The testimonies of Virgin ladies in Kenyan Universities | How hard is it to remain a virgin?

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  • @SwitchTVKenya
    @SwitchTVKenya3 жыл бұрын

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  • @lucymungai9234
    @lucymungai92343 жыл бұрын

    I personally made a decision to remain a virgin till marriage not for my husband but for God...my body is the Temple of the Holy Spirit...so I will keep waiting because I know this will bring Glory and Honor to my God

  • @bencroacademy

    @bencroacademy

    3 жыл бұрын

    More strength to you Lucy

  • @petergatere7678

    @petergatere7678

    3 жыл бұрын

    I love this

  • @blissfulLife7

    @blissfulLife7

    3 жыл бұрын

    Till when

  • @lucymungai9234

    @lucymungai9234

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@bencroacademy thanks🙏

  • @lucymungai9234

    @lucymungai9234

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@blissfulLife7 till the right time...that is after my wedding

  • @ennyesther6837
    @ennyesther68372 жыл бұрын

    I decided to remain virgin till Marriage BUT it is not easy guys coz we fall in love with some people that can't wait/ has no patience or they has no plans to marry you, so it's breaks our hearts coz at that moments we have no choice but to let them go because we have our boundaries 😥😥may God keep protect us coz we can't ourselves🙏🙏🙏

  • @nyaakionathan7807

    @nyaakionathan7807

    2 жыл бұрын

    I feel you girl 💀😩 especially when your friends are actually not For that💔

  • @baybeebarno9457

    @baybeebarno9457

    2 жыл бұрын

    This relates to me tho....buh you have to say no

  • @ennyesther6837

    @ennyesther6837

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@baybeebarno9457 For really, so sorry but Keep Your self-esteem as well as your boundaries no matter what, coz what is yours will come and will stay, it'll never leave👌

  • @ennyesther6837

    @ennyesther6837

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@nyaakionathan7807 Yeah it's really hurts Sometimes They might even be making fun of you for it. But it’s important to remember your own self worth, and to hold true to your values.

  • @tonygathii254

    @tonygathii254

    2 жыл бұрын

    Keep it up you will get the man who deserve it

  • @naomiogonyo8378
    @naomiogonyo83783 жыл бұрын

    There is no pressure.the pressure is on your mind.you can avoid it when you decide.

  • @lakersharon3198

    @lakersharon3198

    3 жыл бұрын

    There's no pressure, its just counts back to an individual. Actually having sex is a choice

  • @achylencer5645
    @achylencer56452 жыл бұрын

    We choose to be Virgins not for men but for ourselves,ata akicheat hiyo ni yake ,to my virgin mates remember it's not virginity only will be bringing on the table ,but good qualities of a wife,don't clog your mind too much na hiyo story 'still atacheat' always be okay by being loyal to yourself not for him..

  • @baybeebarno9457

    @baybeebarno9457

    2 жыл бұрын

    Congrats yooh💖

  • @ssddhhhhhjjjjjjj2

    @ssddhhhhhjjjjjjj2

    2 жыл бұрын

    YES you keep yourself for GOD, it’s GOD’ glory and it’s also your glory

  • @roxannekinnally4208
    @roxannekinnally42083 жыл бұрын

    Your body is the temple of the holy spirit I am so proud of this young people god keep him from danger and help them to be true

  • @tonygathii254
    @tonygathii2542 жыл бұрын

    I had a dream to marry a virgin girl and keep her forever but it's very hard to get one. The good boys don't get that instead only evils ones got those chances. It's so frustrating because girls don't forget their first love and they keep talking about them even when they got a new relationship. This hurts current relationship since a man imagination and feelings of their partners past is always painful. How I wish I can get one in this generation and wait till marriage

  • @KarungiLydiagrace1716
    @KarungiLydiagrace17163 жыл бұрын

    Wow you guys this is encouraging

  • @thetoksicbattleground_seiga
    @thetoksicbattleground_seiga2 жыл бұрын

    sasa hutaki kumpea, hutaki apewe, unataka akufe? but if you're not physically intimate, is it cheating though?

  • @benkipsflavor4301
    @benkipsflavor43012 жыл бұрын

    ...waaaauuu thanks be to God,,this is one of the unique way that am ..I live Virgin until marriage

  • @makimudoubledouble5605
    @makimudoubledouble5605 Жыл бұрын

    I have followed the path of virginity though at times it becomes so hard bcoz of peer pressure. But God has always strengthened me and I'll wait till the end race.

  • @Adhiambo3918
    @Adhiambo39183 жыл бұрын

    It's good to be a virgin but some of those men you'll marry will still end up cheating on you!

  • @achylencer5645

    @achylencer5645

    2 жыл бұрын

    We do it for ourselves not for them

  • @marilynyoh7951

    @marilynyoh7951

    2 жыл бұрын

    They cheat even when you sleep with them. Y wreck your body?

  • @alhabibismail3031

    @alhabibismail3031

    2 жыл бұрын

    wen u want to change the world .u start with u dont put much focus on othrs

  • @zwelinkosimlambo9321
    @zwelinkosimlambo93213 жыл бұрын

    Wow my god 🙏 I want to come to kenya to marry 1

  • @netsaigiro3805
    @netsaigiro38052 жыл бұрын

    Keep yourself for yourself and God. Even if you decide not to get married you still have a pure conscience and you don't feel used. There is pressure in the campus but one day you will all leave campus the same way you individually came to campus. Be yourself don't be pressured to do what you don't want to do. Life is personal.

  • @jactoneotieno8436
    @jactoneotieno84362 жыл бұрын

    I like Alex's view

  • @Lenon_tv
    @Lenon_tv3 жыл бұрын

    Please I could want to make this young girls to understand more about sex under the age of 25yrs,my first experience about sex I was 27yrs.

  • @tonygathii254

    @tonygathii254

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yeah I waited till I was 25

  • @mateiyendoukombat-jg7lj
    @mateiyendoukombat-jg7lj Жыл бұрын

    If you said that esx is made for a man and a woman (one) so what about those men marrying many women so how should we discribe Theirs is it also called sex

  • @hanahawuor9874
    @hanahawuor9874 Жыл бұрын

    No to pressure,,,, it's your mind to direct you and guide you accordingly 🙏🙏🙏,,,, to my fellows who are still virgin congrats,,, it's not all that easy

  • @Lenon_tv
    @Lenon_tv3 жыл бұрын

    Just as getting married before 25yrs up as a woman that's a Scan.

  • @fbl6314
    @fbl63142 жыл бұрын

    Shida ni kujiweka tu vizuuuri ka dem,then the nigga you are preserving this for,unaikula kwa chumvi yangali mbichi

  • @shahnyutu6584
    @shahnyutu6584 Жыл бұрын

    Incase you keep your virginity what happens when you can't offer sex the way he 'used' to get it. He'll leave, right?

  • @adrian6972
    @adrian69722 жыл бұрын

    Gosh the chick kwa background 5:29

  • @janegicheru973
    @janegicheru9733 жыл бұрын

    I told someone I am a virgin at 38 naona naelekea block mode soon...Actions are speaking loudly🤣🤣🤣🤣 . Well done ladies...Mungu Mbele

  • @Lenon_tv

    @Lenon_tv

    3 жыл бұрын

    At 38 wewe pia you must try keeping yourself that way,this kids of 90s waaaaa noma sana.

  • @janegicheru973

    @janegicheru973

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Lenon_tv what do you mean?

  • @Lenon_tv

    @Lenon_tv

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@janegicheru973 I mean that uko juu sana for keeping yourself up to that age,not many can be like you.

  • @janegicheru973

    @janegicheru973

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Lenon_tv ni God not easy

  • @Lenon_tv

    @Lenon_tv

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@janegicheru973 that's very true, it's God. Now I think you know what you want in relationship,I wouldn't mind be with you because am not young man too.tho with 10% experience with my past.

  • @jairofredrick6989
    @jairofredrick69893 жыл бұрын

    Sex after marriage does not make any sense if you’re preserving your virginity for your husband. How sure are you that he’s also preserving himself for you and what if you get divorced immediately after marriage. If you doing it for some other reasonable reasons then it’s okay. Africans letting their lives be defined by the Hebrew’s way of life. We’re no longer living in the ages when virginity was valued. Currently, people are looking for the values that you’re bringing in the marriage. I mean people are marrying ladies with kids so why is virginity is a big deal then. You can get into marriage as a virgin but make a horrible wife. It’s the value in you as an individual that will keep your husband not the value you’ve attached to your virginity. Let’s not attach anything and everything to religious beliefs but apply logic and rationality where necessary.

  • @martinmwenda3551

    @martinmwenda3551

    2 жыл бұрын

    And where has shifting away from religious beliefs gotten us as a society?I agree that one should not focus too much on their future partner's sexuality but look around chaos everywhere,teen pregnancies,single moms,deadbeat fathers,kids growing up not knowing who their fathers are,rise in STI'S and HIV ,campus girls swallowing P2 pills all the time ending up damaging themselves to the point that they cannot conceive,now you've got men and women afraid of settling down because of the current situation,let's even go back to African traditional societies,they had the same moral,modest fundamental principals which have been thrown out the window today and replaced with the slut culture which is slowly degrading any moral conscience left in today's women to the point that they are broken and fragmented that they cannot settle down with anyone in the long term without putting them through a world of hurt, honestly whatever these campus girls are doing needs to be applauded.

  • @estherkamau3848

    @estherkamau3848

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Jairo Fredrick.....I somehow agree with you because virginity has been overvalued to the point where virginity is the only thing a girl brings to the table and that's all she's worth for...which is disturbing...I would say to each his own....but personally I wouldn't wait to lose my virginity to my husband.

  • @albertwamalwa5700

    @albertwamalwa5700

    2 жыл бұрын

    Your wrong even African communities condemned sex before marriage ,before missionaries came to Africa

  • @estherkamau3848

    @estherkamau3848

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@albertwamalwa5700 k

  • @brendahemelia8466

    @brendahemelia8466

    2 жыл бұрын

    Sex should also not be treated casually. It's not just a physical act but more than that. It affects a whole lot in the person to be trifled with.

  • @ssddhhhhhjjjjjjj2
    @ssddhhhhhjjjjjjj22 жыл бұрын

    Go girl, Jane Gicheru, keep it up and don’t look back even up to 40s, go right ahead, focus on what pleases GOD and NOT man, GOD himself will introduce you in his own time. At the end of the day we shall all appear before the BIG MAN up there, and you will talk HIS talk, NOT this society’s talk. You see unfortunately nowadays everyone wants to blend with the likes of this society, but 1 John 2;15-17, this world shall pass, so do not look or lean on it, lean on what remains forever to eternity and that’s GODly living, by what you shall be judged. All the society talks will be muted that day. GOD talks the talk. The problem with these youth now they think ‘what will others think? Instead of WWJD, What would JESUS do, remember Joseph in the Bible, many young men like him would have gone for it, first it’s royal sex then thinking of running out naked, but Joseph asked himself how could he do that and sin against GOD, so if we think of men we always act differently, but if we think of GOD we act right. We must always think that we are here all the time appearing before the cameras of the Kingdom of GOD. You go hide out there and do it and cheat yourself that nobody saw you, but GOD’s eye has seen you. So wherever we go whatever we do seen or unseen remember psalms 84;7 (They appear each one BEFORE THE LORD) NOT society.

  • @mariekiragu3204
    @mariekiragu32043 жыл бұрын

    Patricia, I totally disagree with you. sex is not for others but for one's self only be responsible about it. virginity is about the hymen not what you feel.

  • @magdalenemumbua5199
    @magdalenemumbua51992 жыл бұрын

    There's too much pressure

  • @ssddhhhhhjjjjjjj2

    @ssddhhhhhjjjjjjj2

    2 жыл бұрын

    It depends where and who you hang out with on the daily basis

  • @vincentmuli6512
    @vincentmuli65122 жыл бұрын

    Kukuwa virgin ni overated..msitutishe

  • @mundeyenyamawi6154

    @mundeyenyamawi6154

    2 жыл бұрын

    😂

  • @jenifferkimeu5759

    @jenifferkimeu5759

    2 жыл бұрын

    Asi🤔