How long have you and your spouse been married for?

@deejay7060

Жыл бұрын

21 years this May

@magirusdeutzjupiter2234

9 ай бұрын

34 yrs

@bluejeans1773

7 ай бұрын

38 years

Adultery is Adultery no matter how you dress it up. Sad.

@celenecranenburgh9566

Жыл бұрын

Yes I know first hand how devastating it is...and yet AT THE SAME TIME I am glad to be actual friends with my ex. What's done is done. Can't undo it. Xxx

@annamillan2903

Жыл бұрын

Well, I was betrayed and I betrayed too. I am friends with my ex-husband of 25 years. I accepted he fell in love with another woman. It was difficult in the beginning but I overcame the pain

@dianeamaral8151

Жыл бұрын

True I think less. Of him now that I know the truth I'm not a fan of him anymore

@melissadavis9591

8 ай бұрын

Why can't people just tell the truth.And ask for out.instead of getting cought and hurting everyone.

@melissadavis9591

8 ай бұрын

His music is some of my favorite,his personal life really doesn't change that for me.

He fell for his wife's "best friend"? Some friend indeed

@user-xv2kk5fe5b

21 күн бұрын

The biggest betrayal any man, or woman can commit.

I feel for his first wife. Damn I hope he takes care of her and their kids financially.

@user-wz5ir9jl8q

Жыл бұрын

Sting sounds stingy

@rabbitxonxtoast

Жыл бұрын

I'm sure he's not going to have any inheritance because he has been paying into that broken marriage.

@user-wz5ir9jl8q

Жыл бұрын

@@rabbitxonxtoast Do you understand exactly HOW MUCH money he actually has? There's enough for his great-grandchildren to live on!

@firehorse66100

Жыл бұрын

Trudie is a money grubber, like Meghan

@JoeTheCatSarnia

7 ай бұрын

he takes care of his family. trudie knows he has a penchant for strip clubs or private female visitors. he doesn't have sex with them, but he is not traditionally faithful. and the tantric sex is all bullshit, it is just something they ran with. they don't have tantric sex, trust.

This is why you trust no one. What a horrible pair!

Hmm, another tale of a man dumping his wife for her best friend.

It is sad ,being a close friend and making out with your friends husband. I have been attracted to a close friends husband, even when he pursued me ,I told him very surely,I could never hurt his wife. The answer was Always. NO. What if that was me??? I have always walked away. There is a time before love "happens" when you *can* walk away. ALWAYS put yourself in the other woman's shoes. Once a cheater , always a cheater ,Trudy just looks the other way. Lots of wives put up with cheating husband's. Sting calls her Strong for a good reason

Marrying your wife's bff is so not cool. 🤦🏻‍♀️

@pippipster6767

7 ай бұрын

Unless you are your wife’s bff …

It’s no excuse. You screw around outside your marriage, you don’t get a free pass in life. You will pay for your disrespect.

@jillcrato1680

Жыл бұрын

Sting hasn’t paid at all for his disrespect of his first wife.Trudy hasn’t either. Wish I had never watched this stupid video!

@lanaw7304

9 ай бұрын

@@jillcrato1680 how youk know?? How you know they dont cheat on eachother?

@pippipster6767

7 ай бұрын

Well, reality is, looks like it’s only his ex that has suffered. He looks happy as Larry. Whoever Larry is?

I hate it when people won't leave their money to their kids. Just because he was able to make millions doesn't mean it's going to be easy for future generations. Making a living is harder than it was 40 years ago. His kids might be doing OK. But anything can happen, and money can make a big difference for grandkids, great grandkids, etc... What's he going to do? Give to some charity that does God knows what with the money? I hate it when people say they aren't going to give their inheritance to their kids, grandkids who have brought them their biggest joy in life.

@taj8231

Жыл бұрын

You bring up an interesting point. No matter who you leave your money to it will be misappropriated in some way. I can see not doing much while they are young and discovering who they are maybe or as he says "depriving them of that adventure" and alot of children of wealthy parents who get the free hand out wind up lost. He did say he would help them if they needed it. Chances are they will have been making their way on there own when he passes for awhile and not leaving them anything as they age and may have additional needs is kinda goofy Especially since so many charities wind up abusing the money. Also helping grandkids is helping the parents. Not sure I completely agree with him but somewhat agree. Maybe something in the middle somewhere.

@aprililes8355

Жыл бұрын

I agree completely with everything you say!! For one thing, there are so many more people on the plant today than 50 yrs ago, and the struggles are greater by far!! I think it's just so selfish and cold of him not to want to inhence the lives of his future generations to come too!! Life is hard enough, so I don't think they will become lesser human beings just because Daddy gave them a helping hand! If they were raised right from the start with morals and integrity, then money shouldn't alter the core of who they are!! That's my belief anyway:)

@chamuelolivier1594

Жыл бұрын

they seem to be selfish. He spent his money with her though. She should give to charity what he gives to her....

@amiller5885

10 ай бұрын

@SD-co9xe I wouldn't assume that. There's people out there who don't look out for their kids the way we would naturally assume.

@kitchix4003

8 ай бұрын

He will leave his estate to his wife (Trudie), who will eventually leave them to her children. What about the children from the first wife? Will Trudie share Sting’s wealth to them?

I have an absolute loathing for cheaters. The pain they inflict is hideous. I never liked Sting. Now I cannot stand him.

@InalphamatrixIam

Жыл бұрын

You describe my feelings

@firehorse66100

Жыл бұрын

i agreee

@pippipster6767

7 ай бұрын

Rather letting Trudy off the hook aren’t you?

Sting dumped his wife and small children for his wife's best friend. Sting's former bandmates all have knives in their backs that belong to Sting. Sting's first wife and two children have knives in their backs that belong to Sting. I never liked anything he did once he left The Police (dumped them). Sting and Trudy are NOT more happily married than thou. They are putting on an act. They can never trust each other but they have to make it look like their trashy two timing lives is some kind of poetry that serfs like us can't understand. BARF!!!

@MelissaRae1975

Жыл бұрын

Lol "Knives out" much

Double betrayal. Look at her eyes- she hypnotized him, a weak guy. Who would go after their best friend’s husband? I loved The Police early 80’s.

When we live for ourselves it usually hurts someone.

@twumwaa319

Жыл бұрын

Nothing justifies cheating on your pregnant wife with her best mate then leaving your wife and kids for her.

@catherinecastle8576

Жыл бұрын

@@twumwaa319 I agree...nothing justifies it. Nothing. It's just that too many Western men have become "horn dogs" and being rich and famous just makes it easier. Sting is an example of a society that's lost it's moral compass...and yet he's been with the same woman for 40 years! But, given how they started, and since she betrayed her friend, perhaps she also allows Sting his minor affairs so he stays with her? The Jezabel spirit is strongly present in the West today. All what makes a society (the collective) good, noble, strong and free is rapidly going down the drain in the West. Christendom once stood for something. Imperfect, flawed, as are all peoples, but, liberated, free and strong nonetheless, and one of the reasons Easterners wanted in, and seldom the reverse. Today? Westerner don't even know how to answer the question "what is a women?"! I believe the moral breakdown came first, all other problems followed. Anyhow, I just wanted to add my voice to yours...nothing justifies immoral behaviors...nothing...especially not on Judgment Day.

@lisaberchtold2248

Жыл бұрын

His name fits him...STING. We have choices and let me tell you as a single woman it is not easy to make the right choices. But for the grace of God there go I. Anyone can repent and turn as King David and as the prostitute wirh Jeusus. Maranatha! PEACE

@twumwaa319

Жыл бұрын

@@lisaberchtold2248 David raped another man's wife and then killed him. Is that really your best example?

@lisaberchtold2248

Жыл бұрын

@@twumwaa319 Too bad you see the negative only of my comment. STING did not repent before Jesus that I know...King David fell badly-He repented of his sin to God. My comment was to say it is against God's commandment to commit murder and adultery but if you repent it is forgiven. We live in a sick and sexual world where Porn is right there. That is lust and adultery in God's eyes. Have you no sin? Unrepentant is not forgiven. David lost his son for his sin and he mourned but we too sin as pride for example is just as wicked but be forgiven. Peace

Once a cheater always a cheater.

Remember there's always karma, and it comes when you least expect it. I feel bad for the first wife and children. She knew she was going after a married man, and her best friend's husband no less. She needs a moral compass.

@JoTracy

Жыл бұрын

Why blame just her? Sexist much? He's just as culpable

@twumwaa319

Жыл бұрын

@@JoTracy Because it's her best friend. That's 10 times the betrayal. It could have been any other woman but it had to be the one woman she trusted the most.

@aquariusrising7019

Жыл бұрын

@@twumwaa319 whaaat? He made a VOW to be faithful and loyal. Trudy was a shit friend but Sting breaking his marriage vows are far worse. Trudy didn’t make a Vow.

@twumwaa319

Жыл бұрын

@@aquariusrising7019 Trudy is her best friend - the person she trusted the most. She let Trudy around her kids, she confided in Trudy about everything, she even talked to Trudy when she had suspicions that Sting was cheating on her not knowing it was with her, when she miscarriaged Trudy was the first one she told. Tell me how Trudy is innocent in this?

@theresawilliams2347

Жыл бұрын

She knew what he was becoming and wanted to be in the limelight. They were made for each other. They have to be seen on social media every day

Doesn't surprise me ,these 2 are abnoxious

@theresawilliams2347

Жыл бұрын

So true!! He loves to play mind games with people

Trudy told Howard Stern on his show, that she and Sting were also swingers. This is disappointing and surprising, although I shouldn't be surprised. He is a famous rockstar.

@mariatheresanavata5171

7 ай бұрын

thats what i thought as well. both probably are swingers. knowing Sting’s past cheating history 🤮🤮

Damn. That's repugnant

@cut7995

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

Well, as a child of a couple who married accidentally without really strong feelings (mom actually loved another one who she couldn't marry), I would say -- not a marriage certificate makes you a couple, but something from another realm. My parents respected each other, and had lived for 20 years together out of a feeling of responsibility. DO I WANT TO REPEAT THEIR MARRIAGE? NEVER IN MY LIFE! I actually dreamt them to divorce and find the partners they would truly love, because I wanted to see real life and real feelings in their eyes. That's the story.

@hasna35

8 ай бұрын

My parents stayed married for 18 years...they didn't love each other and they divorced when I was 11 years old...they often fighted well my mom had a very strong character to be honest...it was a shock for me when they divorced but growing up I thought they should divorced long time ago they were not made for each other...I'm 44 and not married for that reason

They actually stay together that long because the break up was obviously such a horrific traumatic experience exposing them as bad people (to cheat a wife with 2 small children - is disgusting!) , so that now they are in constant modus to prove to others they are not that bad, and it was all true love... Bla bla...So, no, they are not that special..they just have this experience, that haunts them!

So his 2 first kids have brothers and sisters from the woman who betrayed their mother? Wow...hard to even think about it!

She shouldn't have homewrecked his marriage. Still she has to live with herself and seems able to. Do they believe in karma on sins of the father's.

Trudy made sure to be friends with stings wife, she had motive.

Well they are obviously soulmates! That doesn’t happen often, so they were meant to be . I feel sad for his ex wife, but finding your true soulmate is rare. I was married for 30yrs. and five yrs. after divorce, l finally met my soulmate! The difference is unbelievable, you have to experience it to understand!!

@twumwaa319

Жыл бұрын

You sound so stupid right now. Oh so it was worth breaking your wife and kids heart to jump into bed with her best mate who she trusted in for years. This had a very negative impact on Frances hence why she never married again because she said she couldn’t trust anybody 😢. Also just because u r together long doesn’t mean u are happy.

@codename495

Жыл бұрын

Soulmates don’t exist, it’s stupid romanticism. “Soulmate” or not it’s disgusting to cheat on a spouse. Full stop. No excuse, no justification.

@twumwaa319

Жыл бұрын

@@codename495 Amen.

@sgaidola76

Жыл бұрын

Agreed!

@aquariusrising7019

Жыл бұрын

It’s not about soulmates, it’s about being older, having more life experience, knowing yourself better and knowing what you want from a relationship. Most young people shouldn’t get married quickly like he and his first wife did. And you didn’t cheat, you had the decency to divorce first.

I also heard from both their mouths they a re swingers.

@jillcrato1680

Жыл бұрын

🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢

I love that he instills a work ethic onto the kids he has.. nothing worse than rich entitled kids

@pippipster6767

7 ай бұрын

Don’t you worry … will be completely sorted one way or another 💰💰💰

Jesus, she must have a fantastic personality … let’s just put it that way.

Sad story really. Many people would have been hurt by what happened

Wow I had know idea that sting was married to another woman when he met Trudie

@cassandragreene3348

Жыл бұрын

That makes two of us! Totally shocked and had no idea as I am a huge Sting fan!!!😲 I'm kinda speechless!!

Another scorned person in this. She left a committed relationship with a guy called Paul Thompson who wasn't happy about this either.

@sgaidola76

Жыл бұрын

Better to leave than to stay.

Geordie like me and totally forgot himself. Really liked him when he was young in police.

Be happy! ❤

“Accidents” 😒

Q Marriage is honorable. Breaking vows with an affair is the most terrible betrayal by a spouse. The breakdown of the family. The theft of your spouse! Be faithful to the one you married. The promise of a lifetime of love ❤️ . Q truths

Healthy relationship. Good he has make clear their children to struggle and make their best on their own. Money has been expended and someday they were have to start solving his financial situation. They make a good couple. We see the respect and the freedom in their relation. Which precisely attracts them a lot more.

BEAUTIFUL♥️

I have absolutely no respect for this man at all

There’s a lot of scorned women in the comments. I have learned to not judge love or fate. Trudy and Sting obviously belong together. Sometimes in youth we make bad decisions. It happens.

@ritabrown2226

Жыл бұрын

I think what would be more tragic would be in a marriage to a spouse who would be constantly thinking about another person....or to not be in love your spouse as much as you are with the one that you yearn for... Moral compasses are needed for sure... Better redefine to our children what falling in love should feel like so they make better choices for the first time.❤️🔥❤️

@tracybrennan4194

Жыл бұрын

@@ritabrown2226 And sometimes we have to mature. When I was younger, I unconsciously looked for men who were like my dad. That led to bad results. But as I grew older and learned about relationships (and myself), i chose someone I never would have when I was 20. You can outgrow people. Now, if you’re just sleeping around, then yeah…home wrecker. But They’ve been together for 40 years. That’s a different deal.

@cut7995

Жыл бұрын

No it's not fate. It's lack of responsibility

@ClaraknowsALL221

Жыл бұрын

Only a marriage wrecking Mistress would say that. Shame on YOU👊🏾

@lanaw7304

9 ай бұрын

​@@tracybrennan4194they are 40 years together so they love eachother ? they dont cheat on eachother?? hahaha delusional

Wife’s best friend? So cliche.

I think unless you are an actual child of a very famous person like Sting, you have no idea of the burden of expectation. It cannot be easy, especially for those kids of his such as Joe and Eliot who are pursuing musical careers. And people will always assume that the kids lives are a bed of roses. I doubt that's the case. And I'm sure neither Sting or Trudy planned to fall in love behind his first wife's back. But time has shown that they were meant to be together.

Who put this now on social media ... is it really necessary to bring this out again ... I am quite sure everybody read about it yrs ago !!!

I plan to make it so my kids can make choices not based on money but they will have to work still. There’s a middle ground, Sting.

he's not faithful never has been, trust

@JoeTheCatSarnia

7 ай бұрын

and there is NO "tantric sex" its bullshit trust

Karma sometimes does not hit the people involved directly. It passed them and it went to hit their first daughter who gave birth to a special need kid. I feel sorry for her cause the people who brought this bad omen is her parents.

@pippipster6767

7 ай бұрын

That is an insanely stupid thing to say.

@thefuzzfactor2989

6 ай бұрын

@@pippipster6767 Agreed. This special needs child could be the greatest blessing to his/her parents.

@jillcrato1680

5 ай бұрын

@@pippipster6767 PREACH AND AMEN! THANK YOU FROM A WOMAN LIVING WITH CEREBRAL PALSY!

We live in a country where the King himself married his mistress and here we are judging a rock star's infidelity.

@firehorse66100

Жыл бұрын

We are judging people that betray their spouses and best friends, it has diddely swat to do with their jobs or titles.

@brookegoslin

8 ай бұрын

Interesting analogy ? So that makes it okay just because the King married his mistress !? I see hmmm okay

@pippipster6767

7 ай бұрын

What is the relevance of a king. A man of no merit. Born into it. Achieved nothing but quite literally was at the right place. at the right time. I wouldn’t take a king or queen as any sort of moral compass. Look to people of merit.

@jillcrato1680

5 ай бұрын

Famous,rich people play by their own set of rules.They don’t care what others think of their actions.They only answer to themselves!

I'm glad that sting and trudie are happy in their marriage 💘🙂❤❤

@paulascott5701

Жыл бұрын

She is a home wrecker and he is a life long back stabber. Of course they are going to put on a "happier than thou" act. They are ALWAYS better, more sophisticated, etc. than everybody. It is impossible to build a happy life on the misery you caused the people who rely on you, even if you have publicists and lie extremely well. It's bull.

@elzbietapaulina9808

Жыл бұрын

@@paulascott5701 who are you to judge others ?-God ?-even Jesus said about throwing stones -dont do it !

@paulascott5701

Жыл бұрын

@@elzbietapaulina9808 I don't mind judging home wreckers and mend who dump their families one bit! Are you kidding? LOL!!

Ok. This is not the version of the story I know.

It's unfortunate how they met. I do feel for his first wife. But it's obvious that he truly loved Trudie it wasn't just a fling.

Your husband publically says that he has cheated you with other women and other men and you accepted this? You are very brave.

This was told in such a confusing fashion.

😱😱😱

Styler was on an episode of Friends where she plays a concerned mom. Total bs.

Sorry

I think they are soulmates. Sounds very much like it. This is how life does it. Imagine, the neighbour ! But They managed their challenge very well. Admirable.

@twumwaa319

Жыл бұрын

Soulmates don't exist - stop using that as an excuse to do shitty things. Also just because people are married long don't mean they are happy. My grandmum was married to my grandad was 76 years - it was only when she died that we knew how unhappy she was stuck in an abusive marriage.

still a homewrecker

@juliehall2893

Жыл бұрын

Yes, he did

@lynnesmith8281

Жыл бұрын

@Debbie James double betrayal. Some friend. Some husband. Can not stand either of them.

Must be exciting to cast off your family for shiny new replacements. Sting is a true gold digger at heart just like his 2nd wife. They deserve each other.

Hollywood is over!!! 💉☠️⏳

👎👎👎

Two trolls living in a make-believe world.

He is not honest I know

MAJĄTEK DUŻY MUSISZ PILNOWAC PRAWNIK NA TAKIM KURESTWIE ZARABIA

Totally respect how sting raised his children he's right not to leave them any money

@twumwaa319

Жыл бұрын

That’s cruel and I hope u never have kids if you think this way. Your children can still work but u leave them money (if u can) for their futures. Who knows what might happen? There was a famous actor who left not a single penny to his children who all had jobs at the time. His family in response ended up not showing up to his funeral. Worst thing was that his granddaughter needed money for a surgery.

@elisabeth28

Жыл бұрын

@@twumwaa319 agreed I think it's really messed up!! If I had a lot of money. It would go to my Son as it should be.

@cherrylleallan6366

Жыл бұрын

@@twumwaa319 Agree yes that's cruel, your family should always come first.

@pippipster6767

7 ай бұрын

This is so fake. No doubt they had absolute bucketloads during his lifetime 💰

@Robin838

4 ай бұрын

He doesn't need to. He fixed his kids up years ago, with homes in London and New York, ' careers' as 'directors', 'models', bit-part actors

Wow he wont leave a penny of his 300million nice😮

@bluejeans1773

7 ай бұрын

Dang

He is the biggest liar ever

All that wealth and he won't share it with his own tribe? Cheated on his wife. Massive ego. Yawwwwnnnnnnnnnnnn

🤮🤮🤮

Blah blah blah!!!!!

It's cute trudi thinks sting has been faithful. You're a horrible person to betray a friendship trudi. sting is no better