A lot of modern women just see men as footstools and stepping stones

@abwexposed9890

3 ай бұрын

Just a utility

They want instant gratification always. And as soon as the guy has a struggle, they’re out.

@nobodyfamous

3 ай бұрын

Yep. And when they leave him and he glows up they get mad 😂

@Realyst

3 ай бұрын

Faaaacts

@abwexposed9890

3 ай бұрын

Yep seen and experienced it myself.

@sickofguysnamedtodd2293

3 ай бұрын

And they don’t want to deal with you during the building phase either. But they think they’re entitled to what you built.

@Jobosh1989

3 ай бұрын

@@sickofguysnamedtodd2293 exactly right

Real Men don't necessarily care about women "matching" our energy, we want women to follow our energy... plain and simple

@shayorgan8929

3 ай бұрын

👏👏!

@damionjwilliams

3 ай бұрын

How is she supposed to "follow your energy" if she doesn't match your energy? You don't want a woman with bad energy trying to follow you.

@matusala8322

3 ай бұрын

And thats why most men get hurt. People are not what they say they are…. She can tell and show you everything you want see and hear. She come with nothing leaves with everything in matter of months.

Why are we listening to women anymore

@LisaS483

3 ай бұрын

It’s ‘anymore’, one word kiddo.

@markjakker2091

3 ай бұрын

Who is “we” ? I’m just here because this came up in my feed

@angelit161

3 ай бұрын

I mean if sexism is the way you want to go, dont get mad when women throw it right back at you

@teelove4443

3 ай бұрын

​@markjakker2091 Ummm.... You're here, tho 😂 You don't have to click the video because it's in your feed. Do you F*ck a tranny's because they're dressed as a women?? Smh

@sirblack1619

3 ай бұрын

I listen for the entrainment of it all at this point.

You can tell when a woman was raised with a healthy respect for her father. They ask for different things and understand what a good man is. They move different

@El_Fonzo

3 ай бұрын

That's no true, all these women are the same.

@3MUnique

3 ай бұрын

@@El_Fonzo yes, bcuz their dad’s, if they have a relationship, still don’t tell them the truth about self accountability and interdependence.

@El_Fonzo

3 ай бұрын

@@3MUnique no, again that's not entirely true

@3MUnique

3 ай бұрын

@@El_Fonzo it’s true more often than not. These women r hypergamous and they think their looks should be the equivalent of a man’s total overall value.

@LawAbidingCitizenHelloOfficer

3 ай бұрын

Because one has a real life example and one has influenced ideas

Fellas focus on yourself in these current times

Women complaining about the “Soft Guy” era, when the matriarchy before them advocated for “equality.”

@evos469

3 ай бұрын

Equality was just dog whistling, they truly wanted superiority.

@mr.dennis5503

3 ай бұрын

Guys aren't "soft", they're just fed up!

@One_of_Many750

3 ай бұрын

What’s Worse, Are The Men, Whose Head This Whole Thing, Went Right Over.

@miguelstigler9170

3 ай бұрын

MANE 💯 💯 💯 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️

Drizzle, drizzle!😂😂😂

@miguelstigler9170

3 ай бұрын

Fo Shizzle... My Nizzle 😂😂😂😂

Women are not understanding! Its not the 50s or 60s anymore !& its getting real in the field!

@ShutterSpeedGaming

3 ай бұрын

@@tommygunn2782facts! They’re delusional

@abwexposed9890

3 ай бұрын

@@tommygunn2782 I'm not getting rich for them I'm getting rich for me!

Why are the men who are already standing up going to choose you?

@kingdeechannel6655

3 ай бұрын

Drizzle drizzle 😂

By her logic men shouldn’t deal with women . On section 8, subsidized housing, food stamps, welfare and single mothers. He should only deal with professional women with no kids.

@DenofLeos

3 ай бұрын

Some of the most stand up women are on government assistance

@DenofLeos

3 ай бұрын

@@chuckscott-cy7iq Not all Of them , are degenerates

@shayorgan8929

3 ай бұрын

Well said 👏👏!

@kaylove4507

3 ай бұрын

Well to spin off your logic, the women who are on government assistance can't be destitute. They must be on their feet because if they're on government assistance that usually means they have housing already. They have a food card by way of EBT they have Medicaid amongst other benefits that fall under those umbrellas so if a woman's own government assistance, you don't have to take care of her anyway. She's already been provided for it by the government. There's nothing really for you to have to do for her and they're on these programs because they don't have men who are providing for them. Regardless of who's at fault the government had to step in because the men couldn't

@damianbarnes2717

3 ай бұрын

@@DenofLeos Yeah those women are for the scammers, hustlers,drug dealers and men who are constantly in and out of jail. Not for us regular 9-5 guys

We started out working hard ❤️ together, Today is our anniversary 31 years and is still going strong ❤ we gave it to GOD

Many women like to say what makes them, and other women, feel good. But, like children, they don’t consider the consequences of their words and actions.

😂 women, it works both ways 🤷‍♂️💯

@Theeorie4393

3 ай бұрын

No, it doesn't

Well lady, my husband and I came up together! We did struggle in the beginning because we were broke college students with a daughter. 23 years later we are still together in our own home built from the ground up, baby girl in college now. We did this together not alone!

@dr.robertbennett3452

3 ай бұрын

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

@ShutterSpeedGaming

3 ай бұрын

Congratulations 😊

@xxfranknittyxx2270

3 ай бұрын

Congratulations

@lamontstanley5436

3 ай бұрын

That's what's up I like hearing stories about black love.

@paulcoats129

3 ай бұрын

Well said 👍🏿. Congratulations 🙌🏿

Why should a man help a woman get off her feet I'm not why should I . A lot of men want to stay single because of fear of being used . My brother went thru that crap and that's why I'm single then you got them women out here on these dating apps meeting and setting up men for robberies and even get them murdered and then some ladies complain because dudes ain't interested in them you have your own life to live whether someone wants to date you or not .

A woman can stay with her parents for forever. I know women who are over 40 years old and living with their parents and they still feel that they are choose-able. If a man is 21 years old and living with his parents most women will not give him the time of day. It’s the hypocrisy for me…

The dude that is "already on his feet" has no loyalty towards you because you didn't help him get to where he is. Totally different dynamic if you build something with someone.

@samh6456

3 ай бұрын

exactly. If you wasn't with him when he had nothing why would give he give you something when he has everything? women still don't understand that.

@sickofguysnamedtodd2293

3 ай бұрын

That’s the part they don’t understand about loyalty. A fair weather person who only came along when you had something to lose is gonna be looked at funny. Like you’re a scammer looking for a come up, cause where were you when I had nothing?? A person who was there from the beginning deserves your best because she was riding with you when you were at your worst.

Soft Guy Era, Hard Headed Jezebels

@AlphonseWeebay

3 ай бұрын

Preach

Why did the golfer bring two pairs of pants to the course? In case he got a hole in one.

Why should men help yall if yall claim to not need them..Latinas at my job went off on women with this mindset and claiming they don't need a man for anything. Some are raised different in their house 🤔

@angelit161

3 ай бұрын

If you needed a bunch of”latinas” at ur job to defend you brotha idk what to tell you, you lost😂😂

@abwexposed9890

3 ай бұрын

​@@angelit161nah they aren't letting y'all speak for all women. You're alone in this. Don't nobody want to be associated with you

She will be single until she’s 38 then get desperate because she’ll be having scrambled eggs.

@evos469

3 ай бұрын

And those eggs will rot unless Pookie comes around.

@LisaS483

3 ай бұрын

I easily had a baby for my husband at 41.

@popsmokeandghost2416

3 ай бұрын

After 30, those eggs go through the "Benjamin Buttons" effect. Resulting in Autism and D. Syndrome in your babies.😂

@LisaS483

3 ай бұрын

My child is 5 and at the top of her private school class. Please don’t be jealous that my husband and I can buy your entire family.

@TRC19999

3 ай бұрын

⁠@@LisaS483buy my family? What??

Hold the line fellas, Drizzle Drizzle

"Why should I help a man get off his feet?" Honestly if you don't have it just say so! It's giving "Broke". Drizzle Drizzle

@teelove4443

3 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@abwexposed9890

3 ай бұрын

🤣🤣 this is genius way to handle it. Just be a mirror

She's going to be single and lonely for the rest of her life

@abwexposed9890

3 ай бұрын

Good

Action speaks louder than words but to talk is still a verb. Think before you speak and keep your eyes on your mouth. Thank You for the wisdom once again Uncle Phill.

Ma'am; The men who are "already standing up"... DO NOT WANT YOU!

People don't want to be used and he is looking for someone to work with him.

There's nothing to explore because I wouldn't date women like that just for the simple fact I enjoy my freedom too much.

I Concur with this PSA announcement.💯

I've said it before and I'll say it now, it's the little red Hen story. In the story the Hen was baking some bread and at each step the Hen would ask the other animals for help and they refused. Now in the end when the bread was ready, the other animals wanted some to eat; the Hen properly told them "you didn't help make the bread, so you don't eat the bread" Modern toxic women do not understand that concept.

@AlphonseWeebay

3 ай бұрын

Well said

@McKillahGuerilla

3 ай бұрын

Jesus told parables to help people understand his message, I in turn use short stories and metaphors to help grasp concepts

@trinidadbreeze

3 ай бұрын

Actually mother goose story.

@McKillahGuerilla

3 ай бұрын

@trinidadbreeze the mother goose story is about a goose laying golden eggs lol I just Googled it and for good measure I googled the little red Hen story too.

This reminds me of that post i saw a couple years ago where a woman was dating a well off man and was asked if she would date a man who made less than her. She said she didn't want to date broke guys. Then the well off man responded that between them she's the "broke guy" and how she hasn't been the same since.

Its funny cause a lot of women dont get that its trolling and hilarious.

The scariest part is that this is the very pathway through which brilliant brothers end up connecting with women from other cultures who got with them during the "come up phase." It's strange to see how sister struggle to understand this...

@abwexposed9890

3 ай бұрын

Listening. Those ears are to alert you to danger and gather information. They don't listen there fore they do not learn

Unfortunately, BW are the only group that avoid helping BM. Most other groups of women do help without you even knowing, you need help.

@angelit161

3 ай бұрын

Yeah sure, tell that the karen’s who’ll lie through their teeth to get you thrown in jail

@abwexposed9890

3 ай бұрын

​@@angelit161you're Jezebels and you're being pushed away to the darkness where you belong . Good luck won't be pretty for u

@darrylbrown6144

3 ай бұрын

That Part 😮😮

It's as if they lack affection., without affection she's an empty vessel. Her feminine, her spiritual gift is not available.

Don't settle. Know your value. She needs to match your energy and status. Drizzle drizzle.

Drizzle drizzle😁💯

@blackenpowerment0140

3 ай бұрын

Indeed.

@abwexposed9890

3 ай бұрын

Lol

Women are like cars, they’re a depreciating asset

The Days of Treating Guys as LOLLIPOPS are Slowly Ending, and with the Young Guns learning Earlier than usual Ol'Boy!!! HOLD THE LINE MY BROTHA'S A Change is A Coming

I am just waiting for her to swear up and down that "all the good men are...". That religious kick will be very amusing

Here we go fellas another hyenas want to meet you at the finish line Men been up off lifting women thought of humankind

Its the drizzle! 😅

Real talk Phil.

Thank you Uncle Phil to this highly informative and enlightening content! ANKH-ASE!

Why would I be with a single woman with kids when I can get a woman with no kids!!!

In my opinion, most women see men as a means to an end. Men are a utility used to get them from point A to point B.

I’m standing running jumping and dunking , better have my Gatorade

Free 99 is over ladies😂

These are the same ladies that get mad when a non black woman comes behind her and take him. What they're mad is not the man because they really don't care about the man but when that man makes himself valuable then they have a problem. Waiting at the finish line doesn't work anymore.

The problem is these women want a man that can 'handle' them. They want excitement & drama, not a family. And that's sad. These kids need a nuclear family to be successful.

Demons in human flesh

Well needed video.

03:20 Facts! Drizzle Drizzle!

WINTER IS HERE!!! 🌬️🥶🌬️🥶🌧️🌧️🌧️

Speaking of MBJ, what ever happened to Lori Harvey? Haven't seen or heard from her nowhere 😮😮..

I bet you that's not even her car that's probably her friend's car going in the store what's probably one of her male friends that left her in the car to run in the store why she talking crazy while he's not there🎉

😃Yes sir, drizzle drizzle!😁🤙🏾

Average chicks Crack me up

@dominiqueosorio-davis6781

3 ай бұрын

Especially one with a lazy eye.

Young Michael needs to date outside of this country. He’s got too much to lose out here.

It has made it on Fox News

Although it’s silly be glad men are showing women the hypocrisy in what they want in a mate so maybe change can happen. There are videos popping up now where black women are complaining that black men are ignoring black women as a collective. Not engaging in conversation, casual relationships or relationships at all. There is a difference in complaining about the suitors you have and not having any suitors at all. It’s a lonely feeling.

@angelit161

3 ай бұрын

Being a brainwashed BM who decide to switch teams because you think its easy to do and thinking you making a score cuz the Beckys and Karens have a temporary fetish in you is nothing to be proud of. In the end they winning and we all lose.

As soon as she spoke the words why build a man up when there's men already standing? Tells me everything I need to know about her I'm all set

DRIZZLE DRIZZLE

she 👀 4 gold.. Run!... 🏃🏃🏃🏃😂

Oooh...you talking that TRUTH, Phillip.

Drizzle drizzle!

Black women see us exactly the same way brad see us as animals that's it nothing more nothing less that's why they belong together until he sends keisha to the upper room

@angelit161

3 ай бұрын

Total bs…maybe thats how you see yourself

@jeremiahhudson302

3 ай бұрын

That's how Keisha see it they hate they fathers they look at us they see they father that's why they don't have respect

@abwexposed9890

3 ай бұрын

😂 and notice it's been happening more and more frequently and not a peep from us. That's their own problems that their new community can help them solve . They should stay away from us dusties

@SATANTHEGREATx

3 ай бұрын

Brad is not even thinking about you.

I was wondering what the soft era was about. Growing together with your partner is so awesome. I truly understand about building something together, because that's what it's really about. There's a sacrifice and often challenges when starting from the bottom up. But when you get their together, that's a blessing.

Passport Bros. and "Soft Guys Era"; congratulation, ladies, you just played yourselves.

Genesis 3 KJV-Eve never took accountability for her actions in the garden, blaming Satan. Think about that…

Long live soft guy era It about time Kings unite

We really should stop joining these women in these childish games, debates, and challenges. Let them talk and gaslight each other. We know it’s all ego, arrogance, entitlement, and lies. Just leave these types of women alone…. We didn’t have these issues with women until the internet and social media was invented.

Now Phil listening

THAT ABSOLUTELY TELLING

Drizzle -Drizzle.

Partnering with a man - both working together to help each other to move forward as a couple - is a good thing. However, I don't believe that a woman should "take care" of a man who is not grinding. Reason: It would be difficult for the woman to respect him in the long-term. She will begin to feel like his mother. And that is not a good thing. But working together, grinding together is a good thing.

@abwexposed9890

3 ай бұрын

You keep on believing that nobody is here to change your mind

FOX NEWS ATE THIS Up

The best relationships i have seen is the ones that build each other up.

With all respect & only respect Mr. Phil. I have help men before & once they did better they moved on. Once they got to where they were doing better I was considered a good friend. Maybe, it happens to men more than women. But it goes both ways. I’m not siding with what she said. But yet again I have to say it goes both ways.

Even Rich Guys are of the Soft Guy Era and want a girl that is also rich and pay for date she want s to go to and pay for date!

Snow Bunny Era

Soft I could never be. Too many emasculated men in America these days with a voice

DrizzleDrizzle 2024

Because you can't get a man that's standing up lol ms single...

The purpose of the Soft Guy era was to prove a point: selfishness is harmful and is why alot of misandristic women are alone.

Isaiah 13:12 I will make a man more precious than fine gold; even a man than the golden wedge of Ophir. God said “I” me, myself will build the black man better than Gold not a woman

I have been helping men get back on their feet, and as a result, I always ended up abused, used, and/or cheated on. Honestly, I don't know if it's worth it anymore. But deep inside, I feel like if you really love someone and see the good in that person, you should be there for that person. But some men just take your kindness for granted and use you.

@AntonioLigon-tb5fv

3 ай бұрын

Both ways sis yet I truly understand your thoughts and feelings

@abwexposed9890

3 ай бұрын

Help them in what way? Men have their reasons why . I bet you didn't even ask or try to figure him out. There's a reason why they left you

@Thequeend_

3 ай бұрын

@BlackWomenExposedByCrimsonCure A man that I thought that I was in serious relationship with and who had a tight budget that you were having his back until he gets a better one. I take accountability for being too naive.

@Joshua-eo5hr

3 ай бұрын

Now you know what it's like to be man always having to provide for leeches

@kingdeechannel6655

3 ай бұрын

It is bad for a man to abuse you or cheat but let me ask, do you usually abuse verbally? Do you throw the assistance you made at his face, try to embarrass him in public and nag all day? If you want peace and love from a man, don't verbally abuse him, don't throw what you did for him and his vulnerability in his face or embarrass him in public, stop behaving like a detector/looking for reasons to be right that he cheat. And lastly, remind him everyday of how you love him and how you will be broken and destroyed if he cheats on you. That last sentence there is the magic😂😂😂😂😂. Anytime he feels like cheating he will imagine how you won't be the same and might affect his peace and family. Honestly, some men will still cheat but will try as much as they can to hide it from you so you don't get broken and they won't leave you either. They just was to experience outside. And if you have kids or old, then honestly they see your efforts as tricking because, if you did what you do for them when you were young, there would be no way you are still in the date market. At that point, you just have to leave with it

The Head is out of order SMH This Internet relationship stuff is a hot immature misdirected mess!!

These broads be lookin for a Disney Channel fairytale situation

Even the men standing still going to need help from time to time wtf🤷‍♂️

💯🤣😂😅👍🏻

They don't want anyone. They just want attention. Ignore them and see.

This woman is so condescending acting like she’s got it all figured out. A lot of these women are going to miss out on good men because they think that they are above themselves to “ raise a man”. There is a reason why God oppose the proud.

You can tell she watch too many damn! Talk shows.

Any woman talking like this is not on her feet yet, and don't deserve a man who's standing.

Majority of Men are doing good. Women are catching hell because majority of them are in so debt. College debt, apartment, new car, clothes, shoes, hair, nails, makeup etc. They are looking for a Man to help them with their debt

Other ethnicities of men don’t expect us to help him get on his feet 🔹most of the time when a woman does help a guy to level up and he leaves her for a preference

@abwexposed9890

3 ай бұрын

Keep on believing that

@joybrooks564

3 ай бұрын

@@abwexposed9890 I will until I die

@abwexposed9890

3 ай бұрын

@@joybrooks564 good.

@Joshua-eo5hr

3 ай бұрын

​@abwexposed9890 hopefully it's soon 😂

Fax!

These women are out of there minds so when good that treat you good and with respect y'all are calling him a soft man now that crazy