This is a very, very sensitive subject. If you have not experienced sexual abuse, you will NEVER understand the psychological damage it has on the victim. It's not easy speaking your truth. Especially when, the eyes of the world are watching. Don't just persecute the predator, persecute all who, willing turned a blind eye, KNOWING the truth!

@YoRelemDjah

5 жыл бұрын

Preach black queen!

@jonasholt9959

5 жыл бұрын

You're smart and I appreciate your compassion for the victims and survivors.

@natashacutiepie6074

5 жыл бұрын

Yea cause They let it get to that point. Their are red flags long before a man goes full blown nutzo on you. Not their fault these women don't love themselves enough to walk away at the First sign of trouble. Sooner or later No One will have sympathy for battered or sexually abused women cause they literally put Themselves in these situations. Not having a father or having a bad childhood no excuse to be an idiot & a fool for Any man out here. Too many on earth to let ONE hurt you. Grow a f***ing back bone ladies! So tired of yall crying over men mistreating us when We have the upper hand at all times. Nothing more satisfying than taking a man's power of thinking I need him than walking away from the bulls*** he has brought in your life.

@ericbrooks939

5 жыл бұрын

They're not accusing him of sexual abuse! (That was last month) They're accusing him of physical abuse this week! Keep up!

@jorgevaldez9564

5 жыл бұрын

Petty woman lol yal is so hypocritical

Im disgusted by the comments from black women saying they were not forced and they are too old. Smh. If you have never been in an abusive relationship then u don't understand the intricacies of it enough to speak on why they stayed, etc. When will we stop blaming victims and hold perpetrators accountable

@bm1178

5 жыл бұрын

amarie9 Well I was in a physical and mentally abusive relationship and I feel this is a whole lot of bullshit. I know why I stayed be because I was trying to make it work to have a father for my son and also because I thought I loved him but some of these women are saying the abuse started within 2 weeks, there was no emotional involvement or any reason to try to work this out.

@pudddingpie

5 жыл бұрын

I’m disgusted by 90% of these comments on here! We have to STOP blaming the victims

@bm1178

5 жыл бұрын

pudddingpie I think you need to do more video searching, then you will understand the doubts.

@publichealthtopics

5 жыл бұрын

Well said.

@annmariebailey123

5 жыл бұрын

@@bm1178 and that was your experience. What if i said to you thats a stupid reason? You aren't in the mind of these women. Enough is enough with victim blaming. We all know R Kelly is a predator. He married a 15 year old when he was in his late 20s. Lets not make excuses for him

Only people who’ve been in an abusive relationship will understand.

@puddincup9879

5 жыл бұрын

VibeLyrics yeah. It's all about choices.

@curlyyhairbeauty___1361

5 жыл бұрын

I have and I left. These women had a open door to leave. Everyone has a CHOICE in life. These young women parents failed them. Drea is just a scammer

@vibelyrics683

5 жыл бұрын

It’s really hard though, I’ve been through it and I wasn’t seeing clear. I’ve seen everything differently when I got out of that toxic relationship and wondered what took me that long. Honestly it takes a lot of a mind and emotion strength to chose to get out of it. God bless us a protect our sisters.

@vibelyrics683

5 жыл бұрын

Kanye West Because of people like you that we still living in a society like this. Always judging females even when they’re the victims I didn’t open my legs so quick I didn’t see the true him, we were bf/gf for 2years and engaged for other 2 years. As black community we blame white people when we don’t even support each other. Go and watch Surviving RKelly on lifetime. We have to make changes and help them out.

@vibelyrics683

5 жыл бұрын

Kanye West I understand why you said slavery was a Choice, because of ignorant people like you who blame they’re own people even when they’re victims, it has nothing to do with opening legs, some people are sick they don’t show you who they are till you fall for them and then they take advantage of your feelings to abuse you. Abuse is not only sexual or physical. Abuse can be mental and ruin your soul and destroy your identity. We need to support and do something to save these little girls don’t be ignorant and blame your own people.

That woman always crying but still keeping the Last name you need to give up and forget about that man...

@RickeyRamsey1

4 жыл бұрын

💯

Looking forward to seeing “Surviving Charlie Sheen, Surviving Roman Polanski, Surviving Harvey Weinstein” Lifetime, we are counting on you!

@constancebailey4367

5 жыл бұрын

An it that the truth and the list goes on Surviving Bryan Singer., Jay-Z, so many people that famous the list goes on

@rjbatz2623

5 жыл бұрын

Jay z?

Elvis Presley married a 14 year old...

@78dachamp

5 жыл бұрын

@Goody two shoes no it doesn't make it ok,but nobody was criticizing him,he still was the so called the king

@angc1456

5 жыл бұрын

@@78dachamp TRUE and Celine dion was just 12 years old - dating her future husband

R.Kelly is no different then Harvey Wiensten .

@cecegiles7286

5 жыл бұрын

ThaRealizt Oneofone Yes..there is ONE major difference............he's black

@tharealiztoneofone7827

5 жыл бұрын

The birds of a feather flock together.

@phatty67

5 жыл бұрын

Ones indicted, ones not

@tharealiztoneofone7827

5 жыл бұрын

@@phatty67 dammit they both should be locked up

@tharealiztoneofone7827

5 жыл бұрын

@Jordy Lunkhead Verrill it'll bit him in the ass later watch

Abusers can tear people’s self esteem down by using aggression to trigger fear and shame in the victim to the point where their whole reality and self-esteem is skewed and they question their own sanity. From a third party perspective it seems so obvious to leave, but being in an abusive relationship actually in that situation you never know how you might respond to the abuse. The abuse is a weight that suppresses people under this heavy burden and makes them feel practically worthless and fearful enough to stay in such a toxic relationship. Even people stay in abusive relationships to manipulators who do not have wealth or status. It’s time to stop victim blaming when it’s the perpetrators who should be held accountable, not the victims.

I’m not buying nobody’s book. FOH 🏌️

@KK-un7jb

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly.

@pavanman6632

5 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@torrieferguson4673

5 жыл бұрын

DJ DA VINCI all are free except Kittis

@rosecapitalgroupinc

5 жыл бұрын

Lmao with the Golf emoji...

@theworldismine856

5 жыл бұрын

Liars

If u never been in a controlling relationship you could never understand what these women went through you could never relate if his wife and I believe by her body language what she saying is true then how could you expect her to say anything bad about him in an interview and he's right there looking at her you really think she's going to try that no because she's scared you really think but after being abused you can just run out and just speak on what's happened to you no it doesn't work like that and I'm so sick of people judging something they've never experienced it just does not work the way you think it does and you will not understand until you wore the shoes of an abusive situation like this every way to thin women described him was the way that my husband used to be towards me and you don't tell nobody you just try and figure out a way to get out of it when I tried to get out of it he beat me with a gotdamn brick in front of my kids and my father so you see it doesn't take money or power to do these things.

@arieslove6144

5 жыл бұрын

Bonjour ebony how are you madame. Your right im a male so I don't know what its like to be in a controlling' nor abusive relationshipYou say her body language she is telling the truth' her body language is not telling the whole truth.If you can really understand it.

@arieslove6144

5 жыл бұрын

is he abusive 'that remains to be proven. Why do women stick around and stay with someone 'who is doing that to them im asking.Why didn't come forward with this years ago ' You know the old saying . {Fool me once shame on you} {Fool me twice shame on me}.

@Nicknack988

5 жыл бұрын

Oh f this bch... She was still protecting him after she was long gone.. divorced... Uploading videos talking about these accusers need to shut up because they're messing up her checks!! So you knew he was a monster but you worrying about money.... Then she started complaining about him not paying child support... Months later wallah... He abused her gtfoh.

@arieslove6144

5 жыл бұрын

Yelle yelle exactly

@monicasmith860

5 жыл бұрын

ebony31jones I understand

The whole thing is B's

@rachell8661

5 жыл бұрын

Josiee Dogbah are you involved? How do you know? Why are you denying people’s life stories when you don’t know them. Smh ignorance is NOT bliss.

I cannot believe this dirtbag hasn't been put in prison. These women need to be heard, and he needs to be held accountable.

@libbiamurrell9207

5 жыл бұрын

He's very sick! Know one of the victims! He's a POS!

@libbiamurrell9207

5 жыл бұрын

This made me nauseated!

@williamivery1809

5 жыл бұрын

Maybe he should but Donald Trump and all the rest of them should go to

@TheRelentless1ne

5 жыл бұрын

@@williamivery1809 *too

@musajjaAbaanda

5 жыл бұрын

Go to hell

I don't know what to believe from Andrea after seeing that Facebook live video

@Misssteelcity412

5 жыл бұрын

Design Diva yeahhhhh she got me side eyeing tf out of her

@evez5104

5 жыл бұрын

What happened in that video?

@karyss4076

5 жыл бұрын

What happened

@erinnirre

5 жыл бұрын

Steelcity 412 what happened?

@kiaram9391

5 жыл бұрын

It destroyed her credibility, hell even the whole document in my opinion

Definitely not victim blaming these ladies but I’m giving Drea the biggest side-eye. Wasn’t she defending him a few years back talking about ‘go buy his tickets cuz they keep my lights on’ AND she still keeps his last name?

Its impossible for the most recent girl not have known about his previous relationships yet pursued a relationship with him. What a coincidence.

Andrea Kelly just hush.

@therealsongstress

4 жыл бұрын

Torrey All of them hush .. especially Martinez .. she not even his type

@sharonseo2834

4 жыл бұрын

@@therealsongstress wow this is so sad, shame on you honestly

@slf81

4 жыл бұрын

SPEAK YOU'RE TRUTH ANDREA! Never let the lies hush you. Maybe you help some women

@Sophie-mh4fw

Жыл бұрын

Torrey - shut up these women and all women have the right of speech she has gone through the worst leave it alone

They had relationships with R Kelly! Bitter

Bill Cosby wanted T.V station?R.Kelly wanted his masters to his music?

@lhem0361

5 жыл бұрын

The rumors have been circulating for years..that does not make them true. The only truth, we may know, AALIYAH WAS UNDER 18. WHO SIGNED MARRIAGE LICENSE FOR THEM TO GET MARRIED. WAS HE CRIMINALLY CHARGED...YEARS AGO? All these year, it appears, parents allowed their TEENAGED GIRLS TO HAVE FAKE ID, THEN, PERHAPS GAVE THEM TO HIM. PEOPLE UNDER 18 YRS OF AGE SHOULD NOT HAVE BEEN AT AN R. KELLY CONCERT. TO THIS DAY, TEENAGED GIRLS AND BOYS HAVE FAKE IDS. THESE YOUNG GIRLS HAVE WEAVES, FAKE NAILS EYE LASHES, TOPS THAT BARELY COVERS THEIR BREAST. IT IS A MESS! THERE ARE SO MANY PROMISCUOUS YOUNG AND OLD WOMEN ON THE DATE SCENE, IT IS NOT FUNNY. I BELIEVE HE IS ALWAYS PAYING EXTORTION MONIES HIS HEART IS TOO BIG.

Its disgusting how she kept his name and smiles every time she says it like she's proud. I was dropping that damn name

@epizzle806

5 жыл бұрын

Bucketlist Beauty I said the same thing she riding the publicity. She always has spoke well of him, played his music on social media talking about that’s my “baby daddy “ dancing and laughing now she always despised him?

@prettyluhe.5423

5 жыл бұрын

It’s a meaning u would know if u watched the other show it’s not about him it’s she kept that name bcs she’s strong women not for fame she’s speaking for women she doesn’t have to be sad all the time

@moonlight9883

5 жыл бұрын

Erica *emonie she kept it because that name has more money value to it, a real victim wants nothing to do with her abuser, specially a name that reminds her every single day of him.

@cphzinefest445

5 жыл бұрын

WHO are you to judge? Have you walked in her shoes? Watch the documentary - she is an incredibly insightful woman and even adresses the name IN THE DOC.

@moonlight9883

5 жыл бұрын

@@cphzinefest445 watch the IG live video she made not too long ago, jamming to his music singing along while saying "yeah that's my baby daddy" yeah that sounds like a victim right there.

FINALLY! Speak ladies, the truth shall set you free 💪🏾

@lr2286

5 жыл бұрын

Yeah lets speak the truth! 1. Had phone access and did not call 911 2. Could have left was not held captive 3. Parents allowed their child to be with R. Kelly although they knew he was a rumored pedophile 4. Parents did not make a missing report of any child 5. They did say it was consenual although SOME of them were underage 6. Sparkle guilty and any other enabler 7. Parents did not care 8.Parents did not care 9.Parents did not care 10. Parents did not care 11. Girls took the abuse because of them wanting to be stars according to them on the documentary 12. Saw him hanging out with girls at high school no one intervened 13. Parents did not care 14. Parents did not care 15. Parents did not even leak or speak about sex tape until now 16. Parents did not care

@loisc6438

5 жыл бұрын

Latyja Ross none of these things dispute the fact the R kelly is still abusive, controlling and targeted young girls for sex 🤔

@lr2286

5 жыл бұрын

@@loisc6438 Yeah but their MAIN protectors in life enabled this. They were aware of the R. Kelly rumors and allowed him to be with their underage child because they saw MONEY AND FAME. If they cared enough it would have never happened in the first place. Its pretty self explainatory not to allow a "sick man" to be left alone with children i thought it was but maybe not for the girls parents.

@lr2286

5 жыл бұрын

@know The Way based on the documentary.. it was Aaliyah, Sparkle's niece.. the rest were 15 16 17 and a little older.. they were girls acting grown anyways and it was NOT all R. Kelly's fault in my opinion.

@lr2286

5 жыл бұрын

@know The Way The parents did not do anything because they THOUGHT R. Kelly was going to make their children stars and for some reason left their kids with a stranger. They did not care. Thats what i watched on the documentary. I do not feel sorry for them.. they could of left but stayed. So now they are mad because they did not get what they wanted and i heard that he stopped paying these girls off this is why their coming foward with bullshit stories. The things people will do for fame and money is absolutely CRAZY!🙄

why does andrea still have his last name? and she said it with a smile.

@HeyMrFarley

5 жыл бұрын

cause she lying lol

@realafrica3703

5 жыл бұрын

Kkkkkkkkkk Kkkkkkkkkk

@realafrica3703

5 жыл бұрын

@@HeyMrFarley Hahaha hahaha hahaha

@fidelmercado2621

5 жыл бұрын

She chasing the bag💵💵💵

@angc1456

5 жыл бұрын

why ?? MONEY !!! =)

"That's my Robert, always peeing on people"...Grandma

It's timea like this I miss Oprah Becaues she would asked the MAIN QUESTION. WHY IS IT THAT NONE OF YALL HAVE PREASED CRIMINAL CHARGES??.????

@suzanneburns6705

5 жыл бұрын

Please know tat you are spelling words correctly. No disrespect

@user-lp2he1md6i

5 жыл бұрын

Coco Brown so you never been in a abusive relationship. Most don’t press charges out of fear, shame and pure Exhaustion. By the time they have healed and are ready to press charges the stature of limitations are up. Woo the pure ignorance and Eager the place blame on these women. Grow a pair.

@user-lp2he1md6i

5 жыл бұрын

Suzanne Burns that*

@BIGBG74

5 жыл бұрын

Great question

@bigbottiechick

5 жыл бұрын

@@suzanneburns6705 words incorrectly*

I feel for what Drea has been through but I also see things online that make me look at her in a different light. I believe the women. I’m a survivor of domestic violence. For 8 years I lived with a man who would have probably ended my life had he not been murdered. My heart hurts because he was an abusive sick man but also the father of my daughters. It’s horrible to feel a sense of relief when a person loses their life and you have to look at your children and tell them that daddy isn’t coming home. That was in 2007 now I’m dealing with the murder of our 14 year old daughter. She was shot and killed in Dallas Tx while at the park with friends. She looked exactly like him and now she’s gone. I can’t even begin to explain how much pain and heartache that man put me through but he also gave me one of the most beautiful gifts of my life and now she’s gone..... my beautiful Natalie. I pray for both of their souls and pray that they are together because he was a horrible husband but at the same time he was an amazing father.... I pray God had mercy on his soul and that he now has them both together in his heavenly kingdom.

@bajangenetics400

2 жыл бұрын

I'm reading this 3 years later and I'm truly hoping that you've found peace and joy

Damn...they gone keep doing the same interviews multiple times ...the documentary was already 6hrs

I wonder why they just now coming out with this 😥

@KK-un7jb

5 жыл бұрын

I know right.

@Madnezzmonroux

5 жыл бұрын

U don't understand. If u haven't been abused. It's EMBARRASSING THATS WHY

I am so happy these ladies are finally speaking up. It is way overdue.

Why doesn't Andrea change her name back to her maiden name? Why still call yourself Drea Kelly?

@andreafoxx925

2 жыл бұрын

Right

All these ladies are of age! Where are the ones who was underage? tha would be more credible! Drea was crying but after she was on facebook live dancing and singing to his music!

@TheRelentless1ne

5 жыл бұрын

She is fake af.

@ashleymiller4178

5 жыл бұрын

The incidents happened when they were teenagers and R Kelly was 25+ years old. He had no business having a sexual relationship with either of the girls because they were under the age of consent

@TreyDoe

5 жыл бұрын

This whole shit is fake .. He dont want them anymore so now they tryna cosby show him ..

@victoriousv7349

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly I’m not buying into none of this bullshit Drea Kelly change your last name then you’ll be more credible girl bye go have several seats 💺 you are 15 years late after your marriage and three kids late Y’all stop 🛑 falling for this opportunistic bs she made a deal with lifetime boy I tell you Americans will do anything for $$$$$

@be9342

5 жыл бұрын

They were all underage at the time of the abuse you asshat (except Drea and one other in this clip)

I just don’t understand how he is a monster but you keep his last name. I was once in my life abused in so many ways by my ex partner and honestly I don’t want anything that reminds me of him.

@francessilva3869

4 жыл бұрын

I agree. Not even my son has his father's last name. I couldn't see myself rationalizing a decision to keep my abuser's last name at all.

@andreafoxx925

2 жыл бұрын

R kelly told her take off his last name

Wow, I’m glad I saw this, watched the Gale King interview and said to my husband, “ He’s yelling at Gale! That’s abuse!” He agreed. So many people think yelling is ok, hitting kids is fine (even necessary)...but no, it’s not good. This man needs a reality check and those women in his house need a break to see that they are in imminent danger. I wonder why the authorities aren’t stepping up the game with action? Probable cause last I checked was enough to go rescue them and get help before one more violent outburst. I believe ALL these women. Low self esteem keeps them there...they need to feel their own power. First, remove them & evaluate. Remove him as well and evaluate formally. Then take action. 😢

All you women are so brave for speaking up and telling your story. 💕 We need to put a stop to this madness.

Why is the wife to blame? Why is she fake? She has his only children, she had to endure her husband, the father of her children pissing on little girls, screwing children, hanging out at high schools, other random cheating AND abuse?!? She can speak out when she wants to, she had to make sure her kids were straight, considering her kids were terrorized by other kids, her daughter now her son, and she gets no support from Mr. Kelly.... so what she didn’t talk bad about him on the reality show, she had her kids to think about. (It’s not like the rest of the world did) So what she likes his music, the whole damn world does, doesn’t take away the fact that he’s a monster.... what happened to feeling sorry for those that have been hurt or praying for people in need? Instead we keep pointing fingers at the people who been abused and hurt. God has to be extremely disappointed ☹️😔quit pointing fingers at people, and passing blame, cause you never know when you might need a prayer or the same kinda support that these ladies may need right now; instead you may get exactly what you giving out... 😳🥺

My question is y didn't they leave sooner if all this stuff was happening to them

Where can i watch it in the Uk it’s not on Netflix

Everyone has different ways of coping. If people would start practicing empathy toward one another rather than judging people for going down a wrong path, they might be able to show themselves empathy and focus on healing their own personal wounds. It’s sad and pretty messed up seeing judgmental women as well as men in the comment section going in on these women who were victims to an abuser. People don’t always immediately know the wisest or safest path to go in these types of situations and sometimes end up get psychologically and/or emotionally trapped. This is probably the reason why so many people decide not to come forward about their own abuse in fear of this type of brutal judgement and ostracism.

“It’s never to late to leave “ so why y’all ant leave ? 🤷🏽‍♂️

SOUNDS LIKE A WHOLE BUNCH OF “””HALF””” TRUTHS.... THEY REALLY LOVED THAT MAN AND STILL DO REGARDLESS OF HIS 50 SHADES OF GREY LIFESTYLE..... 🤦🏽‍♀️ #saveit 🙄

Mad respect for these women

I'm so happy they told their story. It is time to stop silencing women, especially black women. I was abused as a spouse. No one wanted to believe me .. But thank God in certain situations the neighbors called for help. Things happened to me as a teen that when I spoke out ...their were ppl protecting my offender... This gives other women the power to speak out, girls to speak out against abuse, trafficking, women in captivity ... No one can tell these women when its time to tell their story. And its so surprising to see the amounts of women who will try to hush these women.....and all these women pointing negative fingers on these ladies for sharing their stories...are some of these offenders mothers, sisters ..cousins, that have probably even been assaulted themselves. #stopsilencingvictims

EVERYBODY IN THE SITUATION HAD A CHOICE🗣I Said Wtf I Said👏🏼🖕🏽

@erikapaul4462

5 жыл бұрын

Tαliყαh мαriε abuse victims are most likely scared to leave due to threats and manipulation. u won't understand unless u were in their situation.

@erikapaul4462

5 жыл бұрын

Niashe aaliyah was groomed from the age of 15-16. the fact that a grown 30 year old man is dating a CHILD is disgusting. she was lead into marrying him through his manipulative tactics. I don't know much about the other women but I do know that abusers tend to have a rigid way of manipulating people into believing their innocent and the true victims and I wouldn't be surprised if that's what happened in this case. either way it doesn't matter the focus should not be on what the victims didn't do but rather on the CRIMES the abuser committed and got away with.

@nicolenikki4858

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@ashleymiller4178

5 жыл бұрын

Tαliყαh мαriε Those women were teenagers at the time. R. Kelly was the ADULT in the situation, so as soon as he engaged in sexual acts with minors he committed a CRIME. By saying, “both sides are wrong” the victims are being are blamed for the acts of the abuser, which can cause future victims to not come forward (not just R. Kelly’s victims but also victims in general)

@nursepeaches9528

5 жыл бұрын

I AGREE

Andrea Kelly you are so bitter.... drop the name Kelly and move on with your life

There’s a thin line between a victim and a co-conspirator.when you indulge and was a benefactor of the crime process, you just can’t morph suddenly into “ME TOO!

So does R Kelly get a right of reply to this hit piece or not?

Mrs. Kelly baby girl something about you you know a lot more than what you saying I don't know how you can stand up here with these ladies and not really telling the truth about anything remember you was in the house we'll all of them

I don't condom what he did but they could of been spoken up

@lolnine

5 жыл бұрын

condom? 😀😁😁😁😁😁😁🤣😂😂😂😂😂

@lr2286

5 жыл бұрын

@@lolnine Why?😭😭😭🤣😂

@MsLignumvitae

5 жыл бұрын

@@lolnine Freudian slip maybe ? Lol

Where the fuck were the parents @? And why did none of these women file a police report against him ??

Just saw a video of Andrea happily and aggressively defending her ex-husband and praising him for his music while playing it in the background. She is really confusing with vids of her crying and discussing the abuse from him.

When's the last time you saw R.kelly on TV ? 😂

@zettawilson2236

5 жыл бұрын

😂😂🤣 it's been a while!!

Yall knew who he was and how old he was. Why would you set yourself up like that. Why! Because he's R. Kelly he could have choose any women. But in their minds they thought they were Special. Don't cry WOLF now. You are just as GUILITY!

@conz9136

5 жыл бұрын

@IAMTOLANI31 for that, I blame the parents!

@phelaw5383

5 жыл бұрын

Im sorry unless they were minors when they met him, they're not credible victims to me. Where these women being held hostage???? Wth??? One lady said she was 19 or 20. You were an ADULT LADY!!! When u found out he was a creep, you should have jumped ship then. The majority of these women were broke, and they stayed because he took care of them financially. But now that he has no use for them, the funds have been cut off, and it's PAYDAY TIME!!!! So let's all get together, call the media, and play the hopeless victim so we can get paid!!! Were broke!!!

@octopusmint

5 жыл бұрын

@Vanessa Williams Adults should know better, teenagers don't - it's simple if you use your brain. Try it Vanessa

@sofiamagana857

5 жыл бұрын

do you not fucking know how manipulative men can be ? the only way you could understand this whole thing was if you were one of them i can’t believe a women would say this about these victims

@blairpattterson

5 жыл бұрын

@salma ahmed news flash! A 15 year old can go to prison for murder, and be tried as an adult. How the hell is this any different

I'm a sexual abuse victim so I get it, but his ex wife plays both sides of the fence one day shes dancing and singing to his music talking about how hes her boo, baby daddy and her family then the next minute shes crying and crap are you a victim or is that your boo I'm confusedly

Kelly sure knows how to put out a hit record.

How come they all stayed??

@puddincup9879

5 жыл бұрын

Uriel Valdez $

@greywolfnez6811

5 жыл бұрын

puddin cup exactly! So they’re just as guilty!

@reneehoney7355

5 жыл бұрын

The same reason people stay in cults. Threats...manipulation...etc

@kanvaswilsontv6067

5 жыл бұрын

Uriel Valdez people are way more acceptive when it’s money involved no matter how much they deny it

@lr2286

5 жыл бұрын

They saw fame and thought they was going to be stars and was willingly to go through "HELL" to get it. Even though they had access to leave ANYTIME and made no police reports on such acts.

Y’all gotta understand this a spiritual thang we dealing with. “For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.”- Ephesians 6:12 ... it’s not R.Kelly it’s what’s INSIDE HIM. yeah it’s him physically but it’s what’s IN HIM. Blessings❤️

@rick9er

5 жыл бұрын

Esther Igu trash that was weak as hell

@essyxfreshness4gud

5 жыл бұрын

Roderick Thomas Blessings bro ❤️

So much strength, so inspirational

i feel for these women . I was in a physical and mental abusive relationship for four years. People that have never been in a situation such as this can not say that these woman are "stupid or its their faults" its a mental hold on yu. The mind control will make you feel weak and afraid to what may happen to you . its real people . im 22 years old and i made it out alive .

These beautiful women are strong ❤️❤️❤️

Am worried for this women , if that trial backfires and r kelly walks stalk free theres a very high chance they will be found dead over a " suicide" car failure"" accidental fire " coverup . They are going to need a lot of protection if at all r kelly walks free , if i were any of them i would consider moving to another country

@francessilva3869

4 жыл бұрын

I thought the same thing. They should have waited until after court, because now this could throw the jury off the case. I hope they have protection. I really do. But it could go the other way too? Someone might take matters in their own hands. It's a horrible story. I hope they all heal. There's a lot of hurt in this story.

Andrea Kelly is absolutely disgusting. Im not victim shaming but don’t use your platform to bash this man one second then get on another platform calling him “Baby daddy” and playing his music. Is a check worth your integrity?

Thank you precious woman for speaking out!!!

Kiti Jones the women that made a conscious decision to quit her job and regular life and go be with RKelly now playing the victim. Girl bye.

Where is the piece on charlie sheen and kevin spacey?

@jebbie2595

5 жыл бұрын

@Lars Honeytoast *I'm not sure what you're talking about w/ Charlie Sheen. As for Kevin Spacey, as far as I know there's only a few (2 or 3) who've made allegations against him. I'm definitely not saying those few people don't matter but it's not big enough for the media to do a big production on. With R. Kelly you've got 15+ women speaking out, 2 women w/ him now who'se families haven't seen or spoken to in 2+ yrs, the sex tape & Aleigha (?spelling?) thing from way back, the child pornography thing he was acquitted on from way back, the peeing thing from way back... The culmination of everything over the years & now the **#MeToo** & **#TimesUp** movements have made this a huge story. Having said that, I do think we'll be seeing a big production piece on Harvey Weinstein very soon. Now that's one man that definitely needs to go down. He's the devil on Earth.*

Some will say "And this is the result of being fast and thinking you know what you're doing when you really don't." But seriously I pray that these women get the help that they need to heal and move forward. And if this man is the creator of all this drama and others like him out there doing the same thing (who's not on his level,) take them down but get them help as well. This is sad and sick but it didn't start with Robert, this is been accepted in our community for as long as I was a teenager and even before then. There's too many broken women in the world and it's unfortunate that monsters seek them for self-gratification. Ladies listen to your mother or positive influence when they're telling you to slow down, when they're trying to teach you the right way. This might be a setback for some of you but it's also a comeback to love yourself, and to know that you deserve better..You are better then this. My prayers go out to everyone involved. I will be honest I am with mixed emotions because I grew up on his music. He has been a part of our household for many years so forgive me if I assume that a part of this is Revenge. I keep reading that he will be taking down just as Bill Cosby has. My response is the difference between Bill Cosby and R Kelly is that these women accused Bill Cosby of rape. The women of Roberts Camp willingly went, and willingly participated (trying to be grown except the ex wife), until the abuse took place. Regardless ABUSE IS ABUSE. I applaud you all for telling your story. You might have saved someone's life today.

Please parents no matter how famous someone is protect your children no matter who it is

I don't support Kelz in anyway shape or form but none of these women were forced to go to his house. They went to him at their own freewill. They went coz of money and to have a taste of f his celebrity. So y'all should start giving some chunk of blame to this ladies coz they knew of his escapades for years bfo linking up with him. 📠

@tbennett77489

5 жыл бұрын

So the 14 year old girl needs to be blamed for what he did as a grown man y'all don't understand the power of manipulation we all are victims of some type of manipulation whether it be funny thing clothing hairstyles xcetera we all want to fit in and be a part of something even you

@samuelsglover

5 жыл бұрын

@@tbennett77489 I didn't see any fourteen year old in this clip. My comment was based on the vid clip at hand featuring grown ass women who saw a burning fire and chose to put their hands in it knowing fully well that it burns but chose to disregard it coz they had the intention that it might glow them. up. The funny thing is, some of these women were in the relationship with dude for a while they said so their selves. Why they kept on coming back to the so called "sexual predator"? were they kidnapped and chain? No! Am just saying..

@lindalolly6318

5 жыл бұрын

They had a choice. Why there were there at the first place. The time is coming. Truth will prevail.

@nicolenikki4858

5 жыл бұрын

@@samuelsglover right

@sunshinettavares1111

5 жыл бұрын

Agree they were after gold and luxurious life just goldiggers

I'm really looking forward to the surviving Harvey Weinstein documentary

Texans really need to put up 7 before halftime. Adjustments at halftime.

You don't know until you are deep in..we have to forgive ourselves for allowing someone to treat us so poorly as most of us are from broken homes looking for love, trusting that this man adult will do all the right things and know better, which It was not the case in my experience..(not with R.kelly) but I've met a predator who simply prey on pure hearted people it is not about the age..it is about the purity in someone that the predators own corruption finds satisfaction in destroying the purity of that person...you will find this purity mostly in young people that's why he chose young women...

1:45 that man would have been Robert, Drea. Don’t act like you didn’t think about what he would have done to your own daughter.

Anyone see a pattern with the females here that he selects?

@lr2286

5 жыл бұрын

Yes! They choose that life and their parents didn't care because they thought there were going to get fame and money..

@pavanman6632

5 жыл бұрын

@@lr2286 sad that their own parents pimping them but i also noticed other characteristics about these women

@pavanman6632

5 жыл бұрын

@@lr2286 they all have very low self esteem and they're all minorities...

No one is putting DOWN PEOPLE who were actually ABUSED.BUT,THESE GIRLS WERE NOT ABUSED JUST WANTED MONEY, AND SEX,AND A GREAT LIFESTYLE, THEN BECAME JEALOUS AND ANGRY WHEN GOT TIRED OF TAKING CARE OF THEM,AND THEIR MONEY AND FREE LIVING CAME TO AND END

Who Else Thought That Was Kelly Rowland on the thumbnail?

@muezzathestray750

5 жыл бұрын

Never

There’s two sides to everything and y’all signed up for HIS lifestyle

@grosshovideouploads3636

5 жыл бұрын

As underage girls who clearly knew everything up front, right

Why now, after all those years ???

@ashyartt6202

5 жыл бұрын

Mulbah Johnson because at the time, during the height of Kelly’s career, nobody wouldn’t have believed them

@mulbahjohnson2732

5 жыл бұрын

@@ashyartt6202 I believe that was because they were all enjoying the huge money he had at the time. Now that they no longer have such opportunity, so they decide to stain his character and mess him up

@hueyhendrix7040

5 жыл бұрын

Does it matter ???? He still did it

@mulbahjohnson2732

5 жыл бұрын

Huey Hendrix No one denying that he did it but my question and the concerns of many is, why didn’t they raise alarm at the time of the alleged crimes? Why now?

@jennifercook1875

5 жыл бұрын

Mulbah Johnson there is a space and Avenue. 2008 showed he was untouchable and there was no benefit to coming forward. The mute r Kelly movement and the articles showed them hey maybe the tides are turning maybe people are ready to listen. Me too gave a lot of people an avenue and the strength to come forward on sexual assault.

The moment when you read comments from people supporting him as if every last one of these women are lying. You don't have to be a young girl to be abused in any way. Mental abuse is something tough!

I've been through verbal and physical abuse. I completely understand where they are coming from.

I was ONLY 19 or 20 at that time and looking for a grown man. OF course she knew she was hunting R.Kelly.....GROWN

My take on Drea Kelly and this whole #SurvivingRkelly thing My thing is this when he was at the top of his career you knew that he married an underage girl "Aaliyah" he was allegedly messing with underage girls and doing all these things with these girls that you were made aware of and you still chose to marry him you still chose to work for him you still chose to have kids by him and it makes me question what your motives are and I understand that it's easier for a victim to be able to come out when one victim have said that they have been abused but to me the timing of it all is just questionable it comes out right after the Bill Cosby Fiasco it comes out during the height of the me-too movement and I really side-eye this me-too movement because they have yet to convict any white men who are actually out here raping abusing molesting and being Predators against young girls and even some young boys but why I look at it sideways is because when it comes to R.Kelly everybody is coming out now when they should have got him locked up a long time ago but a lot of these people are coming out now when everybody else is pouncing on him I measure people character based upon how they treat somebody when they wining while he was winning everybody was hush-hush everybody kept secrets you walking in on him with little girls you not saying nothing but now that its popular to go after him now that we have #MuteRKelly #cancelRKelly you removing him off Spotify everybody is blocking him from being able to perform live and all these things I look at these people very questionably because why you are so quick to give him off to your lil niece give him off to your daughters you knew he was flying them out you knew that they was living with him and because he had the promise of a career it was okay but now that there's money to be made and everybody having a scandal he allegedly given STDs and all these things now everybody come out a lot of y'all need to be locked up with him because a lot of y'all was his accomplice who knew what he was doing and because checks was rolling in and a promise of a career yall sat back and did nothing y'all are just as responsible as he is

@lhem0361

5 жыл бұрын

I ditto most of what you said. In the past 30 years, whh us KELLZ The only person in heir

@lhem0361

5 жыл бұрын

So sorry, got distracted. I agree with most of what you said. HOWEVER, why was Kellz the only entertainer...MAN, WOMAN, OR CHILD, IN AMERICA, TO BRING A "TALENTED" TEENAGED GIRL, IN PUBERTY, INTO THE BUSINESS? THIS IS A CLASSIC EXAMPLE OF "CAN'T SEE THE FOREST FOR LOOKING AT THE

Unfortunately there will always be woman that he will be able to manipulate. It's up to the parents to educate their daughters about men like him

The problem I have with some of these women is that some of them was in their 30s, which meant they had choices to make once they found out who he really was. He didn't force them to stay they wanted too. The only sorrow I do have for is the younger girls he preyed on especially knowing their age. What he did to sparkle niece was terrible but also was the parents fought too for letting it happen and letting him off the hook for money. R kelly need seek help and God that's all because there is no excuse for him to abuse these women all because of his childhood.

I don't even know what to make of all this ...I really don't

@zettawilson2236

5 жыл бұрын

I feel the same way and don't know neither. Yikes

@SpiritualSchmuck

5 жыл бұрын

It's hard for people to escape abuse. It's a pattern that is really hard to break. Plus when the abuser is famous and rich it's even more intimidating.

This Andrea Kelly is sooooo fake!!!!

It’s so sad how uneducated people are about the various types of abuse. It’s easy to say just leave or someone is lying but believe me you are way in over your head before you realize it and completely isolated in every way thinkable. It takes everyone a different amount of time to build the courage to leave. This is the same thing that happens in cults and religious groups, you get brainwashed by someone you love and admire.

@KingTravisRBerry

Жыл бұрын

R kelly was a victim of abuse hisself so if he was abused what example does he have to look to on how to treat women he has some psychological damage he hasn't sat down with a therapist to talk to because he is always performing maybe that's his way of coping and to distract him if he was abused and there were no consequences for his abuser,so54 this behavior will seem normal to him. He's following a similar pattern of his abuser only difference is he got caught, now if his abusers were prosecuted he would know better and wouldn't commit the same crimes. Think about how he feel you all sit and talk about abuse but some men suffer in silence. Viewing being a victim as not something society thinks a man should be. Now that he know his behavior is against the law. He probably won't repeat the same pattern of abuse we have to learn that certain things are unlawful . It 's taught not something we expect people to just know. Who knows the feelings he has about being abused flashbacks repressed memories victimization powerless distrust he has if he was molested who knows how he feels or what he goes thru a family member well i will say this some women become lesbians when they are molested by male fam members. This became normal to him most dudes from my hood would say man if my sis tried me like that i probably slap her i dont play that. The bible talks about incest if you cant read how can you look in a dictionary and know what that is? He was powerless to get molested cause he didn't and couldn't stop it. Now he in a position of power he does same thing. He has some unresolved issues that stem from him being molested. I suggest you all go to therapy instead of portraying this bad image of him. He's repeating this cycle of abuse . He doesn't know how to treat a lady. He can't read or write he crys during interviews he has some emotional issues.

If he was such a cobra, why stay married to him for 10 years? And dated him for 3?

The me too movement is not supporting these women of color that he did these horrific things too. The movement is not just for white women. Stand up for us all not just white women. If they was white he would have been in jail.I support them all and stand up for them all. The me too movement need to do the same.

These women had consensual relationship with Kelly. He did not reciprocate loyalty, now they want to destroy him. Thats not about abuse, this is revenge!!!!!

Prayers going up for the all of the alleged Victms and their Families. Justice must be done ! Some Guys choose the most innocent victims from poor and dysfunctional families...the Parents have to really get it right for their KIDS

For the women out there just spoke out against sexual abuse molestation any kind of abuse I'm proud of you it takes strength and courage to do it and not many people get that could the day was in your shoe I do not scream to the rooftops so I praise you and we need more people like you to stand up don't allow sexual predators to get away and take back the power

BELIEVE WOMEN 2019 ‼️

Say, what you will...but everrrrrry one of those girls went to live with him voluntarily. R. Kelly didn’t put a gun to their heads to make them be with him. Everrrrrrrry one of those girls wanted a love relationship with him, but instead was treated bad. Hence, is why he’s not in jail. My point is, those girls needs to take some responsibility on their part. That’s the part you will not hear.

@winlisebrown9284

5 жыл бұрын

they did go voluntarily but they couldnt get out after that

Why dont we call ALL of them out like JZ,Dr.DRE, Snoop,Mystick, Jackie wilson,etc. If there is NO PROOF that can stand up in court against RK NOW, then i am not interested in what coulda or shoulda happen! Just old news regurgitated.

I’m so in shocked I just found out about all this

I’m sorry but the only woman I really felt heart broken over was his wife she didn’t have to go through what she went through she really loved him and was there for him BUT those girlFRIENDS SO CALLLED was in it for the money and fame and sex and when he took over them they was new shit was real let’s be real WHAT PARENT WILL LET THEIR OWN CHILD NOT COME HOME FOR A WEEK AND THEY ONLY 17 come on now this is what going on is beyond everything what they saying us money is the root of all evil

during all the abuse.. not a single one of these women could pick up a phone and call the police.. or just leave..

@koorog9860

5 жыл бұрын

Honestly? All these girls were selected carefully - very young, not smart, vulnerable, low self esteem and for sure not from a supportive background.

@andrespace6088

5 жыл бұрын

Miind control..weak minded .no remorse? REALLY?

@candesok7926

5 жыл бұрын

Until your in that situation plz don't judge, be happy they got out.

@jtaj6437

5 жыл бұрын

What you mean leave the $$$$, no they can't do that.

@lr2286

5 жыл бұрын

They did have phone access, they had freedoms to leave according to what i watched on the documentary. The parents also allowed their child to go with him because they thought their child would become famous and they trusted him even though it was knowned and rumored that he was a "pedophile"...

Just my opinion I don't discredit their stories because yes he definitely was wrong but for those that sought him out and knew the history why would you think he wouldn't do it to you . Would you seek out a serial killer and then you have the one crying saying " She was my baby " but you brought females to him everyone that was in his circle should be prosecuted this series may just be the amo to finally get something done 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

I just wanna sit and leave this here. This women had small kids at that moment in time I wouldn’t wanna speak out against my children father neither she waited until they got big enough to tell her truth to them and that is being a mother first now still using his last name sis got me messed up

Drea ain’t shit, she’s still carrying his last name.

@lr2286

5 жыл бұрын

That is so confusing and crazy to me! How could you keep someones last name that supposedly caused you so much pain and embarrassement? She was just recently in her car blasting R. Kelly song and singing it like it was a party and telling people to buy his albums too!?!🤔

@butterflyangel75

5 жыл бұрын

Drea Kelly seems so fake to me.

@lr2286

5 жыл бұрын

@@butterflyangel75 Shes fake to anyone who can see through her bullshit! 🗣You are not alone

@butterflyangel75

5 жыл бұрын

@@lr2286 Right, she's clout chasing right now. Jumping on this hot topic just to be seen. Because why now she has a problem with him supposedly........

@lr2286

5 жыл бұрын

@@butterflyangel75 Just crazy! It blows my mind

This Is So Scary 😦

All her kids 18 she barely has rent money now from child support

It's not about money! I went through the same thing they have a right to speak up