also. I stopped posting on my instagram because I have chosen to not post them (my kids), I’ve had a lot of medical stuff for myself come around that I’m trying to navigate and learn now, I get braces in a few weeks at the age of 35, I gained so much weight with my first child and never got back to where I needed to be for my health…. So, I’ve been slowly implementing workouts but have to be careful due to my health issues…. I sat and decided that I needed to focus on me now and I’m trying to figure that part out.
@kymcoote67693 ай бұрын
Change is natural, it is time and we don’t expect our children not to age so change happens! Happy for you to move forward with life and share your thoughts and wisdom xox 💕🇦🇺🤦🏻♀️
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
So true!
@Hanadi.AАй бұрын
I like the change! I don’t like vlogs lol I would love to see chit chat videos. Talk about your future plans, how you manage four kids, what is your life looking like in this season and etc…. Would love to hear all that :)
@rosered59392 ай бұрын
Lex, from one mom to another I get this. Your babies need protecting as a mom, dad, PARENT in general your job is to protect them and you have four beautiful little ones they are your's and Dan's no one else's. This is the decision you make as a couple. And I will tell you this beautiful, you do you. Being a parent is the #1 priority.❤
@pfcijs3 ай бұрын
I started following you when your channel was just Lex, talking about your pregnancy after Coop and then your pregnancy with Willa and I never cared about watching your kids (no offense) I’m here for you and what you have to share! I love to see products you use or tips you have ❤❤
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@alexandriamcswain76013 ай бұрын
I'm so excited for you and to see where is journey takes you! ❤
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@AshleeEagles113 ай бұрын
I’m LOVING this! I am here for it.
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
Thank you!!
@jackivoss13 ай бұрын
I was in my ttc phase with you and now I am done and it this phase with you. Can't wait ❤
@prairiepalmetto93783 ай бұрын
Can’t wait to catch up with what you’re up to!
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
Thank you for being here!
@gwengoetter77873 ай бұрын
So glad some are choosing the right choice!! Definitely need to protect children’s privacy!
@stacieclark-benson6883 ай бұрын
You are not going to lose me! ❤
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
Awww thank you 🥹
@shellysikes36713 ай бұрын
I need all the hair help, would love to see what you’re doing with your hair like you mentioned in this video. ❤
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
You got it! Coming soon
@donnaroughton15563 ай бұрын
Alright!! Can't wait to see what you got going on!!!
@AnnaZampino-sn3yy3 ай бұрын
Totally random, but I recall seeing you post about buying tallow and whipping it. How did it turn out? Do you have a how to? Thanks!!!!!🙏
@kimicope_3 ай бұрын
definitely sticking around :) I don't have kids so it is a easy transition for me :)
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 so happy you’re staying!
@dawngraham173 ай бұрын
Hey lex, I'm a mom of 8 kiddos... This is my entire life. Thank you for choosing to keep this as a mom channel. I need this!! ❤
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
You are so welcome!
@nataliequinn38563 ай бұрын
"All change is hard at first, messy in the middle, and gorgeous at the end."-Robin Sharma This is incredible; congratulations on your new journey and on doing what is right for you and your family.
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
I need to write that down 🥹
@sherristyers56273 ай бұрын
People that cant grow with you weren't really a true fan. I will be honest and say ill miss seeing your precious family but im ok with it because you have every right to make decisions that are best for you and i respect you for that.
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
It makes me sad because I know there are so so so many people out there that have the most beautiful intentions and simply love to watch families grow (as do I). So it’s just a bummer that unwell people ruin something innocent and good. But It’s been a few months now since making the decision and it feels right.
@tulip_peony3 ай бұрын
Yes! I love it ❣️ good job, I love that!
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
Thanks so much 😊
@briannaluce1123 ай бұрын
As much as I loved seeing your beautiful kiddos on this channel, I followed you for YOU!
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
Thank you 🥹
@itsjess11843 ай бұрын
Where is your dress from and what size are you wearing? It’s so cute!
@TheSarakal3 ай бұрын
Hi guys, did she also leave instagram , i can’t find her anymore 😢
@hannahbobanna84983 ай бұрын
❤
@teramorexx84893 ай бұрын
💕💕
@aarikawilbert9303 ай бұрын
Love
@lisagarza82383 ай бұрын
All is flux. Nothing stays still.
@vickiegreer76983 ай бұрын
I'm staying ❤
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
🥹
@jdiane533 ай бұрын
I’m staying
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
🥹 thank you
@modom113 ай бұрын
Actually i will watch you again now that you have taken your children off the internet ❤
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
I love that. Thank you for taking the time to let me know 💙
@michellebridges26043 ай бұрын
Be true to yourself
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
Thank you 💙
@erikawestfield64332 ай бұрын
Ditch it ALL!! Stay home with the kids or do something else👏
@Lex.Fitzgerald
2 ай бұрын
Uh, no. I’m going to do exactly what I said 😅😅
@Tomsgirl883 ай бұрын
Your not showing your children because a law was passed preventing it the same with lots of family vloggers who have stopped showing their kids en mass at the same time that law hasn’t reached us in the uk yet but then i would never have dreamed of showing my children on social media you never know who is watching
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
The bill you’re referencing is to prevent minors from having their own accounts, not having minors on social media in general. I stopped posting my children on social media around February. 🫶🏼 let me know if you struggle to find accurate information regarding the bill. Happy to send it to you so you can better understand.
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Honestly I haven’t watched in a long time because I stopped watching family vloggers. I am so happy you are making this decision. Children deserve privacy and cannot consent to having their information and likeness on social media. Good job Lex!
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
One thing cybersecurity work has thought me is that digital footprints are out there whether we intend them to be or not. It’s a really scary world out there, especially with AI now.
I think you'll be surprised at how many still watch and follow. It's a change but a vast majority have been growing and entering the same stages you are..with you. I found you while pregnant with ibthink it was your first while i was also pregnant...so this is something we can all enjoy going through as well ❤❤
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
You know, I’ve thought about that! I really hope that’s what happens. I hope that the most people who stick around are in the same season now too.
I'm here for it all! I'm currently going though all the same things. Trying to make healthier changes, more me time and self care. ❤
I totally agree!! I used to put my kids on my Facebook, but not anymore!! I will still be watching :) You helped me through my miscarriage so thank you!!!
I'm loving this. Honestly with all the abuse lately in some family KZreadrs, I think it's nice to see those protecting their kids' privacy. ❤️
I applaud you for doing what you feel is right for your family. WHATEVER that is! I look forward to see future content!
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
I appreciate that!
You're making the right choice. The internet is too scary of a place for so much personal information, especially small children's before they can give consent, to be so readily in the hands of people who may use it in the wrong way.
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
It’s just at the point where my youngest is about to turn two and my children aren’t babies anymore. I’ve never been the type to push their children in front of the camera, they’ve always just co-existed around me while I filmed. But for the last two months or so we’ve completely shopped showing them and it’s honestly felt so right.
My husband and I are currently going through a major life shift as well. He is now waiting on a kidney transplant, and we are moving houses so lots going on! I think it will be awesome to see these videos of how you're also navigating change and finding what makes you happy! Very excited for you!
Ive been here since your pregnancy with your daughter, and Ill still be here through this transition and support you! I totally get it. Its scary out on the net now. I also have made changes, I no longer have public profiles on social media platforms and I barely post. When I do its barely with my kids I can just text, email or message family and friends the important things. Anyways, I'm excited to go along this journey with you as long as your comfortability allows.
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
I feel like it’s so important to hold space for everyone who is simply spending each day making one decision better than the next. It’s okay to evolve and decide that you’re no longer comfortable with something that you once were. Situations changes, facts change… I applaud anyone who just keeps moving in the right direction
Omg yessss I can follow you again!! You were the only family vlogger that didn’t make me feel bad you’ve always been real. I just couldn’t watch people sharing their kids anymore. You may lose the wrong people but you are getting a lot back I’m sure.
Lex I'm so proud of you and the person, wife and mother you are. Keep it up
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
Thank you 😭😭😭
Good for you Lex! You are doing what is best for you and your family! I can't wait to see the new vlogs! 💕
100% support this, thanks for the update Lex ❤
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
You're the best!
Love love love this - you are making the best decision for you and your children. Will always be by your side. 7ish years of following you, we have grown together during our miscarriages, pregnancies with our almost now 6 year olds, etc. love you so much girl!
I would absolutely love to hear what foods and workouts you're doing! Our youngest is 5 and I homeschool, so going to a gym or cooking something crazy just won't work. Can't wait to see what you'll do here!!! 🎉❤ Excited.for the glow up! ✨️
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
Yes! This makes me so happy. I have a lot to share. 💙
I think a lot of people would agree, when i follow people for specific content, it starts because i relate most of the time. But i continue watching because i love their personality. Ive continued watching people who change their content because theyre still them even if the content is different. If they still share their personslity its all the same. Its actually interesting when this happens because i see other things i dont relate to and i do think people who live differently are interesting and show me something to learn!
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
Wow that’s a really cool perspective and so true!
LOVE THIS! As a mumma to 2 kiddos under 5 I need the inspo for improving my health (physical and mental) and I love this direction you are taking. Good on you and congrats on moving onto the next season in your life!
Your babies are so cute but I always followed you for you haha 🤣🩷 love your personality 🙌🏻
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
You're the best! 🤣🤣 thank you!
Love this! I agree that it’s the right decision, even though I will miss seeing the kiddos (in the least creepy way possible, its just fun to see kids cause I don’t have any of my own yet) I will continue to watch and support you! You are an amazing person and an amazing mom ❤️ Love your content, new and old
😭😭😭 I’m soooo sad! But also completely understand, and am really happy for you ❤️ I just LOVED watching your sweet little family while I was in the throes of it right alongside you. But we are at the exact same point in our lives once again, finding ourselves after 4 babies and I know it will be great! Just have to grieve the loss of the old a little 🥲 I wish you the best of luck with absolutely EVERYTHING that lies ahead of you, and I’m excited to see what’s next!
I understand. I actually have thought about doing this as well.
Been watching since your pregnancy with cooper. So happy for you to be in this stage of life, as am I. Continue being yourself, and what makes you happy!❤
You're growing as a person and that's okay! You might loose some but you'll also gain a lot. I also started watching as a mom growing her family. Now im past the having babies phase and looking for a creator to grow with. You're doing amazing!❤
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!!
As much as we love your babies that’s a good idea. This world is legit scary. The viewers that matter will always be here for you 🩵
I’m actually very excited to see this change! I get so worried about people with kids they show all the time! The internet is terrifying and I feel like people don’t need to see every thing! Privacy and personal growth are so important ❤️ you do you and I’ll keep loving your channel!
I love your channel, no matter what it is about. I've been around since it was only Cooper, and I will continue on. YOU DO YOU!!
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
I appreciate that! Thank you 💙
I can't wait for the recipes! On the same journey as you!
I will miss watching the kids growing up and seeing Dan but I will still be watching you because I like you. 🥰
I’ve been on this whole change of life also. I stopped posting on my instagram because I have chosen to not post them (my kids), I’ve had a lot of medical stuff for myself come around that I’m trying to navigate and learn now, I get braces in a few weeks at the age of 35, I gained so much weight with my first child and never got back to where I needed to be for my health…. So, I’ve been slowly implementing workouts but have to be careful due to my health issues…. I sat and decided that I needed to focus on me now and I’m trying to figure that part out.
Change is natural, it is time and we don’t expect our children not to age so change happens! Happy for you to move forward with life and share your thoughts and wisdom xox 💕🇦🇺🤦🏻♀️
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
So true!
I like the change! I don’t like vlogs lol I would love to see chit chat videos. Talk about your future plans, how you manage four kids, what is your life looking like in this season and etc…. Would love to hear all that :)
Lex, from one mom to another I get this. Your babies need protecting as a mom, dad, PARENT in general your job is to protect them and you have four beautiful little ones they are your's and Dan's no one else's. This is the decision you make as a couple. And I will tell you this beautiful, you do you. Being a parent is the #1 priority.❤
I started following you when your channel was just Lex, talking about your pregnancy after Coop and then your pregnancy with Willa and I never cared about watching your kids (no offense) I’m here for you and what you have to share! I love to see products you use or tips you have ❤❤
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!!
I'm so excited for you and to see where is journey takes you! ❤
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!!
I’m LOVING this! I am here for it.
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
Thank you!!
I was in my ttc phase with you and now I am done and it this phase with you. Can't wait ❤
Can’t wait to catch up with what you’re up to!
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
Thank you for being here!
So glad some are choosing the right choice!! Definitely need to protect children’s privacy!
You are not going to lose me! ❤
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
Awww thank you 🥹
I need all the hair help, would love to see what you’re doing with your hair like you mentioned in this video. ❤
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
You got it! Coming soon
Alright!! Can't wait to see what you got going on!!!
Totally random, but I recall seeing you post about buying tallow and whipping it. How did it turn out? Do you have a how to? Thanks!!!!!🙏
definitely sticking around :) I don't have kids so it is a easy transition for me :)
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 so happy you’re staying!
Hey lex, I'm a mom of 8 kiddos... This is my entire life. Thank you for choosing to keep this as a mom channel. I need this!! ❤
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
You are so welcome!
"All change is hard at first, messy in the middle, and gorgeous at the end."-Robin Sharma This is incredible; congratulations on your new journey and on doing what is right for you and your family.
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
I need to write that down 🥹
People that cant grow with you weren't really a true fan. I will be honest and say ill miss seeing your precious family but im ok with it because you have every right to make decisions that are best for you and i respect you for that.
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
It makes me sad because I know there are so so so many people out there that have the most beautiful intentions and simply love to watch families grow (as do I). So it’s just a bummer that unwell people ruin something innocent and good. But It’s been a few months now since making the decision and it feels right.
Yes! I love it ❣️ good job, I love that!
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
Thanks so much 😊
As much as I loved seeing your beautiful kiddos on this channel, I followed you for YOU!
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
Thank you 🥹
Where is your dress from and what size are you wearing? It’s so cute!
Hi guys, did she also leave instagram , i can’t find her anymore 😢
❤
💕💕
Love
All is flux. Nothing stays still.
I'm staying ❤
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
🥹
I’m staying
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
🥹 thank you
Actually i will watch you again now that you have taken your children off the internet ❤
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
I love that. Thank you for taking the time to let me know 💙
Be true to yourself
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
Thank you 💙
Ditch it ALL!! Stay home with the kids or do something else👏
@Lex.Fitzgerald
2 ай бұрын
Uh, no. I’m going to do exactly what I said 😅😅
Your not showing your children because a law was passed preventing it the same with lots of family vloggers who have stopped showing their kids en mass at the same time that law hasn’t reached us in the uk yet but then i would never have dreamed of showing my children on social media you never know who is watching
@Lex.Fitzgerald
3 ай бұрын
The bill you’re referencing is to prevent minors from having their own accounts, not having minors on social media in general. I stopped posting my children on social media around February. 🫶🏼 let me know if you struggle to find accurate information regarding the bill. Happy to send it to you so you can better understand.