this video has the wrong title. it is the Rights of the Wife over the Husband

@wouldyounot7971

4 жыл бұрын

Mona J Kib hes just saying the title is wrong

@JahannamHellfire

3 жыл бұрын

Dear Sir! Your wife before marrying you was enjoying her parents' love and kindness. Now that she has entered into marriage agreement with you and now that she has chosen to live with you for the rest of her life, she expects you to fulfill her desires for love and affection. She expects you to show more love to her than she received from her parents and friends. She has trusted you extremely and that is why she has entrusted you with her existence. The secret to a happy marriage is the expression of your affection to your wife. If you want to conquer her heart, if you want to make her obedient with regard to your demands, if you want to strengthen your marriage, make her love you and remain faithful to you, or..., then you must always show your affection to her and express your love. If you deprive your wife of kindness, then she would lose interest in her house, children and, above all, in you. Your house would always be in a messy condition. She would not be prepared to make efforts for a person who does not love her. A house, in which there is no affection, resembles a burning hell, even though it may be very tidy and full of luxurious goods. Your wife may become ill or have a nervous breakdown. She may seek popularity with others if she is not satisfied with you. She may grow so cold towards you and the house that she may even seek for a divorce. You are responsible for all this because you have failed to keep her content. It is certainly true that some divorce procedures take place as a result of unkindliness. Your attention is drawn to the following statistics. The psychological requirement of affection, the carelessness of husbands with regard to their wives' wishes and the overlooking of the importance of the mental status of women, have been responsible for many divorce cases. "In the year 1969, out of a total of 10372 separations, 1203 women expressed the reason for their divorce as losing heart in life, feeling worthless, and the lack of care of their husband with regard to their wives' desires and emotional feelings." 2 "A woman said in court that 'She was prepared to abandon her dowry and even pay her husband a sum of money to make him agree to a divorce. She said her husband was more interested in his parrots and that was why she did not want to live with him any longer."3 Family love and friendship is more precious than anything else and that is why Allah has regarded it as one of the signs of power and a great blessing which mankind has been endowed with, Holy Qur'an says: وَمِنْ آيَاتِهِ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُمْ مِنْ أَنْفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَاجًا لِتَسْكُنُوا إِلَيْهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُمْ مَوَدَّةً وَرَحْمَةً ۚ إِنَّ فِي ذَٰلِكَ لَآيَاتٍ لِقَوْمٍ يَتَفَكَّرُونَ "..And one of His signs is that He created mates for you from yourselves that you may find rest in them and He put between you love and compassion; most surely there are signs in this for a people who reflect." (30:21) "Imam as-Sadiq (a.s) stated: 'Whoever is our friend, expresses his kindness to his spouse more'." 4 "The Prophet of Allah (S) stated: 'The more one becomes faithful the more one expresses kindness to his spouse'." 5 "Imam as-Sadiq (a.s) stated: 'One of the characteristics of the prophets of Allah is that they are all kind towards their wives'," 6 "The Prophet of Allah (S) stated: 'The words of a man who tells his wife, 'I love you truly', should never leave her heart'." 7 Love and affection must of course be genuine to appeal to another's heart, but even so loving for someone is not enough, as it is vital to express one's affection. By showing your feelings through your words and actions, the love you have shown will be returned to you and your hearts will strengthen their bonds of love. Be frank and do not be discrete in expressing your love towards your wife. In her absence or presence, you should make compliments for her. Write to her while traveling and inform her that you miss her. Occasionally buy something for her. Phone her when you are at work and ask how she is. One of the important things on a woman's mind is these kinds of expressions of love. "Mrs... while shedding tears of grief said: 'I married my husband on an autumn night. We lived together in peace for a while. I regarded myself as the luckiest woman in this world. I lived in his little house for six years. I felt a hundred times happier when I found out that I was pregnant. When I informed my husband he wept tears of joy while embracing me in his arms. He cried so much that he nearly lost control over himself. He then went out and bought me a diamond necklace with his savings. He gave the necklace and said: 'I am giving this to the best woman that I have ever seen in the world'. But it was not long before he was killed in a driving accident'.

@void6752

3 жыл бұрын

Mona J Kib stfu you weird narcissistic freak he DJs focus on whenever

I didnt wanted to watch the video beacuse I thought I already knew what he was going to say, but then I was like "just listen to it" and I was surprised that it was the right of the WIFE lol

بارك الله فيك

Sheikh, please share us the rights of husbands too..

@SunShine-sp8zw

3 жыл бұрын

@will d Never get married.

I think they titled the video wrong on purpose to trick you abusive husband looking to justify their acts through the video when you click on it you find out it’s the complete opposite that you was looking for

@JahannamHellfire

3 жыл бұрын

Dear Sir! Your wife before marrying you was enjoying her parents' love and kindness. Now that she has entered into marriage agreement with you and now that she has chosen to live with you for the rest of her life, she expects you to fulfill her desires for love and affection. She expects you to show more love to her than she received from her parents and friends. She has trusted you extremely and that is why she has entrusted you with her existence. The secret to a happy marriage is the expression of your affection to your wife. If you want to conquer her heart, if you want to make her obedient with regard to your demands, if you want to strengthen your marriage, make her love you and remain faithful to you, or..., then you must always show your affection to her and express your love. If you deprive your wife of kindness, then she would lose interest in her house, children and, above all, in you. Your house would always be in a messy condition. She would not be prepared to make efforts for a person who does not love her. A house, in which there is no affection, resembles a burning hell, even though it may be very tidy and full of luxurious goods. Your wife may become ill or have a nervous breakdown. She may seek popularity with others if she is not satisfied with you. She may grow so cold towards you and the house that she may even seek for a divorce. You are responsible for all this because you have failed to keep her content. It is certainly true that some divorce procedures take place as a result of unkindliness. Your attention is drawn to the following statistics. The psychological requirement of affection, the carelessness of husbands with regard to their wives' wishes and the overlooking of the importance of the mental status of women, have been responsible for many divorce cases. "In the year 1969, out of a total of 10372 separations, 1203 women expressed the reason for their divorce as losing heart in life, feeling worthless, and the lack of care of their husband with regard to their wives' desires and emotional feelings." 2 "A woman said in court that 'She was prepared to abandon her dowry and even pay her husband a sum of money to make him agree to a divorce. She said her husband was more interested in his parrots and that was why she did not want to live with him any longer."3 Family love and friendship is more precious than anything else and that is why Allah has regarded it as one of the signs of power and a great blessing which mankind has been endowed with, Holy Qur'an says: وَمِنْ آيَاتِهِ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُمْ مِنْ أَنْفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَاجًا لِتَسْكُنُوا إِلَيْهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُمْ مَوَدَّةً وَرَحْمَةً ۚ إِنَّ فِي ذَٰلِكَ لَآيَاتٍ لِقَوْمٍ يَتَفَكَّرُونَ "..And one of His signs is that He created mates for you from yourselves that you may find rest in them and He put between you love and compassion; most surely there are signs in this for a people who reflect." (30:21) "Imam as-Sadiq (a.s) stated: 'Whoever is our friend, expresses his kindness to his spouse more'." 4 "The Prophet of Allah (S) stated: 'The more one becomes faithful the more one expresses kindness to his spouse'." 5 "Imam as-Sadiq (a.s) stated: 'One of the characteristics of the prophets of Allah is that they are all kind towards their wives'," 6 "The Prophet of Allah (S) stated: 'The words of a man who tells his wife, 'I love you truly', should never leave her heart'." 7 Love and affection must of course be genuine to appeal to another's heart, but even so loving for someone is not enough, as it is vital to express one's affection. By showing your feelings through your words and actions, the love you have shown will be returned to you and your hearts will strengthen their bonds of love. Be frank and do not be discrete in expressing your love towards your wife. In her absence or presence, you should make compliments for her. Write to her while traveling and inform her that you miss her. Occasionally buy something for her. Phone her when you are at work and ask how she is. One of the important things on a woman's mind is these kinds of expressions of love. "Mrs... while shedding tears of grief said: 'I married my husband on an autumn night. We lived together in peace for a while. I regarded myself as the luckiest woman in this world. I lived in his little house for six years. I felt a hundred times happier when I found out that I was pregnant. When I informed my husband he wept tears of joy while embracing me in his arms. He cried so much that he nearly lost control over himself. He then went out and bought me a diamond necklace with his savings. He gave the necklace and said: 'I am giving this to the best woman that I have ever seen in the world'. But it was not long before he was killed in a driving accident'.

@sbatm

3 жыл бұрын

Dont be a secret wife!!! Salam sister. You knew one sided stories and not practical. I don’t want to write too much. Just let you know that, there are spouses in either side, men or women are also neglecting their duties even though their spouse is fair one. People think, many men are not doing their duties to their to their wife. Many cases, wife also neglect their husbands rights. Whoever (whether it’s husband or wife) neglect their obligation in their marriage, has to answer to the Almighty. Many good men suffer in silence as they don’t want to break their families.

Ma shaa allah nice 👍

I thought I was going to hear rights of a husband . The title of this video is misleading.

@pierreemerick-aubameyang1096

5 жыл бұрын

Tbh it may be good as men trying to find out their rights may need to find out their duties to

@adrianford8823

4 жыл бұрын

You have both spoken the truth

nice mashaallah

How can.i find the whole episode of this clip?

But the sad thing is when the brothers listen to this video and they don't agree with it, saying the Sheikh is wrong or don't even want watch the video till the end.

@achiever9560

3 жыл бұрын

@Muslim Always you are right, he is arguing to everybody and using bad words in this whole comment section u can check I think he just has a toxic masculinity, mannerless man.

@JahannamHellfire

3 жыл бұрын

Dear Sir! Your wife before marrying you was enjoying her parents' love and kindness. Now that she has entered into marriage agreement with you and now that she has chosen to live with you for the rest of her life, she expects you to fulfill her desires for love and affection. She expects you to show more love to her than she received from her parents and friends. She has trusted you extremely and that is why she has entrusted you with her existence. The secret to a happy marriage is the expression of your affection to your wife. If you want to conquer her heart, if you want to make her obedient with regard to your demands, if you want to strengthen your marriage, make her love you and remain faithful to you, or..., then you must always show your affection to her and express your love. If you deprive your wife of kindness, then she would lose interest in her house, children and, above all, in you. Your house would always be in a messy condition. She would not be prepared to make efforts for a person who does not love her. A house, in which there is no affection, resembles a burning hell, even though it may be very tidy and full of luxurious goods. Your wife may become ill or have a nervous breakdown. She may seek popularity with others if she is not satisfied with you. She may grow so cold towards you and the house that she may even seek for a divorce. You are responsible for all this because you have failed to keep her content. It is certainly true that some divorce procedures take place as a result of unkindliness. Your attention is drawn to the following statistics. The psychological requirement of affection, the carelessness of husbands with regard to their wives' wishes and the overlooking of the importance of the mental status of women, have been responsible for many divorce cases. "In the year 1969, out of a total of 10372 separations, 1203 women expressed the reason for their divorce as losing heart in life, feeling worthless, and the lack of care of their husband with regard to their wives' desires and emotional feelings." 2 "A woman said in court that 'She was prepared to abandon her dowry and even pay her husband a sum of money to make him agree to a divorce. She said her husband was more interested in his parrots and that was why she did not want to live with him any longer."3 Family love and friendship is more precious than anything else and that is why Allah has regarded it as one of the signs of power and a great blessing which mankind has been endowed with, Holy Qur'an says: وَمِنْ آيَاتِهِ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُمْ مِنْ أَنْفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَاجًا لِتَسْكُنُوا إِلَيْهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُمْ مَوَدَّةً وَرَحْمَةً ۚ إِنَّ فِي ذَٰلِكَ لَآيَاتٍ لِقَوْمٍ يَتَفَكَّرُونَ "..And one of His signs is that He created mates for you from yourselves that you may find rest in them and He put between you love and compassion; most surely there are signs in this for a people who reflect." (30:21) "Imam as-Sadiq (a.s) stated: 'Whoever is our friend, expresses his kindness to his spouse more'." 4 "The Prophet of Allah (S) stated: 'The more one becomes faithful the more one expresses kindness to his spouse'." 5 "Imam as-Sadiq (a.s) stated: 'One of the characteristics of the prophets of Allah is that they are all kind towards their wives'," 6 "The Prophet of Allah (S) stated: 'The words of a man who tells his wife, 'I love you truly', should never leave her heart'." 7 Love and affection must of course be genuine to appeal to another's heart, but even so loving for someone is not enough, as it is vital to express one's affection. By showing your feelings through your words and actions, the love you have shown will be returned to you and your hearts will strengthen their bonds of love. Be frank and do not be discrete in expressing your love towards your wife. In her absence or presence, you should make compliments for her. Write to her while traveling and inform her that you miss her. Occasionally buy something for her. Phone her when you are at work and ask how she is. One of the important things on a woman's mind is these kinds of expressions of love. "Mrs... while shedding tears of grief said: 'I married my husband on an autumn night. We lived together in peace for a while. I regarded myself as the luckiest woman in this world. I lived in his little house for six years. I felt a hundred times happier when I found out that I was pregnant. When I informed my husband he wept tears of joy while embracing me in his arms. He cried so much that he nearly lost control over himself. He then went out and bought me a diamond necklace with his savings. He gave the necklace and said: 'I am giving this to the best woman that I have ever seen in the world'. But it was not long before he was killed in a driving accident'.

brother it's the rights of wife not Husband in this video

@thebeautyinsideourheart1807

5 жыл бұрын

What clears me, this is about the basic duties of a husband. SubhanAllah, tittle doesnt matter but the content. May Allah swt grant us understanding. Ameen.

اسلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته Sheikh hope you are in the best of health... Now a days in our muslim society specially in west every muslim women and men know what are the rights of wives but they don't know what are the right of a Muslim husband especially women they don't know nor they wants to know majority muslim family having this problem husband rights doesn't exist it would be very helpful if you and sheikh salah releases few short video regarding husband rights purely according to Quran and Sunnah ZajakAllah khair

This should say "the be rights of the wife"

Ruling of husband not looking after sick wife

the husband is the boss in marriage

@achiever9560

3 жыл бұрын

Shame on u both this is totally unislamic, Fear Allah and may Allah give you hidayah.

@JahannamHellfire

3 жыл бұрын

Dear Sir! Your wife before marrying you was enjoying her parents' love and kindness. Now that she has entered into marriage agreement with you and now that she has chosen to live with you for the rest of her life, she expects you to fulfill her desires for love and affection. She expects you to show more love to her than she received from her parents and friends. She has trusted you extremely and that is why she has entrusted you with her existence. The secret to a happy marriage is the expression of your affection to your wife. If you want to conquer her heart, if you want to make her obedient with regard to your demands, if you want to strengthen your marriage, make her love you and remain faithful to you, or..., then you must always show your affection to her and express your love. If you deprive your wife of kindness, then she would lose interest in her house, children and, above all, in you. Your house would always be in a messy condition. She would not be prepared to make efforts for a person who does not love her. A house, in which there is no affection, resembles a burning hell, even though it may be very tidy and full of luxurious goods. Your wife may become ill or have a nervous breakdown. She may seek popularity with others if she is not satisfied with you. She may grow so cold towards you and the house that she may even seek for a divorce. You are responsible for all this because you have failed to keep her content. It is certainly true that some divorce procedures take place as a result of unkindliness. Your attention is drawn to the following statistics. The psychological requirement of affection, the carelessness of husbands with regard to their wives' wishes and the overlooking of the importance of the mental status of women, have been responsible for many divorce cases. "In the year 1969, out of a total of 10372 separations, 1203 women expressed the reason for their divorce as losing heart in life, feeling worthless, and the lack of care of their husband with regard to their wives' desires and emotional feelings." 2 "A woman said in court that 'She was prepared to abandon her dowry and even pay her husband a sum of money to make him agree to a divorce. She said her husband was more interested in his parrots and that was why she did not want to live with him any longer."3 Family love and friendship is more precious than anything else and that is why Allah has regarded it as one of the signs of power and a great blessing which mankind has been endowed with, Holy Qur'an says: وَمِنْ آيَاتِهِ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُمْ مِنْ أَنْفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَاجًا لِتَسْكُنُوا إِلَيْهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُمْ مَوَدَّةً وَرَحْمَةً ۚ إِنَّ فِي ذَٰلِكَ لَآيَاتٍ لِقَوْمٍ يَتَفَكَّرُونَ "..And one of His signs is that He created mates for you from yourselves that you may find rest in them and He put between you love and compassion; most surely there are signs in this for a people who reflect." (30:21) "Imam as-Sadiq (a.s) stated: 'Whoever is our friend, expresses his kindness to his spouse more'." 4 "The Prophet of Allah (S) stated: 'The more one becomes faithful the more one expresses kindness to his spouse'." 5 "Imam as-Sadiq (a.s) stated: 'One of the characteristics of the prophets of Allah is that they are all kind towards their wives'," 6 "The Prophet of Allah (S) stated: 'The words of a man who tells his wife, 'I love you truly', should never leave her heart'." 7 Love and affection must of course be genuine to appeal to another's heart, but even so loving for someone is not enough, as it is vital to express one's affection. By showing your feelings through your words and actions, the love you have shown will be returned to you and your hearts will strengthen their bonds of love. Be frank and do not be discrete in expressing your love towards your wife. In her absence or presence, you should make compliments for her. Write to her while traveling and inform her that you miss her. Occasionally buy something for her. Phone her when you are at work and ask how she is. One of the important things on a woman's mind is these kinds of expressions of love. "Mrs... while shedding tears of grief said: 'I married my husband on an autumn night. We lived together in peace for a while. I regarded myself as the luckiest woman in this world. I lived in his little house for six years. I felt a hundred times happier when I found out that I was pregnant. When I informed my husband he wept tears of joy while embracing me in his arms. He cried so much that he nearly lost control over himself. He then went out and bought me a diamond necklace with his savings. He gave the necklace and said: 'I am giving this to the best woman that I have ever seen in the world'. But it was not long before he was killed in a driving accident'.

@void6752

3 жыл бұрын

Achiever☆ it is true husband is the boss and leader of the family

@SunShine-sp8zw

3 жыл бұрын

@@void6752 Husband may be the boss but the wife is the Queen as stated in the video.

Salaamu alaikum sir I have a question to ask you pls how to ask

@RJ-uq6py

4 жыл бұрын

On his website.

Definitely showing this to my future husband haha

Women are treated like queens and the men is actually to pity, if anyone, because they are always working with so many responsibilities lying over their shoulders. Women can do anything but they simply are not obligated to do many things men are, in the worldly life.

@JahannamHellfire

3 жыл бұрын

Dear Sir! Your wife before marrying you was enjoying her parents' love and kindness. Now that she has entered into marriage agreement with you and now that she has chosen to live with you for the rest of her life, she expects you to fulfill her desires for love and affection. She expects you to show more love to her than she received from her parents and friends. She has trusted you extremely and that is why she has entrusted you with her existence. The secret to a happy marriage is the expression of your affection to your wife. If you want to conquer her heart, if you want to make her obedient with regard to your demands, if you want to strengthen your marriage, make her love you and remain faithful to you, or..., then you must always show your affection to her and express your love. If you deprive your wife of kindness, then she would lose interest in her house, children and, above all, in you. Your house would always be in a messy condition. She would not be prepared to make efforts for a person who does not love her. A house, in which there is no affection, resembles a burning hell, even though it may be very tidy and full of luxurious goods. Your wife may become ill or have a nervous breakdown. She may seek popularity with others if she is not satisfied with you. She may grow so cold towards you and the house that she may even seek for a divorce. You are responsible for all this because you have failed to keep her content. It is certainly true that some divorce procedures take place as a result of unkindliness. Your attention is drawn to the following statistics. The psychological requirement of affection, the carelessness of husbands with regard to their wives' wishes and the overlooking of the importance of the mental status of women, have been responsible for many divorce cases. "In the year 1969, out of a total of 10372 separations, 1203 women expressed the reason for their divorce as losing heart in life, feeling worthless, and the lack of care of their husband with regard to their wives' desires and emotional feelings." 2 "A woman said in court that 'She was prepared to abandon her dowry and even pay her husband a sum of money to make him agree to a divorce. She said her husband was more interested in his parrots and that was why she did not want to live with him any longer."3 Family love and friendship is more precious than anything else and that is why Allah has regarded it as one of the signs of power and a great blessing which mankind has been endowed with, Holy Qur'an says: وَمِنْ آيَاتِهِ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُمْ مِنْ أَنْفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَاجًا لِتَسْكُنُوا إِلَيْهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُمْ مَوَدَّةً وَرَحْمَةً ۚ إِنَّ فِي ذَٰلِكَ لَآيَاتٍ لِقَوْمٍ يَتَفَكَّرُونَ "..And one of His signs is that He created mates for you from yourselves that you may find rest in them and He put between you love and compassion; most surely there are signs in this for a people who reflect." (30:21) "Imam as-Sadiq (a.s) stated: 'Whoever is our friend, expresses his kindness to his spouse more'." 4 "The Prophet of Allah (S) stated: 'The more one becomes faithful the more one expresses kindness to his spouse'." 5 "Imam as-Sadiq (a.s) stated: 'One of the characteristics of the prophets of Allah is that they are all kind towards their wives'," 6 "The Prophet of Allah (S) stated: 'The words of a man who tells his wife, 'I love you truly', should never leave her heart'." 7 Love and affection must of course be genuine to appeal to another's heart, but even so loving for someone is not enough, as it is vital to express one's affection. By showing your feelings through your words and actions, the love you have shown will be returned to you and your hearts will strengthen their bonds of love. Be frank and do not be discrete in expressing your love towards your wife. In her absence or presence, you should make compliments for her. Write to her while traveling and inform her that you miss her. Occasionally buy something for her. Phone her when you are at work and ask how she is. One of the important things on a woman's mind is these kinds of expressions of love. "Mrs... while shedding tears of grief said: 'I married my husband on an autumn night. We lived together in peace for a while. I regarded myself as the luckiest woman in this world. I lived in his little house for six years. I felt a hundred times happier when I found out that I was pregnant. When I informed my husband he wept tears of joy while embracing me in his arms. He cried so much that he nearly lost control over himself. He then went out and bought me a diamond necklace with his savings. He gave the necklace and said: 'I am giving this to the best woman that I have ever seen in the world'. But it was not long before he was killed in a driving accident'.

Thanks u didnt mention 1 right of the husb

Asalm I have a question how can I ask you

@Perspectiveonlife

4 жыл бұрын

Follow him on Facebook, there is a link there. There is a link on his website. You can also try calling ask Huda which is ran by Dr. Sallah now

Duties

Sir I have a question how can I ask u if

@jiyan2220

5 жыл бұрын

www.assimalhakeem.net/ask-a-question/

@TheSpeculer

5 жыл бұрын

www.assimalhakeem.net/ask-a-question/

Wrong title of this video.. Dont lie and play with video title on purpo...

Very good advice for marriage. The Quran says: SAHIH INTERNATIONAL 4:34 But those [wives] from whom you fear arrogance - [first] advise them; [then if they persist], forsake them in bed; and [finally], strike them. But if they obey you [once more], seek no means against them. Indeed, Allah is ever Exalted and Grand. It prescribes both things the Sheikh says don't do, abandonment and strike, and it's arrogance shouldn't even happen it's if you fear arrogance. Good on the sheikh for ignoring the Quran and following his common sense and western values. If only more Muslims and Sheiks were like him.

Hi

I am getting married. I need to know my husbands rights to be a good wife. I am a revert and need to learn lots. I don't know what to do for work. I need to work but don't to go against Islam. Oh a dead beat husband who lives off women as his slaves? That's awful. I would kick him out. That's not Islam. What an awful example to children. I still don't know my husbands rights. Can he demand me to wear a hijab? When I wear it I get a hard time from people. And people think my husband forces me yet he never asked me to. Can my husband demand no music in the house? Humm I will try to keep looking. I can't decide about my hijab. But even if my husband said to not or to wear it, it will still be the same. Even if the most studied tell me to not to or to, it still be the same. I feel I should but fell it's hard thing to do. No one can change that.

@hanzalaomar3234

4 жыл бұрын

You can find the "rights of husband" in the website called Islamqa, sister..