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The Reality Of Being Married To a Korean Man as a Black woman?

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  • @mikahope7770
    @mikahope777010 ай бұрын

    This is my friend! I must say they both compliment each other so well, you can see how balanced they are as a couple. Janae has her vibracy and such a bubbly personality, where Won is calm and chill. Plus, both of them are two of the sweetest people I've ever met. Thank you for this interview, and for showing more people what international couples' thoughts and lifestyle can be like!

  • @lahopkins9746

    @lahopkins9746

    10 ай бұрын

    "They both compliment each other so well." I can see that.

  • @Msd4-13

    @Msd4-13

    10 ай бұрын

    She seems so sweet! I’m so happy for her, so happy for both of them😊

  • @BlackNella

    @BlackNella

    10 ай бұрын

    Maybe I should give Tinder another chance 🤔

  • @Ateyaaa

    @Ateyaaa

    10 ай бұрын

    great FRIEND!

  • @milanacampbell4054

    @milanacampbell4054

    10 ай бұрын

    Whats janae’s IG

  • @oppaheimer88
    @oppaheimer886 ай бұрын

    I’m Korean-American and I’m so glad to see Korean men and Black women finding each other. I’ve always been attracted to Black women but none were really in my orbit and I also didn’t think they were attracted to Asian men. There’s a disconnect and I would love to see it get bridged.

  • @MsSomaliLife

    @MsSomaliLife

    4 ай бұрын

    Oh wow!! You should definitely approach any black women you may be interested in because most of us are pretty open to Asian men especially Korean men. I know my friends and I talk a lot about dating dating Korean men one day.

  • @nightangel3578

    @nightangel3578

    3 ай бұрын

    You should definitely talk to the Black women that you're attracted to. You never know what might happen.

  • @Ayitiana

    @Ayitiana

    2 ай бұрын

    i have a korean male bestie

  • @Godlovesus78

    @Godlovesus78

    Ай бұрын

    I find Asian guys so attractive, I am a black woman by the way. I am interested in dating outside my race in the future.

  • @extrashotofespresso_

    @extrashotofespresso_

    Ай бұрын

    I’m finally open to dating Asian men. I’m from New York and the Asian men here don’t like black women at all. A lot run the nail salons, hair stores and Chinese restaurants and are so mean. I saw a small shift when my Asian eye doctor was super nice to me he was from around my generation so I think the young ones are a bit more open minded than the old ones who are mean. Also, when I stayed in Georgia for a bit the Asian men seemed a bit more kind.

  • @joejames1794
    @joejames179410 ай бұрын

    Janae’s smile lights up a room she’s got a great energy to her

  • @MoonLightOnWater1

    @MoonLightOnWater1

    9 ай бұрын

    Yes, she’s super adorable🎉

  • @ebonybowen3014
    @ebonybowen301410 ай бұрын

    Aww Janae! I went to high-school with her and have been following her life in Korea on Instagram. She was always so cheerful and nice- I’m so glad to see her happiness ❤

  • @Sel-iu6vm

    @Sel-iu6vm

    10 ай бұрын

    What is her Instagram ? ❤

  • @Msd4-13

    @Msd4-13

    10 ай бұрын

    Do you mind sharing her Instagram? I would love to follow she seems so sweet😊

  • @ebonybowen3014

    @ebonybowen3014

    10 ай бұрын

    @elmolaflair

  • @heyjanaehey

    @heyjanaehey

    10 ай бұрын

    awww Ebony!!! thanks so much girl! 🥹💓💓💓

  • @247iamtam

    @247iamtam

    9 ай бұрын

    ​@@heyjanaeheygreat play on your username

  • @Healer-ms2zc
    @Healer-ms2zc10 ай бұрын

    Black women date out! Don't believe what they tell you when they say you aren't desirable. Also this couple is so cute, many blessings to them and their families ❤

  • @jyde50

    @jyde50

    10 ай бұрын

    By 2030, black men will date out at a rate of 99%.

  • @YouYou-sm8tf

    @YouYou-sm8tf

    10 ай бұрын

    True. Don’t let the redpills control your self esteem.

  • @YouYou-sm8tf

    @YouYou-sm8tf

    10 ай бұрын

    True. Don’t let the redpills control your self esteem.

  • @yendaaaa

    @yendaaaa

    10 ай бұрын

    @@Givebackthescarf I love you. 😂 yes yes yes.

  • @StyleswithCourtney

    @StyleswithCourtney

    10 ай бұрын

    ​@@Givebackthescarfthere are dozens of black women with white men in Hollywood Its just more in reverse

  • @RonnelB.
    @RonnelB.10 ай бұрын

    I love how he sounds a bit African American when he speaks. I'm married to a White Frenchman...One day, he told me, "you trifflin'!" I laughed so hard!!!!

  • @ree2174

    @ree2174

    10 ай бұрын

    Lol.. I'm hollerin'! Can't even be mad!😂

  • @jamecia8550

    @jamecia8550

    10 ай бұрын

    I'm cracking up 😂

  • @ReginaDillard

    @ReginaDillard

    10 ай бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣

  • @SuperProcrastina

    @SuperProcrastina

    10 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @robinvolpi

    @robinvolpi

    10 ай бұрын

    Oh MYyyyyYyyyy 😬🙄

  • @francinexoxo7363
    @francinexoxo736310 ай бұрын

    She’s so cute n bubbly. Interracial marriage is nothing new- just haven’t been publicized in past and even hidden. I’m always glad to see couples who are happily married regardless of their background. The hubby seems so cool. It takes a real man to want to get married, have a family and take responsibility. I would love to see their wedding photos. They seem happy together.

  • @francinexoxo7363

    @francinexoxo7363

    10 ай бұрын

    Interesting there are many secrets and story that are never told. I was always told my great grandmother was part Native American but my ancestry DNA said otherwise. It turns out that my dad’s lineage included African and Western European linage. My dad’s fair skinned cousin during 1940s 1950s in Northern Alabama USA was a barber cutting white peoples hair which was not typical or even allowed in the town he resided.

  • @Jedi_Black

    @Jedi_Black

    10 ай бұрын

    Y’all want to promote race mixing so bad huh lol

  • @lunaneila
    @lunaneila10 ай бұрын

    I like how there are more and more interviews of international couples in general and especially in homogeneous countries. That’s always interesting and for once they are not focused on the negative aspects of it. We’re all aware that they’re facing challenges so that’s refreshing to hear another point of view. And she looks really chill about it all and happy, good for them ^^ Great interview, thanks for your work!

  • @teshi1424

    @teshi1424

    10 ай бұрын

    same, i love the realness and the positivy, im sick of people acting like korea is the onlu country with rascism.

  • @chinobandito7625

    @chinobandito7625

    10 ай бұрын

    Every country has a dark side no matter how good they appear on the outside.

  • @toasturhztoastbunz896

    @toasturhztoastbunz896

    10 ай бұрын

    Agree. I too am tired of Black and Asian rivalry constantly being put on the forefront of mainstream media. I always wanted to see more positive experiences like this.

  • @Healer-ms2zc

    @Healer-ms2zc

    10 ай бұрын

    ​@@DrUmarJohnson1Stay mad black women are winning this year and black men are loosing 😂

  • @toasturhztoastbunz896

    @toasturhztoastbunz896

    10 ай бұрын

    ​@@coleslow5519ehh, I feel that's a bit of a wild accusation. While yeah, the questions asked are rather questionable, I feel he's more doing it out of naivety and curiosity other than malicious intent.

  • @nomfwanime
    @nomfwanime10 ай бұрын

    a lot of people tend to discourage Black women (people in general) from living abroad in terms of safety, etc., but this proves that everyone's experience can be different. they're so cute! and she's so sweeeeeettt lol

  • @mariekitty

    @mariekitty

    2 ай бұрын

    I love her vibe. She’s sweet

  • @Accuface2000
    @Accuface200010 ай бұрын

    Dude I like your interview style, not cheesy, corny or exaggerated. No faked emotions, Just businesslike and straight to the point. Good questions asked in a professional manner, and your dressing style is cool.

  • @rhoneawilliams5019
    @rhoneawilliams501910 ай бұрын

    I can’t believe she’s 32. She looks so young And they make such a cute couple!

  • @markeiaparnell6070

    @markeiaparnell6070

    10 ай бұрын

    This has 32 likes

  • @chrisr4407

    @chrisr4407

    10 ай бұрын

    She looks older to you?..She looks her age to me

  • @SinainKorea

    @SinainKorea

    10 ай бұрын

    32 is young

  • @Itsteonna

    @Itsteonna

    10 ай бұрын

    @@chrisr4407no she don’t

  • @SE-gs6gd

    @SE-gs6gd

    10 ай бұрын

    How is a 32 yo supposed to look??!?!?

  • @NocturnalAce
    @NocturnalAce10 ай бұрын

    I love this! They seem like they are both each other's best friend as much as they are a married couple. Their vibe together makes for a very good combo for a couple to have. I wish them a happy life together!🥰

  • @iamgoldennotreally7909

    @iamgoldennotreally7909

    8 ай бұрын

    Amen 🙏

  • @Idk_Yara98
    @Idk_Yara9810 ай бұрын

    I find it so refreshing to hear about how his (and her) family was so welcoming and open minded for them! Hearing such things makes me happy for them

  • @mrod87

    @mrod87

    10 ай бұрын

    Where did you stay/visit?

  • @sheesh161

    @sheesh161

    10 ай бұрын

    We love, love to know it ❤

  • @Yeaaaah_z
    @Yeaaaah_z10 ай бұрын

    Black women, open up! We deserve love too just like everyone else. Wishing you all love and happiness and many blessings❤🎉🎉🎉🎉😊

  • @peeniq

    @peeniq

    9 ай бұрын

    I am open!

  • @Yeaaaah_z

    @Yeaaaah_z

    9 ай бұрын

    Awesome sis, hope you find him or vice verse ❤

  • @Alicedocumentary

    @Alicedocumentary

    8 ай бұрын

    I am open and ready

  • @Yeaaaah_z

    @Yeaaaah_z

    8 ай бұрын

    @@Alicedocumentary I hope you find your partner very soon sis!

  • @trishie3376

    @trishie3376

    Ай бұрын

    At this stage in my life, all I want is for someone to treat me with love, loyalty, faithfulness, and respect. Something that I thought I had, but I was heartbreakingly wrong. My only top criterion that must be met is that he has to share my faith. You can't be happy if the person you're with does not walk the same path.

  • @tabby3378
    @tabby337810 ай бұрын

    she mentioned a huge point about safety. i felt so free and safe in Korea. it was such a great experience. riding the train without fear. no fear of being a victim of a random shooting. just free

  • @kimleemoon

    @kimleemoon

    10 ай бұрын

    That’s how most Americans lived before the early 2000s. I am a Gen-Xer and life used to be good & SAFE in America too. The R wing gun nuts have ruined this country.

  • @propertymanager9149

    @propertymanager9149

    5 ай бұрын

    No guns is so freeing

  • @akalaSHO
    @akalaSHO10 ай бұрын

    As someone who is in an international/cultural couple, I cannot stress enough how important it is and how blessed they are to have families who were accepting and open minded to their partners. My in-laws are fantastic, but I know so many interracial couples whose families are hostile and make the couples lives miserable and treat the grandkids as less than. I wish them a lot of success and happiness

  • @MiaCarter7

    @MiaCarter7

    10 ай бұрын

    Experienced my first break up and he’s Korean. I def think his side received so much commentary and influence, it just didn’t work out. But idk if that was a cultural issue as much as it was just him not having a mind of his own. It really is important to date someone who has an opened minded community around than. I’d suggest if folks date interracially, get to know their community before releasing your heart to them

  • @nicford548
    @nicford54810 ай бұрын

    Adorable couple! Black women please please expand your options!!

  • @melissaa.8547
    @melissaa.85479 ай бұрын

    I love that she says she doesn’t pay attention to anything when she’s with him …that means she trusts him to take care of her …a very good sign

  • @ChannelFiend

    @ChannelFiend

    9 ай бұрын

    EXACTLY!!!!! EXCELLENT POINT!!!!!

  • @trishie3376

    @trishie3376

    Ай бұрын

    Yes!!

  • @LeliaVoinea
    @LeliaVoinea10 ай бұрын

    This couple looks so relaxed together. They give positive vibes and they seem genuinely happy.

  • @marlene1708
    @marlene17089 ай бұрын

    I think it helped that he lived in the US for 5 years so he is knows the US culture. I think it helps with the combining the family. Also that his sister is dating an American and his family is so welcoming. Really beautiful to see this.

  • @heyjanaehey

    @heyjanaehey

    9 ай бұрын

    yes to all of this! 🫶🏾 all of those things really helped.

  • @CoolNumber1

    @CoolNumber1

    9 ай бұрын

    Not really. Young generation korean guys are more open minded compared to the older generation.

  • @ashleyjones5396

    @ashleyjones5396

    Ай бұрын

    Glad I listened for a while. I see she is military connected. It makes me wonder if he was as well. We had a large military base in Seoul and there are lots of Americans there. We actually have a few bases in Korea. I miss Korea!!!

  • @pkayt2003
    @pkayt20039 ай бұрын

    Cute couple. I’m black and my long-term boyfriend is also Korean. We do get a lot of stares even in America lol. Most importantly is to find happiness with your partner, no matter what anyone else thinks.

  • @chichi8946
    @chichi894610 ай бұрын

    Enjoyed this interview! Cute couple, wish them well and happy their families were accepting of their relationship ❤

  • @jonathantae7753
    @jonathantae775310 ай бұрын

    Cute couple. I can tell the guy has spent a bit of time abroad. His English is really good too.

  • @sunnni_
    @sunnni_10 ай бұрын

    This was beautiful and I am just like her, I live my life with rose colored glasses. I am aware of things but I don't let society get to me and how I live my life. And it shows when people meet me and even my friends now are shocked at how I get along with different people from different cultures, etc. I realize when you give people a chance, they are more likely to be nice and welcoming. Wishing this couple a successful and long marriage ❤

  • @LornaBlakeEmpower

    @LornaBlakeEmpower

    10 ай бұрын

    Thanks for sharing your perspective. I very much relate to you! I'm very similar. 😊❤

  • @TheodoreBakes

    @TheodoreBakes

    10 ай бұрын

    ​@@Givebackthescarfthisss!!! My first real crush in kindergarten was a white boy named Matthew he had blonde bowl stye cut and light blue eyes. I thought I was in love 😂😂😂

  • @SunnySage122
    @SunnySage12210 ай бұрын

    Yeah a Korean guy with visible facial hair is like a diamond in the rough! Facial hair wins for me too! I wish it was more visible in the Korean mainstream

  • @user-cnksi223

    @user-cnksi223

    10 ай бұрын

    Actually, that was popular style in ancient Korea lol

  • @StyleswithCourtney

    @StyleswithCourtney

    10 ай бұрын

    So is this couple

  • @nomomania6827

    @nomomania6827

    10 ай бұрын

    During Korea's Joseon Dynasty, every Korean men had facial hair.....it was actually taboo or weird not to have it. Modern day Korea of today, it's the opposite.

  • @hangten1904

    @hangten1904

    10 ай бұрын

    Because facial hair is associated with old uncles in Asia in general.

  • @justisiempre4105

    @justisiempre4105

    9 ай бұрын

    @@user-cnksi223 I am a K-drama addict. I have learned more and more about Korean culture and history. Korean history has opened my eyes to Asian culture. iI realize that we humans are more connected than we've been led to believe. Peace

  • @ALIGlobal
    @ALIGlobal10 ай бұрын

    That’s that Georgia girl charm, love her accent.

  • @thanaaabdullah3452
    @thanaaabdullah345210 ай бұрын

    They are adorable, he seems very affectionate and protective over her, I can tell in a lot of his gestures towards her. And he beautiful smile beams and her eyes sparkle when she looks at him. Beautiful couple❤ congratulations Newlyweds

  • @OE2023

    @OE2023

    10 ай бұрын

    Yeah I got that from his body language, super sweet.

  • @snteag
    @snteag10 ай бұрын

    I'm glad to hear both sets of parents were receptive to the relationship.

  • @nerdthatknits
    @nerdthatknits10 ай бұрын

    They're so cute. I'm married to a Korean guy and have two kids. I live in the US thou. Love is love.

  • @Justanurse357
    @Justanurse35710 ай бұрын

    She brings out the best in him. You can clearly see. And I sure he does that for her too❤

  • @wannabefarmerr
    @wannabefarmerr10 ай бұрын

    Safety is key for black people. So I’m glad she found a positive experience with the South Korean culture.

  • @motherisntmurderpodcast
    @motherisntmurderpodcast10 ай бұрын

    This was absolutely refreshing and delightful to watch. 💯 They both have this energy about them that is honest, open, and happy. I wish them all the love in the world. You're doing great, K Explorer! I see your video notifications, and I light up. 🤗👏👏

  • @ShanajayeandEric
    @ShanajayeandEric10 ай бұрын

    Have her some grand babies definitely sounds like Janea’s mom! I can literally here her saying that! Lol (former colleague). So happy for you both. 💍

  • @heyjanaehey

    @heyjanaehey

    10 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂 that’s so my momma right! and thank you so much 🫶🏾

  • @vamswolfmom4498
    @vamswolfmom449810 ай бұрын

    I love busy body Janae and her man (what she calls him😃). They are cute and I love that they are friends and always active!❤❤

  • @esuvan
    @esuvan10 ай бұрын

    She’s doing a great job repping ATL!

  • @kaishajones
    @kaishajones10 ай бұрын

    I love, love LOVE this couple. This is my favorite video so far. Black Women Date Out and love who loves, takes care of and adores you. ❤✨😍

  • @raven1always
    @raven1always10 ай бұрын

    Yal are adorable!! And she has a certain light and positivity to her that is very refreshing. Congrats you guys! 🥰

  • @tweet12tweety
    @tweet12tweety10 ай бұрын

    This was a very nice interview .This are is very sweet and you can tell that they're in love and they are best friends and they're gonna be there for each other and They are not worried about what anyone else thinks, I wish you many many days overflowing with so much love for each other, And blessings to have children ❤❤❤❤

  • @vcwloves9864
    @vcwloves986410 ай бұрын

    They look like they balance eachother out. I wish them the best!!!

  • @Msd4-13

    @Msd4-13

    10 ай бұрын

    They have friends who commented on the video and said that they do balance out one another. They have said that she’s vibrant, sweet and bubbly and he’s more chill and laid back.

  • @vcwloves9864

    @vcwloves9864

    10 ай бұрын

    @@Msd4-13 My husband and I are the exact same way. He's more outgoing than I am. We've been married 13 years! Opposites do attract--we each bring something new to the table.

  • @dr.braxygilkeycruises1460
    @dr.braxygilkeycruises146010 ай бұрын

    This was such a pleasant video to watch!!! Thank you for posting it. It is wonderful to see their love and acceptance from their families.

  • @andreaxyloholt2347
    @andreaxyloholt234710 ай бұрын

    I am glad they have good support. As someone in an interracial couple, that always helps! Wish them many blessings!

  • @opearemo
    @opearemo10 ай бұрын

    I wasn't expecting to enjoy this. Their positivity is infectious. ❤ I pray they continue to have a beautiful life together! ❤❤❤

  • @MsLila1507
    @MsLila150710 ай бұрын

    They where one of the greatest couples that you interviewed. Loved them. ❤🎉

  • @kennethhurst6296
    @kennethhurst629610 ай бұрын

    They care and support each other, and that’s what is important. They both seem like cool, easy going people.

  • @latinabell9769
    @latinabell976910 ай бұрын

    you can tell her loves her by the way he looks at her. They are so cute!

  • @geraniquegreene2403
    @geraniquegreene240310 ай бұрын

    They're such a beautiful couple. ❤❤

  • @bitokay147
    @bitokay14710 ай бұрын

    They both are not only cute but seem so genuine! This was beautiful! Its just color who still cares about skin tone and race lol

  • @JB-lc6fi
    @JB-lc6fi10 ай бұрын

    I’m rooting for them!! ❤️

  • @user-zv1lc7tv8v
    @user-zv1lc7tv8v4 ай бұрын

    I traveled to many countries, and Korea is definitely one of the safest and cleanest and convenient countries.

  • @tracieperez2629
    @tracieperez26298 ай бұрын

    So glad to see interracial couple relationships! I am black and my husband is Hispanic, we have been happily married for 20 years we have 2 kids and we just click! We are both American, but sometimes it is still surprising for others to recognize us as a couple. When we go into places together people are very accepting, but they always seem to take a minute to place us "together", it's usually, oh....you're with her?.. or vice versa. I always think we came in together and are talking to each other... so, yeah we're together, "this is my husband". I understand you may not know we're married, but clearly, we are friends. Anyway, I am glad that you both have found each other and you don't focus on the little things that can come about from being in a non-typical relationship, I grew in a black area and always thought I would marry a black person, but after joining the military, I dated many different races and I realized you connect with who you connect with. It could be "black-love" "white-love", "brown-love", or "mixed-love", lol.

  • @adrianarnold1239
    @adrianarnold123910 ай бұрын

    Interviewer awesome ..love your style of communication with the people... nonthreatening and calm....great questions...keep it coming...also you let them talk😂😂😂

  • @gloriamorris1662
    @gloriamorris16629 ай бұрын

    Exactly!! That’s how you do it. Don’t worry about anyone else. No one else matters. Y’all are in love, families on board. ❤

  • @riannedaemul
    @riannedaemul10 ай бұрын

    The communication shows how they are like,l envy them😅 what a blessing they have each other ❤

  • @mempto
    @mempto10 ай бұрын

    Love this couple. Also, Jerry is looking so cool. Loving that style.

  • @KylaTalks
    @KylaTalks10 ай бұрын

    Men stay saying they want basketball teams! SIR. You have the kids, then! Lol. - Also, shoutout to them! They're both very hot and very sweet and sound like they have an ideal romance. Wishing them the absolute best!

  • @JST03

    @JST03

    10 ай бұрын

    Nah I love that. It's not their fault they're not the ones that can have them, but I mean putting life in another person is pretty awesome when you think about it. But more on topic, I'm tired of hearing about the men that don't take care of their kids, but as their are many like that, there are just as many that want to sire a small nation lol. Some be wanting these bigass families with 7 kids running around and I'm like they better pop out twins n triplets or sum 😅 we finna pop out babies like how we like to carry groceries in the house

  • @Itsteonna

    @Itsteonna

    10 ай бұрын

    @@Givebackthescarfmen don’t consider how painful it is to birth children and what it permanently does to women’s bodies. I guess it’s easier for them to say because they ever have to experience any of it

  • @Passion84GodAlways
    @Passion84GodAlways10 ай бұрын

    Awww, many blessings to this couple! 🥰🙏🏾 Good interview! 😀

  • @carolynfehr
    @carolynfehr10 ай бұрын

    Nice to see Korea opening up.

  • @binoyandpinay777
    @binoyandpinay7778 ай бұрын

    You two look so good for each other, many blessings to the both of you:) Love the interview.

  • @BlaisexBlaise
    @BlaisexBlaise10 ай бұрын

    Love your interviewing style. All the questions flowed, keep it up! 👍🏽

  • @crest4sensation938
    @crest4sensation93810 ай бұрын

    Very professional journalist and the couple is nice. Best wishes to them!

  • @ej13012010
    @ej1301201010 ай бұрын

    She seems genuine and bubbly and cute and he's hot he knew what he wanted it's nice they were on the same page I believe that's how it should be

  • @sharwina
    @sharwina10 ай бұрын

    Such a cute couple! ❤

  • @pinksea7399
    @pinksea739910 ай бұрын

    They are such a cute couple! I hope you have lots of babies. XOXO🥰

  • @peacelife
    @peacelife10 ай бұрын

    Aw nice couple. Glad they found each other.

  • @vivianspencer2787
    @vivianspencer278710 ай бұрын

    Very attractive looking couple you two look good together. As long as you both are happy that’s all that matters

  • @whiteboard12345
    @whiteboard1234510 ай бұрын

    This made me smile! You guys are so cute together!

  • @ritchieb1612
    @ritchieb161210 ай бұрын

    Nice couple, wish them all the best!!

  • @ykim4628
    @ykim462810 ай бұрын

    Such a cute couple!! Janae is so bubbly lovely.

  • @emylix3
    @emylix310 ай бұрын

    I love this couple! Rooting for their happiness and success.

  • @ChannelFiend

    @ChannelFiend

    9 ай бұрын

    Y E S ! ! !

  • @eagledescending5766
    @eagledescending576610 ай бұрын

    There’s a lot I can say about this clip, but as an Afro-Asian myself I faced many obstacles of displacement in my early youth; especially, in my case where I couldn’t pass for being an African-American kid. My facial features and hair texture were completely east-Asian oriented. I’m NOT knocking interracial couples, but there’s a lot to be aware of nowadays. If a black or white-American marries one another that’s different because they both come from the same American language and culture, well, for the most part. But the cultural and language barriers between black America and Korea are quite steep, and it’s the same between my two racial halves. Racial displacement is a societal mishap my parents would never have thought of as they weren’t the identity-crisis generation. Nowadays, societal norms are much different, but I would definitely say that cultural or identity crisis is a societal trigger that this young couple in the video clip will have to be aware of when they decide to start a family. Identity crisis has so many byproducts that can cause deviations and troubles in any family. Many young couples will UNDERESTIMATE the foregoing principle I just stated because they’re from a generation that promotes-JUST BE WHO YOU ARE. Unfortunately, they can only wish that SOCIETY will make it that simple for them. But the bottom line is that once any man or woman pledges love and commitment in marriage, then their worst adversary will become SOCIETY, and that’s even when the couple are the same race and ethnic group.

  • @Msd4-13

    @Msd4-13

    10 ай бұрын

    I’ve usually found that the kids with mothers that are black are usually more grounded and don’t suffer from identity crisis as much as kids with Asian or white mothers. I don’t feel like the language barrier is an issue with them, as they both spent time in America and he’s fluent in English. I do believe that she should continue and try her best to be fluent in Korean as it shows respect for her husbands culture and it’ll be great for when they have children.

  • @missssophisicated6742

    @missssophisicated6742

    10 ай бұрын

    Which parent is black? That makes a big difference..

  • @eagledescending5766

    @eagledescending5766

    10 ай бұрын

    @@Msd4-13 I would be an exception to the default that you gave as far as having a more concrete identity; my mother is the black parent. Although, from my experiences, whether the mother or father was the non-black parent didn’t make much of a difference in my time and generation growing up. As I previously posted, I couldn’t pass for being an African-American kid, and as a result, in order to bond with the black youth in my time, there was one prerequisite that had to be met, and that is you had to look a certain way that resembled their facial features, if not that, then at a bare minimum you had to be absorbent to their sub-cultural climate; those were standards or qualities that I didn’t meet. As a result, an identity crisis was right up at my doorstep. I assure you that I wasn’t the only bi-racial in my time going through such regardless of who the non-black or black parent was. Overall, it depends on the bi-racial’s life circumstances because environment plays a big part in one’s life. As far as different languages, I agree with you that if both are willing to learn each other’s native languages or have knowledge thereof, then that should help to create an even balance in their union, although, it’s NOT a universal guarantee. But that’s NOT what I was implying. The language barriers between Asian and black communities are very STEEP. The two racial communities are obviously NOT going to exchange or share racial identities, and the language differences will MAKE SURE of that, so, that in itself can place an Afro-Asian in a predicament that he or she is NOT going to like as well as contribute to an identity crisis. Why? Because he or she would have no choice but to keep the two worlds separate and apart from one another; the only exception would be in-laws on both of their parental sides, and I assure you that I was no exception. If I had tried to link the two communities of both my racial halves, one would feel infringed upon the other, and it would have been-Game On!!! The whole point to my original post was that an identity crisis can possibly be the result of a hostile racial environment which happens to many bi-racials such as myself. Sure, the African-American lady in the video clip can learn her husband’s language, but would her racial community be as receptive?!!! Think about it because the mother’s racial community would still be a large part of the child’s life, and it could go either way of being receptive or hostile. This goes back to what I originally stated that when a man or woman pledges love and commitment to one another, the wiles of SOCIETY will find its way into their lives as an adversary. My original post was speaking from a COMMUNITY standpoint because that’s what makes up ENVIRONMENT and NOT from an individual basis that you were alluding to. When an interracial couple has a child, what kind of ENVIRONMENT will that bi-racial child inherit, especially with two of their racial halves that are POLAR OPPOSITES?!!! Hope this helps for a clearer understanding.

  • @MrsTruthTeller

    @MrsTruthTeller

    10 ай бұрын

    Where did you grow up?

  • @eagledescending5766

    @eagledescending5766

    10 ай бұрын

    @MrsTruthTeller I grew-up in NYC.

  • @brwnhilarybanks9953
    @brwnhilarybanks99535 ай бұрын

    "hard to find a girl like her" meltsssss for her!

  • @junemedford3296
    @junemedford32967 ай бұрын

    Awwwww im so happy..ive always believed that love is love this is what the world needs you just never know who is the right person for you who you'll fall in love with and to be open its about who loves you, supports you, respects you how they treat you its so hard to find that special someome and love..be open to it open your heart.

  • @Bobab0y
    @Bobab0y10 ай бұрын

    Another banger ! We love to see it.

  • @fummioh2139
    @fummioh213910 ай бұрын

    How cute are they?!?!?!? You can feel the happiness exuding from her!

  • @kakag.7401
    @kakag.740110 ай бұрын

    They’re a beautifully blended couple 🫶🏽 I love to see it

  • @g3MZ1ZA11G00D
    @g3MZ1ZA11G00D10 ай бұрын

    My guy looks great while serving looks. Great interview. 👍🏾👌🏾 P.S. certain had me laughing so hard. How he tried to pick her up. Lol. You said all in one sentence. 😂🤭🤣

  • @Somebodysmom2
    @Somebodysmom29 ай бұрын

    I loved the interview . The couple is awesome. I wish them the best in love and stability

  • @AsyahStreams
    @AsyahStreams10 ай бұрын

    I love this. I wish them the best ❤

  • @mayarozemonroe7811
    @mayarozemonroe781110 ай бұрын

    Aww I love this so much! Maybe there’s hope for me yet! The AMBW community is so small and hard to find a good one!

  • @StyleswithCourtney

    @StyleswithCourtney

    10 ай бұрын

    If its on KZread Then its nor common in real life

  • @artistasha9331

    @artistasha9331

    10 ай бұрын

    ​@@StyleswithCourtneyDo you feel better being negative now. Yeesh. 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @williamkorean5414

    @williamkorean5414

    8 ай бұрын

    Me lol

  • @LonnieBhi

    @LonnieBhi

    6 ай бұрын

    ​@@StyleswithCourtneyIt is common where I live. You just don't understand geographics.

  • @aworlds1
    @aworlds110 ай бұрын

    Interviewer probes for issues… Couple meets that with ALL Love. Rose Colored glasses give you clarity. Keep seeing your world through the lens of Love.

  • @prettygirlpandora
    @prettygirlpandora7 ай бұрын

    @7:39 was truly a beautiful & refreshing thing for me to hear. It speaks as a testament to his love, care, protection & devotion to his wife that when she’s with him, there isn’t a thought or care in the world. She automatically knows & feels so safe when in his presence. That is a beautiful precious blessing that I hope to feel & have in my love life as well.

  • @shunwilliams6180
    @shunwilliams618010 ай бұрын

    I love your interviews ❤❤❤

  • @1hotshon
    @1hotshon7 ай бұрын

    I love that they are both just open-minded happy people. Not thinking too hard... Life is fun when you are open to experiences without judgement. You can see that he really steps up for her too, so I love that she is protected!!

  • @OE2023
    @OE202310 ай бұрын

    Such good vibes from them both ❤

  • @abena8339
    @abena833910 ай бұрын

    She’s so cute 🥰!! They’re so cute together 💓

  • @lilychow8620
    @lilychow862010 ай бұрын

    Another lovely couple.

  • @gasmasongs
    @gasmasongs10 ай бұрын

    Ahh, they were so sweet, A very attractive couple, many blessings!

  • @Eatlovetravelasia
    @Eatlovetravelasia9 ай бұрын

    I love this interview. I want to see more. I love what a positive experience this is. Goes to show you that it’s beautiful when cultures come together. You don’t have to change yourself to make other cultures comfortable. Work on acceptance and come together with love.

  • @janetpmoore5708
    @janetpmoore570810 ай бұрын

    Sending love joy peace and blessings to this lovely couple from Chicago USA!❤❤❤💜💜💜

  • @DanielleBaylor
    @DanielleBaylor10 ай бұрын

    I love these stories 🥰

  • @gennyromeril
    @gennyromeril7 ай бұрын

    I really like this couple, so positive.

  • @HuesoAmarilloAfricana
    @HuesoAmarilloAfricana10 ай бұрын

    Very attractive couple; inside and out ❤️

  • @emmaeIIe
    @emmaeIIe5 ай бұрын

    What a nice couple. Wishing them loads of love and happiness.

  • @heyjanaehey

    @heyjanaehey

    5 ай бұрын

    thank you 💕

  • @carmellabrown3335
    @carmellabrown333510 ай бұрын

    They are a beautiful couple, she has such a good aura 💕

  • @NechamaGluck
    @NechamaGluck10 ай бұрын

    What a sweet couple :) Thanks for sharing.

  • @nikieria
    @nikieria7 ай бұрын

    32 is crazy 😩 she looks like 22ish ❤ love that for her

  • @twoshadesofochre
    @twoshadesofochre9 ай бұрын

    They are such a sweet couple. All the best to you guys may you have a happy, blessed, and long marriage 🥰

  • @iancaldeian
    @iancaldeian8 ай бұрын

    A beautiful couple both physically and amicablly. I wish I had their positive outlook on life. I'm Caribbean who has been living in New York for 30 years and confess that I'm not so pragmatic. My only suggestion is that a soccer team has 11 players. The world needs to be populated by people like you. Please remain the same.

  • @julianajoyechavez2945
    @julianajoyechavez294510 ай бұрын

    Love See's no colour or boundaries.

  • @user-mk2zk1fl5i
    @user-mk2zk1fl5i10 ай бұрын

    Adorable couple ❤ Thank goodness they both have great parents!

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