Family law judges and family law attorneys are the lowest of the low. There’s a special place in hell for both. The system is corrupt, it’s mafia style where everyone is in cahoots with one another. Money is the all mighty motivator, not the best interest of the child. Educate yourself, never stop the fight, keep battling. ⚒️

@amyhooper7819

Жыл бұрын

I agree. The judge in my custody battle completely sides with my ex who has physically, sexually and mentally abused me and now this sicko sexually abused my five year old and the judge could not even grant my no contact order and wants to send my son back to this sicko. I'm disgusted with this corrupt world.

@jimmyjames417

Жыл бұрын

Amen

@DaisyAngelic

Жыл бұрын

They destroy family’s and help predators

@tmk87154

Жыл бұрын

💯

@tmk87154

Жыл бұрын

as if we have such abundance of money to blow after child support, and bills and now we have to fork out thousands to have rights to your own children. the system itself is sick

Whether father or mother in a case...the best way to go to court is to understand that particular coutrs' rules...dress as if you're going on a job interview... answer the questions from the mind of your child(ren)...trust yourself as a parent... remember that 18 years is not forever. Be that parent that your child will be proud of, and have faith and patience. Respectfully answer each question cordially. Show emotions accordingly. Remember you are representing and advocating for your child(ren), and not there for yourself. That's my best advice!

@whatchawatchawant4175

Жыл бұрын

💕

@mmalithefather1472

Жыл бұрын

You are so delusional if you really think any of that matters smh

@the_treyfire3116

Ай бұрын

I really like this I’m going to read this when I step into Court next month BBM keeping son me Rn over money and bother father to her new Bf sad but got a keep fighting

@4everu984

4 күн бұрын

18 years? Tons of custody goes to 23 year old for child.

I believe if you suddenly mimic the judges movements like a feeling it's hard to get a good sip of water you do the same ect. The judge will subconsciously align with you and see you as similar or alike themselves. So very thankful to hear similar information

“There is no law in family law” hearing that from portlands top attorney is all it took for me to fire my attorney and start studying…i now have custody of my son. Law is stupid easy once you dive into it.

@stephonriddick5606

Жыл бұрын

And advice on where to start?

@Stacy-oq6gt

4 ай бұрын

If you're a man that's not even impressive. Women only retain custody 7% of the time. The system was built by slave owning men

@jcarrieivory

3 ай бұрын

Can you help me, please?

Reminder; there's is no such thing as an unbiased judge especially if they have been serving for long years, time spent has helped them form strong opinions on people. Alot of the time they have sized you up before you even open your mouth to state your concerns and in some cases they have already judged you. This will happen especially if they are prejudice or racist. They already have thier minds made up about your character solely based on thier perception of you.. this could be based on your race, creed, religion and orientation and there's absolutely nothing you can do about that

@marcusavila2961

2 жыл бұрын

You can pray, and ask the Holy Spirit to cover you and the court room.

@ProMainMan

2 жыл бұрын

The world could also not exist tomorrow too. Seriously do not feel race, color, creed plays a factor in this topic as you believe. Maybe someone that wants to use that, could see a judge seeing through that and if it’s a good judge he will see the character flaw

@fitlio3778

Жыл бұрын

@@ProMainMan you , my friend , you are clearly from another world or have lived under a rock for far too long .

@Michael-bx7hb

Жыл бұрын

more than racist is sexist. courts hate men. men pay thousands and judges don't even listen

@mmalithefather1472

Жыл бұрын

@@marcusavila2961lmao that is the most ridiculous thing I ever heard lol

TBH, I am not buying the "judges are people, too, just like us" story. During my ~10 years litigating in family court, I came across ~25 judges, child support magistrates, and family attorneys. When I compare them to the corporate professionals I've worked with at Fortune 500 companies and tech startups (and the competence of these professionals), the family court practitioners rank in the bottom 20-35% in terms of intelligence. I found the family court practitioners to be lazy, incompetent, incapable of any depth of thought or analysis, gender-biased against dads, incapable of asking the right question to get to the truth, overly reliant on the use of cliches instead of real analysis, lacking in character/integrity, and far more interested in just going through the motions instead of finding the best interests of the child. And I WON my custody case, despite this hurdle. Not saying this to be mean...but to bring to light the obvious question: Is Family Court qualified to make competent decisions on behalf of families and children? Is it time to overhaul family court...or abolish it altogether?

@Mrs.FleetOwner

Жыл бұрын

It definitely should not be abolished because if it doesn't exist, the Parental Alienation that a lot of bitter, disgruntled mothers impose against the father would be unchecked and will continue to be allowed. If the current family court system needs improvement then improve it but its definitely needed and shouldn't be abolished. The fathers won't stand a chance without something to go to when dealing with difficult mothers of their children

@ryancox5097

8 ай бұрын

What ​@@Mrs.FleetOwner just said ^^^

@candicemessick867

2 ай бұрын

​@@Mrs.FleetOwner I agree 👍

Family court judges are the most incompetent ppl in all of law. They don't care about the best interest of the child at all. For 2 years I was getting extorted for CS by my ex ($5500/month) to be exact only to find out that my daughter was being neglected. I then get custody and guess what the judge didn't do? Yep, make her pay CS to me and even maintain the same lifestyle that she had before. Oh and the judge told me that "I make too much $$ to get CS." i didn’t even want her $$ anyway but it is the principle.

@Lisa-zs2iy

Жыл бұрын

Family court is far from even

@ewave662

Жыл бұрын

keep up the good work papa

@oneloveoneheart3563

Жыл бұрын

I never heard a person could have a child and not have to fulfill there obligations!

@ms.acbeautiful

Жыл бұрын

1000% AGREEEEEEEEEEEEDDDDD!!!!!!!!

@ms.acbeautiful

Жыл бұрын

Im the ONLY mother in the system it seems where the court doesn’t care about the constant abuse tactics of the father or how much trauma he’s caused my child or the fact that he refuses and evades child support processes in every state or that he extorted CS from ME and I’m the primary! He’s never made any attempt to sanely provide for my child, attempted to kidnap her 2x in 2020 and the court (magistrate aka even ore incompetent than fam judges) disregarded everything gave him joint legal. A indefinite harassment tool for his idiot ass to continue his narcissistic activity. Smh Why not give a single parent that solely provides and cares fora child SINCE BIRTH SOLE LEGAL custody!!?!?! Why must we endure this NARCISSISTIC SAGA LIFE?! Our children are damaged by this and they could care less!!!

Didn’t know Donnie wahlburg practiced law

@judgeanthony

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@candicemessick867

2 ай бұрын

I was like hold on a min...is that Donny?!!!!! But then I remembered that's not this guy's name 🤔 but you fooled me for a second hahaha In my defense it's still early in the morning and I haven't had a full cup of coffee yet 😂 but he really does look like donny 🙃 lol

I don't know what I would have done without *usespy online* help in my divorce case. Your dedication, enthusiasm, and expertise were like a lifesaver. You're my hero!

@SavannahBella-io8lm

5 ай бұрын

Thanks for this comment i need something like this.

Such valuable information! I've been in family court (too much) and wish I had seen this before I was in court. So helpful!

I’m ready to have my case heard. It’s been continued twice now.

Hey!!! I didn’t know you had a KZread channel!!! Yes 🙌🏼 thank you

Thank you for such great advice 🙏🏼

Egos are huge in ALL 3 opposition, judge included !

Just be ready to get your evidence in effectively without thinking of what others might say. You said it, "They are human beings"

ABSOLUTELY YES!! TY TY TY!!!💪🌲🔮🦸‍♀️🔮🌲💪- BE

🌟I agree Judge.. it’s a human thing, learn the mindset game (which takes years for most adults to learn, or else we wouldn’t be in a court situation). 😏 Under immense stress at home, at work & in the court when your baby’s life is at stake, it’s effin HARD to keep it together!!!! Do you have a specific play-by-play video on how to play this mindset game? (Like a visual of the courtroom & important points to consider in the game.) Thank you for your help.

Ty so much Sir

Great videos and material; thank you! Do u have any material on how to properly appeal and provide feedback on a judge one feels they have improperly decided or treated one improperly? Thanks

@FatherX2022

Жыл бұрын

That varies state by state. Appeals take a lot of work to put together, But many people have done it. And you would go to your state's court website to figure out the process and procedures for filing an appeal. process and procedures matter a lot...and they vary by state. As for feedback on a judge, States usually have an office for judicial misconduct... but the name of that office varies by state.

*usespy online* assistance was invaluable in my divorce case. Their expertise, dedication, and hard work made all the difference. Keep up the fantastic work !

Damn man you are the king of beating around the bush.

Those types of judges who berate should be in jail

How do you feel about a feel good “day in the life” video in custody court when there’s been false allegations you have no relationship with the kids? Can these help influence the judge?

What about a situation where the father is doing everything he is supposed to but the state is engaging in illegal and corrupt practices in an effort to keep his child away from him that is my current situation. It is weird and unprecedented and I want to know if anyone can relate or have heard something like this

Mom got served to not move out of the county. Mom moved 4 hrs out of state and hasnt let me see or talk to my kids in 33 days. Court hearing coming up. Mom is now being a narcissist spreading around I sexually abuse my kids. Which isn't true. She moved for a Boyfriend. What are some things you've seen from Judges to fix this issue? She got my kids out of school and moved away from family they grew up to. She's been ignoring mandated mediation who will do abuse screenings as well.

@Polytrout

Жыл бұрын

As a custodial parent, I was not allowed to move more than 25 kilometres (about 15miles) away from my kids' mom. But I'm in Canada, specifically Ontario.

Thank you. I'm just learning about u. I'm so scared to lose my God children

@candicemessick867

2 ай бұрын

I hope and pray you did NOT lose them 🙏 and if you did I pray for your peace and understanding. Hugs. ..

What happens when the petitioner has witnesses and the defendant gets the witnesses list, then calls all of the witnesses and messages them non stop and the witnesses feel scared and decide not to witness in the petitioner’s defense of the children?

@debbieandoliviagiannecchin3421

6 ай бұрын

they become Hostile witness and they can pursue harassment charges from local authorities.

Thank you for doing this.

I didn't think I could win my divorce case, but then *usespy online* swooped in like a knight in shining armor. Your dedication, enthusiasm, and expertise saved the day. Thank you !!

I am in the middle of dealing with cps and the courts. I believe that the next court hearing is a case review then termination of parental rights hearing/court. I have two court appointed attorneys and both have quit. They both quit when I asked them about my rights and to defend them. The commissioner said that I don't get another court appointed attorney, that I have to hire an attorney or self rep myself. Well I'm unable to afford attorney. So I started looking at my case files and discoved that I was never officially served. There has been two other court hearing in which there has been a certificate of service attached to the judgment. Am I now able to ask for dismissal due to no service in the beginning of the case

@ElementCompany

4 ай бұрын

Can you elaborate?

Is it beneficial or strange to watch the judge in court during other trials or items on the docket? Veteran Pro Se here, and you are going to help me bring it. I can not thank you enough.

@laurayancey5094

2 жыл бұрын

Even when it may be just the parties and the families there ?

*usespy online,* you're the Beyonce of divorce cases! Your dedication, enthusiasm, and expertise helped me slay my case and keep my property. You're a King!

So my ex has a high profile attorney that is friends with judges they have been known to go out and have lunch and dinner etc….One of the judges heard our PFA case and actually recused himself because he was my ex attorney for several years, but made an order because my ex got mad and told them to give me whatever I want so he can have his clothes out my house… well when I filed for custody he denied my emergency hearing and the ICC was sent to him as well and I kept having a hard time getting heard because he is not supposed to be on the case since it’s a conflict of interest…so I filed a judicial complaint… now I have another judge who gave me emergency custody, but then turned around and gave my ex a $250 fine, for several PFA violations one of them being he tried to break in my home while out on bail on 3 felony warrants… come to find out my ex is an informant and the police and DA are on his side…. I have some damaging proof of crimes that my ex committed that I offered to the pd and they refused to take it so I plan on bringing it to court and using it for custody and a reason for my relocation…I’m just praying the judge doesn’t get pissed off because it’s not criminal court but I believe it’s vital in my child’s safety because I don’t know who is after my ex for retaliation and I don’t want my son in the crossfire of his bs

I'm in the UK. The judge in our case has disregarded evidence from the Court and Family Liasion Services that concluded my ex-husband to be emotional abusive to both my children, social services and Child and Adolescent Mental Health Services have provided written evidence to say the same. The Judge has dismissed, without even looking at this evidence, and sent me back to mediation with my ex concluding we are parents arguing over days, because this is what my ex keeps saying. Obviously I can disagree with him, but then I am arguing with him which proves her case. Mediation have refused to mediate due to safeguarding concerns over the children. How do i get the Judge to listen to the evience regarding the safeguarding concerns about my children

Thank you *usespy online,* for being the Hermione Granger of divorce cases! Your dedication, enthusiasm, and expertise were like magic. you're a wizard!

Vermilion County Illinois is disgusting when it comes to child custody. My son has been going through his custody case for over FOUR years now and he has YET to even see a judge. The mom has kept his daughter from hlm for over THREE of those years and still he hasn't been able to get in front of a judge. They are slime or whatever is lower than slime! His attorney agrees with anything the opposing side wants and has yet to get anything in writing from the opposing side or anyrhing signed by a judge. No even temp visitation! And this is after his daughter lived with him the 1st four years of her life, until moms new bf decided to cut this side of the family out of the child's life. This has been allowed to go on for over four damn years! Disgusting!

@candicemessick867

2 ай бұрын

Oh no. So sorry to hear it. Prayers for you and your son and the child involved 🙏 and prayers that the mothers heart will be softened to bring his child to see him. She's a bad mom for keeping her child from the father. That's so wrong. She's not just hurting him she is hurting her child aswell. 💔 so heartbreaking. I'm a woman but I'm going through a similar battle- because my kids dad has money and I don't. But I haven't seen my kids in a couple years because he left the state and now I can't find them 😢 and I don't have money for a lawyer. That's why I'm here on this channel.

Here is my case story Been with my child mother for 9 yrs. I have been in my child life since he was born. He is 11 yrs old now mother decided to let girlfriend manipulate her into cheating we broke up messed up my child and he lost the stability of mom and dad. Then she proceeded to get a person who hated me cause he was bum and I was taking care my child ,working and living in my own place and he was not. Ok then she stated keeping our son away from me, for 3 months I didn’t see my son . I cared her to court I got every weekend for 1 yr . This was bullshit. Then I got another attorney cause after the year was up she stated keeping him away from me again this attorney took my case and I had evidence of contempt and a case against her . The court gave me every other weekend and 1 day the following week. This was the second bullshit how the court fucked me over from 50/50. Then she retaliate with child support after 10 yrs of taking care my son cause she was embarrassed in court by the judge and my attorney. (Bummer for me ) My attorney fucked me over by getting my child support date mixed up and lying to me they had child support over the phone cause I was and 200 mi away. I told him to reschedule he told me they trying to have my case now.My attorney fucked me over with that . I trying to hold it together now got one more attorney and to and go to court for my temporary custody and child support which was temporary. My attorney had pics , text messages, paperwork, phone calls , documents and evidence against her showing she was at fault. We went to court none of the evidence was mention in this case I was like what the fuck and she had no attorney all in this case. To me it was the best interest for our child that what matters in a custody case. Anyways we were going for 50/50 custody the judge told us that he will get back in two weeks of his ruling cause this was a hard case to decide. ( I knew I was about to get fucked my attorney talking I think we got your 50/50 . I knew I had lost and you fucked me in court by not providing no evidence. So I got lost my every other weekend adding some days and still gave her 16 to my 12 days in a month. The story and results that judge made a permanent custody order not in the best interest of our child but to make sure I stay on child support with no reduction and in the system. As a man in the court I realize you cannot get 50/50 custody unless you find reason the mom was unfit or in contempt. I got fucked big time this one ran over my days kept my son from and I built a case up against her and still got shitted on. What do I do now I have no more fight left in my I tried so hard , I have been a good dad and been there for my son and I felt I got shitted on. Sheesh 😒

@NeeCBaby

Жыл бұрын

I am so sorry

I am From Franklyn County Ohio...I'll Prove All of This Is Absolutely Wrong...Judges & magistrate's Here Could Care Less About Dads...I'll prove it....With Out Finding My Unfit Or Abusive,Neglectful I Lost Custody Of 4 Kids To A Grand Mother Who Admitted To Watching The Children be Abused For Years With Her Daughter And The Daughters Bf.>With Out ANY complaint Filed Against Me The Judge Seems to Think I Am In The Court's Jurisdiction To Be Judged..This Case Has Been Drug Out for 5 Years with not one complaint Filed against me... So if what you say is right where did my case go wrong?

6:40 "If you cannot settle your case, you're not gonna like the decision I'll have to make." The judge assigned to my case has said this. I'm not sure if it's had an effect on the opposing party. My interpretation was to "scare" us a bit to figure things out, which is what I've been operating at the halfway-mark for, and for the opposing party to meet me there. I hope justice is served.

Can my attorney go through the program with me and receive CLE

My daughter mom messed up twice they keep giving her a slap on the wrist along with DHS this is crazy

Does a man that is married and fights for 50/50. How often does that happen. Washington State. Paternity was established in 2019. He went for full custody in 2020 and willl settle for 50/50. Temp orders give him every other weekend and Wednesday for 2 hours. I am back with my ex of 18 plus years and he is a great father figure to my son since before birth. How often does 50/50 happen? I have not talked to the wife.

Anthony, we have court this month and I found out its going to be over Zoom. What are your thoughts on that?

@judgeanthony

4 жыл бұрын

Unfortunately many courts are going online. I’ve done them. The effectiveness depends on the type of hearing really.

@YourMom-eq4xw

4 жыл бұрын

@@judgeanthony Thank you for the response. I appreciate your videos, they are insightful.

I feel like if My Judge knew what my attny has failed to help her understand...she would have a fit...she would be livid at how much danger that child was allowed to remain in. Here's a skit of my case. Like ClaiminG that Guy "A" stole. But theres a video of guy "b" stealing. Guy "A" is charged and his child taken away. The judge didn't get told about the video of guy "B committed the crime" So guy "A" was presented as guilty. Amd forced to pay and attny still didn't bother showing the evidence of guy "B" stealing. Guy "A" is scared and intimidated into signing filing papers the attny refused to explain. Asking for an investigation.... Meanwhile... Then the other side muddied water....and Guy "a" cant afford the battle. Guy "A" still sits accused 3yrs later. 3yrs innocent as god is alive with out his child.

I am in new jersey, the family court system here you get the same judge in morris county. My x husband got away with so much in court with his lies and being abusive to me and my children. He got away with everything. The lawyers i got only took my money and didnt do much. Child services is a joke they believe the liars and abusers. My x husband is a Naracist, and he said false assassinations against me to child services when he was the one who was abusive to me and my children. Child services gave him my children and took them away from me. The judge also believe my x husband's lies and he got away with everything.

I think the female judges I've experienced are more abrupt as they fear they'll be labelled "soft" so they go to the other extreme

When the judges see text messages as "proof" do you or anyone think that they can tell that they are 'baiting' responses

@laurayancey5094

2 жыл бұрын

I never got a judge to really read the texts. They want it first hand from you and will ask for proof if needed.

HEY tony, semi stay at home in TX, wife breadwinner, i do about 75perc of kids stuff etc, and i am between jobs, can i got for primary or joint and not have to also pay child support, what angle do i play? great vid!

@ProMainMan

2 жыл бұрын

Get a job and save your marriage

@mml1224

2 жыл бұрын

@@ProMainMan why do you say that, i would lose primary and have to split custody and support if i l cant save my marriage, no guarantee......

Hey...you look like you could be Vin Diesel's brother. 🤔 I want Vin Diesel's brother to represent ME in court! 😃

@candicemessick867

2 ай бұрын

He looks more like donny Walberg lol 😆

My judge was just getting me mad but I didn’t said anything he was telling me if I didn’t pay child support I will go to jail I was just listening to him but I got so tired of listening him over 5 min repeating the same thing to me and he even told the both lawyers to imagine being in jail for not paying children support so I was done I told him judge there’s a reason I stop pay children support he like I don’t what to know n don’t didn’t what to listen and then I told him I don’t care about children support all I what is my daughter and then I stood quite and then he stop with that jail BS

@TheDiana1988

2 жыл бұрын

You cant stop paying support without a court order.did yoyr child stop eating,ect

So, I had a family court judge in CA tell me I was not allowed to object to anything that my ex said. He also took away my custody because he didnt like my job.....what kind of mindset would you call that?

@erincarranza3886

Жыл бұрын

@Makaela I am a CPS family reunification coach. I help parents get their kids out of foster care and back in the home.

@erincarranza3886

Жыл бұрын

@Makaela I teach parents how to fight back and get their children away from CPS

@chocolateshake1130

Жыл бұрын

@@erincarranza3886 great job 👏🏾

@Nisheable

Жыл бұрын

Can you give me some pointers

How do we get in contact with you for 1-on-1 sessions?

Court commissioner is clearly biased I misunderstood part of a court order and apologized to the court and totally willing to correct my mistake, he yelled at me and asked does he need to spell it out in crayon?! How is this ok? I deserve the same respect that they expect!!! Also at the end of the ex parte emergency hearing dad held he commented saying it doesn’t look good for me come December?!!!! He’s completely biased I want him removed but have no attorney and ex does. Also we have a trial judge assigned at what point do we see this trial judge instead of the biased commissioner?!!

@rosacam6765

10 ай бұрын

You can file a complaint against the judge.

Why would you need to know what you can or cant "get away" with in court....this for me implies that there's misconconduct that can go unrecognized if you are skillfull enough....correct me if Im wrong...

@PangoSSD

4 жыл бұрын

Yes correct it possibly can play out to be a misconduct charge ...but what is really happening is that the advantage is taking advantage of the disadvantage...what the advantage are entitled to so the disadvantage should as well....correct me if I'm wrong???

@judgeanthony

4 жыл бұрын

I understand your perspective but it’s not. Here’s a simplified example. If you have a very strict and angry judge you better watch what you say and how you act. On the other hand some judges let you ramble and have a much longer leash. There’s a style and mindset to everyone in the courtroom. It would be a disadvantage to not use it to your advantage. 😊

@fitlio3778

Жыл бұрын

@@judgeanthony "some judges let you ramble and have a much longer leash"...are we Dogs or slaves ...or desperate loving parents ....does it makes or loving children , little puppies ? Sher Sher , said all "this for me implies that there's misconconduct"...Judge do not resume and oversimply it down to a family court " judge" , the real issues and their deficiencies are laying elsewhere; the family law itself needs to be revisted , rewritten . period

@timothybinkley688

Жыл бұрын

AMEN ! I believe you are so right Sher Sher !

Family law judges in Canada have 2 thoughts: never make a desion until the lawyers get all the billable hours they can, as these were the guys that recommended him to the prime minister he get a judgship. The other thought they have is 'I made alot of personal political donations to get this gig and I am not gonna upset the graveytrain by not protecting the governments managment of the largest voting block.

JUDGES are ATTORNEYs lol love that side track thought of like ugh corruptions suck in the system

Question Please! My daughters mother went MIA with my Son. I filled for custody already. But she will not answer the phone or let me see my Son. Should I keep calling her and take records to the custody hearing???

@FatherX2022

Жыл бұрын

I would say yes. You should document all the efforts you made to see your son and her denials of access to your son. This includes phone records. But I think emails are better, because they show the words that you used... As opposed to a phone bill with just her number. Document phone calls and emails and texts. Word of caution... Even if you have the right to contact her, do not let it get to the point of harassment. Everyday might be too much. And you shouldn't leave threatening messages, just plain vanilla, that you want to see your son. Another caution is that if you leave her voicemails and do not have recordings of those, she might come back and claim that you will have to threatening messages... Depends on the kind of person she is. And I assume there are no restraining orders in place to prevent you from contacting her...

@bashasharawi3193

Жыл бұрын

@@FatherX2022 Thank you so much. And Yes! There’s no Restraining orders in place.

@bashasharawi3193

Жыл бұрын

@@FatherX2022 Thank you so much. And Yes! There’s no Restraining orders in place.

Here's my deal, I recently had spine surgery and been raising my daughter without hee father for 14 years. Now, he claims her on his taxes and uses the money to get a lawyer to take me to court. He's been battling heroin addiction his whole adult life and I have never kept my daughter from her father bur now I fear what could happen with her. I don't have a lawyer. I let him deal with his addiction to be a healthy person and it never benefitted my daughter. I feel like he's gonna get my kid and he'll take her to a drug dealers house, again. I did however tell his mother that he could no longer have her unsupervised because I wasn't gonna risk my daughters life like he had many times. I don't have any elders and I have a 10 year old son who is special needs and just feel this stranger just wants to take our kid so he can use her. He can not physically, financially or mentally take care of himself let alone a 14 yr old. What do I do???????😢

Our unmarried daughter is in a custody situation with a narcissist. It has been so stressful and heartbreaking! Her baby is 5 months old. Our daughter is 19 and has no income. She has not been able to get child support. Her previous lawyer was not helpful at all. Now she really needs to find a pro bono attorney. We call around to try to get help and everyone keeps saying "Call this number" and we're getting nowhere. 😢 Can you give us some advice?

@ic3671

Ай бұрын

Hey, I’m not a lawyer, but I’m going through the exact same problem is as your daughter. I am in a custody battle with a narcissist and my daughter is 5 months old. He is taking me to court next week for a Temporary Orders Hearing (despite not being involved in the child’s life). I’ve been busting my ass trying to prepare because I don’t have money for an attorney. I’m open to compare notes if you think it will be helpful.

I would love to talk to you. I was one of the leaders in parental alienation. We wrote a book. I absolutely would love to talk to you. Thank you for your mindset.

Anthony, what if my judge has had discretions, he’s in the same boat as my stbx husband, my judge left his wife and 2 girls for another woman. When he (the judge) filed, he too gave his wife Primary Custody... circled back around and a year and a 1/2 later is trying to get 50-50 custody, and is in a custody battle. I find this to be soo biases!!! HELP!!!!

@dumbdonny4824

Жыл бұрын

Jesus what a nightmare!

Judges need to try and understand what the parents are going through, judges aren't the ones going through Hell judges aren't the ones getting anxiety depression faithlessness screw all these judgmental pricks

None of this mattered for me. There was no questioning anything from the judge. Custody was already determined before I walked in the door.

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My ex husband is Muslim and the judge is a Muslim woman... he is Muslim when it suits him, she was on his side, for example explaining that he has the right to go to massage workers "prostitutes", spend his money the way he wants because he worked and I was at home with children...my role to be servant, his role earning money provide for us. Its a lot to say... Muslim culture and mentality judge that's what I'm fight with at this moment in London court in XXI century.

@dumbdonny4824

Жыл бұрын

Oh my gosh im so sorry

@TwoScarvesComedy

Жыл бұрын

Hey! I'm Muslim (American born) and my ex is Muslim. Like your ex, he chooses to be Muslim when it suits him. Of course and unfortunately, the Muslim judge would take his side. My ex is from another country. He just got temporary custody of our only child, she is 9. That man never follows the parenting plan, doesn't go to school activities like I do, doesn't do our daughter's hair or take her to doctor appointments. I'll never be with anyone again if they are from another country or just because they are Muslim. Muslim woman can only marry Muslim men but this time, I'll be with whomever I want. My ex doesn't care about our daughter or what she wants and deserves.

@goshazimo8512

Жыл бұрын

@@TwoScarvesComedy I'm so sorry, they are just sperm doner and unfortunately we let them to be on birth certificate- that's why they have rights like "father", but doesn't have idea what responsibility is to be a father. They are abusers, their fathers are abusers, all generation are, they don't know other way and don't want. Woman and children are to serve their purpose and they want them when is convenient for them. My ex works in Qatar Ambassy in London earns lots of money, get paid by cheques, no tax is paid, lives in the house and talk to the house and eats his money and spend for prostitutes but nothing for his children. Of course he will use words like insalla, Allah, halal or not halal, but getting chlamydia from prostitute is halal.

@mynameisearlb

Жыл бұрын

If she was truly a Muslim woman she wouldn't be a judge...

@Dallashygienist

11 ай бұрын

Wow. That’s a ridiculous. How old are kids.

He forgwts one “small” detail family court judges have a financial interest in custody cases since courts receive funding ($1)for every dollar collected in child support cases. Thats why they violatate your parental rights to make a case and relegate one parent (usually the one who makes more money)so he has to pay into the system. So if these judges are”humans” as our judge here says that is debatable.

Santa Clara County Family Court systems are lawless. Judges and attorneys committing bribery & extortion. My judge was charged and convicted of both, & kicked out of criminal court, put in traffic court, & he behaved so well there, they promoted him to family court, because he’s banned from criminal court.

@Rose.Marie.

Жыл бұрын

No way!

Can u help me.

Who's gonna pay us the most money 💰 How long can we rinse them for. What kind of slurs or accusations can we use to get a result. This is their mindset. Pure wickedness.

My husband is very tall 6'6" and every woman in Family Court flirts with him😂

Ohh and you please judges?

Do I need to get an attorney for child support when a state is taking the non custodial parent

@yoelalmeida3259

Жыл бұрын

Yes and a Good One.

Thoughts on Judicial Misconduct and corruption in the family court system

@maotse-tung5414

Жыл бұрын

I've been asking you this same exact question for months. I would very much appreciate if you could find a moment of your time to address this critical concern. Thank you in advance.

Law book states If arbitrator conflict of interest ( Friends with other lawyer) Dismissal regardless of agreement We have a bias mediator- arbitrator

What about judge that are friends with attorneys of defendant who failed four drug test. Admitted to what they define as corporal punishment but is abuse towards minor child. The defendants attorney is also married to a family court judge. It’s bias behavior. The judge made jokes about the drugs and thought it was funny.

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I disagree. When ur nice to a narcissist, it does nothing but show weakness and eagerness. Which they feed off.

@kozmo2006

11 ай бұрын

I completely agree with you.

@nathanmciver6496

8 ай бұрын

Thiers lots of them and they all work for profit while giving to the needy and feeding the curruption! Weak community, built on strength and arrogance because they think education give's them the right to manipulate and control other people's lifes! Hallow role's stealing from the most important role's or parts of people's life's! Fear makes people work harder, act better than others, get kids to sell more while other's just want a life and not to feel stalked and staired down on

Dad threatening contempt bc I am keeping son for Halloween since it’s the 5 wkend of the month and he only has 3 wkend a month that he has already had! Pinned the custody agreement to OFW and included gal. Will they see this is continuing harassment? That’s what I got the app for!!!

@joyhannadewitt1998

Жыл бұрын

Same here girl. Make a word document of everything. Show the court this along with other exhibits

@joyhannadewitt1998

Жыл бұрын

These people are sick. 😢 moms need to be with their mama

U look just like the KZreadr clash with ash

Sounds like the judge your talking about might possibly be an i.n.t.j on Meyers and briggs

Can’t dress up professional for a black screen on zoom - when represented by an attorney the attorney has seen on the sound. But the person he represents it’s just a black screen. He ex is representing himself and he actually goes to court. Looking like a ragamuffin. Myself my daughter who is represented by an attorney and the attorney says the judge is biased against my daughter. I was giving the dad a pat on the freaking back! Ex felon , drug addict in recovery , and a woman beater !

My ex produced over 100 pages each witness statements. Based on the amount of paper and pictures of him with children which I made the judge said that she wasn't able to read everything but she can see the papers and beautiful pictures of him with kids that he is loving father !!! I can't believe it. He took my children 3 and 5 years old daughter and left on the field with other children, 3 years old broke her arm and he didn't know what happened obviously he wasn't there. The Muslim judge listen to him, he was talking non stop...attacking me, I was in a flight mode. Cafcass will investigate and in December we will have the final court hearing.

@thealien634

Жыл бұрын

Hes a Narc. FIGHT. YOU LEAD. NOT HIM. NOT HIM ANYMORE!!!! You are a panther that thirsty and ready to attack anyone for your baby cubs. PUT THAT IN YOUR HEAD! YOU ARE A HUNGRY THIRSTY PANTHER GETTING HER KIDS BACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@thealien634

Жыл бұрын

@truthsocialmedia

Жыл бұрын

i hope english isn't your first language.

Why has society normalized cussing?!

U r a judge? Man kudos to u for one, u r young for judge 🫡 Im gna say some things and the truth 1. Child custody is a HUSTLE!!!! 2. It breaks more families than helps 3. As a parent u feel like u have no say in ur childs well being and u cant even say anytbing cuz then judge gets mad and once judge doesnt like what u say he/she isssss gonna be bias. 4. I don’t care who says what almost every judge will take the moms side. 5. How come judges dont have something like internal affairs? 6. U tell the truth and mon lies and u prove she lies and still u r wrong. What type of shit is that? 7. Judge will grant female FAKE RO IMMEDIATELY but will deny ur factual one. So how do report the judge if something is fishy? 8. Not all judges r fair and good. No diff than cops or doctors. 9. So what if ppl dont have money to fight for tjeir kids? Then what? 10. Judge keeps denying ur time w ur kid while mom AND JUDGE TOG. ALIENATE UR CHILD THEN 9 months later they say- oh u have no bond. Dude how does this make sense? What type of reasoning is that? Lol 11. How do u open judges eyes when uve already presented all facts and he still extends hearing after hearing. My case had conclusive pressumtion cuz SHE LIED, and i proved it and he threw it out but still no custody? Lol. Man this is just so wrong

@FatherX2022

Жыл бұрын

ummm....dude...all 11 of your points are 200% correct. Your effort needs to be devoted to overcoming the bias and incompetence of the family court...in order to protect your kids. It took me 3+ years and 28 hours of direct testimony, but I did it. Your kids are worth it...stay strong for them. Fight smart. Fight hard.

@Eyes_dont_Lie

Жыл бұрын

@@FatherX2022 god bless u bro. Im happy for u. I know in end ill win but bro this shit doesnt stopppp and i dnt shit money man. I have realized though (after 7 hearings ) that i need to stoppppp being real and start acting. I always thought if ur real and honest ull get whats coming to u but nooooo. U gotta act and lie. Which is soooo wrong. Dude everyyyyy lie i prove this judge keeps extending it and keeps creating some new program or involves other ppl. When it comes to my kid i dont play!!!! I will push back even to judge and thats bcuz i got nothing to worry about. My ass is clean and mom is just all the way foul and ive been soooo fair man. Sooo fair. I am just lost. There needsssss to be some type of internal affairs for these judges. Then u cant even change judge cuz new judge is NOT gna like that at all so im screwed man bt thank u for ur response :). The syst is broken for fam court in calif for MOST!!!

@FatherX2022

Жыл бұрын

I hear you, brother. Here's a tip... It's not about being real or acting. Research the "best interests of the child" in California state law, Google it. There are things that are considered best for the child. If you focus all of your talking in court about how your parenting is better for your child than the mother's parenting... That's when you start handcuffing the judge and taking away their ability to be gender biased. in court, when everybody talks in circles about nothing, the judge tends to just rubber stamp the mother for everything. So you have to change the conversation to focus on what's best for the child and keep showing evidence and documentation that you are just as good a parent as the mother or better. And remember that judges cannot compete with intelligent thought. But judges can compete with you when it comes to anger and power in the courtroom because they can have you arrested or take your child away. So fight smart. Hope that helps.

@nicholeashley7651

Жыл бұрын

So I'm just going to say, it's not a gender based thing all the time! I was a full time stay at home mother to both our kids. Their father is an alcoholic, has two DUIs, was extremely emotionally/mentally abusive to all of us, and physically to me... did not help parent thr kids but took pictures with them ti put on social media and make it look like he loves them and is involved, he mever was though. Then turned his and my entire family against me, convinced them I was crazy and mentally unstable. I never spoke up about it much, the few people I did tell didn't believe me or care really lol then he leaves, and files for divorce in sept. I let him take them for Thanksgiving, he refuses to return them the next day. I call sheriff, they can't do anything. Get them back after 4 days. [He had NEVER had them overnight alone because of the drinking] they were 4 and 1... so I keep them and file for parenting plan. Takes 2 months to see a judge, he gets an attorney by that time. They convinced the judge I am withholding for no reason and just being vindictive. Tell the judge his days off are TH-SUN. no evidence to back it [it's actually SAT/SUN] Judge believes everything they say, gives my kids to him TH-SUN. Even though I had told the judge in my statement about the abuse and about him keeping them from me for 4 days, traumatized them. About his alcohol issues. And him not actually having TH-SUN off... and that my son was in PREK so how would he go Friday? [We live an hour away from each other] Judge didn't care at all. Didn't ask for any evidence from them. And it continues that way to this very day. I am now three years into this divorce, as of September. I always provide evidence, I am always honest and I am always trying to do best for my kids. We see a different judge every time and he uses that to his advantage. If I bring up anything it's brushed off no matter how much evidence I have... I had a lawyer for a brief period and she tried to compel him to provide necessary documents asked for in her interrogatories, it had been 6 months... we needed them for mediation before our settlement conference. The judge DENIED the motion... like HOW DO YOU DENY SOMETHING WE NEED TO FINISH THE DIVORC!?? The system is insane in WA state... he could say I sprout three heads and eat the neighborhood children, and they would look at him and be like..." omg you poor thing! I'm sure she does! I'm so sorry you had to go through that!!!" I have never been disrespectful, my children have never been hurt with me, I have tried to coparent, bent over backwards to make it least stressful for my kids, I log on the OFW, I have teachers concerned, DCYF was concerned, I don't everything right and still get brushed off and treated like i am some mother who ran off and abandoned her kids and never really took care of them. My parenting plan HAS been altered since my oldest started school to M-F but that's the only reason. They beg me not to go every weekend, they hate it there still, even after over 2 years. If he was a good dad, they should love going... [I am not one of those mothers who talks shit about the dad. I believe fuckkng with a kids head space is just as vile as fucking with their body... especially when you hold the position of parent/guardian. Their father DOES do it, though, it has severely damaged my relationship with my kids. Courts don't care though... and I have no clue WHY. So just know you are not alone, and it's not always because of gender... because I was a full-time SAHM from the day my first was born... they were/are both happy and healthy and thriving in my care, but it didn't/doesn't matter. And they wonder why we stay with our abusive partners for so long... at least we can protect them if we are there with them. 🤷🏻‍♀️😵‍💫 Good luck to you!!

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Why can’t I get the point early on in your vid? That’s a turn off. Work on that please. You’re one of my favorites nonetheless.

Judge: you’re doing BACKFLIPS defending the IN_DEFENSIBLE. Family “law” is NOT a real court. It does not require evidence, follow procedures, is transparent etc. the ONLY advice you should be giving men is AVOID this schitt like the damm plague

@fitlio3778

Жыл бұрын

amen , at least a person with common sense .A real court law consist of having an impartial jury of your peers . Family court is nothing thant juristical dictatorship where children are the least of them concerns.

You can tell that you have been in a relationship with a narcissist. You lost it fumbling around about emotions and the sexes. 😆👍

Acho que Deus deveria ter dado gravidez ao homem .

Is he just saying a lot of words and not getting a goddamn point across yet ..I want to be invested here but fuck get a point out ....I liked him he seemed like a straight shooter but ..grrr I'm hanging in there ..I know he knows his shit , that seems to speak for itself..

You need to get to the point quicker 🤦

Thank you for the help. Your advice is good, but your language is disrespectful and unprofessional.

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You can tell that you have been in a relationship with a narcissist. You lost it fumbling around about emotions and the sexes. 😆👍