The MOST DANGEROUS Personality Type | Gaslighting Emotional Abuse | खतरनाक है इनके साथ रहना

This video reveals the characteristics of people who are known as 'Gaslighters'. These people are known as emotional manipulators to control their victims. It is generally seen that the gaslighters are the masters of blaming and playing victims & shaming & demeaning others, playing victims & mixing truth with lies to confuse others.
Also, this video reveals how the victim experiences various limiting emotions like self-doubt, loss of identity & poor boundaries. Also, the video suggests some tips as to how to handle a person suffering from this disorder.
Ram Verma is the top NLP Mind and wellness coach in India.
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  • @ramvermanlp
    @ramvermanlp Жыл бұрын

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  • @newmobileuser-up1yp

    @newmobileuser-up1yp

    Жыл бұрын

    sir i am suffering dur to narsicist person. i am in depression anxiety. is any course for it

  • @Gurmeet_kaur_khalsa

    @Gurmeet_kaur_khalsa

    Жыл бұрын

    Hahahaha sir you are great 👍 100/ ryt 👌👌👌

  • @aakritiyaanshita

    @aakritiyaanshita

    Жыл бұрын

    Sir...I have been suffering very badly for 10 years because of my elder siblings ..I am extremely hurt💔💔💔💔...thanks for guiding us in all ways possible 🙏

  • @chandrikanair

    @chandrikanair

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Gurmeet_kaur_khalsa exactly true gurmeet ji what is said

  • @crazyoart7053

    @crazyoart7053

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes sir ,I am facing all this problem ,thank you for this video this is very useful for me

  • @chachchaji7094
    @chachchaji7094 Жыл бұрын

    सर मैं ये दुःख 20 साल से भोग रहा हूँ हमारे घर में ऐसे जंगली लोग है जो न सुनते हैं न मानते है व्यवस्था खराब करके काम में फसाते है।हमें अपनी बुध्दि कौशल का सही उपयोग नही करने देते। आपकी एक एक बात सटीक है। नमन है आपको। 🙏🙏

  • @nirajshukla6819

    @nirajshukla6819

    Жыл бұрын

    Mai bhi eska shikar ho chuka hu or aaj bhi mara sath asa ho raha hai ab thoda samjha hu thoda duri manten kiya hu

  • @tom_tom272

    @tom_tom272

    5 ай бұрын

    Hamare bhi esi ek mahila hai jo hame pareshan krti hai game khelti hai hame badati hai sirf apna naam apna hi sabkuch krti hai

  • @nirajshukla6819

    @nirajshukla6819

    4 ай бұрын

    🎉mai bhi fansa hu ab mai sanyas ki tayyari kar raha hu jald hi safal ho jaunga

  • @subhashreedhal4051

    @subhashreedhal4051

    2 ай бұрын

    Ladies bhi yese hote hey?​@@nirajshukla6819

  • @chingariapkaapnaraju

    @chingariapkaapnaraju

    29 күн бұрын

    Ghar se nikalkar kahin dusre shahar me raho job karo

  • @gulnaaz7625
    @gulnaaz7625 Жыл бұрын

    how to protect yourself frome Gaslighting Use DEEP tool to protect your peace. D- Don't Defend E-Don't Engage E- Don't Explain P- Don't personalize

  • @winnieamar9368

    @winnieamar9368

    Жыл бұрын

    Looks like someone listens to Dr Ramani 😊

  • @minakshichandel9764

    @minakshichandel9764

    10 ай бұрын

    Mere sas sasur ese hai mujhe har jagah bura bana Diya hai mujhe logo se Milne ko dar lagta hai Mera beta bhi esa ho gaya hai mujhe disease lag gayi kya karu

  • @suhotro1

    @suhotro1

    9 ай бұрын

    Good tool

  • @PrincessAnisha2

    @PrincessAnisha2

    2 ай бұрын

    Same here 😢​@@minakshichandel9764

  • @PrincessAnisha2

    @PrincessAnisha2

    2 ай бұрын

    ​@@minakshichandel9764bhagwan ka naam japo jab wo dikhe jab b unpe feelings aaye

  • @prasoonsingh7376
    @prasoonsingh7376 Жыл бұрын

    ये बहुत ही महत्वपूर्ण विषय है, इस तरह के विषय पर समाज मे खुलकर चर्चा होनी चाहिए क्योंकि कितने ही लोग इसके बारे में नही जानते हैं और पीड़ा सहते रहते हैं। अपने बहुत ही अच्छेसे समझाया है।धन्यवाद सर्🙏

  • @sushmachaudhary7989

    @sushmachaudhary7989

    Жыл бұрын

    सर ऐसे लोग बहुत धूर्त और चालाक होते हैं। 🙏

  • @ranjanahegde2518
    @ranjanahegde2518 Жыл бұрын

    my husband is this personality type....well am super proud of myself as I Consider ppl who like to put u down as a step to level up self....i hv made him & his games powerless by my silence.....I love proving ppl wrong so I use him as a challenge & better myself every moment ....i didnt know they were called gaslighters....being aware is the only way to bring light wuthin

  • @RN-ij6fd

    @RN-ij6fd

    Жыл бұрын

    This is me,it took yeaaars to understand until I was taken to therapist and put in medicine.god was with me and and everyday I leveled up myself. Now I enjoy without responding and behave like deaf and love myself. My priority my health.

  • @rg1563

    @rg1563

    Жыл бұрын

    Same thing here... I think thrse people also have inferiority complex... nearly 90 percent fitting as you say :(

  • @monu25m

    @monu25m

    Жыл бұрын

    Every wife thiks similar about her husband😂😂😂

  • @monu25m

    @monu25m

    Жыл бұрын

    Meri wife gas lighter h.

  • @mindblowingmamta4760

    @mindblowingmamta4760

    Жыл бұрын

    Same here..mere husband ese hi h.. bahot depression me aa gyi thi...abhi bhi hu kya kru kuch samajh nahi aata

  • @AshaAsha-lt8nv
    @AshaAsha-lt8nv Жыл бұрын

    अब हम उम्र के आखिरी पड़ाव मे हैं पर आपने जितनी बातें बतायी वह सब मेरे जीवन मे घटित हुई है अब बस ईश्वर स्मरण ही रह गया हमारे पास जिन्होने हमे प्रभावित किया वे सब अपने आप दूर हो ग ए है .पर आपका विश्लेषण पूर्णत: सत्य है काश बहुत पहले इन बातों की जानकारी मिली होती शायद जीवन और अच्छा हो जाता

  • @ramachauhan3611

    @ramachauhan3611

    Жыл бұрын

    ji bilkul sehi

  • @pavanarora3538
    @pavanarora3538 Жыл бұрын

    Better late than never " this video came late for us Indian people, because in western society this topic of narcissistism is well addressed for a long time. That's the reason people are more sorted with their relationships. Certainly we need Life coaching here in India as you said. Thank you sir for putting so much efforts to educate ua all. Hope many people will identify themselves and not suffer at the hands of a narcissistic personality anymore.

  • @vallip3657
    @vallip3657 Жыл бұрын

    This topic really needs awareness. Because people only know physical and verbal abuse. The society is rarely aware of this kind of mental abuse. Thank you Sir, for bring up this topic. It's well explained.

  • @jaiprakashagrawal3580

    @jaiprakashagrawal3580

    Жыл бұрын

    😊

  • @shantitanna8033

    @shantitanna8033

    Жыл бұрын

    My husband was a narcissist and a gaslighter. I survived my 56 yrs of marriage by sheer will power to be my own person. I had good paying job , enjoyed and excelled in my work and he liked my money to enjoyed his addictions. Once you marry such person , you are caught in a web of guilt , love , sense duty , raising children , social conditioning & expectation , in Indian culture in my time . Everything you mentioned in your lecture had happened to me , I wonder how I survived. After his death , I feel calm , at peace and our children are happier . God bless you Dr Verma , to raise awareness in our society.

  • @vallip3657

    @vallip3657

    Жыл бұрын

    @@shantitanna8033 more power and respect to you. 🙏❤️

  • @jurivlog3496
    @jurivlog3496 Жыл бұрын

    Mera husband asa hai. Mujhe pagal banane ki koshish kiya apne dost aur doctor ke sath milkar. Lekin me aaj tak khud ko thik karne ke koshish kar rahi hu.

  • @dr.asharma4715

    @dr.asharma4715

    Жыл бұрын

    Correct

  • @rekhaverma1799

    @rekhaverma1799

    Жыл бұрын

    Samjh sakti hu dear narak se kam nhi he aesi jindgi pr bhi has ke jina padta h Pr aese logo se umeed karna band karo or khud se piyar karna sikho

  • @epicartsstudio2225

    @epicartsstudio2225

    Жыл бұрын

    Really ??? 😮

  • @loveissalvation7268

    @loveissalvation7268

    Жыл бұрын

    My real sibling (sister) is like that ! She is as evil as it gets !

  • @shibkhan5870

    @shibkhan5870

    Жыл бұрын

    Stay strong...be confident and don't be afraid of anyone...u ll Come out of it soon inshaAllah.

  • @rajatarya1869
    @rajatarya18693 ай бұрын

    बिल्कुल सही है , सभी लक्षण मिल रहे है। मेरे पार्टनर में।

  • @subhashreedhal4051

    @subhashreedhal4051

    2 ай бұрын

    Move on

  • @sushmachaudhary7989
    @sushmachaudhary7989 Жыл бұрын

    सर थैंक्स ये सब से मेरे साथ खराब से खराब व्यवहार मनोवैज्ञानिक तरीको का इस्तेमाल करते हुए २० वर्ष गुजर गये अब असलियत समझ पाई हूँ टूटी इसलिए नही कि अपने पैरों पर खड़ी हूँ मै एक्शन में पूरी तरह से हूँ अलग इस लिए नही हुई बच्चे बडे होरहे है। अब आप मोटी वेट कर रहे है. मैं खुश हू 🙏🙏🙏

  • @mangalchandsingalkar1210
    @mangalchandsingalkar1210 Жыл бұрын

    अनजाने में मेरे साथ उम्र की 30 साल तक ये होता रहा। मैं समझता हूं ये मेरे पिछले जन्म के बुरे कर्मो का फल है।

  • @kavitabajaj6768

    @kavitabajaj6768

    Жыл бұрын

    Same...

  • @Alarippu
    @Alarippu Жыл бұрын

    I broke all ties with my inlaws especially my sister in law and my mother in law. Also my husband. I was extremely smart, outgoing and a very happy girl when I got married. Every attempt was made to destroy my self-esteem. After 18 months of living alone I am healing. But it was a very painful process. Such gaslighters are evil people.

  • @MsDESTINY999

    @MsDESTINY999

    Жыл бұрын

    I m with you on this.. my in laws influenced my husband and destroying my confidence and independence.. I have to live with them as I’m in oman but I have stopped talking with in laws and talking with husband only when in laws are not there as they have to say something on anything that we are talking between husband wife… but I’m planning to move to India or stay separately once I get a job

  • @hhhhh9639

    @hhhhh9639

    Жыл бұрын

    This happens so true

  • @mindblowingmamta4760

    @mindblowingmamta4760

    8 ай бұрын

    Same here😢

  • @MP-lb1bv
    @MP-lb1bv Жыл бұрын

    Blessings to all such people who have to face such people in their lives..

  • @Coach_saritajha
    @Coach_saritajha Жыл бұрын

    Awesome content sir je 👏🙏 I was a sufferer . I was a very bold and confident girl of my father. My father always Introduced me to every one ….” ये है मेरी झाँसी की रानी” 😁 but a GAS LIGHTER was spoiled my 15 years . Now he is not with me , and I am working on my self to achieve my career and spiritual goals . I know many families are suffering from these GAS LIGHTERS. 😁 Thank you sir for educating us 🙏

  • @markets8825

    @markets8825

    Жыл бұрын

    Bless you

  • @artianvisingh6386

    @artianvisingh6386

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes actually same condition with me also my father also called me always same but my husband family in which I m living made me what I don't,,,i m highly educated but now dump,shy, foolish

  • @mixtureoflifestyle-soniyas8057

    @mixtureoflifestyle-soniyas8057

    Жыл бұрын

    U r age?

  • @Bkumar-ps3lr

    @Bkumar-ps3lr

    Жыл бұрын

    I suffer 8 years too...now I am also free

  • @architapatnaik687

    @architapatnaik687

    10 ай бұрын

    Suffered for 7 years...Free bird now. All due to Mahadev bholenath, he saved me.I know your pain, giving you lots of peace, warm hugs.

  • @sanjeevininj3079
    @sanjeevininj3079 Жыл бұрын

    Sir, husband was exactly same..i suffered for 11 months..he died 25 yrs back..then onwards I'm living a peaceful life with my two daughters,son in law's n grand children 😃

  • @shardasingh1573

    @shardasingh1573

    Жыл бұрын

    God blessed you.

  • @sanjeevininj3079

    @sanjeevininj3079

    Жыл бұрын

    It's read as 11 yrs

  • @salmo385

    @salmo385

    Жыл бұрын

    Jab esy log mr jaty hain to zindgi skoon main aa jati hy

  • @ajithapradeep9293
    @ajithapradeep9293 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks a lot sir for taking up this very important topic. In Indian families it is the "Bahu" who usually become the victim of gaslighting. Because of their children they suffer silently and in most cases it's a life long suffering for them which leads to mental illness. With time ...from the immediate family members to the extended family members all learn to use her to their advantage and treat her like a door mat. This becomes a normal behaviour in the family. As their is no support system in the family, the Bahu becomes a lifelong victim. Only if her children grow to understand her ...or if she gets a strong support either within or outside family...she will be able to come out of the traumatic situation.

  • @niralirathod5704

    @niralirathod5704

    Жыл бұрын

    TRUE u r

  • @niveditasapahya4516

    @niveditasapahya4516

    Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely true

  • @sushmitaadhikari1056

    @sushmitaadhikari1056

    Жыл бұрын

    Really it's absolutely correct

  • @arunachouhan8557

    @arunachouhan8557

    Жыл бұрын

    Same here. Mere in law's ne bahut noutanki Kiya hai.

  • @armmistry9154

    @armmistry9154

    Жыл бұрын

    Today No Daughter-in-Law tolerates anything.

  • @apnahunar
    @apnahunar Жыл бұрын

    My Parents are ditto this personality specially my mother. I have been facing this concern for last 20 years. My life has become hell. My social image has been spoiled to this level I prefer to avoid every common known people to them as well as known to me. There was a time I was known for being a studious kid sincere guy among all relative's kids. Every single trait Sir has mentioned here about gaslighter's ditto matches with gaslighters present in my life. Every neighbor, every single relative who visits to my parents has changed their views for me.

  • @pradnyartofficial4322

    @pradnyartofficial4322

    Жыл бұрын

    I can feel u... More power to u.. Stay strong.

  • @amol9616113945

    @amol9616113945

    Жыл бұрын

    My mother is like this only.

  • @nandasingh2200

    @nandasingh2200

    Жыл бұрын

    True

  • @siddharyam9682

    @siddharyam9682

    Жыл бұрын

    Can understand your pain and anger as I have also gone through same situation. But time changes. Trust on your God and in yourself.never take wrong decision in anger. Never ruin your personality for them.

  • @nandisarbo8071

    @nandisarbo8071

    Жыл бұрын

    Ya this is very important topic Igot trapped by mother in law My marriage life got ruined

  • @AhmedAli-fr8kr
    @AhmedAli-fr8kr6 ай бұрын

    Yeh sari baten waqt k sath main sekh chuka hun han main andar se bht barbad hogya hun magr thek b horaha hun. Bs itna kahunga jitna hoske toxic logon se door rahen ya boundaries smjha dain unhn bht ache se

  • @mohinisaxena3226
    @mohinisaxena3226 Жыл бұрын

    My mother in law was like dis.... She destroyed my confidence n personality completely. She died last year. I have suffered for 12long years n i ve become mentally n physically weak.

  • @chandrikanair

    @chandrikanair

    Жыл бұрын

    mohini ji aap ek baar phir muskurayiyee be a brave women now

  • @ramonanegbiker6650
    @ramonanegbiker6650 Жыл бұрын

    Completely agree with you sir,I am dealing with such person,41 years of married life with such person,I feel like waste of my most beautiful years,his alcohol has destroyed not only his life mine too.Thank you for your advices.

  • @BHOPALseMaya
    @BHOPALseMaya Жыл бұрын

    Shi bat khi..Or dekhne wali bat ye है कि सबी अपने जीवन साथी से परेशान. बी हैऔर मजबूर.(फिर बी साथ निभाना साथिया)😢☺️🥰🤣😀😄😍😘

  • @shaleshgautam9
    @shaleshgautam9 Жыл бұрын

    Every family and relatives have such people .. very important topic .. thanks for exploring it . 👍

  • @jaishreetiwari3059
    @jaishreetiwari3059 Жыл бұрын

    My sister is like this. It's all my life story...200% true. God gave me the strength to walk out of my house...although a bit too late. If I were not suppressed so much in early life I could've achieved much more in life. Now I'm at peace . No complaints. Thank God 🙏🙏

  • @ganeshsharma4305
    @ganeshsharma4305 Жыл бұрын

    Aapne bahot sah baat kahi sir ....meri life me bhi bikul same behaviour wala ek person hai ...jiske sath mai deal kar raha hu ....aapka bahot bahot dhanyawad sir ....apki jo ye video hai ye sach bahot se logo ki zindagi badal sakti hai..... ishwar hamesha aapko ashirwad de . Ek baar fir aapka bahot bahot dhanyawad

  • @aartisharma9917
    @aartisharma9917 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks a lot sir,meri is vedio se bhut help hone vali h,me last 1.5 years se victim bn k rh rhi hu,muje to ab tk pta bhi nhi tha, ki mere sath kya ho rha h ,meri life me meri elder sister in law gaslighter h🥺

  • @anjuasher9700
    @anjuasher9700 Жыл бұрын

    Thnx for guiding. My maid had been doing it fr many months with me and disturbing me. She used to shout and spk pricking words whenever she was checked fr something.thr was a pattern which was happening evry 5th month. I had been tolerating her coz she's been honest and a good worker. After a recent incident I have asked her to leave aftr eight yrs of association.

  • @priyakumari672
    @priyakumari672 Жыл бұрын

    I think silence, no contacts with gaslighters is best one. Victims explore their new areas of growth and be in constant support system of loved ones. Regularly exercise, take good nutrition and feed their mind by reading great books. Block him to every places social media, call, texts and also break your circle with their toxic supportes and information givers to gaslighters individual. And also doesn't not recive or accepted unknown calls and messages from. Anyone for life long. Beacause they try to disturb you by very tactics when they are bored.

  • @saniyasoge2001
    @saniyasoge2001 Жыл бұрын

    My mother is this kind of person she used to trouble my dad but after his death she makes me troubeful Thank you sir for making this video mostly log bs toxic toxic person pe video banate hai aapke is video ne mujhe ek nayi life ka realization diya hai god bless you sir .... Jab main actually share krti hu logo se ki meri mom kaisa behave krto hai mere sath and thats completly different with other people toh logo mujhe smjte nhi hai unko yakeen nhi hota hai ki aisa koi kr shkta hai and at the end main jhuthi kehlayi jati hu mujhe lagta tha problem mujhe mein hai meri hi galati hai is video ne mujhe new life di hai sach mejn iam very thankful to you for helping me and guiding me

  • @sheetalfulmare2071

    @sheetalfulmare2071

    4 ай бұрын

    Meri maa ne mujhe bahut pareshan kiya hai , ghar ke kaam ko lekar , tu kali hai tere se kaun shadi karega ..... Chuttiya kahi ki...

  • @captainblood8095
    @captainblood8095 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for this video 🙏 yes,everything is right about them.. many times I experienced being with these" gaslighters"...Thank God I understood their intentions and got victory..May all victims get rid of gaslighters..very helpful video

  • @siddharyam9682
    @siddharyam9682 Жыл бұрын

    My parents same personality. They destroyed my friends circle my social circle only because I did not bend as they wished. They too much egoist. My mother was a teacher who thinls each and every person is her student and everyine should obey her. My mother used to beat me because I was very close to grand mother.mother and grandmother had issue in which mother was gulity. They made life saffocated same as you described now. They asked me to pay rent to live in the house as I was not not marrying as their wish. I did love marriage and now I am happily married 15 years and have two sons 13 years and 10 uears and never visited my house . They never invited me my husband and my children i last 15 years. But I chose my own life as I wished and I am happiest.

  • @nirmalasingh1919
    @nirmalasingh1919 Жыл бұрын

    My Husband is same. Jindgi jina haram kar rakhi h. I am suffered from 30 years. Sirf Apani tanashahi aur apani chalana. Sanse lena bhi dubhar kar rakha h. Koi Rasta nahi h ki kahi jaye. Sath rahate agala aadmi bhi pagal ho jata h.

  • @Tom-jl9ir

    @Tom-jl9ir

    Жыл бұрын

    Aap divorce kyu nhi deti?

  • @mangalchandsingalkar1210
    @mangalchandsingalkar1210 Жыл бұрын

    मैने यह जाना के मेरे साथ ये हुआ है। मैने मेरे संपर्क में आनेवाले लोगोको ऐसे टॉर्चर से बचाने की कोशिश की।मेरा स्वभाव बन गया के मैं किसी को भी प्रेरणा ही देता रहता हू।

  • @moonstars4382
    @moonstars43828 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much sir for clarifying this gaslighting. Yes we are surrounded by such gaslighters in the form of father, sister's husband and some friends. 🙏🙏

  • @abduljamilshaikh7907
    @abduljamilshaikh7907 Жыл бұрын

    Sir, perfect. Gone through all these. Mann or dill ki baat kehdi. Thank you.

  • @aniruddhbadnikar6739
    @aniruddhbadnikar6739 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for details and support and cooperation and nice councelling and motivation 👌

  • @sumedhavaish532
    @sumedhavaish53210 ай бұрын

    Show perseverance, shed off fear , fight against them , try to come out of relationship at any cost. Yes but narcissists are always around you at home or at work place.

  • @sushmasinha8054
    @sushmasinha8054 Жыл бұрын

    My husband Narendra Sinha is like this, very quarrelsome,then one day I was talking with Dad nicely,he started saying why were u talking nicely with your Dad 😢

  • @virajharimkar7783

    @virajharimkar7783

    Жыл бұрын

    😮😢

  • @jyotipatel1229

    @jyotipatel1229

    Жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @shreesales6417
    @shreesales6417 Жыл бұрын

    May God bless you Sir.... Resolved mystery of many people's life ... Giving a new light path 🙏🙏

  • @nareshkk62
    @nareshkk62 Жыл бұрын

    I am not allowed to speak to my brother and sisters without my mobile speaker on ! I have to speak lies !

  • @user-ld8nr9ju2c
    @user-ld8nr9ju2c Жыл бұрын

    Apni family pr trust kro logo ko jb mn kre tb mana bolo ignore kro jyada time tk . Aur apne pr kaam kro is the best option ................ Aur kisi ko hd se jyada pyaar mt kro

  • @rajyuva1871
    @rajyuva1871 Жыл бұрын

    Sirrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.....what an episode... I am. Victim of this. My entire family does this to me..... Now iam going through horrible panic attacks.... I identified this pattern....but still iam unable to help myself because they are my family members. Literally it is like pouring hot oil on us..when they do this... You are doimg a great job and saving many lives....god bless you sir.🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

  • @gulnaaz7625

    @gulnaaz7625

    Жыл бұрын

    how to protect yourself frome Gaslighting Use DEEP tool to protect your peace. D- Don't Defend E-Don't Engage E- Don't Explain P- Don't personalize

  • @pallavidixit7269

    @pallavidixit7269

    Жыл бұрын

    Run Go for no contact After a month You will be OK

  • @siddharyam9682

    @siddharyam9682

    Жыл бұрын

    Please keep a long distance from those. Live independently.

  • @preetisarojssecretsofsucce4791
    @preetisarojssecretsofsucce4791 Жыл бұрын

    Apki asi vedio Lakho logo ki life ko improve krne me bahut help kregi.. Thank u sir with heart..

  • @ManjuKumari-ct8ek
    @ManjuKumari-ct8ek Жыл бұрын

    मेरे पति भी इसी पर्सनेलिटी के थे। अभी तो नही है, लेकिन आज भी नही भूलती हूं। आप जो बोल रहे है , एक एक बात सही है।मैं किसी तरह से अपनी नौकरी ,अपनी घर बचाई।मैं M A ,BEd थी sAIL मे टीचर थी। लेकिन जिंदगी भर मुझे बाहर से लेकर बच्चो की नजर में भी गिराने की कोशिश करते रहे। 🙏

  • @ManjuKumari-ct8ek

    @ManjuKumari-ct8ek

    Жыл бұрын

    मैने गायत्री मां और गुरुदेव से जुड़कर अपने को बचाया sir और अभी मैं औरों से ठीक हूं। स्वास्थ्य हू🙏

  • @bhawnachandel3776
    @bhawnachandel3776 Жыл бұрын

    Vey nice sir ji..esa lag raha h ap meri life ki bat kar rahe 😢..mere pati ne meri jindgi barbad kar di..😢

  • @MsDESTINY999
    @MsDESTINY999 Жыл бұрын

    MIL is gas lighter in my life.. topic changing, vague, blame, shame , escape, drama, influencing husband to believe I’m wrong, victim, threatening, mixing truth and lie, positive intention. I have bcum passive, doubting my self image , I’m an independent person by nature but losing myself. Fortunately I’m not self blaming and fighting by doing non-cooperation and not reacting to her taunts and negative statements , she doesn’t respect boundaries. My equation with husband was so good,I never wished anything .. this was first 3 years of marriage. Once in-laws entered life has bcum miserable and distanced husband from me. I’m planning to move out once I get a job or move back to India with my daughter.

  • @ghufranahmed1816
    @ghufranahmed1816 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for educating us about the threats and disadvantages of a "Gas lighter" persona. Mostly people face such a scenario but don't know how to safeguard themselves. 👌

  • @vivekpuri-08

    @vivekpuri-08

    Жыл бұрын

    We all have such people in our life.

  • @aniruddhchhabra8602

    @aniruddhchhabra8602

    Жыл бұрын

    Very good topic ..I always suffer with my relative.how to avoid such situation .

  • @diljeetx8027
    @diljeetx8027 Жыл бұрын

    Respected Sir you are right because I'm facing all these things. Sir asa logo ki ager ham baat Manta jaata hai to yeh or torture karta hai ager nahi maanta to drama karta hai yaha tak ki boundations ka level or jyada kar data hai . Salute you Sir Jo aaj tak mai nahi samaj payi vo aapna aaj mujha bata diya . Thank you so much sir for giving us different types of knowledge. God bless you & ur family. ❤️ You are a messenger of God 🙏🌹🌹🙏

  • @madhurisharma2238
    @madhurisharma2238 Жыл бұрын

    Ur single word is true .. as it's my true story. But as u say I m doing my best and the circumstances are better now frm my side . Gratitude 🙏🙏

  • @newmobileuser-up1yp

    @newmobileuser-up1yp

    Жыл бұрын

    how you come out. my life completely destroyed

  • @renusaini294
    @renusaini294 Жыл бұрын

    Same type of my living partner.....thank u so much......raasta dikhane ke liye 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @shailjatripathi5869
    @shailjatripathi5869 Жыл бұрын

    I am indebted to you for educating me in such a beautiful manner 🙏 . Guru ji

  • @SeemaAbhilash
    @SeemaAbhilash Жыл бұрын

    Mera 20 saal ka experience hai... Aj bhi bahar nhi nikal sakti dependency itni kharaab hai... Sirf ek change hai is vdo mein ki main main chillaaati roti hun aur samaan fenkti hun frustration se... Aapki har baat perfect hai jo aapne bataya har ek incident hua hai mere saath

  • @annacreation8133
    @annacreation8133 Жыл бұрын

    I m facing this kind of behaviour from my own daughter and now totally got depressed can't understand what to do now lost my all abilities of being a public speaker I can't even face the people ...

  • @fareehazubair8624
    @fareehazubair8624 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for insightful session. I've been through a lot all n everything you pointed out.

  • @kb-jo3ti
    @kb-jo3ti Жыл бұрын

    Bahut badhiya aur bilkul teek kaha aapney. Thanks for the affirmation.

  • @geetamehra902
    @geetamehra902 Жыл бұрын

    Yes doc.I have always been a v.happy and charged person but God has been v.kind to me that I am a v.positive person so she didn't effect much.

  • @pamsund9712
    @pamsund9712 Жыл бұрын

    God bless you sir for such enlightening session🙏

  • @giankaurphatoea8120
    @giankaurphatoea8120 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks❤ sir. Same me 💯. Sural wale, mere pati unki sunte the. Aaj khud me hi khush hu. Mere bache Or Rab te believe ne jinda rakha. Aapne karna khrab nahi kitte. Jai shree krishna Radhe Radhe..... 🌷💖🙏

  • @StudyTalkWithAshima
    @StudyTalkWithAshima Жыл бұрын

    thank you sir.. my mother did this to me for 40 YEARS.

  • @mnava4290
    @mnava429011 ай бұрын

    My mother was like this. I m 55 and now I realized what she was doing

  • @kaireensworld458
    @kaireensworld458 Жыл бұрын

    my mother was the same which I now know she didn't do it deliberately... but I had to work a lot to come out of my passive personality... ma baap ko hi bache ki neev majboot karni padti hain taaki woh aise rishton ka shikaar na ho

  • @pallavidixit7269

    @pallavidixit7269

    Жыл бұрын

    Good.

  • @jerry-tm8lj
    @jerry-tm8lj Жыл бұрын

    I m not in a relationship but i m surrounded with wrong people right now. They are using me

  • @newmobileuser-up1yp

    @newmobileuser-up1yp

    Жыл бұрын

    leave that place whatever it cost

  • @zubintamboli7212
    @zubintamboli7212 Жыл бұрын

    Surprised, u have awakens me about gas lighter and attracted me to ur knowledge. Thank u.

  • @thankuuniverse1115
    @thankuuniverse1115 Жыл бұрын

    Sir me aise person se mil chuki hu oosne meri life naam ijjat sab kuch khatam kar diya mujhe dipression, baaloo ka girna ,motapa bahut si problem ho gayi hai me life me bahut kuch karna chaahti thii but aaj me career ko lekar stuck hu . 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭Aapki ek ek line mujhse resonate kar rahi hai 😭😭😭😭

  • @kantasharma3235
    @kantasharma3235 Жыл бұрын

    It is very rare topic .Very Useful for related people . Thanku very much

  • @sumedhavaish532
    @sumedhavaish532 Жыл бұрын

    You are absolutely right. Thanks for advice 💐

  • @luckycharm3132
    @luckycharm3132 Жыл бұрын

    Sir, mai apney narpichaah pati aur uske gharwalo se mukt ho jaun , plz ashirwad dein ...jo sab aapney bola hai aisa kisi ne nahi samjha aaj tak. 🙏 Aisa lag raha hai mano bhagwan chahtey they mai yeh sunun. Aapko nahi jaanti fir bhi yeh video aaj samney aa gaya. Wo apni lovers yes loverS ( ek nahi kai hain) se milkey mujhe maarney ke plan banataa hai, mujhey torture karkey, khud victim play karta hai. Asthma and allergy to ho hi gaye hain, aur bhi problems ho gayi hain. Anxiety has reached to another level. Can't sleep, can't live but I am fighting for my kid , I have to look after him. Lost my father 4-5 days ago, he was major reason for his death. Need to get out of this toxicity.

  • @amrita221
    @amrita221 Жыл бұрын

    Excellent, true same case I saw my friend s husband. Every line is true 👍

  • @Tira24tinavaid
    @Tira24tinavaid Жыл бұрын

    Bahut hi badhiya video banai aapne sir thank you so much ❤🙏

  • @mallikaparanjpe7415
    @mallikaparanjpe7415 Жыл бұрын

    Thank u so much for making this video and talking in detail. It matches exactly what I have been through 12 years of my unhappy married life. I am happily divorced now. Your video made me cry on myself that the person I loved and respected had all the things u said and how he made me lame over the time. I lost my confidence, my beauty, I had cancer and I became obese. I was always a cheerful & happy energetic person but over the time my personality became completely opposite living with him. Now I am gathering all my good vibes slowly picking up my own personality to what I was. I will definitely share this video. Thank you so much again. Also this kind of behaviour has no law, u cannot really prove it and take to court.

  • @vallip3657

    @vallip3657

    Жыл бұрын

    Same here Sis. Can't prove it to court.

  • @chandrikanair

    @chandrikanair

    Жыл бұрын

    mallika hearing you name i felt happy i too had a sister called mallika i lost her 12 years back due to TB she was my Jaan mallika never give up be strong even iam facing the same situation of narcissism and gaslighter but till yesterday i was dumb tolerating now i started giving answers saying Theri Baap ka nahi kaati yu. remember in law there is maan hani case jab koi saath nahi hai tho devi maa ek shakthi hoti hai behen usko apnao jiska koi nahi uska kudha hota hai youtube kolo durga shapta shadi pado woh maa appko raasta dikayega ek mahamantra hai sudharshan moola mantram apna mobile or you tube me suniyeg

  • @chandrikanair

    @chandrikanair

    Жыл бұрын

    ear phone lagakar

  • @chandrikanair

    @chandrikanair

    Жыл бұрын

    ho sake to printer se print karke roj jaap kare

  • @chandrikanair

    @chandrikanair

    Жыл бұрын

    involve in satsang , go to temples prarthana karo baaki kudhrath ka kannon hota hai jo chal kapad kartha hai god is there there is law of universe

  • @vinodsingh-gr1xj
    @vinodsingh-gr1xj Жыл бұрын

    Excellent explanation of how people manipulate emotionally they often key changing their statements before we could talk they switch on to another topic and it becomes very difficult for us to deal with the personality you have made certain things very clear to be that we should be from the groundnut on our position and not to Divate from that position, thanks a great helpful.

  • @balrajkaur8159
    @balrajkaur8159 Жыл бұрын

    Every family has such persons. Very informative. Please also share some firm and legal help

  • @tarunff9389
    @tarunff9389 Жыл бұрын

    Aaj meri sari yaad taja ho gayi

  • @khushivlogsagra8910
    @khushivlogsagra8910 Жыл бұрын

    Every thing resonated with me 100%

  • @shivshakti33699
    @shivshakti336994 ай бұрын

    Thanks for this video..its really life changing for many.... i have also faced this situation ... although it was a love marriage 18 years ago...lmy life after marriage was full of criticism and blaming etc .. although he is good ,loves me too.... but his narcissistic traits were killing me inside...i lost my worth... felt worthless.... developed many health issues..... But the story started changing since few years... somehow with gods blessings.... i removed all expectations... I accepted the fact that his nature can't be changed...i started making myself distant from him from inside... started doing regular prayer and breathing meditation.... and started focusing on becoming financially independent... Now i am in much much much better position...all my health issues has resolved...i m emotionally much balanced and strong....i feel good from inside....his behaviour has become better than before ...... but I don't care much....i try to not react on anything... neither interfere in his business........

  • @kalpanamishra3026
    @kalpanamishra30265 ай бұрын

    Each and every sentence said here is true for the narcissist and the sufferer.I think a larger population is suffering silently. Thanks for guidance..

  • @renusharma1309
    @renusharma1309 Жыл бұрын

    Very gud information sir. I have lost my golden time due to these gas lighters but now understand them very well

  • @straightfromtimbakto8623
    @straightfromtimbakto8623 Жыл бұрын

    Ram Ji, I would call you Shri Ram Ji, i wouldn't know how this video came in front of my view, for me you are Shri Ram, that's what I learned that God helps through regular normal people. You to the point. Luckily, I had seen it for a long time in my last life and today I am able to enable not just my wife, team members,but all those who have been part of my life for a certain time of life. In fact my VP in the office understood and tried to change when I confronted him and explained to him his personality trait, luckily he understood.

  • @vidyatamrakar25
    @vidyatamrakar25 Жыл бұрын

    बहुत बढ़िया तरीके से भावनाओ को भी शब्दो मे एक्सप्लेन किया गया है।

  • @rahimakhan5058
    @rahimakhan5058 Жыл бұрын

    Very true ,rare topic ,thanks a lot ,eye opening video

  • @manoharlal1141
    @manoharlal1141 Жыл бұрын

    Aapki baat bilkul hamaari aapbiti hai. Par Bhagwan hi mukti dilate hai. Kabhi saamne wala kuch badalta hai. Kabhi hamko Bhagwan dusri raah pakara dete hai aur long run me jakar realise hota hai ki ham chah kar bhi iss sthiti ko nahi paa sakte the. Par Bhagwan ki daya se mould hue aur rasta bann gaya. Aapne jo bhi 10 points bataye hai woh bilkul practical hai Hamko is bure dour ka khub anubhav hua hai. Ab ja kar Shanti mili jab saksham Guru mile.(Mentor) mile🙏🌹

  • @aryanpatel647
    @aryanpatel647 Жыл бұрын

    Excellent content...everyone must watch it...👍👍👍👍

  • @kuldeepsinghwani3293
    @kuldeepsinghwani3293 Жыл бұрын

    I think so maximum partners are doing this to pull down the other one, any partner,,, really u explained very well sir feel disheartened that we didn't knew this earlier,all life being misused ,,, God bless you 🙏

  • @shalinisharma4732
    @shalinisharma4732 Жыл бұрын

    Sir bilkul Shi btaa aapne. Aise log bolne hi big dete. Jyada bolte Insult krte. Yes drate hai. Threat krte

  • @vandanaapatil8549
    @vandanaapatil8549 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you sir....very informative

  • @gouthamiyerra80
    @gouthamiyerra80 Жыл бұрын

    Amazing sir thank you for the wisdom and eye opening video

  • @chachchaji7094
    @chachchaji7094 Жыл бұрын

    शानदार जानकारी दी आपने नमन है आपको। 🙏🌹🌹❤

  • @sweetygrover4456
    @sweetygrover4456 Жыл бұрын

    Very informative.... thanks 🙏🏻

  • @Blessings54123
    @Blessings541235 ай бұрын

    Thank You Very Much Ram Verma Sir 🙏🙏Grateful to You and Family🙏🌈

  • @anshumannsingh5943
    @anshumannsingh594310 ай бұрын

    For themselves they r very good lawyer n for others they are good judge

  • @mamtakamlakargaikwad3721
    @mamtakamlakargaikwad3721 Жыл бұрын

    Very true Sir mein aise hi situation se gujar rhi hu, I am not in any relationship but I am going through this from the place were I am staying. As know some of their secrets. Thank you ❤️ very very much Sirji this is a very great help. God Bless You

  • @abdul_vines90
    @abdul_vines90 Жыл бұрын

    mere gher ke log aise hi hain sir jaisa aapne explain kiya

  • @deepanjalikamte2671
    @deepanjalikamte2671 Жыл бұрын

    It's a very rare topic, and such a great explanation sir, you gave such an example ,it happens in real,my husband is 60percent same after 13 yrs of marriage I am not the same person once I was, now totally broken ,no confidence, faced depression ,Koi cheez ki ichcha Nahin Rah Gaye.sir can u plz discuss on the topic, how to know this type of person before marriage,is se bahut ladies ki life bach sakti hai,

  • @deepanjalikamte2671

    @deepanjalikamte2671

    Жыл бұрын

    @Aditi Kumari thank you so much 😊

  • @shitalkevadia5596
    @shitalkevadia5596 Жыл бұрын

    Mere husband bhi mere sath Asa hee kar rahai hai aur usake parents bhi ye sab mere sath karte hai.bahot he meri halat khrab kar di hai. Mere do bachhe hai 9 aur 6 years ke, bimar hone lagi hoon. Sochati hu ke divorce le lu par dar Lagata hai, himmat nahi ho rahi.

  • @meenanegi2679
    @meenanegi2679 Жыл бұрын

    Sir aapki video bahoot achchi hai. Ese personality kay mere ghar may two person hain. Main bhi ese hi apney aap say lad rahi thee. Aapki video nay mujhey shakti di, samaj di. Bahoot bahoot dhanyawad.

  • @shahzadhafeez9663
    @shahzadhafeez9663 Жыл бұрын

    Exactly the same ... Well briefed

  • @sabitarijal1944
    @sabitarijal1944 Жыл бұрын

    Amaging video sir thank you very much. 🤗🤗

  • @RR-fw8nr
    @RR-fw8nr Жыл бұрын

    Very true I have suffer all this deeply for 45 year. Not been able to live life.

  • @vimleshparihar4856
    @vimleshparihar4856 Жыл бұрын

    Aaj first time suna .gajjab. mai khud positive se bhapur hu.

  • @BodyMindSoulLifesutras
    @BodyMindSoulLifesutras Жыл бұрын

    My husband is same as you described in your vedio. Jab ma unki harkat se nahi dari tab unhone surrender kiya ki ja mujhe tare saath nahi rahna. Tum mare type ki ladki nahi ha jo mujhse se dar kar rahe

  • @endlessjoychannel71

    @endlessjoychannel71

    Жыл бұрын

    tha ks for sharing

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