The Hidden Reason Why You're Not Confident and What To Do About It

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The Core Reason Why You're Not Confident and What To Do About It
We often feel that we feel insecure because we lack confidence.
So we start off by trying to become more confident by using various techniques & methods.
But trying to increase your confidence is not going to be a solution to be more confident.
In fact, it's gonna take you further away from your goal.
So why is it that we're not confident?
The answer lies with our past and childhood experiences.
In today's video we're gonna tackle all of it:
📌 Why do we have low confidence?
📌 How our insecurities make us underconfident?
📌 Where do these insecurities come from?
📌 How to finally let go of these insecurities to get unstuck
and reclaim your power as a confident person you were always meant to be.
Check out the video,
Love
Kshitij 🍻
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Пікірлер: 101

  • @IronManLifestyle
    @IronManLifestyle3 жыл бұрын

    Hey guys, I'm taking out time to talk to you guys and see how I can help you out. If you're interested in working with me long term to sort this out, schedule a call with me using the link below. www.ironmanlifestyle.co/breakthrough

  • @vaishnovgaikwad4718

    @vaishnovgaikwad4718

    3 жыл бұрын

    Please make a video on Chemistry vs Compatibility in relationship ! See many people fall for chemistry but then relationship or the other person is not matching us.And when people choose Compatibility then chemistry nahi aati (magnetic feeling towards them) 😂 Sala Kya kare.& so tell me is there any chance that chemistry can be created like it’s natural or not esspecifically in long distance relationships.

  • @omkarrajurkar9012

    @omkarrajurkar9012

    3 жыл бұрын

    Bro indian parents upbringing is the main chalenge🤔

  • @vivekjasrotia5906

    @vivekjasrotia5906

    9 ай бұрын

    6:59...real thing you addressed🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @mayankjain5836
    @mayankjain58363 жыл бұрын

    I love how the channel is shaping up and it is evident that you are taking a new route. but bro please keep us updated with pick-up related videos as well as new infields. much love

  • @subhranilmukherjee
    @subhranilmukherjee3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you once again for addressing this.

  • @rathoddhairya
    @rathoddhairya3 жыл бұрын

    Topic idea: How to have a charismatic personality?

  • @omkarrajurkar9012
    @omkarrajurkar90123 жыл бұрын

    Hatsoff bro!!!!♥️

  • @vishalsalunkhe1512
    @vishalsalunkhe15123 жыл бұрын

    Thanks brother much needed.

  • @dipanshumutreja2323
    @dipanshumutreja23233 жыл бұрын

    Great information put together Kshitij :)

  • @sumeet3773
    @sumeet37733 жыл бұрын

    Awesome video 👌

  • @imranrasheed.793
    @imranrasheed.793 Жыл бұрын

    fell in love with your content .

  • @adityapunwatkar895
    @adityapunwatkar8953 жыл бұрын

    Love your hoodies.😍

  • @rohansehgal2354
    @rohansehgal23543 жыл бұрын

    Bhai bohot sahi!!

  • @nishantprajapat5474
    @nishantprajapat54743 жыл бұрын

    Amazing

  • @soumyaranajanrath295
    @soumyaranajanrath2953 жыл бұрын

    The truth everyone should hear

  • @nipunsguptas8837
    @nipunsguptas88373 жыл бұрын

    My friend I'm really happy you're getting more active on KZread.. I got suggestions and recommendations three times in 2 days.. that's result ^_^

  • @vsahil88
    @vsahil883 жыл бұрын

    So true...

  • @alphafitness7467
    @alphafitness74673 жыл бұрын

    thank you bhai

  • @cheemsdoge3323
    @cheemsdoge33233 жыл бұрын

    Posting lit content brooo💥🙌

  • @kaustubhpasalkar4148
    @kaustubhpasalkar41482 жыл бұрын

    True af ❤️

  • @ammyvlog05
    @ammyvlog053 жыл бұрын

    Nice video bro

  • @manamsetty2664
    @manamsetty26642 жыл бұрын

    I don't know why this channel has not blown up

  • @aasavravi5919
    @aasavravi59193 жыл бұрын

    awesome

  • @siddhartlakandri7880
    @siddhartlakandri7880 Жыл бұрын

    Thumbnail is🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @Sid0bboy
    @Sid0bboy3 жыл бұрын

    I have the same problems... please make more video on solutions. Thank you for this video.

  • @IronManLifestyle

    @IronManLifestyle

    3 жыл бұрын

    If you need help, I'm doing some free calls over the next couple of days. Just schedule a call using this link here bro www.ironmanlifestyle.co/breakthrough

  • @ishanchhari
    @ishanchhari Жыл бұрын

    o god such a relatable video🤩🤩🤩🤩

  • @ayankhan-bv3ht
    @ayankhan-bv3ht3 жыл бұрын

    Damn 🔥 Content frequency is increasing day by day ❤️

  • @krishankumar-oe8mk
    @krishankumar-oe8mk3 жыл бұрын

    Only thing to say plz make a video rather on a topic " how to be confident and leave past things behind " and come straight to the points and provide remedy bro..dont like long story telling about others I m referring to all your videos sir, I hope u understand bro..keep growing much love and support

  • @Lehri
    @Lehri3 жыл бұрын

    These videos are gold 🔥

  • @prabhatnagdeve4737
    @prabhatnagdeve47373 жыл бұрын

    At start of the year you had 5k subscribers and now you have 22k such a great progress 🤟

  • @gudusharma3813
    @gudusharma38133 жыл бұрын

    Content op 🔥 🔥 🔥

  • @devanshsharma8062
    @devanshsharma80623 жыл бұрын

    Incredible bro..!❤️

  • @Selftransformationjourney
    @Selftransformationjourney9 ай бұрын

    Brother pls make more videos on deep level reason, It will help many

  • @abhaysharma4503
    @abhaysharma45033 жыл бұрын

    You are a guru

  • @aakashprat
    @aakashprat2 жыл бұрын

    This man is spitting fax for 9:28 mins straight

  • @kishanroy4323
    @kishanroy43233 жыл бұрын

    Another great video❤️

  • @37krishshah70
    @37krishshah703 жыл бұрын

    Means sir we have to let go all past things and start in new way

  • @kushalshukla444
    @kushalshukla444 Жыл бұрын

    same julien told us

  • @itssam2153
    @itssam21533 жыл бұрын

    1st comment bro I meet you very soon Are you in Delhi?

  • @sohamdhamnaskar5737
    @sohamdhamnaskar57373 жыл бұрын

    Can you make a video on acceptance: How do i accept myself the way i am and others the way they are?

  • @devanshsharma8062
    @devanshsharma80623 жыл бұрын

    How to do game in your social circle and like in your school/college/office...! And be the most attractive guy around there..!!!

  • @vitocarleone7197

    @vitocarleone7197

    3 жыл бұрын

    Padhai likahi Karo ias wais bano Bhai ,pr tumahri.....😂😂 No hate😂

  • @heartofsteel8808

    @heartofsteel8808

    3 жыл бұрын

    By having a fun lifestyle that people in your social want to be a part of. so how can you get such lifestyle... Organise parties in your place and get the reputations of that most social guy. And lead people to parties and clubs, so the underlying message is you want to get people in your social circle to depend on you to for fun which will increase your social value dramatically. The best way to learn this watching people who are good at this in your social circle and copy them, for example if there's a high value guy jn your social circle, go befriend him and look how he deals with people, how he organises stuff, how he provides most fun things to people, the things about his personality and body language that makes him captivating and everything. You can just start by pulling 2 or 3 of your friends to this lifestyle, go up to them and be like hey bro, get ready where are going to this place tonight and do this and this and its gonna be fun, Take the responsibility off their shoulders and lead them to greatness. that's why how you become the most high value person in your social circle.

  • @BrainHax

    @BrainHax

    3 жыл бұрын

    Trust me bro, being the most attractive guy is the subjective opinion, so some people will think that you are attractive and some people will not, no matter what you do. Only purpose of Game is that, everyone will enjoy your company and if they are not enjoying your company "Game" Will give you the eyes to sense that, so that you can run the fuck out of there and find different group/girl. I am going to make a video on this topic, not self promoting but buddy, don't ever chase this path, this will destroy you

  • @vitocarleone7197

    @vitocarleone7197

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@BrainHax focus on your work and you will be the most attractive ,fuck it

  • @abulmullick07

    @abulmullick07

    3 жыл бұрын

    Don’t waste your time impressing other people rather focus on your goals and improving yourself!

  • @SahilJangam
    @SahilJangam3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for this video brother because this is the video of which I was looking for unlike others who tell u to do different things to gain fake confidence which will never last long.The thing which u said about letting go our deepest dark feeling of shame,bullying etc just stuck into my mind again big thanks for this video appreciate your efforts ❤️

  • @tradingforliving5894

    @tradingforliving5894

    3 жыл бұрын

    Bro pls understand in Hindi

  • @chetanahire8709
    @chetanahire87093 жыл бұрын

    at 4:54 I was like ohhhh bc freuddddddd

  • @prayag667
    @prayag6673 жыл бұрын

    Love your hoddie bro kaha se li??? Btw the content is very informative and helpful. Keep growing Kshitij bro.

  • @reviewwithrathore1692

    @reviewwithrathore1692

    3 жыл бұрын

    Zara se

  • @punitgoswami2017

    @punitgoswami2017

    3 жыл бұрын

    No its from westside and costs only 1299

  • @adityabhide227
    @adityabhide2273 жыл бұрын

    Any suggestion on how can we let go those past experiences?

  • @heartofsteel8808

    @heartofsteel8808

    3 жыл бұрын

    by buying his product duh

  • @IronManLifestyle

    @IronManLifestyle

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@heartofsteel8808 lol.

  • @vishwassingh1982
    @vishwassingh1982 Жыл бұрын

    May be my introvertness is the result of my flaws in upbringing......sometimes too much humbleness sucks

  • @bhaveshgarg4618
    @bhaveshgarg46183 жыл бұрын

    Todd ke rak Diya bhai muje🙌

  • @BadassBobY

    @BadassBobY

    Жыл бұрын

    That's what she said.

  • @putin4646
    @putin46463 жыл бұрын

    This is my life..

  • @manudhull4842
    @manudhull48423 жыл бұрын

    Sehrawat bhai, aap thumbnail k liye konsa app use karte ho?

  • @satyagiri331
    @satyagiri3313 жыл бұрын

    Please post new infields bro.

  • @sameerdhodi5375
    @sameerdhodi53753 жыл бұрын

    thumbnail is conor mcgregor with your picture.op bhai

  • @vikramadityarathore97
    @vikramadityarathore973 жыл бұрын

    It seems you made this video inspired by yesterday's call I made 😅

  • @devanshsharma8062
    @devanshsharma80623 жыл бұрын

    How to attain a charming persnality

  • @Sachin-jt8ib
    @Sachin-jt8ib3 жыл бұрын

    Sorry for the bad English. My life depends on it please tell me. (Our office doesn't have policies to stop people in coming relationship outside office)We both work in same office. I 2 months ago said that I really like her and want a relationship (my fault I know that) and she said no. She said we should just stay friends. I thought maybe she will say yes after sometime and we went to eat someplace together for 2-3 times after that she showed me a new place to go, but we didn't go. But I was naive at that time and It was my fault because I was the one who offered her, not her fault. Now I know that I have to move on. We both are co-workers.She sent me a pic one day(that girl and boy can be best friends its not always about relationship). Now I have accepted her as a friend because I somehow got to know that she has a boyfriend but she says she is single (but I know it) and I don't flirt or don't say or do anything I would for a girl I am interested but I sometimes helps her like I would do for my male friend(don't go out of my way to help her but help her sometimes when she asks to help). I just talk to her normally over text about work or normal things like friends talk and don't talk about personal things until she talks. But sometimes I think that she cannot even become a best friend because one day I needed a book she had this book . So I asked her to send me photos of the book but she didn't sent me the pics even I asked for it 3 times. And I also had one book and she wanted that book , even I sent the photos of my book. Then after 4 days of leave she gave me that book and I asked her that you would have sent me the photos of book but she said she was busy. There are other things also which make me think she cannot even become a good friend. But, main thing is that we both do lunch together sitting next to each other. She touches my legs and don't back off even after sometime . And she sometimes come to my seat to talk to me. I don't have problem in talking because we are friends but she sometimes tries to touch my legs, not always but sometimes. And sometimes she acts cold like keeping her face to the other side ( I just can't understand this). And she sometimes also replies late to my message, when I don't reply her( I always reply on time when I am free but whenever I am not free I don't text or use phone. So if she texts me, if don't reply her in time she doesn't reply in time intentionally) When it's lunch time we go together there but one day I didn't asked her for lunch and went there myself. She called me and said "why didn't you asked me for lunch" and I casually said forgot to ask her(because that's the truth). I literally don't understand what's the problem if didn't ask her. And when its time to leave office she always tries to go with me, she one day intentionally went to washroom at the time of leaving office to check that if I would leave her or not( I just know she did it intentionally, somehow). She sometimes also get jealous when I talk my other female friends on call, even though we are just friends and she also tries to make me jealous sometimes by talking other telling stories about her male friends. I just don't know what the fuck is happening here. That why I have stopped talking to my female friends in front of her. In Normal circumstances , I would have walked away from her. But cannot walk away or stay away from her. But it's office I don't want to complicate things but just want to be good friend or colleagues, nothing more never ever. Please if someone can tell me , what she really wants. Or tell me what should I do. Or is it me, who is just overthinking about it?

  • @omkarrajurkar9012
    @omkarrajurkar90123 жыл бұрын

    Bro please make on how to deal with INDIAN PARENTS....thank you!!!

  • @mayanksingade1356
    @mayanksingade13562 жыл бұрын

    But how can we do that?

  • @DJBRU
    @DJBRU3 жыл бұрын

    💜

  • @Rajwardhan
    @Rajwardhan3 жыл бұрын

    Did you saw that fx master add on this video

  • @sudarshan3965
    @sudarshan39653 жыл бұрын

    What is your intro music

  • @snkeThakur007
    @snkeThakur007 Жыл бұрын

    Notorious kshitij mcgregor

  • @vijaykhamkar3957
    @vijaykhamkar39572 жыл бұрын

    👌👌👌👌👌👌

  • @aniljadhav6361
    @aniljadhav63612 жыл бұрын

    😎

  • @JD-fx7io
    @JD-fx7io3 жыл бұрын

    bhai tum ho... to ham hai

  • @hangoutwithsid
    @hangoutwithsid3 жыл бұрын

    Bhai tune bhi sony ka mast vala camera le liya kya!!

  • @Ak353-d7u
    @Ak353-d7u3 жыл бұрын

    Thumbnail man 😂😂

  • @siddharth6940
    @siddharth69403 жыл бұрын

    I believe that loss of coincidence is filled by ego and thats often self harmful. Can yoi speak on ego ?

  • @avyan5613
    @avyan56133 жыл бұрын

    Anyone day-gaming in Delhi?

  • @Ankesh_00
    @Ankesh_002 жыл бұрын

    Confidence = Conor McGregor

  • @AdityaSingh-zn8yx
    @AdityaSingh-zn8yx3 жыл бұрын

    bro plz make a video on how to not care that other people are looking at me while gaming, I know logically they don't care but this is one of the biggest fears of mine during approaching, I fear more of this than the girls reaction and what I will say to the girl. plz, share ur insights on these. thnx, as usual, to help bros liken us to get better. love you and your content bro.

  • @AbhishekKumar-ug1hm
    @AbhishekKumar-ug1hm3 жыл бұрын

    First comment : 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @sagarkhatri7972
    @sagarkhatri79723 жыл бұрын

    Bro in your videos you should focus more on solution rather than the problem

  • @IronManLifestyle

    @IronManLifestyle

    3 жыл бұрын

    The solution isn't just theoretical. Its practical. And needs to be done with someone experiences.

  • @kashyap.devanshu
    @kashyap.devanshu3 жыл бұрын

    Can you explain how to regress and feel past wounding impressions ?

  • @IronManLifestyle

    @IronManLifestyle

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sure man. Let's schedule a free call: www.ironmanlifestyle.co/breakthrough

  • @diyadutta49
    @diyadutta493 жыл бұрын

    Also confidence comes from achievements.when you start achieving something little by little,you get to be confident more & more..So in my opinion the solution is to work..Focus on career goals & work on that.

  • @sparshgupta2916

    @sparshgupta2916

    3 жыл бұрын

    Nope. That confidence will only help in your career not in your social life. Your social life will still be fucked up.

  • @bluexwave5930

    @bluexwave5930

    Жыл бұрын

    @@sparshgupta2916 true af

  • @anujkoushal2354
    @anujkoushal23543 жыл бұрын

    Just a random comment to boost your growth

  • @LovelyAnglerfish-fo5vi
    @LovelyAnglerfish-fo5vi7 ай бұрын

    Aap Hindi se jada English me bolte ho to jada kuch samajh mein nahi aaya bhaya 😢

  • @gujjufitness9
    @gujjufitness92 жыл бұрын

    Bhai english kam bola karo plzz 🙏🙏

  • @SandeepSharma-ib1qk
    @SandeepSharma-ib1qk3 жыл бұрын

    Bhai , hindi me bolta to hamara bhi confidence badh jaata, plz make this video in hindi language, har aadmi a angrej nh h

  • @vikasmotla4170
    @vikasmotla41703 жыл бұрын

    You talked about problem for 8.30 minutes and solution for 1 minute only? And, let go ? Seriously? If it's that easy, sab log confidently macha rahe hote.... I wish solution k baare me jyada baat hoti..

  • @mehanmishra9006

    @mehanmishra9006

    3 жыл бұрын

    I wish tumne Inner child and trauma healing vaali free webinar attend kri hooti.

  • @vikasmotla4170

    @vikasmotla4170

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@mehanmishra9006 Bro, I am not talking about other videos or webinars. I am talking about only this video. Title says "What to do about it?" Isn't it unfair to talk only about the problem and not the solution. There are 100s 1000s of GB content out there but again everyone talks about the problem. I felt this video is also the same.

  • @vikasmotla4170

    @vikasmotla4170

    3 жыл бұрын

    And if there are other webinars/videos he should have mentioned it...

  • @IronManLifestyle

    @IronManLifestyle

    3 жыл бұрын

    There's a link in description for it. Also, for people wanting help I'm doing free calls to see if I can help you out.. If you're interested, you could schedule a call using the below link: www.ironmanlifestyle.co/breakthrough

  • @yashpange8427
    @yashpange84273 жыл бұрын

    The solution is Ayahuasca.

  • @IronManLifestyle

    @IronManLifestyle

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lol

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