You never judge someone else’s journey your not in their shoes.

@leighewinson9473

Жыл бұрын

Remember everyone has a backstory.... Be kind

@Declan239

Жыл бұрын

Well they are now soo 😂

@BronnyJames2025MVP

Жыл бұрын

God, conservatives are the absolute worst with their disgusting self righteous judgements. They are not moral people.

@stressmuffin

Жыл бұрын

What pissed me off about this person Kelly is talking about, is that this hypocrite is also going through a divorce. Gee! I wonder why…….🤔

@j4513

Жыл бұрын

So I am missing part of the story. I am saying that genuinely, as clearly I misunderstood. The other person said, “Well relationships are hard.“ And that’s where they were shaming her? Or what else did I miss (I watched the whole thing)

My grandfather always told his girls if they would gossip..."Never judge because you never know what's yet to come."

@ErinDeNis

Жыл бұрын

The problem is these days, the gossip is also coming from the men, their platforms and their podcasts, too.

@billivee

Жыл бұрын

Men are the biggest gossips on the planet

@Etgetit

Жыл бұрын

So true! Coming from my own experience.

@itscourtney93

Жыл бұрын

So true!!

@cindycase1726

Жыл бұрын

Sounds like a very wise man 🙂

IT WAS KEVIN COSTNER!! You’re welcome.

@katherinejackson3245

8 ай бұрын

I was trying to remember who it could be 😂

@dclibra2394

8 ай бұрын

Thank you! Lol

@Rednaxela137

8 ай бұрын

Really? Lol he had the audacity to shame her when he got divorced once in 1994 tsk tsk “relationship is hard” yeah ok

@NNNN-nh9sl

8 ай бұрын

Why does she talk so bitterly about it? Relationships ARE hard. Weigh every word and you're automatically hurt.

@IvanaSantini

7 ай бұрын

​@@NNNN-nh9slI feel like there's clearly a lot more that was said because based off that alone I wouldn't take it that badly either. It could have been the tone the context missing or more words that were said if not I agree with you it doesn't seem like that bad of a thing to say.

I love the “they’re going thru something, I’m gonna let that go!” I need to say that more often when things happen. Thanks, Kelly, for your great example on kindness!

@Velereonics

4 ай бұрын

thats my moms take and Im 34 still saying 'no mom theyre just an asshole"

@vickig5898

4 ай бұрын

@@Velereonics haha!

@cheeyang3210

2 күн бұрын

I sometimes catch myself saying fu.. my life is hard or fu.. up but than I'll remember someone else is having a harder time than me and it brings me back to reality that is not that bad

Kelly is one of the nicest and most down to earth people in the industry and so darn talented it’s insane. She’s amazing! Love her!

@lizzie354

Жыл бұрын

Why she makes such a good host! So happy for her and Drew’s shows’ successes. They are such genuine people who have been through so much, they deserve them :)

@leeleemaggs1347

Жыл бұрын

That is why her show is so successful!

@deborahlyn935

Жыл бұрын

Unbelievably Naive though.

@judyjuan9440

11 ай бұрын

Diiiitoo!

@Munkyjoe1

11 ай бұрын

@@deborahlyn935 How so?

Half the people that shame others wish they had the guts to get out of a bad marriage

@olderwiser64

Жыл бұрын

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

@daneyd8401

Жыл бұрын

100% truth

@KeyonnaD

Жыл бұрын

Literally

@razrv3lc

Жыл бұрын

100% truth. The only people mad about divorce are people who should be divorced from and people who wish they were brave enough to do it themselves.

@gamgamdabest8327

Жыл бұрын

How do you know that?

If anyone has earned the right to hold their head high it's Kelly.... she inspires me everyday! 😘😘😘😘😘

I love how she gave them the benefit of the doubt to the other person.

@User12345fan

Жыл бұрын

And why shouldn’t she?

@archiesshowtell8094

Жыл бұрын

@@User12345fan I bet you are one of those people which just pick fights in the comments section to make yourself feel better. This post didn’t need a self righteous reply, unnecessary.

@orphanedhanyou

7 ай бұрын

Except she didn't? Maybe you are taking a person just trying to continue the conversation about an awkward time for you (that they probably don't want to talk about) and making your own assumptions. "Relationships are hard" can easily include "break ups are hard" etc.

Kelly just oozes kindness. Rare for Hollywood.

@bilalc4415

Жыл бұрын

I remember when she was Star struck when she met Normani, a singer who looked up to Kelly Clarkson as an inspiration. 🤣🤣🤣

@calixohiggins9843

Жыл бұрын

Yea, she's so kind that she abandoned her kids and husband to wear clown makeup and sing horrible songs.

@mrsmack5808

11 ай бұрын

It's not kind to say someone is hilariously getting a divorce...

@calixohiggins9843

11 ай бұрын

More like she oozes vegetable oil 🍟🥞🥧

@andrewturner1714

11 ай бұрын

not rare for Texas though

I just got a divorce after 33 years . Wish I would of done it 25 years ago. Stayed because of the kids . No one knows completely what you've been through . It's important to know you are important too, and if you knew a divorce was necessary then it is . People grow apart or have whatever issues that become a deal breaker . Kelly you and your kids are going to be ok! Team work ❤

@jimboswamps5602

Жыл бұрын

You are very strong. Thank you for sharing that.

@TammiePhillips-sh9qi

Жыл бұрын

I divorced after 32 years myself...The ONLY shining light in this is our son, he is worth going through what I did...

@IWantToMature85

Жыл бұрын

If "no one knowz" what someone goes through then it would be helpful to warn people about what happens in marriage. Divorce isn't the goal when you get married so people should share to the future spouses what they need to avoid instead of being discrete.

@lisacranmer8005

11 ай бұрын

​@@IWantToMature85omgggggggg... that's what happened to me..they kept secrets from me and I was a innocent person, not knowing what I was getting into, they even lol in my face and said we thought he was going to change, really? you lied to my face and put the Bible in my face and play GAMES with me by putting my life in Dangerous Situations....it hurts me because I'm did not need to be abused and used by the church facade and clan of liers who KEPT secrets from me and imagine how much pain and suffering I endured from lies...from the beginning 4/1987 to 4/2011....and he played victim all over the State....the dark traid attitude kept under wraps...

@calixohiggins9843

11 ай бұрын

Not strong or brave. You were probably just bored and had an overinflated sense of your self worth.

It's not hard to simply be kind.

@jimmyrade7815

Жыл бұрын

But it is very difficult for many people

@calixohiggins9843

Жыл бұрын

It's also not the most noble or important quality that a person can display. In a moral society, shaming people who break their holy vows and abandon their families should be considered more righteous and essential than mere kindness.

@blakecharles4501

9 ай бұрын

⁠@@calixohiggins9843 I think you should question your own morals. Did Jesus shame people? Or did he love sinners and help lead them down a better path?I’m assuming you’re Christian because you said holy vows.

@calixohiggins9843

9 ай бұрын

@@blakecharles4501 Jesus called out sin when He saw it, then challenged sinners to choose to be better and follow Him. Some might call this shaming.

@blakecharles4501

9 ай бұрын

@@calixohiggins9843 I never read Jesus calling someone fat. Which you are doing here.

"A friend of a friend is my friend. Be discreet."A quote from the south.

@lisacranmer8005

11 ай бұрын

exactly..DNT do dirty to anyone... NEVER tell other people's lives behind their back, lol, no one knows what happened it's too much to tell, years of experience makes you stronger than yesterday, because you keep secrets to stay away FROM TOXIC drama and you get people talking smack when they DNT have a clueeeeeeeee...lol

@MearnieToon

Ай бұрын

I live in the south I was just asked the other day by a bank teller how I could worship statues. They didn’t keep their bigotry and stupidity very discreet.

@kika-ge5qr

Ай бұрын

@@MearnieToon😂 It's about gossiping.

I was told don't look down on anyone...you could be looking up tomorrow 🙏💗

@serenequeen8973

Жыл бұрын

Oooh that’s so deep. I felt a chill go up and down my spine reading that

Divorce is a blessing. Imagine being stuck forever with someone you don’t like or hate.

@pamelasmith6221

5 ай бұрын

Then you shouldn’t marry them in the first place. It’s a lifelong commitment between two people. I’ve been married for 30 years and it has never been awful or a question. If you love someone then that love never ends. It just gets better with life and life experiences together. It’s not that complicated. I really think if a marriage doesn’t work out then it wasn’t love to begin with.

@LeeLeeCRN

5 ай бұрын

​@@pamelasmith6221That's YOUR experience. Who are YOU to say that someone's relationship or marriage wasn't ever love?That's incredibly self righteous n rude!! Looks like u are one of those ppl who assume they know what's happening behind closed doors. My ex husband n I had a wonderful marriage n truly loved each other. Long story short..he got very sick n had to have brain surgery. He healed from his illness n his surgery but whatever they did to his brain changed him. He was never the same..he became someone I didn't know.. complete personality change. I tried to stay..tried counseling..tried it all but he didnt think anything was wrong n couldn't see that the brain surgery had altered his personality. In addition to that ppl change..a friend of mine worked on her marriage for years after he husband became an ab*sive addict. Sometimes things happen n no matter how hard u try they cannot be fixed. Again..u don't know someone's life behind closed doors n the struggle n pain they are enduring to try to fix things n make it work BECAUSE they love someone. Its great that your experience was a good one but, reality check...life isn't a fairy-tale...things just happen n there are things that can't be fixed by love alone. I still have love for my ex..I'm not in love with him anymore but I still care about him n maintain a good co -parenting relationship with him bc our kids love him.

@barbaraortiz8101

3 ай бұрын

Sometimes people change or people grow apart (or sometimes people become violent or cheat), we never know what other people experience so we should be happy for whoever makes it work and for whenever says enough js enough. Everyone’s journey js different

She seems so authentically nice :)

@calixohiggins9843

11 ай бұрын

You mean she sounds like an airhead that is incapable of articulating a cohesive thought.

I remember going to a church and the most holiest girl there posting on FB about how she would never ever get a divorce. This is knowing very well I was going through one. A few years later she did too. Such hypocrites! Besides that so many people and family members will smile in your face and insult you at the same time. 🐍

@ilovela0068

Жыл бұрын

I was kicked out of my church for getting pregnant before marriage. I was 18. Meanwhile the pastors daughter had 3 kids outside of marriage.

@cassiopee26

Жыл бұрын

@@ilovela0068wow, that’s why I hate religion so much! Too many use this to guilt, shame and manipulate people. There is nothing wrong with believing in God though (I do too), but my religion is only between me and God; I don’t need no church or institution to apply rules to it.

@thisisnotmyname4700

Жыл бұрын

Yes! I couldn't stand the church environment. The people were not honest...saying one thing, doing completely different..all while looking down their noses at people. Been church free for 9 years now and have learned far more about our Creator than what I ever did in church.

@spirituallysafe

4 сағат бұрын

@@ilovela0068Did he kick her out too?

I feel her. I often have to stop myself, not because I’m judgemental but I want to help instead of listening and just caring. And giving advice without being asked looks judgemental. When in reality it is rooted in my childhood trauma.

@artluver94c

Жыл бұрын

Wow. You just gave me an epiphany because so often someone vents to me about their troubles and my first instinct is to offer suggestions to help and some people have seen it as judgemental when in reality I don't know what to say to comfort so my reaction is just, 'how do we fix or improve this situation?' because that's the only way I can think of to help them in the moment.

@Canonindxxx

11 ай бұрын

@@artluver94c Wow. same here. it's rooted in me to try and "make things better" instead of just listening.

@januarymelody8511

11 ай бұрын

Yes. Totally can relate. My first instinct is how can I solve the problem I’m hearing and to suggest solutions. I’ve learned that sometimes friends just need you to listen & to give them a shoulder to lean on. If they want ideas they will ask.

@pebruno8

10 ай бұрын

Best life lesson I’ve heard in ages. Thanks for sharing❤

She should have reached out to the person after finding out and been like “Oh, I’m so sorry to hear about your divorce. I know it’s so hard. Let me know if you need any couples therapy recommendations or need a name of a good lawyer.”

@diamondborealis454

Жыл бұрын

That person doesn’t deserve her sympathy when they didn’t show any for her. Kelly was already respectful to them by being respectful in the interview and that’s as far it needs to go.

@jenreii

Жыл бұрын

I'm hear for this kind of wholesome petty 😂

@longlivedemocracy756

Жыл бұрын

Nope. Leave them where they are.

@QTpatootie95

Жыл бұрын

She's not catty, just move on. Their karma already hit.

@user-yc4xz4ph9i

Жыл бұрын

@@jenreiiLol! Me too!

Kelly is the most humble down to earth beautiful inside and out person I’ve ever seen!!! I hate everything she’s been and going through!!!

I got so many “are you sure?” and “Did you try counseling?” when people found out about my divorce. I’m like 🤨 uuhhhh yeah I wouldn’t be leaving if it weren’t necessary. I hate how no one leads with “I can’t imagine how hard this is on you.” “I’m sorry you’re going through this”.

I so love and admire her honesty and self-deprecating humor. Everyone is fighting something.

You beautiful lady, don’t you DARE let someone shame you. You must have to have the thickest skin to endure and have created what you have created. All of your fans have your tenacity and determinedness to thank for all the songs that helped us get through our hardest moments. I can’t tell you how many times I have put on my AirPods and stormed out for a walk to let tears course down my face listening to your human empowering words. You saw me through an abusive marriage and an acrimonious divorce, but also through new motherhood and moments where I didn’t know what I wanted to do or be. I hope you know that makes you my super hero. Kelly, you are EVERYTHING. PERIOD. You have done it and continue to do IT.

@calixohiggins9843

11 ай бұрын

Her skin isn't the only thing on her that's thick.

@uhhhhhhhbroooooooke

6 ай бұрын

oooo good one do u feel good about saying that @@calixohiggins9843

I feel you, I was shamed by my best friend.

@donna8

Жыл бұрын

Oh thats no friend x

@diamondborealis454

Жыл бұрын

@@donna8some friends aren’t afraid of being blunt and brutally honest. They remind us that life isn’t all sunshine and rainbows and that we need to remember the world is full agony. They give us a harsh reality check when we need to realize it and for some people that’s their personality trait. That being said I don’t condone shaming. You can express wrongfulness without being derogatory or rude.

@beckya640

Жыл бұрын

She’s probably angry with you because she wants your life as is. Jealous.

@geemorales3555

Жыл бұрын

​@@diamondborealis454so you agree, shaming from a best friend is wrong. You could've just said that

@nelleysbook

Жыл бұрын

Same here I had a few "christian" "friends" shame me. I no longer talk to those people and I'm happily divorced.

❤ Kelly - How is Kelly gonna find the right guy for her if she's stuck with the miserable wrong guy? No shame in knowing it's time to move on/divorce - it's smart! And no one has a clue what's going on behind their friends, family or neighbors closed doors.....

@colleengrier2673

Жыл бұрын

I do

@reddragonready

Жыл бұрын

Uhmmm you just assumed you know though

@johnnysalazar5399

Жыл бұрын

How would you know? She wanted the divorce so she got it along with having to pay alimony, was it fair?

@calixohiggins9843

11 ай бұрын

The "right" guy is the father of your children. She's going to hell for abandoning her family.

@davidhansen9792

6 ай бұрын

@@calixohiggins9843 what if the father of the child stopped beliving in jesus and raped and lied and cheated after 10 years of marriage and then goes to hell wouldn't that make him the wrong guy?

She is such a strong, beautiful, honest woman...I would love to hang out with her...much love and respect 🙏 💞

@calixohiggins9843

11 ай бұрын

Very strong of her to abandon her family and balloon into a macy's parade float

@kayoliver5530

6 ай бұрын

​@@calixohiggins9843her father abandoned her, her family shamelessly exploited their connection to her and then you body shame her, I would love to know what's going on in your life behind your keyboard. Don't comment on someone else's life inflated you've walked a mile on their shoes

Yep, been there. It's like when you getting a divorce people round you or people who don't know you will judge what your doing, tell you this "well relationship's are hard, you need to stop acting like it's all bout you". I was told many times "maybe if you were a better wife, he wouldn't want a divorce" I married a narcissistic physo, it was never gonna get good. He was gas lighting me, he was verbally abusing me.... If it read abusive he was doing it, he even went so far to try to get me to commit suicide he was a cop at the time, so he had a gun. Yeah, it awful. I'm just happy I made it through that. Now I have to live with the ptsd, anxiety & all the other crap that went with the abuse

@jeffreymarra231

Жыл бұрын

God bless you, stay strong ❤️

@nanaValente

Жыл бұрын

I'm glad you got out, praying for you to get better

@kM-gh4kw

Жыл бұрын

I pray for peace and healing for you in your mind, heart and soul. So glad you are out of that and things I pray will get better each day. I'm sending vibrations of love and hugs. I pray many, many blessings come your way ❤️ 🙏 ✨️. I pray in Jesus name. Amen 💕 💞 ♥️ 💜

@cassiopee26

Жыл бұрын

If I can suggest anything, somatic therapy really helped me with the abuse I’ve had from my narc mom. Please reach out for help, you don’t have to live the rest of your life this way. 🫶🏼

@KeyonnaD

Жыл бұрын

Same here (married a narcissist and hoped it’d get better). But made it out and reminding myself to stay that way.

Thank you Kelly for always being balls to the wall honest. You're integrity is one of the many beautiful things about you. And, dayum, me love me some Kelly singing.

@BronnyJames2025MVP

Жыл бұрын

How can not love her. She’s amazing

@natalieeubank4533

Жыл бұрын

Doesn’t apply she doesn’t have those…

Kelly I love all of your music and your show . But love the way you put your kids first . Thank u for all your songs and your show. Please please safe in all u do . Love you ❤️💕

@calixohiggins9843

11 ай бұрын

She didn't write any of those songs. They were written by teams of composers and she just sings them the way she's told.

Not sure why everyone thinks it’s Reese Witherspoon, especially since she’s never been on Kelly’s show.

@reddragonready

Жыл бұрын

Plus has been through a divorce herself already years ago

@MsDF936

Жыл бұрын

Streets saying it's Kevin Costner

@serenequeen8973

Жыл бұрын

Lol I don’t know why I thought it was Reese Witherspoon initially lol I thought they pulled the interview that’s why it wasn’t there but if it’s Kevin then that’s so cruel of him

@katiedoyle819

Жыл бұрын

@@serenequeen8973 she only said they cut that part of the interview so I think it’s someone who has for sure been on the show

@girleyreds11-11

Жыл бұрын

Shes getting divorced?

I am pretty sure that if this person is going through a divorce now they weren't shaming but projecting. Either trying to convince themselves to stay in it or being scared/mad because their partner were showing signs of giving up on them

@bonniejacquel8511

7 ай бұрын

Without hearing the rest of what this guest said to her, my first reaction was that they were trying to reassure her to not be upset with herself, because “relationships can be difficult . Now if this person followed up with telling her that she shouldn’t give up on her marriage, or that she should go for counseling, that would be another issue.

Don't ever feel ashamed of what you do it's the people who wants a shame you should be the one that are shaming their self❤

I am so sorry you had this experience. I'm also happy you are much happier these days. You rock!

Kelly is such an amazing person! Love her!

Relatable!! You don’t understand until you go through it yourself 🥺💔.

@christineferrara8367

7 ай бұрын

Amen.

Bless her heart I’m gonna keep you in my prayers💯🙏🙏🙏🙏 remember God is good follow his lead in you’ll be OK❤ you’re beautiful you’re amazing and you’re incredible. Wonderful.

You look so great you’re beautiful beautiful person and don’t ever forget that you’re amazing little young lady and you’ve come for nothing and now your big time something and you not change you still love People and I loved having you❤ in your music

This lady is so sweet.

@abhra3260

Жыл бұрын

stream this ladys music

@calixohiggins9843

11 ай бұрын

So is everything she eats

I grew up in a house of SILENCE with my Parents... years later, when my marriage failed, I ended the marriage...I couldn't/wouldn't make our Daughter's go through the same.

@calixohiggins9843

11 ай бұрын

You're so brave and strong!

❤ I Love you Kelly sweetheart you are Heavenly Father child don't listen to that person just keep doing what you are doing let your light shine & keep singing.

I know your pain Kelly, you had a broken heart, my heart was broken too like that, divorce is hell and I’m sorry you had your heart broken,

Sometimes people don’t know what to say so they say the first dumb thought that comes to their heads.

@calixohiggins9843

11 ай бұрын

Yes, they're called women.

Kelly you are such a beautiful soul ❤ bright blessings

Awe she had to hold the tears back, literally. Its easy to judge, because understanding takes compassion. Through judging you seperate, with understanding you grow.

Commenting that a relationship is hard doesn't sound to me, shaming or critical or judgmental. 🤷‍♀️

@13thFatima

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, I don’t get it either. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Maybe it was in the tone? 🧐

@serenequeen8973

Жыл бұрын

Perhaps they were sounding patronising in their delivery? Maybe their heart was in the right place but their tone wasn’t?

@kolohe7775

Жыл бұрын

Yes, I think it depends on how it was said (in context). If someone said that relationships are hard, it could have also been said as a way of showing empathy, like you feel for the person that’s going through it.

Kevin Costner? He was a guest on her show the week after her divorce went public, and he also went through a divorce.

@robinharding9919

Жыл бұрын

He’s going through his second divorce, no less

@LanaKennedy121

Жыл бұрын

@@robinharding9919 oh wow

@Jen.E

Жыл бұрын

Probably since he's getting divorced now too. 💁🏼‍♀️

@LC-fx2lo

Жыл бұрын

Oh wow!!

@DotAndDasho

Жыл бұрын

Not a big surprise there 😶

Your incredible , things happen who are they to shame anyone you're already heartbroken 💔 such a beautiful soul ,and brilliant singer God bless 🙌 her lots of love healing , prayers from Australia 🇦🇺 ❤ 💙 💖 💜

@serenequeen8973

Жыл бұрын

Aww a fellow Aussie 🐨 🇦🇺 ❤️ Aussie Aussie Aussie!!! Oi Oi Oi ❤️

@MizSazz

Жыл бұрын

Aussie meet up

She is so gracious and sympathetic, even on the receiving end of hate 💕

Don't let anyone who hasn't walked in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces

@simple_naildesigns

Жыл бұрын

Love that ❤️

@calisongbird

Жыл бұрын

I don’t get from this clip how Kelly was “shamed”?? All the person said to her was relationships are hard. If anything, that sounds like they were trying to be empathetic… Am I missing something here??

@kittencatlover156

9 ай бұрын

@@calisongbird she simplified the conversation. I take it that was just the beginning of their lecture...

I went through the same situation. My ex just left me and my 2 boys and disappeared. I couldn't find him. We were married in community of property. And because he didn't have a proper job all his accounts start being deducted from my salary. So I have to divorce fast to stop that. He never gave one cent to our 2 kids. But still I felt guilty, like I failed and I couldn't tell anyone except my sister who supported me. Even my children and my parents didn't know for 3 years. In one day a man, a relative told me: you shouldn't feel bad, or ashamed, or guilty you should be proud of yourself for surviving and taking care of your family. It was an amazing waikup call for me. And I realized that is the truth. And doesn't matter how many books and advisors are, you are never really prepared for these kind of things.

@reddragonready

Жыл бұрын

How is that "the same situation" Please stop with the huge projection fest!

So great how strong you were through the process and came out the other side. Great lady

Don't cry Kelly ur beautiful and don't let nobody ever make u feel bad never u rock love ur voice

What if that person was going through hard in their marriage and wasn’t judging her… she’s too sensitive and thinks everything about he.

They kinda shamed me…” hilarious enough they are getting divorced now”….oh you’re that person….

@90smusicownsmyheart97

Жыл бұрын

If it's her then she has a lot of nerve considering she divorced Ryan Philippe and now her 2nd marriage is over.

How profound the person is going through this now. How wonderful she is in how she received the information and processed it, it speaks more of her character and who she is as a person, she shines and she will be better in the long run because she has the ability to process & make practical decisions which apply to herself and her family which is most important.

I'm hugging you Kelly. I'm proud of you on how you deal with things like this ❤ You are a good person, don't let others brake your joy

Love her, but someone did her dirty with that makeup.

Karma sucks your beautiful ❤️❤️

@Machell

Жыл бұрын

@@phx2pdx582 whole being all of it Soul and Spirit the body is a vessel always 💙💙

@davidalbro2009

Жыл бұрын

@@phx2pdx582 Or more logically "her beautiful what?"

@iPhone-eb9cz

Жыл бұрын

@@phx2pdx582😂😂😂 I see what you guys are doing here 😂😂😂

You so beautiful,talented, strong and I don’t think I have enough words to describe how amazing you are. ❤️

Yes, that happened to me as well. Later THEY, as well got a divorce. They did everything to keep a cheating spouse. I helped that person through for 3 years basically daily to get over it. Sorry that happened to you too Kelly. It’s hurtful.

@calisongbird

Жыл бұрын

I don’t get from this clip how Kelly was “shamed”?? All the person said to her was relationships are hard. If anything, that sounds like they were trying to be empathetic… Am I missing something here??

I need to know who this bully was to our kind hearted a Kelly !!😢

@gdhaney136

Жыл бұрын

Kevin Costner

Not me still having goosebumps everytime I listen to this, she kill it! She makes me feel like i've gone through it myself... Well,I don't even go through it in real life at all 🥲

So sorry for what you are going through. 😞

Saying relationships are hard is shaming? I wouldn't see it that way. Relationships ARE hard.

@1369Stiles

Жыл бұрын

im sure there was more context to the conversation, and most likely the tone of the comment might have been condescending.

@sweetielady7710

Жыл бұрын

@@1369StilesI’m thinking the same thing. There had to be more context to that comment. Just saying “relationships are hard” alone isn’t shaming. I’m wondering if maybe the person was like, “well suck it up… relationships are hard and you’re just taking the easy way out…” or something like that. She should elaborate a little more.

Noone needs to judge another, for anything, just coming out of divorce myself, made it to the other side...took a while, but it does get there eventually 😖😁

God be with you. Please keep fighting for right. You have helped so many be strong thank you.

Kelly, never doubt yourself, the journey is yours and yours alone! The decisions we make belong to us, no one can tell us we are wrong if they haven’t walked in our shoes. Do what’s in your heart to do and don’t look back, only look up, he’s got you and that’s all that counts!

I had some family who did the same. Also, they are from the south. But she couldn't understand why he would divorce me. She says this over and over. I tell her I left him over and over. I tried to figure out why she had an issue. There are so many things women couldn't do and who would do it for me now! What?! I've always done the heavy stuff, too, and I could take my own car to the shop without getting taken. 🙃

The exact same thing happened to me. I couldn't believe it. Divorce is the last thing I wanted, but there are one or two things that if a partner refuses to even address or work on, then you must leave and let go for your and you children's safety and well being. Period. Heartbreaking.

Love you, girl! ❤ You just keep on keepin' on, friend . . .

That color looks beautiful on her! ❤

Maybe she didn’t meant the way Kelly took her comment. Every relationships may be different with its ups and down. But we all could at least understand and related the pain it cause us when a relationship or/and marriage ends.

@davidalbro2009

Жыл бұрын

Exactly. From what Kelly said it seems like the guest was trying to be nice. "Relationships are hard." Relationships generally ARE hard. Hopefully there was more too it.

Got to love Kelly. She is truly gracious and kind.

It’s okay babes, it’ll get better. I pray for you and your kids

Kelly. I. lov. u. u. are. Great

Who was it Kelley? Name names!! Lol 😂

@abelrego6815

Жыл бұрын

Def Reese Witherspoon.

@deawiechard

Жыл бұрын

But reese has been divorced herself already. She already knows whats its like , i doubt she would shame anyone

@liohent9508

Жыл бұрын

It’s Kevin Costner

@theyoshow

Жыл бұрын

@@abelrego6815she's never been on Kelly's show

@nancyalegria1935

Жыл бұрын

Kyle Richards?

Why is that bad to commiserate with someone? Relationships are very hard sometimes. That is just a fact.

@zoesmybaby

Жыл бұрын

Exactly!!!! I don't get why it's so bad to say that relationships are hard. They sure are!

@gaylechristensen6285

Жыл бұрын

@@zoesmybaby She said it's a southern thing. No offense to the lovely southern ladies out there, but if that's true, may want to rethink that line of thought. There are far too many other things to be upset about, sadly.

I absolutely LOVE this girl!!!!!!!!

Kelly, you are the best!!!

Kelly I'm so sorry that you had such a hard life of your divorce that won't happen to our relationship

@kesa7669

Жыл бұрын

Shut up

Came to the comments to see if y’all figured out who she was talking about

@valeriekhall

Жыл бұрын

‘Cause who is it??? WE JUST WANT TO TALK….!!!!!

@jinx-1

Жыл бұрын

Right?? And the results are disappointing. Nobody has a clear answer. It cannot be that difficult. I need to know😭

@leerhapsody

Жыл бұрын

same here..if this was tik tok it would have been the highlighted comment lol

@ndiaz0028

Жыл бұрын

I'm pretty sure someone is doing the work as we speak 😂

@JamesGoldblood

Жыл бұрын

@@ndiaz0028 It's Kevin Cosner y'all.

*Celebrities who don't air their dirty laundry are becoming more rare...we love you Ms Clarkson!*

Stay strong, Kelly.😊

He should be ashamed getting alimony. Relationships are hard and children add to the mix. Felt so bad for you. You're a love❤. Hope he's positive towards you when he has the children. ❤❤

@lmyr101

Жыл бұрын

He who will not be named...has no shame

I was hoping to find out who this person was she was interviewing......

@Ipleadthefifth

Жыл бұрын

Same I wanna know

@volcrazy89

Жыл бұрын

@@Ipleadthefifth Seems like it's Kevin Costner.

@AM-wz8qr

Жыл бұрын

Maybe Reese Witherspoon?

@alexandraanderson3988

Жыл бұрын

Okay why is everybody mentioning them those two above in the comments 😢😮 why would they do that 😭 tbh considering have been on her show and people saying what a wonderful 👍😊 person she is or was tbh

@prismatism

Жыл бұрын

@@AM-wz8qrReese? Who has been divorced from (alleged cheater) Ryan Phillippe for over a decade?

You'r gorgeous Ms Kelly Clarkson ❤️❤️❤️

People have a way of interpreting the truth they don't want to hear as being shamed.

Who did her eyes😮

Damn I wonder who it was?!

@ChelseaBrooke85

11 ай бұрын

I agree, I wish I knew! lol

@vainessa93

11 ай бұрын

I think it was Reese Witherspoon 🤔

@luvhelmet

11 ай бұрын

@@vainessa93 Reese has been married twice, so I doubt it was her.

@YourFavoriteSwiftie

10 ай бұрын

​@@vainessa93Reese has NEVER been on her show either!

Poor Kelly...such a genuinely good person

@calisongbird

Жыл бұрын

I don’t get from this clip how Kelly was “shamed”?? All the person said to her was relationships are hard. If anything, that sounds like they were trying to be empathetic… Am I missing something here??

When we feel shame or whatever negative emotion we feel, someone will come up from wherever and mirror it back to us.

I feel like this is Reese Witherspoon for some odd reason who shamed her.

@lalaausten9072

Жыл бұрын

I thought that too!

@pamelac.3241

Жыл бұрын

That's so funny cuz I remember Reese saying that. But, I didn't take her remark as shaming Kelly?!?

@reddragonready

Жыл бұрын

@@pamelac.3241 And reese had been through divorce herself already so maybe you shouldn't jump to conclusions about who Kelly was referring to

@alexandraanderson3988

Жыл бұрын

😅😂😊 that's ridiculous 👍▶️ I mean I don't know her like that neither am I a fan but why would she do that tbh I don't understand 😭

@larhondamickles3976

Жыл бұрын

@@reddragonreadyactually it was her.

Well relationships are hard, was that person lying???

Don’t let them break your heart ❤you know what you are going through

You are gold! GOLD! You should be treated like such!! Your hardships and journey navigating this divorce SHOULD inspire women… I’ve listened to #lighthouse on repeat…

I so wanna know who it was, I have an inquiring mind ❤

@ElizabethT45

Жыл бұрын

I don't have the context, but this person was asked about Kelly's divorce and said "relationships are hard." How is that shade?

@longlivedemocracy756

Жыл бұрын

@@ElizabethT45Probably more was said. But that alone sounds a bit condescending. Who that is IN a long term relationship/marriage doesn’t already know it can be hard. After the first 6-12 months of “wedding glow” it can get “real”. That’s where you have to lean on the foundation that should have been building from the start. But sometimes it’s really out of your hands. We don’t always understand the motivations of others and many can be deceitful. Best to cut your losses and move forward…

She was threatened by you so she wanted to hit you where it hurts...karma is a bitch!

@toughtaurus7270

Жыл бұрын

She said "they" the whole time, not "she."

@volcrazy89

Жыл бұрын

Pretty sure it's Kevin Costner that she's talking about.

Kelly my girl u know what happen in your life not us but I ask god to guide u and give you double the blessing u deserves my daughter is going thru a divorce and I can’t say I no how she feels but I can be there for her and we here for u to u r amazing person

That sounds like empathy. If you feel shame then it's in your own head

@stanbalo

Ай бұрын

What was said is not offensive at all. I guess Kelly is the one having problem about it mentally so she is nitpicking.

I wanna know who was it? LoL

@kesa7669

Жыл бұрын

Me too!

@Asteri00

Жыл бұрын

Kevin Costner.

@stephencameron196

Жыл бұрын

I reckon it’s Reese Witherspoon 🧐

@serenequeen8973

Жыл бұрын

I think it’s Reese Witherspoon too because she recently got divorced and it sounds like something she would say, similar to “give it your best college try, girl” or whatever people from the South say, even though the person is completely and utterly miserable.

@Linsey009

Жыл бұрын

@@serenequeen8973 reese has been divorce before, though

How do you know that was the person’s intent? Did you ask or were you just feeling attacked?

@jonnieseay6800

Жыл бұрын

And she says it was on her talk show, so, something that was going to be televised. And she says the person is now going through a divorce (so not at the time). Sounds more to me like someone wanting to say the right thing on a TV show their current partner, who they are currently trying to work things out with, might hear in a week or two. If they were like "yeah, girl, divorce his ass" they might have gotten their divorce even quicker. At the time, they were trying to make their marriage work. Co-signing divorce might not have been a good look. Survival inciting kicked in. it wasn't about Kelly at all.