By the sound of this, it appears like your dad hated your mother, and then transferred that hate onto you guys. Probably being a traditional man, you being girls fuelled the hate. And he'll never love you. But God is great. Watch how his life is gonna turn out eventually, and your mother's spirit will continue to rise up for you girls❤

@brilliantmind9729

19 күн бұрын

My thoughts too

@relebohilelebatla6148

19 күн бұрын

My thoughts exactly! It’s such a beautiful thing that Owamie works so hard for her sisters and son. More blessings to you ninja

@reatlehakhabele3529

19 күн бұрын

This is what I was thinking too

@patienceikombele9161

19 күн бұрын

I thought so, he never love loved her mom.

@elizabethletsoso2558

18 күн бұрын

​@@brilliantmind9729 Yes mine too

Oh Owamie the part where your father kicked you guys out of the car really had me breaking down 😭 big hugs to you big sis, your life journey is giving all of us strength ❤️

@asanda494

19 күн бұрын

Neo!!! The way I cried💔

@neomalete5832

18 күн бұрын

@@asanda494 same I couldn’t hold myself love I broke down 🥺🥺

@MsSwanlake

17 күн бұрын

Yohhh this mannnn😭😭😭💔💔💔

@kedibonemohale1802

16 күн бұрын

Jk 7 jolly jl kk​@@asanda494

One thing I love, is that you're making sure that he too is uncomfortable. You're fighting a battle a mom should've fought. I think your Dad is used to people who let him get away with stuff. I think your mom also let him get away with too much

@khathutshelo051

16 күн бұрын

Hey 👋🏽. I hope you are well. Unfortunately when you are dealing with a narcissist parent. Who is a breadwinner and is also a respected person in the community. You don’t have a lot to stand on.

@boipeloboipy4106

12 күн бұрын

@@khathutshelo051 I am dealing with a narcissistic parent, who is NOT a breadwinner but a respected person in the community. A church leader, a Pastor wanna be. I had and still have to tolerate this because of my mom. She has shielded this man, her entire marriage. The final straw was my little sister's short illness that let to her death 7 and half months ago.Thats when I realized, I am dealing with a narcissist parent. For my peace, after the funeral, I blocked him. Focusing on my healing. One day I will tell my story. Enough is enough.

@khathutshelo051

12 күн бұрын

@@boipeloboipy4106 sending hugs and prayers your way. It be well soon

The EX wasn't supposed to tell your story on that podcast coz he lied 💔. This story is deep and heartbreaking

Some father's dont deserve to be called father's. He is just a monster.

@elizabethletsoso2558

18 күн бұрын

Louder 🎤🎤🎤🎤

Thank you for being vulnerable with us. This series made me realize that I'm better off as a single mother than forcing my baby daddy to be in his son's life. Thank you, you've also just helped me accept my situation. Wouldn't want my kid being mistreated, because i forced the relationship

Your father is a narcisist, there is nothing good you could have done to be loved and accepted by him. The most important thing for you and your sisters now is to go to theraphy and work on your healing.

Narcissistic people "being a parent" takes all the power and authority to make himself popular out there as if he's kindhearted to overshadow his abusive tendency upon his family 😢it's heartbreaking💔💔💔💞🙏💞

Your Father just wanted every little excuse to disown you guys...he was very quick to resort to that each time because it would relieve him from fatherly duties...I know you said you don't want to talk about anyone else apart from your sisters but I'm so curious hle on what kind of a Dad is he to your other siblings?...I'm trying to figure out if he was a deadbeat only to you guys or overall, if you don't feel like sharing, I completely understand...that man wasn't brought up with love himself and instead of doing better he perpetuates the cycle...so sorry for all of you guys...the part about him leaving you on the streets ...broke me😢

@jingleB-np4zr

19 күн бұрын

I'm curious about that too.

@Vv-fl2rm

19 күн бұрын

narcissists are horrible people. He may have been brought up well but is just vile, cruel and arrogant

@LM-he7eb

19 күн бұрын

@@jingleB-np4zr I think treats them the same. However, he sleeps next to their mother every night, so she can twist his arm. Owamie's mom was probably also twisting his arm all those decades. He is used to people who tiptoe around him

@vuyomtshali

19 күн бұрын

💯 That's what I wanted to say it's like he was waiting for her wife to die.

@naledindlovu976

19 күн бұрын

@LM-he7eb mmmm sad...I hear you

Oh mammie allow yourself to cry ,if we as strangers can cry from hearing this unfortunate events what about you that has went through this 🥺🥺

@elizabethletsoso2558

19 күн бұрын

True right 👍

@queenm2723

19 күн бұрын

😢 😭

You don’t need to call that man dad. A dad is someone who loves his children but this man is your father not dad Owamie. This is triggering a lot

Narcissistic fathers for you ! You are giving us the courage to talk about our experiences Owamie !!! I’m so sorry ! I know exactly how deeply painful it is to have a living parent but feel as though they are as good as dead .

This father is using power and money to abuse his own kids 😢😢😢

@elizabethletsoso2558

18 күн бұрын

Cabanga tjooo some parents bathong 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

Thank you for being so vulnerable and allowing us into your world, childhood and emotional state. You are healing so many people without even knowing it ❤

Botse botse Bo papago baya Loya straight. I am so sorry for what you and your sisters went through 💔 it will not be a surprise to find out your mom did not die a natural death. Maybe he had a hand. Such hatred no man this is too much💔💔💔

@bmshik

19 күн бұрын

The mom married her enemy

@Drip3657

18 күн бұрын

No laughing matter but when you say botse botse bopapago😂😂😂😂

@elizabethletsoso2558

18 күн бұрын

​@@Drip3657😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@calvary4347

16 күн бұрын

Say that again ke moloyi

I’ve never disliked someone I don’t know this much😭😭😭

How to spot a sociopath? Sociopathy Traits *Lack of empathy for others. *Impulsive behavior. *Attempting to control others with threats or aggression. *Using intelligence, charm, or charisma to manipulate others. *Not learning from mistakes or punishment. Lying for personal gain. *Showing a tendency toward physical violence and fights. This describes his character to a Tee. We normal people can never understand or even try to reason with such a person. I'm so sad, heartbroken but Owams you are healing many with your story and I know you yourself this is cathartic. Sending you Love and as much positive healing energy as I can master 🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞

As Am Typing This Tears Are Falling Out 😢 I Am In The Same Situation 🙌🏽 We Suffered And My Dad Was Also Abusive 💔 Now I Have A Special Child Instead Of Helping Me They Want To Benefit From My Son's Grant 🙌🏽 It Hurts So Bad

@lacronz6248

19 күн бұрын

🫂

@asanda494

19 күн бұрын

I’m so sorry Katlego❤ May the grace of the Lord locate and empower you

@timesup4454

17 күн бұрын

😢😢😢

@bongie_t

17 күн бұрын

Yhoooo this scary and traumatizing, it sounds like your father was a ritualist and he might have had a hand in your mom s passing, im sorry to hear this, no one deserves to go through this I remember when my mom passed away, my father was there for us 24/7 and made sure that we are well taken care off, how i wish all parents can act right by their kids hle

I promise you right now Owami, you will feel pity for your dad on his last days. He is going to suffer like no man's business. I am a witness of that because my dad wished my mom was alive because of the way he treated her. He is going to suffer I am telling you. That's being evil at its level best. Just keep on being strong for your siblings. Your father will get what's coming to him one day. It seems as if he celebrated your mum's passing.

I really wonder what makes people cruel😢especially to their own children💔

@Vv-fl2rm

19 күн бұрын

Narcissism, sociopathy, and many other issues and people being a parent without knowing what that actually entails of them

@nomsamtshali8878

17 күн бұрын

Money is the root of all evil. There is unhidden reason behind this man am telling you. Supporting a whole village except your own blood🤔Black magic

That old male needs to be called to order 😭 God must punish him now on earth, where everyone can see. 😭😭

@mbalikhoza5154

17 күн бұрын

He's going to apologize on his bed taking the last breath

@jabulilekhoza7617

17 күн бұрын

His Karma had already started, he's being exposed for who he truly is

Yhooo this man is very cruel 💔 this man robbed your child wood... am so sorry Owamie and ur sisters may God continue lifting you high.

Losing a mother very early on in life is very breaking, my siblings and I were kids and 11 years later we are still trying to pick up the pieces... I will say that I'm glad my dad realized that we needed him and he actually came to the party eventually and I thank God for that.. I'm sorry you and your sisters had to go through all of that ❤

This is heartbreaking to watch, yhoo what a vile human being is that old man😢

Yoh I zoned out so much watching this video remembering and getting flashbacks of what I went through with my mom's passing and burial prep. I know this pain first hand. Really sorry for all of this O. Your story is so similar with mine..

Yoh Owami i just listened to your and i couldn't stop my tears i love how strong you've been for your sisters 😘Big up sis

This is too sad for me I can't stop crying...ur a brave and beautiful girl, your Dad made you wiser and stronger

So upset! Saw the premier but couldn’t watch! Still not home yet and left the AirPods on charge 😩😫. Looking forward to this segment. Eish God’s strength sis! And know that you are strengthening so many of us with your bravery!

@NgwetjiyaDinare

19 күн бұрын

Same here hey n had put a notification but we were so occupied at work 😢 watching 22:48

The pain i felt when i lost my mum, i couldnt imagine being treated like that by my own father💔

Its difficult to watch this video because i dont want to see you cry it breaks my heart ...again i am so sorry you had to go through that Queen Ninja.

Haii nna I’m looking at your other family members with the biggest SIDE EYE‼️‼️ They have no reason to be this afraid of this man. Yhooo. Not even his own mother (your grandmother) can sit her son down and talk some sense into it. Or his other siblings? Did he even love his wife?. I have a lot of questions. If he ever loved your mom; you guys wouldn’t even be begging him for a cent.

@busisiwemichelle5391

19 күн бұрын

If you look at it some man they hard l don't know why yooh

@_molebogeng6281

18 күн бұрын

Maybe he is their moreki so they don't want to bore him

@Elizabeth-vu1tb

18 күн бұрын

@@_molebogeng6281 How? If your kids could eat bread and polony, why can’t you do the same for the kids? If it wasn’t for their father, they wouldn’t even be who they are. Making them sit on the floor etc?. Yhooo. If your older brother is wicked; why are you as a parent also being wicked?. And it’s not like they couldn’t afford to give Owamie and her siblings , even if it’s r100.

@khathutshelo051

16 күн бұрын

Mtase , family is rarely due to blood . You know I understand your point but due to how this man’s be hating on their family ( wife and kids ) you will be shook.

Read up on how Brian McKnight treats his kids. Sounds like your dad

@lungelolamula7075

19 күн бұрын

True! He HATES his children.

This is very heartbreaking💔😭 am so sorrie QueenNinja 👑 you had to go through that i mean most of us we didn't grow up with much but my parent's really did what they can for us throughout our lives ,yoooooooh heee your dad it's a very cold person tjerrr who does that to their kids 😏o nale pelo ya Satani stryt am sorrie to say darling but yoooh he is worse but am not suprised they are men like that out there that even take the hate to the nxt level and go to sangomas to witch 🧙‍♀️ their kids to not be successful in life if houses 🏘 could talk a lot of people are gowishing trust me your not alone....♥️

I don’t normally comment but Sisi, I just wanna give you a big hug♥️ Love and light to you my dear. May God give you strength to overcome and strength to carry your sisters through. May your wounds and scars be healed💙 I wish you nothing but the best in life. You deserve all the wins sthandwa sam

This is so heartbreaking Owami! Was he forced to marry your mother? Did he ever love her? What's with all this HATE to his children as if they are adopted! Was he somehow abused as a child or his father also raised him with an iron-fist and he is retaliating to his children? He will never see heaven

Ooh m so sorry for everything you’ve gone through Owamie,may the Lord strengthen you.

This made me relive my own mother’s passing. It’s been 6 years but it still feels like yesterday.

@elizabethletsoso2558

18 күн бұрын

Injalo my dear may you find healing from the above ❤

Sorry for what you and your sisters went through Owamie. May God strengthen and comfort you🙏🏼

Yooh my heart broke when you were narrating that you and your sisters had to buy your mom clothes, i wish there was an adult who would have helped you with that💔

But you did what you thought was right at that time 😢😢

@OwamieEntertainment

19 күн бұрын

😭😭😭 i wish i didn’t

@happiness4140

19 күн бұрын

As a sister I would have done the same..please never blame yourself ❤

@xiluvamitileni3004

16 күн бұрын

​@@OwamieEntertainmentdon't feel guilty I would have done the same as a big sis... I hope your Lil sister understands you did it to protect her

People often make jokes about "Daddy Issues", they don't realise how much girl children have to go through with their fathers. The pits! Some decide to stay away from men and having children because they don't want to pass their trauma onto their kids. Some gravitate towards dating older men who treat them well and they feel assured that they are somehow loved. It's important to try not to judge people's behaviors especially when you don't know their story and why they do that

😢😢 Owami your life story is so sad! All I know is that there is a God who sees and hears, whilst also fighting your battles. Narcissistic fathers have ruined our lives. They’re like that, they neglect their family, but will blow all their money on outsiders for validation. You and your sisters will get what is due to you. Watch this space.

This is such a trigger, I am so sorry you had to go through this❤

Ijoo my heart is bleeding this is too much ,May you and your sisters get the healing you deserve ninja

The most painful part is that you had to deal with Big Guy's mom drama at your mom's funeral where you needed support and comfort the most💔💔💔💔 Yohhhhhh you went through ALOT💔💔💔

@elizabethletsoso2558

18 күн бұрын

Yho! True kulondawo

Watched your story and it's very relatable, I thought life was this hard for us who lost both parents, experiencing this from your own parent is something else.... I think your father is cursed.. I'm not trying to justify his behavior but his behavior of being a community saviour and a monster to his own flesh and blood is Not normal behavior!!!

Its always comforting to go to your mother's mother when your mum passes on because she fills more pain than you

Good morning Mzansi ❤ in bed listening.

I believe your mother is a guardian Angel over you guys, Owamie please allow yourself to feel every emotion let it out don't hold back tears. That's how you find your healing. Please look after yourself you have been through alot.❤

Finally I let my tears out over this story. You went through it Owamie shu 😭 God indeed is a restorer 🙏🏽

I can't watch these videos because it triggers so much and Owamie you really inspire us. 😭😭 Yo! Ustrong mfazi

So sorry you had to go through this especially from your own biological father 💔😭.

We just passed through your dad's shopping centre... Strongs...all shall be well

@nomangesinthala8948

19 күн бұрын

He has a shoping center? I always wished I had a rich dad kanti this is what they do to their kids?😭😭

@naledindlovu976

19 күн бұрын

@@chiefer1325 he he he 😂 this man is not serious shem...sad

YHO! I can't say "I'm so sorry" Enough for all the pain & trauma you went through. I have always said that cruel people enjoy the power they get from being able to emotionally abuse & hurt people. I cannot understand your father's heart. I would to actually see it, YHO! YHO! YHO! I am so heart broken for you, your mother & your sisters 💔💔💔😭😭😭😭 I wish your father can repent and try to right his wrongs.

This is painfull Queen Ninjah I'm sorry you have to go thru this❤

Joooo, this is so emotional 😢 😭

My father used to be a truck driver n he used to say I drive trucks n sleep in bad conditions so my kids can go to school and to think your educated dad is doing that ! Yho that man is evil I hate him , hate us a big word but yho ! Owamie was your mom the only child ? Where are your auntie n uncles ? Can’t they have a meeting with the Netshivadzwaulu?

He's going to suffer Narcissistic injury after this.. He will go mad

Yhooooooo did I not cry this is so triggering losing a mother it's such a tradegy but don't want to lie my dad made sure we were okay he's still even trying even today because he understands how much that women loved us he also lost love of his love it's definitely not easy but he trying the best and I will always be grateful

Your story is so heartbreaking. I don't think I'm ready for part 3 💔💔💔

I was married to someone who went through such abuse… the story is almost the same because his father was once a school Principal as well. He told me he used to be chased from school for failure to pay school fees. I tried to love my ex husband with my all but we ended up divorcing. He started being abusive like his dad but I just couldn’t handle it so I left . I hope that one day he finds healing and have a happy life.

@rerandongoveni6770

17 күн бұрын

I’m sorry my love ❤️

Owamie this is heartbreaking. I'm so sorry you went through this.

Yoh to think that you were dealing with Big guys family shenanigans at the same time as your mothers funeral 💔 it was a lot sisi

So touching, wish one day I can be able to be open about what i have been through including my mom's funeral, she died 3 years after my separation with baby daddy and i have been through hell

Heartbreaking Owamie! Narcissists don't have empathy. They thrive in situations where others are down. There was no video and daddy-dearest did not feel he owes you what you deemed important. The video would have exposed much and narcissists have to control the narrative so that would have gone opposite to his agenda. Mother dearest could not have imagined that her beloved children would be so badly ill-treated. Otherwise, she could have definitely chosen differently. May her soul rest in peace! May the spirit of the Lord comfort you sesi.

Please don't apologize for crying mama...this is so heavy. Hugs

I’m sorry Owamie, that man is not a father. Thank God your mom is your Guardian Angel. I think she’s watching over you and her spirit is behind your success. Look at who you have become despite how manipulative that old man was to you, your sisters and your mom. ❤

I always say this some great man are not great in their homes l don't know if someone see this sometimes but they are great out there as she is saying that her father was taking onother kid some where

The day God deals with your dad, we will even be praying for God to have mercy on him because it will be a lot and we have humanness to feel for others. When God vengeances, he vengeances. You are Gods child aus Owamie. The day is coming.

Owami you have been through hell and back chooooooo

Sorry sis but that man is heartless and sounds like a ritualist!!!! How dare he 😡😡😡😡

Yo Ninja, your father reminds me of my "unsibling". "Unsibling" because I refuse to associate myself with such an individual. No regards for his own kids but when he started pulling those stunts with my kids, who he DID NOT have to be in their lives. I unsiblinged his ass so fast. When I was born there were 3 of us, now I only claim my other brother. Peace is what I chose. Sorry mama.

@Estell-o3t

19 күн бұрын

I love this term😭😭😭

@goitsi

19 күн бұрын

@@Estell-o3t I chose peace❤

I am sorry Owamie you and your sisters had to go through all of this. I hope you have your father on your funeral policies/life policy , so when he passed on you will be able to claim and use that money for yourself and sisters …i know i sound heartless but fathers are horrible peoplr

I am imagining every u went through and its painful

Queen Ninja. Please stop apologizing for your tears. They are warranted. I think your mother knew deep down what kind of person he is hence she made sure that your signature is needed as well. She knew that once she is gone, he would not take care of her Angels on earth but still had hope as he is your biological father. Cry as much as you want. The ninjas are here with you and for you. 😇

Ninja signing in

Parents can be toxic too I’m sorry my ninja ❤️

😟sounds like your dad never truly loved your mother and he just tolerated you because she was alive… immediately she passed, his true colors were revealed 🚩

@elizabethletsoso2558

18 күн бұрын

Lol her mother was married her biggest enemy

Was your mom and dad in an arranged marriage that he clearly detested. May God intervene

I wanna see this man sana 😭😭😭😭how is he so heartless yoh 😪

Ninja checking in🤗🤗

Haii; I feel like you fighting this man is actually causing more harm than good. If it was me, I would honestly seek forgiveness from God. Because I won’t even make it to his funeral.. focus on your siblings and Ray. Go to Venda only to see your mom then drive back. Give him everything and start from zero. His greediness is unmatched. His even wasting your money from all these ran around. When has the justice system ever worked ? He will pay for his sins in the afterlife.

@LM-he7eb

19 күн бұрын

Nah. People like this actually prosper when they are left to do as they please. In fact, the biggest mistake here is that they didn't start fighting him earlier. They should've sued him for maintenance when the sisters were still young

@Elizabeth-vu1tb

19 күн бұрын

@@LM-he7eb But it’s hurting them.. he may prosper all he wants but his time is coming. Owamie needs to focus her energy on more good things to come. Look at how far they have come without him?. What will his 2 cents help with now? His stealing their joy.

Your father pisses me me off so much , he is rich and still stole from kids that just lost their mother . My thoughts has always been but Owamie is talking about maintaining blah blah where is the mothers pension/ benefits money especially because she was a nurse . N this Video answered me so well. If he gave you guys your mothers money n you spent it on your development n school it would be a different story now if he isn’t involved . Owamie am so sorry. Ke utlwile bohloko . Thank you for being there for your sisters . O mbokodo. You held it down n still do

That old man ke Moloi and continue with exposing him so people can know him for who he is "MOLOI" And I'm sorry cc.

@elizabethletsoso2558

18 күн бұрын

As ke Moloi Lol I'm rolling on the floor in this cold front 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

My heart broke into a million pieces 💔

Owami my heart aches for you and wish you nothing but healing ❤. I felt the part where you said having one parent who is supportive then that same supportive parent dies. God forgive me but i used to ask God that question when my mom died. My mom died 1 week after my daughter was born and 5 days after my father had insulted her asking when she will die as she was moaning in pain in her final days of battling cancer. Its a big wound, from as early as i can remember my father emotional abused my mom and us when he was under the influence of alcohol. I cant forgive.

This is so heartbreaking 🥺. What an evil man💔😢

My take away from this is, It is very easy to judge if you have never walked a mile..I always judged you Owami for taking your dad to court but now I understand. Sorry sis virtual hug..

🫂❤am so sorry Owamie, this is so sad 😭...

This is painful😔❤

Iyho,now I understand how you feel about your father 💔

I guess the name Owami is more deeper than you explained.... My daughter's name is also Owami and I named her while I was pregnant and I was sooo hurt deep to the core. And Owami lomtwana God gave me for a reason.... I never just call her by that name randomly.... It's only when we're going through a lot...

Shame im finding it so hard to understand why your father was so hateful towards you guys. You have been through so much because of him. Sending u lots of love❤ I hope you will heal

On standby 🧍‍♀️

@LM-he7eb

19 күн бұрын

lol

I've watched part one, and i couldn't stop crying, Owamie😢. Your father is exactly my father. Youths from my village keep graduating every year, and he pays for their studies while I'm in the street of Windhoek rooming around 😢😢😢. It's only God who knows what I've done to him to deserve this treatment

@etunaeme

15 күн бұрын

Ombili nowele, keep being strong, God is with you

This is sad story maan 😢😢😢😢

😢 this is sad

@elizabethletsoso2558

18 күн бұрын

Yhooooo!!!!!!

I know you have shared some things about your dad but I keep on saying yoh when u are telling us this😢

Wickedness in another level. I am so sorry queen Ninja 😔

This is so painfull😢😢😢😢