These English Grammar Rules DON'T EXIST!!

To really improve your English, you're gonna have to learn how to break the grammar rules! And that's exactly what we're doing in today's English grammar lesson! Or... wait... anti-grammar lesson?
0:43 - Should you never end a sentence with a preposition?
2:44 - Can I say "If I was..."? Or MUST it always be "If I were..."?
5:00 - Is it WHO or WHOM!?
7:09 - Can you use Stative Verbs in Continuous Tenses?
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  • @mohitachauhan9084
    @mohitachauhan9084 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for posting such an amazing lesson 😊

  • @chrolka6255
    @chrolka6255 Жыл бұрын

    I'm a little mad that so many KZreadrs undermine the value of teachers. Any teacher worth their salt will tell a student whether a rule is outdated or not. Heck! Even textbooks sometimes mention that this and that rule is not always used by native speakers.

  • @Dareios074
    @Dareios07410 ай бұрын

    Thank you mate. Nobody ever told me this. Native speakers obviously don‘t take the grammar as seriously as learners do. And that causes a lot of misunderstanding and confusion

  • @olgamir8036
    @olgamir8036 Жыл бұрын

    Aly's like a fine wine - becoming better and better. I sincerely enjoy your every lesson, even if I already know pieces of grammar and vocabulary you're talking about. It's just the best! Makes my grammar, vocabulary and life full 🙂❤

  • @jamal1619
    @jamal1619 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this interesting lesson

  • @englishwithphil42
    @englishwithphil42 Жыл бұрын

    When this showed up in my feed, I was expecting the usual "say this, not that" clickbait-type video or just saying "listen to how they speak in Hollywood movies, anything goes!" But all four of the "rules" you have mentioned are rather advanced and some of my best students still have misconceptions about them. Props to you!

  • @zeugl1271
    @zeugl1271 Жыл бұрын

    You: I'm having a friend. Your friend: Thanks for having me! Love that little moment of Matt Lukas and Stephen Fry in QI: - Knock-nock. - Who's there? - Two. - Two who? - To whom!

  • @ddias8013
    @ddias8013 Жыл бұрын

    Another amazing explanation, Aly! I absolutely love your videos every time!!! I had trouble understanding some lyrics when I was learning English at the very beginning... In some Beyonce’s songs she sings “He don't...” 🤷‍♀️

  • @muzibullah22
    @muzibullah22 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much sir for this amazing lesson!

  • @tigradigra
    @tigradigra Жыл бұрын

    I’m loving this video!💪🏽👏👏👏

  • @alicerossi_ap
    @alicerossi_ap Жыл бұрын

    Thank you very much Aly, I really like grammar in general and you, indirectly, made it even more fascinating. Another often not applied rule that came to my mind is the double negative like in the title of this song (which I love): "(There) ain't no stoppin' us now" As always, see you in the next class 🤩

  • @birger8036
    @birger8036 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the video! 😃

  • @fatimagomes6525
    @fatimagomes6525 Жыл бұрын

    Always great teaching, always fun, always perfect!!!

  • @deisya
    @deisya Жыл бұрын

    Another enjoyable English lesson! It's so easy to learn English with you. A bunch of thanks, Aly!

  • @papateachme

    @papateachme

    Жыл бұрын

    Cheers deisy!

  • @olachomik
    @olachomik Жыл бұрын

    I'm loving it😊

  • @rand1486
    @rand1486 Жыл бұрын

    6:36 OMG 😂 I instantly remembered Ross when you were talking about how almost no one uses whom in everyday English Love your lessons 🤍

  • @mariajosefernandez4977
    @mariajosefernandez4977 Жыл бұрын

    Ali I always love your lessons And right now … I’m loving this one so much! Thanks for everything 🥰

  • @dadangburhanudin123
    @dadangburhanudin123 Жыл бұрын

    I'm loving this lesson❤️

  • @dorotab6644
    @dorotab6644 Жыл бұрын

    Papa, I love and adore you - in the Present Simple because that is a permanent condition 🙂. You have a lot of students from all over the world and a much broader perspective than I do. So I believe it's fair to assume that there are teachers/textbooks that teach outdated/non-existent grammar rules. But I am afraid that's a bit of overgeneralisation. In Poland, where I come from, the textbooks are written by the English and are either 2-5 years old or are regularly renewed. I have never ever heard the rule "Never end a sentence with a preposition" from a teacher (I started learning English more than 40 years ago). And those who regarded "If I was..." incorrect have already retired. So I hope it's not that bad with the English skills of the teachers in Poland 🙂

  • @luisadigaudio7047
    @luisadigaudio7047 Жыл бұрын

    Aly , the more I watch your vídeos, the more I admire the sort of teacher you are! What a pleasure to have sby. like you to learn English! Thanks a lot!

  • @papateachme

    @papateachme

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks so much Luisa! Have a great day!

  • @fernandamaita8857
    @fernandamaita8857 Жыл бұрын

    Great lesson Aly!!!! Love your channel! Greetings from Argentina! 😊😘

  • @papateachme

    @papateachme

    Жыл бұрын

    Graciaaaaaas!!

  • @jayfromthesky
    @jayfromthesky Жыл бұрын

    I'm having a whale of a time with this video of yours. Thanks!

  • @raunaksingh6115
    @raunaksingh6115 Жыл бұрын

    Thank You 😁😁

  • @user-ix8tn5vg1w
    @user-ix8tn5vg1w Жыл бұрын

    спасибо! Thank you!

  • @elvirasachs9170
    @elvirasachs9170 Жыл бұрын

    Great!!!!👏👏

  • @floratsakona3724
    @floratsakona3724 Жыл бұрын

    Very helpful video. I think another grammar rule I was taught is to never start a sentence with the word but or and. I think in formal writing this is correct but I hear a lot of native English speakers use but or and at the beginning of the sentence when they speak. It sounds natural.Thanks for sharing !

  • @papateachme

    @papateachme

    Жыл бұрын

    Oh god that’s a good one yeah!!’

  • @samaelsilas7500
    @samaelsilas7500 Жыл бұрын

    7:10 remember the day we had this rule in the lesson. Later that day I saw the McDonals moto which was 'loving it'

  • @gonzachambi3937
    @gonzachambi3937 Жыл бұрын

    4:36 quite a truly hillarious moment 😂😂😂😂😂 thanks for being awesome and clarify lots of doubts.

  • @Erulindya
    @Erulindya Жыл бұрын

    Thanks, Papa! I really like your lessons...

  • @papateachme

    @papateachme

    Жыл бұрын

    They like you too! ✌️ happy studying!

  • @danielsimonpratt
    @danielsimonpratt Жыл бұрын

    Great video and very useful as always. One thing, though, you said at the start of the video it works good in Latin, but I think you mean to say it works well 🤗 As an English language teacher myself you are such a motivation and source of knowledge. Keep up the amazing work!

  • @papateachme

    @papateachme

    Жыл бұрын

    No no. I meant to say “good” ✌️

  • @MC-rq9bd
    @MC-rq9bd11 ай бұрын

    I love you, Alastair, you're great!

  • @martindellavella2905
    @martindellavella2905 Жыл бұрын

    I'm "having" loads of applauseS 4 u mate!

  • @giuliofaldetta6687
    @giuliofaldetta6687 Жыл бұрын

    "Off my alarm is going" is what Yoda says every morning

  • @birger8036
    @birger8036 Жыл бұрын

    3:54 It's interesting for me to hear that textbooks say that it's “were” in the first person form as well. Our high school teacher taught us to say, “If I was…”. But then don't I know if he intentionally broke the rule because he knew better?

  • @ocraggy
    @ocraggy Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for this video! I know a lot of textbooks where the authors even cross out such sentences as bad, e.g. "I am going to go", and so one could continue with many other examples. One more example occurred to me. After "if" there is never future tense which is not true because not every sentence with if is conditional. For example: I don't know if he will give me the money.

  • @papateachme

    @papateachme

    Жыл бұрын

    I had a teacher colleague during a meeting once argue that “gonna” and “wanna” were wrong 😂😂

  • @urszulaniebo5807
    @urszulaniebo5807 Жыл бұрын

    Many years ago I was tought that when you are greeting somebody you say „ How do you do?” and the answer is „How do you do” 😅 I realny love your lessons, Aly❣️ Greetings from Poland 😍

  • @rickimam

    @rickimam

    Жыл бұрын

    Same here 😂

  • @t72shatch7
    @t72shatch7 Жыл бұрын

    Здраствуйте алй/ Hello aly, Keep going, you looks great today

  • @karelpeeters1994
    @karelpeeters1994 Жыл бұрын

    My alarm is offgoing !🤣😂😝 While watching this video, Aly, I was eating a bowl of ... veg brothe, but without the ramen. Same principle, same ingredients: combu-shitake shoyu and some veg and a little "Dutch maatje" (hering) and tofu, njamie, njamie!

  • @vegtamr_
    @vegtamr_ Жыл бұрын

    going off my alarm is, yoda said...

  • @onesandzeroes
    @onesandzeroes Жыл бұрын

    Never end a sentence with a preposition? Never heard of this rule, never seen it in any coursebook. Unless for a different language.

  • @X-Cape649
    @X-Cape649 Жыл бұрын

    "For whom the bell tolls" to be used by Metallica only - kidding and Papa you rock 🤟

  • @papateachme

    @papateachme

    Жыл бұрын

    🤘

  • @theswede303
    @theswede303 Жыл бұрын

    Hi Ali! How do you pronounce gaslight in british english? Could you please make a lesson on words like awesome, amazing and such and explain what they mean and when to use them? Example sentences… cheers 🙋🏼‍♀️

  • @marianoscotti8899
    @marianoscotti8899 Жыл бұрын

    👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏You are the best in the West ! El número uno ! Un abrazo, from Olivos, Buenos Aires, Argentina🇦🇷🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿🇬🇧🇦🇷🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿🇬🇧🇦🇷🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿🇬🇧

  • @papateachme

    @papateachme

    Жыл бұрын

    Graciaaaaas !

  • @dipandra9758
    @dipandra9758 Жыл бұрын

    Gracias, nene.

  • @vikash9631
    @vikash9631 Жыл бұрын

    Can you suggest a good vocabulary book📕.

  • @1vezleien1libro
    @1vezleien1libro Жыл бұрын

    I guess I can say "I'm having lots of problems with that", for example?

  • @kulik03
    @kulik03 Жыл бұрын

    For the other rles that don't really matter I would say "there's" or "there was" with a plural noun and the so called difference between "must" and "have to" which doesnt seem to be a real rule nowadays

  • @TorstenFeig
    @TorstenFeig Жыл бұрын

    Could it be that 'off' is no preposition in 'going off', but an adverb? At least according to the examples in wiktionary. In any case, having a preposition at the end of a sentence sounds very familiar for German people (like me :)

  • @flaviopessato8072
    @flaviopessato8072 Жыл бұрын

    The problema are grammar rules/,,usage which Is different in British and American English, e.g. tenses with just or recently

  • @elzbietamichalik6520
    @elzbietamichalik6520 Жыл бұрын

    What about coloured future?

  • @datpham2482
    @datpham2482 Жыл бұрын

    Well , another 'grammar rule' that I would like to add is the 'It's I' instead of 'It's me', me and my friend just have argued over this rubbish and I can't even believe the 'It's I' does exist after googling it.

  • @flaviopessato8072
    @flaviopessato8072 Жыл бұрын

    Or ' or "s after names ending in -s in the possessive case

  • @tatyanam1721
    @tatyanam1721 Жыл бұрын

    As for prepositions.....which books say it?

  • @johnclarke1319
    @johnclarke1319 Жыл бұрын

    something on green-washing vocab please

  • @diegomarquez4320
    @diegomarquez4320 Жыл бұрын

    Solid lesson. Reminded me of a few things like "For whom...?" However, isn't "going off" a phrasal verb? Therefore, isn't the word "off" a particle then?

  • @beckfield1

    @beckfield1

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly what I was about to say. I'm skeptical of the claim that the rule against ending sentences with a preposition "never existed," but the rule doesn't "fail completely" in the case of a phrasal verb -- the rule doesn't even apply.

  • @tanchik777
    @tanchik777 Жыл бұрын

    hey-ho, my like is the first one. I hope the video is of great help for me

  • @TomaszWolny
    @TomaszWolny Жыл бұрын

    Great lesson! :) I have a question. In the example with "I'm loving this pizza", can I say "Oh, I love this pizza"? Why I shouldn't? Why it should be "I'm loving..." or "I'm love..."? Pozdro z Polski! :)

  • @papateachme

    @papateachme

    Жыл бұрын

    Sorry for the misunderstanding! You absolutely CAN say “I LOVE this pizza”. My point was that in this context you can say BOTH 🤘😁

  • @gulsukurlu
    @gulsukurlu Жыл бұрын

    Teacher you absoluty true ,but all textbooks and all teacher wants grammar I dont know why this is as this🤦🏻‍♀️for speaking grammar is not veryy major,l think

  • @nuriazuazo3822
    @nuriazuazo3822 Жыл бұрын

    I'm going to look very stupid but I didn't understand the last example. What does it mean with "I'm having my friends"? Is it "I'm having my friend's" in the sense that I'm having whatever my friend is eating?

  • @leninvalarezo9511
    @leninvalarezo9511 Жыл бұрын

    Another rule I was taught is the magic "E". We all know that the sound of the vowels in English is different to their names so, the magic "E" makes this vowels sound same as their names. Example: hat - hate, sit - site, pin - pine, etc. What would you say about that?

  • @grassytramtracks
    @grassytramtracks10 ай бұрын

    In modern Romance languages, like French, prepositions just don't sound right at the end of sentences like in English, and phrasal verbs don't really exist, but English is English, not Latin

  • @mehditila7424
    @mehditila7424 Жыл бұрын

    💙💙💙

  • @viktoriapolonskaya7883
    @viktoriapolonskaya7883 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you 😍. I always had that feeling that the 2nd condition phrase “ If I was… “ exists🙃. BTW you said “dark example” - what is the proper meaning of it?

  • @bslday

    @bslday

    Жыл бұрын

    Ну, если это действительно "dark", смысл должен быть вполне очевиден. Dark humor, dark comedy.. just like that

  • @lilychuang8649
    @lilychuang8649 Жыл бұрын

    4:33 😂😂😂

  • @flaviopessato8072
    @flaviopessato8072 Жыл бұрын

    And I also think that some grammar rules are not clear to non native speakers because some categories are extremeley vague to them For example no stative verbs After would for past habits? I wouldn't know how to classify some verbs in English

  • @lindareti932
    @lindareti932 Жыл бұрын

    Great video, thank you. 😘 I was listening a rap song. Snoop said: "...he DON'T drive a Cadillac." Can we use "do" or "don't" or "does/doesn't" are the only correct words (next to he/she/it). Thank you.

  • @szymonkaszubski1164
    @szymonkaszubski1164 Жыл бұрын

    "I'm having my friend for dinner" Hehehe!

  • @jvelhinha
    @jvelhinha Жыл бұрын

    👏👏👍

  • @Proidysweet
    @Proidysweet Жыл бұрын

    Hey, I am familiar with all of these. One of the teachers in my uni said I cannot let sentences end in preposition. Fortunately, I ignored this “rule” back then, because I liked how it sounds with the preposition at the end :D And I've been just recently corrected by my teacher when I said 'If I was...' xD Now, about stative verbs in continuous tenses. I've actually watched one of ur previous videos about this, and I am using it properly now. Really helps to express my feelings better ^-^

  • @papateachme

    @papateachme

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah I don’t understand when people get super opinionated about what’s “proper” English. It seems classist and ridiculous

  • @alsaba5203
    @alsaba5203 Жыл бұрын

    Use a sentence with propositions at the end. Sounds so sophisticated, British and cool. Either get it or don't - what are your waiting for?

  • @ivanzhukov7753
    @ivanzhukov7753 Жыл бұрын

    Dear Aly, if you were my teacher at school, I would have learned English in a couple of years.😊

  • @beckfield1
    @beckfield1 Жыл бұрын

    Yes, people say "If I was..." when they should be saying "If I were...," but it isn't because they're just being less formal -- it's because they never learned the rule.

  • @reema711
    @reema711 Жыл бұрын

    May I ask a question , plz ? Which one of these sentences is correct ? I failed in remembering to thank you . I failed to remember to thank you. I failed in remembering thanking you. " I failed to remember thanking you."

  • @tmblighty917
    @tmblighty917 Жыл бұрын

    8:42 - apart from this one. How about 'I am having ten friends for dinner next weekend' to mean visitors rather then food?

  • @chouettechocapic

    @chouettechocapic

    Жыл бұрын

    I would add "over" to specify they're coming to your place. Like so: "I am having ten friends over for dinner next week"

  • @tmblighty917

    @tmblighty917

    Жыл бұрын

    @@chouettechocapic you're right! Just these four letters make a big difference to ten innocent lives Or 'ten letters makes a difference'? (-:

  • @saraphanar6507
    @saraphanar6507 Жыл бұрын

    Oh I know one rule that never existed. Using "shall" for future simple with I and we. We shall come instead of we will come. When we talk about our own will for the future we never use shall 👩‍🎓

  • @davidepavesi5263
    @davidepavesi5263 Жыл бұрын

    2:11 If you say it, you're going to be either ridiculous or as wise as Master Yoda

  • @hellofriend4318
    @hellofriend4318 Жыл бұрын

    "there are"

  • @Luka-ec1gk
    @Luka-ec1gk Жыл бұрын

    I remembered that dark joke from ... Dunno exactly...

  • @charlesstaudt2077
    @charlesstaudt2077 Жыл бұрын

    EXCELLENT 👏👏👏 Charles Staudt FROM BRAZIL 🇧🇷

  • @papateachme

    @papateachme

    Жыл бұрын

    Bom DIAAAA!!! 🇧🇷!

  • @charlesstaudt2077

    @charlesstaudt2077

    Жыл бұрын

    @@papateachme 👍👍👍

  • @olgamir8036
    @olgamir8036 Жыл бұрын

    They also teach us at schools that we cannot start a sentence with a conjunction, don't use "they" when talking about a person who's gender is unknown or wasn't mentioned before. Replying I'm fine, thank you when people greet you. And on top is "Use this structure only, 'cause it was in your book"' 😄

  • @lepusistlich6930

    @lepusistlich6930

    Жыл бұрын

    "don't use "they" when talking about a person who's gender is unknown or wasn't mentioned before" Shakespeare is spinning in his grave.

  • @nolanivane4477
    @nolanivane4477 Жыл бұрын

    Oh Filipinos would actually love to watch others’ grammar all the time and call them out if they think they’re grammatically incorrect. 😂😂

  • @mjelves
    @mjelves Жыл бұрын

    I fight for whom.

  • @papateachme

    @papateachme

    Жыл бұрын

    ✊ fight for what you believe in!

  • @kasiaczaplewska3605
    @kasiaczaplewska3605 Жыл бұрын

    oh WHOM and Ross but this lesson also reminded me of:"I do wish we could chat longer, but... I'm having an old friend for dinner. Bye. " Hannibal Lecter ;)

  • @olegsavsejenko84
    @olegsavsejenko84 Жыл бұрын

    "I'm having an old friend for dinner..." ;)

  • @user-qo7zw9wm7v
    @user-qo7zw9wm7v Жыл бұрын

    Actually, there are textbooks on advanced grammar, which cover these topics. For example, «Advanced grammar in use» with the green cover says about using stative verbs in continuous form in one if its very first units. So the title of the video seems a bit click bait to me, sorry.

  • @papateachme

    @papateachme

    Жыл бұрын

    A clickbaity title? Me?! 😂

  • @bloedekuh
    @bloedekuh Жыл бұрын

    One of my American English teachers in college once rudely told us to not say "my English is not good" because "the English language is not yours". My English wasn't good enough to argue with him at the time, if that happened these days, I would ridicule the living $h|t out of him. Seriously, a lot of English teachers are not just terrible at teaching, they are plainly terrible human beings.

  • @papateachme

    @papateachme

    Жыл бұрын

    Truth. That teacher sounds like an absolute nob

  • @tatiana35687
    @tatiana35687 Жыл бұрын

    Some English learners say 'I haven't a dog' or 'Have you a dog?' without 'got'. I always considered it wrong. And then I saw it in a text book. I googled that and found out that it's possible to say so, but this structure is kind of outdated. Is that true? What would you say, Aly?

  • @n.hitrik7258

    @n.hitrik7258

    Жыл бұрын

    Так и есть. Названная вами конструкция вышла из употребления лет 50 назад, не меньше

  • @stephen456
    @stephen456 Жыл бұрын

    I was having lots of fun until 9:30

  • @equalizerdogy4945
    @equalizerdogy4945 Жыл бұрын

    4:32 y si alguien se burlara de mi ignorancia eso no importa por qué estoy aprendiendo la crítica sería gasolina para mí 😎💪

  • @loredanatagliaferri5339
    @loredanatagliaferri5339 Жыл бұрын

    👏👏👏👏👏👏😘

  • @helenal7691
    @helenal7691 Жыл бұрын

    Was? Rally? 🤕 Whom? 🥺

  • @christianspanfellner3293
    @christianspanfellner3293 Жыл бұрын

    The funny thing about "whom" is that even some native speakers get it wrong (when they use it as a subject pronoun).

  • @seren7173
    @seren7173 Жыл бұрын

    I'd learned some wrong grammar rules that I never konw before watching the movie.

  • @otteronline6495
    @otteronline6495 Жыл бұрын

    Suppose I could say: "What are we going to have for dinner? I'm having some friends round tonight they'll keep us company". Would that be grammatically ok?

  • @AsiekiD
    @AsiekiD Жыл бұрын

    The -ing moment with Papa saying that having doesn't apply to possessive meaning of having. Me: yeah but I'm having my bf over tomorrow Papa brings the example Me ...

  • @alexmole1762
    @alexmole1762 Жыл бұрын

    So, if I start saying I am understanding you instead of understand and somebody corrects me, can I just ask him to stop being a nerd?

  • @theophonchana5025
    @theophonchana5025 Жыл бұрын

    2:11 The sentence "Off my alarm is going" doesn't make sense.

  • @Sun_of_bled0419
    @Sun_of_bled0419 Жыл бұрын

    Oh no all is mad But why you are always Live 🔴

  • @laurarivas813
    @laurarivas813 Жыл бұрын

    Is it correct to say "I'm having lots of friends coming over tonight" ?

  • @csabab3800
    @csabab3800 Жыл бұрын

    I had rather...