NARCISSISTS are the best liars - professional liars

@christophermichael4372

5 жыл бұрын

BINGO!

@whitedove7945

5 жыл бұрын

No F. You just don't know how big a truth that is. Why did it take me a year and a half to see this? I knew all about narcs. He was that good at lieing!🤔

@beabrown6152

5 жыл бұрын

As in Dr. Phil!

@tarawalton6778

5 жыл бұрын

WOOOOOOW!!! SO TRUE!!

@lindablackwell4852

5 жыл бұрын

Yes, I know many Narcissists. I was shy growing up so listened. When got older and after husband died. I was able to make friends but those are Narcissists I was talking about. My sister I realized was one and turned most in friends against me. She is wealthier, straight A and greedy. It took all these years to know when I seen a report on Narcissist but no one believes me. She has made them first that I was no good, then Autistic and lastly a conspiratist. All untrue. I am not tough enough and has always been a caring and forgiving person. I stay away from her mostly except maybe a holiday. My own 2 son's have turned against me. She goes behind my back you see. Beware of not just strangers bearing gifts behind your back bribing believability. 🙁

A drug addict lies so much that it becomes a habit, and they lie even when they don't need to. It is just automatic.

@sashasg11

5 жыл бұрын

Thats profound. When u dont know ur lying anymore coz its automatic

@c.tucker95

5 жыл бұрын

I know many many many more people who are not drug addicts that lie as well and habitually too. It's disgusting.

A narcissist is the most convincing liar because he believes the lie himself. A Machiavellian liar is lying for a purpose, and he'll quit while he's ahead. He prepares the lie carefully and prays that he won't be found out.

They Never Remember the LIE ❗❗😐

@christophermichael4372

5 жыл бұрын

BINGO!

@joycebruhn3672

5 жыл бұрын

Right. Mine. Always. Denies. All. The. Bs. Said. The. Year. Earlier

@sarahshaver1996

5 жыл бұрын

OMG so true! When my narc husband lies ( which is every 15 minutes, literally) I know I'll I have to do is wait. Casually, a few days later, I'll bring up the same topic. The story will change ever so slightly. I used to think he was slow-to-learn with a severe memory problem--he even dupped our first marriage therapist. She Dx'd him with A.D.D. Then he'd bitch & moan when I treated him like he was slow-to-learn! Ugh! Finally, I asked my bro-in-law who's an FBI senior supervising agent. I provided a current example. Mr. FBI said, "He knows. He understands it's that He doesn't want to do what you're asking." It's like, really? I wonder when hi stop holding my husband on the same countability level as my kids who are 6 and 8 and one has a mild cognitive delay? Relationship with a narcissist is like being on a very mild dose of psychedelics such as mushrooms or LSD every day. My husband lies so much that he would need about three secretaries to maintain all of his alternative facts. Good liars don't lie so often to where they can't remember their shit. These dudes are good liars physically--none of thus face touching crap that ppl with a decent values exhibit. BUT, no one can maintain that much false details especially against a person with the stamina of a long distance runner (college--all college--now, I only run and lock myself in the bathroom to get my alone time 😂).

@annekerotterdam7499

5 жыл бұрын

That's why it is a Narcissistic Personality Disorder! A lie (Wikipedia) is a deliberate untruth. NPD is a defense mechanism, the disorder works 'automatically', not deliberate. We know they are lying but to narcissists it's reallity. That's why they seem professional liars to us, don't remember a lie, never will admit lying and keep on trying to change the story or blame you.

@anaRuiz-zh1lf

5 жыл бұрын

Correct 😁🎀

I deal with a narcissist roommate and trust me, they bring lying to a whole new level. He lies to cover the lies that he continues lying about. I've net met such a compulsive liar in my life. They are CHAMPION LIARS This video is mild and doesn't cover the whole truth. To quote House, "everybody lies." It's to what extent some people are willing to go to protect their lies or admit fault.

@christophermichael4372

5 жыл бұрын

ya should meet my ex old lady of 12 years, cock hopper, think she's screwing in cars and trucks by now for $... pretty sure...

@wordninja2494

5 жыл бұрын

@@christophermichael4372 Sounds like she has more problems than being allergic to the truth

I am in my 40s and have been dx with ADHD since age 8. I've been accused of lying many times when I'm strictly trying to form cohesive thoughts. My dad, to this day, accuses me of being a liar. It's devastating.

@tanyawest2017

5 жыл бұрын

Anyone who knows you well enough to matter, should recognize the difference between what you do and lying. They should be able to figure out that if that is how you act when they know you are telling the truth, then you aren't lying if you act that way when they don't know the truth. In other words, you father has surely seen you tell the truth--and known it was the truth--hundreds of times. (He has a baseline-like when they do a lie detector test, they always ask some questions they know are true like your name where you are etc, so they can compare your heartrate etc when you are not lying to what changes if you do lie.) If your father has seen how you act hundreds of times when you are saying something he already knows is true but he still thinks you are lying when you act that way, he must be really, really stupid--at least emotionally stupid or stupid about people. If he isn't really stupid, then he's an ass who has his own reasons for wanting you to feel judged or in trouble or bad about yourself. Forget about his opinion. Either way (either he is stupid OR he wants you to feel bad) his opinion of you is worthless. Don't ever let it affect your opinion of you.

This is how to catch a liar who possesses empathy and remorse. Someone who may feel guilty about some act they may have committed. A true lair can fake reality. They do not think or feel anything when lying because they are able to live a lie in the moment of telling it. Most likely you'll never spot a true sociopathic liar unless you have facts about the situation. These people are so convincing you'll repeat their lie further making the tall tail into a reality for the liar.

@spartanmucho5950

5 жыл бұрын

Super Saiyan I’m one

@suemarie6032

5 жыл бұрын

I agree. A true liar can fake reality. I often felt like making my ex take a lie detector test but they say if they believe what they are saying, they'd pass. Not sure if my ex was a habitual, compulsive or a combo of these and other forms of lying. He wasn't good at it though.

The truth about a liar is they hope you don't know any better. Education is a liar's worst enemy and the truth's best friend.

The best liar is one who actually believes what they are saying is true, but that enters into a whole other realm of self denial, almost psychosis. A good liar also sticks to the same story, tells the same lie again and again, changing the story only opens you up to be discredited. A good liar also makes sure there's no way of disproving his lie. Shit, I sound like a psychopath.

Top tip,if someone is lying to others, don't make the mistake to think they won't lie to you

All these signs mean nothing if the liar beliefs himself. And yes that happens. Spotting liar is easier if you know them wel,but even than you could be surprised.

@cameronreekie6519

5 жыл бұрын

well that's awkward with narcs, compulsive liars and even sometimes borderlines in melt down can genuinely believe their own stories, however with narcs it’s guaranteed if their lips are moving they are probably lying! 🤥

I’ve liars that do none of that. I dealt with liars that looked me in the face with out blinking and I knew they were lying.

A person that lies much will after a while loose control over the lies and then the lies start contradict each other.

@christophermichael4372

5 жыл бұрын

BINGO! their bs made up stories change, you got it.

@lindablackwell4852

5 жыл бұрын

That's what happened to Narcissist sister did to me. She kept changing the lies about me. One Lie after another. Fortunately for her many people in this country and my red state are ignorant. How can they believe her when I tell them the truth? I'm trying to keep control.

@KITLEVEY

5 жыл бұрын

...and then someday they get to president.

People and children that have been abused will do all of those because they are hiding their shame. That and more. Anxiety disorders and ptsd.

@claudiafrasca-jones5006

6 жыл бұрын

Yes, thats very true

@alleyoop9698

5 жыл бұрын

Yes yes yes!!!

@paulettaphillips3659

5 жыл бұрын

I thought that too. I was thinking I call Bull on this.

@mei5050

5 жыл бұрын

I'm autistic and I have my bag on my lap and like to 'hide' behind things because it helps me feel grounded and less anxious around people or in public places. I am not a liar, but anyone watching this video might see my autistic behaviour and come to the wrong conclusion.

@justChristine

5 жыл бұрын

mei5050 , That's how I feel also sometimes, liking hiding out. I found that just wearing glasses is helpful in feeling safer out around people.

Truth is easy to grasp. Lies make you have to think hard and you have to strain your mind to make it make sense

@MastaSmack

6 жыл бұрын

The more you lie and come up with creative stories on the fly the better you will get at it...it will be easier than the truth.

@brokendoll4116

6 жыл бұрын

Bryan Ovalasiti , but alot of people now days can sit straight up, look you straight in the eyes and have no changing demeanor. Crazy!

@IExpectedBSJustNotThisMuchBS

5 жыл бұрын

I'm laughing at this because my mother used to tell me that I'd go around the block to cross the street. I unnecessarily complicate every conversation I'm in. TMI, TMI. And I almost always provide too much detail. (I deleted an entire paragraph of detail in my response to you.) The biggest thing is whether complicating matters is unusual for someone or if providing a lot of detail is unusual. Unless of course, the person is lying all the time. People like that do exist. I don't think, however, most people are engaging in consequential lies on a regular basis.

I'm always nervous and doing all those gestures and stutter even when I'm telling the truth. Even for simple conversation.

@holderbee7811

6 жыл бұрын

A liar is nervous because they're lying, it's not that nervous people are liars

@noahone3577

6 жыл бұрын

natural social anxiety/fear of cops etc is found out during the preliminary, interview, however when innocuous questions are asked, you establish a base like - like your grandmother had a farm? no way! what kind of farm was it? (always ask open ended questions) conversations like that is how you establish body language, temper, and micro expressions more as you guide them through the interview

@Adz3224

5 жыл бұрын

Same here!

@rickrossi7426

5 жыл бұрын

I think you’re lying about that 😂

@ProudKansan08

5 жыл бұрын

I'm pretty shy, and therefore, not the best conversationalist, but, I notice that when I'm talking to people, I'm always looking down, or all around the room or if we are outside, looking at the trees or whatever our surroundings are, and I'm not lying, its just that I'm shy, know I'm a horrible conversationalist and embarrassed by it. The only time I look at someone straight in the eye is when THEY are talking to me, and when I comment back, I'm looking down or all around. I'm pretty sure, people would think I'm a big liar, too, but, I'm not. The only lies I tell people are because I don't want to hurt their feelings and tell them I like their haircut or the outfit they are wearing when I really don't, or I like the food they brought to a potluck, when I really don't. And I lie to my kids when they ask me if I smoked marijuana or got drunk when I was a teenager. Those are the only lies I tell. :)

Everyday liars are easy to spot but pathological liars can fool anyone, can even pass a lie detector test.

@904Kellyy

5 жыл бұрын

Joseph Van Zandt My thoughts exactly

@ruth5885

5 жыл бұрын

There are Sociopaths who were born normal, but their upbringing created their illness. Psychopaths are born psychopaths and they can pass a lie detector no problem.

@luxzartheglorious

5 жыл бұрын

and that's why I'm a problem

@opal331

5 жыл бұрын

Joseph Van Zandt Absolutely. There are narcissists, sociopaths, and psychopaths out there straight lying their lives away and they feel nothing.

@aiahzohar5636

5 жыл бұрын

THIS.

I'm not a liar. I try to be honest at all times, but honesty sometimes gets you in trouble.

@MastaSmack

6 жыл бұрын

Say "I'll be honest, I'm not talking to you or anyone else"

@TW-fu2hv

6 жыл бұрын

MastaSmack am I? Do u RING? 👋....no B.S.

@marymacdonald1651

6 жыл бұрын

Yes, it takes courage.

@jimbrew4529

6 жыл бұрын

The only folks that are totally honest tend to have a mental impairment or personality disorder.

@christophermichael4372

5 жыл бұрын

no, honesty gets THEM in trouble...

Lying is basically an art. Some people have perfected it so well that even the most common red flags don't appear when they are talking. The best way to get better at catching liars is by evaluating many of them.

Learning how to be an excellent liar with Dr.Phil.

@KitKat-nu8dv

6 жыл бұрын

Elena Ruth Chondrogianni lolll

@natalihavad8182

5 жыл бұрын

lmaooo

I grew up with master liars and manipulaters .... i never see them do 80% of these things... but they do distance themselves randomly from guilt at times and get very hostile when you confront them about anything. Especially if you assume they are lying thats how you know they are lying.... Hostility

@jeanetteparrish8167

5 жыл бұрын

Yes I agree

@lindablackwell4852

5 жыл бұрын

@C C , I hope everything is well with you and thanks for pointing out to Alexandria White about these people, when confronted when lies, are Narcissists.

I'm an Empath, and I don't have to see a person to know they are lieing. I can be txting someone, or having an online conversation .. and I can feel them lieing to me 3,000 miles away. I know when Im being lied to. And it makes every hair on my neck stand up. I cannot stand a liar. Everyone lies to a degree, and you woukd be a liar, to say thats not true. Some people lie, just to keep from making a person feel bad, or hurt them. But there are many types of liars. And I can tell with just looking at words and the vibes I get. Its worse when someone lies straught to my face, I usually dont say anything .. But there are times I do, and they aren't able to lie over the lie they are caught in. Its impossible to lie to an Empath. I was akso reading on the narcissist comments. I was married to a narcissist for years. We were very young when we married. As the years passed, I didnt understand his behavior until we were 20 years into it with children. He is an alcoholic on top of it. I left him a month before the death of our second child, she was murdered 3 weeks before her 26th birthday. The following year, our last daughter committed suicide, and his narcisstic tendencies were off the charts, with nobody to control n tried very hard to pull me back in. We've been divorced now for 4 years, and I still get controlling txts, that are full of accusations if jealousy. I cant be in the same room with him at times for no longer than 5 minutes. They are energy sucking vampires, and can be dangerous. I stayed all those years, thinking I was being a good mother, now that all 3 of my children are passed, looking back I wonder if I made the right choices. But, the ither side if me finds the positive things I took from it as well. Learn the traits of a narcissist and if you come across one pursuing you, run like your damn head is on fire. Because no matter what you do, or how much you love them - they will never change. And you will become the fuel to their fire. CF ♡

The best way to tell a liar is to measure their actions against their words. If the two don’t match...liar!

The most important thing... lose your complicity... your desire to believe the liar.

@m.f.richardson1602

5 жыл бұрын

Good One.

Having worked with policing agencies I can tell you liars tend not tell the same story again and again. People have VERY weak memories. Very few can put up with repeated questioning in regards to an event that requires detailed answers and or proof of your whereabouts/ time place ect. Sometimes even those who tell the truth tend to get confused in repeated questioning.

@MastaSmack

6 жыл бұрын

This stuff is flawed, I was falsely accused of stealing a ring from my parents...and I sat there and maintained full eye contact the whole time...the detective still said to my parents that I did it. I'm no saint, as I have stolen before, but this was not the case at the time.

@noahone3577

6 жыл бұрын

they can't tell a story backwards, like a/woke up b/took a shower/c walked the dog d/ got ready for work if you ask them what they did before they walked the dog, they won't say I took a shower Instead they go all the way back to a and repeat abcd it is called 'script memory' a story that they had to repeat over and over so they could get it believable to the cop or whomever the person is answering to so whatever you ask them they go back to their script and repeat it over and over

@MastaSmack

6 жыл бұрын

Some people can say the alphabet backwords, some can't...doesn't make them a liar.

@usausa155

6 жыл бұрын

MastaSmack, the alphabet is static and can be memorized. It does not change even when reciting it backwards. It's not the same thing as trying to recall events in the order it happened or telling it backwards, especially when under stress such as interrogation.

@noahone3577

6 жыл бұрын

and besides, it is only one facet of many tools at the disposal of the investigator, statement analysis, polygraph, handwriting analysis - not to mention the real or documentary evidence found the old fashioned way, lots of legwork and crime scene analysis

In my experience, with practiced liars, they learn to first believe their lie, then it becomes real to them.

@williamjeans4598

5 жыл бұрын

They swear your eyes played tricks on you! You didn’t hear that right. Honestly they believe their lies and if I hadn’t seen this first hand I wouldn’t believe anyone could possibly be this stupid..

I have a good friend who exhibits most of these 'tells' during the course of a normal conversation. He is a victim of PTSD baggage and my heart goes out to him. His anxiety over the trauma he has been imprinted with is accepted by me and after a couple of hours of working together or just hanging out over a game of pool he settles into what can easily be mistaken for normal. He wouldn't tell a lie to me if it was on fire in his mouth. I just don't assume I'm confronted with a liar because of the tells - first I give them more rope until they tangle themselves in it.

If a story does not make sense, there is a reason for that. That is a flag.

@rickrossi7426

5 жыл бұрын

Chris Daniels I agree

There are some people that a really believable liars. Generally they are narcs

@inspectorbudget

6 жыл бұрын

mike riolo with narcs, the too much detail & answering questions not asked are major red flags/giveaways in my experience.

@Trapezius8oblique

5 жыл бұрын

Psychopaths and Narcissists aren’t as obvious. I know a few, and even when I actually know that they are lying, they are sooo convincing, I even doubt myself about what I know to be true about what they have really done or said. It’s crazy. They can look you straight in eye and convince you of anything other than what you know to be the truth

@annekerotterdam7499

5 жыл бұрын

Because it's a disorder! It's their (defense mechanism) reality (!) to survive...

@d.dedrick7991

5 жыл бұрын

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@Chris-tg3qy

5 жыл бұрын

Narcs are believable because nobody would ever dream of making up the crap they lie about; however, if you are around them long enough or doubt their lies they will show their true colors. Narcs, especially the covert narc, are absolutely cowardly. They are wounded beyond repair - run!

when I was younger my parents blamed me for a lot of stuff my older sibling did. So now, even into my 50's, Whenever there is conflict and someone is to blame, and I get asked if I know who "did it", or someone casually mentioning that the car had gotten broken into, I tend to get nervous to almost the point of shaking. I can feel it happening, I just know they are going to accuse me of doing something, when in fact I wasn't even in the same state...as it were.

@DanaWeeksroll

6 жыл бұрын

crispyspa What they did to you sounds like narcissistic abuse. And you're reaction sounds like C-ptsd from having to live in that. If you're not familiar with these terms or conditions, PLEASE look them up! A lot of people experience this and have no idea what, was or still is, going on.

@fleurof28

6 жыл бұрын

well opposite thing happened to my sister, she has been question all the time and she kept on lying and never admit anything about all the accusations and blame everyone for bulliying her where in fact she was doing all of those wrong doings, she's a narcissist... 100% Liar

@RichRich1955

5 жыл бұрын

Why don't you just say ' it wasn't me' ? Then say "fuck off"

@Apricot90

5 жыл бұрын

Wow same...

@derriepage5934

5 жыл бұрын

YOU NEED HELP.

Now we got a senior judge who is the most dramatic/bombasic of liars

I needed this decades ago! My trust was abused.

NOT TRUE. A true "liar" is a con artist and you wont be able to tell unless you investigate the lie for yourself so just remember this, when dealing with liars.....dont try to figure out if they lied by body language....youll need to investigate.

@christophermichael4372

5 жыл бұрын

and when you find yourself playing detective, it is because you already know...

@ursamagick6110

5 жыл бұрын

@@christophermichael4372 Isn't that the TRUTH!

@IExpectedBSJustNotThisMuchBS

5 жыл бұрын

Yeah, all this seems to apply to occasional consequential liars. However, con artists frequently answer questions not asked and say, "Honestly" and the like. So a true liar might do some of these things.

@Madmen604

5 жыл бұрын

A con artist can make you suspend your disbelief.

The only way for sure is one their track record and their behavior. Their stories are inconsistent. They claim to be loaded with money yet they are always barrowing something or bumming off others. They tell you something then a few days later you ask and they don't have a clue what you're saying.

@leannamctier2943

6 жыл бұрын

I mboo exactly true

Every person who raised their hand should never serve on a jury.

I got " would I lie to you?" every time and wiping the sweat off his brow and forehead.

@janeygourley8008

5 жыл бұрын

Many times guilt will come out as anger because anger is easier to deal with than guilt. So if you confront someone and they try to turn it around on you with anger most likely they are feeling guilty about something!

The shitty thing is that people with low self esteem or severe introversion do a lot of the things on the body language list. So in this case, you basically have to defer to the verbal cues list.

@janeadelaidelennox7193

6 жыл бұрын

One thing blunt introverts don’t do is lie. And they don’t speak too formally.

@suewilliams6202

6 жыл бұрын

i do the same thing i dont even relise why i tell half truths i suffer with deprission and anxiety ive moved away from family and friends so i dont upset anyone im so low i think im a jealous of everyones happines and what god parents they have been .i feel very bitter and now as ive got oldder the remorse is getting to me more and more for the way i behaved

@thereseward7852

6 жыл бұрын

Sue Williams hoping you can learn to love and forgive yourself. I found help by reading a book called CONQUERING SHAME AND CODEPENDENCY 8 Steps to Freeing the True You by Darlene Lancer

@marymacdonald1651

6 жыл бұрын

Isosceles Kramer That is so true. I am extremely shy and I do those things. I really try to tell the truth, though.

@marymacdonald1651

6 жыл бұрын

Sue Williams My granddaughter and I will be praying for you. Did you ever read The Dawntreader from the Chronicles of Narnia? Aslan, who represents Jesus, tells Lucy, "Take courage, dear heart."

I touch my face all the time - nervous habit, and I also breathe oddly because I'm asthmatic. Clearly not all these signs mean a person's lying.

@MadNotAngry

5 жыл бұрын

You don't have asthma, liar. (j/k)

Some I don't agree with.. I often say "to be perfectly honest..." and it's NOT a lie that comes out of my mouth after that! I also know of convicted murderers who HAVE said what punishment the perpetrator should get if/when caught. A very old case in France, where this guy had kidnapped and murdered a young boy. When asked by media he said that whoever did this deserves the death penalty! His name was Patrick Henry.

@ohall105

5 жыл бұрын

justme33126 yes he is a psychologist I believe.

I don't need any of that, my gut tells me when someone is lying. It's like the atmosphere changes I can feel it

Dr. Phil is so out of breath. I felt like I needed to take a deep breath for him. 😥

@wonsted

6 жыл бұрын

Could be a couple things. First, he could just not be as good at public speaking as he would like to think he is so, he spits everything that he needs to say out and forgets to breathe while he’s doing it (I do that - especially when i have my ducks in a row and just want to say what i have to say.). So, he could just need a speech coach. Or, it could be that his diabetes has gotten worse and he’s having kidney or CHF issues. I hope its the former.

What of gaslighters?? Gaslighting! Very damaging and mind blowing narc tactic and destroys any relationship! AND the other person!

@whitedove7945

5 жыл бұрын

Angela Falsetta My ex liar accused me of having mood swings and to go get help. Lol 😳 Wonder what fake Phil would say about that rubber toupe he wears. It's so obvious. Wonder why a guest hasn't mentioned it. Oh! Nevermind! Lol 😳. Have a lovely evening sis. God bless us all.

@lindablackwell4852

5 жыл бұрын

Yes, been through gaslighting with Narcissist friend.

@tomprice3258

5 жыл бұрын

Michael John Morren. Liar. Narc. Expert Gaslighter. Bastard criminal.

@raymondfrye5017

5 жыл бұрын

Gaslight? That was a British movie of the '40s with actor Charles Boyer. It was about a criminal tried convincing an heiress, that she was crazy so he could steal her dead aunt's jewels. What does Gaslight mean? Well, her husband (the criminal who married the victim) would turn down the gas for the lights in the house and then make noises to convince her she was going crazy believing in ghosts. Then, he would show up at the front door and say he heard and saw nothing. She must be crazy. All the while, he was searching for her aunt's jewels that he tried to steal 15 years earlier. Regards

@lindablackwell4852

5 жыл бұрын

@@tomprice3258 , who is he?

Years of careful observation, and researching when I sense a lie almost ALWAYS gives the liar away...Remember folks.. the first rule is DENY DENY DENY

I’ve noticed that when you ask someone a simple question about the lie, they usually ask you to repeat it as though they haven’t heard. I guess it gives them time to prepare an answer, this was a CLASSIC with my ex “Who just texted you?” “My sister” “Oh, what did she want?” “Huh? Oh just something about her work” 🙄

@HyruleJen

2 жыл бұрын

This! I never see this mentioned but it’s 100% correct. The false confusion and the answering without clarification, indicating they heard you perfectly well and just stalled.

Want to know if someone is lying? Ask them the question you want answered....then, be quiet. Don’t speak and let them ramble on. Guaranteed, they will feel uncomfortable if they are lying and drop themselves in it trying to convince you, they become paranoid. If they’re truthful, they will say what happened, and figure they’ve told the truth so they have no need to embellish their story. It works most of the time, obviously it’s not 100%, but like I said, guaranteed....it will definitely make a lying person uncomfortable. Unless they are a sociopath, psychopath, or a narcissist...in that case, I have nothing to help! Lol!

@scottfamily5963

5 жыл бұрын

Not if a very honest person feels you are not believing them and cares a lot about being believed.

@stevieblackburn3811

5 жыл бұрын

Huh dr Phil I'm afraid you are deluded. This sick, twisted system with its one size fits all gang mentality is built on absolute lies that permeate our pathetic society from the top matey. People should lead by example. Instead those in positions of influence and power are above the law. They are hypocrites. There is no wonder the world is spinning out of control when people like you stand up thee and spout such simplified clap trap. People lie for one reason and one reason only. Cos they can. It's a choice. And unless they admit, which is almost never or you can prove it beyond a doubt, you will always be left uncertain. Also most of the comments have this one thing in common. Neatly everybody has the signs you talk about in everyday life. It don't make em all liars do it sir. I can't lie. I'm low functioning. I'd drop myself innit. Yet if you had you're way you'd have us all in the slammer. Tut tut tut Mr. If it were that simple this godforsaken planet wouldn't be so full of the miserable, stinking toerags would it? In my experience all men are liars God is the truth.

My husband suffers anxiety and stress and he showes many of this trait when he is dealing with difficult person or situation specially when he has to stand up for himself, his hand and even whole body shivers, he breath fast n shallow but i know what he is going through...Dr.Phil you should not give half baked lecture to untraind audience who may misjudge thousands of ppl like my husband as a liar.

I never hide behind barriers. I confront people and call them out

Send this to my entire family and friends

I have some questions about this. I have social anxiety that causes me to have red spots on my chest neck and arms. I often pull my hands up by my face to sort of cover the blotches. I also fidget, A LOT. I give lots of unnecessary details bc I get nervous and ramble on. If people were paying attention to these signs of lying, everyone would think everything I say is a lie.

@username25o9

6 жыл бұрын

Me to I get so nervous around new people I wont look i thier eyes, and fidget alot. Also even around people Ive known forever if it is something personal or focousing attention on me.

@noahone3577

6 жыл бұрын

sounds like herpes

@off-roadbarbie5214

6 жыл бұрын

noah one are you bored or what? Just trying to start something over a Dr. Phil video? Damn, you’re so witty. I mean, why?

@noahone3577

6 жыл бұрын

you are right and I apologize

@qvvern

6 жыл бұрын

Off-Road Barbie yes but being nervous is part of telling a lie. But that is just one indicator of many and should not be a final factor in deciding that your a liar.

Dr. Phil is breathing heavily with short breaths and keeps tightly crossing his arms....hummmmm, why is he seemingly uncomfortable?

@johhny212100

6 жыл бұрын

DogsDroolll TRUTH He is talking to an audience and then and the rest of the world.

@philipharned944

6 жыл бұрын

Because he has millions of people criticing him like you.

@witchcerridwen

5 жыл бұрын

thats because hes out of texas and not comfortable.hes from the south you know.and this aint his first rodeo.

@anniebee900

5 жыл бұрын

DogsDroolll TRUT

@annekerotterdam7499

5 жыл бұрын

DogsDooll TRUTH...you're so RIGHT. It's bullshit he's telling and is just PROJECTING his own narcissistic personality disorder! All traits are there...(he's shouting too, framing the 'truth, theory=nonsens and the examples of a liar....just toddler behaviour. Ever seen a true liar (liar means deliberately not telling the truth) like a politician, behave the way Phil wants us to believe? Projection of a narcissist it is!

Some people "wall in" to protect themselves from the liars!

It’s always wise to tell the truth therefore you don’t have to remember your lies.

ONE TRUTH about a LIAR, THEY have to REMEMBER the LIES that THEY STARTED,, USUALLY THEY CAN'T EVEN

Learning how not to lie with Dr. Phil

@AngelAngela

5 жыл бұрын

Lemonskilledmyson 😩🤣🤣🤣🤣

I find it quite funny that people would actually make up a story just to get in your head...it honestly shows that they don't have anything great going on in their present life, i also believe that low self-esteem plays a part within themselves...good video!😁

One I noticed with many people is they open their eyes wide saying I'm not lying...

I've known many a liar that was not the least bit nervous. It was as if the lie was relaxing them and they oftentimes believe it themselves. I've known some that could pass a lie detector easily too.

@joycebruhn3672

5 жыл бұрын

I. Know. Many. Liars. Tooo. The. Majority. Of. The. Culture. Wants. The. Liar. So. All. Get. Rewards. Together. They. Hate. Truth. Telllers

@donnamariedavidson5065

5 жыл бұрын

@@joycebruhn3672 why do you put a period after ever word?

@lindablackwell4852

5 жыл бұрын

@@joycebruhn3672, they hate me because I am a truth teller. I've sacrificed having friends or sibs for telling about Narcissist sister.

@whitedove7945

5 жыл бұрын

Mandy Simmons. Those people are call narcissists sweetie. They are awesome at lying because they are so charismatic and likable.

I swear on my children's lives. I swear on a stack of Bibles...

@lh6740

6 жыл бұрын

Marilyn Bradley my ex said that all the time. I swear on my daughters head. I knew he was a cheater. Then i ran into him 10 years later....guess what he was engaged and his fiance was miles and wanted to be with me for one night. He tried to say he has a free pass. Lol. Busted

@lyndiex4215

6 жыл бұрын

Marilyn Bradley smdh...yup..devil narc i wasted time with was willing to swear on a bible...and why????? CAUSE THE BASTARD DONT FOLLOW GOD..HE.SERVES THE DEVIL! smh

@whitedove7945

5 жыл бұрын

Marilyn Bradley Don't forget "I swear to god." That is sure proof they are lieing. Happy day to you.

@nichellehowell

5 жыл бұрын

Mine swore on his mom & our son and was LYING!!!

I found this intriguing and very true. I have severe PTSD from an incredibly cruel father and 3 much older sisters. I'm 67 now, but I have found it almost impossible for me to lie and can count the times I have lied on the fingers of one hand. Here is why; When I was around five, I worked very hard for my mom on some project she had and was given a dollar. I saw in a magazine a little wooden battery car for .99 and she helped me to buy it. Before it came, dad found a small carrot with a bite out of the side in the garden. He made a big deal out of it and to find the guilty he compared tooth marks with all of us. Mine was the closest, and I was labeled a liar. For a month the round tube of my car and that carrot hung by a string from a wall sconce and I was make to look at it daily. I remember hating that car and just recently, in talking with my 75-year-old sister, she revealed that she, in a few days, confessed to him that she bit the carrot and was told to shut up. When he died in '86 I learned from her and another sister that he was angry I was born a boy, and by today's standards, he would have when to prison for what he did to them......

He admits it’s junk science then goes on to proliferate it.

Smooth hacking services, wonderful and brilliant steps. Having access to the target’s phone without any notice

Look at all the women in the crowd getting concerned

@christophermichael4372

5 жыл бұрын

oh you know it... let's see them BUILD SOMETHING... shall we? : )

@patmelton43

5 жыл бұрын

Men are the best liars. I know!!

@eilidhahcameron5110

5 жыл бұрын

Doesn't that tell youj something about men!!!

Liars eventually contradict themselves and need a good memory.. to remember their lies..

I have anxiety and ptsd and had to go to court to give evidence about the crime that caused a lot of my ptsd. I was nearly passing out from anxiety and stress. The defence lawyer was aggressive and hostile - this made me feel like I wanted a barrier between me and her but I was telling the truth. So how does that pan out?

lol...I do all that stuff when I'm telling the truth

The truth (in moderation) shall set you free.

I hate liers

Actions speak louder than words.

A lie is saying: I never have lied in my life.. Except For the. 43,000 times when I went to a casino. LoL

Stress tells are NOT signs of lying, they are signs of DISCOMFORT. It is almost impossible to spot a very good liar but easier to identify when what the person is saying makes them uncomfortable or their body language doesn't match. The thing is, without further investigation you don't know why why they are saying makes them uncomfortable or doesn't match their body language, it MIGHT be because they're lying or it may be for many other reasons.

I always suspect people who say "absolutely".

These are all great ways to spot liars who are bad at lying

This is BS. Only people that are generally honest will behave like that. A practiced lier is much more subtle. (I lived with a con man.) Edit: when I get anxious in social setting I talk too much and too fast and I do lots of that body language Dr. Phil and many other videos and books mention, which have NOTHING to do with lying... The best way to spot if someone lies is to know them personally, to know what behaviour is normal for them and any changes.

My brother is autistic and can't lie even in the most tiny ounce but he does all these physical gestures and with added details. One time my mom was using the restroom and a phone call came in. He answered it and went to the bathroom door knocking because it was for her. She told him to tell the person she'll call back because she's on the toilet and my brother relays the message "my mom will call you back because she's taking a shit"😂😂. My mom screamed with humiliation and since then never explains she's on the toilet...bahahaha!

@parme1241

5 жыл бұрын

M Trinidad autistic boys are true geniuses and highly conscious individuals.

@donnamariedavidson5065

5 жыл бұрын

@@parme1241 yes! so true. my son has Autism

@samsongabriel4087

5 жыл бұрын

M Trinidad Hahaha that’s so funny! 🤣

Middle fifties. Have been lied to all my life.

Now we know why politicians nod their head side to side when they respond yes and vice a versa with a no response.😀😛😳😜

if you are normal and true you will be able to look someone in the eye.

@leannamctier2943

6 жыл бұрын

barbara chipley yes exactly now that is the truth

@marymacdonald1651

6 жыл бұрын

barbara chipley No, Barbara, I am a teacher and sometimes kids will look you right in the eyes and tell outright lies.

@christophermichael4372

5 жыл бұрын

@@marymacdonald1651 @Mary so dump them out your class and send them to the retarded kids side of life forever...

I disagree with the cooperation theory. some folks are tired of being treated badly by law enforcement and simply refuse to be cooperative with these in uniform.

I’m the worst liar. My face turns red and my voice cracks

I do more than half of those things but I just have social anxiety. 😂 I'm a real loner, I struggle with interaction, now everybody will think I'm a liar!! 😂

Top tell....they will NOT look at you....

@pandilove

6 жыл бұрын

JD this is not true. I usually look away because it is a kind of respect in our culture.

@mehdontcare100

6 жыл бұрын

I've looked people straight in the eye and lied to them, and they believed me. That's exactly why they believed me.

@leannamctier2943

6 жыл бұрын

JD that's true or they get really quiet as if to think about something or what the next lie will be

@kboczkay5506

6 жыл бұрын

I have a bad eye so I am not able to look people in the eye so guess I am lying 24/7

@buddha8910

6 жыл бұрын

Karan Boczkay well obviously this won't apply to you... And your comment is a bit silly. You'll give away whether your telling the truth or lying in other ways, I suspect

or they'll do anything to talk over the conversation as if your not there. or pace back and forth like a chicken with his head cut off and start yelling like ya on the back 40 or something.

I knew some HEAVY liars that would look you straight in the eye and lie without a conscience. But they ALWAYS had a tell. Not an obvious tell but i figured out what it was because things werent adding up

Thinking: Those who suffer from abuse, depression or anxiety are screwed.

“Believe me!” Ring a bell???

@numberone5680

6 жыл бұрын

Dianne Inkpen Good one! 😂

@mariamkinen8036

6 жыл бұрын

This is good 😊

@inspectorbudget

6 жыл бұрын

One of Donald's favorite lines

@bluevictory1010

6 жыл бұрын

Dianne Inkpen 😂👍

@mariamkinen8036

6 жыл бұрын

E B yes!!! 👍

well I do some of those things because I have bad social anxiety and just don't know how to be fuckin normal half the time .. I often rant when I'm nervous I feel guilty for nothing when I see the police i get nervous even though in doing nothing same in airports 😂

@aidarebelo

5 жыл бұрын

Me too. I get so nervous when I see the police that one time I to pull over, I couldn't even see the road. The police stoped behind me and insisted that I was guilty of something. I never had a point on my licence or had a problem with the police, after about one hour they let me go. I called my son to come and drive the car home, I sold it and haven't driven in 15 years. Some people have fear of spiders I've of cops.

@lindablackwell4852

5 жыл бұрын

@@aidarebelo , cops stopped me and had no record. She said you not acting right. She made me walk the line and patted me down. If I had not been on the pooer end then would have not got stopped; because I had no money for lawyer to sue them. I later seen another real lady done the same way; not right/ fair.

There are many times Dr. Phil gets it wrong, particularly when he states a CPS worker or a court evaluator's findings as if they are correct. Very, very sad for children whose abusive parent is a malignant narcissist.

The face touching thing is a form of self soothing. If it's a stressful situation, face touching tells you nothing.

Disagree with everything he said .

@natalihavad8182

5 жыл бұрын

he has a degree and you don’t.

I don’t lie well when it aboutt ...But uhmm I just don’t lie!! I talk about everything I hear from ppl!!!! I touched my face and my lips , thus not make me a liar!! What about a Man U lived with for nearly 13 years and lied to u through out the relationship and left u hanging when u needed HIM!! Hum well mine ppl are liars and betrayersss

No one knows how to spot a liar with 100% certainty.

Consistency on what is said is the key. Period

the 'BS' he was talking about was called 'accessing' you have to prepare your interview room PUT the table between you and the suspect. put them in a place where they have access to the door, do not block the door.Talk to them about banalities and just chat. They will slowly relax - ask them 'harmless' questions, something like did they play baseball, and with each answer they will look up in an area might be left might be right, might be straight up or straight down but they will do it consistently. ask them questions that they have to think about for a minute, like who was your favorite teacher, if the last name is unusual make a comment that it is an unusual name, how do you spell that? (dont write it down - it spooks them) but they will do some accessing. Their bodies tell a lot, they might tap a pencil against their chin etc (not nervously) now that you know how they tell you the truth, spotting them lie is a cakewalk.

@noahone3577

6 жыл бұрын

I found more data on what he mocked, it is still taught in major police academies all over the world - the funny thing is the article suggests that the interviewer be 'less kojak' and more 'Dr Phil' en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reid_technique nickname 'reads 9 steps' I wonder if that gimlet eyed polygraph-ista ever blinks

@sunshines4555

6 жыл бұрын

Nah... BS... I was lied to multiple times while this person looked me square in the eye.

@inspectorbudget

6 жыл бұрын

Sunshine S I hate that. It's the worst & ultimate disrespect.

@brokendoll4116

6 жыл бұрын

noah one , were you a detective or something?

@georgouspeach

6 жыл бұрын

You have to frame them first and then u can interpret their responses to lies and truth.

I thought I touched my nose because it itched and I breathed shallow because I have asthma.

0:15 you can see the immense power Dr. Phil commands as he casually removes the commercials from existence.

Some liars believe their lies are truth. In a relationship the man and the woman see things differently. I kept a journal and a tape recorder as advised by our marriage counselor. Even listening back on the recording my ex could still contradict and twist everything they said. Such chaos. Glad I'm out.

DR Phil is not completely truthful about himself

@numberone5680

6 жыл бұрын

Nitai Gauranga He truthful about very, very little. He always lies to guests and I believe the ones that said he & his staff set them up. What bothers me most is his repetition of credentials and “old baldy”. Plus, he traumatizes guests more than they had been.

@robertonegron4264

6 жыл бұрын

Where are you getting all this?

@brokendoll4116

6 жыл бұрын

Nitai Gauranga , you know that's right.

@brokendoll4116

6 жыл бұрын

Number One , your right on. I've had the same thoughts. But his loyal little flock wouldn't believe the truth, or even suspenions on his part, if it was staring them in their face. There's people I like on tv, actresses, actors or a certain movie, but I definitely know their all just people like me. Nothing special, they are all imperfect & lead all imperfect lives, like us all. I will not worship, idolize another human being.

@Kcali111

5 жыл бұрын

No human fully discloses themselves and the more high profile,the more private u keep things because u know everybody and there brother wants in on your life. At the end of the day we are all just humans imperfect and flawed. Dr.phil addresses real life issues and gives advice, better then some shows that make a spectacle of the people, degrade them and offer no solutions on how they could better themselves n those close to them.

Look for orange skin

@tundrawomansays5067

5 жыл бұрын

Thought Criminal With a screen name like “Thought Criminal,” telling anyone to “fuck off” would be most effectively utilized in response to those (voices and) thoughts in your own head. If that doesn’t “work,” there’s Thorazine and/or Haldol. Good luck with those “criminal thoughts.”

@linamdc4688

5 жыл бұрын

@@tundrawomansays5067 you have got to be kidding.....please avoid being part of the problem of society. Your sitting here judging "Thought Criminal" for voicing their opinion to the moronic comment Rebecca posted. And your doing so in such a pathetically dissmissive manor by suggesting they are possible schizophrenics. What gives you any right to assume that your personal opinion is so much more superior, that you can blatantly disregard the seriousness of those who actually ARE schizophrenic?? Ppl have commit suicide from schizophrenia. YOUR HATE SPEECH isnt wanted here...and neither is your intolerance of different opinions on this OPEN PUBLIC PLATFORM... Practice what you preach..evaluate yourself and police your own stupid opinions before speaking such misguided hypocrisy. Maybe you need a therapist....or the adoption of critical/logical/original thought. Moron.

@karenmarie620

5 жыл бұрын

You are a poor little moron

@sheltiemomstefanie2564

5 жыл бұрын

Rebecca Phillips your comment is so very true! I love it ! 😂👍🏻❤️

@thebeyer8321

5 жыл бұрын

Angelina C, so you are defending the racist POTUS, and complaining about intolerance?.... smh

Whenever I'm pissed, or being accused of lying I always get formal in my speech. Especially when I'm telling the truth.

I hate liars. Especially those that can’t admit to their wrongs. They are sickening! They would go as far as destroying their families and relationship just to not accept their wrongs.