I hope you enjoyed today's video! Thank you to Native for sponsoring. Save 20% on your first Native purchase! Click here bit.ly/nativedailyc10 and use my code DAILYC10 #AD I would love to know your thoughts on today's topic. Do you find the ten-item wardrobe helps you dress up and express your true style? Let us know in the comments. Thank you for watching! Love, Jennifer

I recently had to drop my parents off at the airport an hour away first thing in the morning. Convinced I wouldn’t have to get out of the car and interact with anyone, I donned a comfy dress, slipped on some easy shoes, and grabbed my handbag. Besides putting my hair in a neat ponytail, it was almost no effort. Honestly, I felt a bit like I had just rolled out of bed. While in the city, I couldn’t resist getting coffee and visiting a favorite store in a somewhat high-end neighborhood. I was DELIGHTED to realize that even with my minimal effort, I looked presentable enough to stroll around the store AND get a couple compliments on my dress! Thank you for being the kind of influence on my life that you are, Jennifer! 🤍

Yesterday my husband and I went to a Mother's day brunch/buffet at a country club/golf course. First time to do so after the pandemic. So, we were really looking forward to enjoying something we had missed doing over the last several years. We had reservations. We dressed in a 'casual-dressy' mode. When we arrived we were greeted by a hostess/seater that wore thin , loudly printed leggings/tights that showed everything on her body. Her top was a backyard tank top with a message printed on it. Hair unwashed and uncombed. Slippers on her feet. I looked around the room at the clientele. Eighty percent (80%) of attendees were wearing pajamas, shorts, pool thongs on their feet, backyard tank tops which displayed incredible amounts of flesh, ripped and torn jeans. Manners matched the clothing, too. The price tag to eat there was NOT cheap. Everyone, tho', looked like something the cat dragged in. Why? What has happened? It used to be that those who came to a function ill-dressed felt out of place. Yesterday, in this venue, we felt out of place only because we came dressed as we should have. The times are turned upside down.

@luba-healthywithluba6866

Жыл бұрын

It truly is sad. 😔

@helenhhelen9966

Жыл бұрын

May l please be the first British person to suggest that you change your nickname with immediate effect? You'll thank me for it. By the way, I don't disagree with your comments on this thread.

@lauraellen189

Жыл бұрын

That really is surprising. I thought the country club crowd usually dresses well.

@donnaschindlbeck7457

Жыл бұрын

I’ve been working toward the 10 item basics wardrobe for my second season. As a retiree I do find it a bit challenging for the more active months when we do so many different activities. I’m finding I need one for each lifestyle as only a few pieces care over from one to another! Fall and winter weren’t a challenge at all and I really do like the idea of a much pared down wardrobe. It makes things so much more simple! I had my colors done late last year and that helped with decision making immensely. As I sew about 50% of my wardrobe I have a much larger selection of colors and fabrics to select from and can customize styles and fit.

@Minga-pi3fo

Жыл бұрын

@@helenhhelen9966 I have a feeling I'm missing something major here? When I was a kid my baby brother gave me this nickname after a children's show called "Gumby". 'Minga' was Gumby's little sister. You can still see these shows made with the media of 'clay -mation'.

I woke up yesterday feeling awful. Anxious and a bit depressed and totally unmotivated. I forced myself to get properly dressed, do my hair, a very quick makeup and some basic jewellery. It changed the trajectory of my day. It really is important to dress properly, even if it seems frivolous or a waste of time. It's not.

I LOVE having a 10 item wardrobe! I recently had to pack for a sudden weekend away, and was so thankful I could go to my closet, grab 3 dresses, and pack them, taking about 2 minutes to do so. 😂☺️ I’ve found my style is classic, granny-chic, with a touch of whimsy.🥰

I don't stick to a specific number of items for my wardrobe, but I do keep it relatively minimal. It doesn't have to be 10 for me, the number can be different for everyone, but the whole point of rotating and knowing each item really well and knowing how to pair it I really love. And I love being presentable for sure.

Great video! I used to want to “save” my nice things to wear out but I have been watching your channel for awhile now and I’ve really taken in the concept of dressing well for ME. It really helps elevate my mood and I get more things done.

I have a number of beautiful dresses I never wear. I was inspired by your idea of just wearing what you love, even if it's "nice." Why have a closest full of things too nice to wear? I have also been inspired by Freida Cahlo who treated her hair, makeup, and clothing as components of her art--she was her own canvas. Her amazing personal collection of clothes has been released to the public for viewing in her house, Casa Azule, in Mexico City and I was fascinated by how she put pieces together into portable, wearable art. The art of dressing well.

We need more fashion shows please even if you haven’t collected your 10 core items for the season. Please do a video showing all your extras in you closet

This makes so much sense Jennifer. I am a numbers person. Thank you for explaining the reason behind it. It takes me a moment to grasp things fully. Change is never easy for me. But know it is necessary for growth. I want to get rid of the excess and leave room for things that mean more to me. There is a saying that hit me hard when I first heard it "Use things and love people, not use people and love things". This is the relationship I want with clothing. I want to take pride in what I put on my body, but don't think having too many options and taking so long to make a decision on what to wear because of having too much is living my best life. 🌺

This video helped me a lot. I literally own NO blouses, only t-shirts, jeans and sweats. I do have a couple nice dresses though. I’m 51 and I know I need to dress better. This is giving me some inspiration and a limit. I need to explore my style. Thanks for this! I think I’ll check out your book.

Thank you for explaining the difference between core items and extras. I’ve had trouble with how to define the two. Today’s explanation cleared that up. Your story about receiving a compliment from a neighbor was familiar to me. Honestly, when I leave the house in a dress I will get at least one compliment from a stranger. It leaves me with such a nice feeling. Thank you for all your advice, Jennifer. Your topics are always thought provoking.

I always enjoy these videos, and you have influenced me in dressing well. I found the solution for our gardening lifestyle. We have over 1/3 acre and in Spring and summer have lots of flowers and vegetables to grow. I now dress in my long tunic tshirts and stretchy capris in the early part of the day, then shower and change to a flowy, pretty dress or outfit in the later afternoon/evening.

I became a minimalist about 4 1/2 years ago. Some how KZread recommended your video on the 10 item wardrobe. At this point I had already decluttered my wardrobe but not enough. I remember just listening to you talk about being put together and how the 10 item wardrobe helped. Ever since then my style has evolved I finally feel beautiful in everything I wear. I have found my style. I have a small wardrobe but find it so easy to mix and match so I don't always look the same. I will never look back thank you for this concept.❤

It's me, the jeans and t-shirt girl here. 😅 I always enjoy watching your videos because I haven't a clue when it comes to style. I love that your looks are always elegant and timeless. It is so refreshing, especially with the rapid world of fast fashion and trends that seem to change weekly. Thank you, Jennifer, for always being an inspiration!! ❤️

@lindag5076

Жыл бұрын

I’m Vuori joggers/Jean shorts or jeans and tshirt. I’ve put on a lot of weight and at my age the shorts aren’t becoming as my legs have age spots. Ugggh…I need a stylist and dietician to drop 25 pounds.

@gloriasaliba3395

Жыл бұрын

Just add a classic navy blazer with gold buttons to your jeans and whore shirt - you will look a million bucks :) or you’re feeling really fancy then add a scarf too

Thank you Jennifer for this! Really it’s changed my life. I am not all the way in cleaning my main closet but I pick out ten items and hang them outside my closet on a hook. When I look at the items I’ve picked for that season I feel empowered to donate my clothes that no longer work for me. Gradually I’ve said bye to a crammed closet. I can see wearing my spring and summer dresses and not just black seven days a week. My hall closet is close to being my organized bathroom essentials now and my crafting room where my mom used to live has transformed into my own little heaven! Next I’ll tackle the toys but that’s ok! Rome wasn’t built in a day. Au Revoir!

I don't do the capsule wardrobe. However, I have recently discovered that on the days that I am more put together, I care more about my house. I feel good, I look presentable, I want my house to look presentable as well. On the days I dress like a slob, I really don't care what my house looks like. It amazes me how much just this one simple thing can impact!

@softsophisticate

Жыл бұрын

Yes, same here and I can guarantee the days where I am still in my PJ's mid-morning - the doorbell rings. When I have made an effort, no-one gets to see me. Funny how life works. Maybe it is the Universe teaching me a lesson - it is saying get up and get dressed you lazy slob :)

I’ve used the 10 item capsule wardrobe to declutter my closet and it has my life easier. It’s not overwhelming to walk into my closet and pick out something to wear. Even better is that I’m leaving for a 65 day trip to Europe (all cruises, land tours/hotels) and instead of packing “favorite outfits” as I used to do, I’ve got my capsule wardrobe with pieces that mix and match so I’m not overpacking or taking too much. From pool, to tour and formal dinners…it’s all there! 💕Thank you for making packing super easy.

Feeling tranquil each morning instead of guilty and overwhelmed is a much better way to start the day! Another surprising benefit of the intentional aspect of the capsule wardrobe is that I finally feel more free explore my passion for sewing and designing my own clothes! I've been in the process of transitioning to the 10-item wardrobe over the past year or so. I make a little more progress each season! This spring has been my first season of not feeling overwhelmed when I look in my closet. I don't feel guilty from seeing the gobs of clothes that don't fit my body, that I don't like, or are that out of season, making it appear like I have more options than I do. I also can actually find my in-season clothes now! I was able to find new ways to style several of my pieces this spring so I could wear them in ways I enjoyed.

I can concur with Jennifer’s suggestion that someone in Ireland may need more sweaters. 😂😂😂 🇮🇪

I only dress up and make up when I hang out, but this happens once every several months after the pandemic. So now I'm commiting to dress well at least on Mondays, even if I stay at home =)

Yay! I love 10 item wardrobe videos! It’s always good to go back and be reminded of the process and the reasons. I love what you said about developing a “muscle” for dressing well - it does take effort and getting used to!!!

@TheDailyConnoisseur

Жыл бұрын

It's so true, Anita. Thank you!

@jennieforcum5396

Жыл бұрын

Very true about developing the muscle. I’m struggling with that right now.

@utubemouse

9 ай бұрын

Yes, thank you. I imagine you might grow weary of presenting the same concepts over and over, but it is appreciated!

I've been practicing the 10 item wardrobe for many years now. It has absolutely helped me save money, Also, it's much easier to get ready in the morning and to pack.

I love the 10 item wardrobe! It helps you cultivate your style and makes it easier to get dressed. You stop buying or buy less of those random pieces of clothing that don’t go with anything else in your wardrobe. 💜

@iriswelch3553

Жыл бұрын

Yes! You spend less and get to wear your favorites every day!

@TheDailyConnoisseur

Жыл бұрын

Thank you, Samantha! ♥

I do love the 10 item concept and how flexible it actually is. My fall and winter are now well curated. Summer, not so much do to the fact of needing to change at least 2 times a day. So this summer I'm doing a 20 item to be divided into morning and early afternoon and then late afternoon and evening.

t-shirts (depending on which ones) totally help me create looks that are dressed- up. There are really nice t-shirts that can serve the same purpose as blouses.

I recently helped organize an 80’s era themed fundraiser. I was so surprised how many people came and said they put their outfits together by rummaging through their closets and putting on clothes they’ve kept for 40 years! I thought this was so fun, yet had to wonder how anyone has the storage space to keep 4 decades of era specific clothing. 😂 Love the 10 item wardrobe advice Jennifer! Thank you for explaining why certain items are extras, I was wondering about that too for a long time.

@anitas5817

Жыл бұрын

Yes! That was a helpful explanation of extras. She has explained it before but I’ve still been confused.

I have really enjoyed learning the 10 item wardrobe because I find it very liberating to have a boundary, but also giving myself permission to get what I need. Before I was indulgent in irresponsible ways with impulse buying but then would deny myself in other ways like never buying myself underwear to make up for it. Now that I have a plan I have so much less stress. I feel responsible and in control--like I know what I need, I know what I want. I have noticed I get more complements on my wardrobe. People tell me I always look right for the occasion etc. Before I felt like such a hodgepodge and felt childish. Now I feel more grown up (i'm almost 40!). My husband is a fan too (he listens to you at work)! I bought him silk pjs for xmas and he loves feeling pulled together at home now! You have helped our whole family with this concept! Thank you!

I count as part of my wardrobe anything that needs to be hung up in my closet and not folded away in a drawer. My current capsule is 30, but have 3 drawers containing underclothes, sleepwear, jeans and t-shirts that I don’t include.

@melligolightly

Жыл бұрын

I do it similarly! I count every "top piece" (top, dress, jumpsuit) because these are which give different looks in my opinion (two different jeans don't do that imho) and which need to be changed / washed more often. I don't count additional stuff like cardigans, jackets, shoes etc.

Im feeling overwhelmed by my clothes, I have a very small wardrobe, but my problem area is t shirts, I have over 40. So Im getting a clothing rail, and will sort out my clothes into 2 seasons - hot and cold. I will pack away my out of season clothes, and then wear all of my clothes in the season and downsize from there. I have to make a start, so hoping this plan will work to develop my 10 ish item wardrobe

I had started project 333 about 9 years ago. It was an eye opener. When i watched the first 10 item wardrobe video, i was baffled that I could probably cut down. I had to try it. It’s been freeing and inspiring. I also decided to chose a beatiful rack and high quality hangers Sal that my clothing could be showcased instead of hidden. I love clothing and I feel like this better reflects not only my style, but also my deep appreciation of them. As a knitter and amateur seamstress, clothing are beautiful pieces of art and work which are so worthy of admiration and care.

@Karen-ve6ds

Жыл бұрын

I knit…I’m drawn to yarn 🧶 I can’t help it 😊

@edennis8578

Жыл бұрын

You realize that the 10 item wardrobe is just her "core" wardrobe, as she calls it? She has other items, they're just not part of her core. Remember, things like sweaters, t-shirts, and jeans aren't "core," they're ancillary - at least for her. She isn't telling us the total number of items that she wears.

@Pursuitsofmybookishheart

Жыл бұрын

@@edennis8578 yes I do.

@flashwashington2735

Жыл бұрын

@@edennis8578 More great realizations: You don't have to wear them all at once. Sun screen doesn't count toward your core items, nor rain boots, hats and umbrellas. Feel free to get outside of the core box when working the deck of a fishing trawler in 50 foot waves. Let me know if I can help with my wisdom because I'm overflowing full of it! God bless.🙏🙏🙏

I am still working on my ten item wardrobe! I love dressing up, and I usually wear a hat to church! I would wear the gloves, too, if I could find them 🤣! Thank you for guiding us. You’re never too old to learn new things (I am 71 and learn so much from you!)!

I've been watching you for over a decade and the 10 item wardrobe has been revolutionary in my life! I find myself watching your old videos lately, out of nostalgia and also to glean tips about a capsule makeup collection. I love the videos you've made about updating your makeup seasonally. I'm finally trying to train myself to purchase makeup 4x a year vs constantly shopping for items. I want seasonal updates. Necessary purchases vs. frivolous purchases. I would personally love a video about your current makeup collection and/or routine and your current Le No Makeup Look 🌸✨💄

@Jennifer, Madisun Gray, a Utuber, has about 8 videos where she specifically named you and follows your 10 item wardrobe and loves it! ❤❤❤ I was not sure if you were aware. Her style is much different, a simple life, more bohemian and carefree, and sweet.

@TheDailyConnoisseur

Жыл бұрын

Oh, thank you for letting me know! I will check out her videos!

@Jen-jenn

Жыл бұрын

I watch Madisun as well. She has wonderful videos showcasing her quality filled simple life.

@ladyofthewood5604

Жыл бұрын

I've seen Madisun as well. ❤

Serendipity! I have been thinking about this for the past couple of weeks. I have done a similar 10-item capsule wardrobe in my mid-late 20s but now I am due to work on a refreshed one for my mid-30’s I will be 35 this summer and I feel like age is changing my outlook on life. Subsequently, mindset changes go along with wardrobe changes. I feel like I have to reinvent myself in many ways, especially creatively. This is where I will be starting. Thank you, as always, for the inspiration 🌻

My late mom grew up during the rationing of WW II. When she passed away, her closet was just, OMG! Seriously! She had shoes of every style and color. Some she wore and some not. It took forever to go through and donate. Since starting to read the first book you did, I am taking a second look at how I dress and what I have. I have a bag prepared to be donated.

I love the 10 item wardrobe concept. I do mine a little differently, though. I factor in price per wear, longevity of the style, flattering to me colors and cuts, minimal dry cleaning but cashmere, pima cotton, linen, etc. I started first by reading your books, all 3 of them. I added in The Power of Style by Bobbie Thomas (color compass), Staging Your Comback by Christopher Hopkins (body shape and type), Tim Gunn's Quality, Taste, and Style, and the Caudilie skincare advice book! I really needed an overhaul! I l9ok great!😊😊😊

I'm slowly making my way towards my own personal style... Realized i needed my clothing to be fitted so i can feel it on my skin! If the items are too baggy/loose, unless it's one of my boho styled skirts, i don't feel put together.

I'm a minimalist and have a small wardrobe. I work a physically demanding job out in the elements so I wear a black t-shirt and jeans or capris. But with your encouragement, I've been dressing well on my days off and do what I can on days I work. It has definitely boosted my self-esteem even though I'm single and live alone. It feels odd to dress down now. Thank you for your books and videos. It has truly helped me.

Thanks for the reminder, it’s just what I needed. ❤

Yay! Many questions I had!! Thanks!

Thank you for explaining the difference between the core items and the extras. I totally was stuck in the minimalist mentality and couldn't make sense of it all. I also appreciate the reasons you have for the 10 item wardrobe. Again, i assumed the why was minimalism. Now that i understand it correctly, i can actually attempt it! 😊

I love this topic

Thanks so much Jennifer, I love the way you give us something positive to focus on. You are my memory and encouragement and guidance when I've been too busy to care for myself. X

This is SO HELPFUL! I’d love to see a video on your suggestions for “other items” or basics we should all have.

Knowing the "why" helps so much! I loved this video. Thank you- I'm inspired to try again ☺️

loved not lived. Thank you for some inspiration to go back to dressing more elegantly always

Thank you for clarifiying the difference between core and extra. I did not understand it before the why but now it seems very clear to me.

This is so helpful...one of my favorite videos of yours!

Such great advice!! This concept really works!

Your style looks great!

This is so good. I've been honing in a basic wardrobe for years now, thanks to your encouraging videos . I buy higher quality core pieces and occasionally I enjoy buying statement pieces at the thrift store.

The one thing I've always done is store away the items for the other Seasons other than the one at hand..but renting rooms in Homes did not allow me the space to do so? Ughhh😝 Now that I'm in my own place and, upgrading soon to a larger apartment I'm going to buy the appropriate soft storage boxes to store these items!🙂

A capaule wardrobe is much less overwhelming and i appreciate your lessons about it. I'm still trying to find my exact style but I'm getting close!

So thankful you shared about core n extras. Needed that reminder. I was impulsive the other day n realized I didn’t need it. My core items are perfect for spring.

I also like the core wardrobe because it actually helps you use your clothes that you have that work with your style sometimes I forget about clothes that I have so I separate my 10 out of wardrobe in the beginning of the new season and it’s so much fun to be able to concentrate on those clothes that I might not have one for quite a while and they’re still nice that’s another reason I like this system thank you so much Jennifer I really appreciate you😊

Thank you for saying that we can try what we are drawn to even if we think it may not be for us. I am afraid of trying things out and feel very insecure, but this really encouraged me to go ahead and do it anyways. And its ok to make mistakes. 🙂

I love the videos with any information about the 10 item capsule. I really do well picking the 10 core items. Still a work in progress with the extras. Even though we now live where there are 4 seasons; I still think I have too many extras; and struggle to limit those categories a bit more. I love wearing a beautiful dress at home. So comfortable. I never forget my earrings either.

Dear Jennifer, Thank you for this beautiful video. I love how the ten-item wardrobe is one way we can be presentable always. It flows right into having our homes presentable, not just for company but for ourselves too. Thank you for explaining so well the difference beyween a core item and an extra. I am wearing a pretty dress at he today and do feel great.

Thank you for the inspiration of my ability to dress and feel good about who I am 😊

Wonderful video. And it’s so true. Taking that few minutes to dress well does make a difference. I have experienced similar situations as you and your neighbor from other much younger women complimenting my attire. It always makes me feel so good and I encourage them to do the same. 🌷💕

This was such a helpful explanation! I have parred down and parred down, but I am going to my closet RIGHT NOW! Going to take it down to 10-12 aside from the few extras you explained. I get the difference now, and I somehow didn’t quite understand what made something a wardrobe, vs extra in the past. Excited!!

I did enjoy today's video. The explanation about what was what and why was much needed. Thank you.

Love the house, Congratulations!

I really love the 10 item concept but it didn’t work for me over time. These days I do a seasonal switch over when I take out everything from my wardrobe and my big storage suitcase. I write down specific outfits for the coming season. 5 work from home, 5 work from the office, 5 for church, 3 work work out etc etc. Then I pull out the necessary pieces and all the rest goes back in the big suitcase. A wardrobe with fully interchangeable pieces doesn’t work for me because I enjoy a few different styles depending on my mood so I think in complete outfits instead. It’s such an enjoyable process! Thanks Jennifer, I really enjoyed the video ❤

@Chelseyandfam

Жыл бұрын

This is such a great idea! I wear many hats and so I need different degrees of casual/dressy outfits and your system sounds like a great way to plan that out. Also, we have 4 distinct seasons where I live and so I feel that sort of necessitates more clothes.

@szfrj

Жыл бұрын

@@Chelseyandfam aw I’m the same, what I wear to church would not feel right to work from home or to garden in 🤷🏻‍♀️ this way of finding perfect outfits for each kind of activity , I feel like I can dress appropriately and practically. But maybe it would be different if I lived in a warm climate. In Scotland it’s 9 months of winter and 3 summer 😅

@softsophisticate

Жыл бұрын

I agree with you and have also evolved the 10 item wardrobe idea to what works for me and now each season create "7 Everyday Outfits" based on my typical week, including shoes and cardigans for layering". If an outfit wears out, which takes ages, I replace it. It means when I open my wardrobe in the morning, I just have my 7 Everyday Outfits to chose from. I am forever grateful to Jennifer's 10 item idea as it has saved me a lot of money, but I found the mixing and matching idea too complicated and when shopping if I found an item, I had to think, does it go with everything else. Do I have the right shoes - argh! In reality, I still only have about 10-12 items per season, I just see them differently, not mix and match, but as 7 complete outfits. Sometimes they can mix and match, but that is not the main aim for me. Life is so much simpler. I also have separate "wardrobes" for activewear (gardening, camping, hiking) , eveningwear and holidaywear, also sadly funeralwear, which I keep elsewhere in a chest of drawers or a suitcase. I also store my out of season 7 Outfit wardrobe away from the current one.

@szfrj

Жыл бұрын

@@softsophisticate I love that! 😊

Good morning, Jennifer, Thank you for sharing this. It is confusing sometimes to figure out the 10 item ward robe. I need to go back and reread the books and takes some notes 😊 Have a blessed day!

I love your ideas about dressing appropriately and to your style. Strong ethic for me growing up as instilled by my mom was to come home from school and change out of my school clothes into play clothes. Play clothes were more expendable and less expensive. I still follow this principle, dressing appropriately for my day. I’m also 6’1” and so well-fitting clothes are expensive and very hard to find. There’s no way I could wear that dress for a day at home, as beautiful as it is. This might work for you, but if I ruined that dress it’s really hard for me to find another one! Sometimes when I find something that fits well and I love, I buy several!!!

@paulinecronin2752

Жыл бұрын

I did that with my kids too, much easier for washing :)

@felidae1317

Жыл бұрын

I am working mum. So I do wear practical clothes at home most of the time. But I did came up with "Dinner Monday". Every Monday I have a "formal" dinner with my family. I buy fresh flowers, cook a nice meal and put extra care into setting up the table. And for that occasion I dress up. I don't have the time nor the energy to do that every day. Once a week was a good compromise. My kids love Dinner Monday. And after a while my partner started dressing up for it as well. When my kids need help with their school work I dress up for that too. It signals to them to take their school work seriously.

@Lorikneisler

Жыл бұрын

@@felidae1317 those are great ideas! Good luck to you - raising children is such important work!

@softsophisticate

Жыл бұрын

@@felidae1317 Love your idea of Dinner Monday and your kids will remember your special outfits, like I remember my Mum's pretty dresses when she dressed up too. I have on occassion got out my one and only sparkly evening dress to wear on a week day dinner with my husband - just because. Being British, I even got dressed up and wore it at home to watch the Coronation of Charles III. Funnily enough, my husband then went and put on a smart outfit too- unusual for him. Maybe when your kids are older, you can get them to cook on another day, such as a Wednesday and maybe your husband on Fridays? Jennifer's chicken, pesto and mozzarella recipe she posted recently, is really easy for kids or husbands.

I've started dressing well at home with nice Loungewear sets? But it's just a temporary step up to dressing well..I do agree with this concept, though. I've ordered some dresses similar to yours, along with dressy loafers, ballet flats and dressy open toe sandals that I'm waiting for them to be delivered. Also a nice short pearl necklace to go along with it..Can't wait!🙂🌸

I agree with all you had to say!

I complimented a lady in the gym locker room today because she was wearing a flowing flowery dress to go out and do clothing shopping. I made her day.

I love this concept and how it plays out. Over the years, I have honed my style more and more. The most challenging area for me was learning how to combine comfort+practicality+beauty for my days at home. In the past couple years I’ve found some very cute dresses in cool, breezy rayon for working around the house in the hot summertime, but they are also great for running errands, easily layered with a denim jacket or sweater. I also like my knee-length denim and linen skirts, great with my Breton tops, also good for work and casual outings. They pair well with pretty blouses and cute shoes, too, for a dressy-casual look. It’s so true, getting dressed is so much easier when you have classic pieces that mix and match well and can be seasonally and occasionally dressed up and down. I think it is important to convey to ourselves, to our families and those around us that we value the dignity and beauty of our job as wives, mothers and homemakers. We often say with our words that it is important, but shlumping around in ugly clothes tells on us that our attitudes are not in line with our words.

Thoroughly enjoyed this video Jennifer ❤….. I have my core items, I have to work on not buying too many extras 😂, but I do try to purge extras that have not “worked” or I’ve impulsively bought before switching seasons . I live in Alberta, Canada so I have more sweaters etc. I’m recently retired from a corporate office and I miss dressing for work. Even though I’m mostly at home I still do and enjoy dressing appropriately every day. My mother was the same … it was the way I was raised…. I was born in England and my family immigrated to Canada in the 70’s …. Have a wonderful day 💐

Hello!! I was looking foward your new video. Let’s Watch it!! 🌸💐

💯 agreed!!!

I enjoyed your Ted talk and the 10 ways to get out of debt...I also researched your books at my local library and read... note to self... feel luxurious in what you wear... dress from the inside out, and do not worry about the room... My father told me chances are everyone is looking at you and wondering about themselves... Thank you again for your content 😊

This was very clarifying for me! I never understood why a sweater wouldn’t be a core wardrobe item, but now I get it. Lightbulb moment :)

I'm entering my 2nd trimester with my first baby...I've minimized my wardrobe a lot in the last year and a half but have never tried the 10 item wardrobe. I think now might be the time to try it! I have learned so much from your channel and have gotten more comfortable with wearing my dresses, which I love, all the time and for no other reason but that I like them. Time to curate some that will fit throughout my pregnancy!😊

@rebecca6452

Жыл бұрын

Congratulations on your first little one! 😊❤ I made my first 10 item wardrobe after I had my first baby, and it was life changing!! In the thick of postpartum, I had clothes that were comfortable and easy to put on, made me feel like myself, and looked put together at a time when I didn't have energy for thinking about clothes. You will thank yourself for doing it!

I have been following you Jennifer since your very early days and adopted the 10 item wardrobe several years ago and yes have saved a fortune. I live in the UK where I need to layer, so have tweaked it a bit to 7 outfits with a matching cardi - one for each day of the week. My two basic formulas are jeans or navy trousers and a pretty top plus the co-ordinating cardi, or a dress and cardi. I still struggle with shoes though as I find I need about 4 different styles. Hmm, maybe I need to make smart shoes my core shoe wardrobe and the casual shoes are my extras. I like dressing up and feel really slobby in casual shoes - would never in a million years wear trainers/sneakers. Thanks for all your inspiration, particularly your recipes - I have made the chicken pesto mozzarella recipe several times and guests have enjoyed it too.

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I love that Rungolee dress; the colour is stunning. I need to work on building core items, as I feel like I'm living in extras and feel very drab.

Thank so very much for going more into depth about what counts as extra. The 10 item wardrobe intrigues me, yet completely confuses me. I tried it for a month. I was giving it a month because I live in a climate that spring and fall temps can drastically change from one day to the next. To combat that I have to have a LOT of layering pieces and various items. I actually don’t have a huge wardrobe anyway, but even doing it for the one month did help me narrow down my style more so I don’t over shop.

@melligolightly

Жыл бұрын

I combat this by having 10 item wardrobes for each season, which are accessible at all times. Since it is not too much overall, everything fits in my standard sized closet. When it is spring, but it is a cold day, I just take something from my fall wardrobe, for example. Or I slide single pieces in these transitional seasons, e. g. wear a "spring" trouser but with a "fall" longsleeve top.

This was so good, Jennifer - thank you! I didn't realize that I needed this clarification, but it did clarify things for me. To know the differentiation between the special pieces which express your style, and the others is very helpful to me. I'm going to look into my ten (ish) pieces again, with a sharper eye! :) xoxo

Loved the Video keep up the Good work

Loved the video. This is an area I definitely need to work on. I tend to dress too comfortable and casual. BTW I LOVE your wardrobe and I LOVE your wallpaper. Love from Florida.

Jennifer you inspire me to keep going. I now have a 3 week old new born and somehow wish I was more put together and organized. So now many of the clothes I enjoy will take awhile to fit again. I'll get there but I feel like tossing everything in my closet to exchange for something that fits well in this season.

@GaPeach2018

9 ай бұрын

Give yourself grace - this is your season and it’s bound to be chaotic and disorganized. Enjoy 😊

I hope to be able to do this at least by Fall. It's been really hard for me to find things I like in my size and at an affordable price. It seems that the cost of everything has gone up and I am guilty of giving up especially when I am at home. I'm much better about work, church or going out of the house, but I realize that I need to do much better even when I'm at home all day.

Question - So many style gurus espouse the virtue of “effortless” style. What is so wrong with looking like a bit of thought and effort into was put one’s appearance? I believe one of the benefits of the ten item wardrobe is that planning of the wardrobe allows one to always look like you made an effort. Dressing can be quick and easy on the day, but not look effortless because of the care that went in to choosing the pieces initially.

@softsophisticate

Жыл бұрын

Ooohh effortless style. I find that so hard to pull off. It is a real skill to get right. Of the two women I know who managed it wonderfully, on analysis, it was a blend of relaxed and chic. eg a soft denim shirt, with the sleeves loosely rolled up, and having a chic bob hairstyle, or soft jeans and white t-shirt with french style red lipstick or nail varnish - never both. Both were inately stylish. They knew what they were doing, there was nothing effortless in the thought process behind how they curated their look. One was 1/2 French, the other very slim, chic and artistic. Their personas were very relaxed, which added to the effect. I look better in a more obvious structured dressed up look - I also find it easier. If I got effortless chic wrong I would just look a crumpled mess and like I had just got out of bed. The model Kate Moss has an effortless style that is much admired. Her outfits are always simple but have a bit of a crumpled 70's rock chick vibe.

Hi Jennifer, I'm very grateful for you and your videos. I've enrolled in your master class and bought your Madame Chic book as well as Connoisseur Kids. These are the areas I homeschool my children in while my husband focuses on academia. I'm finding your material to be so helpful. For my kids and I. Recently I purchased a denim Tomi dress that made me feel great! My husband was with me and we both knew it was my true style. :D It has been my goal to wear more dresses but found it challenging to find one casual enough to feel comfortable in. I bought it thoughtfully. I was so pleased how versatile it was. It had a zipper to wear more formally zipped or down casually. It had long sleeves that could button at full length or be folded up for warner weather. It had a belt that could be worn casually loose or cinched and more form fitting. It had pockets. :) I realized I could wear this to clean, to church, to work, out with the ladies. That was one of my first big wins learnt from Connoisseur School! My husband has also paid me compliments for implementing etiquette with our children. We had a family gathering and he was so pleased that they were shaking hands with eye contact and ordering confidently off the menu. Thank you for being my etiquette coach and for encouraging me to be my true self. I'm getting closer and I like me.

@TheDailyConnoisseur

Жыл бұрын

This is so wonderful to hear. Thank you! ♥️

“You, yourself are worthy of dressing well.”

@TheDailyConnoisseur

Жыл бұрын

Love you, Kat! ♥️

The less you care, the happier you will be.

Jennifer, thank you for this. I agree it’s very important to represent yourself well especially as you mature. I’m just now getting started with this and I am trying to figure out places to buy quality pieces. I’m drawn to silk dresses but I don’t know what labels or designers are good. If you have any tips about where to go to find things that would be great.

it is a beautiful dress xxx

Thank you for a beautiful, encouraging video. I've been binge-watching the past videos since I discovered you! So inspiring. You have a lovely style. I wish some of the brands you mention were available here in South Africa...especially the underwear.

Your discipline and positivity is always so inspiring! I tend to fall into a trap of not wanting to invest the time to shop for new clothes, especially when I am not at my preferred size/weight. I end up just reaching for whatever fits comfortably but those items are never the most flattering on me. Any advice?

@littlebungalowinthewoods858

Жыл бұрын

Minimal mom talks about this, she basically says you deserve to have some nice clothes that you like and feel good in no matter what size you are right now. I would just buy a few put together outfits for now, maybe not the most expensive if you don’t think you’ll end up wearing them long.

@milissamartin7226

Жыл бұрын

Jennifer from The Everyday Style School podcast says 2 things that I think can help reframe these thoughts. (I might be paraphrasing, it’s how I remember it.) 1. If you want to change how you feel, you have to change what you see. If you start dressing better, you will feel better, you will show up for life differently, you will take better care of yourself…and that will help you reach your goals. 2. Nobody ever felt better by dressing frumpy. I encourage you to buy at least a few pieces that you like and enjoy wearing at the size you are today. And wear them! Don’t leave the beautiful clothes hanging (to save them for special occasions)…every day is a special occasion. Also, nobody but you knows what the size tag says. Buy the pieces that fit…ignore the tag. Good luck! 😊

Jennifer you look lovely! I think you got a beautiful haircut!! Live all your tips about the ten item wardrobe!! You are described me! I am so happy to have cleaned my closet out and now I am overwhelmed about what I am going to wear! Thank you. I love your green sweater! You are always elevating women and family. So charming so elegant so beautiful so classy. You are a breath of fresh air in the middle a culture that trashes elegance. Thank you ! Keep calm and remain classy🎉🎉🎉🎉😂😂😂😂

Great reminder to think about the purpose of the ten item wardrobe over the exact number of clothing! I would love suggestions about how to layer when inside the house. Our family keeps the house very cool and our climate is hot and humid. I find myself wearing pajama pants under my dresses and a robe over the dress and then taking them off to go outside. Not very cute!

I like your haircut 😊

I'm thoroughly enjoying your POISE book and am almost done with it. So many things I can relate to. I enjoyed the drawings of Audrey Hepburn and as a preteen was compared to her (though I thought that it was an insult at the time :() Referring to a below post, years ago, hubby and I went to a posh bistro in our area. I phoned them ahead of time to inquiry about their dress code which was casual nice business. So, we dressed accordingly. To my surprise, a couple at the other table (not kids or teenagers) were dressed like they just stepped out of a Happy Days tv show (the guy looked like Fonzie and the woman was wearing a housedress and hair curlers. I haven't been back to that restaurant since. Imagine what the clientele dresses like now! OY!

I appreciate this video. I had some of those questions myself. I do have another question if you have time, Jennifer. I would describe my style as romantic (I like a little bit of lace and some ruffles) and definitely feminine. But in the spring and summer, my kids and I are outside a lot. We do nature hikes, play outside, eat al fresco meals. How do I maintain my "true style" in a wardrobe while still dressing appropriately for the occasion which this time of year is mostly casual? I'm not a t shirt kind of girl but dressing fancy seems unwise for outdoor romping. Any ideas you could share would be appreciated!

Jennifer, so helpful as always, and beautiful clothing...thank you! Would you be able to share where you found the cardigan with the small navy stripes across the middle?