Alan never stop showing your emotions on camera. I can tell my son its okay to cry, but an example of strong man willing expressing his emotions is so very powerful. Thank you for your willingness to be vulnerable.

@mabelbeltran3920

3 жыл бұрын

Agree. Also it's so important how other men react to that it may be even more important the fact that Jonathan is there for him and validates his feelings it should be done more and the fact that it doesn't encourages men to continue to not cry or be emotional under that "women are the ones that cry and are emotional"

@Allovimo

3 жыл бұрын

+++

@CookiesDC

3 жыл бұрын

There have been so many times where I've needed to just cry but haven't because I was afraid of being called a creep or weirdo or something. It makes me so happy to read your comment. 😃

@tonichan89

3 жыл бұрын

yes yes yes yes yessss!

@user-df8oh4vx9l

3 жыл бұрын

"Crying is very manly " - Harry Styles, 2018

I love how Jonathan was talking about how in therapy he draws a hard line when it comes to the kind of attention he can receive, and I think that’s something that’s so powerful that he’s able to express putting your foot down in a respectful way to help both parties involved

@vjmcdonn

3 жыл бұрын

This!!! 🙌🙌🙌 so accurate!!

@esotericexplorersmartinez493

3 жыл бұрын

Same! Im a massage therapist and lots of clients try to push past a line , I put my foot down I don’t let men call me sweetheart honey cutie or anything like that. You have to put your foot down and make things very clear. It can be hard because they are clients but still if not they will continue pushing boundaries

@alexandrac6177

3 жыл бұрын

It’s also super important for therapists. People get comfortable and attached to good therapists VERY easily

@Rowancat11

3 жыл бұрын

It makes me feel more comfortable, too. You know where the boundaries are, and that makes you feel more comfortable.

@NanaMuffinLady

3 жыл бұрын

I agree 😊

"Just a couple of dads" You're selling yourselves way short. There a lots of channels that talk about movies. You guys talk about mindfulness, emotions, relationships, and building connections. You have something really special here, so it's not surprising in the least that your audience is growing.

@larajordan9734

3 жыл бұрын

I second this!!

@anica7438

2 жыл бұрын

Y E S- say it louder for people at the back!

@amandasnider2644

3 ай бұрын

But I like their point how we are all just people. Getting excited about them responding or liking a comment on their video might feel (to the "famous" persons) no different than some other stranger talking to you on the internet.

"Yes!" to people hugging instead of kissing after reconciling! It feels so much more real. As does the forehead touch between Darcy and Elizabeth in Pride and Prejudice. So much more intimate and emotional than immediate snogging.

@MossyMozart

2 жыл бұрын

@mioafox - Kissing may be fun, but a good hug is sooooooo satisfying and feels good all over.

@levydeat

2 жыл бұрын

Can confirm, in a long distance relationship with my gf right now and every time we see each other in person we have a big long hug before kissing

@felipegobattoscheibler4812

Жыл бұрын

To me, a tight hug feels much better to discharge all of the big feelings first. Nothing is better for when you've been craving that physical connection with somebody. Imagine if we came into a kiss with all of that energy. We'd be slamming teeth into one another and that's... not cool. Kisses need tenderness.

@SingingSealRiana

Жыл бұрын

yeah . . . . kisses feel more like done for the picture, cause thats a thing people are supposedly doing, not like what people actualy do . . . kissing is a pretty different mindest I associate, then the one natural in those scenes

“Those of you who are calling me ‘Doctor Snack’ in the comments, that should absolutely continue” Okay, Doctor Snack.

@pandamonium2653

3 жыл бұрын

I wasn't aware of this until this episode but I am 110% on board

@cece2578

3 жыл бұрын

We've got the green light! 🙆

@Code_Ax0

3 жыл бұрын

@@cece2578 🚦🚦GO 🟢 GO 🟢 GO!!! 🏃🏃

@rebeccamuniz1544

3 жыл бұрын

@@pandamonium2653 same

@jynx6262

2 жыл бұрын

I wasn't prepared to hear him say Dr Snack and I just lost it.

Love that Alan cries, it's very masculine when men embrace their emotions.

@laviniasnow4494

3 жыл бұрын

It takes a lot of courage and emotional strength and clarity to cry in front of strangers! There, I said it! 😌

@wot4192

3 жыл бұрын

Yes!

@Makairl

3 жыл бұрын

Yes✊

@wijcik

3 жыл бұрын

Totally! It is such a manly, confident thing to be emotionally open like that.

@CookiesDC

3 жыл бұрын

I think masculinity is a very outdated term and it shouldn't have to ever be used but yes I agree with what you're saying. I think anybody should be able to cry if they want to (men and women). Or anybody else that doesn't even identify as a man or woman. Again I totally agree with you I'm just saying that masculinity is an outdated term. 🙂

I think the idea that cheaters were secretly evil all along and “it could never be me” is a dangerous idea. It seems a lot like abstinence education and accidental pregnancy. The best way to avoid doing something bad is to admit that you are capable of doing something bad. If it is too shameful you will never check yourself until it is too late.

@amberkelly3187

2 жыл бұрын

I know what you mean. It’s absolutely a choice though. You can say from the beginning “I will never cheat” and stick to that. I think he problem is people don’t think anything of pushing boundaries. If there is a moment of intimacy, whether physical or emotional before anything happens you can stop and ask what you are doing. Spend more effort with your partner, less with the other person and dial things back. But if you are unhappy in someway in your relationship and aren’t looking to your partner to help you work through it you are making a choice.

@DrZaius3141

2 жыл бұрын

I wouldn't necessarily say "evil", but considering cheating as a red flag is absolutely valid.

@pussydestroyer69285

2 жыл бұрын

I get it but at the same time, cheating is a choice that you make. If you're unhappy then talk to your partner or get a divorce.

@levydeat

2 жыл бұрын

You’re blowing my mind right now and you’re absolutely right

@ADeL-xp2hv

Жыл бұрын

Like I tell my kids, good people make bad choices. So just because their father made a bad choice doesn't make him a bad person. He was a good husband to a certain extent, he just couldn't be honest with himself and chose to sweep problems under the rug instead of dealing with them. I don't hate not resent him but I do believe his choices led to grave consequences.

alan progressing from “unlicensed filmmaker” to “unlicensed... but professional filmmaker” is the the true therapy of this channel

@arielfitzsimmons9703

3 жыл бұрын

Yes!😂😊❤

Alan and Jahannah: _talking about the film industry_ Jonathan: _nodding along in silent confusion_

@QueenKittyMonster

3 жыл бұрын

Me any time I'm around guys talking about sports

@sampeacaml9307

3 жыл бұрын

@@QueenKittyMonster Me, it's with my pals geeking about maths.

@sampeacaml9307

3 жыл бұрын

By thumbs ups, who prefers the song Tightrope above all?

@lynn1752

3 жыл бұрын

@@sampeacaml9307 yessss I love that song so much

Can I just say, Jonathan 'Snackalicious' Decker is a fantabulous singer

@dclark142002

3 жыл бұрын

Indeed.

@elissao.6585

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed.

@Catwomin228

3 жыл бұрын

He is a good singer! I heard him singing, I was like daaaaang this dude can sing!

@nichole5652

3 жыл бұрын

This comment had me in tears 🤣

@Rowancat11

3 жыл бұрын

Hellzyeah

As someone who is dealing with the fallout of a therapist who didn't have those strong boundaries, and ended up crossing some really important lines, it's really good to hear Jonathan talk about the need for a therapist to be able to say, "No, I'm not comfortable with this." I'd really like to see you guys do one of the countless movies where therapists end up in relationships with their clients, and talk about the damage it could do, but I could see if that's too specific for your show.

As an American who has used the word 'fancy' when referring to 'liking' someone (mainly due to an avid harry potter hyperfixtation in elementary and middle school), I whole heartily agree that we need to use it more. It also just avoids needing to clarify if you like someone romantically or platonically

@alangarde2928

2 жыл бұрын

I am nearly 50 and I am forever telling my American fiancee that I fancy her, also that I like like her and of course that I love her. They are all saying different things and I love that heart in the mouth wow implication of saying I fancy her.

@RestlessHarp

2 жыл бұрын

I agree! It's so much better than "I like you, but I don't *like* you like you..." :D

@SingingSealRiana

Жыл бұрын

It's a good word, I like keeping a crush and being on love with someone seperated so fancy someone is a great way to express attractation without the implication of that's allready love

“We’re a couple of dads” “We’re just some blokes” And that’s why we love you so much

@anica7438

2 жыл бұрын

yesssss T_T

Alan a few months ago: “NO! Please don’t witness me in a state of tears, oh cruel internet” 😭😧🤦‍♂️ Alan now: *stares into camera* “Give me a close-up! The fountain is about to flow free” 🙍‍♂️👼

@arielfitzsimmons9703

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@SinHurr

2 жыл бұрын

The spice must flow

@SakuraMoonflower

Жыл бұрын

That is what we like to call "growth and progress" in real life... And "character development" in a movie! 🍿 😂

Getting my daily does of human emotion when you guys upload your videos. Thank you all for your continued awesomeness. I absolutely love what you are doing here

@CinemaTherapyShow

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks man! Been checking out your stuff, great work!

@OmarZaki

3 жыл бұрын

@@CinemaTherapyShow That means a lot! I literally went and rewatched some of the music videos from Greatest Showman after watching this video and it brought even more tears and emotion after all the great insight you guys brought to it.

@OmarZaki

3 жыл бұрын

@@CinemaTherapyShow That means a lot! I literally went and rewatched some of the music videos from Greatest Showman after watching this video and it brought even more tears and emotion after all the great insight you guys brought to it.

@leafletanon

Жыл бұрын

*dose

It’s funny how that woman got upset she couldn’t comment on the attractiveness of a man. Regardless if your a man or woman, you should always respect people’s boundaries and make sure it’s appropriate to comment on such things. And don’t expect everyone to react the same way.

@adammitchellclark5127

3 жыл бұрын

And for a therapist, maintaining appropriate boundaries is support important. Like, keeping your livelihood important. I'm not a practicing therapist right now but I was several years ago and that comment would have made me uncomfortable. You can say you like my shirt.

@SingingSealRiana

Жыл бұрын

And no matter how you ment it, if it makes the other uncomfortable.... You back away, simple as that. You can explain what you ment, clearing up an eventuell misunderstanding, but that doe snot change they are uncomfortable with it so apologies for having caused them unintetonally discomfort and back off.

My parents have always had their "boyfriends and girlfriends", meaning they had celebrities they were attracted to. They're open about it: "Ooh, my boyfriend's on TV!" "That's my girlfriend". We kids took it as a normal, healthy thing. But that's where it ended. Both of them have had people flirt with them and they shut it down immediately. And they have never flirted with others or put themselves in compromising positions. And this year they'll have been married 50 years.

@trenae77

3 жыл бұрын

In a way, I think if a couple can acknowledge they find another person physically attractive, yet still hold to a strong romantic relationship with their partner shows a healthy relationship. However, it is a narrow aspect that can easily cross into troublesome territory.

@melodyfussell829

3 жыл бұрын

@@trenae77 Honestly, I completely agree. My parents are totally aware that my mom likes Sean Connery and Harrison Ford and that my dad likes Cate Blanchett and Natalie Portman (he actually told me last week that Natalie Portman is one of the most beautiful women in the world). My boyfriend knows that I like Aaron Tveit, Sebastian Stan, Tom Hiddleston, and Hugh Jackman. None of us ever flirt with other people, and if someone flirts with us we shut it down. One time my parents were visiting a friend, and while they were there the friend made a pass at my dad. He stayed at a hotel and avoided her for the rest of the visit. You can find people attractive without destroying your relationships (or other people's).

@JonduGaming

3 жыл бұрын

@@trenae77 I'm friends with a married couple who have their "Cheatsheet" that they joke about. It's like the top 5-10 people they would cheat on the other with. They trust each other enough to be comfortable making those kinds of jokes. That's the strength and trust I want to have in my future relationship

@trenae77

3 жыл бұрын

@@JonduGaming The big part there is Trust. People who don't share that deep level of trust and commiseration with their spouse would struggle with this concept. I'm glad your friends have that in their relationship, because it makes life that much easier. Not perfect , because nothing in this life is perfect, but anything you can face while walking alongside someone who is looking out for your well-being as you do theirs is less of an insurmountable challenge.

@mandywaynick8725

3 жыл бұрын

Me and my bf have a list, but most of the time I agree with the people on his list and like yea I would too. And he will be like "yep that is a sexy man right there, if i was gay he would get it". Also our lists includes unreal anime and fictional characters.

Hi everybody! Two things. 1) P.T. Barnum was indeed mischaracterized here. The Greatest Showman is a work of utter fiction and we enjoy it as such. We agree that Hugh Jackman's role would have been better suited by a fictional name instead of glorifying a man who didn't deserve it. 2) Unrelated to 1. Get details on our Cinema Therapy Heroes MEMBERSHIP SITE, including extended commercial-free episodes, relationship courses, virtual hangouts with Alan and Jonathan, and more! sbfc92lq.pages.infusionsoft.net/

@stickpersonperson1995

3 жыл бұрын

Could u guys do a episode where u talk abt what makes a villian become a villian

@stickpersonperson1995

3 жыл бұрын

Wait ur already doin joker

@organisationdevenementslrd9128

3 жыл бұрын

1) Couldn't agree more!! 2) Yaaaay Jazz hands!!! :D 3) Please guys, never say again that you are not deserving of having fans!! You are amazing and you combine two of my biggest passions : movies and psychology and are so inspiring doing it

@stickpersonperson1995

3 жыл бұрын

@@organisationdevenementslrd9128 oof got simp here lol No offense tho I was joking cos u put the heart thing

@eimichoi

3 жыл бұрын

The fact that the heroes site isn't already live causes me actual pain 😂 I'm so ready to support you!

Jahanna: “I am a huge believer in crying I think it’s so good for you” Alan: *bawling* “so am I!” I laughed so hard at this istg

Jahanna using a pillow to wipe her tears is such a strange but relatable mood, I love it

"No. Don't you. Don't you put your head in his shoulder" 😂 exactly my thoughts

Never seen anyone call him Dr. Snack in the comments but from this day forward we're all calling him Dr. Snack

@adamaris1760

3 жыл бұрын

But is it Dr. Snack or Dr. Snacc

@catiep1820

3 жыл бұрын

@@adamaris1760 It's snac-ception

It wasn’t till I met the man who became my husband that I became able to cry. We were on a date at the movies watching Studio Ghibli’s “As the Wind Rises”. At the end we were both crying and turned to each other and we both said “I blame you. I didn’t used to cry before you.”

@s.gabriel2853

3 жыл бұрын

That's adorable.

@leahtheanimationfan40

3 жыл бұрын

I love The Wind Rises. It's one of my favorite Studio Ghibli films and one of the most underrated ones

@mantramoon9

2 жыл бұрын

That's lovely. My first love taught me to say "I love you." I grew up in a loving family, but we never actually said it to each other. Even though he and I are no longer together, I'm glad I learned to do that with him, and I've passed it on to our children.

@christinamoxon

2 жыл бұрын

Funny, I cry a lot more watching movies with my husband. I actually blame having kids.

@nanyummyify

Жыл бұрын

That's so romantic 😮

"There's a lot of dreams we can chase, and we should chase them, there's a lot of things that give us joy and fulfillment. But if we're neglecting people in our lives and the connections, that's something we will regret." That's real right there

The beautiful thing that Tightrope says in its lyrics is how relationships are messy and wonderful. It a beautiful balancing act all couples, you could even lob friendships in there, and they thing is shelving your agenda and asking what that person needs. That is what helps make relationships real and beautiful

@annleytonlord

3 жыл бұрын

Ah, another person who just came from the "Is Kristoff the Perfect Man" video.

@alissaharder

3 жыл бұрын

@@annleytonlord not just that but from learning in my degree as a social worker. We discuss things like this. It really put things in perspective for me as an individual

I’m just gonna day I love the apology of P.T Barnum at the end to his wife. He didn’t just say “I’m sorry” he admitted what he did that was wrong and you could tell he meant it.

@Maddie-sn7yt

3 жыл бұрын

One of my favorite things about that scene is that they hug, not kiss. To me that shows a different relationship--there are different emotions shared in a hug vs a kiss.

@juliarunn5009

3 жыл бұрын

@@Maddie-sn7yt I rlly love that. The hug shows that before they were romantic partners, they were close friends.

"I mean, I'm sure he has cotton mouth, but she doesn't care because that's love." I almost choked on my dinner when Jonathan said that. Thank you for always finding the perfect blend between hilarious one liners, beautiful randomness, vulnerability, emotional depth, and teaching crucial relationship skills! You guys are the whole snack pack!

I remember when I first saw the scene where Phillip wakes up in the Hospital with Anne sitting there with him. You can see she is happy he is alive and glad he came back to her, and when he says "you're here", it really hit me and the tears flowed heavily and freely cause he didn't know she made it out. Last he heard she was still in the building and ran in to save her. He didn't know she had made it out before that. For all he knew, she was in there when the building collapsed. So when he saw her sitting over him, he sees that she is alive and.....he is just happy and relieved. That realization just broke me. I still burst out in tears every time I see it. and the first time when you see all the people in the Hospital looking at them in shock and judgment, I said out loud through tears "Oh Fuck all of you" lol so don't worry Johanna, I am in tears right there with you

The best part of waking up is watching a new episode of cinema therapy 🎶

@CinemaTherapyShow

3 жыл бұрын

In your face, Folgers in your cup!

@Idaho1989

3 жыл бұрын

Meanwhile some of us has been up and working for several hours (right now it's 19.00 over here) /Swedish person ;)

@molly702

3 жыл бұрын

@@Idaho1989 Det låter inte så härligt Ida

@Idaho1989

3 жыл бұрын

@@molly702 äh, helt OK ändå, gillar mitt jobb och att jobba blandade tider, älskar mina kollegor och tiden går oftast fort på fredagar.

@molly702

3 жыл бұрын

@@Idaho1989 Okej vad bra! Hoppas du får en skön helg.

Can I just say I HOWLED when Jahannah was interviewing Karl Urban and John Cho and they thought she meant literally five men. My fat ass immediately thought of the burger joint and it took me a moment to realize what THEY thought she was saying. 😂😂

@jenniferhiemstra5228

3 жыл бұрын

Literally same 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@Baiswith

3 жыл бұрын

I got the reference (even though I'm not sure it exists in the UK?) and the implication a few seconds later, but something just makes me think that was (if not entirely scripted) very much a case of Karl and John being on the same wavelength and doing some straight-faced trolling. It did have me howling with laughter though.

@kitcatkraftsnkpop34

3 жыл бұрын

I laughed cried! yes it is real!! loved it

@gen2mediainc.577

3 жыл бұрын

Five guys is a banger but we never go there cuz it’s fairly far from our house and it’s not healthy so my parents try to avoid it. Maybe I’ll convince them jsut this once

@jenny.slice_

Жыл бұрын

Saaaaaaame

This film first hit me as an 'ex actress'...i was the one chasing their cheers..when i became a mom, and a mother of children with disabilities i lost my 'worth'..my post natal illness lead to bipolar and i lost my job, we became full time carers and i felt i had no 'legacy', no profession..watching this film, from now on and the last shot of him watching his kids and singing 'its everything you ever want..' really landed with me. Just before christmas, i discovered my husband had had an emotional affair with an old school friend he'd reconnected with online..he was in a bad place mentally, hadnt had the years of therapy id had or the mental health support and it started as he felt he couldnt keep 'off loading' on me...i knew in my gut something was going on and after months of denial she called him at midnight one night so, eventually, he admitted. He went to therapy, we had couples therapy and we started to look at our relationship a new. It was the wake up call we needed, parent caring is hard, and comes with many issues which you must confront within you. We are a strong couple, very strong, but in our deepest moment of despair..it still happened to us, we lost sight of 'who all this is for'.

I just want to thank you guys for what you do. I am a Child Care Counselor with Koinonia in Loomis Ca. It’s a short term residential program for troubled teens. I’ve been showing your videos to them every Saturday for a therapy class. It’s going over really well. They are able to relate better because they’ve seen most of the movies you’ve done. Thank you for making my job a little easier and a lot more fun. (Alan, props to you man. You make me cry every time. I cry at sad endings, happy endings, pretty much anytime someone cries in a movie or real life, I will cry. Sympathetic crier.)

@CinemaTherapyShow

3 жыл бұрын

Wow! Thank you. We’re blown away!

@larajordan9734

3 жыл бұрын

I was in a residential program! It was staff like you who made the think livable, so thank you so much for your service.

@hollyhammie198

3 жыл бұрын

@@larajordan9734 you’re so welcome, Lara Jordan. And congratulations on completing a residential program. They are not easy. I myself graduated from one as well. I give credit to those who made the hard decision and did the hard work to change their lives and this those around them. 😄

This movie made me dance for the first time in 10 years. I loved to dance when I was young. Now I'm 26 and my body is everything but a dancersbody (waaaay to oversized), but I'm working on it. But after this movie I closed all the curtains and danced my heart out for the first time in 10 years. It felt good.

@themistheblue9449

3 жыл бұрын

I hope it gives you great joy in the future :)

@malon-

3 жыл бұрын

I really liked this comment :D such a joy to read. Don't ever think you cannot dance because of your body, if you want to dance: DANCE!

@andrewhenshaw4067

3 жыл бұрын

Cool!

@corriebrown9976

2 жыл бұрын

If you dance, your body is a dancer’s body.

Appreciation comment for Alan's tears, Dr. Snack & Jahannah's honesty. Amazing episode!

In our house we say "You feel whatever you need to feel, when you need to feel it," to our son and daughters alike. Then we patiently teach them how to cope with and handle those feelings, no matter how confusing or intense. At the same time, we also teach them that its important to think before you act on what you feel, and consider how those actions will affect not only themselves, but others as well. We feel that true emotional maturity is understanding how to find the right balance between self love, self awareness, empathy, and compassion... no matter how difficult the circumstances you find yourself in.

@CinemaTherapyShow

3 жыл бұрын

Well said!

When she dried her eyes on a pillow, I burst out laughing! Because here I am drying my eyes on a pot holder because it's the only thing close by made of cloth! Love how raw these videos are for everyone involved. Thanks for letting us be involved.

“My bedroom strait to a Five Guys” I got it immediately, but that’s hilarious!!

@cryofpaine

3 жыл бұрын

I was so confused why they were so weirded out. I got it about the same time she did.

@jenniferhiemstra5228

3 жыл бұрын

Oh I DIED when they had to ask what a Five Guys is 🤣🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

@kyohitsukai2592

3 жыл бұрын

Me if I was in the interview: 'Hey, what you do with your Five Guys, albeit a burger or literally five guys or both, you do you'

@elizabethweigle6146

3 жыл бұрын

I watched that little part so many times bc I’m a Trekkie and Karl Urban ❤️ but also because it was fricking hilarious when they’re both like “Oooooohhh! No judgement! Be we were confused, like Five guys? I guess if that’s your thing, but no judgement! Just confused”🤣

@MossyMozart

2 жыл бұрын

@Holly Peters - How was anyone supposed to guess she meant an obscure burger chain?

I wish people talked more about how these kinds situations are emotionally damaging to the "other women/man" as well. You're hurting two people when you cheat.

This man in cinema therapy said "turns out the dad bod is the second sexiest body type after actually sexy" 😂😂 the delivery was amazing

@misspriss2482

3 жыл бұрын

Too bad there isn't a female equivalent of that. Just saying.

@existlive7790

3 жыл бұрын

Well I don't like the dad bod,, if I have to work my ass off to look good he sure can do the same

@beccasalt8960

Жыл бұрын

@@existlive7790 you don't need to work your ass off to look good, but you can if it makes you feel good and you're happy doing it 😊 think the point of @Miss Priss was that we should be able to celebrate the female equivalent of a normal, average body

"I really, really resonate with her character..." "Why is that?" When the therapist comes out. But for real, I just love the conversations that happen on this channel. 😭

@wb739

2 жыл бұрын

Right?! I was like, 'dang, that was good.'

My favorite part of this whole movie is when PT finds the bearded lady and looks her in the eyes and says she's beautiful. He doesn't look at her beard, her breasts, or give her the "up-down." And her face just screams "you're the first person who has said that to me." but also, emotional cheating is cheating and I love how they were able to get back together and forgive when he realized that another woman could not give him what he needed.

@DimaRakesah

3 жыл бұрын

I actually felt like PT was all talk in that department. He told the bearded lady with a gorgeous voice that she was beautiful, but it was the unbearded woman that he sent on worldwide tours to sing to adoring audiences while his bearded singer was kept in the circus to be gawked at. The way I interpreted it, he saw "freaks" as beautiful because he could make money off of them. Sure, he treated them better than most other people did, but he also never attempted to improve their lot in life or humanize them to the rest of the world because he needed them to stay freaks to make money for him.

@misspriss2482

3 жыл бұрын

@@DimaRakesah It's so easy to do that; that's our society in general. "All people are beautiful." "Looks don't matter." Then most people proceed to look for the hottest person they can find or they immediately friendzone people that they don't find physically attractive and/or would never consider dating certain people strictly based on how they look. In other words, P.T. is 99.99% of people.

@DimaRakesah

3 жыл бұрын

@@misspriss2482 Hypocrites existing does not excuse hypocrisy. Also, this is a movie. The writers can choose make PT a better person, to actually take actions to show what people *should* do, rather than make a bunch of empower songs for the freaks to sing with no actual empowerment happening.

@playanakobi4407

3 жыл бұрын

Emotional cheating is indeed cheating. But as they have said some emotions are misinterpreted for "love", etc and people makes that mistake. I'm no defending it but when they said it, i'm like oooh it makes sense. That's why you dont make decisions when you're emotionally hyped.

@SingingSealRiana

Жыл бұрын

​@@DimaRakesah well, the real life guy was an exploitative asshole and while through this review I can apriciate what the movie was going for more, then I additionally did.... They could have cone more, the story should have been about the people of the circus, not using them as accessories for the romances of white straight men with conventional attractive women.....

This episode helped me realize a lot of things. My ex-boyfriend was talking to another girl while we were still in a relationship (We'd been together for more than 6 months) and we broke up because I got so upset about it, but the way he reacted made me wonder if it wasn't actually that big of a deal just because he had never actually *done* anything with her. And for a while I've been wrestling with whether or not I was too harsh or if I was just being paranoid and whatever, but I've been thinking ever since this video came out just a couple hours ago and it's really put things into perspective for me. Emotional cheating is still cheating, and even if you never actually did anything it still hurts just as much.

@sabosage

2 жыл бұрын

Only six months in and he was already emotionally cheating? You did the right thing. You definitely dodged a bullet. Good for you for standing your ground!

@korab.23

Жыл бұрын

Also, emotional cheating (those are emotions meant for your one romantic partner) leads to the rest.

"I'm the pimp of your tears" I'm dying I've passed away 🤣🤣

I heard Hugh Jackman say that he speaks the lyrics as lines to get the emotional intention where it needs to be. He's so amazing because he is so dedicated to his craft. ❤

"Imagine not being able to cry", as someone who often feels it just at the edge but for some reason isn't able to actualy release those tears and emotions this hits hard....

@diarraboussodiouf3521

3 жыл бұрын

I haven't cried in years and now I'm wondering if somethings wrong with me😂😂

Something that I just thought of. I think that it's so important that Hugh Jackman was the lead in this because he is someone that most people can agree is very successful and famous and respected, but the fact that he plays a character that strived for that but didn't find happiness until he focused on family and relationships is so important. There will always be people who say that "they're rich and famous, they'll never understand" but the point is that they ARE and that's exactly why they understand.

So their is a Movie called Sky High. In it a senior emotional manipulates a freshman for her own personal gain. It’s probably not the perfect example of Abusive relationships or child grooming, but it is in a Family movie so you could look into it.

@BonaparteBardithion

3 жыл бұрын

Sky High is tropey as all heck, but it wouldn't be a bad one to look at in general. You could examine the social power dynamic of the jock/sidekick dichotomy, Will's relationship with his parents and powers and the various things you could compare it to, the surprisingly positive progression of Warren's social life, being honest with your friends, being honest with yourself... I could go on. There's definitely a good mix of both positive and negative relationships to unpack.

@rimfire8217

3 жыл бұрын

Indeed

@acelovesdiyschristopher7023

3 жыл бұрын

Also how they on day one separate the heroes from the sidekicks and teach them differently with the sidekicks being taught less or lesser than subjects for the sole purpose of being an assistant to someone else.

Movie suggestion for this show: My favourite animated film ever is "The Little Prince". Not only for the dynamic between the mother and daughter (Which I identify with also as an overachieving student with parents who have high expectations), but also the character of the Prince and how you forget yourself as you age. I think the film lends itself to a lot of great topics you've covered on the show with things like isolation, friendship, familial love, and self love. Also bonus crying points because this film's third act always has me sobbing so I'd love to see Alan's reactions.

Next you should adress the "WE WERE ON A BREAK" thing from Friends! Even after almost 30 years, the debate is still on!

@misspriss2482

3 жыл бұрын

That episode has always irked me. If two people are on a break and haven't agreed to be mutually exclusive with each other during the break, neither partner has the right to get mad if one of them sleeps with or dates someone else. Would I like it if I found out? No. Would I have a right to hold it against the other person, though? No.

@______________5470

3 жыл бұрын

I didn't think anyone would question whether it's wrong but clearly I was mistaken. That's very interesting controversy

@angiemarin4465

3 жыл бұрын

@@misspriss2482 I'll have to disagree and agree at the same time: I don't think Ross cheated, because, as we all know, they were ON A BREAK, and as you mentioned, they didn't agree anything about being exclusive during that break. However, if it were my situation, I would be hella mad and hurt at the same time if my partner/ex-partner went to sleep with another woman HOURS after we broke up/started to be on a break, and then decided he does want me after all. In that sense, what Ross did was wrong, not just because he hurt Rachel, but also because it wasn't healthy at all. He still loved Rachel, he hadn't got over her yet, and he only had sex with a basically strange woman because he misstrusted Rachel and thought she was doing the same thing with Mark, it was all out of resentment. See? Ross got mad at her too because of the very same thing Rachel got mad at him, it's just Rachel didn't do it. Now, what Rachel did wrong here, was calling him a cheater OVER AND OVER, because he didn't technically cheat; she might've felt cheated on because she was hurt, but he technically didn't.

@Wednesdaywoe1975

3 жыл бұрын

Ross deliberately slept with someone else to hurt Rachel. He only felt bad about it when Rachel came to him and said she wanted him back and he realized his actions would cost him. He knew he'd done something wrong and only pivoted to " we were on a break" once he knew he wasn't going to get her back.

@naniandrea3344

2 жыл бұрын

Ew friends

I love the final messege so much. I decided to pause my career because my now husband wanted to go to Europe and start a phD (we used to live in south america). So I got my medical degree, got married and came to live in the UK. So many friends from medical school asked me why I did it...how could I leave everything and get married after studying for 6 years so much....I always say, even though I love being a doctor, my everything is my family...and my husband is my family. It was very hard, and being a doctor in Europe coming from south America is not that easy, I am still trying now...but I never ever regret it. I wouldn't change this many years of being married and growing up together for anything. When you feel lonely or sad your degree won't come and hug you but your family or special people you have in your life, they will make every sadness go away just by being there for you.

@midnightodellewest1999

3 жыл бұрын

That is absolutely beautiful. Thank you for sharing that.

@s.tolley7528

3 жыл бұрын

I love that: "When you feel lonely or sad, your degree won't come and hug you".

@strawberrycheesecake6899

3 жыл бұрын

I would only do this for something really, really, really stable like a good marriage. In the end you're making big life choices, career choices for someone that might not work out. I also knew people who did the same for "just a relationship" and it didn't work out so they had to come up with something new.

@lauram7929

3 жыл бұрын

@@s.tolley7528 your degree is the only thing that is 100% guaranteed to support you, tho

Okay we need some hankies or tissue box covers as merch. We just gotta accept that all of us cry from a good film or watching an episode of Cinema Therapy

Every time Alan starts crying, I do too. Thanks for that. It's a good thing

I cannot believe how much I relate to Alan! How you carry yourself, how you are, the insecurities, the morals, the humour. Just wow! It's kind of validating finding someone out there you see so much of yourself in! Thank you Alan, you are a gem! I appreciate you very much ☺

The premiere hasn't started yet but I'd just like to state the fact that I'd die for Hugh Jackman. Alright, you can keep scrolling now.

@nikoletahanakova8573

3 жыл бұрын

I totally agree 👍

@Cybo-18

3 жыл бұрын

Honestly, same

@monty609

3 жыл бұрын

Same dude, wolverine was my childhood crush

@nikoletahanakova8573

3 жыл бұрын

@@monty609 Adult crush too :-)

@alexandrac6177

3 жыл бұрын

Hugh Snackman

"we're just a couple of dads" - and you're where I go when no contact hurts most. I shared superhero movies with my dad. We don't speak anymore, for several reasons, but in a way, I still have this.

@anjelica948

Жыл бұрын

I relate. I haven’t willingly spoken to my dad in 20 years, and this channel has been so great when I need both catharsis and some hope and reassurance that there are good men out there, and good dads.

The part with the regret is so true. My uncle, may he rest in peace, in his last days openly admitted how much he regreted working his life away with no actual accomplishment, and didn't get to enjoy it even a bit. He and his kids had been pushed by my aunt into working hard in order to build a big house and work the land they had at home. They left to work abroad and this only damaged the family further. One of my cousins served in prison for some years and his older brother became a drug addict. My uncle died of cancer 6 years ago leaving behind a broken family because of my aunt's ambitions.

"That makes me the pimp of your tears". Gold.

My husband and I share our attractions for other people. When there's an actor I know he likes pop up on the screen, I always yell "your girlfriend is on the tv". Edit: It works both ways. I get to talk about the guys I find hot on tv too. And then we share mutual attraction. Like we're both straight but let's take this movie for example. We can both agree Zendaya and Zac Efron are some of the most gorgeous looking people on this planet.

@bessieburnet9816

3 жыл бұрын

That is really, really sweet! 😃

@ianrose6218

3 жыл бұрын

I love this so much. It really shows that you trust each other to not take unhealthy steps past just having a celebrity crush like so many people naturally have.

@Catwomin228

3 жыл бұрын

Same! 😜 Hugh Jackman is my "boyfriend" 🤣 Also Chris Hemsworth... Just all the Aussies! ❤❤❤❤❤😍🤤

@theopkingdom3433

3 жыл бұрын

Secure relationships rock.

@brandywagner4045

3 жыл бұрын

My husband and I both have these conversations where one of us will be like, “hey, check out this really cool feature on this actor/actress” and the other person is like, “oh that’s amazing”. Never once has it been a source of insecurity for either of us. It doesn’t matter what gender the person is either. So refreshing to have after several insecure partners!

It's really wonderful to see that Alan is okay with crying on camera and that there's zero toxic masculinity here also the part where you talked about some jobs being so emotionally involving really surprised me cause i always wondered what is it about film industry that makes a lot of people cheat on their partners

I've always loved Tightrope more than Never Enough. It depicts a real marriage based on love.

I relate to the wife in this movie so much, probably why I love this movie lol I was married to someone for ten years that was always chasing that next thing, it's a deeply depressing moment when 3 years in you realize you are never going to be the love of your partner's life , not when they're always chasing the accolades of people who don't matter and not focusing on the love of their family or children.

@malon-

3 жыл бұрын

I am so sorry for you :c I think it is really great that even though some people do not see it, you at least see what is important and give love where it is needed

@CanadianChipmunk

3 жыл бұрын

@@malon- thank you, my kids and I are much better now, I haven't been with him for 5 years and am in a much healthier relationship now where it's more cohesive and equal

@hhoi8225

Жыл бұрын

Same. And this movie makes it way too pretty. Sickening really

you guys should definitely check out avatar the last airbender. the characters in this show are phenomenal🤌🏾🖤(the series definitely not the movie 😭)

@The482075

3 жыл бұрын

Zuko and Azula especially.

@EstherFromTheEther

3 жыл бұрын

Yes but only the series not the movie😂

@The482075

3 жыл бұрын

@@EstherFromTheEther I've only seen the animated series. I thought it was amazing. What's wrong with the live-action film? It has the director of The 6th Sense and Unbreakable at the helm.

@airora_aerial

3 жыл бұрын

@@The482075 I haven't seen the whole film, just pieces from online summaries and reviews, but I can tell it's terrible. The animated series is superior by miles. I recommend watching the Pitch Meeting for Avatar to get an idea of why it isn't as good, and to get a laugh. :)

@izthistle6196

3 жыл бұрын

What about She-ra and the Princesses of Power? That show portrays abuse, trauma as well as love and healing like no other show ever had

I cry but I rarely cry. I internalize so much that it takes great emotion to release tears. I actually envy people who can cry more easily and relieve themselves of the building emotion.

Something I love about this movie is the framing device of "Greatest Show"... Seeing it at the opening means one thing, just the pizazz of show biz, and then you return to it at the end, and you realize what the real meaning behind what the song is saying. So good!!!

I had the complete privilege to see Hugh Jackman perform songs from greatest showman and les miserables live along with an interview. He was the SWEETEST!! And his performance definitely made me cry.

@trenae77

3 жыл бұрын

Best video online - Hugh Jackman and Daniel Craig on stage when a phone goes off in the audience ... TOTALLY displays their true nature! If you can roll with the awkward and not let it throw you, then you’re on the right life track.

It wasn’t until I came out as gay and accepted myself for who I was that I started to be ok with allowing myself to cry. It was a defense mechanism for me. I wanted to blend in and disappear. Crying drew too much attention.

@felixhenson9926

3 жыл бұрын

Hetero masculinity says emotions make you like women, who are weak. LGBTQ+ subculture is an entire community unified in just sheer playfulness when it comes to gender roles. For many gay men, there is nothing wrong with doing something that is traditionally feminine, and actually it can be unifying and empowering. So I'm not surprised and I'm rly glad you know this thing about yourself now and are speaking your truth

@s.tolley7528

3 жыл бұрын

I think in some ways it's the same for me. I don't want people to worry about me, so I don't cry in front of them. It makes people notice that I'm not always strong. Even if I go and cry in the bathroom, I do my very best to clean myself up so no one can tell.

@MascaraMorada

3 жыл бұрын

For me, it's been since I've moved away from home to university, got back in therapy and opened up to my mentors. I was in an emotionally abusive situation that divorce and actively shamed my expression of emotions so I learned to hide my emotions to avoid being yelled at. I hid my emotions as a survival mechanism and now I can live freely.

@snowleopard9907

3 жыл бұрын

Eh my sexuality crushed my dreams and ruined everything I ever wanted to be. I just wanted be asexual i didnt want any of these other shit it makes me wanna vomit. And it gives me panics and wanna drink. But I realized I dont have be my sexuality I can be myself, alone and happy I can fight it and live that life I wanted. And now I more happier

@jaymccray1763

3 жыл бұрын

@@snowleopard9907 I’m glad you found a way to be happy. I know that for me, my sexuality is very much a part of what makes me me and my own happiness came after I embraced it, but I know I’m not a representation of everybody. In the end, we all have to find our own paths to happiness. 😁

There is a very real reason that "showmances" happen in basically EVERY high school theatre production EVER. It makes sense to me that it happens in professional "theatre" as well.

@SingingSealRiana

Жыл бұрын

.... Really... Well, in our case it was a couple that was casted to begin with and the other couple where I aro ace and he simping for me for years... So maybe I do not have room to argue

"The ability to do this insane physical stuff while singing and emoting" listen as someone who did theater and musicals in high-school, it is so hard 😅 I will never forget performing Step In Time from Mary Poppins. Not only is it a complicated song musically (I think its the hardest song on the whole show. The key changes, man) but physically we were all over the stage, running around, jumping, tap dancing, all while remembering the arm movements for the chimney brushes. And it's a very very high energy song. The whole song basically portrays the chimney sweeps as angels watching over the kids so we had to be up beat and excited and passionate. We had to be theses wondrous beings to dazzle the kids. I was always so out of breath by the end of it (and the reprise that immediately followed) but it was SO much fun. You really just get into this head space with it where your body just does it. No thinking, no analyzing what you're doing. The muscle memory just takes over. It really is, as yall said, "being taken over by the holy spirit" in a sense. It is so difficult but man when you get it right...i don't think anything can top that feeling

I definitely relate to Jahannah with being a cryer later in life than in childhood. I've found myself crying at things that I didn't think would get me teary eyed. It's funny cuz there's an episode of Friends where Chandler turns into a cryer and I thought that episode was so ridiculous (it could've been that it all happened within 23 mins of a sitcom episode which made it seem cartoonish) but now I see there is some real merit to that episode.

@Tilly236

3 жыл бұрын

I needed therapy to teach myself to cry and not suppress emotions. How we're taught to handle emotions when we're young really impacts us as adults.

I’ve watched this channel for a little less than a week, and I’ve seen it on my recommended for much longer, and i am so glad I clicked on the video. This channel does things that actually help people, provide words to things people can’t express. I watched your Soul video last night and that hit me... hard. As a seventeen year old, my purpose and passions are all I think about night and day. I never realized how close Joe was to myself, and to everyone, and your guys vulnerability is astounding in that it helps people find solace and, even if it’s just for the duration of the video, comfort in knowing that other people are like them, that you guys are like me and I’m glad I can say you helped me. Thank you.

@Lunar_DeBrie

3 жыл бұрын

The soul video hit me hard, too! I'm an INFP so it really impacted me hard. Lemme share a quote, one of my biggest fears in a few sentences: "This is when the fear starts to nag. Not just the self-doubt (oh, the self-doubt!), but the “what if” kind of fear. What if I never do it? What if I never make a difference? What if I waste my WHOLE life, and when I get to the end, I realize - I won’t say it, INFPs. You know the fear." Yeah it's from a pretty dramatic article on every Myer's Briggs fears, but every time I read that it makes me cry because it's a genuine fear I have. The soul video helped me process that, and for once I actually cried with Alan. I'm glad to have been vulnerable with him, and I'm glad he's comfortable enough to be emotionally vulnerable for this. Sorry for barfing out words here, I just related and wanted to share that lol

@wyattrose5511

3 жыл бұрын

@@Lunar_DeBrie Yeah. I hadn’t taken a personality test like that in a long time, and this comment kinda made me think I should. And guess what? INFP. You basically summed up my entire struggle these past two years in one sentence. I didn’t cry with Alan, but I was definitely rocked to my core and shaking like a madman when he was saying those words... lol. It’s comforting to know someone is in the same boat kinda.

Please get Jahannah back for another video! Love her energy. So goofy and emotional at the same time!

Them talking about how they're just people and how their fans react to when they respond to the comments reminds me of how when I find streamers or youtubers I become a fan of I just treat them like regular people. Made a few friends that way too

She got me when she sung "Never sure if you'd catch me if I should fall", that totally summarized how I felt in my previous relationship, the empty feeling you got when you're not sure anymore if another person would work through hard times with you anymore. "Tightrope" is literally the more emotionally brutal version of "Lost in The Wood." PS. I signed for the membership site, but didn't recieve the email, is this normal?

@oivenmann9977

3 жыл бұрын

Me too, I signed up and now it just says "you're a hero - thank you" and I didn't get an email. But I checked again and on the site it says that one can sign up for the waiting list, so maybe that's why

@TheLuckyPurse

3 жыл бұрын

@@oivenmann9977 oh, thank you for the info!

I don't feel there's anything left to repair once one has cheated, even emotionally. I would walk right away.

Alan, I'm in love with your soul. The way you open up and are able to convey your thoughts and feelings for the whole world to see is so empowering and endearing. And that is coming from some one that has been in therapy for years and expressing feelings is like pulling teeth.

@CinemaTherapyShow

2 жыл бұрын

Oh, thank you! I don’t know what my damage is, but part of it is that I don’t have that thing where I hide feelings (mostly.) It’s weird. But I’m glad it’s helpful for people?

My mom use to get angry at me for crying, it was something I often got yelled at for because I was a sensitive kid, now as an adult I struggle crying at all and especially in front of people so watching people like Alan willingly cry in front of thousands of people help quite a bit :)

@sarahlandis289

Жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry 😢

When she said “No, I'm not taking my top off!” reminded me of the scene where Hannah (Emma Stone) sees Jacob's (Ryan Gosling) abs in “Crazy, Stupid, Love”. 🤣

Fun fact at 17:35 Hugh Jackman while filming this he had broken his nose so he had stitches in his nose and halfway through this song they had to like stop filming real quick to clean the blood off of his face because by the end of filming that shot his face was covered in blood

@patiencekillz

3 жыл бұрын

Omg seriously?

@peaceyisrael7386

3 жыл бұрын

@@patiencekillz yes they talked ab it in an interview

@stormqueen29

3 жыл бұрын

Not broken his nose. He had another tumor removed. Basal Cell Carcinoma. He's had I forget how many removed now, from all the years spent in the sun. It was removed the day before he flew to New York for the greenlight meeting, and the director told him not to tell anyone. So on the day, Hugh acted and read through the whole movie while another Broadway male star ( forgive me I can't remember his name ) sang for him. But on the final song, Hugh couldn't stay quiet. He belted it out for all he was worth, ripped open his stitches and had to immediately go back to his surgeon to have them repaired. They didn't stop filming, but in the Behind the Scenes, you can see him touch the bandages on his nose a couple of times because he was aware that it was bleeding and was concerned everyone would freak out if they saw.

@peaceyisrael7386

3 жыл бұрын

@@stormqueen29 that’s too he said he also suffered from breaking his noise

@mollyfessel4127

3 жыл бұрын

@@stormqueen29 I believe his name is Ramin Karimloo

I was actually taught the choreography from From Now On in my dance class. It is pretty physically demanding

That hug they share, it's like coming home after being on a long journey. You feel like the more they hug you, the more you come back to life.

“I’m a big believer in crying” Yes preach it!

The movie version of this song is good, but the table reading when Hugh wasn’t supposed to be singing is all the feels from the movie x10 ❤️ Love you guys!! Thanks so much!!

@cryofpaine

3 жыл бұрын

It's a little less cool when you know the whole story behind that day. Look up "Jeremy Jordan - the day I saved The Greatest Showman". It's an interesting (albeit sad) story.

@lizzieforster1122

3 жыл бұрын

@@cryofpaine oh no, why is there always a bad side to everything?!? 😭😅

@cryofpaine

3 жыл бұрын

@@lizzieforster1122 Yeah, but it's at least an entertaining story. With a great singer. :)

@lizzieforster1122

3 жыл бұрын

@@cryofpaine that is true!

My parents also openly talk about people on the tv they find attractive. I've noticed that my Mom tends to be attracted to guys with boyish charms and features (which is how I'd describe my Dad when he was a young man), and my Dad hilariously only finds women attractive If they look a lot like my Mom lol. As a kid it was weird but it's turned around to be absolutely adorable because I don't think they've even realized this themselves. It's cute to have that little reassurance as their eldest child that they still love each other almost 30 years running not only for who they are but still find each other attractive. 😊

your video came to me on a day I needed it most. I have ADHD and SPD and it causes me to be unpleasant at times. my family and my in-laws are always telling me I'm not great an I'm too messy. or they wont do something for me because I don't deserve it and outwardly I get angry that my absentmindedness is enough of a sin that they hate me or that I don't deserve help from them. but internally I start telling myself those same things so when I do make mistakes I start to feel like the most terrible person on earth like all I did was forget to pack a jersey for my daughter when I went out but I am making myself feel like the most negligent parent and when others echo those thoughts to me it must be true in my head. but you know everyone makes mistakes but its not your whole being you might be 90% a good person but if you hold the 10% of mistakes over your life up its going to seem a lot worse.

I would love to see them watch pride and prejudice and talk about The Elizabeth’s and Mr. Darcy‘s relationship and communication.

@cynthiaislas3519

3 жыл бұрын

Would love this!

@jenniferhiemstra5228

3 жыл бұрын

Oh HECK YES

@PhantomStella

3 жыл бұрын

YES

I live for Alan's little jazz hands at the end it's so adorable 😂

I really hate the "If you trust your partner/have nothing to hide you should be okay with your partner going through your phone" sentiment bc like? I'm not hiding shit if I dont want you going through DMs with my friends, i have people who tell me things they dont want spread around. Private conversations can and should stay private without it being an issue of trust. It irritates the fuck out of me tbh

@randomish4285

3 жыл бұрын

This! So agree with exactly this. I also have super confidential messages with friends in chats and if any of that is seen by my friend’s significant other I’d feel fucking betrayed.

I love that you both mentioned ways that you set boundaries at work and stay in contact with your wife as a way to be in the right headspace. Mark 10:9- "Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate." Your channel is great on so many levels.

"We're a couple of dads?" made me snort 😂

Alan’s “so am I” at 21:24 is like the voice where he’s just found a new best friend😂💚

I love when she says "Imagine not being able to cry" and like that's me, it's actually extremely hard for me to cry, I'm working on it though so I'll eventually be able to cry if i need to and release my emotions for once

My mum taught me not to cry as a kid because it shows weakness, but it was always allowed in our house to cry at movies. So movies were a form of therapy for me. They were a place I was allowed to express emotions.

@SingingSealRiana

Жыл бұрын

I am very repressed with my emotions and it was way worse back then. I have a lot of empathy and tend to regard others emotions as more valid then mine. I rationalise my feelings away, like, people did not mean it that way, I had no reason to be upsad all those things so if I need emotional resolution, I watch a sad movie or read a sad story, I have a collection for that purpose .. Crying is very freeing and working through stuff through fiction is the foundation of my mental healthy

Y’all had good timing to put this up within this hour lol. I just watched the first one and was kinda sad I didn’t think I’d see this one any time soon. :) also I have SO many opinions on this film and the portrayal of Barnum and his wife. His starlet KISSED HIM. He didn’t kiss her, didn’t choose it. It was a calculated move to ruin him after he decided he wanted to go back to his wife because he knows he actually loves her. And his wife accepting that after the initial despair of feeling she’s losing her husband is so sweet. Especially because as the viewer we know he’s not intentionally trying to be unfaithful. He is constantly denying advances but he doesn’t quite realize he’s crossing a line. Sorry this is a tangent I’ve just had a lot of thoughts on this.

@Lunar_DeBrie

3 жыл бұрын

I don't remember the movie very well, but if I remember correctly, he even GAVE her a look that was like, "What the fuck??? Why would you do that???"

@OliverTwistedd

3 жыл бұрын

@@Lunar_DeBrie yeah. He was visually disturbed but the press caught an image of it.

@misspriss2482

3 жыл бұрын

He created that space though. If he had had stronger boundaries and/or didn't become so intimate with her, it would have never happened. You can cheat with someone and never share a touch or kiss with that person. Emotional affairs are affairs too.

The psychologist: 1:30 "Why's that?" Automatic. All good. Professional. Ready.

@ajdamronfamily

3 жыл бұрын

JONATHAN IS A PROFESSIONAL SNACC.

Cinema therapy has been my favourite KZread Channel for months, and it's really awesome to see how much it's been able to grow. I think that you're doing something very unique and important here, that can be deeply meaningful for so many people. I'm really just very happy about the fact that something like this exists.

As a young man, I knew I'd found love when I held her after a month apart and my only possible response was to cry. I've been a softie ever since

Had a great relationship with a guy who worked all the time often internationally but he'd send me a selfie from work every day at lunch or under his desk or something so I knew he was thinking of me and that was great. We didn't work out as a couple but we're still good friends and I think everyone needs more people like that.

One day a coworker of mine said she didn't mind if someone complemented her, on her appearence, at work and I replied fast, that it would make uncomfortable. If someone would give me a complement at work I would want it to be about my work. So I get it Doctor Snack! Love you guys

Crying is the best. For me it's the biggest stress reliever. I really admire that Alan is so open with his crying on the internet, all the power to you man!

Yes Alan they worked on a show or film together I forget. Debbie was a super famous Aussie actor at the time and Hugh was the up and comer. They are so humble in interviews its so refreshing.