I’d rather be single than have a husband who says they’re a better husband and father when they cheat. Feels like a slap in the face to me

If you’re struggling to stay faithful in a relationship then I don’t think you’re actually ready to be in a relationship 😆

That first caller is in some serious denial. Like he’s not even your boyfriend.

You aren’t happier when you are cheating, you are happier when you are selfish, undisciplined, and doing whatever you want when you want. Of course that makes you ‘happier’ But that’s not life. Life is not making yourself happy and be damned the consequences or how it makes people feel. People need to grow the hell up and stop acting like selfish little children.

@anthonyb6578

6 ай бұрын

Maybe they are happy and this is the way they live their life? Who are you to judge? Maybe your the child for going on line blasting someone’s life style

@jenellenelson4447

6 ай бұрын

​@@anthonyb6578when it affects someone else and you just don't care, that's not a great lifestyle to live. It's a selfish one.

@AlisonRuthless

6 ай бұрын

@vannah0411, this all day long. Agree 100%.

@vannah0411

6 ай бұрын

@@anthonyb6578Someone can choose whatever lifestyle the want to be happy, i am all for that. But not when it impacts someone else negatively. Then it is selfish. If you want to be with other partners, find a spouse who is on board with that. Or stay single. The key word in my comment is “cheating”. If someone is “cheating” then that implies their partner has no idea and/or is not okay with that external relationship being a part of their marriage/relationship. So yes, I will in fact judge someone who is “cheating” in their marriage as selfish and childish.

It never ceases to amaze me how people twist themselves into pretzels & any morals/ethics/conscience into a mangled, unrecognizable mess in order to justify what they selfishly want. To be clear, I am judging these guys hardcore who try to rationalize violating their commitments while also disrespecting their SO. Not to mention the ick factor & increased risk of acquiring & passing along an STD, etc. All the protection in the world can ultimately fail at times.

Most of the men who say they need it and all the excuses for it would lose it if their spouse was doing the same thing with the same excuses.

Based on the last callers thoughts on how he was better... he did not have a wife who would relieve his pressures. I would like to have asked him if his wife could have helped him release pressure and how his wife was releasing her own pressures. Because if he was his wife release and she was not his... then that would be the problem that needs to be addressed and maybe he wouldn't have to or even feel the need to cheat!

If you have time to cheat, that means you are not spending your free time on being present in your relationship.

People are so twisted. You’ve gotta be very very narcissistic to actually admit that this is the way you think and not realize this makes you sound like a total tool. From the wife’s perspective what happened was; she married a man. She thought they were happy. Found out he was cheating. She was gracias enough to forgive and give him a chance to clean up his act. Not only did he do it again, he broke her trust irreparably and the only time he was kind, caring and detail oriented was when there was another woman involved which means lifelong trust issues for her, never knowing if things are maybe “too good to be true”.

I have that same feeling and always thought i was strange for it. The way i like to explain it to people is everyone loves a vacation but after 2-3 days u just want to go home. Now, when u go home u appreciate your home again and it’s renewed and refreshed. The vacay was fun but it basically just pressed the reset button on your life.

@nicolefuentes2147

6 ай бұрын

So that means you would be ok with your spouse also taking that same vaction right?

@RJayMunoz

6 ай бұрын

@@nicolefuentes2147 if we’re happier because of it then why not?

Have to wonder how the sidepieces feel about all of this...

It’s works for some and doesn’t work for some. To each their own 🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️🤷‍♀️

Sexless marriage. Same situation. I'll never get married again

@M5snowhite

6 ай бұрын

You know kristin and cassie have both stated they rarely ever have sex with their husbands. Somehow Bart and Chad still stick around, personally i cant understand how they are okay with it, i couldnt.

It seems to me he'd need to find a partner who is into a polyamorous relationship. Nothing wrong with that. Just need to be straight up about it.

Grow up.