i feel like the “i’m not ready for a relationship” thing can be used as an excuse but i tend to say that because i’m not happy with myself or there are many things that i need to work on about myself . kind of like the “you have to love yourself first before you try to let someone else love you” .

@jasminele

4 жыл бұрын

thank u for ur insight! i just spoke what i believe from the experiences i’ve had (unfortunately most of them were w fuckboys so this was a consistent thing i heard from boys) i should’ve explicitly said this is a personal experience and talked about other reasons why someone would say they aren’t ready 4 a relationship. i’m gonna pin ur comment 4 others to see! i totally agree w u and i was ignorant to not talk about it in the vid. thanks again for ur support and insight :-)

@ibaekvr

4 жыл бұрын

jazzy le i completely understand what you were saying i absolutely love your videos and i just wanted to voice something that i have experienced too !

@neegas3490

4 жыл бұрын

Honestly same I feel the same way

@user-wy1bk4ef9i

4 жыл бұрын

markbbies i feel you, I feel like I have so many things that I’m trying to fix about myself internally and externally that I don’t even think about being in a relationship.

@kimberlyruiz1009

4 жыл бұрын

yes!

ur boyfriend likes really staring at you intently as you get ready

@jasminele

4 жыл бұрын

i noticed that as i was editing and was like O.o

@actuallyjul

4 жыл бұрын

5:29 owo

@lacelolita

4 жыл бұрын

he’s like “so this is how girls get ready.. very fascinating”

@jaimebeazer5948

4 жыл бұрын

He doesn’t understand makeup that’s why lol

@emilysuzanne8982

4 жыл бұрын

Also probably bc she's talking.

the way your boyfriend was in the back making facial expressions like "amen" respect

@jasminele

4 жыл бұрын

he’s my #1 wingman

“If they aren’t ready for a relationship, then why are they flirting with you? Why are they talking to you? Why are they taking you out on dates?” GIRL FACTSSSS

@monroeparris239

4 жыл бұрын

Because they want to spend time with you romantically, but they could have their own troubles that you don't understand.

@sola_a

4 жыл бұрын

@@monroeparris239 don't do that if you're not ready for a relationship?

@i_iimoon-liliesii_i4716

4 жыл бұрын

@@sola_a Well, it's complicated for other people. Sometimes people have major anxiety. It's like they like the person so much but they keep having doubts and self-esteem issues. Plus dating and being official is different. Dating is just exploring the world of love and trying to figuring out yourself in a romantic state. Being official means you're ready, you aren't self-preparing or exploring ^^ But yeah, no one acts lovey-dovey for no reason lolz

@mademoiselle4772

4 жыл бұрын

i feel attackedt

@khhk6439

4 жыл бұрын

LMAOO i was scrolling through the comments and in the moment i read this comment it was synchronized to the video

Love how he’s just chilling in the background nodding at her words like ‘preach baby’

I scrolled down to the comments expecting the comment section to be disabled like it usually but it isn't and I hope it stays this way

@lubio6284

4 жыл бұрын

What do you mean by disabled?😆

@nefos8531

4 жыл бұрын

@@lubio6284 her comments were turned off for a while and now they're back!

@mossybricks8682

4 жыл бұрын

nefos why did she turn them off?

@faeriehajrah6926

4 жыл бұрын

@@mossybricks8682 KZread turned them off because they thought that she was a minor when she's not

@jjwsvtk9987

4 жыл бұрын

same

The shape of your eyes are really pretty

@chabelllita

4 жыл бұрын

Her face is so beautiful and her features are so cute and aesthetic jajdndjdj

@helena-pp4rd

4 жыл бұрын

Isabel _ ikr 😤😭😍

@flaiirenn

2 жыл бұрын

fr, i love the way hers are shaped. i wish mine looked like that, but they're huge and round lmao

When you’re gay but still watch boy advice for jaz’s aesthetic and cute personality ✌️

@emmajadeee

4 жыл бұрын

TheHuman Aluce big mood

@oliviafoster578

4 жыл бұрын

literally me rn

@jasminele

4 жыл бұрын

this is so pure. thank u. 🥺

@makeartnotwar9177

4 жыл бұрын

TheHuman Aluce lmaoooo sameeee!!

@hey8133

4 жыл бұрын

me

I love how you both talk in tiny font

@roxypicasso66

4 жыл бұрын

jazzy: ʸᵉᵃʰ ˢᵒ ˡᶦᵏᵉ.. martin: ʰᵉ ᵍᶦᵛᵉˢ ᵒᶠᶠ ᵃ ᵛ ᶦ ᵇ ᵉ

@mirandachen8189

3 жыл бұрын

roxy picasso THEYRE SO CUTE DJ

I was not ready for a relationship due to my anxiety but the person didn't know. Everything was very hard for me at the time and caused me a lot of anxiety and still does sometimes. But he stuck around and now we've been dating for over 8 months. Just trying to show that sometimes there is a different side to things.

@jasminele

4 жыл бұрын

thank u for this insight! i personally never experienced this so i’m not one to talk to about it but i’m so happy u shared ur story for others to read ! 💖

@alynacervantes2694

4 жыл бұрын

ive never had bad anxiety. but after a year and a few months of dating I developed severe anxiety due to circumstances beyond both of our control, currently getting the help and everyday I am slowly feeling better. Everyone deserves love

@beccak2791

4 жыл бұрын

omg same. im 20, and never had been in a relationship, first kiss, ect, due to my anxiety. I just could not feel comfortable around anyone enough to do anything. But I have now been with my bf for 6 months. Even with anxiety, it might be a longer wait but someone will come along that allows you to feel comfortable and will try to understand you. You definitely should not feel bad because other people are more experienced than you at your age. Everyone is different(:

@CreativityTeen

4 жыл бұрын

@@beccak2791 thats so refreshing to hear, and I'm so happy for u guys^^! I'm 19 and im going through a similar situation (esp in college), feeling like I won't be able to date someone because i get really uncomfortable and anxious. it's nice to know that there are people out there who will stick through it and love you for who you are & help you be more comfortable 💛

@arianabarakzai8935

4 жыл бұрын

Hannah B. THIS IS REALLU RANDOM BUT COULD YOU HELP ME OUT A BIT? I’ve struggled so much with this 🥺 how did you find a way to be calm and not have anxiety with hanging out and all of that? Basically how did you deal with your anxiety?

when you said all you friends would go hook up with people and you’d sit with the dog I FELT THAT honestly when will this end

@niasev7641

4 жыл бұрын

jess c fr

@colayy5101

4 жыл бұрын

We don't need boys to live our lives so it's fine hun we will have a man who respects and who will truly love us

@keiishine

4 жыл бұрын

LMAO that hurt me but it is so true

@puta-yq8rc

4 жыл бұрын

Fr 😭

@gracieaziabor6696

4 жыл бұрын

dogs are and always will be better than humans. i rest my case.

i’m currently in tears because my school just got cancelled for the rest of the year, and one of my close cousins just got diagnosed with coronavirus (and his respiratory system isn’t very strong) but ur video is helping lift my spirits 💕 thank you jazzy

@anu_ghosh716

4 жыл бұрын

All the best, hope you are safe and I seriously hope that your cousin recovers soon.

@xoxosaba1760

4 жыл бұрын

Awh! That sucks I hope you’re safe and your cousin gets better ♥️💕🎀💖

@pleiadesiman7925

4 жыл бұрын

isabella beesly hang in there baby🥺

@bellar.6900

4 жыл бұрын

i'm so sorry to hear that, but hang in there! stay safe and i hope your cousin gets better! :(

@user-ff1zj2gj7d

4 жыл бұрын

Hope he's okay , God bless ♥️

MY DAD WAS IN THE ROOM WHEN THE VIDEO STARTED IM GONNA SCREAMSNNSBSDH

@skypie2083

4 жыл бұрын

tanya same but my mom 😭😂

@jasminele

4 жыл бұрын

I AM SO SORRY RKEKSNJSNDD

@sophiebailey8558

4 жыл бұрын

ME TOO WITH MY MOM

i have def been the girl who never "talked" to a guy and all i have to say about that is it is all about the energy you put out, you cant always expect a guy/girl to come up and get your attention and all that! exude confidence and try to look approachable and go up to someone first if youre not too scared :)

@wwhyme..

4 жыл бұрын

how do you make yourself seem more approchable

@evelynmed

4 жыл бұрын

why me?! That’s what I’m wondering

@sadhana.singam

3 жыл бұрын

Same! The popular girls would always go up to guys and talk and hang with them to be cool... And then make fun of me and my girls while we having our girl talk in corner of the field. But there was this guy who would ALWAYS come up to us in class or just always and whenever and talk to us. He wasn't hitting on anyone. He would just talk to us to any of us and make us laugh! Not because he was a different sexuality ( but if you are then good for you always be proud of yourself) just since he was a nice guy and knew the "popular" girls were being mean. In the end he is now one of our best friends and is invited to all of our future weddings

@ceylinsenel4106

3 жыл бұрын

ok how do I do that😅😅

this whole video is just martin aggressively agreeing to everything jazzy says in the background haha love that

@jasminele

4 жыл бұрын

we stan a supportive bf 😌💅🏼

@maamoon5891

3 жыл бұрын

@@jasminele we do we do *nods aggressively*

it's so refreshing to see jazzy act so authentically in front of martin like i feel like she has opened up even more on camera since getting tgt with him!! i never comment but so uwu

@jasminele

4 жыл бұрын

i’m crying this is so pure thank u 🥺👉🏼👈🏼

I have to disagree with you at one point. If someone says they don‘t wanna be in a relationship rn doesn‘t always mean that they just wanna mess around with you. Maybe they had a toxix relationship before and they have to built trust in humans again. So just a reminder, that not everybody who says that they don‘t want a relationship is a bad person

@jasminele

4 жыл бұрын

thanks for sharing lena!! ur insight is something i personally haven’t experienced so i didn’t discuss it. but thank u for commenting for others to read and learn from!

@michelle-zi3qs

4 жыл бұрын

@Tee Gee uhh idk about that LOL if theyre befriending you just for sex thats shitty

@mirandachen8189

3 жыл бұрын

• S e u l g i B e a r • that’s why friends with benefits is a thing. they can’t help it if you develop feelings for them if the relationship is strictly just sexual and not romantic. and as long as the boundaries are set, u shouldn’t shame someone for only wanting to have sex instead of a relationship.

@vanillaval8563

3 жыл бұрын

mira chen yes but sex shouldn’t be the foundation for relationships, it shouldn’t be the reason for a healthy relationship

@vanillaval8563

3 жыл бұрын

Tee Gee and did you have to insult me? Why are you so worked up already? Chill. I don’t have TIK TOK and I’m not old enough to be interested in men. What is wrong with your logic?

this is a 11/10 healthy and cute relationship if i ever saw one!!

me watching this knowing no guy at my school is or will ever be interested in me 😌💅🏽

@archiieved

4 жыл бұрын

ヅm a k y then they’re dumb and unlucky

@spittersarequitters420

4 жыл бұрын

Sunflower -State-of-mind period, it’s their loss

@Hope-si1kb

4 жыл бұрын

Only one boy has asked me out in my entire life and I'm turning 17 in July. I said no to him by the way. Okay, really I said "I don't really know you" but honestly I knew him enough to know I didn't want to date him. I don't even know why he liked me though. I think it's weird that a guy would actually like me

@delancey3181

4 жыл бұрын

Hope im 16 and never been asked out

@keiishine

4 жыл бұрын

I’m gonna be 16 and I’m still not in a relationship! Single lady in the house 😗

about the question about the bf's friends being misogynistic: from personal experience; YES. it's a HUGE red flag. Especially if he denies it and/or refuses to acknowledge the behavior of his friends.

I was genuinely shocked over the comments being here

@lubio6284

4 жыл бұрын

Why ?

@sleepyan_u

4 жыл бұрын

@@lubio6284 Her comment section was usually disabled from YT but now it's here!

Your boyfriend stares at you so intently and lovingly it’s adorable y’all are amazing together 🥰

“men are stupid” meanwhile a man sitting on her bed lmao

@eypu999

3 жыл бұрын

he knows he's an exception

@cindyyrcontreras

3 жыл бұрын

@@eypu999 Hhahahah

I love how your boyfriend supports and cheers you on while you’re giving advice. 🥺♥️

i'm a lesbian but i'm still here for jazzy

@MuhammadImran-ln4fz

4 жыл бұрын

I love u 😚😘😘 I like u 👄👄💋💋 I need u 💏💏💏💏 I am alone 🌷🌷🌷🌷

@hypefim

4 жыл бұрын

@@MuhammadImran-ln4fz ummm...?

@user-ux3ec8lp1i

4 жыл бұрын

Muhammad Imran what ???

@lilygranger22

4 жыл бұрын

Muhammad Imran was the way

@MuhammadImran-ln4fz

4 жыл бұрын

@@lilygranger22 i love u I like u

the way u guys r perfect for each other tho 🥺

“Sitting on the couch talking to the dog” MEEEEE I would rather pat the dog then socialize sometimes.

@thepinkelephant2520

5 ай бұрын

FRR except most times lmfao

okay first of, yay for the comment section being on!! & second, I love ur relationship so much.. I feel like y’all compliment each other really well & im so happy for you girl!!

I love how your boyfriend is just vibing in the background 🤣🤣

more videos with him please! ya'll are such a chill duo its great

OMG your boyfriend is so understanding i love that

i had very bad anxiety before my boyfriend and i became a couple. we had known eachother for six years until we started dating. we were classmates and friends for six years, but he didnt know i was suffering from very bad social anxiety. i had not told anyone, but once we became really close, i kind of had to tell him why i always went to the bathroom after the moment i entered his home or any home for that matter. he helped me become the person i am today. i was awkward, insecure and really not ready for any relationship at all. but i have grown so much with his love and his support. i suffer way less of the anxiety i used to have. it was controlling my life and now it luckily isnt anymore. we have been together for almost two years now and i am the happiest girl to call him mine. i am still on a long way to loving myself, but boy, did his love and his support made me flourish. i know no one will read this, but man, do i love that man.

your videos SLAP

i knew he was a gem when he pushed your eyeshadow palette to keep it from falling at 9:49

You’re thumbnails are so cool!! I love the fonts that you use🤙🏼

Yay comments are back on!!❤️ I have a new boy in my life (lol) who I am trying to figure out so this is very much appreciated🥺 great video as always Jazzy!

Jazzy is literally the older sister i never knew i needed and i am literally addicted now! thank you for being there for me, even if you don’t know you are ❤️

this was awesome and eye-opening. i appreciate the both of you doing this bc I'm a youngin and don't have much knowledge with relationships and stuff, but then im also around the stage where I want to be in one just to have some experience or fun memories yenno. and w videos like these, i appreciate them so much because it'll help me prepare for a non-toxic, mature relationship in the future and lets me know my worth because nobody should settle!!

such good advice! I love how honest and open both of you are, not afraid to talk about the serious stuff. It really helped clear up some stuff - thank you so much! you're an absolute angel ❣️🍯

yaaas another i can watch while being in quarantine lol xx

when he covered his ears when you were telling the tinder date story that was adorable love you guys together

dude, i always look forward to ur videos, there's always something so nice that i connect to even if i've never experienced the topic u talk about. so thank you :)

So happy that you've been getting all these sponsorship bc u deserve it all! Thanks for staying so humble & sweet too

you and your boyfriend as SO cute together. your styles match perfectly ♥

ughh the humor is so spot on and it just started ily

you guys are both so sweet and kind, i dont ever comment on videos but just wanted to let you know your videos are really helpful and that your advice is a nice reminder to respect and love yourself :)

This is the girl talk and information that I’ve never gotten, but NEED. These kinds of videos are really helping me. I’m 18 and have never been in a relationship. I’ve seen about three of your videos now, and this one is just the icing on the cake. SUBBED. Thank you for this!

I love these. Please do more they’re fun to watch !!

I’VE NEVER BEEN THIS EARLY OMG HI ILY

I'm 11 years old and I want to thank you for this because I made way less insecure about so many things again thank you sooo much your the big sister I never had

Jazzy i’m so happy it looks like your videos have the comments back q🥺

also jazzy i love you youre amazing and so positive

you guys are literally the cutest!!! this video made me so happy

I had a boyfriend for 3 years through middle school and into freshman year I miss him a lot but I was told I had anxiety and I looked back at life and realized I didn’t know who I was, we were best friends and now he won’t talk to me ☹️ thanks for all this advice as I go throughout high school

i never thought id see the day when jazzy got her comments back... im so happy for u!!

The comments are baaaaack! Omg i related so much with this video and i love your advices!

I just found your channel and not only did you give off the best advices, you two are adorable with eachother 🥺🥺

We all love you and you guys are the cutest couple ever!

you really scored w your bf !!🥺so nice how he’s like your hype man we love to see it

You guys are absolute goals🙌🏽 and I love how genuine you are🙌🏽🥰

i met my boyfriend on tinder!! there’s definitely nothing to be ashamed of but i feel ya

Your boyfriend is so respectful 🥺 y’all r so cute together

ugh i really cant stress on the fact that ur literally one of my fav youtubers 😩 thank u for being u damn

i just found you (might have watched a video or two a while ago, not sure) but i’m so glad i’m here for this video and when your comments are back

You and your bf are so sweet. I love how he respects women❤️❤️

I love this video the whole vibe of it wow also the editing 😩😍

jazzy's advices were actually helpful unlike the other dating tips videos i've seen!

i have watched this video so many times , its so empowering to listen to and it gives me hope for my future 🙏🙏

you guys are literally so adorable omg 🥺💞

this video was the CUTESTTTTT!!! i love your chatty grwm. i always love your makeup and clothing style :-)

Y'all out here being goals.

i've been with my boyfriend (now fiancé) for four years now, and i still enjoyed this video so much. you guys make such a cute couple, and i love watching your videos together. you guys deserve each other so much. thanks for the advice and the video. i feel like the more i watch your videos, the closer we become, even though you don't know me, so, that's weird, but, okay. bye, haha. also, congrats for the 303K!!

Yay I’ve been waiting for this video!

girl I needed this video so badly thank you sis

I love how open and honest you are😍

this was really sweet and endearing,,, it felt like listening to older siblings/long time friends giving advice

for the break thingy , i've been with my bf for a year and a couple months and we took a break one time because we both jus needed time to focus on ourselves but we both still kept in contact and we talked every few days. it lasted for like 1-2 weeks and it benefited our relationship because since then we have had zero fights and we have gotten closer so if u rlly do love them and u think that after the break is done u still have a chance than yes, i recommend it.

IM SO EARLY OMFG ILY JAZZY

I needed to hear this so much T^T Thank you for being the older siblings I've never had

this whole video was so wholesome, thank you

Perfect video at the perfect time, thank you very much as always! Glad that now you have the comment section because I never had the opportunity to tell how much your videos mean to me! Love you lots and I wish you the best! 🥰❤

I love you both!! You’re so cute together and I am glad that you are happy, stay healthy 💖

hey, i see you’ve got ur comments back!also i really live your content and personality. so down to earth and real :)

Wow this video was so gooood you answered all the questions really well!!

We need a yesstyle haul of all clothes you own from there!!!! (Me after seeing the alaska cruise sweatshirt).

@wonderalicez

4 жыл бұрын

link?

Omg ily so much 😭 ur the only youtuber that I have notifications on forrr

dude is this woman just perfect??? i can see something wrong with literally anyones way of speaking and mindset but she is so smart and logical and non-toxic and and and HOW CAN IT BE?!

been loving all ur videos ♥️

Omg loooved the chill vibes of this vid! Keep up the great work guurl! x Much love from a small youtuber 🤗

hi jazzy!! you make me so happy and i love your vids! 🤩🥺🥰

love your content & y’all are SO cute!

ive never been so early!! i love you

Your boyfriend is sooo chill and his voice is sooo calming 😅 And you guys should do more videos together 😁😁

YOU GUYS ARE SO GOOD FOR EACH OTHER

i love the chatty vids!!!!

Y’all are so cute together. You are like a older sister I never had and her boyfriend

this video is so good!

this video was so wholesome 🥺

Lol haven't even watched the video yet, just happy the comments are open. Love ur channel so much , your so positive and really optimistic and funn to watch. Also the aesthetics are so cute ❤️.

i adore u both🥺💗