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@collateraldamage6412

4 жыл бұрын

Hi Angel I learned this . They love court always play the victim . Play innocent . They are bottom feeders and leeches

@whiterabbittalks4763

3 жыл бұрын

My life is really suffering and my boys. Please help me, how do I expose this to the press? I have nothing to offer him or anyone but I need to save my children and I. Idk how to check my replies on here yet but please, please email me. I need help badly. Thank you quinbyt@gmail.com

@AngelJStormPhD

3 жыл бұрын

Click the one-on-one coaching information link right above your comment

@xq3451

3 жыл бұрын

@@AngelJStormPhD yes, will do. thanks. am in CT, need your help with civil debt collection case. had awful mediation yesterday.

@SM-ic1zu

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you

Narcissist mindset: “your income is our money, my income is my money”

@grandexporter

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@artmeacademywiththesaltyse9537

3 жыл бұрын

Living that right now. Unreal!!

@jennodine

3 жыл бұрын

@@artmeacademywiththesaltyse9537 Honey, you need to get out ASAP. Don’t tell him you’re leaving and don’t confront him about his behavior. He knows it’s wrong. If you work, find a new job before you exit stage left, so he has no way to find you after you make yourself vanish. Do not tell him it’s over. Do not hold him accountable. Cut your losses and run for your life.

@bonnieblood3983

3 жыл бұрын

After we got married he told me he needed $8000 for his farm. I said ok, let's sit down and figure out how we can get this together. Him: "NO, I need it NOW! Get it off your credit card." Also him: "why I thought when you were married, what belongs to one, belongs to the other." Uh huh...what belonged to me belonged to him, what belongs to him still belonged to him. Worthless pos.

@talismonk1299

3 жыл бұрын

i'm being taken to court for child support right now with 50/50 because my ex feels as though i owe him half of what he spends. he makes more than double what i make.

Not a good idea to give anything up to a narc. They won't honor agreements. Go for it all and be ruthless.

The reason you loose in court to a narcissist is because the narcissist provokes you. They get you riled up in front of the judge and they are cool as a cucumber.

Ive been in court with my first ex narc( the mother of my 2 sons) for more than 15 years and Ive endured all the hardships. Its never been a motion file from my part against her on those records at the end my boys are older now and we are finally enjoying a better and healthy father-son relation.

@rogerr6322

3 жыл бұрын

Damn

@arronhardie1737

2 жыл бұрын

The system fails when it comes to a narc parent. Malicious parent syndrome has such a damaging effect on our children. We play the game, comply and hope for the courts to see what's been truly going on, but 99.9% of the time it's overlooked

I realized lawyers were not advocating for me and my kids, so now self represented! One year of fighting for my kids in court. So true, you have to step up and be a voice for yourself. Lawyers told me just to give up on getting my kids. His lawyer is a narc too, they just got the smackdown from the judge because they tried to bully the family consultant and change his report. She's basically his mouthpiece of abuse aimed at me. My trial is in less than two weeks so your videos are helpful thank you 🙏

@AngelJStormPhD

3 жыл бұрын

Yes! I have two videos on exposing a narc in court that show you how to do this. Please check them out!! I'm praying for you, momma. You are so strong and your light will shine in this darkness

@justaweirdblonde1954

3 жыл бұрын

@@AngelJStormPhD thank you I will watch. Very kind words thankyou 🙏 I am blessed God has given me courage and tenacity that others may not have in this awful system. I've sat in court hearing other abused mothers losing their kids because they tried to commit suicide because of their ex 😥 people like you are so important so please keep doing your good work and God bless you 🙏💜

@AngelJStormPhD

3 жыл бұрын

It's heartbreaking!! Your victory will bring others theirs. 🙏 You're doing amazing 🔥

@lw2072

3 жыл бұрын

@justweirdblonde How did you get a family consultant. I plan to represent myself again but, anything I filed they didn’t acknowledge me. So lawyers I end up with didn’t help me! When I represented myself , I did go before the Judge and won a preliminary on every thing but the Narc. Hired a Narc. Who was shady I got a lawyers who failed me, and it’s a battle! How did you press through. I’m going back to represent myself!

@justaweirdblonde1954

3 жыл бұрын

@@lw2072 family consultant was appointed by the judge in my case. My advice is get evidence. I've submitted as much as I can think of, my daughter's school reports she had high grades with me, now she is failing class with her dad. Things like that to show kids were doing well with you 💜 it's horrible but it's our purpose to be mothers, we will walk through fire for them, so this is the fire you have to walk through. You can do it.

I live with a relative whos a narc (covert passive aggressive). I was fleeing from another narc. Who was physically abusive too. It's so stressful dealing with these kind of people I have a daughter and I am trying to protect her constantly. I honestly feel that they (courts/legal system) need to really learn what this is. It's not just someone who stares at himself or herself in the mirror. What people need to protect their child is one thing, getting it or being able to get those things that are badly needed, is another. If someone really is dealing with a narcissist or sociopath, learn everything you need to learn to predict exactly how they'll behave. Do not worry about financial priorities, like getting money who gets what, because if you really are dealing with a narc, that will be the least of your concerns. Just the children. Top priority. Be calm, rational all the time. Do what is right. Do not speak over the judge. Always present yourself as the good person you are. Nature will do the rest. They will reveal their character. Be calm.

@Lgarcia212

2 жыл бұрын

I needed ti to hear that. I pray my situation works out for the best. I need to keep my girls safe

Thank you so much. I go to mediation in 4 days. So glad I found you. I speak God's Favour over me. You are such a blessing. God be with you and everyone on this channel.

If God is on your side no weapon against you shall prosper

H o l y s h i t ! The words in this video are exactly what I needed to hear! Thank you so much girl!!! 😘💪🏼

PRO BONO - You can find an attorney who will take your case pro bono. Keep knocking on doors. Attorneys are encouraged to take pro bono cases to ensure equal representation it is good for business. Double up on your self care to better handle the stress. Be concise with what you want when talking to the attorney. Write out all questions and take them with you. Take notes. Be willing to do leg work or at least read the local statutes on child custody/ the best interest of the child/ abuse/ divorce etc. Each state is different, each county and even each judge. Write out what you want and what your willing to give up. I can't emphasis enough to double up on self care. If that is a new term to you that is where to start with your healing. Blessings.

Wow, yes! Correct! I was the one compromising, giving the benefit of the doubt, forgiveness etc… Nope, if the re playing a game you don’t know… learn the game, be strong. ESP of your kids are suffering.

I am in a lifelong battle with my ex-husband. I am currently estranged from my son. I really don’t know what to do at this point. I understand getting me to walk away was part of his strategy.

@AngelJStormPhD

3 жыл бұрын

🙏🙏 praying for you to receive guidance

@ursulaward6023

3 жыл бұрын

Parental alienation

Yes I lost the battle in court the judge was infatuated with the narcissist didn’t even let me speak my side of my story

@heatherlynn3438

3 жыл бұрын

@S Daniel G May God BLESS YOU! And KEEP YOU! Turn to God and cry out to HIM to turn this around! Don’t you give up! I will pray for you and your children every day for your 100% victory! I pray for protection over your children in Jesus name amen! Psalm 91!

@fatgirlboy9341

3 жыл бұрын

@S Daniel G Mine turned everyone against me and betrayed me too. I kept my lawyers as I think they had way more experience. I switched many lawyers initially. Now I am confident with mine. They know where we should not play nasty like them in court. Judges don’t have the mood for dramas.

@jdub164

2 жыл бұрын

Me too years ago. I'm now facing another custody situation with another narc.

@Ohhhoneyyy

2 жыл бұрын

@KingArthur'sKid I’m going throughout all of this with my sons grandparents. Dont let it eat you alive because that’s when he wins. Fck that asshole!!!! You’re strong and you got this. Dont give up and don’t settle for less than what you deserve.

@heatherlynn3438

2 жыл бұрын

@KingArthur'sKid How’s it going now?

I loved the theme of personal responsibility and hope in this - good chat. I've been so frustrated that our litigation is taking so long - he has been in control of that. The flip side is that it has allowed me some distance to build resilience and to really own my journey and understand my worth.

You are a blessing sis . Praise God that He called you

You are speaking exactly what I am battling right now with this black soul. Patience is a virtue and I’m going to book coaching with you to help me with this journey

@AngelJStormPhD

3 жыл бұрын

🙏🙏🙏

Hey! U r awesome. U glanced over at my paperwork for court and commented on it Good work

@AngelJStormPhD

3 жыл бұрын

Hi Fernando, welcome!

I just started watching your channel today and you're awesome! You are right when you say that we pick lawyers who are like us. I fired 2 lawyers in the last 2 years, and they were kind of like me so I made that mistake. You make a lot of sense with what you're saying, thanks!

@AngelJStormPhD

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much - glad the videos are helping and welcome to my channel!

@mattconny4931

3 жыл бұрын

I’m in the same situation ... fighting a narcissist and I’ve been evicted from our home with my minor child... yes the system failed my child and I and yes my lawyers have messed up! Fired two lawyers now

@jennifernovelli214

2 жыл бұрын

Hey there ! My lawyers withdrew from the case because we were at 28,000 before first Med. My narc ended up in the hospital for alchol and drug. His lawyer is hiding. He ended up on disability for 25 weeks. I do own the house and am on the deed. How did you go about finding new council? We are going to court this Friday but I just lost my lawyer last Monday. He is living with his gf in a luxury apartment. He never asked to see my son till now. He lived here with his gf. Will the court want him to own the apartment? I am so happy you fired lawyers that did not listen. I wanted too from the beginning but my brother gave me the down payment!

Thank you so much for your knowledge

As a pentacostal christian and a 28 year old who has a legal guardian who a psychopath or a narsassist....the first 49 seconds was a wake up call. And as you keep speaking i am greatful the more.

@AngelJStormPhD

3 жыл бұрын

🙏🙏

Wow. Thank you so much! 🙏🌥

Need a GAL and can’t afford one, And my son is suffering lashing out at me on things his Narcissistic Dad is saying and so not true. My son has blocked out the years of abuse from his Dad to me. In his eyes his Dad has done no wrong. Just like it’s so much and it’s like never ending.

@aprilb.4443

2 жыл бұрын

Same here. So I’ll have to take him down too

I wish I had the money to see my therapist

Shut down all ways you can show you can do things instead of cant. Makes sense. Using motions to litigate so so so so much. This HAPPENED!!!!!! wow. I was right!

Praise God, I needed to hear this today. I thank the Lord CPS are taking the lead on this. But I also will fight so my son does not get messed up.

@AngelJStormPhD

3 жыл бұрын

Good for you for fighting for him!! 🙏🙏

@russellm7530

3 жыл бұрын

Good job. I'm 53 yrs old and need to try and take my narcasistic mother to court somehow. I just learned about NARCASISM a few years ago. Good luck and God bless you.

Not sure if you read these. However please keep up your amazing work. I’m learning so much from you. I’ve been in a 6 year custody battle. Sure wish I could find someone like you in Louisiana.

@AngelJStormPhD

2 жыл бұрын

So glad the videos are helping you!

Watching right now!!!!

Exceptional video and very helpful, I’m in the middle of what you say..

I am deal with the same behavior and you have hit it on the nail.

you are beautiful ..you make great points. You are so right... i may have to change my attorney .. I try to avoid conflict and confrontation.

The only thing that can be worse than having to deal with a narcissist is going to court with one. Whether it is a civil suit (for example a divorce case) or a criminal case in case they committed a terrible crime, the narcissist will do whatever they can to make themselves appear the victim and hurt by the mess. A narcissist in court is more toxic than dealing with one privately. They will go to extreme measures to make you the villain. We all know someone who has dealt with a narcissist in court or dealt with one ourselves. They are known to play dirty in court. Narcissists can seem like they will break in court but they will always find a way to work around and cover up their lies with more lies because the narc lies in court almost every time. With the right moves and tactics, sometimes they are able to convince the judge and jury that they were the victim after all.

@AngelJStormPhD

4 ай бұрын

Yep! 💯💯💯💯

The videos I have watched make it seem like the person who goes to court is the nasrcissist when it can be the other way round.Sometimes all you have left is going to court.

@AngelJStormPhD

3 жыл бұрын

Yes absolutely! 100% true

@Reality.juiced

3 жыл бұрын

I think it's because it's so common for narcissists to use the court system to further abuse.

Narcissists and Empaths both gain respect but in different ways

I’m currently having to go to court against my narcissistic grandparents. I constantly speak up about problems and the way they treat people and they can’t stand it. I’m now facing eviction and have court the 19th. I have multiple recordings of them being rude, calling the police on me, etc.

Completely the TRUTH!!!!!!!

Thank you!

Wowwww I love this video!!!!

You are a saint!

@AngelJStormPhD

3 жыл бұрын

Hope this helped you 🙏🙏

My narc is my aged care provider. Works for a company that supplies carers and other services. Who would ever have thought they would be thrown to a narc in this situation? At the end of your life that you would be put through this? I have only just learnt about narcissists and thank God I have.

This is essential, thank you. How to convince the court ( very early on) that the case can only be solved by permanent no contact, and that the court is essentially jamming the flow?

Thank you

Well Said

This is such correct information. Can we speak? I'm in court right now fighting a narc for custody.

@AngelJStormPhD

7 ай бұрын

You can email me details at info@themanifoldmind.com

Thank you for this I am done seeing her and others just walk away and move to the next person the want to destroy. This has to stop this is a very abusive crime and the more we all stand up and be strong then maybe the courts WILK start to see it. I you touch someone once you can go to jail but they destroy men and women and familys over and over and walk free to hurt someone else. I am going to stand up for all who have been in this abuse. I have been destroyed as well as others and I an not going to jyst move on and let them do it again. This is going to kill me and be so hard I truly love her and don't want to f cking up her life I don't but I have protected her over everyone lost my family and friends. It's time to protect everyone else. Anyone who has gone through this shit this is for me you and the next victim. Wish me luck and give me live and support. Love you all and sorry for you pain

Handle narc? Resist not evil, overcome evil with good.

I hired Mr Joshi from Michigan ! Hopefully some results soon

The hard truth!

@AngelJStormPhD

Жыл бұрын

That it is! Hopefully this video enables you to take a different path and make a different choice!

I need to take my ex husband to court and get primary custody. He moved out of state and didnt notify me. But honestly, it's a can of worms I'm afraid to open up....

@AS-kp1xu

2 жыл бұрын

Dealing with this now.

This is helpful but litigation costs a fortune, I in the middle of it, the cost of litigation is bankrupting me you do NOT get your legal fees back in a battle like this? I have tried ALL alternatives, he simply is not a person that will give up ANYTHING AT ALL! I have tried and tried and tried. I am asking for resolution from the court and have taken the high ground the entire time. Perhaps you are right I hired too ethical a attorney.

thank you for this video! It's just what I needed to hear. Unfortunatly, in Germany you are not allowed to renounce to alimony legally because its something the child has a right to obtain. eather way, more then money "my" narcissist wants and needs control over our child. I don't think he will stop until he has his revenge ( i left him) and has destroyed me. He knows our child is what i care and love most so he needs to take him away from me....

@AngelJStormPhD

3 жыл бұрын

I am so sorry your experiencing that! that is such a narcissist thing to do. You might not be able to legally renounce alimony but you could offer to pay it back to him every month in exchange for him keeping his distance or in exchange for longer periods of time sharing with your child 🙏

@klararybnikarova7731

3 жыл бұрын

greets from Germany...same here..I hate this system and that the kid has a right to have a father,no matter how his father treats him.he didnt give a shit for the kid for 2 years since break up,now when he sees we are doing well without him he wanna get sorgerecht and fight for umgang.but all he wants is to destroy me and have power over the kid, to manipulate me further.so sad...

@minitayeye

2 жыл бұрын

Oh, my god. This is exactly what's happening to me right now. I'm from Mexico.

@Fatima_7980

2 жыл бұрын

Hello there, any advice to give me pease. I just started my battle here in Germany with a narcissistic husband and 2 kids. I escaped to the Frauenhaus with my kids but I feel lost..

Court is tomorrow!!!!! Wooooooowwwwww this was made for me to Watch tonight (Canada)🇨🇦

@shaniecegullison

3 жыл бұрын

@nero zero been going on for a year now. Not good

Exactly what I wanted to do. He is a millionaire and I can’t believe he is legit dark triad. Stuff you wouldn’t believe. Money is his world so news is next

This is what I'm going through RIGHT NOW. She's lying about me, saying I'M the abuser when it's really been HER all along(for years) , and they're eating it up like crack. I'm so scared for my daughter to go with her. I need help.!😢😢😢😢

@christopherevans3034

3 жыл бұрын

Me too man good luck :(

@jessl5281

3 жыл бұрын

@@christopherevans3034 Me toooo omfg its unreal

@russellm7530

3 жыл бұрын

God bless you and your kids. I hope and pray for the best.

@rogerr6322

3 жыл бұрын

You gotta fight bro

@Reality.juiced

3 жыл бұрын

Same

I appreciate your insight with strategy. I’m curious, what do you recommend when the narc values nothing but custody of the child?

@MsDriedel

2 жыл бұрын

That my issue too 😔

@leonieallen2260

2 жыл бұрын

She's spoken about it in a video that that is not what they would actually want as narcs don't care about people. I'm sure it was her but I've watched so many I couldn't tell you which one. That wanting the children is about power and control over you.

What if you were stay at home mom, 23 yrs, left with child , homeless, no car, on welfare. No lawyer $$, and no resources for actual help! All I hear is lawyer, I have nothing else to give , but my child. I will never allow him to further destroy my child’s life! Court doesn’t deal with emotions, so therefore do not recognize psychological abuse. Heck physical violence against women, has only been recognized in the last 40 yrs!

Dang. So true. Her attorney is also a narcissist!

My in laws are harassing us with the courts and I’m honestly so disgusted in NYS legal system . They think they’re entitled to see my son even after calling CPS making up allegations, try to sabotage my recovery, drink excessive etc and the courts ignored me until an altercation happened and now they’re accusing me of harassing second degree smh it never ends ....

@SM-ic1zu

2 жыл бұрын

You may have to move.

@Ohhhoneyyy

2 жыл бұрын

@@SM-ic1zu yeah that’s what police actually said to me as well..

@SM-ic1zu

2 жыл бұрын

@@Ohhhoneyyy I had to. As long as the other side is paying, they will keep going. Research before going, look at your order with regards to moving. Changing your jurisdiction will help. The system out there does not have the childs best interest in mind. I wish you the best.

@Ohhhoneyyy

2 жыл бұрын

@@SM-ic1zu You’re right and it’s so sad.. thank you for the advice I definitely think it’s time to make an escape plan to freedom any day now 😔 wish you the best too

I won't lose if I ever get my day in court. One- the truth is what matters and being publicly heard whether anyone believes me or not. Two- I am a walking billboard of the physical trauma I've endured my whole life at the hands of disgusting and corrupt things. Three- I am my own DNA, and four, I don't believe real humans with real morals will lie about what nasty things done to me.

I found out yesterday from my lawyer I have to go to trial with my narcissist husband. I don’t know why we aren’t trying mediation or anything else. I’m very worried about being on trial against his bulldog lawyer.

@ThisAmber

3 жыл бұрын

Mediation with a narcissist is just not worth it. Court is scary, but get your evidence together and let that and the narcissist speak. They’ll do the work for you.

@JesusIsGod.

3 жыл бұрын

@@ThisAmber please explain what you mean by letting the narc speak. The judges always believe his lying behind!

@fatgirlboy9341

3 жыл бұрын

if the other side don’t want to mediate than nothing will come out of the mediation meeting.

I'm told by my lawyer I'm stuck in shared custody the problem is he's placing the kids firmly in the middle brain washing them I feel saddened by the abuse. Playing the victim he earned the restraining order all by himself long story stalking harrassment behavior and threats of violence. As well child abuse towards one of our kids I tried to report it I didn't know the protocol bring the child to the hospital. Instead my ex chose to lie in court and manipulate things I had proof just not printed was blindsided saying I left a bunch of bs which never happened. I'm told custody is set against this monster who has lied to our kids his gf I actually had to block them both threats of custody this is recently and giving out my number without my permission I didn't know anything about her I found out about her through the kids. I don't know what to do I want to go for full custody against him unfortunately the court doesn't want to go back my daughter is 11 I want my kids to be loved and safe there's no contact between parties of any kind I didn't know where the kids were living or that he has a live in nothing regarding our children. No child support or paying medical bills or taking them to any appointments. My lawyer seems confident he won't continue to place the kids in the middle unfortunately I feel will continue his behavior. I see the kids mentally are suffering they were falling school my parents have been helping them in school I work in healthcare evening hours It's very difficult the sacrifices I've given up this yr. We only book appointments on my weeks with the children I don't understand the court system I can prove that the children are in the middle from the beginning and that he hasn't taken on any responsibilities I find it very sad when someone is doing more damage as well as accusing me of false allegations which I never did I'm telling the truth. I find the court system very difficult for ppl who are victims of conjugal abuse as well as the children I find a lot is mental abuse. Continuing to lie It's very difficult. I'm trying not to loose it ,but I'm deeply saddened by what he's doing to our kids. I won't be sitting in a doc office next to him acting like everything is ok when It's not the children don't feel safe they don't want to go their told they have to go by their father's when he's telling them lies I'm not allowed to even defend myself and tell the truth towards the children I know the truth I say nothing when they bring up anything to do with him. I hate the situation I really do I wish my kids had a say I have no witnesses Maybe one friend that knows the truth Maybe a few that know I'm a good parent i didn't didn't do what hes saying any advice I'm going to trail against him and I'm told custody is set my response was I'm stuck in shared when there's no contact and high conflict divorce he's basically fighting over petty things. The items he's fighting over he abandoned 3 plus yrs ago I want to move forward in life and find love or at least a real relationship that counts. I did all things she suggested and it still didn't work from August to now it was negotiating out court which got nowhere. I want sole decision making and full custody over our kids and I'm told I'm stuck in shared custody he lied to the evaluator it breaks my heart what he continues to do towards our children. I'm going to trail hes going back over things furniture and won't pay anything I look at it as parrarell parenting I basically have no say on his weeks with our children I don't like the situation

I have a 18 month old I share with someone who I was never in a relationship with. But he continues ro abuse the system by being able to obtain a restraining order against me and was granted. And that is his way to continue to control me and even with order in place he continues to make sexual advantages at me and will buy me flowers and jewelry etc...and I've just continues to to tell him his behavior is unwelcome. And the rejection he doesn't take to well and will have me arrested because I do not want what his advantages or any attention from him. And I've been arrested and jailed for his controlling behavior and the system is enabling him to continue to abuse me and control me and using it to his advantage in family court. I have ptsd from all this. I don't know what to do I have an attorney for My family court but I want the system to know his action are not ok but I'm not being heard.

Thanks for the video! How did you involve the press in your case? I’m in custody litigation with a narcissist at the moment and in the beginning him and his (yes also narc) attorney we’re pulling wild abusive moves

Hello, my sister is my narc. I wish there was more info on family narc situation.

"that somebody is you"

I'm so happy I realize my ex-husband was a narcissist. A lady from my old church is the one who put me on to start researching narcissism. I had been in court with my ex-husband since our son was 6 years old all the way up to now when he is 14. I did get remarried and moved from Florida to Pennsylvania. Even though my ex attempted to keep our son. Thank God he is married to a good woman that I was able to call and we were able to have a 2-hour conversation. She could believe what I was saying to her because she was going through the same things that I was going through when I was married to him. So I praise and thank the Lord so much that she was supportive. Even after he agreed an hour before going before the judge that I could move with our son they still wanted us to go to mediation. Him and his lawyer were asking for the most ridiculous things in mediation. I gave him pretty much everything. The only thing I didn't agree to is that he wanted us to use one of those court-appointed apps to communicate on which would cost me even more money. I said I agree to that just as long as he pays for it. Of course he did not want to pay for it. I even agree to no child support, that he wouldn't have to help pay for any sports stuff, the only thing he would be financially responsible for is paying 50% of our son's plane tickets. It has been a year-and-a-half since my son has been living in PA and his father has not helped purchase one ticket to see his son. He keeps trying to get me to pay for something we did not agree to. My son was recently in Florida because his aunt got him a ticket to come to her wedding. So now it's almost the summertime in my ex-husband is coming with his games all over again. I was able to shut him down real fast. I also ended up putting him on child support months after I move to PA, because I was laid off from my job (circumstance change) and he was refusing to go half on plane tickets. He was putting all of the financial burden on me. Of course he's trying to get me to take him off child support but that will never happen lol 😂 he's only paying a little bit of money in all reality. I wasn't being greedy. I only get $350 a month. Our son will be 15 this summer and I am counting down three more years lol 😅 one of the petty things he asked for in mediation is before our son goes and spends more than two nights at anyone's house I must contact him first to see if he wants to keep our son for the two nights. Like really you idiot you want to see if you want to waste money to fly our son down to Florida for two nights LOL I agree to it LOL 🤣 they are just so ridiculous. Once you really study narcissism they become so predictable and it can become a game to you like it is to them. Of course it's painful of course it's painful for your kids but if you can find some humor in this it will make life so much easier for you and the kids. And also I am a firm believer in our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ and it has been the Lord who has gotten us through all of these years with dealing with this man and other people just like him. And also going to counseling. I am free in Christ Jesus. So is my son. He accepted Jesus Christ last year and was baptized. He see straight through all of his father's nonsense. I made sure slowly but surely I educated him a little by little about narcissism without using the words. I got him to understand what people are trying to do when they're trying to change reality and how it is not right. I explain to him what normal people do versus what non-normal people do. Also every time he had a complaint about his grandmother and his father I would listen to him. I would not make up excuses for them. I would help him through it by saying let's pray for them understand that that was wrong and how we can deal with it together. I always have my son's back no matter what. He seen that his father never had his back against his horrible grandmother. who was also a narcissist that raised a narcissist. Because my son is older I also let him read the court documents so he understood what the rules were also. So when his dad comes with the lies he remembers what his father and I agreed to. Because it's about him that's the only reason I shared just the portion of what we agreed to about how we are to care for our child. That has also helped my son see through the foolishness. There's no protecting his father we only speak the truth. 1 court tip I would give is if you do a deposition or even during trial know how to ask a narcissist questions to get them to tell on themselves. People have made videos on that. My lawyer did not understand narcissism but after sharing some things with her that I understand who I was fighting in court she did use my questions during a deposition and it worked. She could not believe how well it work. Just an example: they'll ask them do they believe that it's important for two parents to share communication about a child. The Narcissist will say yes. The lawyer will ask do you think that it is good to agree upon things before doing things? The narcissist will say yes. Then the lawyer will come back with if you do believe that's true how come at this time and that time you did not communicate, you made a decision on your own several times, you have made medical decisions without consulting the other parent, you sign the child up for so many activities and took them out of the country without letting the other party know, etc. You allow them to tell on themselves! It works 💪

@tinaf600

2 жыл бұрын

One more thing LOL I was not afraid to lose my child to his father. I pray to the Lord and I said my son is your child before he is my child. You see the harm that is happening to him at the hands of his father. I ask you Lord God to intervene in the situation for Your child. I asked him to uproot and expose everything that his father was doing. For the Lord to give me the wisdom I needed. And if my son was to choose to stay with his father for the Lord to give both of us the strength that we needed to be separated from each other. I was very realistic and said the worst that could happen to him by staying with his father's that he would not do well in school. Of course he would continue with emotional damage but I was not going to take that responsibility on. I let my son know if he chose to stay with his father and changed his mind my door would always be open to him. You know what my son said to me? He said I'm going to come with you because I know if I change my mind it will be easier to go back to Florida that if I were to change my mind with my dad and come to PA. Trust me a lot of these kids know. I was forced to leave him in Florida for almost 3 months because the judge did not agree with him leaving his Florida family behind. His father showed up to court with pictures to prove he had so much family in Florida. My lawyer never advised me to bring pictures. We just put it on paper that he has several cousins and everything in Pennsylvania. So please do not forget pictures and videos to prove who you are and who the people will be around your child to the court. That's why the judge decided that my son was not coming with me. We did have another court case and that's when I contacted my ex-husband's wife. For that time that my son was away from me he said he was depressed and also suicidal. I had no clue until he got up here that my son was dealing with all of that at 13 yrs old. I was also depressed and it was hard to get out of bed. But the Lord was showing me that I had to depend on him 100% like I had to get out of myself and start caring for other people and pray for other people while he fought my battle. I think it was also the Lord's way to show my son it was better for him to be with me, so we fought together. Also because his father and grandmother were listening to his conversations we had to have a code phrase so we knew it was not safe to freely talk to each other. Man oh man God is so good! Thank you Lord for all you've done 🥰🥳😭🥺✝️♥️🙌

@SwtnSourEzell

7 ай бұрын

I really appreciated your long detailed comment!!!❤❤

@tinaf600

7 ай бұрын

@@SwtnSourEzell wow you're welcome. My son is 16 1/2 now :) God bless you ✝️♥️

How do I deal with a narcissist in court against them? How do I prove to the court that they are one?

how did you go top the press? What did you talk about Did you go to a particular media ?

My ex is taking me to court with demestic assault but I didn’t touch him but I caught him with another women. I told her he gave me a std. then I left can you tell me what to do. And yes he had me arrested.

The judge made me sign and give my crazy husband 13000 in ins funds and mine and my sons stimulus payments over to him and he's not going to fix the house or hand over my money...haven't heard a word from him since he got checks. He paid his first child support pymt with a personal check...I'm gonna cash it through our still active joint account so it doesn't just hurt me when it bounces.

My narcissist can't be negotiated with.

@threeicys

3 жыл бұрын

same here

@yeahno3510

3 жыл бұрын

@@threeicys I'm sorry to hear that this is your circumstance as well.

@vincentvictory7204

2 жыл бұрын

Any positive updates on this after 10 months?

This is scary I hate confrontation.

@AngelJStormPhD

3 жыл бұрын

It's a necessary part of court

@basebowman2542

3 жыл бұрын

I know, im screwed.

@basebowman2542

3 жыл бұрын

Im just so tired of fighting.

@levans3447

3 жыл бұрын

Im sorry you are going through this.. It is a hard fight. Stay strong in the Lord.

I would liketo try the coaching you offer. How do I do that?

@AngelJStormPhD

Жыл бұрын

The first step is to book a discovery call with me here: bit.ly/3PGEvkE

damn!!! first thing i saw in your video was your beauty. no lie i caught me by surprise, especially cuz you are exactly everything i am attracted by. Your hair, your eyeliner, very light makeup "non of that clown stuff", your eye lashes, like everything your color of your hair and skin tone. To be honest i think you will pass as a high school girl friend date. wow!!!!! i love your video everything about it is so 100 percent accurate and you are so right we need an attorney willing to get loud and is not scared to legally fight. You are a beauty and a worrier. And your husband better notice all them little details i just notice that makes you a beauty. cuz if he dont tell you right when you walk i through the door you can just call me. 😆ok, i got you😆 lol im kidding he is lucky im already to old for you.

My narcissist ex is trying to blame me for exposing the name of the minor he was accused of abusing. Even though he had multiple women he scorned I am being blamed the victim was his daughter she is a minor that he lost parental rights terminated. The daughter even came for me on social media. He also did a lot of hateful racist stuff to me and other females I was accused of lying and he also made fun of me being molested while he was being investigated for molestation. I tried to many times tried to speak out only to be told I'm lying about the abuse and racism because supposedly I wasn't worthy enough to be treated well by him and I need to heal his black girlfriend same race as I, who is supposed to be a 2nd day Adventist christian in a black sorority has attacked me publicly calling me a liar and trash and saying he never hurt me and I need to heal from that yet she says I am lying? He triggered my ptsd, and trauma I was in a better state of mind way before I met him. Also when I saw someone put his victims name online asked the lady twice to take it down. He has always tried to make a point that he didn't use racial slurs, yet currently he has a video that over 8000 people have viewed on tik tok filming a little black girl who's parents were parked making fun of her and his friends commented calling her a porch monkey, yet he has many black supporters especially women, he got me pregnant and discarded me ignored me after my miscarriage. I'm really considering suing his girlfriend and him. It's like a big nightmare also I was witness to some horrible things he said regarding the issue with his child but since I don't have proof I don't think I'll be believed he even called me her name once which was weird. I wish I could go back in time and just never went out with him and paid attention to the red flags more 😪

Do you have any advice on how/if you can expose the sociopathic narcissist in court? Can the judges (eventually) see through them like we can? Do their actions, speak louder than our words..over time? I hope so because it is difficult to have faith that the evidence I can document as proof will be enough to convey the seriousness of the parental alienation he has been getting away with. I miss my baby 😭 I’m fighting for my life to get her back!

@AngelJStormPhD

3 жыл бұрын

I have a video exactly on that. It's called how to expose a narcissist in court. It's really important that you document everything and continue to document everything even when it looks like the evidence doesn't add up to anybody else but you. You're doing so good momma! I am praying for you!! 🙏

the court grated full custody of my son to my narcissistic ex husband and my sweet son who grew up with me doesnt live with me anymore 😭😭😭 i dont know what to do

@justaweirdblonde1954

3 жыл бұрын

I'm going through this too 💜 my two babies have been with my narc ex for a year and fighting to get them back. Don't give up.

@AngelJStormPhD

3 жыл бұрын

Track everything. The narcissists will reap what they've sown. I have a video on how to do this

@judithlanda921

3 жыл бұрын

Angel J. Storm, Ph.D. Which video is it??

@AngelJStormPhD

3 жыл бұрын

Facing a Narcissist in Court. Also Exposing a Narcissist in Court.

@marywolfe4617

3 жыл бұрын

I feel your pain

I am so scared. I just did this. Stay at home mom but our shared child is now in kindergarten full day. Had to take money from shared savings fast to then put 3k on a lawyer do to his threats. I filled all paperwork from the lawyer for divorce. Lawyer wanted alimony. I only asked for 50% time with our son and 50% sell of house. My car that's now paid off and sell 50% of pop up trailer. All the dirt bikes I gave to him. I even had to waste dollars on texting the paralegal when the time comes to not serve him at work because I didn't want him being humiliated there. My lawyer warned me with this behavior that he will file every motion he can and drag it out. I don't have the money for that. His family does though.

Great advice, but what happens when I have been through this, now he calls CPS on me, because he doesn’t like what I want and I don’t have the money to hire an attorney?

@lovewarrior3326

3 жыл бұрын

This is where I am at? I can't afford an attorney his family pays for the world

@fatgirlboy9341

3 жыл бұрын

@@lovewarrior3326 represent yourself and get legal aids then claim legal aids expenses from the other side. even worse for them you have unlimited resources.

Thank u for this. Here’s a question. What do u do if they want is for you to admit you have a drug problem go to rehab for 30 days and are saying you’re a danger to our children and wants full custody unless I do it. I have been discrediting his comments on this with my doctors talking to him everything I can do drug tests, and he is still marching to the beat of that drum. Do you suggest that I give him what he wants? And that’s not me being passive either that’s me just straight up asking what do you do? I’ve been doing it for a year and a half and Standing in my truth but like you said this court system is set for normal. Not TV movies on hallmark Channel fiction.

@jaimieann1882

3 жыл бұрын

NO. I fell for this trick!

@AS-kp1xu

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely not. He wants to label you and be able to show you had a problem so he could hold it over you forever. My friend did this and he destroyed her.

Im in a mess right now 😭😭😭

@shaniecegullison

3 жыл бұрын

@AllsWell L not at all. I've turned to drinking hard. I'm awful. I'm addicted to him and the drug is totally wore off and I'm craving him again but I've blocked him 5 days ago. I'm awful. I hate this. All I do is drink and watch videos

What if he won't stop unless he gets its all

@AngelJStormPhD

Жыл бұрын

This is why documenting everything is so necessary for your case. The other factor is that you need to have an attorney who has the ability to put forth the abuse in a legal manner. Every state has laws that prohibit excessive litigation. If your attorney is not presenting This form of harassment to the judge, the narcissist will get fuel because they are seeing their efforts pay off. You can't control the narcissist. You can control your actions (i.e., documentation, having a strategy in place with your legal team that talks about narcissistic behaviors and what will automatically happen if the narcissist tries these things, etc.) If you play the narcissist game, you will lose.

My ex narc stole bitcoin from me, he cheated on me 2 weeks after I gave birth and abused me, when I left he harassed me. After over a year of court which was not Necessary as I offered him contact with the baby we are now back to 18 months ago where he is going to have contact in a context centre. My ex denied all allegations of abuse, he re wrote history and just lied so well the judge believed him. Its shocking. I disagree with u on negotiating. There is no negotiation with narcs. They won't even give u things which are yours which they have stolen. They thrive on drama and harassing you in court so they will not want it to end.

@AngelJStormPhD

2 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry to hear about your situation. I had to explain this to somebody already today - Your experiences are just that. Yours. Just because negotiations didn't work for you, doesn't mean that they never do. And regardless of that, all but one state require that you go to mediation before you attend court of any kind when there's children involved. Negotiations are built into the process whether you want them to be or not so might as well learn how to make them work for you. I pray the best over you and your baby. 💗

@chessqueen3079

2 жыл бұрын

Yes in UK top we had to do mediation b4 court. It was just a tick box and a game. We agreed a contact centre he then went straight and made a court application ticking the box mediation had been done. It's true if a narcs goal is simply money yes u can negotiate but when ur dealing with a true abuser their goal in court is to keep communicating with you, to feel control over u and to feel they are out smarting judges, it's a real high for them.

offer letters didn’t work. She wants more than I have.

But what about child custody? How can you fight and gain favor against a narcissist?

@AngelJStormPhD

3 жыл бұрын

This is applicable in that situation as well

@charlenecombs3427

3 жыл бұрын

@@AngelJStormPhD thank you so much. Listening to you explain everything I've been going through has given me hope.

@AngelJStormPhD

3 жыл бұрын

🙌🙌 hallelujah!

My narcissist only wants all the time with our child.

@AngelJStormPhD

3 жыл бұрын

That's what you think they want because that's what they want you to think. There's something else they want more. It's always about control.

@grayghost20000

3 жыл бұрын

@@AngelJStormPhD she wants money. However, I did offer her money and she still does not want to make an agreement.

@AngelJStormPhD

3 жыл бұрын

The way you present the offer must make it appear as though the narcissist is winning. Delivery is just as important as what's included in the actual presentation.

@Markus-gf7su

3 жыл бұрын

@@grayghost20000 it's more than likely that she doesn't want to give you more parenting time because if the time shared gets close to 50/50, she knows you can get a recalculation on child support and possibly lower it. Which would be a reasonable thing to do(get a recalculation). If she's anything like my ex, that's exactly what she's thinking about. You might have to go to court to get more parenting time if you can't negotiate with her.

I haven't e my daughter in 2 years. The individual I had her with made sure that I had no rights by not letting me sign birth certificate. I was ignorant and never knew by not doing that I would lose all my rights. There is more but I don't want to write it all it would take a month of sunday's. She was married/sperated from her spouse but at some point moved in. We kept seeing each other she got pregnant had our daughter didn't want her husbands mother to find out our daughter wasn't his because of her selfishness. Now I'm going through court. Proved my DNA established child support and in the end I was denied visitation. I wanted to do this right and not mention the mothers opiate problem and her husbands alcoholism but instead they ended up throwing me under the bus. This information was helpful. I will study more.

@grandexporter

3 жыл бұрын

Do not give up, sometimes you feel like your world is ending when the judge rules against you, but defeat is a state of mind. Fight and fight and fight, fathers who fight and really want there kids will in the end be in their lives one way or another... Its the ones that give up and walk away who live in regret

@ericknelson7355

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for that. It's tough because I never thought I'd have to go through something like this. I appreciate what you said

@grandexporter

3 жыл бұрын

@@ericknelson7355 im living proof, i went and am still going through so many lawsuits, but i have full custody. dont be disheartened, if a judge rules against you and your a good father. f them, get back with your lawyers and go again, find a plan and a stratergy, talk to people who have done what you want to do, start looking for an amazing lawyer, they are not the ones that cost the most they are the ones who want to win, or stay up at night planning and thinking everything through

What if your divorcing a criminal in jail right now for violating a bunch of orders of protection. He stole money from me. Grand larceny!!!!

@survivorforever527

2 жыл бұрын

Put that man in court !!!! Enough

My narcissist has nothing at all no money just welfare. My family had a lot of money that they recently lost. The mil owns her home that’s all. Even now at the very beginning they have got welfare and caring payments etc for my son snd took over my daycare I chose and smeared me away and now use the other mothers to sell their mlm pyramid parties!!!!!??????!!!! They just want the welfare and contacts and status and his attention and cuteness that they can get from my son - so I don’t have anything at all to settle out of court with. I’d forgo anything I just want my 3 year old back

How did you get press coverage?

@AngelJStormPhD

3 жыл бұрын

I wrote up a press release and contacted every news station possible

@lydiahubbell6278

3 жыл бұрын

@@AngelJStormPhD my case is crazy. I need to read yours. I just found you. I trusted the system at first. Now, I am waiting to see if the Supreme Court of Tennessee will hear my appeal. The Court of Appeals basically denied me a meaningful review. Very disturbing. I do not know what my daughter's father's issue is. We were never married, short term relationship. We coparented for 6 1/2 years. 5 1/2 years ago he got an order of Protection. I went from 185 parenting days to zero. I have sent emails to news outlets. There is only one thing he wants...complete control. Mediation was very brief. He said he wanted me to have NO parenting time. The mediators told him that was unreasonable, but I have been allowed zero contact for over 2 years and denied access to any information about her. This is so totally against so many laws. I just trust God and I am sure he is directing my path, one or 2 steps at a time. I can't afford an attorney. I got partial reversals in my first 2 appeals after being pro se in trial and appeals court against a very unethical lawyer. This most recent case, I managed to have good representation every day of trial, made a good record for appeal. I am pro se on this appeal and it is my strongest case. He fired his lawyer and has not participated in any way in appeal.

It is. I lost my petition for domestic violence against my ex husband because I was naive and then he called my mother as his witness.

@AngelJStormPhD

3 жыл бұрын

I am so sorry 😓

@rocioarchila860

2 жыл бұрын

Damn! The one im dealing with is the same...dirty dirty dirty

He definitely did it because he didn’t want to pay child support.

I am a guy and I am going through this with the mother of children ugh!🤤

@AngelJStormPhD

3 жыл бұрын

😭 so sorry!!

@familywarriorproject5145

3 жыл бұрын

@@AngelJStormPhD it's all good though I am a man I can bear everything in society's eyes right 🤯

@familywarriorproject5145

3 жыл бұрын

The video was really helpful and I appreciate you sharing the knowledge 👍

♥️

I wish I could afford to hire you from the beginning I'm in high conflict divorce. Were the victim of abuse It's been mental abuse he's manipulating the system It's terrible he wouldn't settle anything he's not being honest he's a narcissist. He has lied in court he's bullying using intimidation tactics. It's all about power to them. It's gone on 4 yrs no child support I've got my boxing gloves on I would do whatever it takes to fight for my kids. In my case I have to fix for trail there's no other option there's no direct contact I changed my number 3 times he has threatened me and children in the past. I'm standing my ground and won't respond directly to him or his lawyer. I have another plan a plan b to fight for our kids I'm loosing sleep I'm so stressed I should've gone to a shelter with the kids and done whatever it takes It's such a mess he hasn't taken the kids to doctors or dentists or paid the bills from the beginning of this court battle there's been so much that has gone on to the point I need a lawyer that understands abuse I'm afraid of losing towards his I'm deeply stressed over deeply over our children completely stressed beyond

@peggynarcsuvivor9073

2 жыл бұрын

I am so very sorry for you. I am disabled but children gone married 45 years n feel bad as I know the stress over the top as I wait for it to be over,still in same home due to issues been ongoing 5 years.got a divorce master to end this.cant imagine with young chikdren.praying for you

I'm about to lose my kids to a sick abuser! No justice!

@marywolfe4617

3 жыл бұрын

They are worth fighting for. Be strong and fight for your children !

@marywolfe4617

3 жыл бұрын

I lived with my daughter for 8 years. Dcf , NC , TOOK CHILDREN. GAVE HER DAUGHTER TO A FATHER WHO FOUGHT TO DISOWN. HER ! A 4 YEAR OLD SON WITH AUTISIM. IN FOSTER CARE ! JUDICATION 9/ 16 /2020. CLAIM MY DAUGHTER. UN FIT. AND ME NO VISITATION OR PHONE CALLS. BECAUSE I MAKE MY GRAND DAUGHTER CRY ! I HAD WITNESS EVERY PHONE CALL ! LIES ARE FED TO THIS COURT EVERYDAY !!!

@AngelJStormPhD

3 жыл бұрын

Wow I am so sorry to hear this!!! 😭😭 Keep sharing your story

@GMarieBehindTheMask

3 жыл бұрын

@@marywolfe4617 omg I'm so sorry! 😢

@levans3447

3 жыл бұрын

Im so sorry you are suffering like this . Praying for your children and you !

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