Keeping my hair stretched was a TOTAL game changer for me. Been natural for well over 12 years now and I swear I only learned how to manage breakage a few years ago. Hair started growing (really retaining length) like crazy

@PatriceMarjorie

8 ай бұрын

Yes! If I want to wear my hair out, I try to have it stretched. I found this prevents knots and tangles so much! I am also learning about balancing protein as a lack of protein can cause hair fragility as well.

@elegantempress1395

8 ай бұрын

@@PatriceMarjorie this is what I’m experiencing now (have always had thick heart but as I get older I’m noticing that it’s not quite as thick and it seems to be more fragile). What do you use for protein?

@PatriceMarjorie

8 ай бұрын

@@elegantempress1395 I totally understand this! As I have gotten older, I have noticed my hair changing as well. I have been doing a ton of research on it and will be sharing some lifestyle updates that will benefit hair growth as you age. Keeping up with your blood levels is so important. My last protein treatment was last year and I used CurlSmith Bond Curl. I am definitely due for another one. Using it again next weekend!

@chocolat917

8 ай бұрын

@@PatriceMarjorie thank you for sharing all of this with us! As someone who is very protein sensitive, I’ve been scared to use any heavy protein based products but I also feel like my hair needs it to help build strength. Olaplex works fine but I feel like it doesn’t really last. I may try curlsmith

Finally someone who has my exact hair texture

@PatriceMarjorie

9 ай бұрын

Hey sis! So glad the algorithm did it's job and brought you here! Welcome and thanks for watching!💞

Girl, your hair is gorgeous and so are you ❤❤❤

@PatriceMarjorie

9 ай бұрын

Thank you sis! 💕💕

Hey loves! Thank you for tuning in to my updated wash day routine! I wanted to add that I apply moisturizer to my hair after the leave in conditioner step. I forgot to show this in the clip, but I did link the moisturizer/curl cream used in the description box for your convenience. During the week, I reapply moisturizer about every 3 days. Any longer than that and my hair is too dry and susceptible to unnecessary breakage. Love you 💕

The hair is gorgeous

@PatriceMarjorie

9 ай бұрын

Thank you beautiful!

You have the kind of dream hair that oeople go out and buy; loved 💕 the finished looks.

@PatriceMarjorie

8 ай бұрын

Awww thank you sis!! 🤎🤎

Your dog Penny is adorable! 🐶

@PatriceMarjorie

9 ай бұрын

Thank you Devin! She's so sweet!

Omg! Your fur baby ❤

@PatriceMarjorie

9 ай бұрын

She’s the sweetest pup! 🥹🎀🐾

Wash day by sectioning makes such a difference and saves so much time! Also Babassu and Mint and Knot Today are two of my favorite staples 😍

@PatriceMarjorie

8 ай бұрын

Yes! I wish I could wash my hair without sectioning it but I’m terrified lol

YESSS MAMAS!!!! the ending result was so beautiful❤️

@PatriceMarjorie

9 ай бұрын

Thank you sisss!!!

I love how detailed this video is! Your hair is just amazing

@PatriceMarjorie

9 ай бұрын

Thank you so much!!💞

Beautyful!! Love the way your hair looks!😍

@PatriceMarjorie

9 ай бұрын

Thank you love!!💕

I bought one of the blow dryer bonnet attachment things for adding heat with my deep conditioners and it was a MAJOR game changer for me! Your hair is goals btw! So pretty!

@PatriceMarjorie

8 ай бұрын

Thank you love! And I agree, the hooded dryer makes a wonderful difference to deep conditioner treatments. And if you feel condition consistently it’s even better! 🙌🏾

Now this is about my length. I recently bought the Unbrush and although it wasn't a complete solution, it helped greatly. I didn't even have to wash my hair in sections & it did not create knots with minimal shedding. It thoroughly detangle too. I hope they consider making a bigger brush with longer bristles & a wider paddle though.

@PatriceMarjorie

8 ай бұрын

Hey girl! Thanks for sharing. I will look into the Unbrush. Have you used the tangle teaser before? I love that brush for detangling my hair when it is wet.

@tlc8925

8 ай бұрын

@@PatriceMarjorie Hey chica🫶🏽 Ur welcome. This is the first time I ever tried anything other than my HUGE double tooth comb by Ouidad. I didn’t trust the other brushes bc I was afraid they would snag/rip my hair out but u know how they say, TT made me do it? Well it's true lol If you consider, just make sure ur buying from a credible source bc there are a lot of knockoffs. It def cut out the time I was twisting & untwisting the sections between the washing & conditioning. Also I was coming out of braids & I should've used a clarifying shampoo to breakdown some of the buildup. So I believe it will work better next time. If you like it, maybe u can do a review. I might try the tangle teaser to compare since u like it🤔

Come on INCHES! Definitely will use this technique on my next wash day. Thanks for the tips and tricks...noted!

@PatriceMarjorie

9 ай бұрын

Thank you!💕💕 Hope the routine works well for you!

Such a helpful video! I'm trying to be more careful during my detangling process.

@PatriceMarjorie

9 ай бұрын

Hi love! I'm so glad this video was helpful for you! Gentle techniques play a huge role in our hair health and length retention. Contrary to many beliefs, our hair is more fragile than non curly hair so we have to be very careful when caring for our hair.

If you don't have it already, I highly suggest investing in the unbrush! I haven't had a problem detangling my hair since I bought it honestly it's such a game changer. I'll take your advice and start stretching my hair too

@PatriceMarjorie

8 ай бұрын

Thank you for that suggestion! Someone else just mentioned it so it’s definitely on my list. Have you tried the tangle teaser? I like the one specifically for thick hair.

Your 4c hair is gorgeous. I agree, I have to keep my hair stretched also. It takes me six hours to do it. No one touches my hair but me. Why it's finally long again. Thank you for sharing.

@PatriceMarjorie

8 ай бұрын

Thank you sis!🤎 I love that you are protective with your hair. Keep up that energy! Being gentle with our hair and consistency is so important for us.

@sparkle3000

8 ай бұрын

@@PatriceMarjorie Being gentle to ourselves, our hearts and soul. 💕 Self care is very important. Have a beautiful day my love. 🌞 💛💜💜💜💛

Beautiful hair✨

I love your hair and routine ty❤❤❤❤

@PatriceMarjorie

9 ай бұрын

Yayy! So glad you love it. Thanks for watching sis💖

Love the video and love the penny 🐶 cameo

@PatriceMarjorie

5 ай бұрын

Thank you! Penny insists on being on camera 😆

Can you please do a video on how you keep the bee aid out for 7 days and wearing your hair out? 😍 thanksss ❤

@PatriceMarjorie

8 ай бұрын

Sure! 💕💕

I love your braid out.

@PatriceMarjorie

8 ай бұрын

Thank you love!💕

So I have to be gentler when finger-detangling. Lol thanks for the demo! Lovely hair.

@PatriceMarjorie

8 ай бұрын

Yes ma’am, it’s so important for our hair health. So many of us with kinky hair grew up with stylists being very rough with our hair, it takes intentionality to really break that habit.

You and your hair are geourgouss🙌🏾😍😍! Goals

@PatriceMarjorie

8 ай бұрын

Thank you so much sis! 🤎

@MixedChick1

8 ай бұрын

I agree!!!

@friedchicken892

8 ай бұрын

@@PatriceMarjorie Your welcome🙌🏾

@WilliamsPinch

Ай бұрын

They both have really beautiful hair lol

Today's wash day for me. I shampooed twice and currently have my deep conditioner in.

@PatriceMarjorie

9 ай бұрын

Yay!!! How did your wash day turn out?

@amyandfamily664

9 ай бұрын

@PatriceMarjorie great! I hadn't washed my hair in 2 weeks so it was much needed. And I user some new products. The loreal hyaluronic acid shampoo, then a DC I had used before and loved. I purchased it again: bought 2 of them. Creme of Nature shea butter deep treatment mask

I still don’t really know how to do my natural hair I wanna wear it stretched my my curls are so tight I always get breakage idk what to do I don’t even have a wash day routine I’m 4b/4c and always plateau at shoulder length. You are beautiful and so is your hair. Any suggestions?

Gorgeous hair 🥰🤩

Beautiful hair

We need a perfume collection video 😂😂😂😂😂

@PatriceMarjorie

8 ай бұрын

Heard you sis! Coming up! 😂❤️

Amazing beauty and hair

@PatriceMarjorie

9 ай бұрын

Thank you sis! 🥰💕

@principtounenmondesir

9 ай бұрын

@@PatriceMarjorie im a bro not a sis lol and gotta share the love and state the facts

@PatriceMarjorie

9 ай бұрын

@@principtounenmondesir My mistake haha that's what I get for typing too fast. I can clearly see you're a "bro" in your photo. Sorry about that love! 🤎

Be careful with that Miele strength shampoo. It has bioten and henna in it which over time can cause your hair to get too much protein, dry and break off. Henna is like a natural form of protein and bioten to the hair because it strengthens the hard. If you over use henna it can make your hair feel hard and dry. I have no idea why they mixed henna in that product with bioten but to me it's not a good combo because it can be too strong for the hair when mixed together.

@juicywater7868

9 ай бұрын

It's probably at different concentrations but depending on how frequent she's washing and if she's using other protein rich products she should be fine

@PatriceMarjorie

9 ай бұрын

Hi! Thanks for that! I will be sure to keep note of how my hair responds to this shampoo on a consistent bases. I’m sure there are other variables to consider, such as the concentration of henna and biotin, and how often the brand recommend you use the shampoo. I wash just about every 10 days, not multiple times a week like some others. I’m wondering if that makes a difference.

@Stillunbothered37

2 ай бұрын

@jt this is an excellent tip thank you! ❤

You are so beautiful 😍 I love your skin ❤️

@PatriceMarjorie

8 ай бұрын

Thank you so much!! 🤎🤎🤎

Thanks for sharing💕 can you tell us how often you cut/trim your hair?

@PatriceMarjorie

9 ай бұрын

Thanks for watching love! I dust my ends every few months, particularly when they begin to snag and knot. If I’m separating my hair and hear snags or get knots easily, that signals that I need a trim.

@PatriceMarjorie

9 ай бұрын

I generally take off about 1/4-1/2 inch when dusting, depending on how bad my ends are. On trims, I'll take off about an inch. @@orange300-ct8fc

@caroln3564

9 ай бұрын

​@@PatriceMarjorieI would suggest you trim some more and "detangle" with lots of good "conditioner" and not the "deep conditioner"

@MixedChick1

8 ай бұрын

@@caroln3564 You want her to cut off more than 1 inch?. Only bad ends are suppose to be trimmed not good hair if you're not having a hair cut.

@caroln3564

8 ай бұрын

@@MixedChick1 yes

Wow, beautiful strong hair. 🙌🏾💛👸🏾

@PatriceMarjorie

7 ай бұрын

Thank you love!!

1:22 Your dog was YELLING at you 🤣🫶🏼

@PatriceMarjorie

Ай бұрын

Hahaha! She is always yelling at me lol

If I'm about to wash.my.hair water will take the.place of everything it.feels like I have a prem as long as I'm under water and it's running through my hair even if I have not comb my hair running water take away matted hair I grease my scalp and in twist up my hair

What a beautiful daughter of Zion. ❤ praise YAH

@PatriceMarjorie

9 ай бұрын

🤎🤎🤎

Beautiful ❤️

I use a metal afro pick to scratch my scalp...have to be gentle though.

@PatriceMarjorie

8 ай бұрын

My scalp feels good just thinking about that 😍 Haven’t seen one of those picks in years but I’m sure I have one laying around. Good idea!

Nice video dear, do you have fine hair with high density? My hair looks like yours when dry and allso builds tangles at the roots. I also retain more length when I use my fingers.🥰

@PatriceMarjorie

9 ай бұрын

Thank you love! Yes ma’am, high density, fine strands, for the most part. It’s much easier to detangle my hair when it’s soaking wet as opposed to dry curly hair.

@manuellaarbeit5481

9 ай бұрын

@@PatriceMarjorie Thanks for your quick reply

How long do you usually keep the deep conditioner in?

@PatriceMarjorie

8 ай бұрын

About 30 minutes is good. Sometimes just a tad longer if I lose track of time. I also prefer to apply dc in the shower on wet hair for several reasons. I enjoy wash day so much more this way.

Pleaseeee I want my hair just as long as yours!!!!

@PatriceMarjorie

9 ай бұрын

It is achievable sis! Continue to follow my steps and stay consistent. Low manipulation, low heat, hydration and moisturizing your hair, not letting it get too dry and your hair will retain so much length!

I def only was able to shampoo while watching this video lol

@chocolatecoils8200

9 ай бұрын

The shampoo is my staple omgggg

@PatriceMarjorie

9 ай бұрын

LOL!! Did you finish??

@PatriceMarjorie

9 ай бұрын

@@chocolatecoils8200 It was my first time using it and I'm a fan so far!

Scalp scrubbers tangle the hair. Protective hairstyles should be left in for at least a week once installed, not immediately taken down, otherwise it’s a waste.

@PatriceMarjorie

9 ай бұрын

Hi! I never said to wear protective styles less than a week or to immediately take them down. Sorry if that wasn’t clear. The point is not to neglect your real hair. And scalp scrubbers won’t tangle your hair any more than your fingers will. Unless you’re using them wrong, with too many circular motions. However, moderate tangles after shampooing is common, that’s why we detangle while applying the deep conditioner 💕

@nicylee

9 ай бұрын

Yea I tried a scalp brush a few times and it wasn’t for me… my hair would become so tangled… some people swear by it tho

@PatriceMarjorie

9 ай бұрын

That is understandable and I can see how a scalp brush can be a miss for a lot of people. I wonder if it has a lot to do with how it's used and how tangled your hair is before shampooing. I doubt I will used it every wash day, but it does feel good on your scalp. I think it's a nice tool to have on hand for weekly scalp messages, not on wash day. Maybe then it will be less tangling, since your hair is dry. I'll try it out on dry hair and let you guys know! Thanks so much for watching sis!@@nicylee 💞

@dollanatomy5390

9 ай бұрын

It’s a learning curve with the scalp scrubbers. It would tangle my hair at first but it doesn’t anymore, I use it every wash day now.

@angelchege3755

9 ай бұрын

@@PatriceMarjorie I love my scalp scrubber. I just use my other hand to stretch my hair while i scrub so it doesn't tangle.

Do you rebraid it every night?

@PatriceMarjorie

9 ай бұрын

Yes! 2-4 braids. If I don’t, it is more prone to tangles and looses the stretch.

I wonder why our hair gets so matted together I notice all the ladies hair.gets so matted

@PatriceMarjorie

8 ай бұрын

I’m finding that the more I wash and condition my hair, the less matted and tangled it gets. Washing and conditioning my hair weekly has really cut down the detangling process/time.

My entire bun is the size of your quarter bun. 😭

@PatriceMarjorie

8 ай бұрын

😂😂 sis it’s ok, stay consistent with your haircare regimen, be gentle and I promise your hair will get full and long 🤎🤎

Hi, do you have 4C hair ?

@PatriceMarjorie

9 ай бұрын

I’d say my hair is 4b/4c, kinky texture. Tight curls and coils 💕

You look Egyptian or East African descent.

Someone has my name

@PatriceMarjorie

9 ай бұрын

Close! Hey sis!

@patriciahiggins5446

9 ай бұрын

@@PatriceMarjorie yea Patricia Marjorie

My wash day takes longer than 13 minutes, lol.

@PatriceMarjorie

8 ай бұрын

I know love, using the pause button is certainly helpful in this case. Oh how I wish wash day was only 13 minutes lol

Trim ur ends baby,i promise you'll be glad you did. Your ends are wayyy to thin.

@adeleisnamedafterme

7 ай бұрын

Her ends look fine to me

Your hair does not look detangled good and it does not look healthy

@PatriceMarjorie

8 ай бұрын

Thanks for watching Ms. Cheryl!

@PatriceMarjorie

8 ай бұрын

Bless you sis!! 🤎🤎 I am assuming that she didn’t get the memo that we are positive energy only over here ☺️

@caroln3564

8 ай бұрын

​@@PatriceMarjoriedon't go on a "public" platform with a "comments" section, putting your "business" out there ... then go on to be defensive/in attack mode ... to the "viewers" who are giving you "feedback". You're completely missing the point of having a "channel" (and life/living in general) if you think EVERYONE should only ever praise ("positive energy" or whatever "hollyweird" lastest/current/trendy term in use) and "lie" to you. Your hair is not doing well and you keep "shredding" it to the roots with that "detangling" you're doing.

@armcandi36

8 ай бұрын

​@@PatriceMarjoriePlease ignore these trolls you and your hair are beautiful!

Fake hair😂

@adeleisnamedafterme

7 ай бұрын

Bald headed