The REAL Reason I Came to Malaysia (why I left NYC)...

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Going into detail about why I decided to leave New York City for good.
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  • @benfishermin
    @benfisherminАй бұрын

    ⚠ WATCH NEXT: Why I’m Leaving Thailand to Live in Malaysia kzread.info/dash/bejne/oYyDtNGNhby2dsY.html

  • @johnf.murphy3235
    @johnf.murphy3235Ай бұрын

    Wow, you left for the same reasons I am trying to leave. I am getting my ducks in a row, saving every penny, no debt, driving a raggedy car with no monthly payment. I need about another 2 years and I am outa the US for good. Love your honesty and the fact you are brave enough to make this video. You will get alot of hate for this video, but don't let it make you doubt yourself, you are entitled to your opinions. Life is short, live it your way. Thanks for the content.

  • @MizzHj

    @MizzHj

    Ай бұрын

    Keep up 💪💪 may all your hard work paid off awesomely 💪

  • @myanimalkingdom5526

    @myanimalkingdom5526

    20 күн бұрын

    Welcome to my lovely Malaysia..from your land of snow to my land of sunshine.

  • @jon_nomad
    @jon_nomadАй бұрын

    I left St.Louis and moved to Malaysia 34 years ago. The best decision I have ever made. America are just too crazy, irrational and delusional now.

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    Wow 34 years 😱 sounds like you never looked back. Good decision!

  • @shopkedai

    @shopkedai

    Ай бұрын

    Welcome to Malaysia.

  • @terataibiru4997

    @terataibiru4997

    Ай бұрын

    wowww...and the other way around for Malaysians who love living in the US n don’t want to live in Malaysia anymore like my in laws...😄

  • @Spot_eth

    @Spot_eth

    23 күн бұрын

    @@terataibiru4997 I am a Malaysian, been in the US for ~8 years, if not for the out-of-control crime and very, very, very scary govt here (think JFK, 9-11, J6 and so many other events), I'd rather live in the US than in M'sia or S'pore... I was a PR in SG for about 8 years before moving to the US. I guess I will be returning to Bolehland soon. A few things I will miss about the US are relatively easy access to credit (good debt), organic lactose-free milk, I am not sure if we will get that in Asia for another 5 years and entertainment, think Vegas, Orlando, FL.

  • @cycg1935

    @cycg1935

    21 күн бұрын

    ​@@Spot_ethNot sure about organic but there are lactose free cow milk in Msia now, on top of milk alternatives (coconut, almod, oat).

  • @g1kluang
    @g1kluangАй бұрын

    Honestly Ben, whatever you mentioned its happening in the east slowly, because the west cultures do affect the east cultures in so many ways. Kids these days are getting woke and these cancel cultures are affecting people's lifestyle too mainly because of social media. One thing for sure, as a non-Muslim to be born and raised here, I'm glad Malaysia is a Muslim country and not too radical when it comes to religious practices since we are quite diverse here. I know you are trying to escape the matrix, just don't be afraid to be yourself.

  • @damienyuen7718
    @damienyuen7718Ай бұрын

    I left California after my Father passed away last year. I have no close family left anymore. He was really the only reason that I stayed. I sold my house, car and most of my belongings. Gave away the rest of it. Only have a tiny storage unit near LAX with some valuables and sentimental things that I couldn't part with at this time. I just travel as a perpetual tourist never staying anywhere for too long. I have a lot of family in NYC but I have no interest in living there or anywhere in America. I was in South America first. Then I was in EU. But I came back to Asia where I prefer to be. I will be 43 in May. I am semi retired at this point. My Father wanted me to go travel more and live in other countries so that is what I am doing. Good Luck on your journey. It will be a trip to say the least.

  • @justingriffin2546

    @justingriffin2546

    Ай бұрын

    Blessings on your journey....hope it goes well for you..thanks for sharing.

  • @shopkedai

    @shopkedai

    Ай бұрын

    Sorry to hear of your father. Must be a great man. Just be open minded, ask the meaning of life and why am I here and may find that answer and move on. Welcome to Asia, we are more traditional and family centre than the west. We hold to Asian value and relationship to one another. All the best to you.

  • @keangwooichoo6138
    @keangwooichoo6138Ай бұрын

    If you decided to go to borneo sarawak, you can get in touch with a Dutch youtuber "global gibbon" his name is nick. He is married to a native there. He will know about tattoo business prospect in sarawak state.

  • @NorCalChupacabra
    @NorCalChupacabraАй бұрын

    Ditto here. We have been to Malaysia 12 times and love it. Of course no place in the world is perfect, but it comes down to what problems do you want to deal with and all of the problems with the US that you have mentioned have us considering leaving as well. Thanks for the content.

  • @MAERR800
    @MAERR800Ай бұрын

    Hello MyBrother..Selamat Datang..kami menyambut anda dengan tangan terbuka..❤🇲🇾🤝✌️😃👍🤲

  • @itawan76

    @itawan76

    Ай бұрын

    Jgn terbuka sangat menerima mereka bulat2...berhati2 terhadap org asing

  • @abdulrahman1308
    @abdulrahman1308Ай бұрын

    The Iban ethnic group in the East Malaysian of Sarawak are culturally into tattoos. You may want to check out the tattooing scene there.

  • @lizcarlyle2477

    @lizcarlyle2477

    Ай бұрын

    @@EGO0808 Agree, fabulous culture, once stayed there!

  • @jimmunsw4795
    @jimmunsw4795Ай бұрын

    Ben , welcome to Paradise on Earth ✓ , pls enjoy yr stay and appreciate our lovely country ~ Malaysia 🇲🇾 truly truly Asia , Cheers ☕ Hv a good one 🤝🏻🤝🏻🤝🏻👍🏻

  • @makcikdiy3672
    @makcikdiy3672Ай бұрын

    I like your honest opinion about leaving your country, I feel the same too.. You’re welcome here…Just enjoy your life ❤🇲🇾

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    Thanks I appreciate it 😁😁

  • @keangwooichoo6138
    @keangwooichoo6138Ай бұрын

    Other nature walk are. 1. Templer's park 2. Kanching waterfalls 3. FRIM forest research insitute at kepong

  • @g1kluang
    @g1kluangАй бұрын

    You can work freelance/part time at some tattoo shop in Malaysia for sure. We still not the best at tattoo maybe you can teach them on some techniques

  • @MojoZ20
    @MojoZ20Ай бұрын

    Dude, you should seriously consider setting up shop in Sarawak, either Kuching or Miri...far cheaper living cost compared to big city KL, more green landscapes, and native tattoo culture that you could link up with...like, seriously, give it a look into ✌️

  • @lizcarlyle2477

    @lizcarlyle2477

    Ай бұрын

    Agree. Sarawak wonderful city, friendly locals & delicious food & tattoo yg asli Borneo.

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    I’m really looking forward to checking out the eastern parts of Malaysia soon! 🙏🙏

  • @fuadrahmat5367

    @fuadrahmat5367

    16 күн бұрын

    @@benfishermin Ya, the old town in Kuching is really pleasant. Nice heavy metal record store there run by the local scene if you're into that

  • @KedaiNasi
    @KedaiNasiАй бұрын

    we don't have any of those LGBT stuff in Malaysia, because it's a family focused country, government really cares about the family. your reason is the same as any other family that moved here, they don't want any of those near their children. and they now live happily, i can't believe how lucky i am here

  • @rjw66

    @rjw66

    Ай бұрын

    congratulatitons?

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    I think some of what I said is being taken out of context. I do think people should be allowed to be gay if they want to, or transition if they want to as long as they’re not a child, so I’m not anti-LGBT by any means. I have gay and trans friends so that’s not the issue.

  • @KedaiNasi

    @KedaiNasi

    Ай бұрын

    @@benfishermin sure they can be whoever they want but keep it to themselves and don't touch the children. people here don't think it's okay for LGBT people to talk about sex to their children instead of the parents themselves, and this is the result of the LGBT movement. it's the movement i'm talking about, which won't happen here. that's what i meant

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    Okay I gotcha!

  • @MeLodiCarAma

    @MeLodiCarAma

    Ай бұрын

    @@benfishermin sure, Malaysia is quite liberal. You can be anything you want but sexually you can't flaunt yourself in obscenities in public as what you like may not be in accordance with other members of the public. Even heterosexual, they are not allowed to parade in obscene manner in public. People just won't want their childrens mind get f*ck*d up. Whatever you do, do it within your own walls. There's practically no incidents of bashing over here and everyone almost live comfortably. Those found problems here are mostly trying to make unacceptable statements in public. It's a diverse community and some general rule accepted by all should be adhered. Total individualistic freedom is simply not possible in public... only in your own home. It's a necessity to keep community in harmony. Pride parade like Folsom CA is strictly a no in almost all Asian countries. Once it is allowed, people understand more avenues for such disturbing scenes would rise into demand. Bad for the younger generations.

  • @azeedahhasleezan1678
    @azeedahhasleezan1678Ай бұрын

    Just be aware that while Malaysian in general are very friendly people, many are strong believer of Asian values which advocates for discipline, hard work, frugality, educational achievement, balancing individual and societal needs. So you should keep that in mind and not try to promote any alternative way of life here which contradicts theirs if you want to be left alone.

  • @justingriffin2546
    @justingriffin2546Ай бұрын

    Go Ben...Good for you for having the brains and courage to make the move...Malaysia is wonderful.

  • @hafizrahman5485
    @hafizrahman5485Ай бұрын

    Subsscribed. I feel you bro. Welcome to Malaysia.

  • @eddylee7786
    @eddylee7786Ай бұрын

    Malaysia also has monkeys in our parliament though may not be as bad as in the US. Do enjoy your time here and enjoy our food and crazy weather 😊

  • @salqubeq5203
    @salqubeq5203Ай бұрын

    Very informative video. Most people dont know these changes are taking place in NYC and other big cities. Thanks for sharing

  • @douglaswilliams4274
    @douglaswilliams4274Ай бұрын

    Ben, another very good video. You are spot on with your assessment. Stay Safe, and Stay Blessed !

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    Thanks much appreciated 😄😄😄

  • @decTac
    @decTacАй бұрын

    Malay people are the best people that's why they can accept others like Chinese, Indians and other foreigners to live in this country for decades with peace and harmony.. Never listen to bad rumours..most of them are envy with our diversity and friendliness.. Btw, you can refer to American expats who live like Andrew Henderson of Nomad Capitalist and Andrew Taylor... they're have KZread channels that talk about living in Malaysia 🇲🇾

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    Yes agree it feels very accepting here for all people. Everyone here is very friendly especially the Malaysians. Those are good channels I watch too! Thanks

  • @decTac

    @decTac

    Ай бұрын

    @@benfishermin my pleasure 👍

  • @aliefacmal
    @aliefacmalАй бұрын

    Safe travels! Keep them videos coming brother.

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you I appreciate it 😁😁

  • @MACOO7.
    @MACOO7.Ай бұрын

    Well done you!... your honesty is refreshing, wishing you all the best on this journey

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    Thanks a lot! 😁🙏

  • @JoonasLintunen
    @JoonasLintunenАй бұрын

    good talk Ben, thank you for this!👍

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    Glad you enjoy it! 🙏🙏

  • @MJTUEN
    @MJTUENАй бұрын

    Definitely way to go and all the best. Welcome and stay safe and enjoy.

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you very much 😁😁

  • @tazzznphilly
    @tazzznphillyАй бұрын

    Benjamin, I loved hearing your reasoning. I am happy to be a part of your journey in life, to do what makes YOU happy - exploration, and trying to find a less stressful life. 😏. ONLY focus on positive people in your life, whenever possible. Wishing you continuous health and happiness my, eBestie. ~ Tazzz ~

  • @rinaak735
    @rinaak735Ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your point of view. Tbh I'm in Canada, and think the same as you. Wondering what the hell am I doing trying to survive to only buy groceries out here , with all the politics, taxes , sensitive ppl ...it's exhausting, expensive and stupid cold. I'm seriously thinking of exiting.

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    Hopefully you can get out at some point to somewhere that makes you happier 🙌 never been to Canada but I assume it’s similar enough to the US

  • @MJFUYT
    @MJFUYTАй бұрын

    First timer here. Brother, I dig this channel and your story. Like & subscribed. Keep on keeping it 💯

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    Thanks a lot!! 🙏

  • @natrahmohammad8979
    @natrahmohammad8979Ай бұрын

    I love to hear about why u left nyc. Lots of KZreadrs said they love being in my country Malaysia but I always thought why are they leaving their country wishing to live here? So far u have answered that with your video contents. Keep it coming bro and enjoy your exploration❤

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    Awesome I’m really glad you enjoyed it 😁😁

  • @selwinpandinadan7540
    @selwinpandinadan7540Ай бұрын

    Good luck & cheers mate. Majority of Malaysian are friendlier towards the expatriates.

  • @WafeeTerengganu
    @WafeeTerengganuАй бұрын

    I saw long time ago, my media social friend from Brooklyn NY posted about young kids drawn into Drag Princess performance in front the public. Not in Malaysia.

  • @RajeshRavindranathan

    @RajeshRavindranathan

    Ай бұрын

    You are happy that Malaysia has less freedom of expression? Oh wow! You do realize that children can equally watch public executions in Saudi Arabia? Which is worse for you I wonder? and no one exactly forced your friend to bring his children to watch a drag show.

  • @nutzhazel

    @nutzhazel

    Ай бұрын

    They're teaching it at schools and also gay and transgender adults are allowed to interact with your kids without your consent. They also put pornography books about gays in kindergarten libraries. I saw some Malaysian Muslims family in the US still hypocritely glorified the US education system and never even tell the truth of how exactly their kids are being taught there. Really sad.

  • @second_second_
    @second_second_Ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing. It must be difficult to move to another country, leaving everything behind.. a start of a new journey. Thank you for sharing your courage, wisdom, and inspiration

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    No problem thanks for the nice words 🙏

  • @JocelynJC1913
    @JocelynJC1913Ай бұрын

    Hi Ben! Really enjoyed your video, great content!! Truly appreciate your honesty. May you find peace and great success in Malaysia. Keep on keeping on, the best is yet to be. Stay safe, happy & healthy. Cheers!

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    Thanks a lot I appreciate it 😁😁

  • @JocelynJC1913

    @JocelynJC1913

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@benfisherminYou're most welcome! Cheers!😊

  • @englishwithmrkbhill
    @englishwithmrkbhill13 күн бұрын

    just moved to Malaysia myself this year from Korea. thanks for the vids. subbed.

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    12 күн бұрын

    Awesome, I’d actually love to check out Korea at some point! ✌️✌️

  • @khongkokwai
    @khongkokwaiАй бұрын

    I feel you. I’m a Malaysian who used to live in the UK. I think I can relate to what you said about the politics and money. Plus, the problem of racism. I never felt wanna go back again.

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    I’ve never been to the UK but I imagine very similar to US there and also in Australia too with money + politics!

  • @xiaomashitu
    @xiaomashituАй бұрын

    Malaysian Welcome You 😊

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    Thanks! 😁

  • @user-zx9jr2iu7t
    @user-zx9jr2iu7tАй бұрын

    EXCELLENT ! Well done.

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    Thanks a lot 😁

  • @Deepbluecat
    @DeepbluecatАй бұрын

    Diggin some of your backstory Ben, and lookin forward to more. I moved to SEA in 2005, and never looked back. been through hard times and fantastic times...it's freedom.

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    Nice you’ve been here almost 20 years 🤩 have you lived in several countries or you just stay in one?

  • @Deepbluecat

    @Deepbluecat

    Ай бұрын

    @@benfishermin Thailand, Cambodia, Vietnam, now BACK ;-) You alluded to good reasons 4 splittin the states....similar to mine back in 05 Keep on truckin young brother, We only live once.

  • @philosophis
    @philosophisАй бұрын

    there's alot of great local tatoo artist in Malaysia Borneo's Sarawak. I think, Anthony Bourdain also got a tatooed by someone from Sarawak

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    I’m looking forward to checking out Sarawak soon 😁😁

  • @ari-ks4cv
    @ari-ks4cvАй бұрын

    thanks!

  • @sonian.1046
    @sonian.1046Ай бұрын

    Hi Ben, I enjoy your videos about Malaysia. I am a Malaysian living in the US and I agree with you about the pros and cons of living here. I’ve lived here for 14 years now and eventually I see myself moving back because I love the greenery, the incredibly delicious food as well as access to raw nature that you can get in Malaysia. Not a day goes by where I don’t think of Malaysia. I appreciate the honesty in your videos as it also tells a story of who you are and your life experiences. Please continue vlogging and enjoy your time there!

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    Nice to hear from someone in the reverse situation living in the US from Malaysia. Hope you can get back soon 😄😄

  • @Adam_Maya
    @Adam_MayaАй бұрын

    Kerp it real bro…all the best for you

  • @lifewithcapital
    @lifewithcapitalАй бұрын

    Spot On I Am In New York @ The Moment And It’s Beyond Tough Here In The City Now ✈️ #GetOut

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    Yea it’s rough out there, hope you can make it out to Southeast Asia 😁

  • @GL-iw5xl
    @GL-iw5xlАй бұрын

    Wishing the best in the search of a better life.

  • @g1kluang
    @g1kluangАй бұрын

    Jesus 15K is like a penthouse with swimming pool + 8 bedrooms for you in Malaysia 😂

  • @Databhoy
    @DatabhoyАй бұрын

    Sad but true - the U.S.has seen better days and I think the division created by politicians and media outlets has taken its toll. Doesn’t matter who wins the election, the other side won’t agree with it. Europe is dead, America is dying and Asia is young and growing.

  • @gotssssss

    @gotssssss

    Ай бұрын

    Nah Asia is following the same path. The grass is always greener. It just seems much greener to people living in Asia with a US salary.

  • @KhalixMR

    @KhalixMR

    Ай бұрын

    Actually Asia is old, used to be tired with conflicts. But now, Asia is finding itself once more.

  • @SaadonAksah
    @SaadonAksahАй бұрын

    Well u hv the courage. I admire that 👍

  • @arivfotomoto3642
    @arivfotomoto3642Ай бұрын

    I lived in San Francisco for a decade around the 90s, had the best time of my life. When i look up anything on SF, it's all very different now, in an unpleasant way. Hope things works out for you Ben wherever you choose to settle. Malaysia is generally decent, but not without the idiosyncrasies too.

  • @srituah
    @srituahАй бұрын

    Yup. Follow Ur Instincts 👍🏻😃

  • @trevorwild195
    @trevorwild195Ай бұрын

    Welcome to Malaysia!

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you 🙏🙏

  • @bigbrotheriswatching8709
    @bigbrotheriswatching8709Ай бұрын

    I'm constantly blown away by the fact that your views always exceed your subscriber numbers. I don't think I've ever seen that before. But then again, your vlogs are weirdly addictive.

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    Thanks big brother 👀 I have read that any video that gets more views than your subscriber count should be considered a good video that is helping a lot to grow your channel. I’m happy and surprised the videos are getting so many views with small subscribers!

  • @GuiltyJit
    @GuiltyJitАй бұрын

    Welcome back to Kuala Lumpur ❤

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    Thanks a lot 😄😄

  • @momotaroed215
    @momotaroed215Ай бұрын

    Omg that is beautiful..! Is that a bird's sounds?? Woww beautiful place..

  • @sparda1979

    @sparda1979

    Ай бұрын

    If you're referring to the sounds near the end of the video, they were the sounds of peacocks from the nearby KL Bird Park

  • @ophirbactrius8285

    @ophirbactrius8285

    Ай бұрын

    A bunch of lovely birdies sounds that you heard are; Oriental Magpie Robin, White Throat Kingfisher and a male Peacock.

  • @ChesalSeroja
    @ChesalSerojaАй бұрын

    Rasa2 mula2 Ben datang kat malaysia hari tu,Ben tidak berapa suka dgn keadaan Kat sini.Tapi sekarang dah jatuh cinta pula.mUngkin ada hikmahnya.

  • @persada5913

    @persada5913

    Ай бұрын

    Tkpelah dia ni mungkin jenis yg mcm vlogger thai filipina mat salleh yg hanya mengambil kesempatan utk teruskn hidup dgn bergantung kpd pendapatan drp youtube. Entah iya entah tk diorg ni benar2 suka Malaysia apa kisah. Sebenarnya diorg ni bkn duta yg bagus utk promosi Malaysia psl jumlah tontonan rendah kemudian subscribers pun cikit sngt! Aku tk langgan video2 cam ni psl tkde manfaat. Org kita ni bila mat salleh puji sikit terus kembang hidung dn terus langgan video2 diorg. Itulah kelemahan org kita mudah kena cucuk!

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    Actually I liked Malaysia from my very first day, did you see my first Malaysia video? I’m not sure what made you think this.

  • @saynurul285

    @saynurul285

    26 күн бұрын

    ​@@benfishermin Just ignore hate comment above.. our religion didnt teach us to hate/slander or being impolite to anyone like that..

  • @fkfms5945
    @fkfms5945Ай бұрын

    Welcome to Malaysia, and hope things work out for you. Some Americans or former Americans did chose to retire here.

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    Thanks a lot, yea it seems like a great place to retire

  • @herihazril
    @herihazrilАй бұрын

    Safety wise, Malaysia way safer than US.. no mass shooting at least 😜

  • @DJ_BROBOT

    @DJ_BROBOT

    Ай бұрын

    brother, you dont get how big America is...its the 3rd largest country by size IN THE WORLD. It's a big place, and mass shootings are not erywhere across America. There are tons of places in america that are safe and no crime occurs...and I mean many many places. It's just the big events make it to international news which is not indicative of all of America. If you been here you realize this...America spans 8 timezones and is bigger than you think. So dont use the issues that happen here to paint the whole country as a war zone everywhere --It NOT. We have more places that number HIGHER in SAFER PLACES than Malaysia IN TOTAL.

  • @makingmadmoves7643
    @makingmadmoves764315 күн бұрын

    Cool video. What city was your top pics in Thailand

  • @second_second_
    @second_second_Ай бұрын

    Thank you. Yes, kids/teens have the phase. Adults too might have it. We also were there, having identity crisis. Thank you for bringing that up.

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    Yea it’s a different time and there’s no saying what types of identity crisis I would face too growing up in the new generation.

  • @azizahkatan3941
    @azizahkatan394126 күн бұрын

    I’ve subscribed to support you. I hope you make loads of money from your channel to have a comfortable life here in Malaysia. Don’t forget to save money religiously for rainy days & for old age. All the best

  • @alyahamzah1952
    @alyahamzah1952Ай бұрын

    As a Malaysian who have done my share of traveling and visited the US as well, I have no desire to live anywhere else in the world and NYC is definitely not a place that I could stay for more than 48 hours. Anybody is welcomed to stay in Malaysia as long as they can respect the local culture and customs as well as understand that some things are just considered repugnant by the majority here like homosexuality ect. As they say , when in Rome...

  • @damienyuen7718

    @damienyuen7718

    Ай бұрын

    All the guy said was respect the values of whatever country you are in. If you don't like or agree with them there are 200 other nations to choose from. @@EGO0808

  • @nutzhazel

    @nutzhazel

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@EGO0808Exactly. So stop throwing your values to the world when you're just a very tiny minority from the whole 8 billion people. Got tired of seeing Presidents of many countries are being pushed by your news channel to normalize your gay values into their countries

  • @alyahamzah1952

    @alyahamzah1952

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@EGO0808 As a Malaysian I have a right to insist that my society's values be respected by those who want to make this place a home. I have no other places to call home other than Malaysia. So yeah, if that is called throwing my values to others than be it. Other countries all have their values they want respected, Malaysia is the same.

  • @EmiAsmizaAbdRahim
    @EmiAsmizaAbdRahimАй бұрын

    Just subscribed. Welcome to Malaysia.

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you!! 🙏😁

  • @portlandGTR
    @portlandGTRАй бұрын

    You’re spot on. The fact that I am feeling like a criminal for being a straight white male is wild to me. It’s when people are telling me what words I can and can not use that crosses the line for me. Controlling speech is the first mark to all your rights being lost. I can be polite but don’t force me to say words I don’t want to use with the threat of having my whole social and career life being threatened

  • @gaaleef
    @gaaleefАй бұрын

    Good luck Ben, I can only subscribe hhhhhhhhh

  • @aussiemike4122
    @aussiemike4122Ай бұрын

    100% agree Ben Australia is the same I to am trying to find away out I feel south East Asia is the spot

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    Yes sadly US, AUS, Canada, EU all in the same boat at the moment. Southeast Asia is the move!

  • @mangostickyrice555
    @mangostickyrice555Ай бұрын

    Thumbs up 👍 Ben

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    Thanks a lot 😁😁

  • @milasaaid6850
    @milasaaid6850Ай бұрын

    what you feel is because of the policy of Islamic Malaysia and the Malay King who make any nation can live in peace and comfort.. China can live richly, India can live without caste and rich.. as well as other nations that come to live /work/study will be guaranteed their rights

  • @dinn-mj4nx

    @dinn-mj4nx

    Ай бұрын

    India....? 😮😅😂😝😰😅😂

  • @RajeshRavindranathan

    @RajeshRavindranathan

    Ай бұрын

    @@dinn-mj4nx 😄

  • @RajeshRavindranathan

    @RajeshRavindranathan

    Ай бұрын

    Really? Even Malaysian-Indians follow the caste system so I don't know what you are on about.

  • @itawan76

    @itawan76

    Ай бұрын

    Wow...sorry your comment is wrong....everybody here live happily because of islamic adaptation way of live...be kind and accept...its not one race can be rich and others not

  • @RajeshRavindranathan

    @RajeshRavindranathan

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@itawan76 what a nonsensical thing to say. Everyone here live happily? Says who? So there are no prisoners or criminals here? and how you went from there to it'sd because of Islamic adaptation" when more than 35% of Malaysians are not even Muslims or need or required to adapt to other faiths. Who claimed only one race can be rich and not others? You are making things up so that you can rebuke it yourself.

  • @zednought3295
    @zednought3295Ай бұрын

    Welcome to Malaysia. There’s more to Malaysia than just KL.

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    Thanks. I’ll be exploring the whole country over the next couple of weeks 😁

  • @elgertj
    @elgertjАй бұрын

    My son saw the monkeys and said he "wants to go visit south east asia now!" and i started showing him your videos of the wild dogs.

  • @watchlifewithcharles906
    @watchlifewithcharles906Ай бұрын

    Unfortunately, all the places in the US I lived had the same problems you describe, but on a smaller scale...Texas, Wyoming, and Montana--I have no interest in living in the USA any longer after 2 years in Thailand...but really like what I am hearing from you regarding your new experiences in Malaysia.

  • @Yasin_Affandi
    @Yasin_AffandiАй бұрын

    Hope that you are having a good time and a pleasant stay in KL, Malaysia. But, it sounds like crazy in Big Apple.

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    Thanks a lot my friend, things are definitely a bit crazy in NY now

  • @Yasin_Affandi

    @Yasin_Affandi

    Ай бұрын

    @@benfishermin Good that you can spend some time around KL, Malaysia and the rest of countries in the Southeast Asian region. 😁

  • @Yasin_Affandi

    @Yasin_Affandi

    Ай бұрын

    @@benfishermin Wow, look at all the feedback, how are you going to handle all those comments, hehe, they loved the content of your video. 😁

  • @zyh3619
    @zyh361924 күн бұрын

    Just stumbled onto your clip without knowing your background or your other/previous clips. appreciate your honesty and it shows through your thoughtful insights. If i could just comment one thing only is this ~ in the midst of all the worldly madness that we'd like to escape from (woke and politics and money and the like) there is one destiny that we should be heading towards is your journey to better your relationship with the Divine. The easterners thankfully, have found this path and it is what kept them calm, contented and at peace. Do give it a thought!

  • @nkh1976
    @nkh1976Ай бұрын

    Go to Sungai Wang shopping mall and I believe some tattoo shops are still very popular in there. Many around Petaling Street and it is now into neighbourhood like SS2 (Petaling Jaya)

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    Interesting thanks I gotta check it out!

  • @zuzuriibrahim3072
    @zuzuriibrahim3072Ай бұрын

    Im supporting u bro

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you 🙏🙏

  • @lkyrichard
    @lkyrichardАй бұрын

    WELCOME TO MALAYSIA 😊

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you very much 🙏🙏

  • @dannys-beverage-world
    @dannys-beverage-worldАй бұрын

    I'm doing the same thing I left in Japan right now are we going to Vietnam and maybe I will come back to Malaysia I hated it the first time but watching your videos made me realize there are other parts of the city where you can walk around.. I'm at a lot of cool people in the neighborhood where I was staying they told me they never seen any tourists so I was definitely a local area people would come up and talk to me there are areas in Malaysia in KL where Americans and tourists do not go.

  • @mesebak
    @mesebakАй бұрын

    Well..You can always look into Malaysian Borneo IBAN Head Hunters Tatoo that is in the state of Sarawak 🤘..also U can get in touch with Nick from Global Gibbon ..

  • @anthonywirth9936
    @anthonywirth9936Ай бұрын

    Hi Ben, I love Malaysia spent 5 months there in 2019. The only negative for me was there were no real seasons as it is so close to the Equator. I missed a cold Winter. Other than that, it is a magnificent country.

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    I’m starting to miss some cooler weather, not exactly winter weather but I do want some mountains and breeze!

  • @johnhg_myaus

    @johnhg_myaus

    Ай бұрын

    @@benfishermin Genting highlands and Cameron highlands are places we malaysians go for cooler weather short stays. Should check it out.

  • @anthonywirth9936

    @anthonywirth9936

    Ай бұрын

    @@benfishermin The best place then is the Cameron Highlands but that may be too quiet for your liking?

  • @fareedomar3748
    @fareedomar3748Ай бұрын

    Hi Ben. What food have you tried in Malaysia? How long are you planning to be in Malaysia?

  • @MattMatt-kr6ts
    @MattMatt-kr6tsАй бұрын

    Malaysia has specific method to be successfull...no need to follow other race n country methods.

  • @rlwings
    @rlwingsАй бұрын

    Come back to Thailand! We miss you.. Sawadee krup

  • @Sengyipgoh

    @Sengyipgoh

    Ай бұрын

    Watch out for Blackmagic at brothel area. I from Malaysia. Many of my close friends got charm. I even involved in clearing the charm.😂

  • @littletravelmonkey6727
    @littletravelmonkey6727Ай бұрын

    I would like to hear your sincere thought on Malaysia once your honeymoon period is over. All places have pros and cons.

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    Yea let’s see after some time. I have quite a positive impression of it, of course there are issues too. I’m really just traveling around, I’m not actually becoming a permanent resident anywhere for a while. It’s a nice place to spend time though for me and live healthy.

  • @biglance
    @biglanceАй бұрын

    Good man! Godspeed! peace from China.

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    Thanks a lot! Might have to check out China sometime. I watch a lot of stuff from the KZreadr named @serpentza which scared me away a bit 😂

  • @biglance

    @biglance

    Ай бұрын

    @@benfishermin Hey man, yeah, I like that dude, BUT .... there is a ton of good stuff here too, please don't let him scare you off, you can fly through most major cities and get 72-144 hours of visa free travel (if continuing on to another place)and I think Hainan Island is 1 month visa free, as Public Enemy said "Don't believe the Hype" peace from Fuzhou, China.

  • @Razmikamson
    @RazmikamsonАй бұрын

    Hi brother. What a great views. Thx ya for staying in my country. We are nobody. Compare to other southeastasia country. They are more beautiful then us. I am from johor darul takzim.

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    So far all of the countries I’ve been to in SEA have some unique special things about them, I like all I’ve been to so far!

  • @ManA-Level
    @ManA-LevelАй бұрын

    I've been following a NYC YT video about the housing, shoplifting, rent, people free consequences from thieves. Maybe you can try exploring the tattoo scene in the State of Sarawak.

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    Yea there’s currently a lot of alarming issues happening back home. I’m excited to see Sarawak soon!

  • @axelanamwatever7408
    @axelanamwatever7408Ай бұрын

    I kinda relate what u said,people want to be different nothin problem with that if they just keep it to theirself but if u forced people to accept you and try normalize it that is a problem

  • @farahharis5016
    @farahharis5016Ай бұрын

    Dulu takde sape nak pandang negara Asia ni..malah Ade westerners fikir kita masih tinggal atas pokok dan dalam gua..ingat lagi Tun M dulu pernah bagitahu timetu kita tgh nak develop..di rendahkan oleh negara barat.. anggap Asia is nothing.. tengok sebelah mata pun tak nak .. now negara yg mereka rendahkan yang mereka tak pernah pandang la yang mampu saing negara barat..berapa banyak negara Asia yang mampu saing dengan barat? Kalau gabung negara Asia serantau memang kalah negara barat..sorry to say..sebab kita jangan selalu tengok atas sebab tak sedar yang bawah sedang mendaki naik ke atas

  • @milasaaid6850

    @milasaaid6850

    Ай бұрын

    Kan... Semua ini kerana kita kekal hidup dalm fitrah...lelaki hidip sebagi lelaki ,,perempuan hidup dgn cara perempuan..menjamin kebenasan beragama..kita hidup dgn penuh keseleaaan tapi kita taknsedar sebb kita dh terbiasa ,,kita sentiasa memandang yg jauh cantik dari yg kita pegang

  • @TeleeFONE

    @TeleeFONE

    Ай бұрын

    Now most visited ASEAN country, sebab it works in Malaysia favour, very cheap for tourists to travel to, hotels, foods very cheap, pulak because of Islamic values and conservativeness, openly sex trades and doing sexual stuffs publicly is against the law, so Malaysia perfect country for family vacations and for people to bring their kids to travel, over time it works in Malaysia favour. Lagi pon westerners ni ramai tak suka Asians berkulit gelap, mereka rasa kita ni bodoh compared Cina, Koreans dan Japanese yang mereka suka dan agungkan, pulak kita majoriti Muslims, lagi mereka tak suka sebabnya mereka Islamophobic, sebab tu dulu mereka tak pandang pon kita. Tourists lain bangsa kurang racist dan lebih terbuka, tapi tak kata pon semua westerners ni racist, byk pon yang ok, tapi yang racist dan Islamophobic pon ramai.

  • @nutzhazel

    @nutzhazel

    Ай бұрын

    Alah yg suka rendahkan negara kita pun orang2 kita jugak yang dah migrate dekat US/UK/Australia tu. Ada sorang Melayu dah berkeluarga dekat sana siap puji2 lagi sistem pendidikan dekat US sana walaupun orang US sendiri dah takut nak hantar anak2 dorang pergi sekolah sebab kena ikut agenda LGBTQ dan senang kena tembak tiba2.

  • @take5mate

    @take5mate

    Ай бұрын

    Do not believe what you hear. People are educated enough to know that Malaysia are well developed and still developing. As Malaysian, we are lucky to have what ASIAN have, and for that, we are known as TRULY ASIAN. For the more reason to visit our country is to experiance these TRULY ASIAN culture.

  • @nofood1
    @nofood1Ай бұрын

    Left NYC 5 years ago. Never looked back. Check out Vietnam bro 😎🏝️👌

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    Awesome, I can’t wait to visit Vietnam I hopefully will make it within the next few months

  • @sathi6395
    @sathi6395Ай бұрын

    I did visit nyc in 2001 just after 9/11. Manhattan was so huge with its skyscraoers that I felt KL was just a tiny town compared to it. I was visiting a distant relative who was living in Queens where fd ws expensive and not easy to find. Unlike Msia you can find it easily and at affordable prices. But at the end of the day, its abt the same. Musuems were amazing in ny. I felt If you have enough cash, nyc has limitless adventures and many many events take place daily but u'd nd money. Manhattan was so clean and easy to walk around esp 5th Ave. Money is harder to make in Msia. Anyway if u want to save money do yr shopping at at affordable mini marts like Speed99 or if u really run out it shop at the RM2 Shop where everythg is only rm2. Best wishes.

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    Yea with a lot of money NYC can be a great place to live, then it’s like a playground which has anything you want

  • @metroduck123
    @metroduck123Ай бұрын

    You could have come to Florida! 😊 Anyway, I will be visiting Malaysia soon, can’t wait

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    Florida was usually my escape from NYC, at least growing up it was going for winter music conference in Miami each year, used to be a lot of fun but I think it got a bit played out and too popular eventually. I’d probably like other parts of Florida more than Miami nowadays

  • @metroduck123

    @metroduck123

    Ай бұрын

    @@benfishermin Miami SUX , you should try the west cost of Florida, Tampa Bay, VeniceBeach,or even Gainesville are, Orlando area, anywhere but Miami 😆

  • @keangwooichoo6138
    @keangwooichoo6138Ай бұрын

    Civilization began in mesopotamia,then to eqypt, rome, europe, usa, and otw back to china/asia.

  • @edward-ox6nt
    @edward-ox6ntАй бұрын

    Interesting.

  • @u2sharp

    @u2sharp

    Ай бұрын

    he should try farming, 😅

  • @whoshere767
    @whoshere767Ай бұрын

    Hi Ben. Always not easy to migrate from the comforts of familiarity, more so, to half way around the world. It's not just in America but the woke culture is rising everywhere. Malaysia is great, I'm Malaysian btw, but Asia is huge and totally diverse, legal opportunities are abound if you do your research, so hope you can explore and find that sweet spot to call base.

  • @sagrodasia
    @sagrodasia13 күн бұрын

    U do your brisk walk video ( BWV) at KL Botanical Garden. Recognise that Birds Park, Planetarium, National Mosque, Islamic Art Museum ( you must visit).

  • @yeoharold4404
    @yeoharold440422 күн бұрын

    Everything you say is spot on. I moved to the US 35 years ago, but I’ve been thinking about leaving. It’s just hard to get over the inertia. A NYU club asked me to give a talk about how I got into the art industry, as part of my introduction, I was supposed to state my pronouns. I realized this is a group of people who are going to be offended by everything. If they tape what I say and I say something that offends them, they’ll try to cancel me, and in the end I decided it wasn’t worth it for me to talk to these people.

  • @phoebe2350
    @phoebe2350Ай бұрын

    totally undstd where u' re coming fr & agree 💯% w/ yr point of view abt the extreme lgbtq " trend", etc. hope u find home here in Msia🥰. our tagline here for generations has been " sucess is almost certainly within anyone's reach as long as he/ she( no in betweens here lol) is willing to work for it." dreams still do come true in Msia 🇲🇾

  • @phoebe2350

    @phoebe2350

    Ай бұрын

    btw- yes, i subbed. lol🫵

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    26 күн бұрын

    Thanks a lot for subbing 😁😁

  • @user-xb1xf8ti7k
    @user-xb1xf8ti7kАй бұрын

    Always be yourself brother.

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    I do my best 😁

  • @thewaywardcyclist3992
    @thewaywardcyclist3992Ай бұрын

    4:53 that cyclist soon found out that path went straight into a fence

  • @benfishermin

    @benfishermin

    Ай бұрын

    Haha I was wondering where he was going honestly

  • @user-uu4ds7iv8u
    @user-uu4ds7iv8uАй бұрын

    Great video Ben, everything you said is happening throughout the US although to a lesser degree in the rural areas where I live, but still the woke culture has infected the whole country, and it's so sad to see! I'm hoping to move somewhere in Southeast Asia next year if at all possible, just to save my sanity and live a quiet peaceful life in one of the beautiful countries over there! Thanks for telling the truth, best wishes and good luck!

  • @johningle1
    @johningle1Ай бұрын

    Cities in America. Get out. At the very least, to the countryside. If not, another country.