These 4 secrets will improve your marriage OVERNIGHT

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  • @manisfriedman
    @manisfriedman Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for watching! Join the conversation, and let us know what you think! We'd love to hear your thoughts...

  • @margomp693

    @margomp693

    Жыл бұрын

    Love your teaching, but see Jews hating Jews all over KZread so Rabbi what does be a light to the nation mean?

  • @qouiou1

    @qouiou1

    Жыл бұрын

    Dear Rabbi, as per Jewish religion, if there is no Hell/Heaven or punishment, then why do good or bad? Also since there is no concept of after life in Judaism, do you believe Hitler gets "no" punishment from God?

  • @yisroelavrahm7291

    @yisroelavrahm7291

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this video. 😊 I live in Motzkin Israel. Sunday night at what hour and what website is the VIP.

  • @yisroelavrahm7291

    @yisroelavrahm7291

    Жыл бұрын

    I am interested in whatever time slot I am able to see the VIP live conversation that is compatible with Israel day time.

  • @thetopcat8946
    @thetopcat8946 Жыл бұрын

    I'm a widow now. However I totally agree with you Rabbi. It only takes one person to change things. God is a husband to the widow. I couldn't live without God

  • @alexluthiger731

    @alexluthiger731

    Жыл бұрын

    It's always good to have dinner with God. Even his firstborn son tastes tasty. God is a good listener. 🍷😁

  • @Arwar555
    @Arwar555 Жыл бұрын

    From a Muslim.."Total Respect"..Rabbi. Great advice

  • @NoName-kf1cy
    @NoName-kf1cy4 ай бұрын

    Ive been waiting for my wife to get out of prison for nearly 5 years. Its been very hard but now its only 4 months till she gets out and it feels very surreal. Pray for me and her please!

  • @Kolofornia
    @Kolofornia Жыл бұрын

    That was beautiful and simply put. Thank you! I’m not Jewish but appreciate the way you explain things from the Bible.. blessings to you Rabbi

  • @ChildofGod98765
    @ChildofGod98765 Жыл бұрын

    The Lord gives me strength, it’s because of him I have persevered. I have two beautiful boys both are autistic. My husband passed away years ago. I’m all alone. I lost my job over declining the vaccine. LIKE MANY OTHERS! I declined due to my pre existing health conditions lupus and heart disease. I’ve been struggling to provide for myself and my children since losing my job from Forsyth hospital. I’m now waitressing, and I’m thankful, but I’m not making nearly enough to get by. Groceries are super expensive. Every month is a battle to not end up on the streets with my two children. I’m constantly in fear of losing my home. To even think about being on the streets with two young children is terrifying. But even as I face homelessness seemingly every month. I have faith, God will provide. With GOD ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE! Faith over fear.

  • @thetopcat8946

    @thetopcat8946

    Жыл бұрын

    May God send everything you need today and always. He is a husband to the widow

  • @thetopcat8946

    @thetopcat8946

    Жыл бұрын

    @@bobobobfellerann4765 amen

  • @tomskrobacz5350

    @tomskrobacz5350

    Жыл бұрын

    The opposite of faith is not fear…the opposite of faith is certainty…be forever open to unfolding understanding. Don’t assume you know God’s will…let it speak to you in nature and in time.

  • @baruchdkaufman9472

    @baruchdkaufman9472

    Жыл бұрын

    In the Torah, the same word is used for woman and wife - Isha. Please clarify in this context.

  • @tumutegyereizeben2276

    @tumutegyereizeben2276

    Жыл бұрын

    May God's Mercy be upon you and your children.... May you find Joy, amidst sorrow, May Grace, Peace, Love, hope fill your heart, now and for ever...🙏

  • @marybratz3785
    @marybratz37857 ай бұрын

    This guy is amazing. There are so many relationship gurus on youtube, but he says stuff noone else is saying.

  • @rejoyjacobvaidyan9853
    @rejoyjacobvaidyan9853 Жыл бұрын

    Rabbi brother, I am a christian.But I love you.

  • @johnjohnson26682
    @johnjohnson26682 Жыл бұрын

    Great teaching! Rabbi, I really appreciate the sincerity of purpose you express when dealing with subjects. Shalom!

  • @jameliasaili1109
    @jameliasaili11096 ай бұрын

    You're Godsent giving these teachings without asking for anything in return. You share beautiful messages... respect from Botswana❤you changed my perspective of marriage. You've erased my fear of marriage. Now I think I'm ready to embark in a relationship❤

  • @user-rk1rc3ec4v
    @user-rk1rc3ec4v6 ай бұрын

    Rabbi Friedman has a gift of imparting knowledge in such an easy way to understand. And such a calming tone. Thank you

  • @gillianweston9439
    @gillianweston9439 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Rabbi, I am going to ask my husband to watch this, as we can both learn from it.

  • @Bellapink96
    @Bellapink96 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for this teaching,. Need this in Spanish for the latin community .

  • @libertykim6438
    @libertykim6438 Жыл бұрын

    That was an awesome message. You must understand what a lot of men do. Both my husband and my father, when I ask them for something. I’d like a candle or a book for an example, I end up with ten. I don’t need ten candles or books. I just need one. It’s not that I’m ungrateful. But in America we have a problem with hoarding things we don’t need. I never understood why men do this. Maybe women too but I noticed it’s mostly a man thing. Thank you. 😊

  • @bobbyrayvictory6905

    @bobbyrayvictory6905

    Жыл бұрын

    Idk. Men and woman just hoard differently. I've never seen a man with thirty pounds of make ups and lotions in the bathroom. Just as I've never seen a lady with a stack of tarps when I need one. Is what it is. Humans are made to store for the future. If we didn't we wouldn't be any better off than chimps

  • @libertykim6438

    @libertykim6438

    Жыл бұрын

    @@bobbyrayvictory6905 Men hoard things that are practical. So that’s at least a good thing. Women feel the need to “keep up with the Jones” on beauty and fashion. Not all women but that’s what people are being taught in America.

  • @nomorecensoringme

    @nomorecensoringme

    Жыл бұрын

    For some hoarding comes from extreme deprivation, i.e., from the Depression era, poverty, etc. Maybe you could have compassion and understanding instead of criticism of America. That's also how we bri.g light into this world to bring Moshiach sooner. In America, our "wrinkles" show more than in other countries that hide theirs.

  • @libertykim6438

    @libertykim6438

    Жыл бұрын

    @@nomorecensoringme I think you need to learn to balance compassion with enabling someone with a mental illness. Would you show the same compassion for a drug addiction? How about a cheating spouse? Now in our society if we tell someone that they need to lose weight we are body shaming. Real compassion is letting someone know that they have a problem.

  • @Dan-to9hl
    @Dan-to9hl Жыл бұрын

    Your 4th point was very interesting, it's something I have arrived at in relatively recent times via a combination of trial and error and critical reflection.

  • @manisfriedman

    @manisfriedman

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the comment, Dan. And yes, sometimes trial and error along with critical reflection is the best way to learn!

  • @nomorecensoringme
    @nomorecensoringme Жыл бұрын

    I really appreciated the concept of 'not doing more' which applies to women as well as men. I've really taken that one to improve relationships.

  • @seppiwhaley3119
    @seppiwhaley3119 Жыл бұрын

    The best video on this topic. That was amazing

  • @LorenKadison
    @LorenKadison Жыл бұрын

    Thank you rabbi for helping men and women around the world may you continue to enlighten us all B"H.

  • @kevinlamberg9724
    @kevinlamberg9724 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your teaching!

  • @chiedzochitengu1426
    @chiedzochitengu1426 Жыл бұрын

    I can’t thank you enough for your content. Amazing teaching Rabbi🙏

  • @garyseeseverything8615
    @garyseeseverything8615 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Rabbi for the wisdom.

  • @Maripissini7
    @Maripissini7 Жыл бұрын

    So much Knowledge in one video! I already read two of your books, and now I’m working on your last book. My marriage (and live in general) improved so much! Thanks from Brazil.

  • @grateful1947
    @grateful1947 Жыл бұрын

    Like the explanation between men/women and husband/wife. Changes the perspective. Thanks, Rabbi!

  • @keturahh3500
    @keturahh3500 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you. Such a simple and good teaching. I see areas where I can improve and make my marriage better.

  • @mihailkolev7578
    @mihailkolev75783 ай бұрын

    Thank you 😊 Rabbi Manis Friedman greetings from Bulgaria 🇧🇬. You are magnificent 😀 🕎🔯☦✝️🫂🙏

  • @evelyncosby9901
    @evelyncosby9901 Жыл бұрын

    ""Shalom Sabbath" !! Rabbi Friedman. . "Thank you for your words of wisdom"❣️. 🙏🙏❣️

  • @pepperscore828
    @pepperscore828 Жыл бұрын

    Exact' Thank u sir' so informative, making every marriage to dwell in d now, so grateful...

  • @barbaramurray4951
    @barbaramurray495110 ай бұрын

    I don't mean to be irreverent but how did you get so wise????? You can deal with any life issue that I have had to face so easily. And thanks for the marriage advice. Again very timely!!!!

  • @sarah-beruriahbattzion28
    @sarah-beruriahbattzion28 Жыл бұрын

    What a great message wow

  • @almac4333
    @almac4333 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Rabbi. I wish o heard more of this sort of thing as I was growing up.

  • @gordontomb7194
    @gordontomb7194 Жыл бұрын

    I understand exactly what the rabbi is saying, and I can definitely improve on the where. I wonder if I could have possibly understood 50 years ago early in my marriage. Looking back, I can say I understood so little then!!

  • @yvonneollivier7088
    @yvonneollivier7088 Жыл бұрын

    Good Rabbi, you are appreciated, loved, honored, and so needed in this world. Thank you. I don't have a marriage to improve, but this teaching works in any relationships.

  • @mendelslavin8704
    @mendelslavin8704 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @Zaxnafein
    @Zaxnafein Жыл бұрын

    Strong and Blessed

  • @user-kg2uf8tq7p
    @user-kg2uf8tq7p11 ай бұрын

    Inspiring. I want to hear more on the subject.

  • @beenamathew1936
    @beenamathew1936 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Rabbi

  • @jeffreyrwilliams9345
    @jeffreyrwilliams9345 Жыл бұрын

    thank you

  • @Shurvoice
    @Shurvoice10 ай бұрын

    Thank you Rabbi Friedman. Simple tips, immediately doable. And doing these actions, may unlock a person a bit from defensive, and self justifying behavior that creates more self-preoccupation, and blocks in the marriage.

  • @joannalopez5447
    @joannalopez5447 Жыл бұрын

    I pray that people out there are taking notes both men and women.🙏

  • @francesjeane.maloney7277
    @francesjeane.maloney7277 Жыл бұрын

    Wonderful advice- Thank you, Rabbi Friedman. Seems appropriate for many types of relationships--yes?

  • @elizabethbooth5446
    @elizabethbooth5446 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you rabbi

  • @margielegrand9065
    @margielegrand9065 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for all God words you give me sis Margie

  • @frith3961
    @frith3961 Жыл бұрын

    hello from Indonesia

  • @wesleywright7796
    @wesleywright7796 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Mr. Friedman! I have learned so much of God's word that has changed me for the better! That part about Man created from Dust! WoW! That explains so many things! Thanks again!

  • @luiscruz2781
    @luiscruz2781 Жыл бұрын

    thanks!

  • @manuelcarlospoliwoda5022
    @manuelcarlospoliwoda5022 Жыл бұрын

    Good Morning Rabbi Friedman. I am a member of Chabad Aventura-Miami Florida and I would like to reach out to you personally.

  • @cindyw9632
    @cindyw9632 Жыл бұрын

    Very rightly said 👍

  • @costeaoct.george8208
    @costeaoct.george8208 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks!

  • @Hopeternal316
    @Hopeternal316 Жыл бұрын

    Fabulous!

  • @rochekeenmanalaysay5454
    @rochekeenmanalaysay5454 Жыл бұрын

    Keepstrong 👉❤️👈

  • @rosairisjimenez9672
    @rosairisjimenez9672 Жыл бұрын

    Great

  • @blueeeman
    @blueeeman Жыл бұрын

    Wisdom ❤

  • @davidrosenberg7251
    @davidrosenberg725110 ай бұрын

    How does initiating help in an area your spouse refuses to respond to? Especially for many years? What is some advice on motivating a spouse to discuss what they might be reluctant to?

  • @minketheodora
    @minketheodora Жыл бұрын

    I believe you are a kind husband,. Most of the time, men don,t listen, they assumn they do and then force their opinions and plans,.they just take all the space,,. and when you dont agree, they start to blame, and arque,.or to judge,.and to give un-asked advize,. and to demand,. It is sad, is not so, that men and women relate so badly,...it are always the males who refuse to humble,. and to do her right,.It is a mystery to me, that women still tolerate so much from men,.

  • @alexluthiger731

    @alexluthiger731

    Жыл бұрын

    God gave men the women only for counter-speech, so that the man may train as well his spiritual nature beside sex and soccer. God is intellectual.

  • @FreedomSpirit7

    @FreedomSpirit7

    Жыл бұрын

    I agree!

  • @whippet71
    @whippet71 Жыл бұрын

    It's not what you say. It's how you say it!

  • @vilijabiciunaite3209
    @vilijabiciunaite3209 Жыл бұрын

    Wow

  • @philipe6293
    @philipe6293 Жыл бұрын

    Sometimes my wife’s yells at me from the other room. I respond in a normal tone. She then comes in and says, why didn’t you answer me. I say, I did, I just didn’t yell. Not sure if it fixed it but it seems to be the right thing to do. 🤷‍♂️

  • @user-pe5ph8dc6f
    @user-pe5ph8dc6f4 ай бұрын

    True 8thv

  • @milkamilosevic9626
    @milkamilosevic9626 Жыл бұрын

    🌞🙂!!

  • @StMyles
    @StMyles Жыл бұрын

    🤔

  • @sarrakaplan8214
    @sarrakaplan82147 ай бұрын

    How do you repair a stubborn and emotional husband after 45 years. He simply doesn’t try

  • @uberfine
    @uberfine15 күн бұрын

    No. After the third STD.

  • @scarbo2229
    @scarbo222911 ай бұрын

    When my wife asks me for $50., and I give her $60., she seems pretty happy about it.

  • @alexluthiger731
    @alexluthiger731 Жыл бұрын

    In that day the bells of the horses shall be engraved with the words "Holy to the Lord". And the pots in the Lord's house shall be like the bowls before the altar. Zechariah 14.20 Not to think of the Marriage of the lamb! 🍷🎃

  • @davidcohen6742
    @davidcohen6742 Жыл бұрын

    Great subject, very bad stage. Correct staging is as important.

  • @riyazkhan9338
    @riyazkhan93387 ай бұрын

    I AM HABITUAL EAT A KILOGRAM OF SWEET BLACK GRAPES IN FEW MINUTES; NORMAL TO ME SEASONAL

  • @FreedomSpirit7
    @FreedomSpirit7 Жыл бұрын

    Don't get married. Problem solved.

  • @matthewthomas965
    @matthewthomas96511 ай бұрын

    Thank you

  • @Catherinelynne
    @Catherinelynne11 ай бұрын

    Thank you